I Have to Decide–Love or Religion?

Amina says: June 5, 2016 at 4:00 pm

I am in the same sort of boat, my partner he is belonged to no religion and is so sure that he believes in God but not religion it’s self and I come from a Muslim family and my parents recently found out about him and was okay-ish at first but as soon as they found out he is a non Muslim it’s was a no go for them. Not only do I now need to decide weather the man I love so much and want to spend the rest of my life with or my family and the religion I’ve been brought up into. Please someone help me I’ve suffering from really bad depression over this all.
Thanks -Amina


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4 Comments

  • July 10, 2016 12:25 am

    Hi ameena
    This is the same problem through what im going even im having the same problem
    Im in love with a muslim girl from kerala we were in love a year n half but i dont know what
    Hpnd to her suddenly she started avoiding me for no reason telling that proposals are cmng fr me n now she is having prblm with my religion.im planning to talk to her parents ill try to convince them illl convert to muslim i want to do anything for hern i will do but i nd allah to be with me n support.i love her so much that i cant live my life without her.i believe in allah he will help me…

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=11408

  • Shane
    June 22, 2016 8:15 am

    Hi Amina,

    Please pray, you can perform namaaz Haajat & tajadhud amd Istikhaara.

    God will help you in your decisions, depression & you will find the path.

  • June 15, 2016 7:54 am

    Dear Amina,

    Dont get depressed. God helps those who help themselves. It is the tendency of muslim parents to deny their daughter,s to choose life partner outside their faith. If son traps a non muslim girl, they readily agree it. It is the worst part of islamic mind set particularly from males. Males have so many privileges to enjoy, no body raises finger against them. Females have no choice and whosoever dares to marry outside faith, she is made victim of honour killing.

    Muslim girls who are self dependent financilly, do not both about such sentiments of parents. Parents will not be life long with you. One day you have to choose your life partner. Life partner should be compatible in all respects, loving, caring,adjusting. Normally muslim guys are not adjusting, they are in search of another 3 wives, being allowed to keep 4 wives at a time, give one of them oral tripple talak and bring another one. Female should be always virgin, but husband need not be virgin.

    Dont care for your parents advice, as they are guided by evil practices of islam.

  • June 8, 2016 9:20 pm

    Hi Amina,

    We can help. Depression is the last thing you should do, instead think! First tell us which country are you from and what is his religion. Get back to us.

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