Sonia says: February 6, 2016 at 3:02 am
Hi Seema! Sorry to hear that things aren’t working. But I want to tell u that u are better off marrying within faith. I am married to a Muslim guy and I am a Hindu girl. He was madly in love with me. My parents unwillingly married me to him. Things took a major turn. He changed dramatically post marriage. Just like the movie stories and books!!! He got violent he is abusive and controlling. His family interferes in our life. His mother is extremely controlling!! They force me to eat non veg, dress like them and be like them. My life is a night mare. I cannot go back to my parents as I married him against everyone’s will!! I regret my mistake.. Interfaith marriages are fake!! Believe me esp marrying a Muslim is challenging. Their culture is very different to ours!! -Sonia
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a hindu girl should never marry a muslim boy as it will always end badly for the girl. i was warned from a young age not to go near muslim (hindu or even european men are okay) men as all they want to do in convert at least one other person in their life especially their future wife! i know several hindu girls who married muslim men against their parents will. the muslim boy were all sweet charming and perfect gents before marriage, let the girl drink alcohol and wear western clothes. but like after the weddings the boys changed –
made the girls convert,
dress like muslims,
eat meat,
submit to their family and more. it was utter hell.
some of the girls got away. though one ended up killing herself and another when she tried to leave her husband was forced to live in Pakistan and never saw her mum and dad again. do not do it. dont be fooled when u seen bollywood starts intermarrying – it’s so different from them. they are not bothered about their religion and even drink and eat bacon- all they care about is acting, marrying other famous indians who are good looking, have a good life and making money. religion in the upper classes of india is not important but money and fame are.
Hello Ms. Patel,
Did you ever dated a Muslim? Did any Muslim asked you for a date? Are you talking about in the West or in India?
There should not be any surprise for “girls convert, dress like muslims, eat meat, submit to their family”. If a Hindu guy marries a Muslim girl, he may make “girls act like a Hindu, dress like Hindu, eat veg, submit to their family”, is this not true? However, we do agree to — in early treatment to get into love without disclosing truth. Again, probably the same Hindu also may be doing to Christians and Muslims. So tell us how Muslims are different than Hindus?
We do appreciate your efforts to educate poor innocent youths who get trapped by love-proselytism. However now people will ask you for proof of what you said and that is almost impossible. In the end, you will be stuck with your frustration without helping others. Instead, we took the approach of recommending Interfaith Marriage with Equality (50%-50%; IMWE; meaning no conversion). Both sides must have true respect for each other’s belief. If not, then give up the idea of interfaith love/dating/marriage. A religious fanatic (be that a Hindu or Muslim) will walk away as soon as they hear of IMWE. Does our approach makes sense? We hope you will join us to educate other youths for IMWE.
Admn.
Your comments appear aligning yourselves with the ideas of Mac. Saif Ali Khan,s case is different. He knows his own mother is a Hindu and his sister had been in live in relationship with a Hindu guy and ultimately married him.
Male and females of very young age are attempted to be trapped by love jihadies for the sake of spreading and multiplication of islamic terrorists in different parts of world in the name marriage.
mac and today’s Saif Ali Khan’s views are quite different.
We agree to your concern of love Jihadis out to expand their faith and not for true love (BTW Saif has not converted Kareena).
We have not read earlier that mac’s sister married to a Hindu, can you tell us where you learned that?
Under taqiyya doctrine, muslim guys play all sorts of tricks to trap non muslim girls. Under this evil doctrine muslim guys feel protected from hell fire, as they are expannding muslim populations to create more and more terrorists under different names in different countries.
NON MUSLIM GIRLS SHOULD REFRAIN FROM HAVING ANY ASSOCIATION WITH MUSLIM GUYS.
Chand, you cannot generalize that all Muslims are like what you have described. Read attached link and you will realize that Saif Ali Khan is different then that you have described, and we admire it.
http://indianexpress.com/article/opinion/columns/intermarriage-is-not-jihad-it-is-india/
Try to communicate to toe parents and see if they will help you. Email them or phone them and see what they say. Then tryo to get away if possible. I hope you don’t have kids with this guy else it will be too late after or very hard for you. Try to keep faith in God.
The thing is, relationship will be strong and long lasting if the girl is Muslim and the boy is Hindu .
But this is not the case if vice versa. Hindu boys usually don’t force their girls to convert, but it won’t be the same in case of a Muslim boy.
A hindu boy’s parents will accept her as their daughter in law but a Muslim family won’t .
Exactly admin, then how you advise hindu-muslim couples to live 50-50?
100-0 is not equality. Better not get engaged with each other to start with – is the best option, but no one will ask us (you and us) before that.
What if one partner start ignorantly?
Yes this forum has to be asked for advice before marriage ..not after
I think , This forum is for taking advice before interfaith love not after
Asking advise before love is most ideal but unfortunately most lovers come to us after 1-10 years (average about 3 years) after getting into love.
And then if the boy is muslim, you call them love jihadi and when the boy is hindu you say nothing, infact then it becomes ignorance from boy while if muslim it becomes expansionist agenda from muslim to increase population.
Sonia,
Sorry to hear that you got trapped. Thank you for sharing your life story because we may be able to save someone else’s life with your example, please come to guide on this forum.
This is an understatement, “Their culture is very different to ours”, yes, there is no similarity at all. Only difference is in college days and during dating time, people promises rose gardens but truth is something different.
Why you cannot go back to your parents? That is what you mother-in-law and husband want you to do. Forget your pride and go back to your parents like a child do and say I made a mistake. Do it today without thinking. Do you have children?