Saif and Kareena: Marriage and Religions

Saif Ali Khan’s first Hindu wife converted to Islam for marriage and gave Muslim names to their children. Instead, Kareena Kapoor never converted for marriage. I stated in my book in 2017 this as an “admirable act” but now with their son’s name being Taimur, I am wondering if this is truly a Hindu-Muslim marriage with equality. -Dilip Amin, Ph. D. An author.

Saif and Kareena: Interfaith Marriage

Many celebrities’ life details are in the public domain. Here, the author has used Bollywood celebrities Saif and Kareena’s published information to show that in spite of their different backgrounds a Hindu-Muslim marriage with equality is possible.

Kareena Kapoor and Saif Ali Khan’s romance was a hot subject for Bollywood. Saif’s mother, renowned actress Sharmila Tagore, converted to Islam for her marriage to Mansoor Ali Khan in 1969, changed her name to Begum Ayesha Sultana, gave Muslim names to all three of their children and raised them solely in the Islamic faith. Saif’s first wife Amrita Singh, a Sikh, converted to Islam in 1991 to marry him. They gave Arabic names to their kids. In 2004, she got talaak (divorce). In 2012, Saif married Kareena, a Hindu, without her converting to Islam.

Sharmila Tagore started her Bollywood career as a Bengali Indian film actress. She was also the head of the Indian film censorship board. Sharmila was born in a Bengali family in Hyderabad to Gitindranath Tagore who was then Deputy General Manager of the British India Company, owner of Elgin Mills. She is the great-granddaughter of Nobel laureate Rabindranath Tagore. On 27 December 1969, Sharmila Tagore married Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi, Nawab of Pataudi and converted to Islam.

Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi, nicknamed Tiger, was a former captain of the Indian cricket team. He was the 9th and last Nawab of Pataudi until 1971, when India abolished royal entitlements through the 26th Amendment to the Constitution of India. They are the parents of three children: Saif Ali Khan, a Bollywood actor, Soha Ali Khan, a Bollywood actress and Saba Ali Khan a jewelry designer.

Saif grew up in Bhopal at the family estate at Pataudi. Since his mother had converted to Islam, his childhood was spent in a Muslim atmosphere (ref). Even with his maternal Hindu grandparents, he never discussed religion. His paternal grandmother was the center for all his religious education and theological experience. She had him read the Koran in his childhood. Their servants were all devout Muslims. When Saif went to study in England at Winchester College, his grandmother was worried that he would become a Christian. At the school he had to go to chapel for half an hour before he went to class. Saif went to the headmaster and said that he was a Muslim, so he refused to go to chapel. The headmaster organized a Maulvi Saheb for the two Muslims in the school. Apparently, Saif Ali Khan was a proud Muslim.

In 1991, Saif Ali Khan had nikaah, the Islamic wedding, with 12-year-older actress Amrita Singh (ref). For his marriage preference, it has been quoted, “Saif had clearly told Amrita that she had to fall in line and go through only a nikaah. Very nawabi when it comes to the crux.” A nikaah for a Hindu or Sikh requires religious conversion to Islam by shahadah oath and one is then given a Muslim name. In 2004, Amrita and Saif separated and eventually had a talaak. It is not clear if religion played any role in the disagreements that led to their divorce. Their children had Abrahamic names—Sara and Ibrahim—and are with their mother while Saif started courting an Italian girlfriend, Rosa Catalano.

Kareena Randhir Kapoor was born to Sindhi-speaking Babita and Punjabi-speaking Randhir Kapoor on 21 September, 1977 in Mumbai, India. She has an elder sister, Karishma. The Kapoor family have been actors for generations, including her paternal great-grandfather, Prithviraj Kapoor; her grandfather, Raj Kapoor; her paternal uncles, Shammi, Shashi, Rishi, and Rajiv; as well as aunt, Neetu Singh and Jennifer Kendall, the wives of Rishi and Shashi respectively. Prithviraj Kapoor, Raj Kapoor, Randhir Kapoor and her mother Babita Shivdasani—all of them—had been driven from Islamic Pakistan at the time of partition because they were Hindus (ref).

Randhir Kapoor was very protective of his daughters and wanted both of them to keep away from acting, get married and settle down, as per the Kapoor family tradition. This led to irreconcilable differences between her parents, which ultimately led to a divorce. Both sisters left Randhir to live with their mother (ref).

For her man, Kareena said, “I want a man I can keep for myself. I wouldn’t ever share my man with anyone else. If I found out that my man is unfaithful, there’d be no tears, no shor-sharaba, I’d just slaughter him.” (ref) Apparently, Kareena is a person with high self-esteem and personal pride. She lived secretly with Saif and at the Lakme Fashion Awards in October 2007 they made their liaison official.

Kareena, raised in a proud Hindu family, is mostly a vegetarian and enjoys yoga. On the other side, Saif is a proud Muslim. Normally, a Muslim would expect the non-Muslim spouse to convert to Islam before a nikaah, the Islamic wedding ceremony. Saif is now different and does not believe in imposing his religious beliefs on others. A similar message has been given in the movies like Jodhaa Akbar, Gadar and Namastey London. Bollywood stars Hrithik Roshan (with Suzanne Khan; now divorced), Fardeen Feroz Khan (with Natasha Madhvani) and Aamir Khan (with Kiran Rao) did not require that their intended spouses change their religion for marriage. They got married by a civil wedding. Even Saif’s sister Soha Ali Khan got married to Kunal Khemu, a Hindu, without any one changing their religion. These are admirable acts.

Although Saif is a proud Muslim, he is “massively open-minded” about religious matters (ref). He has stated, “I’ve been brought up to believe in the oneness of God. In some places, He is known as Jesus. In other places He is known as Bhagawan or Allah.” Saif also said, “I would never want her (Kareena) to change her religion. That is the trouble with religion; really it expects conversion. I don’t buy or believe that any more. If and when we do get married no one has to change his or her religion.” (video) Saif and Kareena got married in 2012 by civil wedding.

It is admirable that Saif feels a sense of responsibility because people look up to him. He feels “We are the architects of our nation”. He believes he is not religious, Islam needs to be modernise and people (all) should give up their medieval mindset (CNN). 

There is equality in terms of Saif-Kareena’s marriage but what faith will their future generations follow? Generally Muslims will want children only following Islam, even to a marriage to People of Book (Christians and Jewish people). Considering their son Taimur is seen being part of Ganesh pooja and Saif’s statement “Taimur feels like he is Lord Shri Ram, Ramayan is very much like him” gives the impression to the media that Saif-Kareena share both faiths in raising their child.

However, the name tells it all. Why did Saif and Kareena gave only a Muslim name, Taimur, for their child? Compared to that, Saif’s sister Soha Ali Khan who married a Hindu gave their daughter the first name Inaaya, based on the Koran, and the second name Naumi because the baby girl was born on September 29, 2017, which was the auspicious occasion of Mahanavami (ref). Inaaya can sing even Gayatri mantra, ties rakhi to Taimur and has a Hindu nanny.

Both these Khans, brother and sister, got married to a Hindu without conversion of the spouse and are setting a tone for a new generation of youths in India and around the world. However, it remains to be seen what will be the given name of Saif-Kareena’s second child after the first one being “Taimur”.

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109 Comments

  • May 24, 2021 3:18 pm

    Title – I want marry with my hindu lover

    I belonged to medium religious family i am wearing burqa from when was i 17 years old.
    Beforw some year (almost 2 year ) one boy propose me and I Accept. He is hindu boy from same college.
    After some months we started loving each other. he allways want that I wear burqa when did I go his room.
    Normally I wear burqa so I allways go his room in burqa and they love me.
    Now we want marry but I am worried for how to say to my parents.
    I very love him I so please provide Idea how can I convince my parents

    Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/muslim-i-want-marry-my-hindu-lover/

  • Hussain
    December 19, 2017 10:01 pm

    “Saif’s first wife, Amrita Singh, had also the same religious fate, gave Abrahamic names to their kids, and later got talaak (divorce).”

    Admin I know you are a hard core hindu who depises Islam and Christinaty but why are you hiding other facts ? You did not mention that Amrita Singh’s mother was a Muslim who married to a Sikh and Amria followed the religion of her father and not her mother.Kids mostly are brought up in Father’s religion.Can’t you understand this basic trend ?

    • Michael
      June 3, 2023 2:29 pm

      Amirta has raised both her kids as Hindu. Sara Ali Khan is a devoted Hindu girl.

    • Michael
      June 3, 2023 2:39 pm

      The Abrahamic religions, particularly Islam has very little in common with the Eastern religions which are based on Dharma-righteousness. Abrahamics on the other hand are believers in blind faith, about a savior or Prophet who will take them to heaven (after death of course), and you get to enjoy eternal sex with Hoors and milk and honey. This kind of belief has no proof at all, and mostly believes in indoctrination. it is like belonging to a club, which wages the Crusades and Jihad and wins territory for their real or imagined God- an invisible entity who lives in the sky. Once again, this has no validity, nor scientific support.
      Hinduism, like its sister religions, Sikh, Buddhism, Jainism etc are purely based on Realization of divinity. Faith is not important, but spiritual growth is. Sooner or later, humanity will get out of the grip of Abrahamic indoctrination and experience the pure sp;irituality of Vedanta, Adwaita, Moksha and the paths that lead to it, Bhakti, Gyan and Dhyan. I wish the gullible celebrities from Sarmila Tagore to Amrita Singh had the spine to stand up to bullying and resisted conversion. Conversion is of paramount importance to Islam, as it dreams of converting the entire world one day to submit to its Arabic faith.

  • Heer
    September 4, 2017 4:28 am

    First and foremost we do not know for sure if she has changed her religion or not.She has not come out in the open and told us that she has not converted. We do not know what goes on behind closed doors. Secondly in the Muslim faith the bride has to change her first name only if it is a non Islamic name.Kareena does not sound like a Hindu name like for example Pooja so maybe that is why she was not required to change her first name .Her son’s name still is a Muslim. If they really were a secular couple they would have named him a Hindu name but they didn’t and she does keep her last name as her husband’s name so we cannot say that they are an ideal for new generations to come because we do not know the truth .IT would really be good if this guy were a large hearted secular minded person but then he would have kept his son’s name as a very neutral name BUT he hasnnt

  • Rabia
    August 7, 2017 7:09 am

    There is a website with Bollywood gossip which has alleged that Kareena and Saif did have a nikkah secretly. Maybe it’s true, maybe it isn’t. They mentioned something about property rights; implying that she wouldn’t be svme to get any inheritance from saif’s side if she didn’t go through with the nikkah. So maybe she did the nikkah for obvious reasons but it was kept a secret from the media?

    • December 19, 2023 5:19 pm

      We can comment what is in the public knowledge and not speculate here. They can have nikah in secret but the marriage must be registered by Islamic marriage act to be a legal Muslim wife for inheritance.

  • Sabha Farhat
    August 1, 2017 6:32 am

    Allah give hidayat both of them and protect them in the fire of hell.

    • ramakrishnan
      November 24, 2023 10:51 pm

      what a stupidity. All Gods are same.. people like you are venom

  • ritamoii1
    March 7, 2017 6:07 pm

    They are not married in Islam.
    Muslim men can only marry muslim woman or if the religion is différent Christian and Jewish women

  • saty
    December 21, 2016 7:40 am

    I will prefer my sister to convert to Islam and raise kids

    • Raj
      February 16, 2019 1:17 am

      Saty u r right.i will also prefer my elder sister to convert to Islam and raise kids.

  • July 30, 2015 2:24 am

    Islam is the only religion acceptable in the eyes of Allah. The ONE and only. The story of Kareena and Saif both have to reply on the day of judgement. It is strictly prohibited to marry non faith girl or boy in Islam. I do personally advice this marriage will not be considered as marriage in front of Allah.
    And it is just loose of time he may enjoy his life in wrong ways doing Jinna and not married life pleasure.
    Allah may forgive them and show them the way to straight path and open their hearts to believe in Allah. Special to Kareena and others who got married muslim man or boys. I may pray Allah to forgive them and show them to come to right path.

    • asha pusha
      January 17, 2016 1:29 pm

      And what is the right path and who are you to make the judgment and
      decide if your Allah will accept them, What good is it anyway whether
      he accepts or not, Have you seen him and what good he has done to you
      Are Murkh! there is only one life to live and this the only time you make or break, You dittos, learn to respect other human life instead of killing or slaughtering others. You stupid, bunch of iddiots, only in this life you make the hell and heaven, so follow Mahatma Gandhi’s way instead killing to non Muslim just learn to respect other human beings and live and let live others too instead of hating them!

  • Farhan
    January 26, 2015 12:30 pm

    The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that has been made unlawful to the believers.

  • Farhan
    January 26, 2015 12:28 pm

    The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that has been made unlawful to the believers (Surah Nur)

  • truth seeker
    August 28, 2014 9:47 pm

    long live the idea of Sanatan Dharma (hinduism)
    friends,
    only that religion can be accepted today, which says all religions are equal and all Gods are same. if islam says only one God is true God, it’s bullshit. it was created more than 15 centuries back to discipline the barbaric tribal people. that has been somewhat achieved. now, embrace the rich idea of hinduism. no, you don’t have to perform any ritual to become a hindu, neither to change your name. you can visualize God in any form, male, female even there are transgender Gods (called Ardhanrishwar). you can enrich your knowledge reading the six schools of philosophy, not to mention the rich repertoire of Veda, Puaranas and Upanishads. you will find contradictory ideas co-existing peacefully. that’s the beauty of hinduism. come, let’s discover the concept of God, Goddess and religion ourselves.
    come, enrich the repertoire of hinduism by your knowledge and experience.

    • aasra
      August 28, 2014 10:04 pm

      well said. though i’m a muslim; i don’t mind your words about islam. you have spoken the truth. anything not changing as per present times will stagnate and decay. islam need reforms – polygamy, five time Adhan(with due respect to it) using loudspeakers which disturbs the sleep of many including many muslims, veil only for us women and many more issues. but, new generation can bring some hope and reforms. don’t worry, in coming days we might seems many reforms and your opinion about ‘tribalness’ will go away.
      I like the idea of hinduism. it respects all religion. never heard any such words like converting to hinduism coz it doesnot forces to do so.

    • mac
      August 29, 2014 5:14 am

      here(Akaula) says there is nothing called hinduism where as you are advertising hinduism, LOL

  • July 28, 2014 5:29 pm

    That is an interest take on the matter!

  • Man Made Religion
    November 1, 2012 8:58 pm

    I have wasted 20% of the time differentiating religions and finding which God is real and has truth on it. I was born as Hindu but ended up making Christian pals which lead me to believe that my parent’s gods are satanic and jesus is the only way. I was literally brainwashed.

    I started attending church because I felt that jesus is the only way and because of my positive mentality towards finding a real god I started to atrract happiness in my life due to bible. And, yes it is true. If you make something an object and believe it to be the creator of this universe then automatically you will feel positive as well as by following the laws you have created. You need god, written laws and followers. Thats called religions. Nobody will go to heaven through religions. Religions is just a kindergarten and PHD is not the end of education. There is a god not human made gods. Hinduism is the perfect example of this. These so called muslims and christians have copied the idea of sanatan dharma and made up a book called BIBLE AND KORAN to brainwash people for money and power.

    Hinduism accepts atheism as a way to find the reality. Reality is god in hinduism. Atheist don’t believe in God but believe in reality that they exist. Atheist people will get more treasures when they die because instead of debating and wasting about god. They have focused on how to help the poor.

    Christians and Muslim made up an idea called test. When a poor man is born, its a test..lol. a test from god to be born poor. Shouting out loud its a test instead of feeding that poor and giving some weath to him.. Calling it a test………poors are there for us to see and give support to them..not a test from god…its reincarnation…..next life in bible and koran is not hell or heaven..its judgement for sometime and again back to heaven or earth…no one will go to hell forever..if i killed you, i will go to hell and suffer for 100 years in hell and come back..im guessing according to our prison…Im 100% sure that hinduism applies to all religions and other non believers because when a person wakes up in the morning, he is thinking about doing something to fullfill desires self or others(kama) desire, thinking about future goals whether god/or no gods exist, should i be doctor or pilot(dharma)righteouness, thinking about how to get rid of that problem(mokhsha)liberation, artha(meaning of something) earning weath.

    • November 2, 2012 12:10 am

      Can you elaborate more on “I was literally brainwashed”? How? What were you told? Why you think what you were told is not right? Were you baptized?

      Can you guide to Sumanth who wants to be Baptized?

      We have written enough about God, can you share your thoughts on these articles?

  • sara
    October 17, 2012 8:40 pm

    she is just a greedy witch she has no religion no love she only wants money,this cannot be happened in islam,that a muslim could marry a hindu,they all bolly actors have their own religious faith,some actors says they half muslim half hindu,how could this possible that at the same time you belive in two religion,how pathetic life they lead,money money and money,and ,money is every thing for them religion and life.

    • Krish
      November 25, 2017 11:09 pm

      Sara… You are absolutely correct.

      Kareena is a low IQ lady.. Ask her some basic question cant she answer..

  • afd
    October 3, 2012 2:56 am

    admin is a fool .

  • David acharya
    October 1, 2012 3:33 pm

    If i wos in this condition of kaarina’s parent , i would force to daughter to break this relation & settle with hindu

    • October 24, 2012 6:32 am

      you all are just fools .. who are fighting for religion. let saif and kereena enjot their life without your stupid thoughts. what should they is suppodes 2 b decided by their family , not by you fucking people. all i want to say is love has no religion . well done saif n karena

  • udayaravi shastry
    September 14, 2012 2:13 am

    kareena is a blemish in the Kapoor family.She is doing a grave mistake to herself and Hinduism. After all he is a third hand (or..)Were there no suitable Hindu boys for her? She has proved again that most filmstars have no brains. No sense of religion Particularly Hindus. When he is proud of being a muslim, why not she be proud of being a Hindu. She is setting a bad example to millions of Indian youth. I wish this marriage does not take place by some divine intervention. Why do these muslims always want hindu girls? Is it not a sort of love jihad? If we hindus have a strong pride and faith in our religion such things dont happen. I hate Karina. She is the ugliest women on earth for this reason.

    • Proloy
      January 14, 2013 5:05 am

      Absolutely correct. Rather I would say,Kapoors should have compelled Saif to be converted to Hinduism.

      • d singh
        August 19, 2016 3:20 pm

        Shut up freaks what has ndu grave sin Hindus don’t have fuking graves

    • rupeshkumar
      May 6, 2013 6:12 am

      I agree with you

  • Sky Walker
    September 13, 2012 5:03 am

    Many misinterpretations in this article.

    1. Author mentioned in some places that “Saif being a good muslim”, so i ll mentione that Saif is not a good muslim from the things i See. If he read the Quran in childhood and understood it then he should have followed it. Quran is the way to lead life on this earth.

    Alcohol/socializing with females outside mattiage/movies is not allowed in islam.

    So most of the non-muslims, see Saif Ali Khan, Salman Khan, Sharukh Khan, Aaamir Khan and think that they are really muslims. Alas, are they! No, they are just spoiled rich kids. Someone born in muslim or with muslim name doesn’t become a muslim

    Muslim means who submits his will and wish to the GOD ALIMIGHTY who created.

    So it doesn’t matter whether Kareen kapoor convert to islam or not. If she convert and she understood islam then she ll protect our body.

    Islam is very simple, have u ever seen Queen Elizabeth or any princess in bikini or vulgar dress…. i don’t think so. So every female in islam is like Queen Elizabeth and she only for husband.

    In one of the paragraphs regarding Saifs statement that Saif believes in Oneness of GOD. thats good to hear but in the next line Saif said that in some places GOD is called Jesus. I pitty saif for his poor knowledge even after reading quran. this proves whether he read the Quran or not. Quran clearly tells, Jesus is niether GOD nor son of GOD but just a prophet of GOD.

    • Man Made Religion
      November 1, 2012 9:10 pm

      Hey Mr…KORAN doesnt allow alcohol i know and we all know..I am a muslim and when a girl walks by I look at her sexy legs and i committ adultery according to Koran…We talk bullshit about Saif ali khan drinking….thats a sin too.. talking about others…

      MUSLIMS and CHRISTIANS are most fake people i have ever seen in my life…….judging others according to a book…

      • faith
        November 17, 2013 1:06 am

        @Man made religion..
        its true….muslims are assholes…..
        “everything belongs to god” and “everything is god” both are same but how can we tell those idiot muslims…

        wat is infinity we can’t define it but in mathematics we gave it a symbol…thats wat we do in religion. we see god in everything, the whole universe is conscious…the whole consciousness , this cosmos is god and its everywhere….

    • faith
      November 17, 2013 12:59 am

      And you are huge pain in Ass….

      😛

  • August 11, 2012 7:07 am

    I thnk saif is a disgrace 2 ISLAM.cos deres no ayyat dat claims a muslim should ve a social marriage just 2 please himself.And bout dis religious violence just 4 kareena and saif I dnt thnnk its important cos I bet you they r just livn dere lives the way they thnk is a pleasure.they are both matured enough 2 know wht s ryt and wht s not.So please 4gt religious violence! It does not help it only destroys!thnx

  • aliza
    August 1, 2012 11:58 am

    the feelings of love come from the bottom of the heart. the couple would self decide how they want to live peacefully.

    nobody never forgate his / her sole.

    by force nobody can bringout/pullout the actule feeling for god/goddess from sole.

    is islam like such a show pray for allah ?

    or am i think that islam is a devil ?

  • aliza
    August 1, 2012 9:22 am

    love is a deep feeling from heart. the couple must decide how they want to live peacefully together.

  • July 26, 2012 1:02 pm

    All of you are living in which world…………………..
    Oh man really you should only know one religion and that is the religion of love……….When two people want to marry it is their choice. I don’t know about the other countries but in India a boy age more than 21 and a girl age more than 18 can marry with a person whom they like……So please

  • July 13, 2012 12:31 pm

    la illah illah mohammadur rassululla

  • July 13, 2012 12:26 pm

    dear brothers duniya m sirf islam dharm hi sachha h. kya muje koi bata sakta h hindu naam ka dharm kisi holly book m likha h .

    • Proloy
      January 14, 2013 5:09 am

      You are a fool& UNEDUCATED.Try to gather some knowledge from the great Hinduism .

    • mann
      November 30, 2013 9:14 am

      Saare Hindu se hi Muslim hue hain.. n Hindu ki books bhi ye hi keh to hy bagwan ek hy bt Muslims have modified Hindu religion and added crap laws and rules … you need to get life everyone wants to live life in his own way not by the book which is written by a man.. you are following one men law not God’s law..

  • Abdulsamadh
    June 5, 2012 8:17 am

    Muhamadh peace and Blessing upon himself.

    Dear Non Muslim (Christians,Hindus,Jews,Sikhs,Jain ETC),
    Brothers and sistes Islam is the True religon
    and god also accept that religon in Quran. Brothers and Sisters first understand Allah is Arabic name means God. Supreme Power. he alone create the Holy universe and allthings like man, animals, Fary, devil, etc…..god has no mother, no son, no father. God is sustainer. no death, no sleep, not eat, he is infinte power.

    Islam is not terror religion it is only peacefull religion in the universe. But muslim not following our religion properly. If muslim person 100% follow the muhamadh peace and blessing upon him. then the non muslim need not fear, disturb etc… in the world heaven for all non muslim. but muslims heaven wait hearafter. so dnot worry muslim poor, no educated, no colour, blindness etc if the person can accept one supreme ALLAH. and Muhamadh peace and Blessing upon himself also messenger of God then only enter the heaven.

    So all accept islam and pray god 5 times, give zakkath for poor, do fasting in the month ramadhan. kareena not comple to convert islam. she married saif or others but he accept islam then only she enter paradise. insha ALLAH (God permets) give Iman for Non muslim brother and sisters. no one can go hell. we are all enter heaven hear and hearafter (God permits). Muhamadh peace and Blessing upon himself.

  • Firdausi gwaggo
    April 21, 2012 1:08 pm

    Islam is d best religion in d world,even our way of live is d most easiest,especially here in nigeria we dont go out without covering our body’s unlyk oda faith,coz a christain girl can wear wat ever she wants to goin out nked which is d way of spreding rape,fornicatn which islam helps in reducing unlike oda faith and as for kareena kapoor if she wish to be saved from hell fire she should convert to islam and if she refuse to then on d day of jugdement everyone will know his or her position.and if she thinks killing of humanbeing is easy let her try it and see wat will happen,cos she wl be killed too nd as for saif jst continue to b a gud man nd dnt ever leave your religion.

  • sadia
    April 21, 2012 1:30 am

    Saif is Muslim. Kareena is Hindu. Muslim men can only marry women of the book, and these women are Christian, Jewish or Muslim. So this excludes wiccan, hindu, buddhist, jains, sikhs etc. If Saif marries Kareena this marriage will not be valid in the eyes of God or Islam.This marriage would be considered committing adultury, aka sex outside of marriage. But if they have been secretly living together, then I assume that is already going on.

    • deepak
      May 10, 2012 5:53 pm

      Islam is not about God, but a fraud that recruits for furthering its own primitive Arab agenda, be it thru terrorism, marriage, imposing jizya or beheading. Unless Muslims completely reject this dangerous doctrine, the world is in big trouble. As for Hindus, like Kareena, the problem with India and Hindus is total lack of pride in standing up to Islamic bigotry. througout England, Islamic gangs of young people in mosque payroll go about trapping white, Hindu and Sikh girls into dating and marriage. In Pakistan, forcibly abducting Hindu girls is now an epidemic. Yet, no one in India even speaks out against this dangerous religion.

  • Universal Man
    April 14, 2012 1:44 am

    To all Hindus of India
    Do remember Muslims are Terrorists, terrorists and they are complete terrorists. Muslims have killed millions of Hindus during their moghul rule in India. During Bangladesh Liberation war in 1971 the Pakistani Muslim army has tortured, killed and raped at least 10 million Hindus in Bangladesh. The Muslims are responsible to sub-divide the Indian continent into 3 separate nations namely India, Pakistan and Bangladesh. In Pakistan up until now Hindus are tortured, Hindu girls are forcibly raped converted to Islam. But WHY WHY and WHY I asking many times WHY all the North Indian (I am south Indian, Tamil speaking) still feel pity, have mercy or have mercy to marry a Muslim man who are the terrorists all over the world. They are the destroyer of Hindu religion from India and rest of the world. Have the North Indian forgotten the history of India. Please, please and please I am begging to all the Hindus in India to not to forget the one thousand year Muslim conquerer history in India and the sub-divided India into 3 nations. Remember just happened Mumbai Taj Hotel siege and Pakistani Muslim terrorists attacks on this prestigious hotel which eventually killed 170 innocent lifes. Why Why and Why still a Hindu woman and man in India still want to marry a Muslim man or Muslim woman. Is there something wrong with you people there in North India. MAY THE GOD SIVA SAVES INDIA AND ALL THE HINDUS OF INDIA. ONCE AGAIN LONG LIVE HINDUS. JAIHIND

    • Islam the true path
      June 16, 2012 1:10 pm

      Muslims are not terrorists ok Muslim people all over the world from young babies to elderly are being killed just for oil. Our religion forbids murder and killing it clearly states in the Quran since u know so much bout us that killing 1 human being is like killing the whole humanity and islam DOES NOT ACCEPT A MUSLIM MARRYING OUTSIDE THE RELIGION.and in my option we should not marry a person who does not have faith in allah

    • Sana Krishna Thomas
      September 16, 2012 10:02 pm

      Universal Man

      How come your name is universal if you are not tolerant for any other faith. Hinduism does not preach to hate the followers of any other faith, neither Hinduism prohibits to love and marry followers of other faith.

      If you are selfish, narrow-minded and intolerant, do not spread your own thought in the name of religion. Let all adult follow whatever they believe is the best for them and personally they will take advice from their parents, guardians and gurus/priests/imams.

      Universal man, first look at your own self, your sins and try to salvage them fast.

      May Lord Shiva bless all!

    • prasaad
      October 16, 2012 1:09 pm

      Bravo, well said bro these stupid north Indians can’t understand the greatness of Hinduism. further why they forget Muslim have spoiled our country for almost 1000 yrs or so. I m maharashtrian, have seen so many girls from maharashtra and up marrying Muslims .theses brainless girls dnt understand Islam is one way traffic unlike other religions. Getting reverted is not possible at all. revertees will be killed as per Koran laws. wake up Hindus. for sake of humanity!! Jay shree ram !! jay hind

    • Man Made Religion
      November 1, 2012 9:14 pm

      your are such an idiot…its not muslim its people like you who are terrorists…terrorist didnt started because of ISLAM. It started because of hatred by people like you…..if ISLAM comes to kill HINDUS..HINDUS will be extinct….so think twice about it….

    • Proloy
      January 14, 2013 5:11 am

      Congratulation for writing the truth. I hate muslims. They can not be trusted. If they want to be good man, they should embrace Hinduism.

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  • Suleman
    April 9, 2012 11:13 am

    I wish people never had to be in a situation like this..

  • SP
    April 7, 2012 7:34 pm

    A muslim man can marry a muslim, christian or a jew but a muslim woman cannot marry any non muslim man. a muslim man is not allowed to marry a hindu. if kareena is a christian she need not need to convert to Islam for the wedding to be valid. also nikah is nothing but just a contract like any other business with the prenup agreements etc. becoz india is majority hindu and require priests etc for marraiges islam doesn’t require a priest or kazi.the moment a muslim man proposes and the girl accepts and her father accepts they are married from that moment. the man has to give the dowry to the woman as much as she thinks will secure her future and any other agreements. the wedding reception is the declaration of the man being married to a particular woman. this is a solid proof of marraige then pen and paper which can be denied and declared fake. people are witnesses. the man has to give the wedding reception not the girls family like all the muslim morons in india and pakistan do.in islam the girl’s family are not at all required to spend even a dollar on the wedding. even the wedding dress the man has to buy. Shariah law should be brought in India if the Indian muslim woman wants her rights and freedom.
    marraige in islam is easy by saying a yes you are married and by saying a no your marraige dissolves. no unfair court date waits. both woman and man have rights to divorce. (talaq from man’s side and Khula from woman’s side, but bollywood nikaah film will not show the truth. bollywood’s illeterate research and stupidity of talaq talaq talaq in that film is demonstrated.
    and yes even if the non muslim converts to marry a muslim and rejects Islam in heart or later the wedding instantly becomes invalid and every moment the couple spends together is considered adultery and their kidz are considered to be out of wedlock and shame on shahrukh and salman khans sister and sanjay dutts wife who gave the illetimacy title to their poor kids.
    by the way arbaaz khans wedding to malaika is pure and valid as she is christian

  • sam
    February 21, 2012 6:31 am

    saif must convert kareena to islam otherwise she is hindu girl ( i mean kafir girl) islam cannot accept this.

    shahrukh khan and salman khan are the kafir

    • deepak
      May 10, 2012 5:55 pm

      Islam should be banned for the bigotted terror doctrine it is. Kareena needs to be educated, and it is time Hindus stand up against Islamic bigotry and conversion drives.

    • Sana Krishna Thomas
      September 16, 2012 10:08 pm

      sam

      Which faith u follow my dear and if you are so particular about what other people should or shouldn’t do then why did u adopt a name which is does not clarify which religion you follow?

      If you are a human being first and talk for humanity not against it. 🙂

    • Proloy
      January 14, 2013 5:13 am

      Saif Should be converted to Hinduism

  • February 14, 2012 1:27 am

    Get your facts right. Kareena does not follow Hindu religion. She follows her mother’s adopted religion of Chritianity. Therefore the marriage is muslim christian marriage.

    • kaulicharan
      February 14, 2012 5:44 am

      Islam is a religion of tribals, for tribals and for surviving the mankind in rough terrain of deserts . It is a foreign religion , not meant for a civilised society like India which has rich culture of thousands of years. it will be very disappointing if Kareena will convert to Islam and follow the religion of tribals.
      I will hate her forever and I know she will be hated by all Hindus including her uncles.

      • a
        February 22, 2012 4:45 pm

        kauliachan , ISLAM IS THE BEST religion

        • Indian-2
          May 7, 2012 3:32 am

          Islam is the Best terrorist religion .

      • Proloy
        January 14, 2013 5:14 am

        Agreed

    • deepak
      May 10, 2012 5:57 pm

      Islamic gangs in Pakistan abducts Hindu and Christian girls and forcibly marries them off. STAND UP AGAINST ISLAMIC BULLYING AND TERROR IN THE NAME OF THEIR TRIBAL GOD ALLAH.

      • Proloy
        January 14, 2013 5:15 am

        Come forward all Hindus to fight Muslims. Convert them into Hinduism

  • February 7, 2012 12:37 pm

    saif should not married to kareen unless she converted to muslim.easy solution 4 all greatest problem.kareen should see toward saif mom.if she want to live peaceful life.muslim life is peaceful life of all life of other religion.islam is peace.hindusum is evil.becoz they r not contented due to having different gods

    • February 9, 2012 1:16 pm

      People, spell check is a great invention. Use it.
      Kareena Kapoor should convert? Does reciting religous phrases make you change your heart? If so, the person is shallow. Do you think that Sharmila Tagore, after converting, forgot a life time of Hindu teachings.
      For all of you who think that Kareena should marry Shahid Kapoor. Shahid is my cousin (Neelima Azeems) son. He is half muslim, so Kareena will not be marrying a Hindu boy.

  • lalitha
    February 3, 2012 11:24 pm

    It is better for kareena to marry an hindu especially to shahid kapoor who is her first love..let them leave their egoistic deifferences and come to terms as first love is true love…as for as saif concerned he is pakka muslim and cannot be trusted…he left amritha singh and dared so many women…muslims men are really dangerous as their marriage laws are different from our hindu law of maariage..

  • Sayida
    December 8, 2011 3:26 am

    and Bebo wants to continue acting after marriage… a bit difficult… unless she stops acting after marriage… to save the marriage with Saif. Saif is not trusting either.. Shahid is better.

  • Sayida
    December 8, 2011 3:19 am

    Kareena should go back with Shahid Kapoor. Both can’t forget each other. The truth is she is stuck because there is Saif. Shahid can’t forget her either… Bebo should Leave Saif (to Bebo) and Shahid should leave Priyanka. Leave their big ego aside and reconcile back.

    ….and Bebo wants to continue acting after marriage… a bit difficult… unless she stops acting after marriage… to save the marriage with Saif. Saif is not trusting either.. Shahid is better.

  • December 5, 2011 12:07 am

    Why are we debating Hindu-Muslim marriages using Saif and Kareena as role models? Most of the Bollywood actors are amoral (have no morals). Their religion is money and fame.
    For Kareena, becoming the next Begum Pataudi is worth the superficial mumblings of converting to Islam. She has her mother-in-law as her role model. The test of true character would be if no one converted and yet managed to live and bring their children up in harmony.
    Bollywood is not real life people.

  • Babar
    October 3, 2011 2:28 pm

    Bhai jaan,kia yeh ghalat hai ke hum sab ki Maa behen parde mein rahein aur un ki izat mehfooz rahe. sirf islam mein hi aasani hai. aur islam kisi se koi mushkil cheez to nahi mangta. Muslim to sirf sab ko us aag se bachana chahte hain jis ka zikar Holy Quran mein hai aur Hazrat Muhammad PBUH ne kia hai.

  • Secret
    September 28, 2011 7:36 am

    TOTALLY WRONG to marry a muslim man…Kareena, you should not get married to this man…I am sure that it will not last long..I think if they were married, kareena have to change to Islam..wait and see.. the islam won’t let in their family without changing to their religion..

    • Sayida
      December 8, 2011 3:22 am

      you are totally wrong. Islam is not such a religion. But Saif is not the man for Kareena. I think Shahid is.

      • December 8, 2011 10:41 am

        Sayida,
        You said Secret is totally wrong….including?….”if they were married, kareena have to change to Islam.”
        Is Nikaah possible without Shahadah?
        Explain to us, why this conversion business if the love is true?
        Love of conversion or love for a person important?
        Why Saif can’t tolerate a “Hindu” Kareena as a wife?
        Why Sharmila had to convert?
        You said Islam is not such a religion….. Explain, what type of religion Islam is?

  • Ram Chandra
    September 23, 2011 1:35 pm

    Saif is a playboy. It will be wrong for Kareena to mary such a stupid being a hindu girl. Why not Kareena belief that all over the world Muslims are hated by other religious faith and branded them as terorist.

  • Priyanka Karandikar
    September 2, 2011 8:24 am

    In what way is this a topic for debate? Did Kareena ask us for our views?It is no one’s business but hers what she chooses to do. Let her become a begum or remain Hindu – being a savvy and mature individual she wd have thought through all these issues & also discussed with her beau a long time back.

    Can we please mind our own business and not poke our noses where it’s not required?

    • sushant
      December 4, 2012 2:46 am

      i totally agree with you but she is an celebrity and idol for too many hindu girls thats ram chandra is right in his manner

  • khadijah ikram
    June 26, 2011 6:27 pm

    The gods u pray to they dont exsist. God does so wait for the day of judgement, and you will all pay for believing in shit. Karenna should convert and relize that what shes got is thanks to god.

    • M ibrahim(mike)
      November 19, 2011 12:38 pm

      the true religion in the world is Islam because i was in my past a christian and after two year searching about religion i found the true religion now i am very happy and thankful from Allah. -khadijah ikram is 100 % right

    • diosvive
      February 19, 2012 12:38 pm

      lo que dices es la pura verdad, sin dios no somos nada, espero y declaro que kareena sea cristiana(nada de:mulsumanes,catolicos,hindus,etc sino la verdadera religion que es el evangelio,cristianismo) antes de que venga el juicio donde habra dolor enterno para los no-creyentes, tengo la fe que ella va ser una hija de dios….saludos=)

      Translation (using a web site): what you say is the pure truth, without god we are not at all, I hope and declare that kareena it is Christian (not at all these Muslims, Catholics, Hindus, etc but the real religion that is the gospel, Christianity) before there comes the Judgment Day where there will be pain for the non-believers, I have the faith that she goes to be a god’s daughter…. greetings :=)

    • Admin
      February 19, 2012 3:04 pm

      Dear Khadijian Ikram and Diosvive,

      Explain us THE JUDGMENT DAY.

      It is clear that all Hindus, Jains, Sikhs and Buddhists will go to hell on the Judgment Day. This also mean Mahatma Gandhi will also go to the hell, while Baptized Hitler and a good Muslim Osama Bin Ladin will be go to Heaven. This is understood.

      How about all Jews who are not baptized nor are believer in the New Testament-Biblical or Koranic teachings?

      How about all Muslims who are not Baptized, do not follow Biblical commandments and do not believe Jesus as a son of God?

      How about all Christians who wrongfully believe that God could have a son (Koran 4:171, 19:34, 19:88) and do not follow Koranic teachings (that not to make friends with Christians and Jews; Koran 5:51)?

      Christians and Muslims, can you explain us, is Jesus a son of God or simply an apostle? Which one of you is a “believer?” Which one of you two will go to the Heaven on the Judgment Day?

  • May 29, 2011 9:26 am

    What do you espect from kareena when she grow up with her mother that left their Father just for the children to Act film. And for Saif Ali Khan, He is a disgrace to Islam and i wish he cheated on kareena so she can then Slaughter him.

    • May 14, 2012 7:09 pm

      Dear sapna,please do not forget that we are talking of love between the two stars,so why not advice our dear sister to convert to Islam for the sake of their love(marriage).remember the man is always the head of a family no matter what the circumstance is.so l would love it much,if u could join hand with me to remind our dear sister(Kareena)that she is marrying to stay with the man she claim she loves but not any one else so the ball is now at her court,the decision is hers

  • Sanjeev
    March 24, 2011 11:24 am

    I am in full support of inter-faith marriages as long as no conversion out of Hinduism is involved and the children are brought up as Hindu, with Hindu names. Please visit this blog post quote below for a long list of Hindu-Muslim marriages. You will be amazed to see how a huge number of them have resulted in incorporation of the entire family into Islam.

    AAJ KE JODHA AKBAR
    http://chalatmusafir.wordpress.com/2009/04/25/aaj-ke-jodha-akbar/

  • December 29, 2010 1:53 pm

    WOW SAIF YOU SPOIL THE NAME OF ISLAM I DON’T THING YOU ARE A MUSLIM MAN

  • Sadeeq nigeria
    October 17, 2010 12:05 pm

    ISLAM IS NOT ALLOWS MUSLIM MALE TO MARRY HINDU GIRL…QURAN:2:85 BECAUSE ISLAM HATES IDOLATORERS.

  • September 16, 2010 5:43 pm

    All wise women should embrace Vedic Dharma and reject Islam if they value their dignity. All married women should force their husbands to convert or plan ways to take divorce and convert to Vedic Dharma. This may be difficult in short-term but would ensure a life of dignity and self-respect forever!

    http://santoshbhatt.wordpress.com/2010/05/24/if-you-are-a-muslim-woman-or-plan-to-be-a-muslim-woman-for-sake-of-someones-love-think-twice-before-you-jump-into-hell-or-continue-to-live-in-hell/

  • MUKESH
    June 29, 2010 5:40 pm

    NO NO AND NO THIS MARRAIGE WITH MUSLIMS BOYS IS NEVER GOOD.THEY FORCE THRE WISHES ON WIFE .

  • Ravindra
    June 18, 2010 7:36 am

    The article that Akbar had no BBS is such a hogwash. None of his children had Hindu names, nor didi they follow Hinduism. The fact remains every Hindu who marries a Muslim and becomes Muslim may be his/her free will. But their children will consider Hindu Children as Kaffirs. And Quran has a well prescribed treatment for them. Hindus are completely blind to long term consequences for the rest of us through such marriages. Most recent Example is Kashmir, where the decedents of Hindus who became Muslims, have thrown out remaining Hindus. Every where conversions have happened the converted start secession movement. Their sacred places change, their heros change, their dress changes, their eating habits change. They look down upon the Kaafir.
    Ravindra

  • May 24, 2010 11:54 pm

    Is just fine for Kareena to marry whom ever she wants. But if she converts to Islam to Marry Saif Ali Khan then the Question will arise Why can’t Saif converts to Hinduism to Marry Kareena. So they will be better off marrying each other without conversion. That will be Indian wedding. But if Kareena converts to Islam Then all of us should boycott Kareena and Saif for ever. May be they should be banned and Indian citizenship removed.

    • M ibrahim(mike)
      November 19, 2011 12:50 pm

      because you dnt know the reality about religion .
      in my opinion Islam is one of the grateful religion in the world although i was a christian but after tow year searching about religion i convert to Islam .
      if you would come to reality you would never right such things .

    • May 14, 2012 7:25 pm

      Dear JK,remember u said kareena can decide to convert and marry saif or the vice versa,yes it’s true that love is heart desire and self oriented.please do not forget that whoever the curp fits wears it and what goes around comes around,look into this matter once again and ask urself,if l was in any of their shoes,what would have been my mind.but dont forget that the man is always the head of his family no matter the circumstance,even though there is gender equality

  • Salman
    April 8, 2010 9:05 pm

    I don’t really think they are very religious to begin with, so I highly doubt that they think about religion when dwelling into relationships and marriages. Bollywood marriages are filled with actors and actresses from different backgrounds. I think it depends on the people in question, how religious they are, etc. Saif in my honest opinion is NOT someone who could settle down, even after his first wife Amrita he has dated but nothing serious. He’s a very rich guy, so for Kareena to date him is not a question of anything but money as well. I don’t think that they will even get to marriage, and if they do it won’t last.. not because they are from different backgrounds, as my wife and I are frm different faiths as well, but more because I think for both of them, their careers and independence comes first, more than their “relationship” or “marriage” (if it gets to that stage).

    Also, I want to add, not all of us Muslims are “jihadis”. My wife is not Muslim and I have never asked her to convert simply because I do not believe in it. I love her to death, and no one will ever ask her to compromise her identity. We are very happy and we don’t dwell into religion too much because we are compatible and she is my best friend. I do believe though that a woman, regardless to her faith, should marry someone who does not try to steal her identity by making her convert. I am liberal in my thoughts I know, but I want a future for my children that is not filled with hatred. I hope that can happen but first we have to change our outlooks, and I as a Muslim man am trying. If there is anything I do know, it is that God is found in loving others.

  • Jay
    April 6, 2010 11:52 am

    How ever good spirit a Hindu and a Muslim have decided to get married and say that their marriage will succeed, I believe 9 out of 10 cases it does not. The simple reason is that Muslims whether they understand or not their religion have an in-built thought from a young age that Islam is the only correct religion and that they will never change their religion but if their life partner is non-Muslim then they must change their religion. It is a very uncomnpromising one sided thought. People who are single minded, one can never come to a lasting compromised decision. That is the very reason, Hindus and Muslims will never get along with each other for lasting time. I wish people would recognise this thought and not to be brave and think that their interfaith marriage is different and where thousnads of marriages have failed, their’s will succeed. Please, forget it, it will not. Unfortunatley, the Muslims will never compromise with thier religion whether they understand it or not and most Muslims do not really understand their religion. I am not sure why Hindu’s try to marry a Muslim knowing that there is as much difference between the two religions as there is between north and south pole.

    Karina is not a cultured girl in my opinion and she is a carrer mided girl. I believe that she will finally not marry him and if she does then she will have his child very soon but then that quickly will be the divorce.

  • April 1, 2010 12:36 pm

    Ancient Indian tradition has recognized that when a girl is married into a family, she adopts her new family in every which way, faith included. That’s the reason why girls’ families were very thoughtful before deciding where to give away their daughters [‘kanyaa daana’]. Among Muslims, they are very particular that the girl converts to Islam. On the contrary, Muslims do not seem to approve if their girls give up Islam and convert to other religions. They have been known strongly to disapprove of any conversion to any non-Islamic religion. In the past, the Hindu Rajput princess of ‘Amber’ [later Jaipur royalty] who was married to Akbar is believed to have retained her Hindu faith and culture. There is a paucity of historical evidence to support this observation. In recent past, Mahatma Gandhi is said to have suggested to Jawaharlal Nehru’s sister Vijaylakshmi to find out if her suitor loved her much enough to convert from Muslim to Hindu. He said no, and she married a Kashmiri pandit. I was deeply concerned that a great granddaughter of Gurudev Tagore converted to Islam. Kareena is a Khatri, and if she converts to Islam, it should not come as a big surprise or shock. Nawab or no nawab, our Indian Muslim brethren seem to have forgotten that their original ancestors were Hindus. It is their choice to follow the foreign religion and culture of the Arabs, and even be subservient to it. But it would be nice if they appreciate their Indian ancestry.

    • SP
      April 7, 2012 9:38 pm

      hello even the arabs were non muslims before they became muslims! you can keep going as far in ancestry as you can ca and your ancestors and mine will end on one single couple Adam and Eve (May Allah’s Peace and Blessings Be upon them) who by the way were muslims. So we all were muslims to begin with your Indian ancestors too!

      • October 2, 2012 8:26 pm

        May I inform you that while Islam is native to the Arabs, it was imposed on the rest of the world. Get real. As Seema Maheshwari put it so squarely and eloquently, “The test of true character is if no one converted.”

        • Amir
          October 3, 2012 5:40 am

          There are many religions, but there are no followers except muslims.

          If islam has been imposed, it would not have put such impression to the hearts of believers.

  • arish sahani
    January 13, 2010 10:22 pm

    Its shame Hindus have not learned from the history. Its shame our media is also letting Hindus down as they never educate or give you the facts about other religion, culture, ways of life or islamic nations. All Muslims living in Pakistan, Bangladesh and Kashmir and Afganistan were once Hindu. After 2 and 3rd generation hindus who were brahnmin rich will end up in third generation unedcuted or jihadi calss like in islamic nations we see now. If Hindus need to be saved and Kareena wants her children to be jihadi and sucidal we can do nothing but let her know her future genration will end up some were in jail or honor killing her, may be one day her own children will kill her seeing her movies with other actors. Look Like Kapoor family future is doomed from now onwards. No Hindu will think of giving them daughters or sons after 1 , 2 generations.

  • dinesh paliwal
    January 13, 2010 11:42 am

    All Dharmas are root cause for conflicts around the world, as much as we talk about keeping them out of politics, which never happens. Out of all the Dharmas Rajneesh’s was the best philosophy, live, let live, enjoy when you can.

  • Jay
    January 11, 2010 11:19 pm

    Kareena Kapoor does not seem to have any choice but to go the way Amrita Singh went. To put it in very positive way, for her freelance, carefree, art dedicated views it will be surprising if this marraige, if happens, may last as long as Amrita’s. Interfaith, equality etc. are foreign to Islam and possibly she knows very well. Being career oriented she might have made this choice in the same spirit!

    For normal people however, some ground work should be done before entering into interfaith alliance since down the road choices have to be made. Choices may seem very tough at a later stage since the entire belief system, personality has to be changed by force or compromised. Unfortunately, children may be the worst sufferers since they will grow in confusion and may turn away from either beliefs due to frustration.

    For those who can afford to ponder over marriage as a long term partnership, a means to fulfil inherent mundane desires (like having a nice family) and also pursue higher goals in life (like service to others, spirituality) faith may be an essential anchor of life. In this sense, it will be important whom one chooses as life partner. Not taking time now to THINK may cause major disturbances in married life at a later stage. Therefore, message from Gita to follow one’s own dharma is better than following someone else’s dharma, howsoever attractive it may seem”.

    • May 14, 2012 7:38 pm

      Oh Jay,u are right,what u have said is the bitter truth infact,what goes around comes around,yes the two of them knows it better than any other person.one should follow the heart and make his/her choice.we for ourselves,God for us all

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