Hymen Repair Surgery
Many Moslim women have expressed their frustration for expectations of virgin wife and the need for hymen repair surgery to please the Islamic community on the ISLAMIC WOMEN TODAY post and other places on this web site. This page is dedicated to stimulate discussion on this specific topic.
“The demand for this service arises from the fact that muslim bridegrooms ask for virgin brides, so muslim girls after this operation pretend to be virgins, while enjoying premarital sexual relationships.” –Sha Gull
“…hymen does not necessary guarantee bleeding, or that some Muslim girls are born without a hymen, (when Muslim girls are told this,) they’re very surprised.” Dr. Teenhardt
“Thinner than skin, the hymen is a fibrous, elastic membrane covering the vagina – one so delicate that it can be ruptured from vigorous physical exercise or even a fall, as well as by sexual intercourse.
In the past, if a woman wasn’t a virgin, she would surreptitiously pour animal blood on the bed after consummating her marriage. Today, this tradition has been replaced in Macedonia with a more sophisticated ruse – hymen repair surgery. This procedure is recognized medically as plastic surgery and is easily performed, taking only thirty minutes to one hour to repair a broken hymen.” –Afreen
“While Chinese women work to produce anything that sells and raise their country to new heights as an emerging power, Muslim women remain embroiled still in proving that their worth is more than just their virginity” –Zakaria
“I got married in Pakistan and on the wedding night, as usual, my husband penetrated and broke the (repaired) hymen and the blood capsule bleeded.” –Tabbusum
“I am from Paris now, and have also under gone the above procedure to please my (Muslim) husband but still fearful whether he would love me throughout the life.” –Tahira
“...they also started intercourse with me many times.” –Taslima
“One day a devil came between us, and we did it” –Muslim girl
“I under went Hymen repair surgery in Pakistan.” –Aarfa
“i got raped by our neighbor when i was 9” –Sara from Saudi Arabia
“I slept with my boyfriend several times” –Sheeba
“The evil of virginity for a bride is also prevalent here in Suva island of Fiji in pacific ocean.” –Nafishah
Why? Why? This HRS raises many questions: (see answers by Nazneen, share your views.)
Is it crime to have premarital sex?
Why only women have to prove their virginity, while no question is raised against a man?
What if you are virgin, but the hymen is broken while scoring that winning soccer goal? Will the Islamic community believe and trust you? Will Muslim parents prevent their daughters playing any sports?
What does the Blood on the Bed sheet proves? Does it prove any more than …you are rich and could afford the surgery?
Why the practice of proving virginity by publicly displaying bloody bed sheet is only in Islamic community, and not heard at all in most other communities? Will Muslim mindset ever change?
Who is to blame for this practice….is that Koran (promise of 72 virgins), the Sharia laws or the Muslim community?
What is the ultimate solution?
Please forward this link to all your friends and ask them to share their views. URL: http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=3929
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