No Hindu girl can spend her life with a Muslim boy
Hi Zoya..
I was going through your message, i would like to share my personal experience with you..i got married to a muslim guy 8 months back, left my family n everything for him…I also thought he n his family are very free for all things..he n his family members loved me very much before getting married, but after marriage it was very different n they have a very harsh n rude nature…i could not live with him, it was impossible..
No hindu girl can live or spend her life with a Muslim boy…
Pls Pls dont go against your family members….I went against them n today i m suffering a lot..I have just applied for Divorce n now i m staying with my family n very happy with them…
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i am a muslim boy, i love a Hindu girl and she love me very much. We want to merry. As i am a student of a professional course it would take a little less than about 2 years.
As far as my family is concern everyone in my family is soft hearted people. Her family is also soft hearted but they are scared to merry their daughter in a muslims family as they think Muslims are not good.
I never had nor have any problem with girls religion. I even don’t want to change her religion and accept her as
i loved her first day when we met.
Our love is pious. We never did anything wrong. i always thought when i would stand on my feet they would accept me. I convinced my dear love we can convince parents. Now when her parents come to know about our love they make understand to her that’s wrong. Now she is asking me to convince her parents. She is my life and last love of this life. what should i do please help me.
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Islam has given an esteemed rankto women. Allah Almighty announces in a verse, Should one of them, or both, attain old age in your lifetime, do not say”Ugh!” to them (as an indication of complaint or impatience), nor push them away, and always address them in gracious words. (Al-Isra Surah, 17:23)
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) announces, Heaven is under the feet of mothers. Let us touch briefly on the objection that some put forward saying there is o equality between men and women in Islam.
Allah Almighty has instances of wisdom in infinite numbers. He creates in whatever way He pleases. He may give some peopledifferent capabilities and talents from others. No creatures can ever interfere with this will.
Allah Almighty has not created men and women equally in all ways. To try to make these two genders equal in every way is only possible to change the nature of genders, which is impossible. The male and female natures differ from each other inmany ways. Considering the fact that judgments are made on behalf of majority, we can say that: men are superior in terms of strength, courage, and boldness whereas women are superior in compassion, tenderness, and fidelity. Both men and women may excel each other at some ways. Within family, the excelling sides of both are combined and thus the needs and happiness of the family are met.
Since men are superior in strength, Allah Almighty, in the first place, has held men responsible for the family and protecting them from any kind of danger both physically and spiritually. This truth has been clearly written in the Holy Book: Men (those who are able to carryout their responsibilities) are the protectors and maintainers of women inasmuch as God has endowed some of people (in some respects) with greater capacity than others and inasmuch as they (the men) spend of their wealth (for the familys maintenance). Good, righteous women are the devoted ones (to God) and observant (of their husbands rights), who guard the secrets (family honor and property, theirchastity, and their husbands rights, especially where there is none to see them and in the absence of men) as God guards and keeps undisclosed (what should be guarded and private). (An-Nisa Surah, 4:34)
Islam, on the one hand, wishes men to answer the needs of women, on the other hand, wishes women to be obedient totheir husbands. The verse above teaches us both the superiority of men and the virtue of women.
However, being the head of the family is one thing, being superior in the religion is quite another thing. According to the Holy Quran, the criterion of the superiority is not gender but taqwa. Taqwa in short means fearing Allah, avoiding from sins, abstaining from the behaviors, manners, and words that He disapproves.
For a family to continue its welfare and harmony it is of great importance that man be the head of the family and woman obey him. Absolute equality ruins the harmony in thefamily through when women do not obey their husbands, spoils the welfare and happiness, and mostly causes divorces.
Just as it is necessary for a woman to obey her husband, it is also necessary for a man to maintain his wifes rights. It is a fallacy that in Islam women are slaves to men. On the contrary, inIslam women have more pleasures than men do. Because in Islam men are obliged to provide alimony for women in a case of divorce, whereas womenare exempted from that. Islam has given the duty of raising a child to women, which is the most essential and pleasurable thing for a woman to do. That is why Allah Almighty has given the feeling of compassion more to women than men have.
Today what some call freedom of women has only brought about womens falling into debauchery and misery. However, Islam has protected their honor by ordering to remain chaste.
Some circles present the Islamic order of veiling as the restrictionof freedom of women.
First one need to know that veiling is not only an Islamic rule, but it is a rule of all divine religions. Nuns veiling themselvesis a clear proof to that.
Veiling is not peculiar to women; it is a natural necessity for the whole humankind. It is impossible to see naked people around in any country. The point of debate is on its limits. In Islam women are obliged to cover all their parts which could evoke men sexual feelings. In this way, they protect their honor and chastity in the world, and win eternal bliss in the hereafter. On the other hand, when women wear immodestly, they lead men into sins, and according to the Islamic rule the one who causes is like the one who does, the same sins that men commit also go to women. The Islamic order of veiling protects women from such dangers.
Islam has given an esteemed rankto women. Allah Almighty announces in a verse, Should one of them, or both, attain old age in your lifetime, do not say”Ugh!” to them (as an indication of complaint or impatience), nor push them away, and always address them in gracious words. (Al-Isra Surah, 17:23)
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) announces, Heaven is under the feet of mothers. Let us touch briefly on the objection that some put forward saying there is o equality between men and women in Islam.
Allah Almighty has instances of wisdom in infinite numbers. He creates in whatever way He pleases. He may give some peopledifferent capabilities and talents from others. No creatures can ever interfere with this will.
Allah Almighty has not created men and women equally in all ways. To try to make these two genders equal in every way is only possible to change the nature of genders, which is impossible. The male and female natures differ from each other inmany ways. Considering the fact that judgments are made on behalf of majority, we can say that: men are superior in terms of strength, courage, and boldness whereas women are superior in compassion, tenderness, and fidelity. Both men and women may excel each other at some ways. Within family, the excelling sides of both are combined and thus the needs and happiness of the family are met.
Since men are superior in strength, Allah Almighty, in the first place, has held men responsible for the family and protecting them from any kind of danger both physically and spiritually. This truth has been clearly written in the Holy Book: Men (those who are able to carryout their responsibilities) are the protectors and maintainers of women inasmuch as God has endowed some of people (in some respects) with greater capacity than others and inasmuch as they (the men) spend of their wealth (for the familys maintenance). Good, righteous women are the devoted ones (to God) and observant (of their husbands rights), who guard the secrets (family honor and property, theirchastity, and their husbands rights, especially where there is none to see them and in the absence of men) as God guards and keeps undisclosed (what should be guarded and private). (An-Nisa Surah, 4:34)
Islam, on the one hand, wishes men to answer the needs of women, on the other hand, wishes women to be obedient totheir husbands. The verse above teaches us both the superiority of men and the virtue of women.
However, being the head of the family is one thing, being superior in the religion is quite another thing. According to the Holy Quran, the criterion of the superiority is not gender but taqwa. Taqwa in short means fearing Allah, avoiding from sins, abstaining from the behaviors, manners, and words that He disapproves.
For a family to continue its welfare and harmony it is of great importance that man be the head of the family and woman obey him. Absolute equality ruins the harmony in thefamily through when women do not obey their husbands, spoils the welfare and happiness, and mostly causes divorces.
Just as it is necessary for a woman to obey her husband, it is also necessary for a man to maintain his wifes rights. It is a fallacy that in Islam women are slaves to men. On the contrary, inIslam women have more pleasures than men do. Because in Islam men are obliged to provide alimony for women in a case of divorce, whereas womenare exempted from that. Islam has given the duty of raising a child to women, which is the most essential and pleasurable thing for a woman to do. That is why Allah Almighty has given the feeling of compassion more to women than men have.
Today what some call freedom of women has only brought about womens falling into debauchery and misery. However, Islam has protected their honor by ordering to remain chaste.
Some circles present the Islamic order of veiling as the restrictionof freedom of women.
First one need to know that veiling is not only an Islamic rule, but it is a rule of all divine religions. Nuns veiling themselvesis a clear proof to that.
Veiling is not peculiar to women; it is a natural necessity for the whole humankind. It is impossible to see naked people around in any country. The point of debate is on its limits. In Islam women are obliged to cover all their parts which could evoke men sexual feelings. In this way, they protect their honor and chastity in the world, and win eternal bliss in the hereafter. On the other hand, when women wear immodestly, they lead men into sins, and according to the Islamic rule the one who causes is like the one who does, the same sins that men commit also go to women. The Islamic order of veiling protects women from such dangers.
Islam has given an esteemed rankto women. Allah Almighty announces in a verse, Should one of them, or both, attain old age in your lifetime, do not say”Ugh!” to them (as an indication of complaint or impatience), nor push them away, and always address them in gracious words. (Al-Isra Surah, 17:23)
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) announces, Heaven is under the feet of mothers. Let us touch briefly on the objection that some put forward saying there is o equality between men and women in Islam.
Allah Almighty has instances of wisdom in infinite numbers. He creates in whatever way He pleases. He may give some peopledifferent capabilities and talents from others. No creatures can ever interfere with this will.
Allah Almighty has not created men and women equally in all ways. To try to make these two genders equal in every way is only possible to change the nature of genders, which is impossible. The male and female natures differ from each other inmany ways. Considering the fact that judgments are made on behalf of majority, we can say that: men are superior in terms of strength, courage, and boldness whereas women are superior in compassion, tenderness, and fidelity. Both men and women may excel each other at some ways. Within family, the excelling sides of both are combined and thus the needs and happiness of the family are met.
Since men are superior in strength, Allah Almighty, in the first place, has held men responsible for the family and protecting them from any kind of danger both physically and spiritually. This truth has been clearly written in the Holy Book: Men (those who are able to carryout their responsibilities) are the protectors and maintainers of women inasmuch as God has endowed some of people (in some respects) with greater capacity than others and inasmuch as they (the men) spend of their wealth (for the familys maintenance). Good, righteous women are the devoted ones (to God) and observant (of their husbands rights), who guard the secrets (family honor and property, theirchastity, and their husbands rights, especially where there is none to see them and in the absence of men) as God guards and keeps undisclosed (what should be guarded and private). (An-Nisa Surah, 4:34)
Islam, on the one hand, wishes men to answer the needs of women, on the other hand, wishes women to be obedient totheir husbands. The verse above teaches us both the superiority of men and the virtue of women.
However, being the head of the family is one thing, being superior in the religion is quite another thing. According to the Holy Quran, the criterion of the superiority is not gender but taqwa. Taqwa in short means fearing Allah, avoiding from sins, abstaining from the behaviors, manners, and words that He disapproves.
For a family to continue its welfare and harmony it is of great importance that man be the head of the family and woman obey him. Absolute equality ruins the harmony in thefamily through when women do not obey their husbands, spoils the welfare and happiness, and mostly causes divorces.
Just as it is necessary for a woman to obey her husband, it is also necessary for a man to maintain his wifes rights. It is a fallacy that in Islam women are slaves to men. On the contrary, inIslam women have more pleasures than men do. Because in Islam men are obliged to provide alimony for women in a case of divorce, whereas womenare exempted from that. Islam has given the duty of raising a child to women, which is the most essential and pleasurable thing for a woman to do. That is why Allah Almighty has given the feeling of compassion more to women than men have.
Today what some call freedom of women has only brought about womens falling into debauchery and misery. However, Islam has protected their honor by ordering to remain chaste.
Some circles present the Islamic order of veiling as the restrictionof freedom of women.
First one need to know that veiling is not only an Islamic rule, but it is a rule of all divine religions. Nuns veiling themselvesis a clear proof to that.
Veiling is not peculiar to women; it is a natural necessity for the whole humankind. It is impossible to see naked people around in any country. The point of debate is on its limits. In Islam women are obliged to cover all their parts which could evoke men sexual feelings. In this way, they protect their honor and chastity in the world, and win eternal bliss in the hereafter. On the other hand, when women wear immodestly, they lead men into sins, and according to the Islamic rule the one who causes is like the one who does, the same sins that men commit also go to women. The Islamic order of veiling protects women from such dangers.
Hello,
Islam is a most curel religion of the world, full of violence, rape, circumcision of males and females, Jihad, terrorism, mureder, inhuman behaviour, polygammy, anarchy, and all sorts of evils to support criminal and horny males to commit all sorts of attrocities, crimes, in the name of Prophet, was a rapist, murderer, not sparing grand daughter like child to rape in the name of marriage.
He is a blot in the name of humanity, how can a God be so cruel to nominate a rapist, loose character, murders, horny, marrying 17 wives, his messenger. It is all non sense teachings in the Koran.
u should have to beheaded without any trial or charge who say anything wrong to our Prophet!!!
so be careful else Ur life is in danger
Go to Hell, you and our Prophet Mohammad (curse be upon him)
*your
You and your half cut Mohammed does not have guts to touch any Hindu. You life would be in even bigger danger if you touch Vijay. You katuas will be as usual idiots who know nothing but kuran, when people question Qur’an you kill them, what an idiot religion, who can’t even prove it is truth…convert to Hinduism and see the light of truth. You are following devil rakshas who has contol over you mind and body, you can’t see truth. That’s why your devil has asked to kill anyone who goes to truth. Simple and clear
To all the ignorant people,
For a fact I was a Hindu but I have always found myself lost over the concept of God in my religion
No religion is good or bad, it is the person following it that is good or bad. Consider this If a person who doesnt know how to drive a car is given a BMW to drive and he crashes it will you blame the driver or the car company. Its the same for every religion it all depends on the person following it.
If any literate logical person is asked to research on the rightness of a religion then you will come to know that Islam is a very logical religion. That there is only one God and he does not want us to idolise Him or associate partners with Him. Thats It! Same thing is mentioned in the Ten Commandments. According to Islam our life is a Test and our real goal should be winning Heaven and the Quran is the instruction from God how we can achieve it. Some few people or so called muslims dont follow it properly and the religion is blamed for all this just like blaming the car company BMW for a car crashed by a layman.
And for the record Allah is just an arabic name for The God(i.e The Only God)
Eg: You can call water by any other name but it will still be water.But if you call any other liquid by name of water it doesnt become water. Same way The God has many names but You cant give the name of God to anything else be it an idol a reincarnation, avatar, or his creatin like sun, moon etc. that hindus tend to do
I have been guided to the right path I pray to God that he guides everyone else too
To all the ignorant people,
For a fact I was a Hindu but I have always found myself lost over the concept of God in my religion
No religion is good or bad, it is the person following it that is good or bad. Consider this If a person who doesnt know how to drive a car is given a BMW to drive and he crashes it will you blame the driver or the car company. Its the same for every religion it all depends on the person following it.
If any literate logical person is asked to research on the rightness of a religion then you will come to know that Islam is a very logical religion. That there is only one God and he does not want us to idolise Him or associate partners with Him. Thats It! Same thing is mentioned in the Ten Commandments. According to Islam our life is a Test and our real goal should be winning Heaven and the Quran is the instruction from God how we can achieve it. Some few people or so called muslims dont follow it properly and the religion is blamed for all this just like blaming the car company BMW for a car crashed by a layman.
And for the record Allah is just an arabic name for The God(i.e The Only God)
Eg: You can call water by any other name but it will still be water.But if you call any other liquid by name of water it doesnt become water. Same way The God has many names but You cant give the name of God to anything else be it an idol a reincarnation, avatar, or his creatin like sun, moon etc. that hindus tend to do
People follow it the way they want this is called interpolation of Hinduism so it has deviated from the true path due to some selfish people of the bygone era changing it as per their likings.
The biggest proof is that of casteism-dividing the hindus in brahmins and shudras, how is it possible for some human to be superior to another when we have all been given equal attributes.
Our oen upanishads say the same thing Quran teaches:
The Upanishads are considered sacred scriptures by the Hindus.
The following verses from the Upanishads refer to the Concept of God:
“Ekam evadvitiyam”
“He is One only without a second.”
[Chandogya Upanishad 6:2:1]1
“Na casya kascij janita na cadhipah.”
“Of Him there are neither parents nor lord.”
[Svetasvatara Upanishad 6:9]2
“Na tasya pratima asti”
“There is no likeness or image of Him.”
[Svetasvatara Upanishad 4:19]3
The following verses from the Upanishad allude to the inability of man to imagine God in a particular form:
“Na samdrse tisthati rupam asya, na caksusa pasyati kas canainam.”
“His form is not to be seen; no one sees Him with the eye.”
[Svetasvatara Upanishad 4:20]4
But alas humans have interpolated our pure Hindu religion to what it is today to mislead humanity thats why God has sent the Quran not for some specific part of the world but for the whole humanity
Hi Srinivas,
Kudos to you man. I completely support you
Hey all,
I am not here to criticize anyone/any religion.I am here to say the truth. Yeah,by bad luck if one interreligion marriage is not fruitful, then just don’t declare as every interreligion marriage is fail. Noone come to inernet and share the hatredness like this. May be you have choosen the wrong life partner. If he/she is asking to convert the religion it’s too worst. It’s the coward’s act. Anyone can stay in any religion before and after marriage. Just we should not force the partner not only religion but on most of the things. Form a good character.We should live in reality grounds. We should allow other people to live happily. We should not trouble them. If you are not considerning,respecting the partner’s feelings,then what is this love? It’s not love. why is the question of again the love and marraige between hindu and muslim girls/boys? Here the the character and mindsets of people are not proper. So no need to discuss on religions. Please stop this. Choose the right partner love and marry and live happily. All the best to all…
Hey all,
Just forgot to share some information with you all.Yes I am unmarried.I want to marry.I want to love.I will find a girl in any religion. I am muslim by birth. I will find either hindu,christian or muslim girl.Just I don’t care religions.Because I value the people.I value and love the people.I love life.I am so confident and optimistic in future.I have full dare and courage to face any kind of problem.For me what,noone can make me inferere just saying religion caste stuff.I will choose my life partner from any religion.I am living in a big secular country called INDIA.I am indian.The people who spend their time talking on religions and show the religion as cause for any problem they are just cowards.They use the history as a cause to increase the issue but not to solve the issue.They are just stupids. They live in the society just to trouble,harm other people.So why do you care these stupid people and stupid caste religion stuff? Just be brave be confident .Just don’t allow these stupid people’ comments. Happily go ahead cheerfully, confidently with brave and choose any life partner marry him/her and give value,respect and love the relationship and be loyal to the partner.Then tell me, where is the problem? I don’t see any problem.
Shyam,
Very honourable thoughts, wish you come to guide other young adults here.
You said you are a Muslim by birth, with a name Shyam? We are curious who are your parents…any one of them Hindu (and converted)?
Lets look at the practical side, if you fall in love with a Hindu girl, and you don’t believe in religious conversion, how could you have Nikaah without Shahadah? You mean you will marry by the Hindu vivaha ceremony?
Hi admin,
I am unable to post a comment here in this site.
Hi Admin/All,
I am thankful for your response.I have muslim name and my parents are muslims.Please forgive me I don’t want to disclose my details and i feel it is not that important too.The important thing is we are discussing on interreligion love,marriage topic.Hope you can respect my privacy.
All these religions in the past,in history were formed here and there on the globe to lead the mankind further in an orderly fashion and with common guidelines,customs to make them live happily.Whatever the religion whether the Islam is born in Mecca,Christianity in Jerulasem,Hinduism in Indian subcontinent,Buddism in India or Nepal(now) and was spread in east asian countries,the motto,agenda is simple.Mohammed,Jesus,Manu saint(he proposed chaturvarna system in hinduism) they individually in different places tried to lead the public in a systematic way.When this is before 4000 years or 1500 years back happened how can we judge they are accurate till to this date and to this public? Yes religions helped a lot to the mankind to procede from history to current time and to establish culture and to unite the people(atleast in individual religions).It’s okay this kind of stuff I need not say most of the people know.But just I am using this to say onething.In my personal belief,may be religions helped mankind,but they have pros and cons.No religion is having the restructuring characeristic.All religions are almost fixed without any changes in their religious stuff,guidelines from centuries.But a lot of time changed.How can we follow the same religions blindly without any question, at least it should be applicable to outdated practices,guidelines,stuff in every religion.That’s why atleast intellectuals and wise,modern people are in dilemma about outdated practices in every religion.Some people are not liking other religions.I need not explain this.Everyone knows this if they try to know.Look at the science it has restructuring characteristic.Most of the times it is accurate only.If sometimes it is wrong,again some experiments will be done for verification and to accumulate facts, truth only.So anyone can believe science,but not religion.Ofcourse human race is experiencing the fruits of science from 19th century.
So how do we think and depend on religions to live our daily life? Why should we fight each other based on religion?We are not in medieval time.We are in modern time,modern world now.We are living in civilized society. (continuation in the following post)
Hi Admin/All, (Note:This is continued to the previous post)
In a country like india 120 crores of people are living with many religions,castes etc.In our daily life we use to see,work professionally and personally in companies,markets,factories,farm fields,busstands etc everywhere with all kinds of religious people.We are eating food,but other religious people are producing.We are using medicines when sick and they are produced by other religious people.Just you think and frame any number of examples.If this is the daily life in india,even in entire world too,then how can you restrict the people in marraiges?It is not as per law.No court restricts us to marry in the same religion.Because we started living in a free, democratic, secular,Indian sovereign from 1947.Still all religious roots are working to some extent even now.Hence people are thinking still religiously.My question to all is: Don’t you ashame yourself being like this?Why are you not able to live as a human? Why are you not able to love other religious person eventhough you are being helped,benefited by other religious people directly,indirectly in many ways in daily life?I am asking some of stupid selfish political leaders still now,if they are hindu leaders why are you creating conflicts among hindu,muslim,christians and are benefiting in elections to form governments?I am asking terrorists if they are muslim or who ever terrorists why are you bombing the people to evoke religious emotions,conflicts among the people? All this stuff is related to our topic.Because of these kind of incidents,events only, people are disturbing themselves and forming religious intolerance and hatredness.In other times all Indians are good.Basically indian people are soft in nature.All religious people in india are too good.But still I don’t like indians in one way.That is eventhough Indians are well educated from freedom onwards,eventhough they are able to think on anything,any issue,eventhough they are able to create wonders in software field across the world,even though they are capable of to achieve many more things, some portion of indians are easily being disturbed religiously at the time of conflicts what i mentioned above. Even though most of the Indians are well educated they are still encouraging religious stuff.It means their education is not helping much to live as a human being.Still they are trying to live as a Hindu,as a Muslim,as a christian etc..What a shame it is?We can’t find this extreme odd behaviour in other developed countries.Indian female should not be the cause for the carriers of orthodox religious stuff to future generations.It’s too awkward.
I will find my own life partner in any religion.I will grow my chidren as good citizens who will not trouble other people religiously.
I don’t care this religious stuff.I don’t have any issue on religion as I don’t care it.I respect and love my partener and whatever the way she asks me I will marry her in that way as I love to love and respect my partner.
Shyam (Muslim),
Excellent, excellent, excellent. Superb message. Wish Times of India publishes this, try!
We wish all Indian carry the same feeling of respect and love for each other.
What other Muslims think of Shyam-Muslim’s message? Do you think he is a true Muslim?
Unfortunately the imams, priests and pundits will go out of business if every one start thinking like you. For Islamic Nikaah, a Hindu must convert by shahadah. There is no single imam will perform Nikaah without the shahadah conversion, no a single one in this world!!! Why? The Catholic church will not perform a wedding without a prenuptial agreement that children will be baptized and raised only Christians. We do not understand this CONVERSION BUSINESS IN LOVE, DO YOU?
As I am busy now a days,I will post my comments after some time
Hello all,
India is having 120 crores of population.ya,everyone has his/her own view,opinion on every matter.Here the point is:because of so many religions,castes in inia,it is declared as secular state to let the people peacefully.I don’t have any issues with any religion or caste.The core problem is with the people from all the religions.Not all,but some people seem intolerant of other people,other religions.That’s why they spend their time,effort,energy,knowledge to contradict,oppose,deny the other religions’ people.90% of people are good and they live peacefully keeping good relationships with other people.The problem is with this stupid 10% of people.They wont let other to live happily.So they inject the so stupid orthodox religion,caste stuff.These people are unnecessary and very harm to society and remaining public.What I mean to say is just live happily and let others live happily just don’t create any nuisance by this useless religion caste stuff.Any religion boy or girl can marry any religion boy or girl.Here the problem is with people but not with religions.So stupid people can be anywhere in hindu,muslim,christian ,sikh,buddist religions etc.. Love is different and religion is different.So choose a right partner whether love or arranged in the same or different religion and live life happily. Stupid partners may be in any religion.So be careful.Don’t blame any religion.People should have tolerance to other religions and other people.Love all the people.Then you will never find any problem in interreligion love marriages.I advice the people to think good and do good.Please don’t spread hatredness,but you spread love.After all we are humans not stones,rocks..So love the mankind.
I don’t know even I’m in love with a guy who’s a Muslim.And he wants me to convert after the marriage, i was ready for this until my father found out that i was dating a Muslim guy.My father has given me everything in my life even things which were not possible.He’s the most important and strongest person in my life.But one day he came to me and just sat in front of me before he could utter a word i saw tears rolling down his cheeks….trust me that was the most painful moment in my life…..i couldn’t believe that he’s talking to me like that….i cried too but went totally against him….started hating myself, my father for being such an orthodox….but soon i realized…it’s not about being an orthodox…it’s about being concerned about your own child who’s been the most precious one throughout your life….I’m not against Muslim or any other religion( i worship all the religions…but yes i am against the way society and relatives can light up the fire in anybody’s family…So after reading all the comments… keeping one thing in my mind that my parents are not so open-minded that they would ignore the heat from society so easily..and just because of this kind of behavior of society i can’t marry him…this makes me sick and tired of this sick society…this will take eternity to change the mind set of people living here….they’ll never grow and never even let others grow…
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hi,m a 23 year old woman and i am in a big dilemma.I am in a relationship with a Muslim guy for the last 6 years. We both love each other a lot n his parents have even accepted me and they too love me. But my parents are not accepting him. And another problem is that am their only daughter. I cant see them sad nor i can stay without my boyfriend. What should i do, i feel so helpless.. please help.
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I can help you pia, just ask him to become a hindu and then he can marry you. Problem solved.
Pia,
You have reached to a right source of information. We will guide you over years. You are 23 years YOUNG woman, do not rush to marry till you are sure what you are getting into. It is better to marry only once!!
His Muslim family loves you and have accepted you, but problem is your Hindu family. This is a common theme all times. However, you have not provided the most critical information. How are you planning to marry? Do you have to have shahadah for your Islamic Nikaah? If you say you will never convert and remain what you are, a Hindu, are they willing to accept you? Please get back to us.
Reply to Pia at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2537
dont ever do that mistake luv ur parents, dont hurt then … dont ever marry a muslim guys … ur life will be spoiled …
Religions are different and love is different.In ancient times ,if they are more orthodox.But now in India,we have many religions.Each muslim have to be with hindu atleast in one way or other like friend or shop keeper ,anything..So religion is not a matter.We pray different gods but it will reach a single person.Why allah may be only god but he has name like jesus or shiva.It depends upon once nature.All religions teach us ethics.Only for teaching ethics and to make us to live good we created religion but now its the main problem…everyone are brothers and sisters.Atleast we youngsters should spread this and we should prove
Just another idealistic stuff.
NEW DELHI: A Delhi court has decided to frame rape charges against a man who married a girl after converting her to Islam without informing his marital status that led to a failed suicide attempt by his new wife.
Additional Sessions Judge T R Naval allowed framing of charges against Jamal Nasir for the offence of rape and also abetment to suicide, concealment of former marriage, fraudulent marriage and cohabitation by inducing a belief of lawful marriage.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/Man-marries-after-converting-girl-to-Islam-charged-with-rape/articleshow/15362855.cms?
Game of conversion.
shivrnas is really one of them orthodox dumbass who thinks by talking shit about other religions….people will respect and like his religion/country more.
we all know muslims have done some messed up stuff….bt can you truely back up your facts that indians-hindu, christian,muslims,sikhs, bhuddist and every other religion in the world is TOTALLY PURE? n NEVER killed a fly?
grow up mayn
Rani you sound more like a typical muslim man who just says irrelevant and idiotic things without knowing what it actually means, just for.sake of saying. Please grow up a little to understand all this. To your- question hindu, christian,sikhs, bhuddist and every other religion in INDIA is TOTALLY PURE? if you compare what muslims do- Yes other religion are Totally Pure. Islam permits killing cow, goat chicken, human, all other religion people dont harm animals and never ever a human, and you ignorant is stuck with flies and insect. You are a classic ignorant, the world is for other religions too- make that clear. And we dont stick with old out dated rules, we question religion too, practices, we have that freedom without fear of death by a religious fanatic.
dEAR M rAJA ,
I think your knwolege is lacking smewhre. I think today no religion left are pure and as u told islam allows killing of animals and man then let me tell you 1 thing it is nt written in muslim hadis to kill humans or mans.
Its an biological life cycle which is going frm early frm our ancestor. science also allow killing of animals becaz its cme in a lifecycle.
bro i think u hve 2 learn humanity nt religions itz out f ur mind so dnt try it
INSHA ALLAH TUMHARE DIMAG ME YE Baat Ghusegi….LOLZ..
Ooh are you saying in quran and hadis hijacking plan and killing non Muslim is written? Then you osama was very islamic educated isnt it? But …bad news kufrs killed him in his own Islamic house and your allah did not protected him. Looks like you are following wrong religion dude, dont blow your self now..:) Be non-muslim save humanity !
@ rani,
I was called much worse.
I just want to inform you that what ever I presented here is written by pious Muslims in their own websites.
For example, when I showed how Islam tags Non-Muslims along with feces, cattle and pigs, I showed it from popular Islamic websites. You yourself can check the links, they are on this page itself.
Similarly, when I showed how hatred and enmity towards Non-Muslims is inherent to being a Muslim and Islamic faith, I simply showed it from what another 3 websites maintained by pious Muslims are saying on this.
These websites are: islamicawakening.com, islamicthinkers.com and islamqa.info.
You yourself can check these if you have strength and courage.
History does not tell a lie. It’s hard to believe that 1000 years ago the Indian subcontinent was filled with peace and tranquility by the followers of Dharmic religions. Then, Mahmoud of Ghazni, a Afghani Muslim, used the then Hindu city of Multan to stage his invasion of India. The great Hindu temple of Somnath was destroyed, the Babri Masjid was built on Rama’s birthplance, and many of Varanasi’s great temples were replaced by mosques. Mahmoud was one of the many Islamic plunderers that caused havoc to India. 1/4 of all Hindus were tortured, beaten, highly taxed, forced to convert, and/or killed. The current Muslims of Pakistan and Bangladesh were subject to those atrocities. Hindus and Muslims, we were all once brothers and sisters, but what happen???? MUSLIM PLUNDERERS FROM ARABIA!!! They believed in nothing but violence. Why couldn’t Allah and his followers have stayed in Arabia and left the Hindus of India alone??
Hello,
If a Hindu girl is in love with a muslim boy and she is asking for advice why all this shit you are giving to her?
Why all the history required in this context.Leave everything and correct your minds. To marriage and to love this so called stuff is not necessary.All religions and castes are not necessary for love.Love should not care this shit(religions and castes).Anyone can marry anyone as long as love is pure and true.The junk religions and castes are only for human beings and not for any species in this world.
Don’t care anything except true love.Give value to human beings.All are same.Forget religions and castes.All Humans are of same family.If you can’t understand this,then your minds are polluted.I dont care them.
if love is the reason of marriage with a muslim boy always ask him to convert to your religion to test his love because muslims mostly marry eomen of other religion to convert them to islam not for love…but girls please give respect to your parents and culture.
Another classic example of Ignorant, who can pass a judgment about every Muslim.
@ Indian,
Really.
Read this and then talk:
http://knowing-islamic-doctrines.blogspot.in/2012/05/hatred-of-islam-and-muslims-then-what.html
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/Doctor-ends-her-life/articleshow/12843494.cms?intenttarget=no
A tragic case.
srinivas- please stop spreading hatred…noticed your anti-islam comments in almost every article. do you get some kind of satisfaction when you speak ill of islam and muslims? i believe you have lot of hatred in you. actually speaking its because of people like yourself in every religion be it hinduism christianity islam, or whatever religion you belong to, the people on earth have problem in peaceful co existence.
in your comment you talk about mutual respect.. in what way are you respecting muslims and their belief? try to see within before you point fingers at others.. grow up…you are causing damage… not a very responsible thing to do..and when you speak of mohammed s.a.w please get your facts right. you come across as an ignorant to people like me who know what the real deal is.
dont make yourself look like block!
Peace…,., your mind needs it!
@ zareen,
I am causing hatred?
It is Koran which teaches hatred and enmity towards Non-Muslims as part of their Islamic faith.
Grow up, boy/girl.
No my dear sister
Islam doesn’t spread any evil or hatred or enmity it us as people do.
Religion just gets the blame, for us as humans are ill mannered.
Islam is light noor blessing for the mankind.
However those who do wrong are wrong. It is not the religion but the people.
So you my sister grows up study the Islam properly before you judge or make statement.
I see you bigotry when you said Islam is light to mankind.
I suggest you read about your Islam and then tell others.
You want to debate me, I think you know the place.
@Zareen….you are right sister
@Srinivas…….how much do you really know about Islam…It seems that you have read some articles from Anti-Islamic websites and think you know about it.
Let me ask you about your beliefs….do you have any beliefs or it just keep changing with times.
I can proudly say that I am a muslim and will defend it…cos it is the truth and worth defending the truth.
@ Indian
How much I know about Islam?
Try me. you will find out. You can bring a scholar.
Instead of discussing whether what I said is right or wrong, why indulge in rhetoric?
I gave you a link and you could not say a single thing and or show a wrong thing.
Typical Muslim attitude.
Srinivas,
Please take a look at Shia Islam. It is all about love. Read the book “The two faces of Islam”. Read about Hazrath Ali, you will get the picture of what true islam is about.
@ Shaheen
Shia Islam !! Good. We just have to look at Iran and what it does in persecuting Christians and Parsis.
It routinely arrests Muslims who converted to Christianity. It even sentenced a Muslim to death because he converted to Christianity and became a pastor.
Shia Islam talking about love ?
Again, lets see what an Islamic website says on this love when it comes to Non-Muslims (Kafirs) ! It literally tags Non-Muslims along with feces, dogs and pigs etc.
http://www.al-islam.org/ritualandspiritual/2.htm
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“Najasat” (pl. najasat) means uncleanliness, impurity.
In Islamic laws, the najasat is of two types: inherent and acquired. To differentiate between the two, a thing which is inherently unclean is known as “`ayn najis,” whereas a thing whose uncleanliness is acquired is known as “najis”. A pure thing acquires impurity by coming into contact with one of the `ayn najis. For example: blood is considered an `ayn najis, whereas milk is considered pure. Now, if a drop of blood falls into a glass of milk, the milk will become najis because of the blood which is an `ayn najis.
The plural of `ayn najis is “a`yan najisah.”
“Taharat” is opposite of “najasat,” it means cleanliness and purity.
“Tahir” is opposite of “najis,” it means a thing which is clean and pure.
B. THE A`YAN NAJISAH
(THE INHERENTLY UNCLEAN THINGS)
According to the Islamic laws, the a`yan najisah are nine in number. The nine a`yan najisah can be divided into four groups as follows:
i. Common between Men & Animal:
1. urine;
2. stool;
3. semen;
4. blood;
5. corpses;
ii. In Animals only:
6. dogs;
7. pigs;
iii. In Man only:
8. kafir;
iv. Drinks:
9. intoxicating liquids.
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@ Shaheen
Another very prominent Shi’te scholar with respect to Non-Muslims:
http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=251364&id=48&pid=2132
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107. An infidel i.e. a person who does not believe in Allah and His Oneness, is najis. Similarly, Ghulat who believe in any of the holy twelve Imams as God, or that they are incarnations of God, and Khawarij and Nawasib who express enmity towards th e holy Imams, are also najis. And similar is the case of those who deny Prophethood, or any of the necessary laws of Islam, like, namaz and fasting, which are believed by the Muslims as a part of Islam, and which they also know as such.
As regards the people of the Book (i.e. the Jews and the Christians) who do not accept the Prophethood of Prophet Muhammad bin Abdullah (Peace be upon him and his progeny), they are commonly considered najis, but it is not improbable that they are Pak. Ho wever, it is better to avoid them.
108. The entire body of a Kafir, including his hair and nails, and all liquid substances of his body, are najis.
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So much for love, huh !! Shaheen….
Srinivas sir- a sincere thanks to you for all the time and energy for giving these retards giving taste of there on medicine. Each and every word you said is right, you have not only opened Hindus,Christians,skihs,jains etc eyes, but also showed how racist islam is, hats off to you. Fundamental truth that even I have learned about muslims in india( partially true of other muslims) is these muslim compare their religion with ours and talk nonsense just to” save the world” not realizing that they are infact ” destroying the world” by not keeping their faith to themselves. These muslims cant live happily within themselves too thats why they start to immigrate to other western countries, they deliberately do not immigrate to muslim country because they are considered 3rd grade muslims and have fear of there girls much more than western countries. Western world under the name of equality do not realize what these guys do, violent Islam crime, honor killing, demand sharia islamic law, convert innocent girls by rape, kidnap, sell drugs and what not, these muslims “own” criminal network in many country, but other muslims will not say a word on it. Finally all this till world converts to islam, i pray that day never comes, and all muslims convert to Judaism.
God save the world from islam.
u mentally retarded fellow.go to mental asyllum
Hindu girls !
I am not a Hindu.
But I can say that Hindu girls do get lot of freedom from parents. I equally accept that they do not get complete freedom in choosing their life partners. I hope it changes slowly.
Why do girls have to make such decisions? You are born in to Hindu culture. It is equally your responsibility to nurture this civilization which faced massive onslaught from Islamic imperialism.
The history we studied is sanitized. Here the point is not past but future.
As I said Islam is imperialism, this is lesser word to describe, it always wants to climb on to other cultures. It can never co-exist with others on mutual respect and equal terms. It wants to dominate. With this, every rule in Islam is designed to make this domination real.
So, I suggest to Hindu girls, know a bit about Islam before you jump. Do not be fooled by Bollywood. We all have a stake in future which should be free and secular; right now Islam has become the greatest threat to freedom and peace.
If educated girls just go away like that, I am not sure how Hindu civilization will sustain itself.
If any one wants to discuss with me on this, they are most welcome.
Srinivas,
A man who has no faith neither he is a hindu nor a muslim or any other faith. Which means that he has no belief. I would just like to ask what are you doing here…..remember this is interfaith site….people who have faith. If you dont have faith then rather join some atheist website as there are plenty available.
Wow! Well said, brother.
I was born into a practicing Hindu family and was raised in the U.S. I grew up spending mass amounts of time at the temple and found many parts of the religion beautiful. Today, I am not really a practicing Hindu but expect that I will become slightly more religious as I’m older. I have avoided dating outside of my religion my entire life due to respecting my parent’s wishes as well as what you have outlined above however after dating many Hindu guys, I was not able to find someone suited for myself. It has now been 2 years since I started seeing my best friend from H.S. who comes from a Muslim background. He himself is not religious and we share equal views (be a good person and good things shall follow). We are both, kind generous and charitable. His mother is the only practicing member of the household and his parents are very accepting of our relationship. However, I know that this news will break my father’s heart but I truly believe I am making the right decision to marry my bf and would love if they could partake in my life’s decision. I believe that my parents were raised around others who were taught everything you have outlined above and so I don’t blame them for their opinion but wish that they would realize that one GOD has created each human being, and we should all coexist. I am extremely against the Islamic definition of marriage (accepting Allah as the almighty). Marriage is a sacred union of hearts and minds. Nothing about this ceremony should be forced. I was willing to do a nikkah if his parents would like us to however Islam will not recognize it as a true marriage since I will not convert so I don’t believe this will happen. My bf agrees to do the Hindu ceremony. In terms of our children, since neither I or him attend the temple or mosque I don’t believe this will be an issue however I would like to make them aware of not just these two but ALL religions and practice as they wish. If I choose to go to the mandir later in life, I will also take them with me sometimes to give them the experience. Can you please share any unbiased opinion and advice including topics of children, marriage ceremony, etc?
Reply to Puja at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=4628
Divorce happens with all faiths. Muslim men are not to marry anyone other than believing Christian, Jewish or Muslim women. That means Hindu’s are out of the picture. Obviously the parents may have been open minded but got heat from relatives or society (without you knowing) that what their son did by marrying you, (a Hindu was very wrong in Islam) and you received the brunt of this upset.
It was bad parenting from the parents and bad decision making from him as he is the leader of the home when you were married.
I think what happened with you is an example of what can happen too often when Muslims are not following the rules to the, “T” and rather follow their hearts desires and whims. Divorce is painful. Your advice is truthful and a reality of what should be well understood but as the heart is the leader rather than the mind so is the outcome.
In most societies we never hear of the Muslim marrying other faiths, but I guess with the spread of Islam in India this is the result of Islam growing rapidly in an area where it was once predominately Hindu or Buddest.
cheap muslim convert – follower of rapist, terrorist, mass murderer, enslaver, looter Muhammed ….
Yeah, in Muslim societies, they just kidnap infidel girls.
Dear Roma,
“A Hindu girl cannot live with a Muslim boy” or vice versa, is a harsh statement and too generalized. A lot of my family members are married to Hindus and ironically the ones who are divorced were married to Muslims.
The upper class Indians, whether Hindus or Muslms have a similar life style. They are not entrenched in dogmatic beliefs and are accepting of others. Therefore an interfaith marriage has much higher odds of working out among them.
You have suffered, and hopefully, you will meet someone who will love you for who you are.
WELL SAID, SEEMA