Christian-Muslim Lovers Going through Struggle

Francisco says: September 10, 2016

I am currently in the same situation, my girlfriend who is Muslim have been struggling with this as she does not know how to bring this up to her parents or how it will work out and is afraid if we stay together any longer it will hurt and she is giving up as she has lost any hopes of us being together as her parents have told her she will be disowned. I don’t know what to do, I respect the Islam religion and was actually planning on converting for her but as well for me and also to benefit our chances of being able to marry each other. Although we are still young we truly love each other and have been through so much together. I’m not sure how to calm her or at least reassure her that still some hope. -Francisco

Francisco says: September 11, 2016

Hi I’m from the United States and Yes this approach is acceptable and I completely agree that faking converting is wrong and I’m 100% into it and already have been doing my studies and reading the Koran but for my girlfriend it is not she is worried even if I fully convert it will not affect her parent’s decision at all. She want to break up because she fears of hurting me due to being together so long and if we stay longer she will be more hurt and I don’t know how to help her or reassure her that there is hope. Francisco


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6 Comments

  • V.A.R.
    October 15, 2016 4:22 am

    Refer the below post. Find out the mentioned things fro her
    https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=11616

  • lauren
    September 15, 2016 10:25 am

    Never marry a muslim have bad experience a female muslim married a christian boy later ran away with a muslim man leaving her daughter she said shes bored how mean she is

    • September 15, 2016 10:45 pm

      This is possible from a person from any faith.
      Agree that religions are too complex and dating couple cannot comprehend how much trouble is on the way. We wish lovers use their head and not only heart.

  • Francisco vega
    September 11, 2016 10:45 am

    Hi I’m from the United States and Yes this approach is acceptable and I completely agree that faking converting is wrong and I’m 100% into it and already have been doing my studies and reading the Koran but for my girlfriend it is not she is worried even if I fully convert it will not affect her parent’s decision at all. She want to break up because she fears of hurting me due to being together so long and if we stay longer she will be more hurt and I don’t know how to help her or reassure her that there is hope.

    • September 11, 2016 7:01 pm

      You are in USA and assume you are financially stable, thus you two should be able to take steps that are logical and not following irrational dogmas.

      You two do that work for you but let us give some tips to chew on. Read Arvind’s life experience at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3581. Based on it, let us ask you one hypothetical question. Lets hope not but what if she is already married to someone else, would you still continue to be a Muslim? Let us know and we will talk more.

  • September 10, 2016 10:14 pm

    Hello Francisco,

    Which country are you from?

    Christian and Muslim, both are Abrahamic believing the same God but millions have been killed in the name of religion. Muslim will not accept the concept of Jesus as a Son of God (Koran 19:88). On the other side, if you believe Jesus as an ordinary apostle like many others and not as a Son of God, then you are invalidating Christianity. Further, Muslim are not all about Allah but have to glorify Muhammad. As a matter of fact, you cannot be a Muslim if you don’t utter Muhammad. So the difference is not God/Allah but priorities for the apostles.

    Do not fake-convert to Islam. Unless you are ready to be 0% Christian and 100% Muslim, do not convert. Before converting, read Koran and about Muhammad’s life. Also talk to your parents if they are okay with your new idea.

    You said you are young. If so, both should focus on your education and get great paying jobs. Once you are financially stable, plan to live 100 miles from your home city. Plan to get married by civil wedding and later both continue to follow your faith proudly. Do you think this approach is acceptable to you?

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