A Muslim Girl: My Boyfriend is a Hindu…….Rahul or Javed?

Shamim (Muslimah wants to marry Hindu) says: April 25, 2012 at 1:24 am

Salam,
Shamim here i m in difficult situation. My boyfriend is a hindu. My parents dont like he talking to me. Actually its high time and they are forcing me to marry a guy in my area, javed. I’m crying day and night. I just want to marry Rahul and spend my life with him. But no one from my family is supporting me for marriage with him, due to his religion, i dont want him to change. My dad has given me warning to stop seeing Rahul. Its 1 week that i saw him, i cant think anything else now. I m educated, i love my parents, but I cant stand their torture anymore for marriage to javed, i will run away or die one day, i dont know. Rahul is earning. His family is nice and he will take care of me. What should i do? i have very less time, i dont want to leave him.

Seema Maheshwari replied: April 25, 2012 at 5:56 pm

Shamim. no one should ask you to leave your parents. On the other hand, if you are an educated adult, no one should be able to force you to marry anyone.
What about the boys parents? Will they help you and support you?

Admin replied: April 26, 2012 at 11:45 PM

Shamim, You are in a very difficult situation. As you know, in Islam, rules are very strict for girls vs. for boys.

You may be wondering why people (or God?) created all these religions making young people’s life difficult? Why one God is more important than the other God? Why humanity is a low priority but what is written in some books thousands of years before is more important? Why we cannot take the best from two religious scriptures and enjoy the interfaith married life with equality? Why the person you marry to is of less importance than the religion of that person? …..well, these are all theoretical questions and today you will have to deal with practicality.

You may be hoping that you will have your Hindu-Muslim marriage with equality like Salman, Seema and Shah Rukh Khan. However, for that, you (or your bf) have to be financially independent and/or your parents have to have courage to go against the Islamic dogma.

You have made a very rational point by saying, “i don’t want him to change (his religion).” However, in faith there is less rationality and more belief system imposed on us. Unfortunately, religious conversion of a Hindu is the only option the Koran?, most Muslims and probably your parents will recommend you (a Muslim girl) to take. It is possible that they may ask you to tell Rahul to take Shahadah oaths and convert to Islam, change his Rahul name to an Arabic name, have a circumcision, ask him not to pray anymore to his Hindu gods but to Allah only, not visit his Hindu temples any more but only to Mosques, slowly get away from his parents and mingle more with Muslims, raise children with Islamic teachings only and ultimately he has to become a true Muslim (even Javed may not be!!!) if he wants to marry you. You have to make a difficult choice: what is fair to do? or what is good for Islam?

As an adult, unless you are in some Islamic countries, you have legal rights to marry who ever you wish. Do not marry to someone unless you like him. For Javed, tell him you are not ready to marry now. Tell your parents that you want to go for a higher education. Buy some time to think through what is best for you. Get into rational discussion with your parents to convince them and see how it goes. Best wishes.

Shamim says: April 27, 2012 at 7:42 am

Hi,

I dont want to change his religion. And i m going to try to make my family understand Rahul better. The problem is they only focus in their religion, even when majority of my dad’s business comes from hindus, he has several hindu friends etc.


Unfortunately I will have to run away for marrying Rahul, i heard there are legal trouble as well, is it true?


Admin says: April 27, 2012 at 8:38 pm

Shamim, 

First, you should know yourself by reevaluating your faith. Who is the God? Is Allah the only God as described in the Koran? Who are Jesus, Krishna, Mahavir and Buddha……idols? Do you believe in the Judgment Day? Do you know that it is sin to marry a non-Muslim, especially an idol-worshiper Hindu? How many of Koranic statements are applicable to Rahul and his family? As one ages, one becomes more religious; do you think you may ever change like Dee’s wife? Soon other Muslims will guide you on this post for what are right things for you to do as a Muslim girl. Read that critically to help you make an “informed” decision.

Instead of “run-away,” consider these: 1) In general, you cannot find a solution to complex marriage issues in a few days. A more thought out decision will be better for you in a long run, 2) you are educated and intelligent. You should be able to argue with your parents rationally. Ask them…. are they “true” Muslims? Are they doing their namaz five times a day and literally following every word mentioned in the Koran? Ask them to preach only what they follow, 3) your parents love you; listen to their concerns. Give them (and you) a chance to realize reality. It may take some time, may be months or years. Normally they won’t mind considering your request, but they have to save their face from the Muslim community, 4) go meet your dad’s Hindu friends. Don’t tell them your current situation but mentioned them that some day you may need their help to talk to your dad. Find others in your Muslim community like brother Rauf, and ask them to talk to your dad, and 5) exercise the run-away option only if your parents are forcing you (that is against the law) to marry to someone against your wishes.

Run-away could bring legal issues, so you have to think of it carefully and take that option only as a last resort. Lets hope someone with legal knowledge (we assume you are in India) will guide you here. However, a layman could think like this…if you run-away, your dad could report to police and get Rahul arrested for abducting and holding you against your wishes. However, Rahul’s lawyer could use your communication on this web site as a proof that your dad’s claim is illegitimate.

Are you considering to run-away to immediately get married? If you are thinking of a Hindu marriage ceremony, it may not be a valid marriage because you are a Muslim. If you want a Muslim Nikaah ceremony, Rahul has to convert by Shahadah before the Nikaah. Best option for you will be to marry by the Indian Special Marriage Act, 1954 (and in addition you could have other religious ceremonies, if you wish). Keep us posted for updates.

Shamim Says: May 7, 2012 8:22 pm

Salam Indian brother, I dont agree with you. I believe in allah, and i also believe in existence of other gods as well. Just because i love a guy who is non muslim you think i have no faith? I am sorry to say you are of same thinking as that of my father. Tell me a concrete reason why i should not marry Rahul, have you met him? And what you mean by this site being anti-muslim? When i saw the case of Zoya, she is Jain-Hindu and loves a muslim boy, you did not told anything? This narrow minded mentality which my father has is what i dont like. I love Rahul, because he will keep me happy and let me practice my religion, i will be working too. My allah has no problem but you half muslim-half narrow minded muslim have.

Shamim Says: May 17, 2012, 7:31 pm

Hi Srinivas, I dont think Muslims attack hindus for marrying Muslim girls. Its only those Muslim who feel inferiority complex (like the user Indian, who comments threatens hindus, he does not represent muslims, he is even scared to say his name). I m educated muslim girl and i know about allah and humanity. why cant muslim girls fall in love with hindu boy (if you quote say its prohibited in islam, it WAS prohibited that rule was only valid within a context. i dont need anyone’s interpretation to explain it), why only girls suffer all the rules, muslim boys have hindu girlfriend. That is banned too in islam but no one (user Indian) talks qurans lessons then, Only when we muslim girls love a human being all the hell breaks loose. I hate people like user Indian who only mis represent islam, he wants everyone convert to islam else you are a fool, he is narrow-minded person. I dont want to get married to a driver or an electrician etc I love Rahul, he loves me so much he accepts me as a muslim and i have made it clear that i would not convert to hinduism, even though i respect it just like Islam and that’s all i want. For rahul i will do everything if my family hurts him i will be with Rahul and seek police help.

Shamim says: May 28, 2012, 7:27 am
Shamim here, We are going to apply for marriage under special marriage act this weekend. Thanks all for your support and guidance.

Shamim says: June 9, 2012 12:15 pm

Salam All,

By grace of Allah Im married to Rahul now, I cannot tell how happy I m. There is nothing that comes in between our love, i pray and Rahul prays with me.

We are yet to decide were we live, I m still at my home and he is in his.
We have not yet told anyone about the marriage. I m waiting for a good moment to tell father and mom.

I see so many discussions on this site on hindu and muslim marriage, I just want to say that some fundamentalists want everyone to convert to Islam, but they dont know islam cant be forced, its in quran.

But I have seen my parents bias opinions on muslim women marriage vs muslim boys (they are given much freedom, which its against islam). What I see is lack of love for different religion & culture in their circle, which is usually like being with only muslims, no diversity. I hope that changes and peace comes to all of us. -Shamim.

Shamim says: on September 24, 2012 at 7:34 am

Hi everybody,

Ever since I am married with Rahul, fortune appears to be changing dramatically for good. Both of us have got a good job in a MNC and soon shall be going to Singapore. Another most exciting event of my life, that I am pregnant now. Vow what a pleasant surprise. My parents have agreed, no problem now, reality has been accepted. -Shamim.

Also read: Kajol, Aamir, Kareena&Saif, Vicky, 45.1% of Muslim girls marry non-Muslims, Islamic Women Today, Hindu-Muslim marriages, Hindu girl, Muslim girl, Hindu boy, Muslim boy,

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468 Responses to “A Muslim Girl: My Boyfriend is a Hindu…….Rahul or Javed?”

  1. Satyen says:

    The incarnations such as Shri Ram, Shir Krishna or Mata Lakshmi, Mata Durga etc. are the various manifestations of the same God known by various names such as Eshwar, Ohm and so forth. Many Muslims also believe in the same God and call him/her Allah but believe in various fake Gods as well apart from the God. Examples of the fake Gods (many Muslims mention) are Shaitan and many idols the Muslims see and are scared of. The whole history is a witness of Muslims demolishing the house of these fake Gods. Their energy is channelised in the destruction of the fake Gods. You just read their literature and comments on the socializing sites and it’s replete with their hate for the fake Gods. I suggest them not to waste their time to these fake Gods and concentrate on the God Allah only. I think it will help the fake Gods disappear. But history proves, many of the Muslims are the captives of Shaitan (amother fake God) and will just keep on the demolishing work. Another point is many of them keep lying as Shaitan has taught them Taqiya (application of lying to spread Islam is a merit!!).

    With all the above constraints, still I see the light at the end of the sooooo long tunnel.

    Ameen.

    • Muslim says:

      Q: who is Allah?

      Answer: From Al-Quran [112:1-4].

      1. Say, “The truth is that Allah is One.

      2. Allah is Besought of all, needing
      none.

      3. He neither begot anyone, nor was he
      begotten.

      4. And equal to Him has never been
      any one.

  2. An Indian says:

    Hi Common sense guy,

    MY BROTHER
    As He/She Said that their marriage is accepted by their Parents n they r well now, even society also accepted their marriage,
    so what is the fear to show that pics of marriage,

    atleast He/she shud show the Facebook Id of name Shameem, as He/she n partner r well educated they would as definitely FB ids plz show both FB ids.

    My Brother As u said that Muslims did not give freedom to Women then why did most of the women of western countries r converting to ISLAM, most of them r Famous celebrities like Former British Prime Ministers Sister in Law Laurel Booth and a British Generalist Yvonne Ridley Etc who converted to ISLAM because the saw the Real Spiritual Peace in Islam, U can see these link my Brother.

    http://www.guardian.co.uk/politics/2010/oct/24/lauren-booth-converts-to-islam

    http://www.islamicglory.com/en/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=110:taliban-hostage-yvonne-ridley-embrace-islam&catid=5:islam&Itemid=10

    http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x34725_yvonne-ridley-explains-why-she-conv_people

    And the matter of Western Culture, Brother U tell is it permissible in any religion to Rape a women ? No its not.

    then why in every religion some people do that, it is bcoz in every religion all the people will not follow their religion wholly.
    So brother why r u Blaming only muslims not any other religion.

    Brother know very well that HINDU SAINT Swamy Nityananda was doing Sex with Actress Ranjitha, to this Swamy many people used to believe blindly, then why every one said that he is a bad person,
    U can see this link for this.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xm19vU53L4

    and many more hindu Saints have been caught-ed while doing sex with a strange women, every 1 knows that many saints (not every saint) do enjoy with women,

    then y dont u blame Hindu Culture on this ground ?
    n why dont u blame to Hindu Saints Who Just want to enjoy with Women even they r married ????

    Brother This Story is a FAKE one and is posted by a guy who just want create miscreant,

    If U r saying Musims terrorists then What do U say about Western Politics, George Bush etc n Isreal who killed n killing People in innocent people in Iraq n Afganistan n Palestine,

    if u r saying Talibans terrorist then U shud also say George Bush A Terrorist, who ruined many countries,

    But U do not dare to say it seems bcoz every1 scares to say.

    If Talibans really killed in america nearly 2000 people on 09/11 n if they r really terrorist then George Bush n Isreal Govt also shud be TERRORISTS,

    but u people dont want to say it bcoz u fear to them n support to them bcoz u people r enemies of Muslims

  3. Muslim says:

    Bismillaahirrahmaanirraheem.

    Jis tareeqe se Shaitan ne H.Hawwa k zariye se H.Aadam(A.S.) ko behkaya aur dono ko Jannat se nikalwaya wahi tareeqa aaj bhi Shaitan istemal kar raha hai. Isko samajhne k liye read this article and others carefully k kis tareeqe se Shaitan ne Hawwa k paas pahunch kar rone laga tha k wo unka bahut bada well wisher hai aur dhoka dekar Jannat se nikalwa diya aur aaj wo us Jannat se hamesha k liye door karne ki koshish kar raha hai.; click the link below :

    http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=118391901&tid=5670400766141683466

    • Muslim says:

      Ek aham waqia meri zindagi ka 2004 me:-

      Mai ek dafa bus me safar kar raha tha ,ek pandit ji aaye aur mere paas k seat pe baith gaye. introduction aur kuchh baton k baad unhone mujhse poochha k

      Q: Ek baat bataiye k aaplogon me Tasweer, Sharab aur Ghairmahram aurat se parhez hai lekin phir kehte hain k Qabr me Huzoor Sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam ka Chehrah-e-Anwar dikhaya jayega, Jannat me Hoor milegi aur Sharab milega?

      Answer: Maine kaha k aap india me rehte hain. har mulk ka ek Qanun (law) hota hai. Jab aap us mulk k qanun ko todte hain to police aapko pakad ke jail me daal deti hai. ab us jail ka alag rule & regulation hota hai. wahan aapko wahi khana hota, wahi pahanna hota hai aur waise hi rehna sahna hota hai jaisa wahan ka rule hota hai.

      Agar aap us rule ko follow karte huwe apni saza ki muddat ko guzaar liya to aap apne ghar wapas aa jate hain aur phir aap apne hisab se khate, pahante aur rehte sehte hain.

      lekin agar aap ne wahan bhi rule k khilaf kiya to usse badi saza di jati hai aur usse bade jail me daal diya jata hai. lekin phir bhi aap saza ki muddat khatam hone par apne ghar wapas aa jate hain.

      Lekin agar koi government ka baghi ho jaye to kya hota hai? ya to use phansi dedi jati hai ya kisi tarah bhi use qatl kar diya jata hai ya’ani wo apne ghar zindah laut kar nahi aata.

      Isi tarah Insan apne ghar Jannat me rehta tha usse wahan ka rule toota to use is duniya me saza k taur pe dala gaya hai.

      Ab yahan Allah Ta’ala ka kuchh alag rule hai agar ham is rule ko follow karte huwe zindagi guzar lete hain to Inshaa Allah! phir apne ghar Jannat me wapas chale jayenge aur wahan apni manchahi zindagi hogi.Lekin agar yahan bhi rule k khilaf zindagi guzra to Allah Ta’ala jise chahenge ma’af kardenge aur jise chahenge saza k taur pe Jahannam me dalenge. Lekin phir bhi wo kabhi na kabhi Jannat me wapas jayega saza bhugatne k baad.
      Lekin agar koi Allah Ta’ala ka baghi bankar is duniya se jayega to wo Hamesha k liye Jahannam me rahega aur apne ghar Jannat me kabhi wapas nahin jayega.
      Phir unhone poochha
      Q: Jannat aur Jahannam hai iska aapke paas kya proof hai?
      Answer: Pehli baat to ye hai k Hamara Iman hai aur ham baghair kisi proof k Quran aur Allah k Rasool Sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam ki baaton par Iman rakhte hain. Ab samjhane k liye maine unse kaha k ek baat batayen k jab Insan apni Maa k pet me tha aur us waqt Allah Ta’ala kisi tarah se khabar dete ka yahan se tum jis duniya me jane wale ho wahan badi badi buildings, fruits,nadiyan, Gardens, Aeroplanes, women etc. hain to kya aapne ye duniya ki cheezon ko us waqt dekha tha? aur kya aap agar inkar kar dete to ye cheezen is duniya me hain ya nahin?
      To Pandit ji apne agle seat par tek laga k baith gaye aur kuchh der baad kaha k maine aap ko bekar toka kitna achchha aap apne samay ka sadupyog kar rahe the ab to main Asantulit (Unbalanced) ho gaya.Phir kuchh der baad bole ye Mandir me ghanta bajana ghalat hai.

  4. An Indian says:

    THIS IS A FAKE STORY:
    All the brothers who oppose this, know that is a FAKE STORY,
    wen i asked to show their marriage pics in FACEBOOK (FB ids of both which should have old frndz n posts on thr wall) , but he/she did not show PICS n FB id too.
    by this we can know that this story is FAKE STORY n lyed 1,
    he/she manier times said that both r well educated, then they shud hv FB ids, if she is genuine she would have shown us their marriage pics in FB.
    I hope u guys understand well.

  5. Nargis Khan says:

    Muhammad, Azim, etc. writing all nonsense about females here are the real shaitans, of humanity who need to be stonned in public. They are the males who have bad eye on every women for sexual purpose and in public show as the real paigamber. Such persons will have place certainly in hell only. Even in their life time, they will face hell like situation, they should remember.

  6. Imran says:

    I love to read it …. u must marry with ur love…congrts Rahul…plz alwaz keey happy my muslim Bahan…

  7. An Indian says:

    THIS IS A FAKE STORY:
    All the brothers who oppose this, know tht is a FAKE STORY,
    wen i asked to show thr marriage pics in FACEBOOK (FB ids of both which shud hv old frndz n posts on thr wall) , but he/she did not show PICS n FB id too.
    by this we can know tht ths story is FAKE STORY n lyed 1,
    he/she manier times said tht both r well educated, then they shud hv FB ids, if she is genuine she would hv shown us thr marriage pics in FB.
    I hope u guys understand well.

    • common sense guy says:

      Hi an Indian,

      Your method and conclusion is fake, here is why -

      1- show us your sister or mothers picture on fb, someone else will be happy to show theirs.

      2-why do you need to see pictures of her marriage, you are fundamentalists who honor kill muslims girls, may be just by propagating validity of honor kill.

      3- if you cant show your sisters or mothers picture on fb, so that “in your islamic culture ” they are exposed to un related men, how can you expect a girl who after so much trouble married his love to disclose her real identity, usually intelligent people dont do that in online world. May be you are a 8-9 standard punk, talking rubbish here.

      4- @shamim -hi there even though the pic you referred does not appears to be submitted by you, admin-plz clarify. But it depends on you if you want to give this child any attention.

      5- why is that all muslim are seriously cursing shamim, on marrying a hindu? why dont you raise PIL against shahrukh, aamir, saif who married hindu? Are you just picking on common man.

      6- you quoted a brit who converted, That’s fine, why did you not mention that Kuwait’s prince converted to Christianity? And as usual you muslims are giving dearh threats to him. There are many muslims who convert to other religon, why you not strongly oppose that they must NOT be killed( according to your muslim rules).

      7- why dont you mention that , according to islam- anyone who leaves islam, must be killed, its muslims responsibility to ensure no one leaves islam! What kind of dictatorship rule is that? Can you expalin what exactly you allah says for people who leave Islam and why?

      8- you have a serious misconceptions of western culture, if you think that all western women are im moral then why in the world your muslims rape non muslims in west, just because they dont give themselves to you guys. You can check muslim done crimes in UK, just to open eyes of idiots like you. Go and raise your voice now, your muslim brother will butcher you itself.

      9- If you said freedom you said right to have sex before marriage, gay, homosexuals etc. Are you part of one of them, did some gay attack you? Do you understand that west is primarily based on equality which gives equal rights to everyone irrespective of religion and race and orientation. That’s what you misused and killed many americans, British,French, bali,indian etc by way of 9/11, 7/11,26/11, any many terrorist activity muslim do, whe i say you guy, don’t take it personally, its just happns to be done by muslims and are motivated by quran and teachings of it, which even you are hence the reference.

      10-What did muslims do to hindus and Christians in pakistan, a muslim country is not called freedom, muslim group cut hands of a kerela teacher, burn churches, rape Christian and hindu girls with false propsal of marriage( yes unless she becomes muslim). This type of low backward thinking will neverdo good to muslims. So far we all are peaceful because we believe in freedom. We are Christian,Hindu,Sikh,Buddhist,Parsi erc.

      You believe in freedom only to Muslims, once that is achieved then give freedom only to muslim men.

      dont stress your little brain too much, just answer.

      Thanks

  8. Shamim says:

    Hello Mr. so called Indian?

    (i) you are not an indian
    (ii) you are talibani mentality mullah disguised as an Indian
    (iii) our marriage auspicious symbols are already indicated in this blog dated 9th June 2012, Hina designs on the hand,auspicious pot tumbled.
    (iv) we are not member in face book.

    Regarding fake story, because persons of your mentality never want muslim girls happy and cheerful. You want them just sex toys only.
    Dont dare to interfer in my personal matters.

  9. An Indian says:

    Dear SHAMIM
    If you both really have married, then plz show us ur marriage Pics in Facebook,

    To All the Guys who r arguing here:

    This is a Fake story made with fake name,
    It is fake story, like many stories posted on this site ( By wrong names ), wish you good luck.

    If you both really have married, then plz show us ur marriage Pics in Facebook, n Share ur Facebook ID here as ur marriage is accepted by ur Parents den dont Fear, show it here U Educated girl.

    u both r educated n u both would definitely have FB Ids may be since a last yr or two yrs n in that FB Id U both shud have ur old frndz u shud have old Posts, comments on FB Wall.

    Dear SHAMIM if u are really have this kind of Stuff Show us that u r Genuine & u r modern n educated n very Bold plz plz we wud glad to see ur pics with ur so called Boyfrnd (Husband)
    If u really

  10. Muslim says:

    Bismillaahirrahmaanirraheem.

    Allah k Siwa koi aur kisi bhi cheez ka malik nahi. Isliye is khayal se k Allah k Hukm ko tod kar kisi aur ki panah me jaane se Chhutkara mil gaya, ye bewaqoofi hai. kyunke ye duniya Exam hall ki tarah hai. Aakhirat ki Tayyari ki jagah hai. Ek duty di gayi hai jise poora karne ki koshish karni hai.
    Agar kuchh log kisi aise exam hall me Question ka answer likhne me busy ho jahan k liye use sirf ek baar hi entry mil sakti hai aur wo uski carrier banne aur bigadne ka aakhiri mauqa ho, wahan par na to use khane ki fikar hai aur na Music Dance aur ‘Aish aur ishrat ki balke wo isliye baith kar Answer likh raha hai k ye exam achhe se pass karlen phir poori life settle ho jayegi aur ‘Aish hi ‘Aish hai. To wo Inshaa Allah kamiyab hoga aur ‘Aisho Ishrat ki zindagi guzarega.

    Lekin koi bewaqoof soche k are yaar yahan par to kuchh nahi hai sirf mehnat karna pad raha hai aur sirf jitni der yahan pe rehna hai usi k hisaab se zarurat k saaman hai isse behtar to galiyon aur bazaron itni der sayr karlen Film dekh len club me chale jayen etc. etc. to wahan maza hai… aur yahan exam hall me to inhe kuchh bhi aish ka saaman nahi hai.

    To zara aap hi sochen k wo exam hall me baith kar Question ka answer likhne wala Inshaa Allah ‘Aqalmand aur kamiyab hoga na k utni der ‘aish karne wala aur Question ka answer na likhne wala.

    Ye zindagi Insaan k liye First and Last chance hai Allah ki maan kar hamesha hamesha ki Jannat me dakhil ho kar ‘aish karte rehne ki ya Allah ko na maan kar hamesha hamesha ke liye Jahannam ki saza bhugatne ki jahan maut bhi na aayegi aur jiski Aag Kali aag hai.

    aur rahi baat is duniya k ‘aish ki to ye Allah apne maanne walon ko bhi dete hain aur na maanne walon ko bhi ya’ani jise chahte hain dete hain. aur ye duniya ki ‘aish ka koi bharosa nahi kab kisi se chhin kar kisi aur ko dedi jaye aur aisa na bhi ho to Maut phir bhi ek na ek din juda kar hi deti hai. aur Maut ka waqt pata nahin kiski kab aa jaye, kuchh seconds me, kuchh minute me, kuchh ghante me, kuchh dino me, ……….kuchh Saalon me. phir uske baad to Maut se shuru ho jaata hai.

    Jannat aisi jagah hai jahan na koi gham hoga na koi afsos siwaye us ghadi k jo Allah k zikr k baghair is duniya me guzara hoga k khwahish hogi k agar us waqt ko bhi Allah k Zikr me guzarte to aur zyadah Nemat milti.

    Jannat me har khwahish poori hogi.

    Aur agar poori makhlooq milkar Allah ki nafarmani kare to Allah k SHAAN me zarrah barabar koi kami nahi aayegi aur agar poori makhlooq milkar Allah ki Farmabardari karen to bhi ALLAH ki SHAAN me zarrah barabar badhotri nahin kar sakte.

    ALLAH sabse beniyaz hai.

    Agar koi Allah ka farmabardar hai to use Allah ka shukr ada karni chahiye k Allah ne use apne Guest house me aane k raaste par chala diya aur apne Qaidkhane JAHANNAM k raaste se bacha liye. warna ye aaj ki ladkiyan to kya Allah ne chaha to kayi NABIYON ki Biwiyon ko hidayat nahin di aur unhe JAHANNAMI Bana diya jaise Hazrat Nooh(A.S.) ki biwi aur beta aur Hazrat Lut(A.S.) ki Biwi.

    Allah Ta’ala jise chahte hain hidayat dete hain aur apne guest house k raaste pe chala dete hain aur jise chahte hain use gumrah kar dete hain aur jise Allah gumrah karde use kaun hai jo hidayat de sake.

    Allah ka shukr hai k main Musalmanon me se hun. Allah Ta’ala hamen Siraat-e-Mustaqeem par chalaye un logon k raaste par jin par In’aam Farmaya na k un logon k raaste par Jo log gumraah huwe aur un par Allah ka ghazab naazil huwa. Aameen.

    • one says:

      Whatever you wrote for 10 hours just doesn’t makes any sense in this shamim story, now she will be mother soon, give her good wishes not death threat. One thing i noticed every muslim only write bad about a muslim girl who just wanted to marry her love. One side you say girls are given all the freedom than other religion. Then you say she is an idiot, doesn’t she has right to live?

    • Muslim says:

      Qiyamat ki Nishaniyan (Signs of Qiyamah)

      Is topic ko zarur achchhi tarah se padhen aur sochen jo k Bahishti Zewar Urdu k (Part-7, page no. 398) pe hai )

      Duniya me jo aajkal waqi’aat ho rahe hain jaise k Earthquakes, Storms, Floods, what to happen in Syriya (with country name and Ruler’s progeny),Christian’s control over countries, etc. etc. are mentioned there.

    • An Indian says:

      To All the Guys who r arguing here:
      If you both really have married, then plz show us ur marriage Pics in Facebook,

      This is a Fake story made with fake name,
      It is fake story, like many stories posted on this site ( By wrong names ), wish you good luck.

      If you both really have married, then plz show us ur marriage Pics in Facebook, n Share ur Facebook ID here as ur marriage is accepted by ur Parents den dont Fear, show it here U Educated girl.

      u both r educated n u both would definitely have FB Ids may be since a last yr or two yrs n in that FB Id U both shud have ur old frndz u shud have old Posts, comments on FB Wall.

      Dear SHAMIM if u are really have this kind of Stuff Show us that u r Genuine & u r modern n educated n very Bold plz plz we wud glad to see ur pics with ur so called Boyfrnd (Husband)
      If u really

    • An Indian says:

      THIS IS A FAKE STORY:
      All the brothers who oppose this, know tht is a FAKE STORY,
      wen i asked to show thr marriage pics in FACEBOOK (FB ids of both which shud hv old frndz n posts on thr wall) , but he/she did not show PICS n FB id too.
      by this we can know tht ths story is FAKE STORY n lyed 1,
      he/she manier times said tht both r well educated, then they shud hv FB ids, if she is genuine she would hv shown us thr marriage pics in FB.
      I hope u guys understand well.

      • admin says:

        Seems that the truth is too bitter for you to swallow, you have not proved any thing.

        Even she shows a Facebook account, you will say how to prove it is a true photo and name? Any one could easily fake the FB. Even she puts her passport photo on this web site, you will say where did you stole this passport from?

        Bottom line, if you like it or not, a large percent of educated and independent Muslim women are selecting a life mate out side their faith. Why?

        • Muslim says:

          Q: what is the reason behind the incidents in which a muslim (man or woman) by name only, get married with a non muslim?

          Answer: This is a type of punishment from Allah SubHanahoo wa Ta’ala as mentioned below:-

          3. A man who is fornicator does not (like to) marry but a woman who is a fornicator or a polytheist; and a woman who is a fornicator does not (like to) marry but a man who is a fornicator or a polytheist. And this (i.e. preferring to marry such spouses) has been prohibited for the believers. [Al-Quraan,24:03].

          • admin says:

            Answer: One reason is they are educated and independent. They have their own mind and own way of interpreting something written in a book. Osama Bin Laden will interpret it one way, while Shamim will interpret it a different way (read http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=1438&cpage=1#comment-27668).

            Q1: Do you believe that Hindu are idolators, non-believer in Allah and Islam?
            Q2: Are you following Koran literally?
            Q3: If both answers are yes, then did you followed this commandment?….. “9:5 When the sacred months (like Muharram) are over kill the idolaters whenever you find them. Arrest them, besiege them, and lie in ambush everywhere for them.” HOW MANY HINDUS DID YOU KILLED THIS YEAR?

    • Muslim says:

      Q. Why a muslim man cannot marry a non muslim woman or a muslim woman cannot marry a non muslim man?

      Answer:

      221. Do not marry the polytheist women, unless they come to believe (in Islam); a Muslim slave-girl is better than a polytheist woman, even though she may attract you; and do not give (your women) in marriage to polytheist men, unless they come to believe; a Muslim slave is better than a polytheist, even though he may attract you. They invite to the Fire when Allah invites, by His will, to Paradise, and to forgiveness. He makes His verses clear to the people, so that they may heed the advice. [Al-Quraan, 2:221].

      Q: what is the reason behind the incidents in which a muslim (man or woman) by name only, get married with a non muslim?

      Answer: This is a type of punishment from Allah SubHanahoo wa Ta’ala as mentioned below:-

      3. A man who is fornicator does not (like to) marry but a woman who is a fornicator or a polytheist; and a woman who is a fornicator does not (like to) marry but a man who is a fornicator or a polytheist. And this (i.e. preferring to marry such spouses) has been prohibited for the believers. [Al-Quraan,24:03].

      • admin says:

        You may like it or not, educated and independent ladies like to live THIS life (and AFTER life, if be there!).

        • Muslim says:

          @admin

          “9:5 When the sacred months (like Muharram) are over kill the idolaters whenever you find them. Arrest them, besiege them, and lie in ambush everywhere for them.” HOW MANY HINDUS DID YOU KILLED THIS YEAR?

          Dear admin I request you that please read some verses before and after the verse you have quoted to understand in which context it is.

          Also read:

          [9:13]. Would you not fight a people who
          broke their oaths and conspired to
          expel the Messenger, and it was they
          who started (fighting) against you for
          the first time? Do you fear them? But
          Allah has greater right that you fear
          Him, if you are believers.

          Q: Does Quran say to torture or kill all the disbelievers?

          Answer: 8. Allah does not forbid you as regards
          those who did not fight you on account
          of faith, and did not expel you from
          your homes, that you do good to them,
          and deal justly with them. Surely
          Allah loves those who maintain
          justice.

          9. Allah forbids you only about those
          who fought you on account of faith,
          and expelled you from your homes,
          and helped (others) in expelling you,
          that you have friendship with them.
          Those who develop friendship with
          them are the wrongdoers.

          ………..Hope you understand now.

          • Muslim says:

            Last verses 8 and 9 are from chapter no 60 i.e. [60:8-9]

            8. Allah does not forbid you as regards
            those who did not fight you on account
            of faith, and did not expel you from
            your homes, that you do good to them,
            and deal justly with them. Surely
            Allah loves those who maintain
            justice.

            9. Allah forbids you only about those
            who fought you on account of faith,
            and expelled you from your homes,
            and helped (others) in expelling you,
            that you have friendship with them.
            Those who develop friendship with
            them are the wrongdoers.

  11. Fatima says:

    Hi Shamim,
    God bless you always. Let Amir, Ali Hasan and others, say, who have mentality of Talibani terrorists trying to misguide and mislead our women since ages for their selfish gains. They try to scare about hell and socalled punishment after this life. Why there is no punishment to the males like Amir, Ali Hasan, Masood and islamic Maulvies, who have committed millions of sins of female community cannot be spared by Allah at any cost. If there is hell, really they need to be boiled in hot water, so that their skin is pealed off. They are involved in sex with different women, keeping their wives and sisters in house prison. They are not human but shaitan on this earth, treating women folk just sex dolls. I am sure that they are not happy in their own family life and leading a very miserable life.

    Remember that God helps those who help themselves. Shaitan like Amir, Ali Hansan, Masood will be appearing in this earth from time to time who needs to be kicked, as soon as they appear to cause damage to women community.

    • Amir says:

      Don’t get angry and tell what problem you have come across that make you so disturbed?

    • ali hasan says:

      beware al all all all. .
      Hey, shamim
      the Rss group is in hinduism. That group is always against of islam(our muslims peoples) they have knowledge about islam.why they learned? Because of mind wash.

      OUR MUSLIM GIRLS LISTEN;
      Don.t upload your mail address in that box. Always safety, because that RSS group ill convert into saithan path.don.t argument with this shamim.we don.t know she or he. Told true or lied.never mind about this girl. Allah said and his messenger said don.t lose your islamic mind.

      Hey mind it all.
      If we got 1000of peoples revert to islam. Allah ill check us with these types of a shamim user ill converted to hinduism.

      Hey all. Just read 4;77 and 67;2. this saithan is trying to convert your mind into saithan path. So be care0full
      And ask duah for me. Don.t believe and don.t involve this matter. Leave her or him fake

  12. Ali hasan says:

    hey joys . . . we should see god if you lived good. When you enter heaven. You ill see. Allah hav a pic but we don.t know his pic. He never drink water or eat food.we are everything expecting from allah ,but, he expecting form us only one thing- that is prayer. We have a lot of miracles fro holy quran. If you want,s to know you can search on internet

  13. Ali hasan says:

    and all girls don’t get this shamim girl as role model. Because, you may be in hell. and shamin watch jahir naiz speech on net. Or on tv program. Allah ill show as right path

  14. Ali hasan says:

    samim. You should understand, what is islam and who is our prophet. And what quran say about our prophet. if you believe you should accept. allah said in quran, follow mhmd rashool s.a.w’s way. Our prophet said. If muslim girl liked other religious boy then you should change him to muslim, then you can marry him (-hadeez.) Does’nt matter. Don’t expecting this world only. what did you do for allah and what ill you do for him? Read quran 4:77, and should read 67;2, allah testing all and especially you. If your rahul became a muslim. That’s fine. Otherwise, do’t forgot our muslims activites. We have real life after dead. if you believe that, yo ill go to right path. don.t expecting this world life only. i hope you ill change your husband into right religion (that is islam) this is mandatory of us. belief only one god

  15. Shamim says:

    Mr. Amir,
    you have a mentality of talibani terrorists, always showing islamic principles, what about you and your male soiety? Drinking, extra marital affairs are haram in islam, males indulged in such affairs will they not be punished by Allah? Pakistani generals and politicians involved in currupt practices, keeping girls for sex in their harams, why these rules are not applied on them? Gaddafi raping thousands of girls, keeping pretty women in his bed room, are these allowed in islam? Sex with a dead wife, is Allah’s order?

  16. Roshan says:

    Inter-Religious marriage in Islam and Hindu can bring infinite happiness among both countries.Other country are trying to bring the obstacle in our relationship, so that they can enjoy the fight.But we should not forget we are brothers and sisters.We all remember that we had got everything when we ware fighting together against independence.

    I love Rama And Allaha Equally.I like Islam and Indian .

  17. Shamim says:

    Hi everybody,

    Ever since I am married with Rahul, fortune appears to be chaning dramatically. Both of us have got a good job in a MNC and soon shall be going to Singapore. Another most exciting event of my life, that I am pregnant now. Vow what a pleasant surprise. My parents have agreed, no problem now, reality has been accepted.

    • admin says:

      Shamim,
      We are VERY HAPPY for you, best wishes!!!!!!
      Please coming back to update and guide other youths.

    • Amir says:

      It is good to know that you are all-well, If it is not fake story, like many stories posted on this site ( By wrong names ), wish you good luck.
      However, you carry sin of Zinah as Nikah is completed between two muslims only. But pray from God, He is forgiving, merciful.
      But never associate anybody with God (You and your children) and believe in his oneness, as this Sin is biggest, if you associate anybody with God, you will become dis-believer and God may not forgive you.

      Otherwise enjoy your life, and prepare yourself for the eternal life, as this life is test for eternal after-life.
      Try to pass the test as God says in Quran -”Indeed, those who do not expect the meeting with Us and are satisfied with the life of this world and feel secure therein and those who are heedless of Our signs.” (Qur’an, 10:7)

      A hadith says – “This world is a prison for the believer and a paradise for the disbeliever” because a believer has to follow rules that bind him from being shameless, Pleasure-seeker, Cheater.
      Being honest, shameful, kind, forgiving always require to be bounded by rules and principles, whosoever break them may enjoy Pleasure but God is Just and He tests who among us is more obedient and fearful to follow guided path.

      Hope for you to be guided path.

      • admin says:

        Amir,
        Your statement “But never associate anybody with God (You and your children) and believe in his oneness” is very disturbing.

        Here, Shamim is enjoying happiest time of her life and even her Muslim parents have accepted their relationship, while are you trying to create division in their new relationship?

        What do you mean by “you and your children”? Why are you separating them from the rest of family? If Shamim believed that Hindus are idol-worshippers and sinners, why she opted to associate day and night, years and life with a Hindu family? She is a proud Muslim, but she clarified that marriage with a Hindu… “it WAS prohibited that rule was only valid within a context.” Further, she complained that “Only when we muslim girls love a human being all the hell breaks loose.” Why?

        We are glad you are coming to this site instead of listing too much to your favorite Zakir Naik. Here these educated intelligent Muslim girls will enlighten you to be a good human-being. So hand on here!

        • Amir says:

          Sorry dear,
          But Shamim is not a proud muslim but a misguided muslim.
          And if her parent has accepted her , it is because they had no choice, Every parent love their child may be they are wrong-doers.

          Why don’t you directly argue me on true religion on mail.

          Most of the time when i try to comment, my comment is not submitted,
          Your site is a place where people ( by wrong names and fake stories ) try to attract muslims towards Hinduism. And you just think you have succeeded.
          Most of the comment are for insulting muslims by lies and mis-quotes,
          I always try to resolve doubt but hardly say wrong to others, But yours mentality reflect what your religion teaches. Shameless.

          • admin says:

            Can you explain “i try to comment, my comment is not submitted”?

            We do not block any comment. If you wish to write a full post (1-2 pages), please write down all you wish to say and we will make a new post.

            Don’t get discouraged, you seems to be giving it up. We need to give a balanced view to youths in love and appreciate your views.

    • Seema Maheshwari says:

      Shamim, God bless both of you.

    • azim says:

      Shamim! Now get redied yourself to being burned in Jahannam for infinite time.
      LAILAHA ILLALAH MUHAMMEDUR RASULULLAH.

    • Muhammad says:

      I just like to say one thing. You had broken the Allah’s rule. It is clearly told in our religion Islam that Muslim woman cannot marry any one accept Muslim man, and Muslim man can only marry Muslim, Christian or Jews woman. You may be hold by Allah for committing ZINA during the “day of judgment”.

      • suma says:

        ” Muslim woman cannot marry any one accept Muslim man, and Muslim man can only marry Muslim, Christian or Jews woman. You may be hold by Allah for committing ZINA during the “day of judgment”.”
        There you go again, oh my god. So god gives a vast choice to muslim men and a very restricted window to women in choosing spouses. So we can conclude muslim books are written by men with so many diktats in place to keep men happy and women tied to bed rooms and kitchens.Hindus have respected women such a way that they also worship women sacred deities along side men.Hindus also respect animals and propagate ahimsa or non violence.Hindu texts dont preach killing a fellow human all because he belongs to another faith.Ekam sat, bahuda viprah vedanti said Rig Veda. Meaning sat or truth is one (god is one) but paths (religions) are many.Hello Pakistanis stop polluting the youngminds and dont write bad things about hindus in your text books. A hindu can become a muslim but a muslim cannot become a hindu, what kind of devious law is that.

      • admin says:

        Muhammad,
        How did you come to the Judgment TODAY that Shamim “committing ZINA”?? Shamim is a good Muslim and a good human being, and she has her own way of interpreting Koran by saying “it WAS prohibited that rule was only valid within a context.” Let Allah decide it on the Judgment Day if it will be Osama Bin Ladin or Shamim to get the Hell Fire. Why are you deciding for Allah?

  18. Ariki says:

    Hi.,…Am Arun, a Hindu……loved a girl very sincerely,……But, it was all one sided……I proposed her many a times, but she replied only one thing to me…..Am a Muslim, u can’t live with me, am sorry……she said, we ll be just good friends….I said OK..

    Now, she s daily talking with me in phone,….but just as a close friend, nothing else……Am really confused what to do…….I can’t forget her, i love her so much….My heart is telling to propose her once more, but damn sure, she wont talk to me after that…. :-( :-( ..: ( :( ….Don’t know,which stupid created these religions and all……. :-( :’( :’(.

    • admin says:

      Arun, if she wants to be a good friend and willing to talk to you often, what is wrong? What is love mean? Do you mean you want to be physical? Do you want to claim that she is your girl and go out in a garden holding her hand?

      Life is not that simple, please read http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2643. Bottom line, are you willing to convert to Islam? If not, just focus on your studies and be happy with her honest friendship.

  19. ali khan says:

    It is good to be in love . Do not consider religion as the main factor for deciding love relationship with Hindu boys.

    Follow Ritwik Roshan style. He is having muslim wife. So love is important and above Islam. So do not care for what fanatics are saying rather go with your hindu husband………Wish you a happy married life……….

  20. Zahida Aggarwal says:

    Hello RaJ

    What about marrying your muslim girl friend? Which country are you from? are you serious and committed with her?

    Are you both earning?
    Shall be glad to know and wishing you all the best in future.

  21. michele says:

    i dont believe in this story, i think shamim just want to make muslims bad.
    i studied all religions, in veda, they say they will come one more prophet.
    and also the caste system in hinduism its not human.

    everybody should make his own decision.
    if you are a muslim or hindu etc. and your religion does not allow
    to marry another, than dont do it.
    or maybe you have just a religion on paper.
    and im sure, also a hindu, buddhist, jew girl is not allowed to marry a guy from
    other religion. i cant imagine a jew girl marry a hindu.. impossible. only non religious “jews”..

    i wish freedom for everybody

    • Truth says:

      Hi dude (posing as a girl)

      1st- atleast get the correct spelling of the name you are faking.

      2nd- you have studied all the religion? That’s the biggest lie ever! The lie is about your conclusion. Kalki is the last form of god due to appear in future. So in essence Hinduism is the real religion and just because it gives freedom for other religion to co-exist, you christian posing muslims are following a wrong religion. Do you know that you Muslims actually pray to hindu god vishnu. Go read the description of Mecca in hindu scriptures to see the truth. Also just have one thing in mind all humans are born Hindus bit the parents religion is imposed on them.

      • michele says:

        its not fake, im female.
        we dont pray to a hindu god.
        we pray to one god, the god for every human.
        unfortunately its not allowed or not accepted.
        i saw this so many times in
        bollywood films, a hindu girl is in love with a muslim boy,
        and the parents go crazy.

        than send me your description of mecca.

        • admin says:

          Michele,
          This is difficult to understand comment. You believe in One God, but not Hindu God. So do you believe in the Father God, the LORD God, the Allah as described by Muhammad or all of these? Some see God in the wood cross (idol?), others in Saudi Arabia, others in 3 forms (trinity), while Hindus in multiple forms, but all pray to the same God, is it not? If there is only one God, how come Hindus have a different God?

          If the Bible and Koran are God’s words, tell us if Jesus is a Son of God or just an apostle? Alternatively, are you saying only the Bible is true, and Koran is fake?

          • Amir says:

            @Admin, though this question is posted for Michelle, but i am putting my opinion to it.
            What are Father God, Lord God? God is one and absolute. Jesus never said He is God ( in Bible ), He is messenger of God, that is belief of Muslims and Christians and Jews. If somebody take him as God, He is going against Holy Bible.

            Neither Bible is wrong, not Koran is. Both are God’s words. However there are few things mixed up in Bible thats why we Muslim don’t believe in every line of Bible. Moreover some translations have misrepresented Jesus as God,.

            In Bible, Jesus said my Lord is much mightier than me. then How can Jesus be God?

          • admin says:

            Amir,
            Is Jesus a Son of God? If you say no, you are going against fundamental Christian belief. Koran says it is monstrous falsehood that God had a Son. So, is Bible right or the Koran? Why God gave such conflicting message in two of His books?

  22. syed Mohsin says:

    It is a shameful thing that you have married with a Hindu Boy, cheating your parents, Islam may shirk kay bad ager koi bara gunah ha to wo waldan ki na frmani ha, jub teray maa baap ko ilam ho ga kay tuj jesi na khulaf beti nay un ki marzi kay br khilaf shetan kay bhkaway may a kr ak hindu say shadi kr li ha to unay intehai runj or tkleef ho gi or Allah nay Quran may saf kah dya ha kay Kafir murd per muslman ortat or musalman murd per kafir orat ko haram kr dya gya ha. Hindu chaey kitna bhi nake ho mgr wo ak kafir ha or Allah ki wahdanyat ka inkari ha or kai khudao ko mannay wala ha, jub kay musalman honay ki phli shurt hi yeh ha kay insan sub jhotay or khud sakhta khudao ka inkar kray.

    hr mazhab kay kuch asool hotay han or limitations hoti han, or tum yeh shadi kr kay islam kay asool torh chuki ha or ab agr tum khud ko jitna mrzi muslman khti rh mgr tera islam say koi talq nahi rha, or agr tum khud ko musalman khti ho to yad rukhna tumhari is shadi ki koi deeni hesyat nahi ha, or teray or rahul ka milap zana kay ilawa kuch nahi ho ga or teri olad hram ki olad ha.

    Tumay Rahul say muhabbat nai hawas ha or tu sirf anpi shetani khahsh ko pora krnay kay lye yeh shadi kr chki ha, Yad rukhna tum per Allah ka azab nazil ho ga or tumay khud malom ho jaey ga kay tum nay kitna azeem gunah kya ha. or Allah ka azab intehai drdnak hota ha mgr Allah apna azab nazil krnay may juldi nahi krta.

    ager rahul ko bhi tum say muhabbat thi to usay musalman hona chaye tha or baqaida nikkah krna chaye tha, yeh shadi asi halt may hoi ha kay rahul khud shakhta insan kay bnaey hoey khudao ko pojta ha, jo kay faqt stories or jhoti miths han, or tum Ak Allah ki ibadat or bundi honay ka dawa krti ha, tujay jahil lrki yeh bhi nahi pta kay bundagi kisay khtay han,
    us kay kai khuda shetan kay numainday han or yeh un ka bunda ha yani shetan ka bunda or tu Allah ki bundi ha or shetan or Rehman ak dosray kay khulay dushman han or tu nay ak asay bunday say shadi ki ha jo shetan ka bunda ha. tujay yeh bhi malom nahi kay shadi kay bad orat shohar ki malkyat hoti ha or yani shohar ki gulami may a jati ha. or tu nay khud ko ak shetan kay bunday(gulam) ki gulami may day dya ha. ab to Allah ki bundi nahi bulkay shetan ki bundi bun chuki ha. Rahman ki bundi tu tub hi bun skti thi jub to rehman kay bunday kay nikah may jati. mgr afsoos to nay apni dunya snwarnay ki khatir apni akhrat brbad kr di ha or tujay ab Khuda Kay hazor jwab dena pray ga.

    tuj per yeh charges lago hon gay.

    1-Shetan kay bunday ki gulami.
    2-Apnay waldan ki nafarmani.
    3-apnay waldan ko dhoka dena.
    4-islam ki zillat ka bais bunna.
    5-hram ki olad ko peda krna or palna.
    6-zana bil raza krna.

    • Rahul singh says:

      Shaitan to tera allah hai kate land. Hinduism to tumhare fake allah ke 1000 saal pehle se chala aa raha hai. Ladies ka rape ke swa aur kya kia tere mohmd ne, isiliye Afghanistan, Pakistan, Syria, Iran,Iraq jider muslims hai waha kabhi shanti nahi hoti. Isiliye to tumahre hero Osama ko khatam kia dunia ne, koi tumhara Saudi dubai nahi aya usr bachane, samjhe, ab bhi waqt hai, hindu banjao aur sacchai ke raste pe chalna sikho.

  23. fatima says:

    Hi

    So called Anamika, I am sure that you have disguised your identity and appearing as a Hindu girl. I am sure you belong to Hakkani group of terrorists, with ill motives and false statements.

    You are the one who have caused damage to the islamic religion, committing all sorts of attrocities on the women folk and thrown thousands of innocent girls in pakistan based prostitution.

  24. sabana says:

    Hello Mr. Masood,

    It is sure that you are not a human but a talibani terrorist, dertmined to deprieve muslims from their fundamental rights. You are at liberty to have extra marital affairs with any one and poor wife cannot move freely, what is this religion?

    it is an opperessive and cruel religion to keep opperessed half of the population of females from whose wombs you have been for 9 months?

    Can you move freely in burka in 45deg. temp. You are bastard and mean mentality person. Perhaps you have not realized the miserable conditions of your mother, sister, daughter and other closed relatives in female community.

  25. Anamika says:

    Iam a hindu girl i want to marry with a muslim guy we both love each other but the problem is my brother he is not agree for our relationship and my boyfriend’s family also not agree. what we do pls help us

    • admin says:

      Dear Anamika,
      The best and easiest option is to convert to Islam….read more at Hindu-Muslim marriage. After reading, let us know what additional information you wish to have. Get back to us, please.

      • seema maheshwari says:

        Admin. while converting may be the easiest option, it’s also a cop out. How can someone who believes in multiple gods, accept just one faceless one or vice versa?
        If a couple cannot live together with their different faiths, then they shouldn’t marry.
        I may be a minority but I could never trust someone who can give up their religion as easily as changing their hair colour.

        • admin says:

          Excellent statement “I could never trust someone who can give up their religion as easily as changing their hair colour.” Let Anamika read the recommended link (knee-jerk test!) and it is expected that she will get back with more questions.

  26. Raj says:

    Hello I’m a Hindu boy & I am in love with a Muslim girl..

    We both met on social site & we both know each other from last 6-7 months,
    Now we are taking our relationship serious & we want to marry each other & I’m ready to convert to marry her.
    & to accept Islam from my heart, we have still 5 years for marriage.
    Please suggest us how we can convince our patents for this & whatever we r doing is right or no?

  27. Sabiya says:

    M a muslim
    plz agar ap mere post pe kch achha ni bol skte to ganda mat bolna
    i love a hindu guy tooooo much n usse bhi jyada he lovs me..
    He is ready to change into islam without any kind of pressure or force by me.. What should i do to convinc my parents..plz reply friends.. Me n my love are tooo tensd.. I want help from a persn who has expert knwledge about all dis.. Plz help

    • admin says:

      Sabiya,
      Make sure he understand what Islam is all about. Tell him to come to this site and read all experiences of Hindu guy-Muslim girl couples and read Koran. This fake-converts will hurt you later.
      For you, read Muhammad Mujtaba and Sasha.

    • sabia says:

      Hello Sabiya,
      I have married a Hindu guy and very happy with him.

      No need to change religion, it was created by man. Every one is eual in the eyes of Lord. If your Hindu BF is honest, loyal, committed, kind hearted, marry him.

      Dont believe so called Islamic rules which are made for male to dominate females against their wishes and self enjoy all sorts of prieviliges. The islamic rules are cruel and barbaric for women folk, just to have sexual requirement.

      I am from Indonesia and most of girls who are educated, are marrying non-muslim guys. My 2 other sisters have married to christian and budhdhists boy friends in Phillipines.

      God bless you.

    • abdul says:

      if you trust him that your boy freind will convert to muslim religion it is a sawaabe jariya for you. allah tumari zindagi mein barkaat ata farmaya aameen sumaameen yarabbul alemeen.

  28. Raj says:

    mohammad ne Tum Logo ko Chutiya banaya hai … The whole Quran Stories r Fake & Completely a Blind Imagination by a Unsuccessful Trader name Maohammad (jisko tum Prophet samjhte ho) .. Islam is all about to Taking Revenge with the Western Counties & then Mohammad Play a Game of Fake God Allah . he Know that there is nothing like allah in the world but for money he built a fake story of allah & islam & many Innocent Peoples are Converted by him in that fucking fake Religion … the Birth date of Mohammad was (c. 570 – c. 8 June 632) & at that Time there are already a lots of Fake Religion Exist … The Truth is only that Hinduism is the Only Religion & other Religion are not Religion they all are Belief . “Hinduism” the Oldest & the uncreated Religion . but ye sab to Purana tha Ab nayi baat ye hai ki Jis ko jis se shadi karni hai KAr sakta hai kisi ka baap bhi use Rok nahi sakta So Go on Lovers … I m Wid u ( Don’t Fear Raj is here )

    • Amir says:

      Raj

      “whole Quran Stories r Fake”
      Have you read Quran? Then tell me what stories you believe to be fake???

      “but for money he built a fake story of allah”
      Which story has bult to earn money???

      “Hinduism is the Only Religion & other Religion are not Religion they all are Belief .”
      please tell me difference between religion and faith????

      Non-muslim chahe jisse shadi kare but
      Muslims are not allowed to marry a Non-muslim until they believe.

    • Muslim says:

      Watch this Miss Shamim

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yG9nuyDoK28

      & Also see this

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6TVqqBWSNA

      So we muslims have more faith and can be said to be more hindus than hindus themselves as we followed their vedas and accepted islam!

      Now about your issue, Madam I am also in love with a Hindu girl but not a KAFIR like you and will marry her only if she accepts islam.

      You say that you believe in allah! What a hypocrisy and absurd reasoning when you don’t believe and follow the teaching of allah’s rasool and deny the direct message of allah, i.e the quran!
      Quran clearly says what you are quoting as the attributes of KHAFIR, and that’s what you have become for your worldly desires.

      Don’t forget that its only 35-40 years of these worldly pleasure for which you have defied allah, after which you will surely face the consequences. Now I am sure that again you will stand up and say that “I believe in allah but don’t believe in all this which you have written,”
      I would advice that then go and read quran!

      Allah doesn’t need people like you and its mention in the Quran so you can go and do whatever you want with your life and don’t disgrace our rasool and allah himself.
      After all such a huge hell has been designed for you and your alike. Definitely allah wants it to be filled as well and I guess he has chosen you for the dirty work.

      Go and accept hinduism!

      • Truth says:

        First of all brother you are a shame to islam. According to Islam you cannot have any love feeling for non muslim so you yourself went against islam by having love relation with non muslim girl. You have to leave her immediately. Imagine that your sister has love relationship with a Hindu will you be ok then? So leave that girl immediately and find a hindu girl.

        2nd your videos are from non Muslim source so its just not acceptable for Allah to be proved right by any non Muslim institutions. Will you believe that prince of Kuwait has converted to Christianity. Will you accept that and show that video here to prove Christianity ia true religion ?

        Did you know that she is not a kafir as she is still believes in allah and definition of kafir is totally different.

        Have you read the great geeta and veds. I don’t think so you are privileged enough to do that, but incase you do, Hinduism’s concept clearly states that all humans are equal and hence they can marry any person regardless of the religion, hence she is a true women to marry her Hindu boyfriend.

    • masood says:

      raj tu nay mohammed [s.a.w.] k barey may jo bolo haiy wo jahalat may bola haiy…. kabhi sarkaar s.a.w k kirdar ko padta toa ye na kehta… zara apni ramayan aur dousri kitaboun ko dekh unhi kitaboun may sarkar s.a.w. k aanay kee baat batai gayi haiy…. ye dunia unhi k sadke bani haiy…. kasam gumbade khazra kee gar tu mere saamne hota toa teri gardan kaat deta… aur soun maiy tere ram aur dousre chutia bhagwan ko gaali b nahi dounga.. kyun k unki aukad itni nhi k mustafa s.a.w. ka gulam unhe gaali bhi day…. zara apna adress day day agar wakai may teri maa kisi aur mard k saat nahi soi toa.

    • Danish says:

      How u say that about mohd. Without any proof ?

    • abdul says:

      tume NARG MEIN AAKE BATAHOONGA ALLAH KA HAI MOHAMMED (saw) KA HAI AUR MUSLIM RELIGION KYA HAI. DONT FORGET IT. MIND IT.

  29. nvajz says:

    Shamim :

    Even i am stuck with same situation,

    I would definitely appreciate that you have married him / make sure u get permission from your parents and u be you and he be himself / no change in religion / teach your kids about all the religions are equal or teach them that there are no religion /

    I am committed to a muslim girl / my love she is / and want to get married / and i ll post my marriage date here for sure …

    If possible any wanys i can contact you through mail … for some reason which can help my marriage…

  30. nvajz says:

    For Salim :

    U don even speak about Muslim , since i am an hindu and i know about Muslim, U don spooil muslim’s name since you are not a Muslim , only your name represents but that’s of no use …

  31. nvajz says:

    ganesha, shiva,krishna etc….were born on earth but they are not gods…they were like us with flesh and bones,they also have girlfriends like us..
    god is one…he is unique, he is unseen,..he has no picture.
    you are worshipping false gods

    this is for Khan :

    May i know how u believe that you are happy and healthy : is it coz of ALLH ?

    • hindutva says:

      bro ganesha,shiva and krishna were gods you should learn ramayan and mahabharata hindus hav the oldest religion in te world vedas,yogas,upnishad in whom all the information about each n every particle is of the world is present we are great aryans

      • Satyen says:

        These incarnations such as Shri Ram, Shir Krishna or Mata Lakshmi, Mata Durga etc. are the various manifestations of the same God known by various names such as Eshwar, Ohm and so forth. Many Muslims also believe in the same God and call him/her Allah but believe in various fake Gods as well apart from the God. Examples of the fake Gods (many Muslims mention) are Shaitan and many idols the Muslims see and are scared of. The whole history is a witness of Muslims demolishing the house of these fake Gods. Their energy is channelised in the destruction of the fake Gods. You just read their literature and comments on the socializing sites and it’s replete with their hate for the fake Gods. I suggest them not to waste their time to these fake Gods and concentrate on the God Allah only. I think it will help the fake Gods disappear. But history proves, many of the Muslims are the captives of Shaitan (amother fake God) and will just keep on the demolishing work. Another point is many of them keep lying as Shaitan has taught them Taqiya (application of lying to spread Islam is a merit!!).

        With all the above constraints, still I see the light at the end of the sooooo long tunnel.

        Ameen.

  32. Shantanu says:

    Islam is a good religion only becoz it is partial towards muslim men but it has a very narrow minded concept which doest not respect sentiments of women and let them live happily like the men.
    On the otherhand, chistianity, hinduism, and other are good on all the aspects becoz they never force women or disrespect them like Islam teaches

  33. Shantanu says:

    Mr. Salman Hindustani aap ek ladki ko gaali dete ho, kya aapke ghar me maa aur behen ko isi tarah gaali di jaati hai? kya aapka Koran Shariff yehi sikhata hai aapko?

    Agar ek muslim aadmi jitna bhi shaadi karle phir chahe talaaq bhi deta ho ussey koi kuch nhi kehta? Lekin ek muslim ladki parda me rahe, zulum sahe aur agar ek awaaz bhi uthaye to wo haraam hai? Wah ye kaisa dharam hai jisme aurat ka koi haq nhi issey to accha hai baaki saarey dharam jisme aurat ko jeenay ki azadi diya jaata hai.

    • masood says:

      listen dude islam jitni azadi aurat ko deta haiy utni shayad he koi deta haiy… dekho bhai jo pabandi haiy wo aurton kee bhalai k liye haiy.. chahe wo pardah ho ya kuch aur… aap say guzarish haiy k aap islam ko dekhen naa kee musalman ko plz… do not mix up in any misconception, i humbly request u…. aray yaar har mazhab may unn k khuda kee tasvir haiy sirf islam may allah ko chodr kar.. yehi islam k sach hone kee dalleel haiy… adam say lekar jesus p.b.u.h sab nay islam kee hee dawat dee haiy… plz stay knowing about islam, ull find the path of salvation.

  34. Jamila says:

    Hi every body.

    Going through the above discussions and my life experience, it is true that maximum attrocities are committed on the name of islam on female community, particularly when they are middle class families.Males irrespective of any class, enjoy all sorts of freedom to marrying any number of girls, giving talak, insulting them, beating them, restricting their education. Hell is there like country Egypt, where, it is propagated to have sex with a dead wife?

    Muslim girls have to fight their struggle with changing environment and if they come accross any good guy, humble liberal, god fearing, earning livelihood, they should not hesitate to marry him. Out of muslim countries 90% muslim girls are marrying christian, Hindus, Buddhist.

    I was a divorcee, badly treated and ultmately one day one guy from Hindu Brahmin community met me, helped and ultimately married me. No problem with him and his parents, now settled in Canada and with his cooperation and help, I am also doing job there and having two loving siblings(males.)We both respect each other sentiments and follow our own religions without any problem. Kids respect and follow the patterns of religions. No probelm.

    This post is moved to http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2434

  35. SanJay says:

    I am an Hindu boy and i am in love witha muslim grl…!! it has crossed 1 year of experience b/w us both..we both love each oher very much but the only problem is our religion….Is that a serios problem…?? I am ready to face any situation and she too but i dont want her to face because i dont waana make her cry gettin me in troube…I f any probs come to me she will be broken ..We love hat much but religion stops…..I will never end my love and she tooo but i waana some comments which u think that will happen in our love..?? plz comment and say the things that would happen if i marry her…..!

    DO NOT COMMENT HERE…it has been moved to http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2306

    • To Kane and Sanjay, saying that you can’t kive without each other is naive. If you are living outside India, then get married. However, if you live in India then, unless you are financially independent, you need the support of both families.
      Unfortunately, we Indians have been brought up on a steady diet of Hindi films, where everyone lives happily ever after. Doesn’t work in real life guys. Take a stand or get on with your lives.

      • Kane says:

        to seema,
        i agree its naive to say that.
        And also that the happily ever after happens only in hindi films where nothing is ever real.

        But then say we are financially independent after a couple of years time, how will things change?
        i mean if she’s still at loggerheads with her parents then, the chances of support at that time will be no more than they are now.

        we both are from mumbai and also live in the same building.
        so, how far do you think my/my family’s/her well being can be affected if we try to push on with the relationship now?

        taking a stand is required now, and that’ll mostly be to bring it to a halt.
        but it will only be in optimism that something might work out in the future.

        DO NOT COMMENT HERE, instead comments at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2308

  36. Kane says:

    i am hindu boy in love with a muslim girl.
    its been 9 months into our relationship n our parents came to know.

    her dad called me up 2 days back when i said that we are in a relationship.
    he asked me to stop immediately.
    when my parents confronted me i accepted that i love her and can’t live without her but she didnot accept this at her place and behaved very arrogantly.
    it created lot of problems at her end as already she has a strained relation with her parents.
    she was also beaten at home.

    for last 2 days i’ve been instructed not to talk to her by both sets of parents n end all communication.
    its been very difficult for me to ignore her calls(almost 40 yesterday)but for her and my safety i’m doing so.

    she spoke to my best friend and he’s managed to calm her down for now.

    i’ve started working 8 months back and she’s not yet started working.
    we’ve both completed our graduation/post grad.

    i love her a lot and she does too but i want our safety as well as not hurting the sentiments of our respective parents.
    please help us.

    Comment at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2308 ONLY.

  37. joyc says:

    hello…m a hindu girl..i really don’t like people quarreling with each other on the matter of marriages of diffrnt religion…..every religion is of equal importance…many of muslim guys have said that hindu ppl worship idols…bt i wud like to tell them…they are not just the idols…but once in the time long ago they really had been here…eg. god ganesha, krishna, vishnu..etc….we dnt worship just the idol bt the soul..

    guys i really dnt want to argue with any of u bt really wanna ask u a question…has anybody of u have seen “allah”…not even prophet paigambar seen allah…prophet just saw a dream in which agel gabriel said him for the work of holly islamination…but purely opposite to this….god ganesha, god shiva, god krishna had been born on earth nd saved human being from cruel assur people. This is what hinduism…pure, clean and white…. But there are so many theories in islam those are not good for human being to keep battlefree… Lastly i wud like to say u all…practise ur religion and do respect others too.

    every religion teaches us to practise it n respect other religions.

    • admin says:

      A good point! Well said.

    • khan says:

      ganesha, shiva,krishna etc….were born on earth but they are not gods…they were like us with flesh and bones,they also have girlfriends like us..
      god is one…he is unique, he is unseen,..he has no picture.
      you are worshipping false gods

      • The same can be said about Jesus Christ (PBUH) but what purpose will that serve?
        If someone wants to give a face to God then so be it. It doesn’t hurt you or me Khan.

      • bikash rathore says:

        paigambar chacha bhi to insaan hi theee

        • khan says:

          @bikash rathore:we dont worship prophet
          paigambar ki ibadat karna bhi haraam hai

          • Salim says:

            I m hundred percent sure that you are not a Sunni and a proper believer of allah, you don’t respect Mohammed also, shame on you. You are an idiot, spoiling our islam. You are a shia or ahmedi

            Yeh ladki to salli prostitute hai, baki muslim ladkiyo ko bhi yahi taaleem de rahi hogi. Muslim girls are for us others have to convert to marry us, else we would dump you after sex.

      • khan says:

        bilkul sahai kaha khan sahab ne Allah ek hai uske siwa koi maabood nhi.

      • nvajz says:

        nvajz says: September 9, 2012 at 3:16 pm ganesha, shiva,krishna etc….were born on earth but they are not gods…they were like us with flesh and bones,they also have girlfriends like us..
        god is one…he is unique, he is unseen,..he has no picture.
        you are worshipping false gods

        this is for Khan :

        May i know how u believe that you are happy and healthy : is it coz of ALLH ?

    • masood says:

      bahen . tumhare vedon me likha haiy nashaystre prathima asthi matlab khuda kee koi murat nahi haiy na koi chitr… aray ye kisnay kaha ke prophet s.a.w nay khuda ko nahi dekha , islam ko jaano kareeb say jaano warna kal nuksaan hoga… aur kya tum hinduism ko pavitr kehte ho. gaye ka peeshab peena kahan kee pavitr ta haiy… just go and search for right..

    • Ali hasan says:

      we should see god if you lived good. When you enter heaven. You ill see. Allah hav a pic but we don.t know his pic. He never drink water or eat food.we are everything expecting from allah ,but, he expecting form us only one thing- that is prayer. We have a lot of miracles fro holy quran. If you want,s to know you can search on internet

  38. mayur says:

    please married with rahul if he is nice man and leave your parents if they are not agree with you ok

    • Amir says:

      Dear Mayur,
      It is not permitted for muslim girls/boys to marry non-muslims.
      Actually you have dual standard, if a muslim girl wants marry hindu, u will say ok thats fine, but if your sister if wanted marry a muslim you won’t allow her.

      We can have a discussion if you mail me at shairuf@gmail.com

  39. chhatrapal says:

    pls help me…
    my love is leaving.
    she dosnt talking with me bcoz of her family reason.
    she is muslim n i m hindu
    pls help anyone what i do…

    • admin says:

      Chhatrapal,
      Sorry to hear of your situation. It is hard. Is there a common friend who could talk to her? Do not risk your life, if you approach her family, make sure you are not going to get into any physical conflicts.

      Hindu-Muslim marriages are difficult, please read all that is written on this web site. Lets assume her parents agree to get you married, are you willing to change your religion and act like a true Muslim for your life? Are you willing to get away from your Hindu parents and willing never to follow Hindu holidays?

      Lets hope you will find some good solution to your situation. It not, you have to think … what ever happens, happen for good. May be God has something else planned for you! Best wishes.

      • Amir says:

        Dear Admin,
        It is sure you are not a muslim.
        You seem to have diplomacy.
        Why are you misguiding people.
        Your all responses are biased and centered at attracting muslim girls to Hinduism.
        What religion do u follow.
        If you are honest then Plz tell your email for further discussion.
        If you have courage don’t delete my post.

        • admin says:

          Amir,
          We welcome your comments, please come by again to guide these youths. If we made a mistake, you could balance it out, thanks.

          Our religion is love and respect for all. What you expect us to tell to the lovers. We just lay all facts in front of them and let them make decision that is right for them. Fair?

  40. Congratulations, as we celebrate India’s 65 independence day, we are still as hating and ignorant as we were in 1947. The British divided our country by using our hatred against us.

    Instead of helping the people who write on this site, we constantly bash their religions.

    Most of you would be better served to post on the many hate filled sites that have been created by extrimist Hindus and Muslims.

    Leave this site alone for the educated and rational people.

    • Satyen says:

      Why blame Britishers for all miseries? There are no Britishers there for the last 65 years and were not there 200 years back. Still the fight is no and is continuing uninterruptly due to insanity of ours. We are the culpable and need to transform to a society of equals. Stop this conversion business especially Maulivis and Mullah brand of Islam (Nothing against the open minded Muslims) indulging in this business. And the Hindus too who fake convert sheepishly just for Marriage purposes.

      • admin says:

        Absolutely agree to stop this “fake” conversions business. You are fooling Imams, Islam, Allah and most importantly to yourself by these “fake” conversion. It will cost BOTH, the Muslim as well as the “fake” converter spouse. Why to make lies and deception a foundation of your married life?

  41. Akash says:

    Aaj duniya chand tk phuch gai hai pr logo ki soch aj b vhi hai jo aj se hjaro sal phle thi aj b vhi hai aj log MC me khana khana chahte or MOL me kpde khridna chahte hai or sb kuch krna chahte hai or sb kuch nidar rup se krna chahte hai apne ap ko free krna chahte hai fr b sb kuch apne ghutno se sochte hai or life prctical jeena chahte hai pir b hindu muslim me fse pde hai mai sbi se bs ek chi puchna chahunga or jis me b is chij ko shi trike se btane ki himmt ho vo jrur btaye kyuki mai kbi kisi ko hindu muslim nai smjha shayd mai glt hu or mujhe b sochna chaiye k kon shi hai or kon glt or kon ucha or kon nich hai kon hlal ka hai kon hram ka hai jo niyam kudrt ne bnaya hi jaise sans lena apne privar ko aage bdhana apne shrir ki baki chije kya kudrat ne inme hindu k liye or muslim k liye alg kyu nai bnaya or sbko ek hi chij or kam krne ko kyu shikhaya hindu Oxijan ki jgh Naitozen kyu nai leta or muslim jo apke anusar shi hai or ALLAH k pass or shi hai vo hi OXIZAN kyu nai lete lekin KHUDA ne esa nai hiya kyuki khuda ek hai or vo sbke liye ek brabar hi hai bhle h manne k trike alg ho pukarne k nam alg ho pr khuda bhgvan iswar allah sb ek hai or agr in chijo k alava b agr kuch hai to mujhe btaoo mai b muslim bnana chahunga or khuda k in zankar bandno se puchna chahunga k vo isn sb bato ko sb k samne or shi trike se rhkhe jis se unki or sbi k bhlayi ho ske mujhe btaye k khuda ne HINDU MUSLIM CRICHAN SHIKH me koi frk kiye bina hi kyu bnaya bs or kuch nai mujhe bta do plz mai ahari rhunga apka

    jb koi bimar hoga or usko khun ki kmi ho to koi ye kyu nai puchta k ye khun hindu ka hai ya muslim ka hai bs blod group kyu dekhte hai..

    khuda ne HINDU MUSLIM or baki dhrmo ka chap insan k mathe me kyu nai bnay??

    kyu bachha paida hota hai to sbse phle rota hai??
    hindu vala rota or muslim bachha hsta kyu nai hai???

    esa kyu hota hai jb HINDU or MUSLIM alg alg hai ???

  42. Salman hindustani says:

    matherchod ki shamim tujhe jinhne peda kiya tu unke baat nhi maan rhe
    jinhne tujhe etna bada kr diya
    jinhone tmhe bataya r sikhaya k halal kya or haram kya
    tu un kutto k sath shadi kar rehe hai jinhne na jane kitne jurm kiye hum par
    tu agar asal muslman ki pedayesh h to samjh ja kutiyaaa

    • Imran says:

      Bhosri ke … “EK LARKI KO GALI DETA HAI TU”
      abe NAAMARDD…..

    • vivek singh says:

      madar chod when muslim boy marry to hindu girl then it ok and when it come muslim girl then it sinful and she is raandi

    • sabana says:

      Kisi v Ladki ko gaali dene se phele ye haazar baar soch lena ki aap ki v ammi hai ya behen ya api. har kisi ki izzat hoti hai.

      • Satyen says:

        Agree with you sister. These fools show all their bravery just by abusing the females. These are suitable to the worst of hells if there is one. Kafirs are far better than these type of Muslims who behave nicely. Probably the impartial Allah will chose those well behaved Hindus for the Jannat and transport these abusive Muslims to the Dojakh. Definitely, the abusive Hindus will also be taken care of by a temporary hell as unfortunately there is no permanent hell for the Hindus (in Hindu Books).

  43. chhatrapal says:

    shamim i want to talk with u
    my email is chhatrapalchudasama@yahoo.com
    pls help

  44. sabana says:

    hello, Muslim girls,

    It is my humble message based on my life experience, that if you find a loving, caring, respectable, god fearing Hindu guy, do not hesitate to marry him. Hndu guys are liberal, respectful to their wives, whereas in majority of cases, muslim guys are not faithful, putting undue pressures and restrictions on their wives movement, job, education, life styles and even their are countries which do not allow females to drive vehicles, caste their votes to elect their representative in setting Govt. and most horrible in some states to have sex with a dead wife. Males allowed to have 4 wives, give talak to the wife any moment.
    So change yourself with the changing environment for the sake of female community. Religions are human made. God is one, known through different methods and names.

    • Amir says:

      Please stop misguiding girls with wrong names.
      Instead use originality.

    • sabana-2 says:

      thanks sabana and its true, i have also done the same and i am happy

      • Sabana says:

        Hi Sabana and Jamila,

        Thanks for the comments to encourage our depressed and under prievileged muslim sisters who badly treated and crushed in the name of Islam. Why Islam does not punish muslim males who indulge in bigamy, keeping extra marital affairs, depriving women from their fundamental rights, forcing them to be in burqa even in 44 deg. temp.
        These are all Mullas and Maulvi made rules to commit attrocities on the muslim girls.The worst condition of females is in muslim religion only.

    • masood says:

      shabana shayad tera iman allah par nahi balki hindu ladkon par haiy yaad rakh marne k baad utahe jaana bhi haiy.. bach k zara, aray muslim ladkon may insaniyat khtam nahi hui haiy , agar maula say mangti to tujhe koi muslim palkon pay baithane wala milta khayr…. mujhe lagta haiy ye koi muslim nahi hindu male haiy jo gumraah kar raha haiy…

  45. abhi says:

    Muslims or some of there family member is always connected to underworld crime, especially in mumbai, i m an inspector at a mumbai station, you will not believe how many girls these muslim guys bring, all girls are run away, sometimes from mumbai sometime other states, all girls are converted to muslim, most of them are beautiful, they deliberately get good looking girls just to increase there beautiful girl numbers, mostly Gujarati and Punjabi girls are target. That entire bombay side shivers with D’s name. When some hindu, sikh, Punjabi family’s have a kidnap case with us, most of girls who run away with muslim boys are pregnant within few weeks, and converted to muslim forcefully. Mentally too they are devastated, as they have no choice, cant return, cant live with in dirty culture. Now a days the local congress political parties have become powerful, they even stop police patril using political pressure. All illegal activities happens in these muslim areas, and have arrested many, jails are full of muslims. I hope our system is cleaned and we kill these anti nationals, criminals and girls dont get fall in these muslim romeos in fake love. All girls end up being sold, its allowed to keep bazaru girls. Just look at how they keep hidden there girls that should be sufficient to tell you, how much they need to protect their muslim girls. There are many places in south Mumbai where non muslims cant even go not even police, they keep a harem of converted beautiful girls, many die or run away to escape selling, you see that your self whenever you visit any CST, byculla and other adjoining areas. Hope this helps someone.

    • Amir says:

      Are you replying to the situation or just uttwering venom against one’s religion.
      If you failed to understand Islam , Is doesn’t mean you use website for foul comments.

  46. aman says:

    shut the fuck up..u ppls are idiot..n muslims are more worst than animal. who believe a muslim girl cant marry with hindu..im hindu n my wife muslim, but cuz of these muslim idiots my wife is not with me. i would like to burn on middle road these kind of ppls who dont understand humanity..
    n allah bhagwan god are same. if u think ur allah better n god bhagwan idiot. then i will say u r mother fucking idiot..

  47. Arshad says:

    Tabassum muh kaahe band hogaya aapka..Kuch toh boliye….:):):)

  48. Firooza says:

    SALAM. I`M ALSO MUSLIM . I MET GUY – HE IS FROM MIXED FAMILY-MUM IS MUSLIM, FATHER HINDU-WE WANT TO MARRY-I ASKED HIM TO CONVERT TO ISLAM -BECAUSE HE IS FROM MIXED FAMILY AND IT`S DIFICULT FOR HIM TO UNDERSTAND WHO IS HE, HE ACCEPTE, BUT THEN PROBLEMS STARTED HIS FATHER WAS AGAINST, HE WAS IN A VERY BAD MOOD, EVEN HE WAS ILL BECAUSE OF THIS SITUATION ABOUT 1 YEAR, THEN HIS FATHER SAW HIS SITUATION, HE SAID U CAN DO EVERYTHING U WANT, IF U WANT TO MARRY WITH MUSLIM GIRL AND CONVERT TO ISLAM-DO-OUR FAMILY WONT AGAINST. I LOVE MY RELIGION -ISLAM IS EVERYTHING FOR ME-I LOVE HIM-BUT I CAN`T PREFER MY LOVE T MY RELIGION.IF U HAVE ANY QUESTION-PLS ASK

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    • Aryan says:

      In hinduism its allowed to marry muslim girls, so there is no problem in it, what else are you talking about. you are welcome in Hinduism visit any arya samaj temple and ask for showings the truth. 100s of muslims are just fed up with islam, its double standard, violence, killing, violence on girls etc, they are accepting the true god in that supreme soul that hindus worship. I guarantee that you will be a lot happy and peaceful once you discover the truth. You can check your life too, is your life full of sadness, no freedom for girls, violence and strict dictatorship by your community? Till what point will you suffer? Think while you have time.

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    • Mohammad says:

      Salam to everyone,

      Dear sister Firooza I really appreciate your effort to get support and guidance to reach a right and workable solution.
      First of all I can understand that since you are seeking for support I believe that your conscious is still alive and not blind folded due to your personal feelings. Please don’t take me wrong I appreciate your personal feelings and that is a reality as well.

      I hope you agree that Islam is basically a way of life and if we follow the true teaching of Islam we shall get benefits on short term and on long term basis.

      In my humble understanding issue is not if you like a Hindu or a Muslim, issue is that how much you like him. I believe if you really like him you will make every effort not to hurt him and do good for him. The best you can do to him is to guide him on the right path. Saying this I hope since he is involved with a nice and wise girl like you, he must have appreciated your qualities, he must have accepted you as what you are. So I request you please, to further build the relations you should remain at the level of wisdom where he has saw you and appreciated in the first stage.

      Saying this I wish to explain that since the benefits of Islam can only be enjoyed if we study by our self the true and clean way of life The Almighty has explained in Quran and further explained in Ahadeeth (saying of the holy prophet Muhammad PBUH).

      If you both are ready I can help you further to make up your mind by sending you books so that you may study and decide on your own.

      the question you asked and answered it primarily. I think you have to first of all inform yourself about the peaceful education of Islam and discuss it with your boyfriend. what some Muslims are doing is not Islam and such kind of examples are many in Hindu boys as well. There are ways to sort out this issue very easily. First step you have already gone to like each other and now leave all those who are preaching hate and discrimination.
      I know it is very difficult to accept new ideas and change the way of life even if it is acceptable. many of us are thinking the way our parents are following is only the right way, are not even ready to appreciate others opinion and that is hard-liners attitude. pray for right and peaceful decision.

  49. zarina says:

    IF YOU BELIEVE IN OTHER GODS THEN YOU ARE NOT A MUSLIM…YOU ARE A HINDU WHO BORN IN MUSLIM FAMILY

    • Bhumika (former Tabassum) says:

      That’s is where Muslims are wrong. According to you, your god is only allah. But for others we have our own god, no one is forced to agree that. In islam if you say there are other gods than allah, your allah is so insecure that he asks muslims to kill that human being. Truth is always hidden, actually muslims are just worshipping a shaitan who was given a shrap(curse) by bhagwan bhramha. Now that devil has stopped the your senses to know the truth. Revert to Hinduism to see true religion. Look at muslim people always involved in illegal work, kiling, rape, forcing islam etc. Look at other religion they are peaceful. Muslims who are religious also cause problem to other moderate muslims. I m very happy that i got liberated from religion of terrorist, i would say to the world be anything but not muslim, they are mad, especially who are religious muslims.

      • admin says:

        Dear former Tabassum,
        Can you shed more light on your Muslim life? Who were your parents? what was your motivation to change religion? What was reaction from your parents and Muslim community when you change your religion? Are you married?

      • Amir says:

        Bhumika , All that you posted seems lie that you converted.
        if you think you are correct kindly tell your email id and if you have courage do argument on chat.
        I want see how truthful you are.
        sincerely,
        shairuf@gmail.com

    • dora says:

      Obviously, Muslim believe in ONE GOD only, and It’s Allah… there’s no God except Allah.

    • randua says:

      ghodaghai randi tu kan janichu prama kan tata khali bada mota banda darkar nahala khandia banda darkar.

    • Satyen says:

      May be a possibility. But it’s Allah all powerful who has made her a Hindu born in a Muslim family. Who can go against the almighty Allah? You should also be happy in the schemes of Allah to save yourself from the hell fire.

    • Satyen says:

      Sister Zarina,

      May be a possibility. But it’s Allah all powerful who has made her a Hindu born in a Muslim family. Who can go against the almighty Allah? You should also be happy in the schemes of Allah to save yourself from the hell fire.

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