My father was a muslim & my mother is a Hindu

Anonymous (Anon) says: July 20, 2014 at 10:07 pm

Assalam
Let me give you my example. My father was a muslim & my mother is a Hindu, I am their son. I chose Islam as my faith. I don’t have any problems with my relatives. I pray everyday, fast in ramzan, give charity. I do things what a muslim does.

Everything was working fine until I got 25 years of age. I thought of marrying, I have made profiles in online matrimonal sites. Everyone mails/messages me that if my mother practices Islam or not which my mother does not.

No woman changes her religion willingly, it has to come deep down from her heart else Allah SWT do not accept the change. Well in my and my brother’s case we can’t get married. Children like me are illegitimate and haram. But in one hadith prophet mentioned not to blame children if parents made mistake.

Anon added:
My father is deceased.
I saw many misunderstandings and mistrust between my parents.
My mother didn’t want to listen about Islam may be because of media or some other causes Allah SWT knows the best.
My parents had a Nikah as far as I could see marriage pics.
May be my mother read the Kalma but she never practiced Islam. She followed her faith.

My advice to any Muslim as his/her brother is that never go against the will of Allah SWT and shariya.

-Anon

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4 Comments

  • Rahul
    July 28, 2014 3:35 am

    Do check out this link. An eye opener for all girls who are willing to convert to Islam for love.

    http://www.islam-watch.org/leavingislam/Ex-convert-Ordeal-Islam-False-Sense-of-Peace.htm

  • Anonymous
    July 21, 2014 11:08 pm

    My father is deceased.
    I saw many misunderstandings and mistrust between my parents.
    My mother didn’t want to listen about Islam may be because of media or some other causes Allah SWT knows the best.
    My parents had a Nikah as far as I could see marriage pics.
    May be my mother read the Kalma but she never practiced Islam. She followed her faith.

    My advice to any Muslim as his/her brother is that never go against the will of Allah SWT and shariya.

    • July 22, 2014 6:45 am

      Hi Anon,

      Sorry to hear about your father. Did your father taught you about Islam? Did your mother try to teach about Hinduism? Were/are you in touch with mother’s relatives or only to father’s relatives?

      It appears that your mother only “fake”-convert for the nikaah. Islam was imposed on her, her heart was still with Hindu teachings. In spite of all these, are you in good relationship with your mother? Do you believe you mother will most likely get hell fire on the J-day?

      You gave advise to Muslims above, what is your advise to Hindu boys and girls? Your mother made a mistake marrying a Muslim, what other Hindu girls should learn from her experience? Are you ever going to date someone who is not performing namaz five times a day?

  • July 21, 2014 10:33 pm

    Dear Anon,
    It must be painful not to pray with your mom. We are sure it is equally painful for your mother not able to pray (by her way) with you and your father.

    Why you said “My father WAS a muslim”? How was your parents’ relationships during their married life? What was opinion of your mother about Islam? Did your parents married by Nikah? If so, she must have converted to Islam, was it not?

    Allah is great, don’t listen to all these middle men. You are not illegitimate nor haram. Trust us, Allah has planned someone waiting for you! Please get back to us and keep in touch!

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