You want me to convert and forgo my religion???

Sara says: August 31, 2012 at 9:10 pm

I just want to say that both my boyfriends have been Muslims- one pakistani and one bangladeshi and im a hindu girl. I know they are both good people but I just cant accept their religion at all.

My current bangla bf telling me he wants me to convert and he cant live without his family- and I am thinking wtf? u want me to convert and forgo my religion and my family for u??? over my dead body! He used to be very nice to me but we always fight abt religion bc he makes fun of mine and I always will fight for my religion no matter what. maybe he will breakup with me and ill be heartbroken and lonely for couple of weeks/months but at least im faithful to God and for that I kno i will find some1 better who will love me for who I am.

I advise all HINDU Girls to stay away from these ppl from the beginning! just be friends but date other hindu men and be happy with ur life. Im very sensitive girl and Im not strong one bit but i do have common sense and I know for sure me and my bf will never work out! its a sad fact that depresses me everyday… then i look at myself crying and think what a fool i am for ruining my life over some boy…

EVEN if ur boyfriends tells u he will convert like mine used to say all the time- Never believe it! they just wanna have fun with u bc they dont have any shame.. well karma is a bitch and what goes around comes back around (maybe their wife will be annoying and a liar or argumentative). anyway- take my advice u already know im right.

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6 Comments

  • ashutosh
    July 7, 2015 7:04 am

    what the fuck? muslimo ne hinduo ko gulam banaya tha bhul gayi kya? koi hindu ni mila? it’s not possible actually aapke mind ka brainwash kiya gaya hai aur aap apne sath hi na jaanee kitne hinduo ki Feelings se khel rahi ho jo roj kisi na kisi roop me musalmano se lad rahe hain…agar musalman kya hota hai jaanna chahti ho to seria ya pakistan chali jao khud pata chal jayegi inki aukat

  • Truthseeker
    February 17, 2013 5:50 am

    Watch this video and you will and you will help everyone’s decision on switching religons. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIzKgBxzg-I

  • Aryan
    September 3, 2012 11:15 am

    Sister

    Congrats in doing what any smart girl would do. Are you having any relationship now? If yes please get is cut soon, it’s better to do this fast…as a brother please reply to this if he or someone troubles you, there are many cases, muslims like these are violent when they see their plan is not working. So help is one reply away!

    Aryan

  • September 3, 2012 9:51 am

    Hello Sara,

    Dont get misguided by Bangladeshi and pakistani guys. They are all talibani mentality and they want female just for sex for few months and then kick her. Maximum tortures are committed on women in the name of religion. Males have all types of libertiies in so called islamic principles.

    Foreget these talibanies and terrorists.

  • Kumar
    September 1, 2012 5:35 pm

    Hello everyone. I am a hindu boy who likes a muslim girl. None of our families are too religious but we follow the general rules quite well. She wears a burkha and does namaaz and i celebrate all the hindu festivals. I am not a frequent temple goer. I want to make one thing clear to everyone that hinduism is not about praying to the idol in front of you. When we go deep down, hinduism actually believes that god is everywhere, and anything is this world is made of five elements ( Air, water, fire, earth and void) including you who’s reading this. I have been trying to know more about Quran and it’s rules from quite few days but what i found after reading few lines in it amazed me. Accepting that there is one and only Allah, The greatest religion is it’s own, Men can marry out of religion but women can’t. I know these are the negative points im talking about but these are what i found in the start. What scared me a little was the honour killing and a little violent nature of them. Recently i was out with this girl and i was stopped by a group of muslims who gave me a slap and asked me not to be with a muslim girl. I couldn’t react in any way, hit and run, try to raise my voice and get beaten, hit them and end up in a police station. Actually this incident made me find out more about the religion and also successful inter religious marriages. Now i know that i love her and she loves me and want to be together. We still have a lot of time to plan things and get settled, Her family speaks telugu too and her dad is an educated government employee. Im sure her dad would realize our love and have an intention to accept if im working and have a good salary, but what about the society? Will their family have to face any consequences for it? She respects my beliefs and i respect her beliefs, If neither of us convert and just get married in a hindu or muslim way along with the procession will it be considered legally without being interrupted by any muslim leaders/fundamentalists? Or if we get a marriage in the court without any conversion will we be allowed to marry again in a hindu or muslim stlye? or maybe both with a gap of time between them? I want my relation with her to stay happily life long. I know there will be some challenges that i have to face and im ready with it 🙂
    Ps- Im confident that there won’t be any trouble between us after marriage so please leave that section. Talk about the pre marriage problems that we MIGHT have to face for us to stay together. Thanx 🙂

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  • September 1, 2012 12:49 am

    Sara,

    That Bangla desi Muslim is a total liar out for your body, nothing more. It is interesting that he told you that he will convert to Hinduism, when he knew one day he will convert you. This liar and Jihadi will do anything to get you. We are glad that you are smarter than most other Hindu girls who convert. You gave a perfect answer, “over my dead body!”

    Now there is nothing to be depressed about. It is better to wake up late than never. It is better to find all these before getting married or after having a child. You are not fool, you are very smart and, yes, a lady with lots of common sense.

    Now divert your mind. Find something else to keep you busy. With you experiences, come and guide to other ladies on this site and that will make you happy that you are helping others.

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