I am Hindu and I love a Muslim girl

athiest says: May 14, 2014 at 12:35 am
hi
i really liked your post, i have just read it.
i dont know whether you goona get these or not, i have never been replied back by any one in these open conversations type blogs, still i dont know why, i want to share my story with you and wanna ask you something as well.

i was 13 when i first saw her and i fell in her love right from that moment. it was 26th june 2001. yes i m also a hindu by born and i love a muslim girl, i love her most and she is like life to me. its been almost 13 years since we are the best friends of each other and not just friends but kind of soul mates. we are so happy when we are together, but the thought of getting married always makes our dream of marrying, a dream.

i just want to ask you is there any way, any method or just any solution of marrying her without making any voilence. i m ready to talk to her parents but i dont know whether they will agree.
just help me by giving any suggestions if there are any. i have liked your thought because after analysing this word MUSLIM i also found the same aspects what you have written down in this. please help me in this, i will be waiting for your reply.

i dont want to loose her………. -Atheist

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70 Comments

  • Rohit
    January 10, 2018 3:02 am

    Convert her in hindu only in documents.
    Don’t leave your dharma because
    Hindsm is dharm not religion.
    Religion means law.
    Hmare purvjo ki hazaro years ki mehnat se aaj hm shi rah pr chal rhe h.yhi meri story thi ap wali.vo namaz pdati h pde.
    Ager islam shi hota to hmare purane log kb k apna lete
    Sikhism guru gobind singh ko force kiya
    Hmare kashmiri pandit ko kitna force krte rhe islam
    Kbul k liye. Bhai apni purvjo ki mehnat or tyag h jiski vjh se ye aj
    Tk hmare pas h

  • saad abdullah
    May 21, 2016 10:19 am

    Hey rajiv you also be a muslim becoz this is the straight path
    Quran says in 3:19 “There is only one acceptable religion in the sight of Allah that is Islam

    • Shrirang Vishnu Sudrik
      January 2, 2019 9:14 am

      Please remember that Allah is not in existance at all what quran and bible says is all bullshit and superstition and have no place in today’s scientific world. So Interfaith Marriages are mirage only. Please note that except Hinduism all religions are bad and followers of all religions other than Hinduism are animals and not humans. When they all will reconvert to Hinduism, the original dharma of global humanity then only they will be humans and after that they will qualify for marriage. Interfaith Marriages are against humanity and must be stopped immediately. Interfaith marriages are also illegal supported by Illegal Special Marriages Act 1954 such Illegal acts are prvalent in India to destroy Majority Hindu Culture of India but of course this will not happen. Also remember that only Non Hindu that is only minority communities in India are solely responsible for India’s cultural downfall. So Non Hindu Communities are solely responsible for India’s all social problems. So stop this Immoral Interfaithshhadi.org
      Nautanki otherwise legal action will be taken

      • January 2, 2019 7:27 pm

        Dear Shrirang,
        That is your wishful thinking but interfaith marriages are already going on and will increase over years. In America, 38% of Hindus marry interfaith. We have some 1200 youths who came asking for help at InterfaithShaadi, should we close this site and tell them to go to other sites for help? We are not a part of problem, we are here to guide youths who are already in love. Tell us what should we do?

  • saad abdullah
    May 21, 2016 10:18 am

    According to quran (2:221) says Muslims cannot marry to hindus, unless be a Muslims.
    Zainab have no knowledge about islam. So my request is to Qur’an & sahih hadith

  • saad abdullah
    May 21, 2016 10:17 am

    According to quran (2:221) says Muslims cannot marry to hindus, unless be a Muslims.
    Zainab have knowledge about islam. So my request is to Qur’an & sahih hadith

  • saad abdullah
    May 21, 2016 10:15 am

    Ggggghh

  • ab
    February 5, 2015 5:33 am

    never quest work of lord Krishna he does everything for nice good

  • June 2, 2014 3:01 am

    Hi every body,

    Mac and Haque are the same and posting blogs under different names.
    Mac is a mutta product, being her mother under mutta for a week and then shaikh left her.

    Mac is trying to conceal the practices of islam against humanity.

    Almost all the religions have changed customs but islam is making new evil practices prevalent like sex with dead wife.

    Will all the mutta husbands of your mother will have sex with your mother after death?

  • May 31, 2014 7:26 am

    A most important concept that must be emphasized repeatedly is that
    Islam is a declaration of war against kafirs. What
    you must understand is that Islam is not anti Jewish
    – it is anti kafir. The Jews are the most viled of
    kafirs followed by Christians, Hindus, etc. The Koran
    is not a holy book but a book of war. A book of
    genocide. Allah is the AntiGod of war. Again, this
    war is permanent until all kafirs either convert to Islam
    or agree to pay a devastating jizya (submission tax)
    and accept dhimmude status (see chapters 43 and 44)
    or be murdered.

    For Muslims, it is a holy, religious duty to murder kafirs.
    The Koran is written in the language of terrorism.
    It is filled with numerous verses urging the Muslims to
    terrorize the non Muslims, kill them, and take possession
    of their lands and properties. The important points to
    remember are that whatever Muhammad did to terrorize
    the kafirs was actually the actions of God. Among the
    many verses which exhort Islamist terrorism, the
    following verses stand out as naked aggression of
    Allah/Muhammad on the unbelievers: 2:63, 3:151, 8:12,
    8:60, 8:59, 9:5, 9:29, 9:55, 11:102, and 17:59 etc. These
    teachings are the eternal laws of Allah (the AntiGod)
    authorization of murder and extermination as a holy duty.

    • ankit kashyap
      July 16, 2016 12:00 pm

      u said that koran is a book of war against all the kafirs…
      thats why all the terrorist are belongs to islam ….
      so tell me why they kill muslims . they blast into mosque why????
      i tell u kuran is the fu****g book that against humanity…

  • May 30, 2014 9:22 am

    MUSLIMS ARE ALLOWED NORMAL SEX WITH DEAD WOMEN AND ANIMALS

    Muhammad had sex with a dead woman to qualify her for the perks of a prophetic wife.

    According to Hadiths and Sayings of Prophet on issues of women in “Al-Jami Al-Saghir” written by Jalal ul-Din Al-Suyuti.

    Narrated by Ibn Abbas: “I (Muhammad) put on her my shirt that she may wear the clothes of heaven, and SLEPT with her in her coffin.”

    The prophet was referring to Fatima, the mother of Ali, his son-in-law. Commentators have offered differing views about the significance of Muhammad’s sleeping with the dead-body of Fatimah in her coffin, some emphasizing that it had no sexual side. But Arabic scholar Demetrius explains that to express Muhammad sleeping inside Fatima’s coffin with her dead-body, “The Arabic word used here is “Id’tajat”, which literally means “lay down to have sex.”

    Muhammad is also understood to have said that because he slept with her, she has become like a wife to his; so she will be considered like “mother of the believers”.

    After Muhammad slept with her and “consummated”, Medina women routinely offered themselves to Mohammad for sex so that the holy fluid of the prophet released into them will qualify them for paradise. Here is a hadith.

    MUSLIM ARE ALLOWED “ANAL” SEX EVEN WITH DEAD WOMEN AND ANIMALS

    Sahih Muslim, Book of Menstruation, Hadith 525:

    “Our companions have said if a penile head has penetrated a woman’s anus or penile anus, or an animal’s vagina or its anus, then it is necessary to wash…”

    Watch this video for more detailed discussion on this topic.

    NOW IT MAY AN EGYPTIAN LAW TOO

    Egyptian husbands may be legally allowed to have sex with their dead wives – for up to six hours after their death (sex performed after six hours will be considered adultery and the husband will be beheaded and buried with the wife)

    This law is part of measures being introduced by the Islamist-dominated parliament under ‘religious interpretations’. The subject of a husband having sex with his dead wife arose in May 2011 when Moroccan cleric Zamzami Abdul Bari said marriage remains valid even after death (Al Arabiya News)

  • rajeev
    May 29, 2014 6:02 am

    admin.
    i apologise for my comments.i know u and others are here to provide assistant for brothers and sisters.hope my last comment will be necessary-debate on islam and sanatan.as some people are challenging sanatan we should not be coward and just speak on net.lets face it.if we can accept challenge face to face in india then what for we are hindus???? so it’s my personal request so that we have a healthy debate.no need to hide or fear .

  • May 29, 2014 2:17 am

    Mac

    The way you are defending evils of islamic religion, it is sure that you have a mind set of talibani and boko haram out fits, who do not want women to live gracefully. Had you been a female you would have realized the agony, when you have been made sex object only, kept in burqa even in 45 deg.temp. if raped required 4 witnesses to prove it, forced for mutta marriage multiple times, tripple oral talak and then forced halala practices? Have you not realized such evils faced by your mother and sisters?

  • mac
    May 27, 2014 10:25 am

    rajeev where r u from, ok tell me from which state of india, if u r a true hindu and i m willing to have face face debate with u

  • mac
    May 27, 2014 10:21 am

    anyway zainab is not muslim , he is hindu guy funded by RSS,

  • mac
    May 27, 2014 10:20 am

    why admin is so much on sided to uncultured hinduism

  • rajeev
    May 24, 2014 8:44 am

    PAKHI BEGUM,
    THANK U FOR ACCEPTING THE CHALLEGE WITH MAHENDRA PAL ARYA.WHEN IS YOUR MENTOR TIME FREE???? YOU WANT A FACE TO FACE CHALLEGE (THEN U HAVE TO COME IN ARYA SAMAJ GHAZIABAD) OR ONLINE CHALLEGE(ITS GENERALLY USELESS).PLZZ GIVE YOUR CONTACT INFORMATION SO THAT WE CAN DEBATE ON ISLAM AND SANATAN DHARMA.AND IF UR MENTOR DEFEATS MAHENDRA PAL ARYA I WLL ACCEPT ISLAM.AND IF UR MENTOR GETS DEFEATED HE SHOULD REVERT TO SANATAN DHARMA LEAVING ISLAM.HOPE WE MEET AS SOON AS POSSIBLE .AND UR QUESTION OF KRISHNA’S WIVE HAS BEEN ALREADY PROVIDED BY MANY IN THIS SITE.HOPE TO SEE MITALI MUKHERJEE AND ZIA-UL-HAQ AS FAST AS POSSIBLE.

    • Pakhi Begum
      May 24, 2014 11:07 pm

      rajeev
      If possible fix up the date before 2nd June,14 as the High Court Calcutta reopens after summer vacation on that day. Alternatively the debate may take place after Idul Fitr one of the greatest Festivals of Muslims. Question of reversion of Mr.Haque to any Dharm does bot arise at all. I don’t know the social status of Mahendrapal but I am happy to let you know that my mentor is an ex Senior Central Govt Officer and one and only person in the world who is a qualified Alim (Moulvi) with Degrees in Science and Law. I suggest you to see that the debate takes place across the table at Calcutta as according to you on line debate is useless. Meanwhile please send me the profile of Mahendrapal. Kindly note that Mr.Haque will be assisted by two aides. What will be topic of debate/discussion which should healthy one.
      DON”T ADDRESS ME AS MITALI AS I AM NOW PAKHI.
      Pakhi Begum

      • May 24, 2014 11:21 pm

        Rajiv and Pakhi,

        If you wish to get connected outside this web forum, please give your permission at InterfaithShaadi@gmail.com. After that we will be able to disclose each other e-mails.

        This forum is not a chatting site. Our objective is strictly to help interfaith couples in love relationship. Any nonessential message will be deleted.

      • rajeev
        May 29, 2014 6:15 am

        PAKHI BEGUM,
        GIVE PHONE NUMBER AND ADDRESS OF ZIA=UL-HAQ YOUR MENTOR .WE WANT A DEBATE AS FAST AS POSSIBLE.WE REQUIRE SOME TIME AS MAHENDRA PAL ARYA WONT COME JULY IN KOLKATA.ANY WAYS HOPE FOR THE BEST.PLZZ CHAT WITH ME IN GMAIL OF INTERFAITHSHADI.ORG

  • rajeev
    May 23, 2014 9:24 am

    LADIES AND GENTLEMEN,
    IS HERE ANY ORIGINAL MUSLIM WHO CAN ASK ZAKIR NAIK TO DEBATE WITH Pt. MAHENDRA PAL ARYA(ARYA SAMAJ).ZAKIR NAIK IS RUNNING AWAY FROM PANDIT ARYA SINCE 2007 AND HE HAS DEFEATED ZAKIR NAIK GURU ABDULLAH TARIQ(PEACE T.V)-YOU CAN SEE IN YOUTUBE.PT MAHENDRA PAL ARYA WAS A MUSLIM IMAM IN BADI MASJID IN KANPUR.HE HAS REVERTED TO HIS RELIGEON SANATAN DHARMA .HE HAS CONVERTED 3000(CHRISTIANS AND MUSLIMS) INTO SANATAN FOLD. I HOPE ARIF,PAKHI BEGUM AND ZIA-UL-HAQ WILL CARRY THIS MESSAGE TO DONGRI ,MUMBAI.THERE IS 3 TIER SECURITY FOR ZAKIR NAIK SO ONCE A MEMBER OF ARYA SAMAJ WENT THERE HE WAS REFUSED PERMISSION TO ENTRY,ONLY ALLAH KNOWS WHY ZAKIR NAIK IS SO SCARED TO DEBATE WITH EX-MUSLIMS.HOPE REAL MUSLIMS WILL RESPOND TO MY REQUEST

    • May 23, 2014 12:15 pm

      rajeev,
      I have convinced my mentor Md.Zia-ul-Haque to have a debate with Mahendra Lal Acharya and now you proceed further so that the debate takes place at the earliest. Mr. Haque is the only person in the world who is a qualified Alim with Degrees in Science and Law. He has authored number of religious books. Meanwhile kindly let me know whether Acharya is a brahmin,kayeth or schedule caste?
      Pakhi Begum (Formally Mitali Mukherji)

  • rajeev
    May 23, 2014 9:07 am

    ladies and gentlemen
    i know pakhi begum,arif,,zia -ul-haq and others for those who wants my reply .i am afraid that i cant laugh on pakhi begum comment since she hadn’t stated against Islamic terror and Islamic brutalities for past 1000 years of muslim rule in india !!!!!!but i am here to guide ZAINAB and not those person who want to create INDIA an TALIBAN NATION.ZAINAB it hardly matters on comments from these persons.ALLAH HAS NO RELIGEON but HUMAN BEINGS are ready to butcher each other in the name of religeon.YOUR marraige will improve communal harmony between HINDUS AND MUSLIM.I could have used slang’s and abusive words,but such things will not solve your problem.we are here to help u to get ur marriage successful with the Hindu boy.U can contact nearby ARYASAMAJ office or RSS office for marriages(there u will find many Muslim girls marrying Hindu boys).a muslim boy can forcefully marry u ,forcefully have sex with u but he cannot win ur heart,ur soul becoz ALLAH HAS GIVEN THE RIGHT TO KEEP IT INDEPENDENT.SO not focus on those who are against u rather focus on to love other which u have chosen.

    • May 23, 2014 12:20 pm

      rajeev
      Please tell me how many wives Lord Krishna had? Also be pleased to tell me the names of wives of Pancha Pandava. How was Radha related to Lord Krishna? Did he have any extra marital affairs with Radha?
      Pakhi Begum (Formally Mitali Mukherji)

      • sunny
        August 31, 2014 6:09 am

        Dear pakhi begum
        lord krishna had only one wife Rukmani and his name was associated with radha bcoz they spent their childhood together andwere in love (please note that form of love varies with person . for e.g the love u have for ur parents is somehow different from the love u have for ur husband…. its not that I am. saying its totally different but a slight difference). now if you r trying to think of no. like 16108 . allow me to get your facts right . he didn’ marry those women . he gave them his name after freeing them from the prison of narkasur bcoz the society wasn’t going to accept them.
        NOW PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF WICHEVER GOD YOU WORSHIP OR WHOEVER YOU WORSHIP. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE ASKING STUPID QUESTIONS.

        • mac
          September 1, 2014 10:28 pm

          dear sunny, show us proof of your comment

  • Chand Osmani
    May 23, 2014 6:20 am

    Pakhi

    You are either fake or pretending to be a female. You do not know any thing about deep rooted evils of islam against female. Very soon in the near future you will realise the anti female discriminatory attitude of your husband, when he will keep another 3 wives and you will watch him enjoying with them one by one. The moment you dare to oppose you will be divorced and forced to practice halala to restore your marital status with your exhusband again. If you ever wanted to return to your original faith, you will be subject to stonning to death.

    Please tell me how did you face FMG after conversion to islamic faith?
    Have you eaten Beef? Has your wedding night bed sheet was shown with blood stains before the family members as honor of pride?Have you started wearing burqa?

    • Admin
      May 23, 2014 6:45 am

      WHO IS PAKHI?

      She claims Md. Zia-ul Haque, B.Sc, LLB, Alim(Cal) is her mentor.
      Write from Haque‘s home.
      Sometimes she says she is going to her village but still keeps writing from Haque‘s place.
      Writes English and style just like Mr. Haque.
      Show anger to Christians just like Mr. Haque.
      Uses the same type of Islamic logic as Mr. Haque.
      Pakhi many times even signs at bottom as Mr. Haque then asks us to correct it!
      Ask us for correction in text just like Mr. Haque used to do, no one else makes such requests.

      Readers have to figure out for truth.

      • May 23, 2014 10:47 pm

        Admin
        Unpleasant truth pinches you and some of your readers. I have not gone through entire writings of my mentor in this blog and therefore I can’t make any comment. You have claimed “Many times Pakhi has signed as Mr.Haque”. Will you please clarify as to how “many times” I have done so. To err is human being and to the best of my knowledge I have done so only once. Please don’t distort the fact mislead the readers.
        Pakhi Begum

        • May 23, 2014 11:38 pm

          Mr. Haque,
          You have never changed, did you? What kind of lawyer are you who lies but get caught!!

          These are trails of e-mails that we could prove it in any court, any time.

          May 12: that we kept it as is. Below ones we removed at your own request.

          May 12: New comment on your post “Special Marriage Act verses Islamic Nikaah”
          Author : Pakhi Begum
          Massey the son or descendant of the india christian,
          Where from you got the statistics? You know what had happened 1400 yrs ago so you must be knowing what had in India for the last two hundred yrs. How many freedom fighters were tortured to death by christian britishers? Why those Indian christians had opposed India’s Independence? Whether your fathers and/or forefathers had participated India’s independence
          Md.Zia-ul-Haque

          May 16: New comment on your post “Parsi girl : Why there is inequality?”
          Author : Pakhu Begum
          Admin
          Don’t say what you don’t know. My brother a born Hind got married with a Muslim girl whereas I got married with the brother of my sister in law.
          A Muslim girl or a Muslim boy can not marry a Hindu boy or a Hindu girl and that
          before marriage i.e Nikah the concerned Hindu boy or the Hindu girl has to be reverted to Islam or else the there can not be a Nikah.
          Md.Zia-ul-Haque
          Alim & Advocate

          May 16: New comment on your post “Parsi girl : Why there is inequality?”
          Author : Pakhu Begum
          Admin
          I am extremely sorry. In fact I have written the above thing in consultation with Mr.Haque but through through mistake I have given his name.Sorry very sorry. Please remove his name and put my name.
          Pakhi Begum

          If this is truly Pakhi writing today (May 23), then Pakhi should know that Mr. Haque is using your name and blogging here. Pakhi, you wrote, “To err is human being” but no one will forget who he/she is and sign as “Md.Zia-ul-Haque” and “Md.Zia-ul-Haque Alim & Advocate”, instead of “Pakhi Begum”. Sorry, Bye.

    • May 23, 2014 12:33 pm

      chand,
      After considering all aspects and looking in to at all the evil practice of hindu religion I was reverted to Islam whereas you were reverted for a particular Muslim boy from whom you were, W:wonderful, I:Instrument,F:For,E:Enjoyment. But because of your bad character and involvement with your husband’s younger brother you were driven out by your sober mother in law.
      Pakhi Begum (Formally Mitali Mukherji)

  • arif
    May 22, 2014 8:55 am

    hi,
    lol 🙂

    you are confused..nothing else.
    first you should become good human being and then see the world.
    do not see the world on behalf of half turth or compeltly biased percesptions.Prcatical is always precise.
    you pasted some of the info which is contents of misguided sites against islam.
    see if something is popular and in practice that means base is strong other wise people will not follow any said statement of PBUB prophet.

    sometimes it happens with the human being that there is nothing in this world in name of god ,if you believe or not nothing is going to be change except your own loss.
    so select good things from the relegion and live life peacefully.

    cheers

  • May 22, 2014 4:26 am

    Arif,

    You must accept the realities of islamic evils world wide. Boko Haram terrorist group is a new threat to the world. All terrorist group get their support by the evil teachings of Koran against mankind and in return they are offered sexual pleasure of 72 virgins in the heaven.

    The Islamist group Boko Haram has killed more than 54 people in attacks on two villages in north-east Nigeria, close to where hundreds of schoolgirls were seized.

    Gunmen killed 37 people in the village of Shawa and a further 17 in Alagarno, police and witnesses said.

    The area is near Chibok, where the schoolgirls were abducted last month and there is no trace of them.

    On Tuesday 318 people died in a double bombing in the central city of Jos, also blamed on Boko Haram.

    The abductions of more than 200 girls caused international outrage and prompted foreign powers, including the US, to send military advisers to assist Nigeria’s army.

    In another development on Wednesday, US President Barack Obama said 80 military personnel had been deployed to neighbouring Chad to help search for the missing girls.

    “These personnel will support the operation of intelligence, surveillance and reconnaissance aircraft for missions over northern Nigeria and the surrounding area,” Mr Obama said in a letter to Congress.

    Many parts of restive north-east Nigeria are no-go zones for the military and insurgents operate freely there, correspondents say.

    For SEXUAL criminalS and murders ISLAM IS A BEST RELIGION TO FOLLOW.

    • arif
      May 22, 2014 9:03 am

      Hi Human,
      I dont know the reality…you and me just percpeting it through media..what is the ground reality dont know and i hope you also dont know.
      but if that kind of news real then who am i to decide except god.we can only condemn by heart that it is against humanity…no relegion teach or accept those acts.
      But now a dyas humans are at thier lowest level and these are the signs of judgment day is near.

      if you can help..then help to human god will give you reward in any form which i believe…dont compilcate and mess in that because these things are not in our control..please understand it from practical approach.

      contribute in society +ly…you will feel you achieved something rather than just quoting the things in bracket.

      cheers

  • May 22, 2014 12:14 am

    Dear Rajeev,

    Islam is a criminal ideology not a religion. It preaches hatred, violence, crimes, murder, kidnapping against females and non muslims.
    99% muslims as on today, are converted one and these converted are most dangerous for mankind involved in all sorts of crimes, blasts, murder, terrorist activities, as they are taught by so called Koran to kill non muslims, rape females, treat them sex object and even if they are killed, 72 virgins are waiting for them in the heaven for sexual pleasure.

    So these muslims get irritated and become intolerant when they hear muslim girls marrying outside their faith. Males are allowed to keep 4 wives, and every time a virgin wife only. Virginity is not mandatory for males. You must heard Boko Haram terrorist group of Nigeria who have kidnapped more than 300 school girls and keeping them under captivity at a unknown place, using group and gang rapes against them. China, Russia, America, Britain, Australia, France have provided assistance to get released these innocent girls but not yet successful.
    Bastard Abdur is one of them.

    • arif
      May 22, 2014 4:05 am

      Hi,
      Very sad depiction of muslims.
      if those muslim girls having love with other faith then they i think they are very intelligent and full of logic.So they cant be a good believer.
      I would suggest those muslim(so called) girls should convert to other faith(change arabic name to other relegion nomenclature,perform rituals of other faith and help to thier partner for happy life).
      The real muslim(faith in muslim teaching)girls or other relegion girls do not go to this kind of deadly combination.
      I dont agree with the inerfaith love and marraiges bcz it is curse for the future in all respect.

      I have seen many and i can give you pathetic end of those relations just after 5 years of marraige.Love is the hormonal action which do not have control over the self but this physical action fade away with the time and then start fight mainly on the cultural and relegious habbit.

      Do not be hypocrites and accept the reality.

      Very hard solution in one line:

      If you love really to a person and you think you can not live without him/her then what is the problem to accept what he/she said to live a life.why you focus on marraiges and parents?
      I know many muslims girls either hizabi or modern doesnt have thier faith in islam…
      I respect other relegion girls because they are devoted to thier relegions at least culturally.

      Muslims girls are boys are confused and following inherited relegion and culture but inside most of them are scrapped so they are frequently swinging thier emotions and moods.

      One very important thing:If a person(male/female) who is not god loving and loyal to god can not love to any human beings.I am sure you people check by your heart and check what exactly you people are doing with your heart.

      can you tell me why you want to convert and want to convert other…a tue hindu,muslim and chirstian or sikh understand everything what is good and what is bad..if your heart has been corrupt then you can justify and prove all thing logically in insane sense.

      If you have gone physical in relationship the do not cheat to others through forced marraige..clearly state your situation to parents or whatever responsible to you.

      for the sake of peaceful life do not set wrong examples to other…do whatever you want to do but do not play on wire.

      Cheers

  • May 21, 2014 10:50 pm

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    comments deleted by Admin.
    Dear readers, please refrain from dirty words otherwise your comments will be deleted.-Admin

    • arif
      May 22, 2014 4:11 am

      Hi human,
      pleas romve hatred from your heart…it is not good for your health and mind…
      see if you are believer the why not bilieve you will pay the bill one day in any form of what the person does or doing.it is very clearly stated and practicall every change have reactionary form.
      if you can do good for others do it otherwise invest yourself in good deeds.

      cheers

      • May 22, 2014 7:45 am

        Arif,
        Agree to you 100%.
        People should express their views here without dirty words or harsh personal criticism. This will only turn off other young adults asking questions.

  • May 21, 2014 10:49 pm

    Abdur,

    Your philosphy is based on Boko Haram terrorist group of Nigeria, committing attrocities on females for males pleasure. You are black
    blot in the name of human being.

  • rajeev
    May 21, 2014 3:04 pm

    TO ABDDURAHMAN
    You haven’t read what i wrote-ALLAH has given her brain to think and heart to feel.then why u are asking illogical question LIKE AN IDIOT that if she commit suicide its ALLAH’S will??? she is an educated,liberal ,modern and loves other people irrespective of their religion(not like u hate mongering animals).when a Muslim boy marries a Hindu girl then HE jumpS like a frog in happiness that HE have won the first prize.AND THAT LOVE BETWEEN MUSLIM BOY AND HINDU GIRL IS CAUSED BY SATAN ALSO AND NOT BY ALLAH(ACC TO PAKI BEGUM)????THEN WHY SHOULD THEY HAVE HINDU WOMAN AS THEIR WIVES????AND ALL RELIGIOUS CONCEPT OF RESTRICTION COMES ON MUSLIM GIRLS-TO NOT TO MARRY NON MUSLIMS,BURQA,TRIPLE TALAK,MUTAAH NIKAAH,FEMALE MUTILATION.I ASK U ANDUR RAHMAN STOP BEHAVING LIKE A SLAVE,BUT SPEAK A VOICE OF A FREE MAN.

    • arif
      May 22, 2014 4:18 am

      rajeev

      what is the goal of a person..if only marraige or fuck then person(men women) can do anything.
      But relegion is the way of life to reach the destination with good deeds and withouit hurting to any one.
      If hindu girl marraige to muslim boy then it is also wrong faithwise.but 2 body likes each other then there is nothing of relegion both are in lust thats all.same case with the muslim girl and hindu boy.they are actually over the top of god in madness of love.

      But you know god sending creatures in form of humans to test the believer.That can come from your family and my family or any where.

      if you are good then what other is doing leave to god because only god knows and take account of each individual.

      i dont know why people so annoyed on this topic.

      my goal is to convice the people if they thing something is going wrong with them or confused.

      cheers

  • rajeev
    May 21, 2014 2:42 pm

    TO ABDURAHMAN AND PAKI BEGUM,

    FIRST OF ALL U BOTH TELL ME IS ALLAH ONLY YOURS???IF THE CREATOR IS ONE THEN THE FOLLOWERS ARE THE SAME,THEN WHY DIFFERENTIATE???OUT 56 MUSLIM COUNTRIES NAME A COUNTRY WHERE U CAN FIND “PEACE”????IF MUSLIMS ARE BUTCHERING EACH OTHERS IN NAME OF ALLAH THEN WHATS THE LOGIC BEHIND TO FOLLOW SUCH CONCEPT WHICH LEAD TO BLOODSHED????AND IF MUSLIM GIRLS ARE MARRYING HINDU BOYS THEY WILL NEVER LEAD A MISERABLE LIFE(TRIPLE TALAQ,MUTAAH NIKAAH,FEMALE MUTALATION,WIFE BEATING).UNFORTUNATELY AN EDUCATED HUMAN BEING WILL UNDERSTAND IT NOT U PEOPLE.IF ZAKIR NAIK IS CONVERTING 10 NON MUSLIM TO ISLAM IN 10 YEARS THEN 100 MUSLIMS ARE KILLED IN A DAY BY MUSLIMS ITSELF.SO I ASK U BOTH TO COME TO SANATAN DHARMA AND FIND PEACE.LET ZAINAB MARRY AND SHE WILL ONLY GIVE U THE FEEDBACK OF MARRYING A HINDU BOY.ZAINAB YOUR HEART IS BEATING FOR THAT HINDU BOY NEVER LET HIM GO.

    • Pakhi Begum
      May 22, 2014 4:23 am

      Rajeev
      Since you have raised the question of education I am therefore,in consultation with my mentor Md.Zia-ul-Haque one of the most learned and educated person in the world, requesting you to kindly offer your comments on the following points and that immediately after receipt of the same I shall answer your question/points to your fullest satisfaction. I further request you to kindly download from internet the book “Awake Hindu Awake” authored by Dr.Chatterji and read the same to know the truth of hindu religion.

      Who had invaded into Afghanistan and Iraq and killed thousands of innocent people. Ans: George Bush the terrorist
      Who were responsible for world war one and world war two? Certainly not Muslims.
      Who killed more or less 20 millions Aborigines in Australia? Again the answer will not be Muslims.
      Who had bombed Hiroshima and Nagasaki? No doubt not Muslims
      Who killed 100 millions of Indians in North America? Surely not Muslims.
      Who were responsible for killing 50 millions of Indians in South Africa? Ans:Persons claiming to be the followers of Jesus Christ.
      Millions of Jews were killed by Hitler who was also not a Muslim
      But still Muslims are called terrorists.
      Christians, Hindus, Budhdhists, Parsees,Jains, Sikhs, Jews Voodoods may fight with other but will always get united against Muslims because they follow the Religion of Peace Islam
      Pakhi Begum (Formally Mitali Mukherji)

  • May 20, 2014 8:42 am

    Rajeevji,

    Thanks a lot. After discussing on the lines of your advice, I have come to the conclusion that fear of sin and punishment to the women, is a self ish concept, where is the sin or punishment to the males, keeping 4 wives, giving them talak orally and putting in distress, older people marrying child brides, is it not a sin, why they are not punished.

    Regards, Rajiveeji

    • Pakhi Begum
      May 22, 2014 4:27 am

      You are not a Muslim. Anyway I don’t bother whosoever you are but there is no iota of doubt that you will enter as soon as you die.
      PakhiBegum (Formally Mitali Mukherji)

      • Pakhi Begum
        May 22, 2014 4:29 am

        Little correction:
        No Muslim bothers who you are but you will find your place at hell as soon as you die.
        Pakhi Begum (Mitali Mukherji)

  • May 20, 2014 8:37 am

    I have decided after taking into consideration all pros and cons
    to marry my Hindu BF to get rid of Burqa, fear of tripple talak, FMG,
    restrictions. I wish to lead a blissful life with equal opportunities of development and life style. In Islam women are treated very badly, they have no say against polygamy by husband, atleast that thing I shall be able to avoid by marrying my BF.I need not to convert and we shall adjust by honouring sentiments of each.

    • arif
      May 22, 2014 4:53 am

      🙂
      zainab ..lol…very good

      do not force your feelings to others …lol

      do you know meaning of name zainab?
      I would suggest you listen to your heart and for better life convert your self to good hindu.dont mixup dangerous for future.

      do not marry to muslim guy because you will cheat him and will destroy to yourself prematurely.

      enjoi.

      cheers

    • mac
      May 27, 2014 10:13 am

      Zainab(?), which is not ur name, ur fake story is a common one. u said women right in islam , what about women right in fucking hunduism(fuckism,cultism,paganism), why u killed crores of women over past thousands of years in the name of sathi pratha u ppl not only kill but u burned them alive so if this was in true default hindu religion then how come it gives right to women, aslo in today, thousand of women a either commiting suicide or being killed even some r burned in the name of dowry. why thousands of female infants are killed every day, why female foetus is aborted and all these evil pratice are strongly banned in islam, why there is rape in indian almost in every where streets,parks,bus,office,etc,etc. By wearing burqa we give our muslim women protection from evil eyes, why christians nuns were something like burqa coz it is modest dress and who wants to uncultured un modest in charch in front of jesus(pbuh) and god, but we muslims beleve god is every where and keeping eyes on us so our ladies were it everywhere, why 2/3 converts to islam are ladies, why till date any great famous peiple had converted to hinduism why no great njon-hindu women had converted to hinduism if it gives so much right to women. why in hinduism widow marriage is banned, o it is banned coz u burned them along with her dead husband so where comes the m of widow marriage, why in vedas women are treated as sex object, why ur fuckingf god brahma raped her own daughter, why krishna raped thousand of gopis,

    • mac
      May 27, 2014 10:36 am

      zainab(which is actually not ur true name) ur say”they have no say against polygamy by husband” my dear hindu brother zainab(?) this is for ur kind information that a muslim man can only marry another women if first wife gives permission so how it can be that they hav so say against ploygamy of husband, so better it is that first u learn what islam is bcoz most of mulim girls are aware of islam and islamic rules so don`t become fool here , and bcoz u don`t know this so u were not muslims actually u r a hindu boy it is proved

  • rajeev
    May 19, 2014 10:11 pm

    NAMSATE ZAINAB,
    First of all zainab i want to tell you that your love for that Hindu boy is the will of ALLAH.IF ALLAH wouldn’t have wished ,you would have never fallen in love for a Hindu boy.if muslim boys are marrying hindu girls then why cant muslim girls marry hindu boys????this phenomenon is changing drastically.nowadays mostly from u.p,bihar west Bengal,m.p and even Hyderabad muslin girls are marrying Hindu boys in large number.and by the way zainab if u would have married a muslim boy he had the power to marry extra 3 wife (even if u don’t want) and would have to live a conservative lives.but when u marry a Hindu boy(10 times liberal,educated and loving others what Muslims hate their Hindu brother by telling them-kafir)you will live a happy life. no need to leave Islam or convert to Hinduism, you can wear a burqa that’s hardly matter.the only thing is that if your love is true,u should marry him and live a happy life.tell your parents when a Muslims is being treated by a Hindu doctor and their lives is saved by the Hindu doctor then whats wrong in loving a Hindu and marrying him. zainab u are an educated and modern woman.ALLAH gave given u brain to think and heart to feel.never disappoint ALLAH by sacrificing ones body to a person whom you never love.hope u reply soon.

    • May 20, 2014 4:20 am

      Rajeev,

      u lack common sense, if u commit suicide it means God has wanted you to? Dont tempt Zainab to do something thats gonna make her regret in this life and hearafter..

    • Pakhi Begum
      May 21, 2014 11:53 am

      Rajeev
      Don’t give wrong advise to people. It is not at all ALLAH’S Wish but Satan has mislead “Zainab” to get her married with the hindu boy and thereby she will certainly a get confirmed berth at hell.
      Pakhi Begum (Formally Mitali Mukherji)

      • arif
        May 22, 2014 4:48 am

        i disagree:-
        she is not muslim ,she have inherited relegion thats all.she is not afraid of relegion actually of society.she is not having fear of god ,she is having fear what people will say..she is doing unjustice with herself and with friend also to whom she want to do marraige.

        i would suggest first she should accept hindu relegion by heart and help him.
        she can not live good muslim(not so called) wife life if she go with the muslim guy beacuse her heart beates for his love.

        cheers

    • saad abdullah
      May 21, 2016 10:12 am

      Dear rajeev Muslims are not allowed to marry hindus according to quran(2:221)

  • Satyen
    May 17, 2014 5:58 am

    Dear Zainab,

    If Hinduism were so a bad religion, how a Hindu boy could be so good from his heart? Moreover, why Allah will send this good boy in a Hindu’s family if Hinduism is so bad?

    Think on the above points. Ask the above points from your well wishers as well.

    • May 17, 2014 10:08 am

      Great point, Satyen.
      We would like could take it one step further.
      If Allah is so powerful, why He even allow birth of all Hindus, Christians, Jew and atheist?
      Why Allah don’t produce only Shia Muslims, not even Sunni? And produce 4X more girl births compared to Shia boys to satisfy needs of these boys?

      Further, why Christian, Jews and many cases even Hindus are more wealthy compared to counterpart Muslims? Why Allah is allowing suffering of his beloved Shias? Why for most poor Muslims, only they have to live by is a dream of good after life?

      • Pakhi Begum
        May 21, 2014 12:29 pm

        Admin
        Your statement is like a student of primary class. No doubt ALLAH is POWERFUL ALL KNOWING AND ALL HEARING.
        Question is why should hindus and non Muslims will born. According to Islam every child born in this earth is a Muslim but due to the influence of Christian Hindu Jew Parsi parents, the child become non Muslims. I advise you also to download the book Awake Hindu Awake from internet and post the same here to enable the readers to offer their comments about Hindu religion.
        Pakhi Begum

    • Pakhi Begum
      May 21, 2014 12:02 pm

      Satyan
      Acquire some knowledge before entering into any debate.Though born in a hindu brahmin family and being a reverted Muslim I will request you to kindly down the book Awake Hindu Awake (Authored by another Brahmin) from internet, read the same and then make any comment about hindu religion.
      Pakhi Begum (Formally Mitali Mukherji)

      • arif
        May 22, 2014 4:41 am

        for pakhi:

        only heart tells eternally about your act.
        so if you have converted to muslim faith then i am sure you will follow and explore hidden treasure of islam greatly. and you will enjoye peace.

        I am muslim and roamed multi countries and never found any wrong with my faith.actually this is my faith that it keeps me happy where world is full of oppurtunity what you desire you can do.

        if you enjoye wine ,gilrs,boys,living relationsips,drugs and whatever then where is the fault of relegion eith hindu or muslim.

        But muslim way of life is very different..media have postered muslim life with top,beard and terrorism but actual fact is different.

        No body in this world is tolerent except muslim(not inherited form).

        if you dont respect and love your parents then anything is useless for those people..do not hurt to parents because they will not comeback if gone.

        cheers

        • Pakhi Begum
          May 22, 2014 10:44 am

          Arif Bhai
          Please request admin, rajeev and all readers to give express their reaction(s)on my comments made on 22.5.14 at 4-23 AM.
          Pakhi Begum

    • arif
      May 22, 2014 4:21 am

      “NO RELEGION IS BAD”

      if any one says bad to relegion i think that person is bad and worst level of literacy they are having.
      But follow only one path,god knows everthing and only god will pass or fail your score.

      cheers

  • May 17, 2014 3:45 am

    Assalaamualaikum,

    Atheist, for you to marry the girl you will have to become a muslim for what Islam is about and NOT just for marrying her..

    Zainab, its not allowed to marry a boy of any other faith other than Islam, Please explain him the goodness in Islam, if he accepts with good faith then i think your parents wont deny.. Also remember no one would care for you more than your Parents.. For a detailed and more authentic advise.. Please post your question oh http://www.askimam.org..

    Jazakumullaah..

    • arif
      May 22, 2014 4:24 am

      for zainab:-

      she can quit to islam and i am sure in the process ..i feel have syomptoms of diesese..how that desease enterd into her no idea..but she is sick..her heart has been already corrupt and she must adopt whatever faith she like for better life.Only god knows.

      cheers

  • May 15, 2014 3:00 am

    Assalamu Alaikum,

    I am writing to you,because I am in a great dilemma or confusion.I am a sunni muslim girl and I am in love with a Hindu Brahmin boy.I want to marry him.But my parents and other relatives are objecting.They say its very sinful marrying a hindu boy.Allah will punish you and you will not be happy since you will face many problems at the society front.
    I care a damn about the society,I am just worried about my parents… I just want them to accept me.If I want to be confident enough(proofs),to convince them.My parents keep blackmailing me that,we have done so much for you,how can you even think of this thing… what about our respect in the society and all.My father says if you marry against our wish we will die… I am really in a very painful situation.

    I want you to help me in this.Please tell me is it sinful marrying a Hindu boy?According to the documents which are present in your site http://www.irf.net, what I have understood that actually Hinduism does not support idol worship and its part of Islam… Its the people who are following it in a wrong way… This boy doesn’t even believe in idol worship… he is just a Hindu by name… He says I can continue with my worship… He doesn’t mind… He doesn’t mind If I wear burqa also… He is a very nice guy from heart… He is a very kind,honest and believes more in actions than just praying… He says you do hardwork and you get it… please tell me can I marry him?Will Allah punish me if I marry him?If I can marry him,Please tell me how can I convince my parents?My parents are misguided by our community people. We both are working age 28 and 31 years, from Meerut, India.

    • arif
      May 22, 2014 4:31 am

      Hi Zainab..

      very simple:- if you have gone physical then i would suggest go with that boy and help him truly to achieve what his and your goals.
      Do not become hypcrites as telling sinful and whatever..in islam it is very clear if you believe god by heart the your heart is only for the same faith.
      if your heart is only for the hindu boy then do not cheat to yourself because after that you will be in danger forever.

      your path is very comiplcated only god can save you if you trust on god.
      i know you are modern and dont have faith in god so cant be faithful to other.so start following hindu teaching and way of life and help to your fried.

      any doubt you can ask query.

      cheers

  • May 14, 2014 7:28 am

    Dear Atheist,
    Considering you don’t have a religion, are you willing to fake-convert to Islam? This will be a simple solution to have Nikaah and her parents will agree. However, after marriage, she and her parents will make sure you think and act like a religious Muslim. Are you ready for it?

    Other good option is, considering you are an atheist, is to marry by the Special Marriage Act 1954 (or a court marriage). Considering you are adults, no one could stop you from doing so. In this option, you are honest, you do not have to fake-convert and no one will later force you to believe in that you do not. Let us know what you wish to do.

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