Islami girl says: February 13, 2013 at 10:36 am
Hi sisters,
I am a muslim woman now 35 years, living in Canada. I lost my virginity during my graduation with my non-muslim BF. I could not marry with him due to pressure from my parents and had to use artificial hymen kit very tactfully on the wedding night, full of blood stains on the bed sheet, which was shown very proudly by my in-laws to the neighbors.
Later on I could not pull on with my muslim husband due to restrictions and divorced him. Now having live in relationship with a Hindu Brahmin boy happily, and soon marry him through court marriage with out conversion.
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A virginity for muslim female, it is a curse and why the same principle is not applied to the males?
The restoration of Muslim virginity is in demand in Germany. The Muslim women in need of new, unused hymen, are mostly older, 20 to 25-years-old Muslimahs. They come from Turkey, Balkans, Iran and the Arab countries.
The Muslim women call themselves Zeda, Aysegul, Cancun and Samar. They met anonymously on the Internet and discuss the vital issue for them: “I urgently need information on where a Muslim woman can get her hymen sewn restoration; what would it cost – please help me,” writes of them in the lifestyle and health forum. She received many responses within minutes.
On the WWW the Muslim women can share their fears and discuss Muslim issues undisturbed. Only a few could talk about this taboo topic within the family. The loss of virginity in Muslim world is as much disgrace as unwanted pregnancy. The Muslim family honor is equated with the purity of their daughters.
The Berlin’s family planning center receives numerous request for information on Muslim hymen restoration every week. “The demand has increased dramatically,” says Dr. Christiane Tennhardt. The woman are mostly between 20 to 25-years old and came from Turkey, Balkans, Iran and other Arab countries. “Most are not veiled and speak perfect German.”
The parents must be presented with the bloody sheet.
The story is the same: An Iranian woman wants to save her future husband from ‘Infamy’ and ‘disgraced woman.’ The Muslims of Kurdish persuasion present their bloody sheet to the parents after the wedding night.
“Many of the Muslim woman have had sexual intercourse several times, then comes the wedding and the reality catches up with them.”
It has happened that a Muslim girl has been raped by her family and then forced to prove her virginity.
There are cases when the restoration of the Muslim hymen is the only option due to the health concerns of the Muslim woman. The human rights organization, Terre des Femmes, disagrees on the hymenorrhaphie issue.
“The social significance of virginity is often utilized to deny women their sexual freedom and to restrict their lifestyles.”
Dr. Teenhardt has long worked with Muslim women seeking hymen restoration. It usually turns out that the Muslim women know very little about their own bodies and sexuality. “If I tell them that hymen does not necessary guarantee bleeding, or that some Muslim girls are born without a hymen, they’re very surprised.”
The gynecologist teaches the Muslim women how virginity can be faked.
In cases where the Muslim woman is in great distress and afraid of deadly honor violence, the doctor is prepared to perform the outpatient surgery. “We want to prevent mental and physical suffering.” The cost is about 200 euros.
How many thousands of hymen restoration operations are done in Europe is unknown. The demand is huge, shows the offers by plastic surgeons, some charging up to 2100 euros for the procedure.
One advert promises: For only 24.95 Euros (including shipping) you can save your honor.
The tips and addresses are also provided by Internet forums. “My gynecologist operates in outpatient basis and it will cost only 100 euros,” writes a Muslim woman.
Dr, Tennhardt emphasizes that much more important than tip for doctors and cost is to tackle the issue of Muslim woman through societal shift of thinking. The young Muslim women should be encouraged to demand their right to fuck anyone, anytime, anywhere.
My virginity was restored in a delicate operation just last week, and I honestly view it as life-saving surgery,” says Aisha.
“If my husband cannot prove to his family that I am a virgin, I would be hounded, ostracised and sent home in disgrace. My father, who is a devout Muslim, would regard it as the ultimate shame.
“The entire family could be cast out from the friends and society they hold dear, and I honestly believe that one of my fanatically religious cousins or uncles might kill me in revenge, to purge them of my sins. Incredible as it may seem, honour killings are still accepted within our religion.
“Ever since my family arranged this marriage for me, I’ve been terrified that, on my wedding night, my secret would come out. It has only been since my surgery last week that I’ve actually been able to sleep properly. Now, I can look forward to my marriage.”
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in my view eighty nine percent muslims started their life with double standards.now they have become totally heartless. They have no any sense and sense and sensibility. I wonder how muslim women cope with their muslim husbands? Muslim males are generally cruel and jealous: on one side they do sex with other females whenever possibe, on the other side they want their wife to supress sexual desire.
change your religion and be proud woman. you must be in control of your body, No body has right.
Muslim girls/women,
It’s irony that some times, blindfolded, we put our efforts that goes against us. Consider the example of Muslim girls who try to convert a non Muslim boy friend to Islam. The result is the innocent looking person becomes a follower of Muhammad, the so called prophet, and starts adopting the life style of Muhammad. Once the husband becomes a Muslim, numerous possibilities are born against the unaware Muslim girl(Burqa, proof of virginity on the wedding night, Talak, 4 wives and so forth). So, why invite the future problems by converting the non-Muslim husband to Islam? What will you ultimately get in return? The so called paradise, full of 72 hoors keeping your husband engaged with themselves? Don’t you think it’s a hell for you where you won’t have even the glimpse of your husband as he would be enamored with the unearthly beautiful hoors? So, your husband will be shared by your co wives here and be stolen hereafter! Don’t you think you are a complete looser? Think over it with a cool mind and take your own decision.
So, to secure their future marital life, never ever Muslim girls should try to convert any non Muslim guy as it will ultimately boomerang the girl herself. The Muslim girls should always attempt to take her husband away from Muhammad and ensure that her life is not endangered. A Muslim husband considers Muhammad as his role model.Would you like your husband to be similar to Muhammad? Read the life history of Muhammad especially his marriages and decide yourself and let others be known. Take your time to convince your parents taking help of your nears and dears who can influence your parents.
Well, I have read all what you think is right, actually you people have given up struggle to find how and why human evolution come in to being. Propagating a free sex society have all time a goal of those who just want to submit their souls to their inner animal instinct which is half of every men & women biochemistry and genome project proves it.
Islam is an evolution in faith which turned out to be a way of living for humans for which mankind have always been in search of for centuries. Criticizing a faith just to have sex and then try to live with a guilt in a sex free society is nothing but to subvert ones own inner conscience. If a girl or boy is happy to have sex with any body before or after marriage then it would be considered his/her personal conduct and no body have any rights to object Muhammad (SWA) in this regard. Islam never says that God is for Muslims only or Muhammad (SWA) came just for Muslims or Arabs, He is for all who wish to rise to become a human not a man.
Islam way of life? Since when? I think in your Muslim way of life, yes. No sane person will ever bother for devil religion like Islam. All Muslims are terrorist supporter, want only Islam every where, Daniel pearl beheading, September 11 attacks, numerous attacks on Christians, rape of Christian nuns, destruction of temple, destroying of Buddha idol in Afghanistan, kidnapping of Hindu girls and converting them forcefully, London bombing, Mumbai terror strike, killing Israeli citizens, hijacking of several airlines, raping of small child in Denmark, UK, Norway. Running mafia, bombing Russian city and killing merciless ly…and much much more all that is what your religion of shit says. Islam will be always terrorist religion. I guess your Islam is better in books only, bloody basterds.
Hymen repair surgery or using artificial hymen kit is very common in muslim girls these days, as they have to prove viriginity on the wedding night by showing blood stains on the bed sheet before the family members next morning. If no blood stains, then bride is kicked out and even killed. Virignity is essential for women but not for males, who can marry any number of girls and every time virgin wife is needed.
This is the main reason of hymen repair surgery business getting profitable in all muslim countries despite opposition but reality is different.
Idrish if you want such facilities for your daughter or cousin, you can contact Islamabad, Sialkot, Lahore, Rawalpindi, Kaarachi, Peshwar, reputed gynaecologists.
HELLER
Dont say you are muslim i am sure your parent are not muslim shame on you either you are muslim or non muslim sex befor merrage is not permited in any relagion
Dear Islami Girl,
We are glad you have a happy ending to your miserable life.
This hymen replacement surgery is not a solution. Actually, Muslim girls, virgins or not virgins, should walk away from relationships if the boy don’t respect “what you are” and wishes to display the bloody bed-sheet.