I (Hindu) am in a relation with a muslim girl…
Sameer says: June 17, 2012 3:38 ammy name is Sameer m in a relation with a muslim girl for two years. few days back their parents somehow came to know about our relation. they took her cell and seems caged her. they are not allowing her out of her house. there has been no contact between us for few days. i know her family would never agree a hindu guy. we seriously love each other and cant live without each other. we are even not too grown ups to take much big decision but i could do anything for her i just wanny marry her and stay with her throughout my life. we are in 2nd year of graduation. plz help us out every hour is difficult for me to spend feel like killing myself. her college would open on 2nd july. dont know what to do.
AryanDude says: June 17, 2012 at 7:26 am
Dude, I must say that your love is true for her, and you will be very complete once you two get married. Right now just ask her friends about her and get info where she can be met, i have been in the same situation and know how badly you need to see her.
Plus have friendship with groups of hindu dudes, who will help you in bad times. From my experience Muslim friends did not help me for my love and those secular hypocrites had hindu girlfriend. In college mostly girls are cause of fight. Complete your study and do court marriage. All the things will work but your love must be true for her and you should make yourself a tuff fighter. That is what going to win your love. Trust me this girl is fantastic for you but her father would not be. Be a fighter trust me that works. I m married to my muslim girlfriend.
Admin says: June 17, 2012 at 10:56 am
Rome was not built in one day. Have patience, nothing is going to happen overnight. Give a top priority to your education and after completing it get a good job. Without good education and financial independence, you cannot achieve (and later maintain) your love. If she has true love for you, she will wait for you. In long run, this approach is better for both of you.
Never convert (shahadah for Islamic nikaah) to Islam for just love with a girl, unless you truly believe in all Koranic teachings. Find out what type of life do you want…(this) or [that]? Some day she may come and tell you to be a Muslim for the heck of it. If so, know that she is nothing but a Love-Jihadi out to trap and convert you. NO BBS, please!
Consider yours and her’s safety. Are you aware of Islamic practice of honour killing? Fights may get ugly. Be smart, make well thought out moves, have patience!
Sameer says: on September 25, 2012 at 12:53 pm
I have got a good job and Salma and myself meeting and discussing future course of action. She has also given interview in two companies and hopeful to get a job soon. She has finally decided to marry with me, in all phases of life, as husband and wife. We seek blessings from all well wishers. -Sameer.
Salma says: on 27 September 2012 at 11:45 am
Hello every body. By the grace of Allah, I have got job consistent with my expectation, credit goes to Sameer, who appeared on this blog in June. With his strong determination and persistent efforts we both have got job now. Tomorrow is an auspicious day for me to start as working woman in my life for the first time.
Please bless me with your good wishes and also for our unification as husband and wife. Hahahahhaa.
Always expecting blessings from my well wishers. -Salma
Salma says: January 28, 2013 at 8:03 am
Hello Admin and Satyen
Myself and Sameer have decided to marry on 14th April according to Arya Samaj rituals and then getting marriage registered legally.
Every thing ok now by your good wishes and blessings.
Please shower your blessings on us on 14th April 2013. -Salma