Prof. Diwakar says: December 10, 2012 at 4:59 am
Hello Dr. Alok, Congratulations for settling the issues with soulmate.
I am too in love with a muslim teacher of our own institute. She is a faculty of management and myself Head of department of Electronics Dept. Her family is finding difficulty to get a suitable match for her. They found one hardware engineer, but later known to be just a mechanic and assembling parts and having already a wife and thus relation could not be matured.
Now she has dropped the idea to marry in her own community and deeply attached with me. She has sounded her parents about marrying me.
Initially they are little hesitant but finding to no alternative, they are not opposing too.
I have not put any condition to change her religion. She is happy to know from me. Even she has met my parents, and looking her personality my parents have agreed to and hopefully next month her parents will also meet them. – Dr. Diwakar
Satyen says: December 10, 2012 at 8:06 am
Prof. Diwakar,
Wish you all the best for the forthcoming marriage with a compatible girl. Hope, you both will light a lamp of humanity together in the darkness of communalism by spreading the message ‘Ekam Sadviprah Bahudha Vadanti’(Scholars describe the same God in various ways – the Vedas).
We look forward to hearing from you regarding your marriage. -Satyen.
Admin says:
Prof. Diwakar,
Education is power. You both are independent and living in a secular free country and thus no one could stop you from what wish to do. However, we strongly advise you to completely understand complexities of Hindu-Muslim marriages. You read Hindu man and ask her to read Muslim girl articles. Clearly discuss out how your children will be taught about religion. NO BBS, please!
Understand that Hindu-Muslim marriage is like mixing milk and yogurt, considering Islam is an exclusivist while Hinduism could be pluralist religions and there are many conflicting teachings in them.
Another important point, learn from mistakes of others rather than making mistakes for yourself. You know it well that best way to educate is to teach. Please come and guide other youths in love on this site and it will help you tremendously. Best wishes. -Admin.
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Prof.Diwakar says: May 5, 2013 at 2:42 am (Edit)
Hi Admn.
I have married my muslim GF, who was faculty in Management institute as per Aryasamaj rules and marriage got registered.
Very happy together. No problem occurred. Her parents and relatives in small number too joined us on that occasion.
Thanks for the support and good wishes from all. -Prof. Diwakar
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Terrorist Mohammad, follower of rapist Mohammad, putting misleading statements.
He is ISIS associate doing level best efforts to preaching evil teachings of Mohammad, Koran and Hadis.
same guy kartar,chand osamani.,Rukshana. etc. . .
cheater fellow….
Try to make fool for people…but it wont happen
Hi all readers,
Prompted with the life story of Prof.D above, I could dare to marry my hind BF,we worked together for 7 years,understood each other and finally educated parents and got successful in tying nuptial knot.We are working in a chemical industry in Pune and living gracefully respecting religious sentiments of each other.
same guy kartar,chand osamani.,Rukshana. etc. . .
cheater fellow….
Try to make fool for people…but it wont happen
Hi Admn.
I have married my muslim GF, who was faculty in Management institute as per Aryasamaj rules and marriage got registered.
Very happy together. No problem occurred. Her parents and relatives in small number too joined us on that occasion.
Thanks for the support and good wishes from all.
Professor,
This is certainly great news, we are very happy for you.
Now do not forget your responsibility to this society to guide other ignorant people. You both should write lots of articles about Hindu-Muslim relationships and make India and people in prosperous and peaceful.
Also plan to come to this site to guide other youths. Please use this URL https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3607 while blogging, this others know who you are. We hope to hear from you again and again.
same guy kartar,chand osamani.,Rukshana. etc. . .
cheater fellow….
Try to make fool for people…but it wont happen
Do you think islam did not ask education for girls. Islam asks educate your girls and boys so that they can know signs of allah. In islam women can run their own bussiness and it is commanded to husband not to takes anythings what she earn from it or what you give her
Note we are not talking about Islamic education, we are talking about the other college education that make you financially independent and a critical thinker. If you are saying that yes Islam is all about that education too and women being independent, that is great news. Please clarify.
It does not mean only islamic education.islam says get education if you have to go anypart of the world at that it was asked to go china as china was main center of learning.but there should be proper way of educa
Zahid, great, we both are in agreement. We always highly recommend all women to get top notch education and be financially independent. This gets you self esteem and strength. Now if in-laws or husband is being irrational, the educated independent woman could take proper steps.
If Muhammad was here today, probably he would say the same thing. Do you agree?
Suhail no fake stories.
Your own daughter if educated and independent shall never like to be tortured in the name of islam. Islam is a most dangerous relgion for women in the world.
Women were first who accept islam. Now islam is fastest growing religion in west if there are four converts three are woman.astonishing results.
All stories fake under muslim names and Those who marry non muslims did not remain muslims and will go to hell forever life after death. To learn about islam vist http://www.usislam.org for more ioformation about islam
All stories fake under muslim names and Those who marry non muslims did not muslims and will go to hell forever life after death. To learn about islam vist http://www.usislam.org for more ioformation about islam
Hello
Meeting held with her parents. Initially they were suspicious of the out come. But when my GF told categorically, that in case any problem, she will go for court marriage, being adult and attained the age of maturity. Her mother immediately intervened and asked her father let her wishes be fulfilled at her risk in future.
Assurances were given by us too that it will be a happy union of couple being professionally competent and in the same line.
Thank God. Date of marriage yet to be decided.
Thanks every body.
The most important point in any interfaith marriage is… what will be the religion of our children.
Are you clear that the child will not be “Muslim alone”? …meaning absolutely no BBS?
Also read 10 points of dating and pride.
For a very long lasting happy interfaith married life, we recommend no religious labeling on children and make them pluralist (Isvar Allah tero nam). Take them to Mosque and Mandir every week and teach best from both faiths.
@srinivas hello, i think it is a good idea for them to marry… we be so wrapped up in muslim, sikh, hindu…. ALLAAH SWT IS ALLAAH SWT, GOD IS ONE EK ONKAR if they are in love marry… NOTHING is stopping them but their own fears… realize this… i married sikh man, and my life as a muslim transformed into a beautiful wonderful life. he participates in all muslim holidays and events, and I participate in his. god is one, and dont get so wrapped up in dividing our God…
In other comment you wrote: “I choose to be Muslim, and our children are Muslim as well.”
So, it does not matter whether he participating in your festivals or you participating in his festival. After all, your children turned to be Muslims.
Celebrating festivals (blah blah..) does mean anything to me I rather say that where is the need for celebrating this blah blah. This is all sugar coating.
You are a stealth Jihadi.
Dear Srinivas,
Thanks for your apprehension. I shall not be going but her parents shall come to meet my parents. I am inclined to her because of attachment and her submissiveness. Her parents have decided not to talk about this matter in her community.
There are hundreds of cases of marriage solemnised in Arya Samaj temple of our area and later registered before the Registrar of Marriage.
Shall be posting updates.
Professor Diwakar and Dr. Alok could be the beacon of modern intellect. I am happy that they have resolved the pre-marital issues in a way that will provide a time tested way to others. I am happy because it will give the women a chance to live their life in an independent way. They will bloom like a sun flower in the sun light of freedom that is only available outside the restrictive life styles.
I would love to see both the couples working for the others in similar but unresolved situations.
Hello Admn. Thanks a lot.
We have discussed pros and cons of the interfaith marriages. All issues resolved. Waiting for the meeting with her parents.
Shall be glad to know your valuable guidance and best wishes.
Think twice before going to their house ! You might not even come alive….
Do not be so much love blinded! You will face lots of problems in this marriage unless she is an apostate.
There are so many Hindu girls who are beautiful and intelligent, so why don’t you stay in your community and contribute that to community ?