I (Hindu) am in a relation with a muslim girl…
Sameer says: June 17, 2012 3:38 am
No need to convert if the love is true!
AryanDude says: June 17, 2012 at 7:26 am
Dude, I must say that your love is true for her, and you will be very complete once you two get married. Right now just ask her friends about her and get info where she can be met, i have been in the same situation and know how badly you need to see her.
Plus have friendship with groups of hindu dudes, who will help you in bad times. From my experience Muslim friends did not help me for my love and those secular hypocrites had hindu girlfriend. In college mostly girls are cause of fight. Complete your study and do court marriage. All the things will work but your love must be true for her and you should make yourself a tuff fighter. That is what going to win your love. Trust me this girl is fantastic for you but her father would not be. Be a fighter trust me that works. I m married to my muslim girlfriend.
Admin says: June 17, 2012 at 10:56 am
Rome was not built in one day. Have patience, nothing is going to happen overnight. Give a top priority to your education and after completing it get a good job. Without good education and financial independence, you cannot achieve (and later maintain) your love. If she has true love for you, she will wait for you. In long run, this approach is better for both of you.
Never convert (shahadah for Islamic nikaah) to Islam for just love with a girl, unless you truly believe in all Koranic teachings. Find out what type of life do you want…(this) or [that]? Some day she may come and tell you to be a Muslim for the heck of it. If so, know that she is nothing but a Love-Jihadi out to trap and convert you. NO BBS, please!
Consider yours and her’s safety. Are you aware of Islamic practice of honour killing? Fights may get ugly. Be smart, make well thought out moves, have patience!
Sameer says: on September 25, 2012 at 12:53 pm
I have got a good job and Salma and myself meeting and discussing future course of action. She has also given interview in two companies and hopeful to get a job soon. She has finally decided to marry with me, in all phases of life, as husband and wife. We seek blessings from all well wishers. -Sameer.
Salma says: on 27 September 2012 at 11:45 am
Hello every body. By the grace of Allah, I have got job consistent with my expectation, credit goes to Sameer, who appeared on this blog in June. With his strong determination and persistent efforts we both have got job now. Tomorrow is an auspicious day for me to start as working woman in my life for the first time.
Please bless me with your good wishes and also for our unification as husband and wife. Hahahahhaa.
Always expecting blessings from my well wishers. -Salma
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Salma says: January 28, 2013 at 8:03 am
Hello Admin and Satyen
Myself and Sameer have decided to marry on 14th April according to Arya Samaj rituals and then getting marriage registered legally.
Every thing ok now by your good wishes and blessings.
Please shower your blessings on us on 14th April 2013. -Salma
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IN THE NAMR OF ALLAH THE MOST METCIFUL THE MOST KIND
THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH
IS HIS TRUEPBUH SLAVEPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
ALLAH IS THE GREATEST
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT
INSALLAH MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS jamel786@hotmail.co.uk
My mobile no is 07857200667
I WOULD LIKE TO LET YOU KNOW YOU ARE TRYING TO BE NICE BUT
IN FACT YOU ARE A CROOK WITH A HOOK WHO DOES NOT KNOW ABOUT
THE HOLY BOOK QURAN AND YET YOU CALL YOURSELF A MUSLIM.
WHERE I LIVE AND GRADUATE IS NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS?
HAPPINESS IS STATE OF MIND. YOU CAN BE POOR AND YET THE MOST
HAPPINESS PERSON IN THE WORLD. LOVE IS A FICKLE THING.
YES YOU SACRIFICED YOURSELF, YOUR PARENTS, YOUR LIVE TO GET TO
YOUR ‘SO CALLED’ HINDU LOVE. CONGRATULATIONS BITCH.
YOUR SPEECH ABOUT CHALLENGES IN LIFE IS BULL CRAP.
YOUR CHALLENGE WAS TO GET FUCKED BY A HINDU AND YOU DID THAT.
HURRAY. WHAT A GOAL !!! THAT SHOULD BE RECORDED IN WORLD CUP HISTORY.
MY ADVISE TO ALL MUSLIMS BE IT DOGS(MALE) OR BITCHES(FEMALE), PLEASE
GET YOUR ACT TOGETHER AND HAVE PRIORITIES FOR YOUR LIFE AND HEREAFTER.
INSHALLAH
Hi Salma & Sameer!!
Almighty GOD is always with You.
So don’t be afraid of any one.
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL THE MOST KIND
THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH IS HIS TRUEPBUH
SLAVRPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
ALLAH IS THE GREATEST
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT
PEACE BE UPON YOU AND THE MERCY OF ALLAH AND HIS BLESSINGS
SISTER SALMA DONT MARRY THIS HINDU MAN
IT IS FORBIDDEN HARM IF YOU TRULLY LOVE ALLAH YOU WILL NOT
MARRY THIS HINDU IF YOU LOVE ALLAH MARRY A MUSLIM MAN
THERE ARE PLENTY OF PIOUS WELL MANNERED EDUCATED
RESPECTFUL MUSLIM MEN
INSALLAH MARRY A MUSLIM MAN
MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU GUDIANCE AND HELP YOU FIND A NICE MU
MUSLIM MAN TO MARRY INSALLAH
MAKE UP WITH YOUR PARENTS THEY ARE YOUR KEY TO
PARADISE
IF YOUR PARENTS ARE ANGRY WITH YOU THEN ALLAH IS ANGRY
WITH YOU IF YOU PARENTS ARE HAPPY THEN ALLAH IS HAPPY
MEANING ALLAH SAYS IN THE HOLY QURAN
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST METCIFUL THE MOST KIND
DO NOT SAY UFF TO YOUR PARENTS DO NOT SPEAK TO THEM
WITH DESRESPECT OR YOU WILL END UP IN HELLFIRE
NO DOUHT
ALLAH IS MERCIFUL MOST KIND MOST FORGIVING
SAY SORRY TO YOUR PARENTS AND TELL THIS HINDU TO GET
LOST STAY AWAY FROM YOU AND YOU WILL INSALLAH MARRY A
MUSLIM MAN
I AM AVAILABLE FOR MARRIAGE
IT IS BETTER TO MARRY A MUSLIM THAN A HNDU
ALLAH SAYS UNBELIVERS TAKE YOU TO HELLFIRE
ALLAH TAKES YOU TO PARADISE
THANK YOU FOR TIME
INSALLAH LEARN THE HOLY QURAN AND TEACH IT
INSALLAH RECITE IT MEMORISE IT ACT OBEY IT
INSALLAH YOU WILL MARRY A MUSLIM MAN
FEAR ALLAH HAVETAGWA
FEAR ALLAH LOVE ALLAH
MAY ALLAH GUIDE YOU AND FORGIVE YOU
AMEEM THUM AMEEN
MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
Jamel,
It is nice to offer, “I AM AVAILABLE FOR MARRIAGE”, this is certainly a generous offer. If Salma is not married on Apr 14, 2013 as she has stated, she may want to know how much you are educated and what type of job (professional?) do you have. Yes, you are a Muslim that is a major qualification you have, but it would be good to know little more about you too.
Hi Salma & Sameer !!
BRAVO !! Well done !A Bold Step.Congratulation.Wish A Happy Life.
Hi Salma & Sameer !!
My all Well wishes & Blessings are always with You.Be Happy.
Hi Salma & Sameer !!
Hearty Congratulation to BOTH.
My all Well wishes & Blessings are always with You.Be Happy.
Hi Fatima, Sabana, Eram, Farida so you muslim girls are still muslims or u will become hindus? Which religion do you like most?
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL THE MOST KINDKIND
IT IS HARAM FORBIDDEN FOR MUSLIM MEN AND WOMAN TO I
MARRY A IDOLATER SOMEONE WHO IS ENEAMY OF ALLAH
HINDUS ARE IDOLATERS THEY COMMIT SHRIK WHICH ALLAH
WARNS US OUT YOU ARE MAKEING A PLACE FOR YOOURSELF IN THE
HELLFIRE.
ALLAH SAYS ALLAH PROMISES YOU PARDISE
WHILR THE IDOLATERS NON BELIVERS TAKE YOU TO HELL FIRE
REPENT BROTHERS AND SISTERS MAY ALLAH FORGIVE YOU AND GUIDE YOU
AMEEN THUM AMEEN
IT IS BETTER FOR YOU SISTERS TO MARRY MUSLIM MAN
IT IS BETTER FOR YOU BROTERS TO MARRY MUSLIM WOMAN
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL THE M
OST KIND
THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH IS HIS TRUEPBUH
SLAVELBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
ALLAH IS THE GREATEST
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT
PEACE BE UPON YOU AND THE MERCY OF ALLAH AND HIS BLESSINGS
ANY SISTER WANT TO GET MARRIED ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
I AM A MUSLIM MAN
I FEAR ALLAH. I RESPECT WOMAN
PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH SAID THE BEST AMONGST YOU IS
THE ONE WITH PERFECT MANNERS AND THE ONE YOU WITH PERFECT
MANNERS IS THE ONE BEST TO HIS WIFE
BE KIND TO WOWMAN RESPECT THEM TREAT THEM WE’LL
LOOK AFTER THEIR NEEDS PROVIDE FOR THEM PROTECT THEM
TREAT THEM WITH A SOFT GENGLTE HEART THIS FOR ALL WOMAN
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME
MAY ALLAH HELP YOU FIND A GOOD MUSLIM HUSBAND
MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
MY NO IS 07857200667
NO OFFENCE TO NON BELIVERS WE LOVE ALLAHSWT MORE THAN EVERTHING
ALLAH SWT IS OUR CREATER PROVIDER SUSTANER PROCTER
OUR GOD
THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH IS HIS TRUEPBUH
SLAVRPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH
I PRAY DUA TO ALLAH TO BLESS GUIDANCE FOR MY SELF MY FAMILY
ALL OF US PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH UMMATPBUH AND ALL
OTHR CHILDREN OF ADAMPBUH AND EVEPBUH
ALLAH GUIDE US AL TOWARDS THE TRUTH FAITH YOUR FAITH ISAM
ISLAM. AMEEN THUM AMEEN
ALLAH SAYS
THIS DAY I HAVE COMPLETED MY FAVOUR ON YOU PERFECTED YOU
RELIGION FOR YOU AND CHOSEN FOR YOU ISLAM
THANK YOU ALLAH FOR MAKING US MUSLIMS PROPHETPBIH
MUHMMADPBUH UMMATPBUH MUSILM
ALL PRAISE AND THANKS FOR ALLAH ALONE
ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
US PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH UMMATPBUH THE BEST OF
ALL UMMATPBUH NATIONPBUH
WE INSALLAH INVITE TOWARDS GOOD
AND STOP FROM WRONG
MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
MY NAME IS JAMEL AHMED
I AM A HUMBLE MUSLIM ALWAYS LEARNING MY FAITH
INSALLAH I WILL BE A HAFIZ OF QURAN INSALLAH LEARN
THE QURAN AND TEACH THE QURAN
INSALLAH OBEY THE QURAN UNDERSTAND THE QURAN
CONTEMPLATE ON THE QURAN ACT AND LIVE ACCORDING THE
QURAN
INSALLAH
PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH SAID THE BEST AMONGST
YOU ARE THR ONE WHO LRARN THE QURAN AND TEACH IT
INSALLAH WE ALL PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH DO THIS
AMEEN THUM AMEEN
ALLAHSWT WILL HELP TEACH GUIDE US INSALLAH
AMEEN THUM AMEEN
INSALLAH ALLAH HELP US GUARD AND PROTECT OUR NAMAZ
NAMAZ PRAYER ALLAH FORGIVE US OUR FAULTS ALLAH HELP AND
GUIDE US TOWARDS QURAN AND HADITH AND SUNNAHPBUH
AMEEN THUM AMEEN
MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
ANY MUSLIM WOMAN LOOKNG TO GET MARRIED MY NO IS
07857200667
Dear All,
IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE BE WITH THEM, COME WHAT MAY BE TOGETHER, GET MARRIED, SHOULD BE TILL THE END AND TILL BOTH DIE, OR ELSE DON’T GET INTO LOVE I MEAN DON’T EXPRESS IT.
LOVE IS GREATER THAN ANY RELIGION,COMMUNITY, CASTE ETC. DON’T WORRY ABOUT THE SOCIETY, LOVE SHOULD BE ACHIEVED, LOVERS SHOULD BE TOGETHER.
About My love…..
I am a Hindu boy, was more committed to my work/career, always thought about family and parents, dreams about my life and never wanted to get into love, never wanted to love, never wanted to hurt my parents and their thoughts. But LOVE HAPPENS and that cannot be planned.
End of 2011, A female(Muslim) joined in my team only female in my team, as she was in my team,my responsibility was to protect her, guide her, teach her, support her, learnings from each her, to value each other thoughts etc. More than colleagues We became friends.
In month of Sep. 2012, she said her parents decided to marry her with Muslim boy and engagement is over and she will get married in month of Dec. 2012. So I just smiled and was not able to sit in the office and I just walked out and I was not able to understand exactly what kind of emotion bond it was, I convinced myself that this is obvious feeling as my close friend is going away from me, but i should wish all good to her life.
She completed 11 months at work, we never thought about love, but LOVE was somewhere, but we never knew that it was a love. We never expressed before each other, Especially i never wanted to express my love to her as she was already engaged to someone.
Later on she started telling about the guy who was engaged to her, she started telling that she doesn’t like him, he is very rude in approach, he is still having affair with other female, my engagement happened as it was some kind of a obligation, I cannot be happy with him, etc.
But Play master is on the top, in mid of October, Office trip was arranged at a hill station. During the time of trekking we were just calm and some different kind of feeling was there between us and never expressed our love.
After coming from the trip, while chatting on the phone, she started telling you are different guy, you don’t have girl friend, you don’t know how to get girl friend and all, We arrived at a CHALLENGE, I said I can convince anyone and i can convince you also, as indirectly she also wanted to play pranks with me and the next challenge was to behave like a Boy friend and Girl Friend.
Without know to each other we forgot about the challenge and we were in LOVE, which was expressed during the time of challenge period. We never knew that we loved each other so much since 11 months but we did not expressed.
We used to exchange each other feeling and OUR SOULS WERE TOUCHED…She used to take care of me like anything, it was an unconditional love. She loved me so much, i loved her like anything.
I decided I should get married to her, as SHE WAS MY FIRST LOVE, WANTED TO MARRY HER, WANTED TO BE WITH HER FOREVER…..
She also said the same-thing, she wanted to be with me forever, lifelong… but she was having some doubt that whether will be together or not…. So she said we will get married for our understanding, so that we will be husband and wife, we got married on end of November 2012, and witness was only the GOD and only GOD. On that day I was so much satisfied as she became my wife and i am her proud husband. But I was not able to tell to anyone on this world. But I decided to life together forever with her after all she is my wife and she is only mine.
So God’s decision was different, some relative passed away in her family and everyone was there at her home and started telling that deceased person always wanted to her marriage before the death. Later on everyone started speaking about her marriage, pressure was much on her.
I never new that there was such kind of twist in my life, I exactly do not know what happened to her, she started telling “we were in a dream, we have to live in reality, i dont want to hurt my parents, i don’t want to kill them, my sister cant get good groom if i come with you, i have to get married to that person whom i am engaged with.
I was totally into black room, i requested her so many times, that she cant be happy with that guy whom she doesnt love, he cant keep you happy, moreover i cannot live in this world without you.
I am married to you, you are my wife and i am your husband, i cant let to go with someone or you cant leave me and go with someone. As a husband i need to protect you, i ll protect you, i am here to fight for anything, ready to fight against this world, society, etc.
Then she started telling (mid of January 2013)”ours is not at all a marriage, we married in Hindu tradition, according to me, according to ISLAM it is not a marriage and we are not husband and wife. Later on she started convincing me that all love at the end it is more of a sacrifice, we should not be selfish, we cannot be mean to our parents, we should not hurt them, we need to SACRIFICE OUR LOVE”. She used to cry, i want not able to control my tears or emotion as i loved her truly and accepted her as my WIFE, life partner and my soul mate. She started telling that she would kill herself if I speak about my love with her again or if anyone one in her family comes to know about it. I made it clear to her, i cannot force you on anything, I wanted her to tell only one YES, if she was ready, i would have got her. This never happened
She distributed her invitation cards to all in front of me at office. She also said my presence is required in her marriage if not others will speak bad about her/me. if i don’t attend her marriage.
Embarrassing situation was that, she wanted to see me first, before she enters the Marriage Convention Hall, I was waiting for her to enter and she saw me, later on my colleagues saw me, i gave her a presentation (attending my own wife’s marriage???????), and i walked away from that place.
I think no one on this earth should get this kind of a situation, where a actual husband was not able to tell to anyone about the marriage his own marriage, and attending his own wife’s marriage with some one and giving presentation??????
I prayed to GOD, to give her happiness in her life…….I always wanted her to be happy and keep smiling, i never wanted or want to hurt her.
But what about me? i cannot get married to anyone, My Will is not able to accept any female in my life apart from my love…But one thing for sure memories cannot be erased, i cannot forget her. But i cannot think about her as she is somebody’s property. i cannot be in touch with her and do not want to be.
But what about her can she be happy with someone whom she never like at all and got married to him in front of all? that too in front of me????
What about her parents in-case, in-case if she is not happy with the marriage which they liked? they marriage where society accepted this marriage? Can parents be happy if something goes wrong with the new married couple?
Here only for the satisfaction of society, religion, obligations people get married. NO one can be happy here
So if you love someone truly, be with them till your last breath…..Do not hurt your love, don’t give pain to your love, do not betray your love.
Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=4550
Hello Admn and Satyen
Myself and Sameer have decided to marry on 14th April according to Arya Samaj rituals and then getting marriage registered legally.
Every thing ok now by your good wishes and blessings.
Please shower your blessings on us on 14th April 2013.
Wow!! We wish you the best.
Congratulation.
Hello every one.
I am back again after a gap of almost 3 months. Myself and Sameer have got a job offer in an another company with 15% rise of compenssation. We shall be joining that manufacturing company in the new year , with E2 shop management software, a very challenging assignment for both of us. I never expected such a favourable situation for me and Sameer together and look for future everlasting relations, perhaps due to well wishes from all of you.
So grateful to almighty.
hi i am raja from bangalore
Welcome Raja,
Do you have any personal experience to share?
Hi, frnds my name is Anik saha i want help from u al who r reading this. I love a muslim girl nd my love is true and she also love me . Hum dono ek dusre ko bohot payar krte hain aur hamara rista pichle 3 saal se chal raha hai but my prblm is our parents . Recently uski mom ko pata lag gaya aur uske mom ne usko bohot torchture kiya bol ki agar usne mujhe nahi chora toh woh uski papa ko bol dange . Aur woh dono fasi laga k mar jaiyenge lekin mera gf apne mom , papa ko bohot payar krti hai isiliye usne mujhse brkup krliya lekin mujhse brkup kr k bhi woh roj ghar mein roti hai par mere pas bapas nahi ah rahi hai . Woh mujhe bohot payar krti hai aur mein uske liye kuch bhi krne k liye taiar hu . Plzz… Help me
Reply to Anik at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=4053
Do anything you think best but don’t convert in Islam as that is the religion of barbaric Arab tribes & you are the descendent of the greatest ancient civilization .Be proud of your religious identity.
Hey sameer….do not worry. Everything will be ok. Agar wo tumse such mein pyaar karti h to wo tumse kabhi door nahi ja sakti. Bas thoda confidence hona chahiye.aur ye tabhi possible hoga jab tum use mentally support doge.chahe jaise bhi situation ho ek dusre ka saath kabhi mat chordna.
main 11th standard mein thi tabse ek hindu ladke se pyaar karti hun. aur 2007 mein humne shaadi bhi kar li. humdono bahut khush hain ek dusre ke saath. hum dono saare festivals saath mein celebrate karte hain. na usne mujhse kabhi kaha ki tum puja karo aur na maine usse kaha ki tum ibadat karo. hum dono ke god ek hain chahe unhe kisi bhi roop mein dekho.
shaadi ke 5 saal baad bhi hamare parents ready nahi hain. maine apne in-laws ko manane ki bahut koshish ki par wo shayad kabhi nahi manege. par koi baat nahi hum apni koshish jaari rakhege aur
tum apni girlfrnd se milne ki koshish karo. life mein sab tarah ke din aate hain. so pareshan mat ho. allah ta aala aur shiv ji dono tumhare shath hain fir to jeet tumhari hi honi hain. All d best
Comment to Eram at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=3540
Hi eram nice to hear about u..i m also in love with a girl from last 5 and half year n she is muslim.she is not indian i went her house to convince her parents 2 times but they never agreed n when i asked my girlfriend to marry with me against her family she refused.she asked me to convert n stay in her country but i m not ready for it.she told me she will marry me only if u convert and stay with her in her country and also she said if we have children she want they all convert to muslim.My family is against our marriage even then also i told her that i will stay with her n for me she dont have to convert or do puja n all i m ready to accept her as who she is but she is not ready to accept me as who i m she said she will marry me only if i m muslim.i love her alot from past 5 years whatever i do i do considering her as my wife.What do you think she love me true??or i m stupid that i love her alot n she just want take advantage of it n make me muslim.I dont know what to do can u give me any advice??
Reply to Dr. S at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=3554
Hi. Dr. S. Do not worry. Sab kuch behtar ho jayega.koi dharam nahi kehta ki meri puja karo.aur agar hum ibadat karte hain to hamara pyar aur respect hain apne god ke liye.dharam ke sahi mayne hum insano ne khud hi change kiya hain.aap khud socho ki aap us ladki ko poori tarah se apnane ko ready hain.aur aap apne decision mein stand bhi lena chahte hain.par love relation hamesha doo logon ki understanding se chalta hai.chahe wo understanding apki family ke liye ho ya fir dharam ke liye.aap apne dil ke haathon ek baar majboor hokar ready bhi ho jaoge ki aap kisi aur country mein jao.par jab aapko apni family ki yaad aayegi.tab bahut bura lagega.aur fir wo pyaar aapko saza lagne lagega.aap unko samjhao pyaar se.after all aapke family wale bhi aapse pyaar karte hain.keep faith on ur luv.
Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=3554
hiii
i hope you would be fine there.. mujhe bus yah kahna hai ki maine bhi kai saal pahle ek muslim ladki se pyar kiya tha. magar mai un dino apne pairo me nahi khada tha aur na samajh tha. shayad yahi karan tha ki uske ghar wale aur mere ghar wale iske khilaaf the. mera manna hai saccha pyar hasil karna nahi hota balki apne pyar ko khush dekhna hota hai,. mumbai me aaj 8 saal akele gujarne ke baad ekaek mujhe pata chala ki uski shadi ho gayee hai vo bhi kisi brahman se.. i m very happy for her.. mai bahot khush hu ki vo khush hai bhale shadi is janam me na ho payi meri is janam me usse magar ye dua hai ki agle janam me mera pyar mujhe mile wapas, aur mai ek maafi bhi mangta hu jo mai uske pyar me khara nahi utra ,, aaj bhi mai kuwara hu aur shayad hamesha rahne wala hu.. my best wishes with her alwyas
Hi, Same story, But Im in love with Hindu women, we got married and she is ready to convert to Islam at her will. Now after 2 years her parents are also happy with our life as they are more interested in Islamic values. Thanks to all. Basheer
U r vey lucky.
Basheer,
We are glad that things are going well for you. We are curious how did you got married? Hindu wedding, Nikaah or civel wedding? Above Eram Faridi is a pluralist respecting both faiths (“allah ta aala aur shiv ji dono tumhare sheath hain”), how about you? Please share more details. Please also come to guide other youths.
Thanks Admn. for your valuable advice.
in fact one more year of BCA is crucial. Being in the job, gain practical experience of application part, shall help a great,in project submission and viva, an integral part of the last semester. MCA could be done online. One who is already on the job, using various software programmes for fianncial engineering, he or she does not face much difficulty. The present company is new one and attempting to expanction its activities and so freshers like us have great opportunities to excell for career growth.
Hi Dear Nargis,
Thanks for the interest shown towards. I have joined my job. Orientation programme in financial engineering with latest software applications is under progress. Very challenging job, but because of our Bachelor of Computer Application programme that we (myself and Sameer) have been pursuing, has facilitated me to earn good will from my bosses so early. I have to burn my mid night oil to complete my study also. With blessings of all well wishers, dramatically postive signs are appearing in our life.
May please shower on us your best wishes.
Hello Sameer/Salma,
How about job of Salma? Did she join?
Salma if you see this,let us know, how were your initial days in the job?
God bless you both
Hi Dear Nargis,
Thanks for the interest shown towards. I have joined my job. Orientation programme in financial engineering with latest software applications is under progress. Very challenging job, but because of our Bachelor of Computer Application programme that we (myself and Sameer) have been pursuing, has facilitated me to earn good will from my bosses so early. I have to burn my mid night oil to complete my study also. With blessings of all well wishers, dramatically postive signs are appearing in our life.
May please shower on us your best wishes.
For now, “burn my mid night oil to complete my study” is more important than to marry. Sameer should do the same. After you have your 4 years of college education, start thinking of marriage. Education first, rest will follow.
Hello every body.
By the grace of Allah, I have got job consistent with my expectation, credit goes to Sameer, who appeared on this blog in June. With his strong determination and persistent efforts we both have got job now. Tomorrow is an auspicious day for me to start as working woman in my life for the first time.
Please bless me with your good wishes and also for our unification as husband and wife. Hahahahhaa.
Always expecting blessings from my well wishers.
Salma
Good news, best wishes. You are not out of woods yet, but one step at a time.
You are only in 3rd year of college, so take two more years to make up your mind about marriage. It is very easy to fall in love, but difficult to maintain it. To make an informed decision for your life, have you read this .. http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2646 ? Are you sure for your marriage to an idol-worshipper?
Expect all Muslim relatives to tell you that Sameer has to convert to Salman!! What will you tell them?
Hi Every body.
Matter of great pleasure to share all of with you that Salma has got job now, about 1 km. away from my office.
Thank God. Now we are independent. She will be joinging her job tomorrow. Great occasion to us.
Hope we both will enjoy good wishes from all well wishers.
Congrats!!
Hi Admin. Hahahhahaha…….you are great.
Thanks a lot for interpretation of word, God Fearing. You are right in your interpretation. I meant to say that God is watching every action of any individual, so there should be fear of God, punishing for those evil deeds done by an individual during life. God is like father true, but as a child we have fear of father before doing any wrong act. I meant to say only on that cotext.
The service you are doing to the mankind cannot be described in the words.
Waiting for end result of Sameer and his GF with happy ending for a new life.
God bless you and all of us.
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Hi Sameer Thanks for the update and also thankful to Admin, always giving rational advice with out any prejudice or bias. The comments by some muslim girls about hindu guys are based on practicality of life and not necessarily just to paternise.
Sameer when Salma gets and job and you plan to marry, please convey updates, as your life story shall be a source of inspiration to so many loving couples to break the unwarranted barriers of society for a happy life.
God bless you both.
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Hi Farida
Thanks for the interest shown by you. I have got a good job and Salma and myself meeting and discussing future course of action.
She has also given interview in two companies and hopeful to get a job soon.
She has finally decided to marry with me, in all phases of life, as husband and wife.
We seek blessings from all well wishers.
Best wishes Sameer.
A reminder, tell her not to try to convert a rose into carnation. Tell her who you are and will die that way, a Hindu. She should remain what she is, a Muslim. There no place for the conversion business in a true love.
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Hello Sameer,
What is the latest status of your marriage with your muslim GF?
Is your mental swing stable?
I wish to marry a like minded God fearing guy, intelligent, liberal, educated and loyal, even if he is Hindu.
Farida,
Why you want a “God fearing guy”? God is like your father (or mother), you don’t have to “fear” of him unless you are doing something bad to him? Do that is good and your father will love you. This “fear” is only Islamic and Christian concept, Hindus are not taught to “fear” of God nor they are “born sinners.” If you want a “God fearing guy” then only look for an Abrahamics.
Hi Admn.Hahahhahaha…….you are great.
Thanks a lot for interpretation of word, God Fearing. You are right in your interpretation. I meant to say that God is watching every action of any individual, so there should be fear of God, punishing for those evil deeds done by an individual during life. God is like father true, but as a child we have fear of father before doing any wrong act. I meant to say only on that cotext.
The service you are doing to the mankind cannot be described in the words.
Waiting for end result of Sameer and his GF with happy ending for a new life.
God bless you and all of us.
If (when) you have children, don’t teach them with “fear”, instead just explain them the full situation. Children are lots smarter than the parents think. The “fear” limits growth of a child. Even if a child makes small mistakes, that is okay, that is the way to experience real life. Gandhiji stole and did many bad things as a child, but he turned out okay. If you wish for intelligent children don’t use the “fear” as a tool. Only weak parents will use the “fear” factor.
muslims enjoy personal freedom in non-muslim countries. All their fears of marrying nonmuslims evaporate instantaneously if they are no more living in islamic republics. India has only partial relief because of large numbers of muslims living there and politicians favoring the mullahs for vote bank purposes. But then courts will protect them if they marry hindu men.
High court helps Muslim girl to live with her Hindu husband
PTI | Jul 30, 2012, 09.43PM ISTMADURAI: Coming to the aid of a Muslim girl who alleged threats from her family members after she married a Hindu, Madras high court bench here directed them not to interfere in her life as she was a major. Disposing of a petition by 21-year old K Fathima seeking police protection, Justice K Venkataraman said the parents should not interfere and precipitate as the girl was a major. The girl, an engineering student in Tirunelveli, was in love with her collegemate S Kannan and both got married at the famous Lord Muruga temple in Palani in Dindigul district on June 29 despite strong opposition from her family. She claimed to have received many threatening phone calls from her relatives and also from a fundamentalist organisation for having married a Hindu youth.
The judge had summoned the girl, her husband as well as her parents to know the facts. Fathima told the judge she feared that she might become a victim of honour killing and sought protection. When questioned by the Judge, her parents insisted on taking her back with them but budged as the girl was adamant on living with her husband, who filed an affidavit promising to register the marriage.
The Judge recorded the undertaking as well as the presence of a police official who stood witness to the entire episode and let the girl go with her husband. He also said the police could intervene only if any complaint was lodged by either of the parties making out a cognizable offence and not otherwise.
Here is the truth of Muslims – “She claimed to have received many threatening phone calls from her relatives and also from a fundamentalist organization for having married a Hindu youth.”
Muslims have an active muslim fundamentalist organization, does zains,sikhs,buddists,jews have this? What I cant understand is whats wrong with Muslims, when a muslim girl wants to marry a hindu, or a non Muslim, whats there f*ing problem. This Muslim girl did what a normal human would do, tell her parents and what her parents did- contact the nearest islamic fundamentalist- the mosque. How can someone brand their daughter in front of unrelated guys, Its would have been better if the girl would have just run away with that hindu guy. Just because hindus are peace lovers they don’t encourage violence, but muslims take undue advantage- good you have an opponent now
Fathima,
Sabana is right to point out. Nothing is obtained without struggle for everlasting happiness and pleasure.
Have patience and be tactful to achieve goal and in the mean time make realistic assessment of your boy friend.
God bless you.
Thanks Admn. atleast allowing my comments posted as above.
Please in the name of humanity, dont patronise attrocities/restrictions on the muslim girls in the name of religion. Maximum attrocities have been committed in the world in the name of religion. Half of the population should not be allowed to be deprived of their fundamental human rights. I have read recently comments of Veena Malik, a pakistani actress, who supported her 4 sisters and 1 brother to get educated and
live a respectable life, how the mullas, maulvies have attempted to tarnish her image, without knowing factual position of her acts.
It is real fact that any muslim girl marrying good Hindu girl has led a peaceful and respectable life.
Last time I pointed out certain things that are committed in the name of religion in Islam to pose restrictions on muslim girls, which was posted but it appears that the same has been deleted after moderation.
Perhaps this is prejudiced and biased web site not to allow true picture of barbarism committed on women folk in the Islam.
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Hi Fathima,
I am too a muslim girl, married a Hindu boy about 3 years back.
When you both are earning and attained the age of majority, there is no problem to marry Hindu guy. I have realized that Hindu guys are far better than a muslim guy, as a soul partner. Hindus are more liberal and respectful and adjusting. My inlaws never forced me to change my religion and they equally respect my sentiments.
In muslim community in the name religion, girls are treated very badly and even talak process for them is very rigid, whereas just a matter of game for males to give talak.
Be bold and tactful, apply for court marriage and get registration certificate. My other 2 sisters are married with muslim guys, who are leading a very miserable life.
Ask your soul mate for court marriage.
Am a 21 year old muslim girl of kerala…i am in love with a hindu guy..he loves me truely but, my parents never accepts this relation..they are now in a hurry to look a perfect man for me..The guy i love have not got a good job yet..am having a pretty good job now..am waiting for him to settle in life..i cant tell my parents..pleas help me with solution.
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I am too a muslim girl, married a Hindu boy about 3 years back.
When you both are earning and attained the age of majority, there is no problem to marry Hindu guy. I have realized that Hindu guys are far better than a muslim guy, as a soul partner. Hindus are more liberal and respectful and adjusting. My inlaws never forced me to change my religion and they equally respect my sentiments.
In muslim community in the name religion, girls are treated very badly and even talak process for them is very rigid, whereas just a matter of game for males to give talak.
Be bold and tactful, apply for court marriage and get registration certificate. My other 2 sisters are married with muslim guys, who are leading a very miserable life.
Ask your soul mate for court marriage.
where are u from???am really tensed as my family has started taking about my marriage..
I am unable to take a decision as my lover is not having a good job at the time being…we have just completed our graduation..is it safe to take a firm decision at this time???i wud be earning in a couple of months anyway..
Hi Fathima,
You have to keep your mental swing stable in case you love him truely.
I am now in Canada, originally from Indonesia. I am a software engineer, that I could attain due to my Hindu husband only.
If financially you both are not strong right now, work hard to get a good job and then think for the marriage.
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL THE MOST KIND
THETE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH IS HIS TRUEPBUH
SLAVEPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
ALLAH IS THE GREATEST
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT
PEACE BE UPON YOU AND THE MERCY OF ALLAH AND HIS
BLESSINGS
SISTER SORRY TO READ YOU HAVE HAD BAD EXPERICENCE WITH
PAKASTANI BOYS OR MEN BUT SORRY TO SAY SISTER THAT IS NOT
ISLAM HOW THE PAKASTANI BOY OR MAN HAVE TREATED YOU
I AM PAKASTANI MUSLIM ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
I KNOW MY DEEN MY FAITH MY ISLAM
WHAT YOU EXPERICNED IS CULTURE PAKASTANI CULTRURE
ARRANGED MARRAGES FORCED MARRAGES BRATING UP WIFT
COOKING AND CLEANING NOT WORKING NOT GOING OUT NOT
STUDING THIS IS ALL PAKASTANI CULTURE NOTHING TO DO
WITH ISLAM
LET MY TELL YOU ABOUT ISLAM AND HOW THE WOWMAN
ARE TO TREATED AND RESPECTED IN ISLAM
THE WOMAN IS ALLOWED TO CHOOSE HER OWN HUSBAND
ONLY ONE CONDION HE MUST BE A MUSLIM MAN. CAN BE
PAKASTANI MUSLIM INDIAN MUSLIM ENGLISH MUSLIM AFRO
CARRIBEAN MUSLIM EUROPEAN MUSLIM ANY MUSLIM MAN
YOU WANT TO MARRY YOU CAN MUST BE MUSLIM REMBER
VERY IMPORTANT MUST BE MUSLIM
WOMAN ARE ALLOWED TO WORK ALLOWED DO HAVE
BUSNINESS LIKE PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH WIFEPBUH
KADIGARAPBUH PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH WIFERA
WOMAN CAN READ QURAN READ NAMAZ LEARN ABOUT ISLAM
AND GIVE IVITAION DAWAT INVITE TO ISLAM
WOMAN KEEP ALL THEIR EARNINGS IN ISLAM
HUSBAND IS THE PROVIDER TAKE CARE OF WIFE FINACIALY
AND PHYSICALLY SPRITUSLLY ETC
WOMAN ARE TO BE LOVED RESPECTED AND HELPED IN ISLAM
PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH SAID
THE BEST AMONSGT YOU IS THE ONE WITH PERFECT MANNERS
THE ONE WITH PERFECT MANNERS IS THE ONE BEST TO HIS WIFE
MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME SISTETS AND BROTHES
MAY ALLAH FORGIVE US OUR FAULTS
MAY ALKAJ HIDE OUR FAULTS
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MAY ALKAH GUIDE US TOWRDS QURAN HADITHPBUH AND SUNNAHPBUH
ANY SISTER LOOKING TO GET MARRIED
INSALLAH I AM LOOKING TO GET MARRIED TO A MUSLIM WOMAN
PLEASE INSALLAH FOLLOW WHAT PROPHETPBUH MUHMMAFPBUH
SAID
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2 PROPERTY
3 STATUS
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FORGIVE EVERONE CAUSED OFFENCE OR SAID SOMETHING
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WHO IS ALL MERCIFUL IN THE HEAVENS WILL BE MERCIFUL
TO YOU
IM SORRY EVERYONE
ALLAH FORGIVE ME AND EVEYONE
AMEEN THUM AMEEN
BLESSED IS THE PERSON MINDFUL OF HIS OWN FAULTS DOES
NOT PICK FAULT IN OTHERS
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YOU CAN PHONE ME INSALLAH ANY TIME
INSALLAH LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING FROM YOU SISTERS
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME
MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
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IN THE NAMR OF ALLAH THE MOST METCIFUL THE MOST KIND
THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH
IS HIS TRUEPBUH SLAVEPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
ALLAH IS THE GREATEST
GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
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My mobile no is 07857200667
INSALLAH I LOOKING TO GET MARRIED
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CAN PHONE ME
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IS 07857200667
MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
I AM A HUMBLE MUSLIM
I READ MY NAMAZ I READ MY QURAN
I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DONT TAKE DRUGS
I DONT HAVE GIRLFRIENDS
I DONT PLAY AROUND
INSALLAH LEARNING TO BE QURAN HAFIZ
INSALLAH LEARN THE QURAN INSALLAH TEACH THE QURAN
QURAN HADITHPBUH AND SUNNAHPBUH
INSALLAH NEVER GO ASTRAY
AMEEN THUM AMEEN
ANY SISTERS WITH OR WITHOUT HIJAB
INSALLAH YOU CAN COMPLETE 50 OF MY FAITH
INSALLAH MUSLIM SISTERS WOMAN PHONE ME
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME
MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU
Your love, if true will certainly meet you one day. But at the moment you are just pursuing graduation and perhaps not earning any thing. You should complete your graduation and become an earning hand.Only then your marriage could become compatible to face challenges of life.May I know where do you live presently?and also what graduation? i.e professional or simple academic?