In muslim community women are treated very badly
Sabana Matlub said: June 5, 2012 at 8:43 pmHi Shamim, Take a bold step to marry Rahul. I am too a muslim but married a Hindu guy, very happy with him. In muslim community women are treated very badly, restricted their freedom of education, movement, job and always insecurity of life being divorced at any time. Get your marriage registered under special marriage act 1954 immediately.
Dont believe those who are misguiding you to marry a muslim boy. Take it granted you will be treated very badly and one day left by him. – Sabana.
Sabana, thanks for sharing your life story. This creates lots of questions that other youths may benefit to know.
Do you consider your marriage a Hindu-Muslim marriage with equality? How long have you been married? Did you ever tried to convert your husband to Islam? Did he or his family tried to convert you to Hinduism? Do you take part in a Hindu pooja (like SRK)? Do you know your marriage is not valid according to Islamic beliefs? Do you live in a big city? and which country? Do you have kids? What will you teach your kids about the Judgment Day? Koranic teachings on Hindus? Is there only ONE God, that is Allah and in the direction of Saudi Arabia? Can Allah be in your Hindu family’s home and Hindu temples? Are Hindu Murtis idols? What other differences did you found between two religions?
Sabana’s replied: June 6, 2012 at 10:48 pm
Thanks for the query raised by you. I got married about 3 years back and presently working in USA as software engineer. I have a loving son. I have not converted to Hinduism and my husband also not converted in Islam but we respect religious sentiments of each other. My other sisters are married in muslim families as per social bindings but leading a very miserably life. Husbands are disrespectful, not allowing sisters to move freely, get higher education or work to improve financial conditions, always keeping them in burqa and self (both the brother inlaws) having extra marital affairs with so called cousins.
Hindus are more open minded, liberal and respectful, always sharing with their wives important decisions.
I have to help my sisters financially for schooling of their kids, which my husband never mind. Religion is a man made process of life and whereas humanity and mankind are be morals of almighty, which is expressed in different terms by different castes, creeds and communities.
Further to your query, about taking part in Pooja etc., yes I do take part (in Hindu rituals) and when there is a Ramadan, I take fast, my husband help me. In India, so many high profile girls like sister of Chief Minister of J&K, India, married to Sachin Pilot, Salman Khans sister married to Agnihotri, Sunil Dutt’s wife also Muslim and so many, must be in thousands. Famous actors mothers were muslim like Govinda, Mahesh Bhatt, etc.
It is 100% correct that woman folk enjoy lot of freedom in Hindu community whereas in Muslim community women are not allowed to be at par with males.