Abc says: September 13, 2014 at 6:55 am
Hello,
I am a hindu boy and is in love with a muslim girl for the past 7 years. Now our parents know about our relationship. My parents are okay with this. But her parents, especially her dad is against this. Although they never beat her or tortured her, they said that they won’t allow this marriage to take place. I spoke to her mom and dad. Her mom likes me, but she cannot go against her husband’s decision. Now she has done everything to convince her mom and dad.
Now my dad spoke to her dad. He told them that we have two options. Either live the next 10 years of their life with pride or ruin the next 50 years of their daughters life by marrying her to someone else.
She is not eating anything and is crying every day. Her dad talked to me about this. They said that they will commit suicide if we get married. He told me that he likes me but he cannot live in thw society if this happens . I dont know what to do. She even told me that she is ready to elope with me. But i told her lets wait for few more months and try hard to convince them. I dont want her to lose anything because of me. SHe loves me very much and will do anything for me. -Abc
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Bastard Mac,
You appreciate islam irrespective of thousands of evil teachings, why dont you settle in islamic countries.
Why you are enjoying freedom in Inida? Go and settle in Pakistan, see your condition how you will be treated as Mujahir.
You are talking world wars but muslims killed non muslim thousands time more than any war. It is the most dangerous so called religion, which does not have a single quality towards humanity except criminal mindset.
heee heee heee see the anger and frustration on so called human, i like it
Dear readers,
It is always said that islam does not believe in violence, hatred and forcible sex, but what is reality?
What is happening even in muslim countries, in the name of 72 virgins, innocent boys are brainwashed, trained for terrorist activities. Every where in the globe muslim terrorists are killing innocents, whether it is Europe, Asia, Latain american countries, Australia.
Mac is one of the product these terrorists, a great blue eyed person of
Admn.
What is pathetic condition of females in Gulf countries, controlled by terrorists, no body can even imagine.
Masseyyyyyyy, i caught you again, you again gave me stick to beat hinduism, i don`t know why again and agian hindus show me path to attack their religion and when they fail to defend it they start to cry that why you are talking about our religion, why you mocking at our religion, and so so…..
what is happening in muslim countrries is very bad, but for thusands of years what happened in europen countries and that time there were traces of muslims in europe, if islam and muslim is the rrot cause of war then why world war 1,2 happened, why vietnam,korea,japan,russia-france-germany-england were enemies and millions lost lifes, so bringing islam to show that it creates war is a lame excuse.
LOL, never heard of terrorits attack my so called jihadist in latin american countries, latin america being largest host of catholic people supports muslim nation, whether it is venezuala,cuba,argentina,brasil. I forgot to mention that when entire latin america was involved in terrorism activities under the leadership of fidel castro,batista,Che Guevara at that time you will not find a single terrorist from muslim community, why you don`t blame russia who attacked afganistan, then one of the peaceful nation of the world, why don`t you blame US for invading iraq,killing saddam hussein at saddad reign there were no terrorists organisatio in iraq, so people like you will always find excuse to defame islam, please go on then, islam is growing and will keep on growing…and in the mean time you will waste your valuable time….
Don`t worry about females of middle-east, actually i am happy that you worry but don`t express your worries about thosands women being raped in hindu religious school ashrams in the name of lord krishna.
Also in the asian games india is strugling t 15th position but in rape rates in 2014 it top the list, no muslim countries is in top ten though a single rape case in any middle east countries is being telecasted from US to Japan…
And about gulf countries, they seat above hindu countries like nepal and hindu majorated countries like india in terms of peace index , Qatar(rank-22), Kuwait(37), United Arab Emirates(40), Jordan(56), Oman(59), Morocco(63), …. even Bagladesh(98) is above Indian(143),so…
Agree to mac that Christians have killed most number of people in the name of religion in the history of this world, however now Christians are more tolerant to other’s faith and consider others. Now it is time for Islam. With education and internet, we are very hopeful.
Quran [2:221] Do not marry idolatresses unless they believe; a believing woman is better than an idolatress, even if you like her. Nor shall you give your daughters in marriage to idolatrous men, unless they believe. A believing man is better than an idolater, even if you like him. These invite to Hell, while God invites to Paradise and forgiveness, as He wills. He clarifies His revelations for the people, that they may take heed.
so you want to abuse your lovers family, you want to abuse your lover, you want to destroy your lover`s deen
ISLAM clealrly said that you only give your daughters to a disbeliever/mushrik(hindu) if he believes, so her family will not be able to give her hand with you as per ISLAM, and if you pressurise them then you it will be equal to abuse their faith, also if you marry her you will have no problem but she will have problem as per islam and as quran clearly said not to marry disbeliever so if you force her to marry you then she will end up being in hell for going against islam, so what kind of love is it, that you don`t care for your lovers afterlife, is it true love, also what will be your children`s religion, will they be hindu(believe in multiple god ) or will they be muslim( believe in creator,one unseeen god), if she fails to give them islamic teachings then in that way also allah swt will punish her, do you want to punish her, what kind of love is this, may be god knows
ABC ….
There is no need to convert either you or her … if you both respect each other’s feeling and tradition , your relationship will surely go on long way
Its common to have problem in tying knot , even if two people of same religion or caste .so don’t worry keep trying ..some day it may work and there are always if and buts in life
Yeah We are not planning to convert . I loved her as a muslim and she will remain a muslim for the rest of her life. The same goes with my religion too. We will try hard to convince her dad if it wont work we will have to elope .
Abc, the pressure for conversion to Islam will be all along your life, especially from your (then) wife and her parents. They will pressure when you have good life and when you are sick. Convert, convert and convert. Are you really ready to cope with this?
Yes i am ready for that . And my girl doesnt believe in converting . They are not orthodox muslims . We are together for 8 years . I know her really well .I wont ask her to convert to hinduism . Atleast our relation is not based on religion . ITs love !
Why you said “Yes i am ready for that” … ready for what ….. a fake-conversion? Have you read Koran? We are glad you girl is intelligent and sensible by saying “And my girl doesnt believe in converting . They are not orthodox muslims.” Don’t fake-convert, unless you are ready to live the life of Muhammad.
If you want a successful,eternal married life then you have to convert, otherwise, you will end up being like “Hrithik_suzana”
Mac, good try! See above, “Abc says: Yeah We are not planning to convert.” LOL!
Mac, this is a stupid argument ” otherwise, you will end up being like “Hrithik_suzana””, Saif Ali Khan married to Amrita Singh and converted her, still she got talaak, talaak, talaak. Now he married to Kareena Kapoor without conversion and are still together. so where your logic stays?
admin, your logic is also absurd one as said-kareena married life yet started, we haven`t seen its end, i hope they have long lasting married life, and saif previous wife fake converted, she didn`t practised islam.
And when i say convert to islam, i mean to say convert by heart.
you live in dubai, is she arab of india/pakistani
Love birds have to wash away their many wings while marrying into another religion
Nusrat,
A beautiful statement. However, can you clarify based on your life experiences?
“Love birds have to wash away their many wings”, do you mean the Hindu-bird, the Muslim-bird or both Hindu and Muslim birds have equally to wash away their many wings?
Hi admin
it depends ..Not always hindus have to sacrifice but some time muslim also but girls are common cases of sacrifice
Dear Abc,
Life is not as simple as Abc. How are you planning to get married by? Islam requires Hindus to convert to Islam before their Islamic Nikaah wedding, are you willing to convert for your love? Is your parents okay having a Muslim wife and practicing Islam in your Hindu home? How are you planning to mix two faiths in your life? Which country are you in or planning to settle in? Have you thought of all these?
I am currently working in dubai. Yes, my parents know everything and they ready to accept her as their daughter in law. They even spoke to her dad about this. They said they won’t ask her to convert and she can practice her religion . We respect each other’s religion . We are both well educated and we are trying our best to convince her parents .
Life in Islam is lots complex, especially when one wishes to marry outside Islam. Her parents will have to go through lots of pressure from their society. Ultimately it will come to your conversion to Islam. Are you willing to convert and raise Muslim children?
No i am not i have seen many examples around me . And none of them have converted . I love her and thats what matters the most . She also has the same concept as mine . SHe never wanted me to convert into her religion. I know it won’t be easy, but i am not willing to lose her because of that.
We see two conflicting statements, “No i am not (going to convert)” and “i am not willing to lose her”. We hope all work out in the end well for you. However, don’t underestimate the pressure to convert, convert, convert.
Actually most Muslim lovers truly believe like you stated “She also has the same concept as mine . She never wanted me to convert into her religion”, however under pressure from Muslim community, they ultimately cave in.
Assuming all work out with her parents, is she willing to be a part of Hindu wedding? Alternatively, are you planning to have an Islamic Nikaah wedding? Ask her and tell us what she is intending to do.
We are not hear to tell you what you should do, but to make you think. We hope that is okay with you.