Jamila says: on September 3, 2012 at 9:42 am
Hi every body.
Going through the above discussions and my life experience, it is true that maximum attrocities are committed on the name of islam on female community, particularly when they are middle class families. Males irrespective of any class, enjoy all sorts of freedom to marrying any number of girls, giving talak, insulting them, beating them, restricting their education. Hell is there like country Egypt, where, it is propagated to have sex with a dead wife?
Muslim girls have to fight their struggle with changing environment and if they come accross any good guy, humble liberal, god fearing, earning livelihood, they should not hesitate to marry him. Out of muslim countries 90% muslim girls are marrying christian, Hindus, Buddhist.
I was a divorcee, badly treated and ultmately one day one guy from Hindu Brahmin community met me, helped and ultimately married me. No problem with him and his parents, now settled in Canada and with his cooperation and help, I am also doing job there and having two loving siblings (males). We both respect each other sentiments and follow our own religions without any problem. Kids respect and follow the patterns of religions. No probelm. -Jamila.
Admin says:
Jamila,
We are glad of your happy ending love story, a perfect story for a new Bollywood movie. Congratulations!!
We have seen a report of 45% Muslim girls marry outside their faith in America, however, you claim that 90% of Muslim girls marry outside their faith. On what ground you could say that?
Do you believe in One God, Allah? What do Hindus believe in….Idols? Do you believe that Lord Rama, Krishna, Goddess Laxmi are different form of the same Allah (God)? Like SRK, do you take part in Hindu pooja? What do you teach your children about the God? When they question you conflicting statements from the Koran on Hindus?, how do you explain it to your children?
One personal question, how did you got married? Hindu wedding, Nikaah after Shahadah conversion of that Brahmin or a court wedding?
Please come back to guide other young adults, best wishes. -Admin
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InterfaithShaadi.org: 45.1% of Muslim girls marry outside their faith in America
This survey probably covers educated and well established Muslims in America. Read details here. Those who are not willing to accept reality of life, please go to any marriage registry and type in last and first-name-initial and see the outcome. Enjoy your own research! -Admin
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Also read: Islamic Women Today, Muta, HRS, wife-beating, Muhammad, Hadith, Koran, Inter-race marriages, Hindu-Muslim marriages, Hindu girl/boy, Muslim girl/boy, Christian-Muslim marriages,
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