Karthika says: June 13, 2014 at 6:32 am
Good Evening Sir/Madam,
I’m belongs to Brahmin family from XYZ. From my childhood I’m loving my neighbour, he too loves me a lot. But the thing is he is belongs to a Christian relegion. There is no opposes from his side. But my family has oppositions. We both living in same area also.
Now this is a time for disclouse our matter infront of my family. 3 years back my family came to know that we are in love, that time my dad scolded him a lot. Now my dad belives that we are not in contact. My Mom and my sister are very nice beings. They likes me a lot. Me too. I can’t live without him as well as my family.
There is no objection from his side. He is ready to do anything for me and I also. Now we are decided to do one drama infront of our relatives that I’ll introduce him to my family as Brahmin Boy and he introduces me as the same. Our’s is very big family.
so we decided to do our engagement in Church and marraige in Brahmin culture. He is ready for that. Now I would like to know where he can study Vedas all? Is there any community helping in those issues. Together tell me onne idea how to proceed this thing in front of my family without hurting them.
I hope you will understand my situation properly. If any suggestions there so please send me those valuable words to my E-mail XXX. We don’t want to put my family peoples head down infront of our villagers as well as infront of our relatives.
Thank You. n I’ll hope I get positive responses soon.
Have a nice Evening -Karthika
Admin says:
Karthika,
Thank you for your reply below.
Understand that Rome was not built in a day. If you are smart, you will not plan to get married for at least 1-2 years and do not plan to have a baby for another 2-3 years after getting married. You must know that divorce rates in interfaith marriages are very high and the divorce pain will be worst. This will ruin your life. For this reason, work with us and have patience.
Do not rely on what he says. It is your life and you must take charge of it. Go meet personally to the priest. Do not assume any thing. Honestly ask him these … “I am a Brahmin and will die as such. Further, I will not let my children be baptized, but will teach them from Vedas and Bible. As an adults age 21, they will decide which faith they wish to follow. Is that okay?” Let us know what he has to say. Go this Sunday after their church ceremony.
The Bollywood movies only show love and marriage, but do not show true issues dealing with monotheist exclusivist Abrahamic. This is a dangerous sign that you said “my guy should give one letter to their main pop/Bishop”. NEVER do that; what your love has to do with such business contract? Read these latters here for USA or India that they will want you to sign. Never sign any such one sided pre-nuptial agreement till you consult your lawyer. Basically, the church will want you to sign off your hundreds of generations of Hindu heritage and now start a new Christian heritage (read Bible). This is absolutely a barbaric trick to trap innocent people like you. Now you prove us wrong what we said above. Go meet the church priest personally and let us know what you learned. We are waiting right here! -Admin
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You are tying to understand enrvythieg with reason and science. I have nothing against science and reason, but I ask, has it been successful in revealing how our human body works, or at least the vastness of our universe. Man could not use Science to find solutions to a myriad of our world’s problems. What use is reason and science if it cannot solve our problems? The very fact that scientists are still trying to understand many mysteries implies that science and reason by itself is not sufficient enough. And you are trying to to take the cover of science and reason!!! Your atheistic bent suits the frame of your mind (you got a very strong and focussed mind). Atheism does not suit everybody. I can say only one thing. However, if you are against rituals, don’t do since you don’t believe them. And yes, don’t do ritualistic things for the sake of others or for the sake of the soceity. Then only you can be true to yourself.
Karhika BRAHMINS are silent TERRORISTS so leave brahminism and embrace the great and largest religion christianity
Karthika,
This is exactly most Muslims and Christians will believe for you. Only difference between this mac and your in-laws is this mac is an honest guy while your in-laws will show their true color after marriage. Now you have to decide if you wish to spend whole your life with people who hates what you are. If that is not what you are looking for, then answer is NO BAPTISM (or no Shahadah, if Muslim), simple! Good luck.
Aren`t BRAHMIN terrorists???? KILLED and RAPED BILLIONS of lower caste
Lol. Do you know what is the population of the entire world?
Ravi beta, BRAHMINS killed lower caste from god knows how many years, if you want i m ready to give data
Puranic Dark Ages 200 AD – 1000 AD
Brahmanic Dark Ages 1500 BC – 1000 AD
now count how many lower caste ppl KILLED and RAPED by BRAHMINS
The Brahmanic Dark Ages of 1000 years(1500 BC – 500 BC), and let us adopt the standard population estimate of ancient India, namely 50 million and assume that the same birth rate and same sex ratio existed as today. These are not unreasonable assumptions, given the statements of various travelers that several entire towns in Brahmanic India were destitute of girls. These figures lead to 1.6 million births, or 0.8 million girls born per year of which at least 0.08 million are killed. For 2500 years that yields 2500 years x 0.08 million deaths per year = more than 200 million deaths for the Brahmanic Dark Ages. This means that the Brahmins have murdered 200 million girls during their tyranny over India. By comparison, all other genocides in world history pale into insignificance. The Nazi genocide of Jews was only 5 million, whilst the largest Holocaust ever, that of the Native Americans by Latin and Anglo-Saxons, was only 100 million. This genocide of female infants alone is sufficient to make the Brahmins the greatest mass murderers in human history. It does not include the countless other genocides inflicted by the Brahmins on other peoples like dalits
Yeah sure. Thank you so much.
He is already spoke with Church’s priest, Priest said that my guy should give one letter to their main pop/Bishop.
I think there is no issue from his side. My tension is how to proceed this matter infront of my family smoothly. If we go with Brahmin marriage culture, then how to teach him Vedas and how to put him secred thread.
Could you please reply me Sir/Madam.
Thank you so much for your wonderful support.
See above!
Karthika,
You have reached to the perfect site for your issues, we have been handling these for past 7 years and have about 500 such couples’ experiences here.
Do not disclose your location and e-mail addresses in any public forum, we have removed it for you. It could hurt you in the future. Don’t be so naive.
We will work with you for how to manage your parents and rest. First, go meet his church’s priest. Ask him what it will take to marry a Christian in your church. Tell him that you are a Brahmin and will die as such. Further, I will not let my children be baptized, but will teach them from Vedas and Bible. As an adults age 21, they will decide which faith they wish to follow. Is that okay? Meantime, read what the Bible has to say for Hindus. Please get back to us for what the priest says, we are waiting right here.