Love is not haraam

Anonymous says: October 26, 2014 at 4:32 pm

I am a muslim girl and I am in a relationship with a Rajput (Hindu) boy and we both reapect each others religion. -Anonymous

mac says: October 27, 2014 at 2:38 am

You are in a relationship before marriage which is haram in islam and awarded with 100 lashes, so be careful before calling others hypocrites when you are potraying yourself as muslim and disobeying Qurans(allah`s) commandment -mac

Anonymous says: October 27, 2014 at 4:49 am

I love dis guy and he loves me and we respect eact other. we are not sleeping together. He knows islam has limitations and he respects it. Respects it so much that we dont even hold hands we just love each other and we like being the way we are.

And besides everything we are most of the times in different cities or different countries due to our professional requirements. and i dont agree with u on the disobeying thing cuz we dnt do zina or anythng we have feeling of love for each other n not lust and as long as u dnt lust for someone it cannot be haram.

If you are reading about it then didnt u come across the rulings on it? Love is not haraam nor being with other ppl is haram. It can only be haram when u have lust in ur heart for d person u r with. N I really cant help it if so many ppl fall in love or act so to get laid. I dont do it n what i m doin cannot be called haram.

Well as far as marriage is concerned I am not very interested in getting married and as marriage is not farz its sunnah so i can opt for no marriage.

As you know i cant convert to hinduism and I wouldnt want him to convert to islam just for the sake of marriage cause if anyone converts to any religion it shuould not b for d sake of love for a human being it should come from the heart and should be for the love of the almighty.

If people think thay they are moved by the rulings and preachings of a particular religion then only he or she should opt for it. And itz not becoz of this guy that I dont want to get married. I have always had this thing of no marriage at all and this is basically the reason why me and him are in a relationship.

He has alwz had this no marriage thing all along. We have planned to adopt two girls and we will raise them as per our own beliefs. And we try to help as many people we can and our love for the underpreviliged people is anothr things that has made our bond strong. -anonymous


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12 Comments

  • luckyblogger
    April 25, 2018 12:15 pm

    awesome. if he loves you you love him who cares? as a hindu i can tell you he wobt ask you to convert why should you? love is before religion. gl

  • sameer khan
    March 3, 2015 12:00 pm

    can a hindu and muslim do marriage without changing religion. if they want to live without changing religion of each then what is the problem?
    is this rong to love a muslim girl/boy by a hindu girl/boy.
    is it not possible that mr ramesh remains mr ramesh and mrs noor fatima remain mrs noor fatima after marriage???

    • March 3, 2015 7:17 pm

      A great point, that is the way it should be. However, some religious fanatic uses love for expansion of their religion.

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  • October 28, 2014 7:33 am

    Mac,

    If love is haram, why did your mother entered in so many mutta marriages? Does she not need 100 lashes?

    Sodomy in madarsas is equally haram? Has any imam or maulvi been
    lashed 100 times?

    • October 28, 2014 7:37 am

      Readers, we don’t believe this statement “did your mother entered in so many mutta marriages?”. We believe Mac is coming from a great family. Kartar, please prove your statement.

    • mac
      October 29, 2014 4:26 am

      Sister, i didn`t say love is haram, i said lust is haram.

  • mac
    October 28, 2014 12:42 am

    Dear reader, to know whole conversation https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=2402

    • October 28, 2014 7:13 am

      Correct link is https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=2402&cpage=1#comment-336320 as we have cited above. Anonymous feels this site is biased and one should read her views there. Actually the world is bias and we are preparing youths for reality of life. In the end, we will be happy if you make fully informed decision for your life, what ever that decision is.

  • October 27, 2014 8:15 pm

    Dear Anonymous,

    You have many noble thoughts however you have to know that idealism and reality are two different beasts. Most young people in love with opposite sex for a long time may get into more than a plutonic love one or the other time; we trust you that you are a firm minded. Further, generally, two people can’t adapt a child, it has to be married couple. Are you planning to live in the same house (to raise your daughters) but not married? Will your (and his) parents and community approve it? Such living arrangement is almost impossible in most conservative countries, however it is possible in the West. We do not mean to discourage you but you have to realize that you have many difficult roads ahead. We wish you the best, keep in touch!

    • mac
      October 28, 2014 12:34 am

      I agree with admin, your plan may look good in theory but in practical it is just impossible in any country.

      • Aakash Mallik
        March 3, 2015 7:51 pm

        I too agree with the admin…such noble thoughts are possible only in the west….even if u wanna do that in India…u have to get married atleast……

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