I love my Allah and Islam
Parvez says: July 25, 2013 at 9:09 amHi…I am a Muslim boy (27) and I am in love with a Hindu gal (Kaveri, 22) … I love her a lot and above all at the same time I love my ALLAH and religion..
I am serious about her.. we are going to marry very soon, but i dont want to run and marry… I am scared of her parents, cant took to them, they are very strict…. what to do? please Advice!!! -Parvez
You do not have to be scared of anyone if you are honest and doing right thing in life. Further, we agree that run away is a weakness and should not be considered. Instead, be bold and face consequences. You have fall in love; that does not mean you have not committed a crime.
You live in a free and secular country (we assume you are in India), thank Allah for it. Further, we assume you are educated and working. If you are not financially independent, wait till you are on your own. If you both are making fully “informed” decision, then there is no reason for you not proceed with your plan to marry her. Bottom line, find a good paying job in a big city or out of your small town and go for it.
Now lets focus on your statement, “I love my ALLAH”.You know that God means Allah in Arabic and Isvara in Sanskrit. Christians call Him Father God and Jews call Him LORD God. No one knows the shape, look or size of God (including Hindus; read Vedas); but different people have different views about Her or Him or It. Muslims pray God only in the direction of Saudi Arabia even God is there every where. Christians look at two pieces of woods and pray to Jesus looking at that cross. Jews go to the Jerusalem Wall to pray to God; but others see Jews praying to a stone-wall. Hindus use different humanly forms to focus on the Isvara. These Kaaba, cross, stonewall and marble statues are not God, but people use them to help focus on the God.
Parvez, do you agree to our above statements?
If not, let us know what you do not agree.
Let us know what do you mean by “MY” Allah?
Do you own an(the) Allah?
Do you have a personal “Allah” that Jews, Christians and Hindus never shared Him?
Further, what do you mean by “I love my religion”?
Do you believe in Koran? Do you know what Koran has to say for Hindus? Do you believe in every thing that Muhammad did and said? Would you ask the Hindu gf to convert to Islam? Would you ask the Hindu gf to stop praying her God(s) and start believing in Muhammad and praying only in the direction of Saudi Arabia? Do you think it is okay for you to have 4 wives, Ok to lightly beat your wives, give them triple talaak to get rid of them, do you believe that Mahatma Gandhiji and Mother Teresa will get Hell Fire on the Judgment Day because they were not Muslims?
Parvez, you have rights to do all that is stated in above paragraph. You are a Muslim and it is normal if you believe in what is stated above. Explain it to us for what do you mean by “I love my religion.” Further, go tell your gf that your first love is your religion and Muhammad and she comes after it. Here, we only request that you go and tell all facts to your gf and her parents.
If you are honest and truthful to your gf, your Allah will be happy. Go tell all facts to your gf’s parents and “your” Allah will help you for the rest.
Let us know if it makes sense what we are saying here. We would love to hear back from you. Thanks. -Admin
Parvez added at different times:
nd c will not convert to islam, because i love her so why there’s a need to change her?
I knw conversion is necessary in islam for anon-muslim but i thing this are all man made things. i blv in allah nd dats enough for me!! Nd c blv in ishwar (both r the same things).
Its not right to kip 4 wives,i dnt agree.they r illiterate jerks.
Islam is not a bad religion my dear frnd,But the people are.
Muslims r destroying islam, no religion is bad.
all my frnds r hindus so my thinking is bit diff frm other’s.
my children will have hindu names with both of our surnames..
Kaveri added: August 10, 2013 at 11:27 am
I left him… :’( -Kaveri
Zara says: August 9, 2013 at 2:49 am
You must be smart enough to know to stay away from any advice which goes as far as degrading someones religion no matter what the religion is.
As a muslim I would only like to advice you one thing, to make your girlfriend understand Islam. Not the Islam that media potrays or people here try to portray.
You say you love Allah and in Islam we are taught that Allah is greatest. The reason is that humans are weak they disappoint you and leave you but Allah will never leave you even if you love someone else more than Him. But really all we need to get through in this life is Allah’s love because its permanent not like human love. Don’t you as a God loving muslim want that your wife should understand your love for God and love God herself as much. We cannot expect non muslims to understand Islam because they are not ready to see beyond their hatred. They extract verses which they think are violent but have you ever seen them extract verses which Allah has clearly ordered muslims to do good to humanity and forgive others irregardless of their religion. No right? And most probably you never will because their hearts are sealed with disbelief and they think this world is end of all and there is no hereafter but Allah is Al Adl He will never let any injustice touch His servants whether muslim or not.
And falling in love is not a crime like admin here said but see what it does when your beloved leaves you and goes their way and you are left alone. It is this heartbreak that God wants to save us from and the only way is to love Allah more than anything. And it is obvious when you love Allah you appreciate and love His creation too and when your wife to be will understand and share this love, you will find a blissful relation which centers around your Creator. Because humans dissappoint us a lot but when you put all your trust in Allah He will takecare to never disappoint you.
Eid Mubarak to all!!! -Zara
Parvez says: September 5, 2013 at 5:59 am
My girlfriend is hindu and i am not a muslim like u force any one to follow islam.
She is a strict follower of hinduism and i respect that and i m so in love with her spiritual part.
She will never be happy after accpeting islam, that is very obvious. And do i have the right to bring her to islam, not at all.
I love her devotion towards hindu, c is a born hindu and will remain as a hindu only. And frankly speaking, it will be very hard for me to accept her as a muslimah because i am used to see her as a hindu gal performing hindu rituals.
And i will accpt her as a hindu only, though its against my religion but still i will do this for her. -Parvez
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