My wife calls me kafir…..I wish I die.
Comment by Dee — October 5, 2010 @ 4:46 pm
I am in a relationship with a Muslim for almost 18 years. I am a Hindu and she is a Muslim, we have 3 boys. Intially we fell in love with each other, there were no religious boundary but only love. She was dishoned by her family until we had our first boy. She has brought up the kids as Muslims. More and more she is moving into the world of Islam and more and more am I moving away from her. I love my kids but recently she has started wearing a vale. This is hard for me to accept. I am respected by her family but always treated an outcast due to my religion and language. I love her but she has chosen her religion over me. She calls me and my family kafirs. She fleshly believe in birthdays or Hindu weddings. I am hurting so much. Almost half my life has been spent with her and the kids. I used to love her but it is now turning into hatred of the Muslim religion for turning her into what she is. Today my two boys 15 and 5 told me we are Muslims and don’t believe in Hindu’s. What am I to do I am a Hindu? I feel like I want to die. The pain is so great in my chest. I wish I had married a Hindu. My life is a big lie, I lie to my parents about the kids being Hindus and not eating meat. I feel I am sinking and there is no one to pull me out. Every time the word Hindu is mentioned I am called a kafir. Is this what I am at the age of forty? What have I done? I feel worthless and feel I should die before my mum and dad do. My sons or wife will not attend the funeral. I don’t know what to do I feel so sad and d -Dee
Comment by Dee — October 28, 2010 @ 5:02 pm
I feel really bad my days and nights are so long my partner views islam higher than me. After all I am a Hindu and a kafir in her eye. I live to support her and my 3 kids. I wish I die, I cannot be happy my immediate family or hers. What is there in life to live for. I suffer from asthma and each tray I hope I will have a big attack and die. I ask myself am I a kafir was I so low. No my mum tells me I am a brahmin. I see my pain and urge all Muslims and Hindu to never get involved in a relation it only ends up in pain. May be not straight away but eventually. You fell like during when this happens. I feel like taking my life but find it hard because of my 3 boys smallest being 10 months. Why is life so hard. All communication has broken down, what is there to look in life apart from death, I can’t wait. I would like to go before my mum and dad so they can cremate me, I can then be free. What a life of lies and misery, don’t put yourself through this. Should I leave her, I feel I can’t due to the kids shoud i die, this is easier please help me. -Dee
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I think Aamir and Zahid both are same, using different names to write all nonsense here.
Zahid, means, Zahil, should realize that only due to criminal and cruel persons like them, muslim women are subject to enourmous torture and attrocities since long. They can marry any number of women, loosing their virginity long back but every time, they marry, they need a virgin wife. This is the reason that 95% muslim women are getting hymen repair surgery or using artificial hymen kit for wedding night, so that blood stains are found on the bed sheets and they could live a graceful life being virgin. Muslim women are demanding free hymen repair surgery in European countries to save their married life.
I am Muslim but I respect all the religion I think all of them they got good and bad things. I’m a women and I think that your wife she is wrong ,cuz before she marry you she knew that the Muslim women doesn’t allow to marry no Muslim man , but if she accepted you she must reflect you as a husband cuz she mustn’t swear on you and she must respect your religion as well .thats mean she is not a good Muslim you must tell her she is a later one cuz she didn’t practice her religion nicely.
I see that your a good man please don’t leave your children you can just tell the truth for your parents about them and you just speak with your wife and ask her to respect you as a has band and Hindi . don’t do something for your family just try to mange that .your children comes first no one can be in your child place trust me!everything will be fine.
Just convert to islam the religion of truth.hinduism is a religion of foolish people who worship idols which have no life in it.
You bastard Zahid,
Why he should convert to Islam, to become Jehadi or terrorist like you?
Islam is the most dangerous and full of evils to torture the haumanity and innocents.
Keep you foolish ideas with you.
She will leave the hindu religion in which creator of hindus(brahama) raped his own dughter saraswati and become fallower of true religion i.e islam
Hey,
Sorry about your story. But to be true, I wish you be a MAN.
Don’t you worry about your family. If she would have loved you truly, she wouldn’t give a damn about religion. She would have given a higher priority to you than your religion.
And yeah, never ever convert to Islam. I mean never ever get that thought. I had experienced all these conversion thoughts so I hope you won’t. If she doesn’t care, leave her. I don’t recommend another marriage because getting married at 40 makes the society speak of you in a very dirty way as this is India.
I recommend you start serving the poor and needy and also join any NGO and serve the orphanage. I guess this is the best option because you’ll find peace of mind. If you marry another girl, her relatives are not going to just leave you.
Go and help the poor orphans who know how much it feels of not having parents. You’ll see their love in front of your eyes when you help them and trust me, they’ll be more faithful than your own kids.
Dieing is always not an option. In fact, when you think of dieing, it shows how weak you’re. Seems like you’re a henpecked husband. Just leave her and help NGOs.
All the best for future. Hope to see you as a different man.
Waiting for your reply.
Kafir means non muslims
She must first have understand islam surely she will not have marriage with you.and had married to muslim
Hi, you r a man or bitch fucker ? immediate divorce that bitch & just forget your contaminated child. And remarry and party again. after that help or hug old people keep smile & forget all your black past.
Listen, man up and don’t let ur kids go into the pit of Islam at any cost. Their entire lives will be spoilt with hate & indoctrination. They hate u because entire Quran is a hate speech. 2 out of 3 verses are about kafirs. It will be find to find 5-10 continious verses NOT talking about kafirs.
There is PLENTY of material and proof against Islam. Show that to your kids:
- The hate & jihad in Quran
- Life of Muhammad (his murders, rapes, taking sex-slaves, hypocricy)
- Scientific Proof – Quran calls earth flat & tht the sun revolves around the earth. Totally false science of embryology
Take charge of your kids. And never let ur 10-month kid fall into the trap. You will destroy not only their this life but after life too. Tale care, if u need help – let us know. We will guide you and give you material to show to your kids.
If they are beyong help – no problem – leave them without remorse.
hey dee leave ur wife.its not late.show ur kids what is hindu religion.take them to temple like u do n teach them hinduism.its still not late.u can also have custody of ur kids.they are ur kids too.u can teach them ur religion as well.ur wife is mentally sick i guess.
hi Dee,
we have the same lifestory except u r a man and i am a woman. yeah the hatred is sooooo hurtful. i just feel once my kids grow up, i can gather the courage to leave this life of pain, isolation and torture!!
Comment to Anita at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2422
So your youngest son is only 10 months old which mean your wife is still having “sexual relationship” with you and yet she is a practicing Muslim? How is that possible? If she calls you Kafir and still sleeps with you, then she is committing the biggest sin (adultery) in Islam. Either she is totally confused about Islam or your story is fabricated.
I read your story and it’s truly sad. I don’t know what husband or wife would deliberately do that to their spouse. I am sorry for your pain and I know having no real connection with your wife now must hurt you. But you need to have proper communication with her. Strictly tell her that if she has a problem with the faith you are then why now has she decided, why not before marriage? why is she being hostile towards you now?
You need to talk to each other and if she still does not respect you, then brother I’m sad to say but you deserve better than her. Don’t waste your time on those who hurt you and don’t realize the importance you have in their life. If she is not treating you with respect nor attending your family functions, then do the same. You have to stand your ground as a man and as the husband in this relationship. I’m not saying to hurt her but be a bit strict. If her faith is important to her then so is yours. I am Muslim but this is just disgusting behaviour and something that no one should be doing to their so called loved ones.
Do not lose heart or even think of suicide. Your only 40 years old and many years ahead of you. Your wife has gotten use to the fact that you take her abuse without saying anything back, you need to tell her how you feel. If she still does not stop with the insulting behaviour then tell her you will not stand for it.
You are all idiots especially the one saying lies u know who u are
I would suggest you to learn the truth about Islam and teach it to your kids and show the real face of Muhammad the founder of Islam to her, but be careful as Islam teaches pure hatred, terrorism, rape and murder her mosque Mullahs might almost indefinitely try to hurt/kill you. Muhammad was a false prophet in fact a modern day lowlife criminal has more moral values than Muhammad the founder of Islam.
Here watch this video for starters:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EbDtosIaJCg
Search Christian Prince and watch his videos and read a few articles from faithfreedom, islamwatch, investigateislam etc.
Here even an Ex-Muslim is offering $50,000 U.S. dollars if proven false.
Muhammad was no prophet, but a lowlife desert pirate,a narcissist, a misogynist, a rapist, a pedophile, a lecher, a torturer, a mass murderer, a cult leader, an assassin, a terrorist, a mad man, a looter etc.
http://www.faithfreedom.org/challenge.htm
In fact this serial rapist Muhammad was a false prophet as per the Quran READ:
Sahih Al-Bukhari Book #3, Hadith #786: – Narrated Anas bin Malik: A Jewess brought a poisoned (cooked) sheep for the Prophet who ate from it. She was brought to the Prophet and he was asked, “Shall we kill her?” He said, “No.” I continued to see the effect of the poison on the palate of the mouth of Allah’s Apostle.
Ibn Sa’d, p.252: The apostle of Allah sent for Zaynab and said to her, “What induced you to do what you have done?” She replied, “You have done to my people what you have done. YOU HAVE KILLED MY FATHER, MY UNCLE AND MY HUSBAND, so I said to myself, “If you are a prophet, the foreleg will inform you; and others have said, “If you are not a prophet, we will get rid of you”.
After Muhammad murdered (Zaynab) Jewish women’s father, uncle, and her husband Muhammad confessed at his death bead his aorta was being cut off due to that very poison:
Sahih Al-Bukhari Book #59, Hadith #713: – “O ‘Aisha! I still feel the pain caused by the food I ate at Khaibar, and at this time, I FEEL AS IF MY AORTA IS BEING CUT FROM THAT POISON.”
Al -Tabari Volume 8, page 124: – The messenger of Allah said during the illness from which he died – the mother of Bishr had come in to visit him – “Umm Bishr, at this very moment I FEEL MY AORTA BEING SEVERED because of the food I ate with your son at Khaybar.”
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Quran says IF MUHAMMAD WAS A FALSE PROPHET THEN ALLAH WILL CUT OFF HIS AORTA this is the verse:
Quran 69:44-46: And if he (Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم) had forged a false saying concerning Us (Allah جل جلاله) – And then We certainly would have cut off his life artery (aorta)
CONCLUSION:
Muhammad was a false prophet who distorted and forged the words of God and was killed (poisoned died a slow agonizing painful death) by a Jewish woman through the hands of that true God for being a false prophet.
This is just the tip of the iceberg research and you will find out how evil demonic Muhammad’s cult Islam really is…
all false propoganda against muslims. this is the handiwork of the christian evengelicals who think they can cnvert the whole world to christianity. keep dreaming..
Please Sir,
Just leave that woman. Your sons will always be your sons, no matter what. They hopefully will find it in their heart to see the truth. If they don’t, don’t you worry. You have done your best. As a man, you shouldn’t stray from your Dharma. This is the worst folley a man can commit; to ignore his heart and soul, that voice which speaks inside him.
Go out and start living your life. Don’t regret your decision. Already you are forty and starting to regret. Do you want to pass another 10 years and still have the same feeling? Please don’t kill yourself over a silly woman, who doesn’t know what marriage means. A woman should follow a man. There’s no other way. But this age of Kali is so poisoned, that people have forgotten their true relationship with Krishna, the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
You are like my brother, I am telling you. I am from South Africa and also married a Muslim. There are many a days when I also think I want to quit this marriage. SHe also doesn’t want to do what I do. Then How can we have children? I dont want the same thing to happen to me. Then I will want to die. Thank Krishna, He hasnt given us children. I hope it stays that way. What will my life become if we have kids? I wouldn’t be able to live if my kids become Muslim.
Sir,
Divorce your wife
Remarry a Hindu woman
Have Hindu Kids, even if just one.
This will turn her mad.
Show her if she does not care for you, You wont care for her.
Doesnt matter if you have to pay allimony.
Record the cruel things she does.
Hey Hindu Man who married a Muslim girl long ago and is wailing like a girl now
, what happened to you ?
Did you man up as you were told to in the http://www.faithfreedom.org blog ?
Brother; when you have realised that you have been used may be your wife did never love you or love has been ended from her side so did she trying that you should accept the islam. That’s why she is harrassing you to do so. Your relation was based on true love and love is always two way. Its required faith and asked for selfmotivated sacrifice but your wife demands all sacrifices from you that means she is making business with you. Her perspective is very clear if you want her love, respect, faith and your childrens so you must accept islam. Truth is love never followed any rules. If your about to accept Islam please do remember where you came from. Remember your mother, father and your family who gave you true love. You can hurt them all with one mistake… Best thing will be move out of this relationship. Find any hindu girl or widow and live happily and peacefully. Don’t think about muslim girl you marry with she forced you to take this decision so she worth it…!
Muslims talk of equality – Muslim Man’s Quran has not taught him equality obviously!!
People who talk of being muslims being superior to kafirs are clearly deranged.
Almost all places you go, Muslims are the poorest and most backward communities! They beat their women, treat them like dirt, rape them against their wishes just like their beloved Mohammed did!