seema says: March 24, 2016 at 9:49 am
Hii..
FOr me…..love has no limits…so when i met my (intended) life partner…hes a muslim guy..we started being frds..we knpw d barriers we hve btw our religiond…bit deres something ..which no religion pr caste can stop..
D feeling of being together tht we hve bte us..we our sensible beings ..and we took d decision to get marraied…infact i wasnt sure…at all ..being in india we all know wht actully RELIGION is all about..he ws d one whom gave me d hope .yes of we want we can be together..he says “we will convince both our parents..and if u r dad dosent agree..i will not marry any other girl…for this i only require ur support ,ur being with me”
But we would love if someone would give solutions… on how we can get marraied with our parents agreement… bcoz our parents our complete true to their own religions…we dnt want to trouble them ..we want thier happiness along with ours …
Can some one give us practical solutions ..which could harm no one. Love reagards to all -Seema
seema says: March 24, 2016 at 7:44 pm
Hii…. No i dnt need to convert ..ill obey both hinduism as well as islam…hesays so -Seema
Rabia says: April 1, 2016 at 4:43 am
Dear Seema, I agree with Admin that Hindu-Muslim marriages are quite difficult, but from my own example and a few other cases I know about, it is not impossible.
The most important thing is to answer a few questions as a couple:
– You said “bcoz our parents our complete true to their own religions…we dnt want to trouble them ..we want thier happiness along with ours”
This is a major obstacle because no Muslim will ever marry their son or daughter to a Hindu without a nikkah, and no HIndu I know can tolerate a Muslim in their family unless the Muslim also agrees to respect & follow their customs such as attending Diwali pooja, all sorts of other poojas, which are against the core tenets of Islam (shirk).
If your husband is a broad-minded fellow, he may be able to allow you to continue to live as a practicing Hindu. But given societal pressure and how much of your life will be influenced by parents, their relatives, neighbors gossiping…etc, I would say it’s a very tough road ahead for you both.
Love is great at the beginning, but marriage requires a lot of compromise & sacrifice. Is your husband ready to do this for you? Are you ready to do it for him?
Think about all these and make sure you have honest conversations with each other but also with each other’s families. -Rabia
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hello seema…, me too in the same situation….. I am a Hindu n my love is Muslim..so can we both have a chat
after marriage u know the reality…..when burka ; 3 talak ll come….
Hindus girl hv too azadi but it not means that u ll Hinduism…..
many Hindus girl r converting….
why Muslim girl not marry with Hindus guys….
this is calld
LOVE JIHAD….
I hate these type of stupid hindu girl
who convert in islam…
u ll feel the azadi in the muslim
Seema,
It appears that you have been brainwashed and trapped emotionally.
You will repent the moment you get married and chain of restrictions
and cruelty starts.Right now you will not realize but when you get
the reality of islamic evils, it will be too late to come back.
Save yourself.
Dear Seema, I agree with Admin that Hindu-Muslim marriages are quite difficult, but from my own example and a few other cases I know about, it is not impossible.
The most important thing is to answer a few questions as a couple:
– You said “bcoz our parents our complete true to their own religions…we dnt want to trouble them ..we want thier happiness along with ours”
This is a major obstacle because no Muslim will ever marry their son or daughter to a Hindu without a nikkah, and no HIndu I know can tolerate a Muslim in their family unless the Muslim also agrees to respect & follow their customs such as attending Diwali pooja, all sorts of other poojas, which are against the core tenets of Islam (shirk).
If your husband is a broad-minded fellow, he may be able to allow you to continue to live as a practicing Hindu. But given societal pressure and how much of your life will be influenced by parents, their relatives, neighbors gossiping…etc, I would say it’s a very tough road ahead for you both.
Love is great at the beginning, but marriage requires a lot of compromise & sacrifice. Is your husband ready to do this for you? Are you ready to do it for him?
Think about all these and make sure you have honest conversations with each other but also with each other’s families.
Rabia,
Excellent point on “marriage requires a lot of compromise & sacrifice.” We always say interfaith marriages has to be 50%-50%, there always has to be some to give and something to take.
See this interesting article on Jew-Christian marriage and issues:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/acts-of-faith/wp/2016/03/25/not-what-i-expected-from-my-interfaith-marriage-one-teen-is-christian-the-other-jewish/
Hi Seema,
We are very happy that you reached out to us. We will guide you and answer all your questions.
We understand that you are in “love” but you should also know that Hindu-Muslim marriage is like walking on fire. Don’t go alone, you will get burned. So keep in touch with us step wise.
You said, “love has no limits” but it may be true for you but probably not for him. Prove us wrong. For him being a Muslim, love has lots of limits. Very first being — you must convert to Islam and be 100% Muslim and 0% Hindu. Are you ready for it?
Please ask him and get back to us if you (a Hindu) have to convert to Islam to marry him? If he says “yes”, ask him WHY? WHY? We will wait to hear from you right here.
Hii….
No i dnt need to convert ..ill obey both hinduism as well as islam…hesays so
Hi Seema,
First, it is VERY important to clarify this point, “i dnt need to convert.” Yes, he said you don’t have to convert but, based on our experience here, he is ignorant of Islam or he is a lier (taqiyya).
Now ask him how will you marry? Is that only Hindu wedding or only Islamic Nikaah (that requires your conversion)?
As we said you are walking on fire, so some of this educational questions will help you a lot. Get back to us after asking above question. Thanks.
In the west rilegion has few effect on their life .. but their social values are getting down and down day by day whatever your idea about rilgion ..do not take west as a reference