Me Hindu Brahmin and he is Muslim

Nupur says: June 19, 2012 at 3:40 pm

plsss stop all this Hindu Muslim f8s… Literally m crying now… I am an officer in a bank and my lover is a manager in another bank. Me Hindu Brahmin and he is Muslim… for past 6 yrs we are in love with each other. Every one in his family knows about us and accept n love me lyk anythng.. We both believe in Sai Baba…

Only thng is that me afraid how to tell to my family… We both have decided that if my parents will not agree then we shall both commit suicide… eithr way we both shall be 2gethr… Love him lyk anythng…May God Help all true lovers and pls for God sake ….both Hindu and muslim have red blood…

Admin says:

Great that the guy’s Muslim family loves you. Now go tell them that you truly believe in what Gandhiji said…”Your religion is like your mother. Just because your mother is less attractive than your friend’s mother you can’t abandon your mother and adopt a new one.” Tell them that you are a Brahmin and will die as a Brahmin, I will never take the Shahadah oath because I am not a lier. Get back to us what you have learned.

Nupur says: June 19, 2012 at 3:45 pm

n for what u suggesting Nikaah n all… both religions are equally imp.. u marry in both style…

Admin says:

MUSLIM READERS, please clarify if this statement is wrong: “For Islamic Nikaah (or wedding), the Hindu intended spouse has to convert to Islam by Shahadah. Islamic wedding is NOT possible without the religious conversion. So, after Shahadah, it will not be a Hindu-Muslim marriage, but only a Muslim-Muslim marriage.”

So Nupur, yes you could have both ceremonies, if you wish.

Nupur says: June 19, 2012 at 4:15 pm

can you tell me the process of court marriage… plzz make it very clear…

Admin says:

Shahadah (conversion) for Nikaah is not a hollow ritual devoid of meaning. It will set a tone of your new life, it will change all (this) to [that]. If you intend to be a true Muslim, then only consider Shahadah/Nikaah. If not, have FIRST a civil wedding (Shamim just did that to marry Rahul). After the civil wedding, you could have any numbers of non-conversion (like Shahadah) religious weddings, if you wish.

If he is a fundamentalist Muslim, he CANNOT be a part of Brahmin wedding where multiple idols are being worshipped. Alternatively, if he is a secular Muslim, he should not insist on Shahadah. So you find out truth and decide what do you want to do.

Readers, probably Nupur’s Muslim lover has not told her about the Shahadah conversion. What would you tell him if he start talking about the conversion now?

Also read: Islamic Women Today, Hindu-Muslim marriages, Hindu girl, Muslim girl, Hindu boy, Muslim boy,

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107 Comments

  • prashant tomer
    November 6, 2015 8:19 am

    Plz help me sir ..

  • July 25, 2015 5:54 am

    I m belong to hindu fmly bt my love belongs to muslim fmly,her name sheeba ,,,,so plz help me ,,,,it is possible?????

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10702

    • akash
      July 25, 2015 2:06 pm

      I myself had same prblm 1 yr ago. Marriage with muslim girl throug family consent is only possible if u convert to islam.i hv converted to islam for me as well aa for her. Next month we are getting married.my suggetion will be you give a go about islam and study it. I was initially reluctant to read abt islam bt at the end it conveinced me and now i m a muslim
      So it may work for u.if it works then it will very easy 4 u to marry her,otherwise very difficult. I tried bt couldn’t marry her as a hindu,,muslim family nvr give their daughter’s hand with a hindu

      • prashant tomer
        November 6, 2015 8:22 am

        Hello akash,,,can u help me ,,plz

    • July 25, 2015 11:29 pm

      Prashant,
      We have deleted your and your girl friend’s last names for your privacy.

      Car you willing to convert to Islam? View https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiWLGEKusIg Let us know what else you would like to know?

      • BABU
        March 26, 2018 4:33 pm

        John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son (JESUS CHRIST), that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
        John 14:6Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me (JESUS CHRIST)

        Revelation Chapter 20
        12 And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God,[c] and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books. 13 The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. 14 Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death.[d] 15 And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire.
        Please believe in Jesus Christ and get your salvation. Jesus loves you.
        May the love of Father God and the grace of Jesus Christ and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you now and until the coming of the Lord Jesus Christ.
        Thank you

  • October 12, 2013 12:39 pm

    To
    Admin
    Now days I have been observing that your system is/was not ready to accept my comments/response easily or smoothly alleging “Duplicate” comments.
    Kindly let me know the reason for the same. Has it been done with an ulterior motive or there is problem in the system itself.

    Md.Ziaul-Haque,Alim & Advocate,12/A, Phul Bagan Rd,Calcutta-700014

    • October 13, 2013 9:19 am

      Admin, there is a mistake of year as per your comment which has been shown as 2014 instead of 2013.

      • October 13, 2013 12:27 pm

        it is by purpose to let all new readers be aware. We are still working to fix issue and it may take time. Thanks for understanding.

  • October 2, 2013 11:07 pm

    Islam is only for sex maniac Criminals, Lunatic Idiots, Barbaric Scandal Mongers, Terrorists like Muhammad……Now, Muslim ask me the reason , Why? Last year, When I left ISLAM, I personally emailed Muslim’s Idiot Scholar so called ZAKIR NAYEK in BANGLADESH to debate with me, But he never replied after reading this ,”Why ISLAM is a Fake , Terror maniac religion “…….Here is Proof……

    Is Islam a religion of peace? Many of its advocates say that it is. Let’s see what the Qur’an actually says.

    1.The Qur’an tells muslims to kill and go to war to fight for Islam: Quran, chapters (Surahs) 9:5; 2:191; 2:193; 3:118; 4:75,76; 5:33, 8:12; 8:65; 9:73,123; 33:60-62.

    2.Fight for Allah: “And kill them wherever you find them, and drive them out from whence they drove you out, and persecution is severer than slaughter, and do not fight with them at the Sacred Mosque until they fight with you in it, but if they do fight you, then slay them; such is the recompense of the unbelievers, (Quran 2:191).

    3.Muslims are to battle for Allah: “Those who believe do battle for the cause of Allah; and those who disbelieve do battle for the cause of idols. So fight the minions of the devil. Lo! the devil’s strategy is ever weak,” (Quran 4:76).

    4.Kill those against Islam: “The only reward of those who make war upon Allah and His messenger and strive after corruption in the land will be that they will be killed or crucified, or have their hands and feet on alternate sides cut off, or will be expelled out of the land. Such will be their degradation in the world, and in the Hereafter,” (Quran 5:33).

    5.Beheading: “When thy Lord inspired the angels, (saying): I am with you. So make those who believe stand firm. I will throw fear into the hearts of those who disbelieve. Then smite the necks and smite of them each finger. 13That is because they opposed Allah and His messenger. Whoso opposeth Allah and His messenger, (for him) lo! Allah is severe in punishment,” (Quran 8:12).

    6.Allah urges war: “O Prophet! urge the believers to war; if there are twenty patient ones of you they shall overcome two hundred, and if there are a hundred of you they shall overcome a thousand of those who disbelieve, because they are a people who do not understand,” (Quran 8:65).

    7.Slay non-muslims: “Then, when the sacred months have passed, slay the idolaters wherever ye find them, and take them (captive), and besiege them, and prepare for them each ambush. But if they repent and establish worship and pay the poor-due, then leave their way free. Lo! Allah is Forgiving, Merciful,” (Quran 9:5).

    8.Allah urges war: “O Prophet! strive hard against the unbelievers and the hypocrites and be unyielding to them; and their abode is hell, and evil is the destination,” (Quran 9:73).

    9.Allah urges war: “O you who believe! fight those of the unbelievers who are near to you and let them find in you hardness; and know that Allah is with those who guard (against evil),” (Quran 9:123).

    10.Allah urges killing: “…the hypocrites and those in whose hearts is a disease and the agitators in the city do not desist… 61Cursed: wherever they are found they shall be seized and murdered, a (horrible) murdering. 62(Such has been) the course of Allah with respect to those who have gone before; and you shall not find any change in the course of Allah, (Quran 33:60-62).

    11.Beheading: “Now when ye meet in battle those who disbelieve, then it is smiting of the necks until, when ye have routed them, then making fast of bonds; and afterward either grace or ransom till the war lay down its burdens…” (Quran 47:4).

    12.Allah loves those who fight for him: “Truly Allah loves those who fight in His Cause in battle array, as if they were a solid cemented structure,”

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=6868

    • October 6, 2013 1:07 pm

      I don`t know whether this man (i hate to take his and fail to understand as to why he has given his new name.Perhaps it is Swine) was given birth by Muslim parents but I am confidant that he a is Satan of the century. Being one and only person in the World who is a qualified Alim i.e Moulvi(Passed the Alim Examination conducted by Madrasa Educational Board,Govt of West Bengal,India) with degrees Science and Law I challenge this hogget to have a debate with me at any place of his choice about Islam,Prophet Muhammed(S.W.A) and the religion he has converted into with help of devil or devils.However I am sure, he will not respond to my challenge as he is not an ex-Muslim but a born idol worshipper.
      Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Advocate, 12/A, Phul Bagan Rd,Calcutta-700014

      Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=6868

      • Ex-Muslim ABDULLAH MAHMUD
        October 28, 2013 10:07 am

        @Idiot MD. ZIA UL HAQUE: Idiot, I accept your challenge. I thought, You are intellectual.But no.You are same Lunatic, sex maniac, Drug peddler, satanic, Pedophile, Like your Puppet Called MUHAM–MAD……Ok, Let’s start debate…….You have enough guts, then reply……Do not give Lunatic, MADRA–SSHA Chap Comment………

        WHY I CALL ISLAM AND MOHAM-MAD DIRECT FROM SATAN/EVIL/IBLISH/DEVIL?

        Friends I can show you thousands of proof from Koran and Bukhari that Islam is fake…a false Satanic religion and and so Moham-mad. But instead of going all these long process lets see this two verse from Bukhari and one from the Bible.

        Bukhari Volume 8, Book 73, Number 224:Narrated Abu Huraira:

        Allah’s Apostle said, “The most awful name in Allah’s sight on the Day of Resurrection, will be (that of) a man calling himself Malik Al-Amlak (the King of kings).” (Bukhari.Vol.8/Book.73/No.224).Lets see what the Holy Bible says about this Kings of kings!?

        Volume 8, Book 73, Number 225: Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, “The most awful (meanest) name in Allah’s sight.” Sufyan said more than once, “The most awful (meanest) name in Allah’s sight is (that of) a man calling himself King of kings.” Sufyan said, “Somebody else (i.e. other than Abu Az-Zinad, a sub-narrator) says: What is meant by ‘The King of kings’ is ‘Shahan Shah.

        Koran.3;54 tells us,“Allah is the greatest of all deceivers”.

        Here is a big catch where the Satan made a bulnder mistake! One of the names (In Islam “Allah” got 99 names) of the God of Islam ’Allah’ is the King of kings. In Arabic ‘AL-MALEK.’

        The book of Revelation says on chapter 17 verse 14, “They (non-believers of Lord Jesus Christ) will make war against the Lamb but the Lamb will overcome them because He is Lord of lords and King of kings and with Him will be His called, chosen and faithful followers.”

        Revelation.20;10 cleared to us, “And the devil who deceived them, was thrown into the lake of burning sulphur(hell)”.

        So its clear and no argument at all that Islam is Satanism according to the Bukhari and the Holy Bible. Muslims, no time for thinking….Take your decision right now and be FREE from the bondage of Satan law (Shariah law). Don’t ask your Imam. He won’t let you free just for his business and his business is your pocket the money you have for him to support his criminal followers those who even are making your life hell.

    • Ehtesham Deshmukh
      August 31, 2014 10:50 am

      Friemd Pls study authentic Kuran and not as propogated byRSS.Your ‘Ex’ speaks everything of your unstable and unprudent mind.

      • khan
        September 17, 2014 9:49 pm

        DESHMUKH- with undoubted hindu ancestry, the new converts become more belligerent than the Saudi tribes. Your original religion, Mr. Deshmukh, is extremely vast- take some time to read and ponder, then you’ll understand how extremely broad-minded a religion should be.

  • Ex-Muslim ABDULLAH MAHMUD
    October 2, 2013 10:54 pm

    Muslim believe that Allah is the creator and maker what their terrorist Moham-mad taught them! If Moham-mad was correct (he was not) then Allah is also non-believers maker and creator. If Moham-mad was correct then why did Allah needs Moham-mad’s Satanic help to slay all non-believers wherever ye catch them? (Koran.2;191/8;65/9;123/9;5 etc.). Is Allah unable to punish non-believers? If so then where is Allah’s love gone for his creation?
    Any answer from so-called Muslim?
    I know they don’t have because all of them are spiritually blind.
    Muslims, listen if you want to know the True God then must read the Gospel.
    By following Moham-mad means you are all digging your own grave and will have eternal rest in to the hell just like your Satanic prophet Moham-mad.

    • October 6, 2013 1:30 pm

      I think this person, who claims to be an ex-Muslim,is cent percent illiterate and has not even seen the gate of any school, what to talk about college. I once again challenge this mischievous person to enter into a debate or have an interaction with me on Allah,Hazrat Muhammed(S.W.A)Quran Sharif and the religion he has been “converted” with help of satan.

      Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Advocate,12/a,Phul Bagan Rd,Calcutta-700014

  • kallyan
    September 3, 2013 4:03 am

    dear deepa and nupur,
    don’t marry muslim.they all r planning to convert u to islam, a religion of terror.otherwise convert them to hinduism before marriage. dont do any mistake my sisters

    • October 6, 2013 1:46 pm

      Kalyan is not a fool but an idiot. Islam means peace.He should read the history and then only he will be surprised to find what amount and degree of torture was made on Prophet of Islam by the idol worshippers and other infidels but still He kept mum. In true sense, no Muslim is a terrorist but when they oppose oppression they are called terrorist.This fellow Kalyan must know that Indian Freedom Fighters were called terrorists by the British.
      Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Advocate,12/A, Phul Bagan Rd,Calcutta-700014

    • October 6, 2013 1:50 pm

      Kalyan is not a fool but an idiot. Islam means peace.He should read the history and then only he will be surprised to find what amount and degree of torture was made on Prophet of Islam by the idol worshippers and other infidels but still He kept mum. In true sense, no Muslim is a terrorist but when they oppose oppression they are called terrorist.This fellow Kalyan must know that Indian Freedom Fighters were called terrorists by the British.
      Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Advocate,12/A, Phul Bagan Rd,Calcutta-700014
      This is not duplicate

  • rashid hasan
    August 4, 2013 10:01 pm

    Naraya takbir
    Allahu akbar

  • August 4, 2013 9:56 pm

    Why my muslim btother srgue with these sick people????
    Around us each and everywhere non muslim become muslim. This is true and it will br keep going. India will be islamic country very soon. Inshallah…
    Sister you need convert to islam first anf get merry our brother. Its like a simple. So many my hindu and christian sister convert to islam snd get mertied. Islam only solution. Take shahadah and happy. Hindu buddist all are rubbishhhh.
    Islam only way for life.

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=6197

  • July 25, 2013 7:45 am

    Hello,
    Need a suggestion, im a hindu brahmin girl planning to marry a Muslim Guy.I read as without converting we can register as per special marriage act. But is it practical in day to day life.I respect all religion and believe in god, only the way of worship is different. But still I have fear in converting as i feel it is a big sin.If at all i convert i can not stop praying hindu god as its inborn in me. And im aware if i keep idles and pray im not considered as a muslim so there is no point in converting but..his parents are ready to accept me only if i convert. Iam ready to learn islamic culture and follow but i can not give up my religion nor i can not leave him.

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=6125

    • md ali
      August 15, 2013 3:59 am

      hi deepa!
      this is mohammed ali,
      I deeply realize u problem,
      i want ask u a question, ex: if u came know something u have done it wrong in u r past, so do u accept that u have done it wrong or will u
      don’t accept either someone is saying u.

      if u really want to see right faith please read quran and hadith of propet mohammed s.w.s. you will come to know each and everything about islam.

      For u question
      1.muslims men or women cant marry o non-muslims or non-believers.
      2.if u become muslim because only u want to get him marry, u r not going to rewarded any in islam and u r no more calling as a muslim.
      3.i am surely 100% believe that if u read quran and hadith, and u get converted islam u wont wont prayer to idols’ because u came know the truth of life.
      3.allah please give hidath, and allah give hidath to those people who thing what is right and wrong, and how accept the right path without answering to any one.
      4.There are billions people on earth not every one get the hidath, there some precocious people who allah give hidath & u might be one among then form the source of u love i thing.

      thanking u take care bye

  • Zubair
    July 12, 2013 1:26 pm

    hindu girls must not marry muslim guys as muslim guys are all evil.I am saying this truth as the sole intention of muslims is to convert all hindu girls into islam and make india a muslim country.This is all part of love jihad and there is no real love there.Its all a farce.Later all these hindu girls will realise that what they have done is wrong.There is not a single muslim here who is telling the truth so I have decided that I will speak the truth.

  • shubha
    May 29, 2013 8:31 am

    Nupur, take the classical example of Sharmila Tagore,she became Ayesha. She said, if you are living with a Muslim, why remain separately being Hindu. Saif’s wife Kareena did not convert to Islam and Sharmila’s daughter is having relationship with Hindu boy. I think she should convert and come 2 steps forward and see the difference. Shubha

  • January 21, 2013 10:29 pm

    I think you should go and marry him. It will be good otherwise you will become a life long supporter of Islam and Indian secularism with out realizing evil of Islam.

    But if you marry him, you will very soon realize how evil Islam is.

    And, probably, you will be spoiling the life another Hindu boy which is unwarranted.

    • irshad
      April 19, 2013 1:01 pm

      hi, nupur before marriage a muslim guy you should have to know about his religion completely, so you have to watch peace TV., or else watch the vedios of DR Zakir Naik on you tube for better knowing

      • truth
        May 29, 2013 6:07 pm

        Or ask the Muslim guy to learn about Hinduism /buddha, ask him to convert to Hinduism and marry you with true heart

        • October 3, 2013 8:27 am

          My dear Truth, there is a striking difference between supremacist religions and Hinduism that while adherence of the former faiths, you remain Christian, Jew and Muslim throughout your life till death but when you are in the embrace of Hinduism, you worship idols, perform various rituals, read a vast set of sacred books, meditate, contemplate and extract real essence of all these and evolve without any hindrance, compulsion, fear, temptation. You roam in your spirit as free as a bird sans all kinds of shackles and proceed toward perfection. It is a kind of journey, the journey of your soul. And wonder what happens when you reach the climax or get perfection, you realize your soul which was hidden in a very mysterious veil ( Maya or Illusion) and this veil was really behind all differences and conditionings of mind, differences such as man or woman, differences such as Muslim or Hindu, differences such as bad or good, differences such as fair or dark, differences such as Indian or American, even differences such as alive or dead, differences such as liberated or free etc. etc. etc………..My friend all kind of differences get dissolved and even concept of existence or non-existence, God or No God and so on remain their relevance. This is a miracle of this great religion that once you dive into the deep waters of this eternal ocean, you even lose your identity as Hindu and you remain as you are ! You become as you are ! You don’t remain ignorant any more and YOU KNOW YOUR SELF! This is the teaching of Hinduism and this is the Prasad ( fruit ) of all worship. The world is perplexed over Idol Worship but my friend, Hinduism is far beyond that amd the real adherent knows it’s real beauty.

        • October 3, 2013 8:28 am

          My dear Truth, there is a striking difference between supremacist religions and Hinduism that while adherence of the former faiths, you remain Christian, Jew and Muslim throughout your life till death but when you are in the embrace of Hinduism, you worship idols, perform various rituals, read a vast set of sacred books, meditate, contemplate and extract real essence of all these and evolve without any hindrance, compulsion, fear, temptation. You roam in your spirit as free as a bird sans all kinds of shackles and proceed toward perfection. It is a kind of journey, the journey of your soul. And wonder what happens when you reach the climax or get perfection, you realize your soul which was hidden in a very mysterious veil ( Maya or Illusion) and this veil was really behind all differences and conditionings of mind, differences such as man or woman, differences such as Muslim or Hindu, differences such as bad or good, differences such as fair or dark, differences such as Indian or American, even differences such as alive or dead, differences such as liberated or free etc. etc. etc………..My friend all kind of differences get dissolved and even concept of existence or non-existence, God or No God and so on remain their relevance. This is a miracle of this great religion that once you dive into the deep waters of this eternal ocean, you even lose your identity as Hindu and you remain as you are ! You become as you are ! You don’t remain ignorant any more and YOU KNOW YOUR SELF! This is the teaching of Hinduism and this is the Prasad ( fruit ) of all worship. The world is perplexed over Idol Worship but my friend, Hinduism is far beyond that and the true adherent knows it’s real beauty.

  • hindu
    January 21, 2013 2:10 pm

    Plz don’t convert to islam.Its your identy.your faith just like your mother.how is it possible to forget her???

    • irshad
      April 19, 2013 1:07 pm

      hindu brother i think you dont know about islam, you should have to know about islam first and then you talk about islam., alright? do you know who written the holy quran ” NO BODY HAVE WRITTEN THE HOLY QURAN” it is directly came from from ALLAH on prophet MOHAMMED (S.A.W) (PEACE BE UPON HIM) BROTHER PLSEAE READ THE HOLY QURAN IT IS AVAILABLE IN YOUR OWN LANGUAGE AND PLEASWE DONT BLAME ISLAM,

  • hindu
    January 21, 2013 2:06 pm

    Plz
    don’t convert to islam.your faith is like your mother.

    • irshad
      April 19, 2013 1:08 pm

      BROTHER DO YOU WANT TO STOP IF SOME BODY IS COMMING ON THE RIGHT PATH? IF HER/HIS MOTHER IS ON THE WRONG WAY?

      • irshad
        April 19, 2013 1:09 pm

        watch peace TV., or else watch the vedios of DR Zakir Naik on you tube for better knowing

  • suhail
    January 12, 2013 12:20 am

    All stories fake under muslim names and Those who marry non muslims did not remain muslims and will go to hell forever life after death tell them you are not muslims. To learn about islam vist http://www.usislam.org for more ioformation about islam.do not belive these posts as they lie about islam.learn truth about islam from website.

  • mohan.
    November 29, 2012 11:27 am

    iam a muslim.my girlfriend is hindu.her family want that our marriage occurs by hindu ritual.i m okay with that.but,do i need to convert to hinduism for that?

    Reply to him at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3517

  • Vikas
    November 27, 2012 6:03 pm

    If u ppl love each other then religion should not matter. There has been enough of hindu girls marrying muslims guys. The opposite does not happen because they keep their girls in burqa and they are not allowed to take their own decisions ? You want to support that culture by converting ? Dont be a hindu but dont be a muslim either. Both become budhists becuase really religion is not the real issue. If u cant agree on this , it means just another case of a love jihad ? You all the victims of love jihad did not think they were in love before marriage ?

  • kamaljit
    November 23, 2012 12:40 am

    hello all dear friends

    I have read all yours quotos, not finally bse its is a endless topic to discuss…but i would like to share a exp. wd all of u ….

    i love a girl lives in canada orignally from India hindu family… she married to a sikh family, but unfortunately her husband died when they both were in india… she went back to Canada and started her life working der in a food company… unfortunately she met a Muslim guy on net from pak….they started love each oder…finally my friend visited his country meet him and spent some days wd each oder but no sex relation… when i asked from her she replied that ramzan were going on dats why he could not tried to have sex and me too not given permission,,, but dey both kissed she admits…one thing i wouold like to ask my muslim frnds …is kiss is allowed in ramzan months? if no den the muslim guy was fraud bse he kissed a girl… no question of permission of kiss in ramzan i know well……

    …continued he asked a financial help from the girl… which she fulfilled it by giving hard earned money near abt 10000 dollar, which he never given back, after 2.5 yrs of der relation he asked her to marry and wants to convert her to muslimunfortunately she finally converted…..finally after some time he asked her to join him in pakistan and encourage her to sell all her property from India.. also he don’t want to accept her children as well… my frnds finally got a hit and setback dat he was using her not loving her…..it was a greed in his heart not love for her…. finally she got breakup wd him and meets me …

    i m a sikh guy married but separated, we both love each oder by god grace…..one thing i realize dat my frnd stand for that muslim bastard always but he never stand for her any time…he always used her so many times,,, if he really loved her he should accepted her children as well…shows all how narrow minded he was like all muslim guys……finally we decided to marry each oder .. i respect her more den i love her… i too respect her past and stands wd her all ways….i accepts her children like my son and daughter…. finally i want to say never trust on muslim guys ,, they are fraud , narrow minded and heartless …….

    thanx to listen me

    kail bakshi

    Reply to Kail at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3466

    • irshad
      April 19, 2013 1:16 pm

      KAMAJIT PAAJI RAMZAN ME TO KYA KISI BE MAHINE ME BEFORE MARRIAGE KISS AND SEX IS PROHIBITED IN ISLAM ECEPT OUR OWN WIFE OR HUSBAND., AND BY THE WAY ALL THE MUSLIMS ARE NOT LIKE THE SAME. I THINK U DONT KNOW ABOUT ISLAM AND MUSLIMS PLEASE watch peace TV., or else watch the vedios of DR Zakir Naik on you tube for better knowing

    • October 13, 2013 8:52 am

      You bastard Kamaljit, you have no business to call a Muslim as bastard. Bloody fool why have you separated from your wife? you are a debauch,not looking after your own wife and children but showing sympathy for others. You are wicked to the backbone.
      Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Alim & Advocate,12/A,Phul Bagan Rd,Calcutta-14

    • October 13, 2013 8:55 am

      You bastard Kamaljit, you have no business to call a Muslim as bastard. Bloody fool why have you separated from your wife? you are a debauch,not looking after your own wife and children but showing sympathy for others. You are wicked to the backbone.
      Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Alim & Advocate,12/A,Phul Bagan Rd,Calcutta-14

      Admin,why don`t you accept comment

      • Ex-Muslim ABDULLAH MAHMUD
        November 16, 2013 9:21 am

        Mr, Idiot, Now, I will see, How much literate are you? Now, Answer my questions:
        One VERY simple question really needs an answer…because I am personally sick of it! Every time Muslim takes Mohammad’s name each time they say peace be upon him (pbuh).
        My point why peace be upon Mohammad?
        Was he evil? Was he Satan? Was he sinner?
        If not then why peace be upon him? Not a single Prophet from the Old Testament nor the Apostle from the New Testament needs our prayers.
        So why Mohammad needs peace?
        I am looking forward the ANSWER from Muslim.

        • November 16, 2013 6:33 pm

          …may be because he needs peace?
          Interesting question. Why people don’t say peace be on Gandhi or on Mother Teresa??

  • Hamid
    November 21, 2012 3:57 am

    Hindu girls are for muslim men to enjoy and fuk. Good to see hindu girls die for big muslim studs
    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=108663905965196&set=a.101107113387542.2704.100004647602448&type=1&theater

    • kamaljit
      November 23, 2012 12:46 am

      hi Hamid

      just think when somebody f… ur sister and enjoy a lot…
      stupid all girls are our sis …
      really surprised at ur ignorance hamid…shit on u

    • Hamid- Rand ka beta
      November 23, 2012 2:19 am

      Did you mean you half cut dirtier than pig studs, who brush and bathe once a month 🙂 yes sure most of dirty people love other dirty and filthy people. This also reminds me that Hindus have f….. your mom more than you can imagine, just ask your mom and sister, ask you wife too..the son you have is actually a Hinds child, kill him before he kills you 🙂 piss upon you as usual !

    • irshad
      April 19, 2013 1:18 pm

      HAMID ITS WRONG, I THINK U ARE NOT A MUSLIM, IF U A MUSLIM THEN HAVE U FOGOT ITS A VERY BIG SIN TELL LIKE THAT IS ALSO A SIN, I THINK U DONT HAVE ANY \SISTER AND watch peace TV., or else watch the vedios of DR Zakir Naik on you tube for better knowing

      Respond

  • Satyen
    October 31, 2012 7:19 pm

    Nupur,

    Following is the suggestion given by a Brahmin Girl to another Brahmin girl on this site. I have copy pasted here for you.

    agnotist says:

    Priya,

    I am a brahmin girl too. I live in US, and was in Canada for a lot of my life. I did like a pakistani guy for a bit. He was broad minded, undergrad in Computer Science, and having a good job.

    When the topic of marriage came up, it was very tempting. His family lives abroad too, and hence are a lot more tolerant I would assume than muslim families living in a traditional environment. There were a lot of things though which were uncomfortable though:

    1. I am a strict vegetarian. In fact after coming to America, Ive adopted veganism. They can’t not eat meat on any given day. It was really hard for me to even see them cutting goat on eid, etc. I was afraid that in the future, I would have to touch meat and cut it, etc.

    2. In the later stage of our relationship, he disclosed that his kids would have to be muslim. But I could be what I want.
    This was not reasonable to me. I think if your having an inter religious marriage you should be tolerant to your partners beliefs. I wanted my kids to be aware of both hindu and muslim traditions, grow up broad minded, and he as much hindu with my family as they are muslim with his. He couldn’t understand the concept of pluralism.

    3. I didn’t think he would be ok with me having a pooja room in my home. For me, it’s important. I’m fine with visiting a mosque, but I also want to visit a temple.

    Anyway, my bf was very honest. He didn’t try to manipulate me. He told me the truth in b;ack and white, and asked me to make a decision knowing all the facts. After thinking through it, we decided to split up.

    Yes, the 1st few months were horrible. But I feel happy that we split. For the prolonged happiness of 2 people its very imp to retain your individuality and personality. You should not be ever stripped of your identity.

    I am as opposed to muslims converting to hinduism for marriage as I am hindus converting to Islam. I think Conversion is a social evil.

    Regarding your story:
    1. If he is from a conservative family, leave him now. No matter how much he loves you, he always loves his family more. All of us love our family more. And this will influence him when he has to eventually choose your religion and culture over blocking you from following them.
    If he is from a broad minded, non religious family, then maybe its fine. But these dont exist unless he’s got a link to bollywood or something
    2. As a brahmin (are you tambrahm?), you probably are pure vegetarian. And even if not religious, want to go to the temple on your b’day, diwali, pongal , etc. This is the way we bond too. He might not support you in any of this. It’s not his fault but the difference in culture. Your kids will hardly spend time with your parents, and eventually you will not either.
    3. If you still want to be with this guy, do the following.
    a) wait till your professionally and financially stable. If things go wrong you will need a safety net. This way you will be a bit older and more mature.
    b) Don’t do it till your late 20s. I dont think people are sufficiently un biased and mature at 23. How old are you?
    c) I know i shouldnt say this, but I will. PLEASE don’t get tempted or encourage any physical relationship. In plain words, no sexual relationship. Once this happens, all of a sudden the power and dominance is with the guy and not with the girl. This will emotionally and mentally condition you, and will make you want to be with him no matter what, without thinking of the repurcussions.
    Always better to be calm, and not too attached before making a decision.

    Further info about myself:
    I’m 28, currently in a PhD program in US, and have been living in America since 17. Did my schooling in Mumbai and Mysore.
    So I am a little mature (so I think ) and I REALLY don’t believe that love is enough to sustain a marriage. Once frustration crops in, love will go outside of the window.

    This said, I am NOT averse to muslims. Lot of my close circle of friends comprise of them. I just believe in accurately clarifying expectations before you decide to marry. And, being firm in your principles, and maintaining your self respect.
    Also, this bs that once you fall in love, everything else does not matter is false. You’ll be surprised at how fast feelings change with time.
    Also, you’ll be surprised at how many times you’ll appreciate someone and fall in love all your life. The nature of love changes, but it doesn’t go away. Just because I broke up when I was 24, doesn’t mean I’ll be single forever.

    • irshad
      April 19, 2013 1:20 pm

      HI, PRIYA BEFORE MARRIAGE ANY RELIGION PERSON YOU SHOULD HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT THEIR RELIGION COMPLETLY SO watch peace TV., or else watch the vedios of DR Zakir Naik on you tube for better knowing

      Respond

    • shrikant herwathe
      May 21, 2013 9:30 am

      dear satyen iam bramhin guy from India educated and matured and Iam secular to the core. I support inter- religios marriages as they would eventually pave the way towards bringing us together, hence iam glad when i see so many mixed couples especially hindu and muslim . However what is disturbing is that almost all of these couples comprise of hindu girls and muslim boys. I have yet to come across a couple wherein the boy is a hindu and girl is a muslim. when I checked out with a few of my friend which included ladies, i was given following replies:-
      1. Muslim boys are better looking.
      2. Hindu guys are ugly’
      3. Muslim guys have “Tehjeeb” which the hindu guys donot have
      4. Hindus want to prove that they are mor progressive hence they donot stop their girls from marrying Muslims whereas the Muslims are not so porgressive and they go out of their way to stop their girs from marrying hindus

      Iam not completely satisfied by any of the aforesauid replies hence i would like to know first hand from somebody like you, Priya , Nupur or any other hindu girl who is in relationship with a muslim whether there is something wrong with Hindu guys that so many hindu girls prefer Muslim Boys

  • believer in God
    September 28, 2012 2:28 am

    dont convert.dats d best option for you.love is not blind.do court marriage.

    • girish
      October 23, 2012 12:15 pm

      pls convert him…

  • saifi
    September 10, 2012 12:16 am

    hey nupur if you really love him then both of you should check the faith on logics without any presumptions hope fully ISLAM & qur’an will solve your all confusion….

    i hv my friend married to a non muslim lady working in aviation company she is more pious than muslim girls……
    both r living happily…
    and just ignore anti muslim posts of islamophobic people bcz islam elevates womens.

    our prophet (pbuh)said
    ” treat yor wife like a princess it wl ba proof tht you are begotten by a queen”

    • Rajiv
      September 11, 2012 9:25 pm

      Saifi,
      you are ignorant, you wouldn’t have told the same if she was your sister.

      So why this hypocrisy ?

    • afd
      October 8, 2012 3:06 am

      rofl … pathetic thinking and pathetic spelling…dude it is not womens its…. women…. u think people care abt what ur low iq …. people laugh at ur stupid thought.. if u think ur religion is better .. we think ours is 10000000000000 times better than urs …. now stfu

    • Yogi
      October 18, 2012 6:24 pm

      Saifi , ISLAM has a book of DO’s and DOnt’s BABY .. READ TOPIC from QURAN .. but I WUD SUGGEST READ EXPLANATIONS IN OUR BOOK ELSE U LL B LEFT WITH JUST ONE THING LITTLE KNOWLEDGE .. AND JUST ANSWER ME 1 QUESTIOn

      ” IS UR ALLAH HAS ENOUGH POWER TO BE IN STONE ??” .. IF U SAY NO , then our BHAgwaan is more powerful and u pray a fake identity and if “YES” Then v r right by praying images because that also has god, which is our belief …. ” COME OUT OF VIRUS OF ISLAM ” …. DONOT DIE INFECTED .. U NEED NOT DIE TO BE HAPPY IN HEAVEN .. U CAN EXPERIENCE HEAVEN BY LEAVING ISLAM >> BELIEVE ME WORLD ..

  • Ganesh
    August 22, 2012 12:47 am

    Believe me!!!!!!!!! i have 1000 Muslim friends whom i consider as golden chariots but at the end i find all of them are cruel insanes………….. never believe a Muslim neither ever trust a muslim…………….forget abt falling in love with them………….better if u keep at a distance any marriage proposal…………. Hope all the Hindu boys and girls uphold their pride as Hindus and Save themselves………May God Bless U All…….

    • August 24, 2012 4:12 pm

      Wow, who rubbed you the wrong way? Never trust a muslim?

    • mazid
      August 24, 2012 4:20 pm

      well said , lets’s listen our hindu bhais say

      • mazid
        August 24, 2012 4:24 pm

        well these so called muslims of ind, pak, bangla people must learn abt islam, which is shatterbag than nothing praise the iperial family martyrdom called

    • pras
      September 11, 2012 7:22 pm

      with these comments, you are proving yourself as an idiot.Why are you still alive ganesh.You are a useless person

  • jaan
    August 8, 2012 12:54 pm

    For you Nupur and if i would suggest you to visit http://www.faithfreedom.org before taking any decision.

    Here something for you

    Dear Ali Sina,

    I would like to share my experience with you and other women in my situation.

    OK, so where should I begin. I am an educated woman from Norway who went to Oxford to study when I was 20 years old. When I was 24, I fell in love with a man that treated me very good (well, at least in the beginning..). He was born and raised in London, but he was still very true to his religion, which was (unfortunately) Islam.

    I was actually very disappointed when he told me that he was Muslim, cause I had seen good friends around me being treated very bad by Muslim men, but because he seemed like such a warm person, I didn`t want to dump him just like that -I wanted to get to know him better. Things evolved and we quickly became inseparable, but then reality started to kick in.

    He lived with his controlling Muslim family and they didn`t approve that he had a non-Muslim girlfriend, so in the beginning he had to “sneak around” with me like I was a little secret. That upset me a lot and made me not trusting in him, but he explained that his family would disown him if he had a girlfriend, especially a non-Muslim girlfriend. He said he didn’t want to lose his family until he was 100% sure that I would become his wife.

    Eventually as we fell deeper in love he told me that he was willing to go against his family for me, and what a big step that was. I didn`t understand any of that backwards mentality, but I tried to be patient. He said to me repeatedly: “If you converted to Islam today, I would marry you tomorrow”, but I have too much self-respect to change my identity for anyone, no matter how much I may love a person. A person should love me for who I am in the first place, but I forgave him for his ignorance. Eventually I met his family, who came across as quite fake to me, like they were trying too hard to be kind. They were nice to me, but they still nagged me about converting every time I saw them, which I thought was very inappropriate.

    I am a spiritual person and I tried to make him realise that he shouldn`t live his life like that, but he had such a tunnel vision and appeared so ignorant at times. And he never read the Qur´an and done proper research of the life of Mohammad -but still he desperately clung to his beliefs! I used to call him brainwashed and we would get into huge arguments when we discussed the bigger questions in life. He wouldn`t listen to any of my beliefs, and I have read a lot of spiritual, scientific and philosophical books through the years. I just couldn`t reach through to him because he would make things up and start talking about other topics once I had proven a valuable point. And he would always say “I won this discussion” when he didn`t have any facts to back up anything. It was ridiculous and drove me crazy!

    Sometimes I thought that I should just let it go and respect that he has a different view on life than me, but I was naive because I realised that Islam made him into a bad person. Everything that Islam is; Manipulative, deceiving, controlling, possessive, hypocritical, etc., was also manifesting in his behaviour! I never caught him cheating and he was never violent towards me, but he was possessive and would send “spies” after me whenever I went to a nightclub to hang out with my friends. He would also go into my email and mobile to read messages, when he had absolutely no reason to suspect that I was cheating on him. He lied a lot too, about the smallest things, and I just couldn`t understand why he couldn`t just be an honest person. That would`ve made his life -and my life, so much easier! I also found him very manipulative, always encouraging me to wear ugly, unattractive clothes (so that men wouldn`t look at me).

    He lived a double life because of Islam, and he was trapped in a web of lies and deception that made himself (and me!), miserable. Islam also made him a spineless and weak man that was too afraid to stand up for what he believed in. And he was afraid to be an individual.

    He was probably in love with me, but still he wouldn`t stand up for our relationship at times when his friends and family were saying something negative about me. His family did not respect me because we weren`t married and I wasn`t Muslim, and sometimes they were really mean. His sister and his brother would send me vicious text messages saying “This is only temporary. He needs to marry a Muslim woman”, etc. My boyfriend would sometimes stand up for me, but other times he would avoid confrontations which made me angry, because I felt like he should`ve defended me every single time!

    So there we were, years passed on and we were still not able to progress. He wanted to marry me and he even told his whole family that he would marry me, but I just couldn`t take that risk because of numerous reasons. One of them was that I didn’t want my kids to be Muslim. Another reason is that his whole family tried to control me, pressuring me into converting, and I really dislike it when people try to control me.

    But what kept me/us holding on for so long was because of the connection we had, how we laughed and played and how we forgot all our problems when we spent time together. We could just be ourselves around each other. He always played a role when he spoke to his family and friends, but he was able to relax when he spent time with me. He used to tell me that he felt so peaceful when we spent time together. I think that he was able to be his true self around me and I made him happy. He slept with his arms around me every night and he would kiss me at least 100 times every day. I felt loved most of the time, but when we had to face his friends and family, he would change.

    That culture/religion caused us so many arguments and it made me feel like my opinions and needs didn`t mean anything, so after 6 years with ongoing problems, I finally left him cause I couldn`t take anymore. I want to start a happy life with a man I can have kids with. I still love him, but I love myself more and I just want to be happy. He still wants to be with me and marry me, but I don`t trust him because he is always so contradictive, he doesn`t stand up for me all the time when his family is treating me bad. He would have to leave his family, Muslim friends and Islam for it to work with me and I highly doubt that he will do that. He loves his family. That`s the complexity of the problem; he feels like I`m demanding too much from him and I`m the “bad guy” for wanting to change him, but I`m only trying to “rescue” him from the dark and oppressive influences cause I`ve seen the good in him. And even if a miracle happened and he left Islam, would he really change his ways and start thinking differently? He is 30 now and it will probably take years for him to let go of all the illusions?

    I tried for 5 years to make him change his views and expand his tunnelvision, but it seems utterly impossible! Maybe I`ll give him your book as one last option, do you think that can help him change his views?

    Thanks for listening. I love the way you are able to observe and articulate everything that`s wrong with Islam and Muslims.

    ……………………………………………….

    Dear Maeva,

    All people are essentially the same, but Muslims are diseased. The fact that this man lies all the time and the fact that he is jealous and controlling and spies over you reveal a very insecure personality.

    A lot of that insecurity is due to Islamic indoctrination, but some of it is because of his Islamic upbringing. If he agrees to read my book he will leave Islam. Not a single person who read my book wrote back to challenge me. I know it works. However, that may be half of the problem. The other half is caused by his bad upbringing, which requires conscious work on his part to overcome. After reading my book and admitting that Muhammad was an impostor, he has to also acknowledge how his religion has screwed his thinking and work to undo 30 years of damage. This is easier said than done. But I don’t want to cut the hopes of the apostates. Nothing is impossible when there is awareness and will power. Muslims are damaged goods. When we leave Islam the damage will not be undone. But if we are aware of it and work to eliminate it, there is a hope for recovery.

    This man’s family is a negative influence on him. In the west people see themselves as individuals. The boundaries between them are well defined. Not even parents sneak into the belongings of their children (which I think they should, but I don’t want to digress). Not so in Muslim societies. There is no boundary between a person and his family. When I was a child in Iran we had a neighbor who used to come to our house and cry on my mother’s shoulder. She was a new bride and lived in the house of her in laws who collectively abused her and beat her. Even her brother in- law used to beat her.

    You can’t change this culture overnight. If this man does not cut his umbilical cord from his family, which is very difficult for him to do, you will not have a happy life with him. In Islam you don’t marry to one person, you marry into his family. As a woman you lose your maiden identity and assume the identity of your husband’s family. You become part of their clan and the first thing they want to do is to mold you and make you conform to their rules. This is not something a self-respecting woman can tolerate.

    I have received many emails from women saying they fell in love with a Muslim man who at first acted like a prince charming only to turn into a frog. This is no surprise to me. As I have mentioned in my book every Muslim is a mini Muhammad. Muhammad was a narcissist and so are his followers. The behavior you described about your boyfriend, are traits of narcissists. Narcissists have two personalities – one private and one public. They have a false self that they project to the outside world. They get their narcissistic supply by the responses they get from others when they project this false image of themselves. Life for them is all about that image. Even if they are shit inside (pardon the Arabic), to the world they want to project an image of a holy man. You can’t live with a person like that. There is too much cultural gap between you and Muslims.

    You want to live for yourself. All you care is that you and your husband love each other and are happy together. For a Muslim that is not the priority. The priority for him is his image and that only in the Muslim society. He doesn’t care about non Muslims, and they don’t care about him. In the western world people don’t talk about each other. They mind their own business. In the Islamic world that is all they talk about. Everyone’s life is the business of everyone else. This is how cults operate. In cults everyone is to watch over others to make sure they do not deviate from the set path. In Islam everyone is required to tell others how to live their lives. Believer it or not, this insanity is a “divine injunction”. It is called amr bil ma’roof and nahi minal monkar.

    This man is a victim. All Muslims are victims. Wasn’t Bin Laden a victim? Victimizers are primarily victims. All serial killers and pedophiles have had an abusive childhood. Once an apple becomes rotten, it becomes a threat to its neighboring apples. My heart goes out for him. But there is nothing you can do to help him. You can’t save him. He must save himself and the first step is to leave Islam.

    Leaving one’s faith is difficult, but I have made leaving Islam very easy. It takes reading one book to shatter the faith of any Muslim. It can’t get easier than that. And unlike the Quran that is tedious and boring and really a chore to read through, many people say they could not put my book down. I am sure many Muslims who ask for my book and from whom I don’t hear back do put it down. But they put it down because they see how they are losing their faith and become scared to continue.

    If you don’t want headaches and heartbreaks, don’t get involved with Muslim men (or women). I know that at first they will lie and will tell you that they are not religious. They even drink and have sex outside marriage. None of that proves that they are not Muslim. The only way you can be sure is to ask them about Muhammad. If they praise him they are Muslim. If they voluntarily malign him, tell you to stay away from that madman and his cult, that he was an impostor, a criminal, a pedophile and a mass murder then you know they are not Muslim. Muslims play taqiyyah all the time. But they generally won’t volunteer to tell you these truths about their prophet. If they tell you Muhammad was a pig, then you can trust them. If not, walk away and save yourself the needless pain. Just remember there is an ugly frog inside every Muslim prince charming. Tell this to every young woman you meet. Our only protection is knowledge.

    http://www.faithfreedom.org/articles/women-in-islam/there-is-a-frog-inside-every-muslim-prince-charming/

    • August 24, 2012 4:16 pm

      If one was to believe all the anti Muslims posts, then I am truly blessed to have such a wonderful Muslim family (sarcasm).

      • jaan
        August 29, 2012 11:53 am

        Its not antimuslim post, its truth.

        • Jay Shivaji
          November 28, 2012 4:52 am

          Yes its truth.
          Don’t trust Muslim don’t Believe them.
          I had gone with one of Muslim to meetup his one Muslim Group,
          they were brainwashing of idiot fellows if you kill one kafir means Hindu you will get blessed by allah.
          Jaha log bhagwan ki sikh hi aisi batate ho waha pe jane se accha he k think about your family respect.
          Your family has given you Identity, they did lot sacrifices for you,
          Now you want them to push in the hell.
          I know so many girl already married to muslim man but they are not happy just by having no option they kept quet.
          NOw there is no family support with them, nor theire husbund family likes them. they are live just waiting for death.

          • Md.Zia-ul-Haque
            October 8, 2013 10:39 pm

            I don`t find jay shivaji`s.How can I respond?
            Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Advocate

    • alex
      December 5, 2012 1:41 pm

      hello jaan, der is always an ugly frog inside everyones mind, even the ugly frog is inside u. i am a muslim, living in north east of India, where our ancestors have converted to muslim. but i simply do not care. i know what i am. i love christian girl. we were happy nd ready to marry but no one is converting religion. i will teach my children science coz i dont want my children to live double lives like u. u r itself a hipocryt, deep down inside u still support ur own religion. i understand, its natural. after all we r human. by the way i dont believe any other religion in this world. i only believe in science.

      Comment to Alex at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3577

  • deepa
    August 4, 2012 8:24 am

    I married to a Muslim boy on 1st march 2011, now my marriage life is very happy….my parents also present that day to give me ashirwad.. i m very lucky……..i love my husband very much..and he take care my self very carefuly……n love me very very much….THANKU GOD N LOVE U GOD.

    • August 4, 2012 10:01 am

      Deepa,
      We are very happy for you, best wishes.

      For readers benefit, can you give little more details?
      Q1) Did you got married by Islamic Nikaah or Hindu wedding or both?

      Q2) Did you converted to Islam and got a Muslim name (no more Deepa) for your Nikaah?

      Q3) Are you allowed to have Hindu god’s murti and photos in your home?

      Q4) Will your husband join you to a Hindu temple? or be a part of Hindu prayers while at your parent’s home?

      
Q5) Are your children going to have only Muslim names and raised as only Muslims?

      Q6) Do your male children have to have a sunat circumcision even there is no compelling scientific merit to it?

      Q7) Are you going to teach your children from Geeta and Koran? Have you read Koran?

      Q8) What will you teach your children for… Who is the God? … Are Krishna and Laxmi gods?

      We hope to hear from you, thanks again.

  • Rathore
    July 18, 2012 8:42 am

    Another victim of LOVE JIHAD. Enjoy when your son will become a suicide bomber and daughter will be stoned to death. See the news around the world and think about your love and your better future. Hope you will share him with 3 other girls comfortably.

  • July 2, 2012 6:01 pm

    Hi dear sister,

    Dont marry a muslim guy. You donot know how cruel are muslim husbands, how badly they treat their wives, imposing all sorts of restrictions in the name Allah and self allowed to marry with 4 wives. For males talak is an easy process and for women very tedious and humilating. If you are determined to ruin your life, you are at liberty to remain in burka and become sex doll only. You will have no respect, not allowed to talk about evil habits of husband and if you do so, there will be no trace of you.

    I know how cruel and tyrant are the muslim males? In the name religion, they commit all sorts of attrocities on the woman. Only a handful high profile woman can take up jobs, and education and rest of the same if voicing concern about their married life, are forced in the brothels.That is why talibani culture is so emerging to in Pakistan and Afganistan under the shelters of terrorists.

    • Md.Zia-ul-Haque
      October 9, 2013 9:46 pm

      paki girl please tell me one thing who are cruel a hindu husband and his family or a Muslim husband and his family.
      I understand that in the past hindu widows were used to be burnt alive
      alive along with thier dead husband. But Muslim wife has the liberty to marry another person of her choice after the death of her husband.
      According to Muslim Marriage Act, a girl can not be got married with any person by her parents without her consent
      But Hindu girls do not enjoy this liberty.Their consent is not required and they can be got married with any person by their parents
      Touch your heart and say who are cruel Hindus who burn a girl alive after the death of her husband or the Muslims who have given liberty to a girl to marry another person of her choice after the death the of her husband.

      Md.Zia-ul-Haque Alim & Advocate,12/A,Phul Bagan Rd,Intally,Calcutta-14

    • October 9, 2013 10:02 pm

      paki girl please tell me one thing who are cruel a hindu husband and his family or a Muslim husband and his family.
      I understand that in the past hindu widows were used to be burnt alive
      alive along with thier dead husband. But Muslim wife has the liberty to marry another person of her choice after the death of her husband.
      According to Muslim Marriage Act, a girl can not be got married with any person by her parents without her consent
      But Hindu girls do not enjoy this liberty.Their consent is not required and they can be got married with any person by their parents
      Touch your heart and say who are cruel Hindus who burn a girl alive after the death of her husband or the Muslims who have given liberty to a girl to marry another person of her choice after the death the of her husband.

      Md.Zia-ul-Haque Alim & Advocate,12/A,Phul Bagan Rd,Intally,Calcutta-14

      Not duplicate comments

      • October 10, 2013 7:54 am

        Dear Haque, you seem to have delved deep into the essence of Holy Quran which is evident from your comments in defensce of your religion. I read your comments with interest and a keen desire to have an understanding of Islam. As I went on reading the stuff, I felt as if a salesman is comparing his fruits with the fruits being sold by another one instead of minding his own business. Have you observed such a thing ever ? For a moment, granted that you are in a gem of religion with you like of which cannot be found in any corner of the world, then how would you go on projecting such a remarkable jewel, will you compare it with the jewels of inferior quality and then proudly proclaim worth of the precious piece in tour possession ? What my intention is to convey to you is that when we value something and hold it in esteem, we concentrate on uttering or advertising the best features and usefulness of it. This is marketing and also shrewd salesmanship. What happens then that even if there are more precious and authentic pieces somewhere else, our products remain in demand. This is also the best policy of converting other persons ‘s mind towards one ‘s own point of view. You being an intellectual will agree to it. If we have anything against someone to say, we take extra care not to antagonize him straightaway and so always indulge in discretionary use of language. As an advocate, you are aware of this fact more than any lay person as in your profession, language plays an very important role. So dear, when you speak about your faith, take care that adherents of other faiths should not feel kind of abused due to use of inappropriate vocabulary. You have every right to assume your faith as the loftiest and so have the adherents of alien faiths. If you rake up unsavory things of the past of alien faiths that are extinct now, there will be a boomerang in retaliation. You are an educated and a serious thinker and claim to be an an expert of Islam, so please do not exhaust your energy in worthless malice, I’ll will, animosity, hatred and resent , rather extract elixir and reveal it to the humanity. When we deal with divine things, we must also hear, read or write in a divine manner and should not spill over poison in a foolish manner. Wish you happy life and a glorious career.

  • chris
    June 30, 2012 3:12 am

    Hi.Didn’t see see any respond from Sharad……I wonder why?

  • suma usa
    June 28, 2012 9:30 am

    Todays newspaper clip for your review. The question is this, if the man and woman (say converted from Hinduism to Islam) were both muslims at the time of wedding, then in that case can the police arrest the groom for marrying second time? Not thats not easy says the muslim clerics. So therefore, conversion to Islam at the time of wedding is detrimental to women for many reasons. Instead, court wedding without conversion is the right thing to do. The woman can demand justice since the wedding wasn’t muslim wedding. Understand that blind faith in the name of love and marriage isn’t right. Married LIFE is does not just begin with love and end in wedding. Please remember married LIFE begins AFTER the wedding. Please read below (compare this to sadaf story and many muslim weddings like hers, cheers).

    ” Woman storms marriage of man she claims is her husband; groom, father arrested.” Written by Monideepa Banerjie, Edited by Janaki Fernandes | June 28, 2012

    Kolkata: A young (Hindu) woman stormed into a posh wedding in Kolkata on Wednesday night and waving a marriage registration certificate, announced that the (Hindu) groom was in fact her husband who had married her in 2010. After the initial pandemonium, Puja Kaur was then manhandled and relatives of the groom Rajesh Giri tried to push her out of the wedding venue. But Puja didn’t come alone to the wedding venue. The police arrived soon after, on the basis of Puja’s complaint and arrested not only the groom but also his father. According to Puja’s complaint, she and Rajesh had got married in 2010 but kept it a secret from their families. However she says, they lived as husband and wife at Rajesh’s home in Nainital.

  • June 27, 2012 9:44 am

    Hey Nupur, there is no need to worry. Im zonal chief of Vishwa Hindu Parishad (VHP) Goregaon, MUMBAI. If ur Partner is ready to convert to Hindu we can help u.. Recently we arranged marriage of brahmin girl n Muslim guy on 17th June 2012 where the Muslim guy accepted Hinduism, similiarly we arranged marriage of 6 Muslim girls where all girls converted to Hindu last month. Can contact me on 09967474411.

    • June 27, 2012 3:04 pm

      Well, Nupur is miserably ignorant and innocent about fascist Islam. So, she fell for it.

      But you, Pande? I do not know what to say !!

      I do not think your ways are proper means to defeat Islamic fascism. Your ways might save Nupur and Mintu (Hindu guy who wanted to convert to Islam to marry his Muslim girl friend) but will create two more Nupurs and two more Mintus.

      Don’t you see that you are becoming problem more than a solution?

      Anyway, I love one aspect of VHP. It is because of you that many Hindus are safe in some areas.

    • The Jew
      June 27, 2012 7:11 pm

      Sir thanks for helping Hindustan, i know because of this selfless work india is not pakistan.
      . Thank you for helping hindus, who dont even know there religion is most truthful and most of hindus are just secular, but they dont know what is secularism. Peace.

    • suma usa
      June 28, 2012 9:32 am

      please educate girls attending schools and colleges, distribute pamphelts and at schools about evils of conversion at the time of wedding into Islam. Love jihad is a social crime mostly carried out by muslim men.Thank you Pandeji.

    • June 29, 2012 12:53 am

      Thanks guys for your appreciations & criticisms for VHP. As Jew said it is really a selfless & majority times ‘Thankless’ job what we do but no matter whenever Hindu community has been in the worst need we have been vanguards whether it may b for wresting back amarnath land from islamic extremists or savin Ramasetu & compelling govt to bow down on knees. But apart from helping Hindu guys n girls we also help people to discover Hinduism you can check link : http://www.haindavakeralam.com/HKPage.aspx?PageID=16077&SKIN=B Where we help 14 people to embrace Hinduism this month.. Such events are held regularly throughout India

      • June 29, 2012 1:24 am

        Thanks guys can also contact me on facebook.com/anandkumar.pande

      • June 29, 2012 1:31 am

        mr pande….it looks really cheap. Instead why dont you ask your bosses to bring Jesus and Muhammad to temples – like Budha and Jain and give them their due. Make them part of haindava – they will just be 2 more gods to us and eventually they will catch up and nobody has anything to loose or gain.

        • June 29, 2012 3:02 am

          Whats wrong if we bring followers of Muhamad n jesus ? Any one converting Muslims & Christians to Hinduism is cheap 4 u & Christians converting Hindus through fake healing seminars n by telling that hindu gods are useless n deamons is defintely not cheap ? I can understand your heart burn. These are common symptoms of pseudo seculars.

        • govind
          June 29, 2012 8:08 pm

          Sharad, FYI I personally had Quran and Christian saints in my personal shrine. So you are quite mistaken in demanding that Hindus bring Allah and Jesus into temples. They are already way ahead of you since Hindus, as part of their basic ethos, see the same divinity behind all forms. Here is a challenge for you. There are Ramakrishna temples for eg which have representations of Islamic and Christian deities, even use some of their prayers. Gandhi, the most famous Hindu of all, used to recite Quran along with Gita. Now here is a challenge for you. Find some important, well-regarded Muslim incorporating Hindu deities in their places of worship or devotional practices… The problem for you is that in Islam this is the greatest sin for ANY human to worship anything other than this Allah fellow or follow any religion apart from Islam. So buddy, if you really are as broad minded as you pretend to appear then go bark up the right tree.

          • sharad
            April 21, 2013 5:27 am

            am hindu and also support Modi http://www.modimypm.com – my point was instead of trying to convert one fellow or fight the muslims and christians who are slave to the idea of god and why not create programs and institutions that help them understand how one can take guidance from god. Muslim /christianity for me is a slave to the concept of god – who would try to put every situation under the rule book. Most so called muslims very well know they create their own interpretations and think they are believers – but in current times no one can be a real muslim or christian but you can be a hindu forever – its the best the policing system where an individual is asked to control himself in a peaceful harmless way and not bully the system as a group. In any case – VHP should focus on starting schools, hospitals and spirituality – this symbolic tricks are not for hindus. Gandhi has done much better to hinduism than most others.

        • The Jew
          July 2, 2012 7:23 pm

          May be this muslim guy has no answer, reminds me to that guy with username “indian” whoes actually a paki, who just walks out of talks, he does not have answer and when he realizes that non Muslims religion is far better than islam, and he has been an ignorant all his life. By the way Sharad is muslim, “indian” -being a islamic scholar ( PHD in quran, a convert who could not stay true to his own religion, and dreams of arab girls, although arabs will kill him, even if he tries to have a look of them), according to this genius idiot in islam name does not matter, isn’t that what you said Indian. So called sharad alias Indian get out of that fake hindu name identity. you are caught again.

    • ilyas
      July 12, 2012 5:57 pm

      well mr anand pande
      dont try to convert muslims or mislead them. they are in the right path and they dont need you to divert them. i advice all muslims to never ever change your religion. you will regret it later.

      • July 12, 2012 9:55 pm

        Who are u to stop us from converting muslims. We converted a muslim family 3 years back & they are very happy to be Hindus, even these 6 muslims which converted last month have converted to Hinduism by their own free will. Further if you want u can just type in google ” 75 Muslim convert to Hindu” you will see You tube video of 75 Muslims who converted to Hindu in Kolkatta & video of 1200 backward “nat” caste Muslims who converted to Hinduism in Shahjahanpur, Uttar Pradesh in January 2012.

        • rahul
          September 27, 2012 12:08 pm

          I m a muslim.can i convert to hinduism?i like pooja so much.

          • Satyen
            September 30, 2012 8:48 pm

            Hinduism is your ancestral religion but due to the barbaric circumstances in the past, your forefathers had to accept Islam. But, it’s right time to come backe to your ancestral way of living.

            Call Ananda Kumar Pande @ 09967474411 and he will help you out. Alternatively, go to the site agniveer.com and contact them. Also you can go to any Arya Samaj Temple or Iscon Temple and the priests will help you. Any VHP, Bajrang Dal or RSS person can also help you out.

          • October 9, 2013 10:08 pm

            yes you can. To go hell
            Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Advocate,12/A,Phul Bagan Rd,Calcutta-14

        • Bharath
          February 17, 2013 1:38 pm

          Hello Mr Pande,

          Keep up the good work. If not converting muslims to hindus, atleast try and stop hindu girls from loving muslim boys. I really hate when i see or hear a hindu girl getting convert to islam for sake of love which won’t last longer. One of my ex-colleague who is a muslim married a brahmin girl by converting her to islam. Although the girl’s family didn’t like this and tried their best to stop but they failed. Our system supported that guy and finally he succeded in his goal LOVE Jihad. You know that guy is a womenizer and the girl trusts him blindly. Please try n stop incidents like these. We have to first create awareness about our religion among our people first.

          And for Nupur never ever marry muslim guys. Your parents will find you a better match because with age comes wisdom and they know what’s better for you. Respect your parents for what they have been sacrificing for your good sakes.

      • Aryan Dude
        July 13, 2012 4:00 am

        Iliyas- There is no prohibition in islam for conversion to other religion, islam allows muslims to convert, to the true path of Hinduism. why you have a problem? Supreme god Shiv will punish them, how do you dare to threaten Anand? Ten Anand more will be there to stop your menace.

        When your Zakir Naik, converts Hindus, Christian, Sikhs, buddhist etc to your islam/ muslim religion and make those video on YouTube to get cheap popularity, you dont have any problem? why such double standard?

        Do whatever you want to stop the truth. Light of truth will not stop by ignorents. I pray to Shiv to show you right path my friend.

  • June 26, 2012 4:21 pm

    @ Abid,

    Welcome to humanity.

    Very nice to see a Muslim being so truthful.

    so why did he start this relation even when he knew what Allah said?

    He loses nothing right ! Or to be more accurate, this kind satisfies his ego and Islam implanted male superiority complex!

    Or my favorite, How about having something that is forbidden?

    There is something that needs a clarification on what you said about marriages between Muslims and Non-Muslims in Islamic law…

    Some other time…brother

  • June 26, 2012 4:14 pm

    …..”both Muslims and Hindus have red blood” !!!!

    I call this emotional…

    This is what Nirmala said about emotions ruling you and effecting your decision making.

    Even animals (at least mammals) have red blood, isn’t it?

    And the gospel truth is that love is 100% animalistic. (Ali Sina)

  • Abid
    June 19, 2012 11:19 pm

    Hi,

    I just want you to know that muslims cannot marry Hindus, according to islam. Islam also indicates that there should be no relation (boyfriend/girlfriend/lover etc). between Muslims and non muslims. Given the above rule which a Muslim (by definition muslim is- one who only believes in allah, and quran as the correct religion, without raising any questions on whatever is written in quran).

    Now coming back to your question he has broken rule of islam hence he has relationship with you. Ideally its his fault that he disobeyed allah. Now there is one more rule- you can do a favour to islam by having more and more non muslims convert to islam, either by peaceful means, or by force( applicable when ignorant( ignorant is also referred to people who are not muslims) do not want to see truth ( muslims consider “truth” is ONLY allah and quran) which automatically means that . All this also means that non muslim can use force or false promises or trickery when used to get a non muslim converted to islam

    Comming again to your situations as muslim male cannot fall in love with non muslims unless he thinks to convert you OR to have sex with you its valid in islam. Islam permits having sex with non Muslims or non muslims women captured in war.

    So now the situation is that either

    1. You being coming from false religion( acc to islam) he will ask you to convert to islam for marriage or may be post marriage, post marriage you will have less chances of saying no to conversion.

    2. He will leave you.

    3. He converts to your religion, islam permits killing a person who converts to other religion out of islam, so most likely he would not do this.

    4. You and he run away and marry. Here if you marry as hindu, he may or may not be fine. If you both marry as per islamic wedding YOU must be muslim. You both marry acc to marriage act, you both retain your religion, but there is no guarantee, if he returns back to his family you may have to become Muslim.

    • mazid
      August 24, 2012 4:09 pm

      I want to know my fellow people in the name of allah our founder and creator, one thing i want to ask who is allah and rest? u and u r mother r brutally changed into this religion apart from our glorious one, we wish all of you come back to hinduism

      • mazid
        August 24, 2012 4:17 pm

        revelations is none other than the cermonies across our gospells? Iam asking as a faithful person of Jesus, how many rupees in the name of god they looted? hope fully i recorded every matter, with supportive evience, so ru in deal with us r nt?

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