If you are a Hindu and in love with a Muslim, you will most certainly be asked to convert to Islam. Just to evert all issues and to please in-laws, without truly understanding Islam, you may agree for (fake) conversion to Islam. However, this 5 min of simple ritual (Shahadah oath) will have major implications to your rest of life, even after talaak (divorce with the Muslim). Please think before you agree for the conversion. These are some of reasons not to fake-convert to Islam:
1) Understand Shahadah: Shahadah means you agree to be 100% Muslim and 0% Hindu. If this is not your intention, why will you lie to your in-laws, imam, Islamic institutions and Allah? Do not make lies and deception a foundation of your long lasting married life. Instead, take time to learn Islam. Spend 6 months in some madrasa school and in a Muslim community to understand real Islam before the Shahadah. Read all what Haque and mac wrote on this site and think if you are ready to be like them (and raise children like them). Read what Koran has to say for Hindus. Do not mix your love and religion. Convert to Islam (Shahadah) only after fully understanding what you are doing.
2) Conversion to Islam is a one way street: After you uttered the Shahadah oath, you have no rights left to convert back to Hinduism, ever. Bukhari 9.84.57 states: “Whoever changes his Islamic religion, then kill him.”. Read more at http://www.jihadwatch.org/2010/12/malaysia-islamic-agency-vows-to-enforce-islamic-apostasy-law and http://www.wikiislam.net/wiki/Persecution_of_Ex-Muslims. Even your marriage with this Muslim ends with him uttering talaak, talaak, talaak, you have no right to marry a Hindu later in your life.
3) Conversion back to Hinduism is impossible: Read this news: Miss Massosai was born to Muslim converts and given a Muslim name, but she was raised as a Hindu by her grandmother and has always practised Hindu faith. However, under Malaysia’s Islamic law, having Muslim parents makes one a Muslim and, as such, one is not allowed to change one’s faith or marry a non-Muslim. But Miss Massosai married a Hindu man in 2004 and the couple have a young daughter. When in January 2007 she asked a court to officially designate her a Hindu she was detained and taken to an Islamic rehabilitation centre. Her detention was twice extended to six months, during which time she says religious officials tried to make her pray as a Muslim and wear a headscarf. She is adamant that she will remain a Hindu. In the meantime, Miss Revathi and her daughter have been placed in the custody of her Muslim parents. Also read.
4) After conversion, your Hindu parents/relatives don’t have rights about you: Read this news: A Malaysian mountaineering hero will be buried as a Muslim, against the wishes of his Hindu wife, who denied he had converted to Islam before his death. The decision follows a High Court ruling that it cannot override the country’s Islamic courts in matters of religious conversion. An Islamic Sharia court subsequently upheld a claim by his former colleagues in the army that he had become a Muslim last year. However his family, who want him to have a Hindu funeral, were not allowed to appear before the court to dispute his conversion because they are not Muslims. The family went to the civil court and argued that Mr Moorthy was a practising Hindu. They say he was even interviewed for local television two months ago about his preparations for the Hindu festival of Diwali. But the High Court agreed with government lawyers who argued the civil court had no jurisdiction.
5) Name matters: A Muslim will expect the Hindu spouse to take up a Muslim name for Nikaah. Your name will have major legal implications later on, read on this story…. Zarinah had Hindu father and mother. Later the father converted to Islam and changed children’s name to Islamic, but in all practical matters Zarinah was raised as Hindu. Now she decided to marry her Hindu lover, but Malaysian police came and arrested her in the middle of her Hindu wedding. She is saying “But that (changing name) was I was trying to do for years. I spent so much money and time working on this problem and now they are telling me to do the same thing.” Zarinah said there was a possibility that she could be charged with insulting Islam if the problem was not solved quickly.
6) Date a Muslim only if you wish to become Muslim: Above, we gave example of Saif-Kareena‘s court marriage. However that will not work in cases of most ordinary people. Read Akansha’s life story. She got married in court but immediately the Muslim family compelled her to quit her job, took away her Facebook privileges, was “unwillingly” convert to Islam, given a new name Nusrat, most documents including passport had name changes, sent to Islamic school, made to wear black gown called abaya and hijab, confined to home, allowed to visit her Hindu parents only once in 9 months of marriage, and her Hindu identity was erased in all respect. Date a Muslim only if you are prepared to be Nusrat.
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God created everyone as equal. Why doesn’t islam allow marriage to other faith?. Does it mean that the people of other faith were created by some other gods up there in the sky?
Guys, if you are born in muslim family, you will practice islam. Likewise for Hindus or christians who follow their respective religions. Your religion is determined by your parents at birth and not by anyone else.
Islam teaches some good things but also created divisions within human race. The islamic guys posting here on this site if they were born in a hindu family, they would have been talking something else.
Please love each other as humans and world will be a happy place.
Islam .. the best religion 🙂
Islam is shit? Why I’m asking is coz I never found something matching as Musalle claim to be. Islam is shithole.
I found this article as an atheist, so I will respond as one:
The problem with fake-conversion as an atheist is that there is a very strong divergence between the different sets of belief/morality:
muslim family:
-islam is the truth
-if conversion doesn’t happen, the family will be cursed / even the parents will be punished etc.
-family will be ridiculed by society / other family members
the atheist:
-no freedom of religion because conversion is a must
-love comes first
-religion should not interfere with love (two different things)
As an atheist, I face the choice between embracing a religion I will never follow (and neither does my wife who has grown out of it) or insisting on my human rights (freedom of speech, freedom of religion, choosing a partner of my choice) while having her lose her family, her family’s face and name, seeing her be cast out etc.
So, what kind of choice is that?
A muslim will now respond: Well, if you’re not willing to convert, then it’s the wrong relationship in the first place. Well, from an atheist’s point of view, religion should not be the problem, and the fact is that my lady is not a true muslim any more, but hey, official apostacy is not really a nice thing either, so it doesn’t really make a difference.
In my opinion, fake conversion is just what many people do to get their peace. Facing a religion that only allows its own set of rules to be valid leaves you no real choice but to lie.
It’s very depressing…
Dear Atheist Loser,
Are you going to fake-convert?
mohamed and admin,,
am sure he never ask me to convert to islam…
How are you sure that it will NOT come 6 months before marriage? Did you checked with his parents? Why don’t you ask now?
Start reading full koran on your own and decide if Islam for you. We read and found this. Convert if you decide to be 0% Hindu and 100% Muslim. However, NEVER fake-convert.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8118
Admin as you have said, you found this and that from quran, will you please add this to your list, i saw you darkend Quran chapter 9 verse 5 , then will you add chapter 9 verse 6 “And if any one of the polytheists seeks your protection, then grant him protection so that he may hear the words of Allah. Then deliver him to his place of safety. That is because they are a people who do not know.” http://corpus.quran.com/translation.jsp?chapter=9&verse=6
can my Muslim husband take an Hindu wife if she converts?…he cheated me with her now that he has been found out he says he will divorce me and marry her, he says I forced him to it! because I found him out when her previous boyfriend contacted me with the story!
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8735
Valerie Hoffman, a professor of Islamic studies at the University of Illinois, commented on the issue of apostasy in Islam: “You can’t say Islam says this or Islam says that.” The question of course is “whose Islam” and “which Islam?”
At least 48 school students have been killed in Nigeria after a suicide bomber apparently dressed in school uniform detonated explosives in a packed assembly meeting.
Around 2,000 students – some as young as 11 – were waiting to hear the principal’s Monday morning address when the blast ripped through the crowd. Eyewitnesses spoke of horrific scenes as body parts were scattered all over the school compound. The mood then turned to anger, with soldiers who turned up to secure the area pelted with rocks by locals, who accused them of failing to protect the area against terrorist attack.
The bombing took place at the Government Technical Science College in the city of Potiskum, a town of 200,000 in north-east Nigeria’s Yobe state and a regular target of attacks by the Boko Haram Islamist group. Only last week, a suicide bomb in the same city killed 30 people taking part in a religious procession of moderate Muslims.
Musa Ibrahim Yahaya, survivor of the school bombing, spoke to the AP news agency from his hospital bed, where he was being treated for head wounds. “We were waiting for the principal to address us, around 7:30 a.m., when we heard a deafening sound and I was blown off my feet,” he said. “People started screaming and running, I saw blood all over my body.”
Aliyu Abubakar, a Potiskum resident, said he heard the explosion when he was dropping off his two sons at a nearby Islamic college. “One of my sons fell down, I came out dragged him in and we drove off back home,” he said.
You muslims are terrorists creating havoc against mankind.
Mutta marriage, halala, stoning to death, keeping 4 wives, 72 virgins in the heaven for terrorists, jihad, fatwa, is it a religion?
yes islam is the best religion bcoz what u said above is not islamic, islma permitted to take 4 wives, where as you people are involved in adutery, your gods even married thousands of girls
Mr Mac,no religion can claim to be the best in the world. Each n every religion has its own shortcomings, what we need to do is work on these shortcomings rather than pointing towards other religions. I had a very extreme view on Islam,but then,I was very less informed so I decided to read Quran and find more facts about Mohammed salah-islam,of course with the help of my Muslim friend. I got to know some interesting things,which changed my perception about Islam. In one site I was going through some one pointed out that Mohammed(peace be upon him) had married ayesha aged 9 and had 22 marriages. Well these we’re symbolic marriages meant to correct a few wrong practicies, and many are not aware of this. I admire Islam the way my friend interpreted it,although he said there are other interpretations some of which are faulty. The concept of jihad is sacred, the struggle of Mohammed(peace be upon him) in his early years is a classic example of jihad. Jihad means striving, but the sad truth is some people are using barberic things in the name of jihad and islam. What I ask of Muslim community is reach out others n explain them the truth. If people are confused about Islam,its not their fault,its more like, if a kid doesn’t understand maths, the teacher makes the kid understand,so isn’t it the responsibility of Muslim community to explain to others what Islam is really about. In this context, I would say Indian Muslim community is doing a pretty good job.
Now comes the next part,I admire islam and I love Mohammed(peace be upon him) but I still am a devout Hindu. Mac I don ask u to love Hinduism, but at least respect it, peoples sentiments are connected to it,same goes for all other religions. But yes if u do hate a religion then do read everything about it,then hate, even I had the same intention, I wanted to find faults in Islam by reading more about it, but somehow I find more good in it. Remember one thing,you dont need a reason to love, but u need at least one reason to hate. Every religion is at fault, we need to accept and bring the change.
Hindus n Muslim s share many things as common..
La Allah ilallah-there is but one god
Ekam Brahman-the one supreme Brahman
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8715
I won’t say just Islam backs bloodshed, Christianity undertook crusades and massacred thousands of Muslims. N we Hindus have also fallen to bloodshed as seen in godhra riots,malkangiri riots,etc. Sikhsm,Buddhism and Jainism have better track record than others in non violence.
In Islam 4 marriages were allowed because at that time Arabia was largely tribal and barberic,people used to have many many wives,and to limit that,this law was brought in. As for stone pelting, its a part of sharia law which was constituted later. I’m not sure if it was in quran,because like Vedas, Quran is a book of enlightenment.
I request u guys to have basic knowledge about something before commenting on it. And refrain from insulting each other.
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Dear readers,
There are ten Obvious Reasons: Why Islam is NOT a Religion of Peace
#1 22,000 deadly terror attacks committed explicitly in the name of Islam in just the last ten years. (Other religions combined for perhaps a dozen or so).
#2 Muhammad, the prophet of Islam, had people killed for insulting him or for criticizing his religion. This included women. Muslims are told to emulate the example of Muhammad.
#3 Muhammad said in many places that he has been “ordered by Allah to fight men until they testify that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is his messenger.” In the last nine years of his life, he ordered no less than 65 military campaigns to do exactly that.
Muhammad inspired his men to war with the basest of motives, using captured loot, sex and a gluttonous paradise as incentives. He beheaded captives, enslaved children and raped women captured in battle. Again, Muslims are told to emulate the example of Muhammad.
#4 After Muhammad died, the people who lived with him and knew his religion best immediately fell into war with each other.
Fatima, Muhammad’s favorite daughter, survived the early years among the unbelievers at Mecca safe and sound, yet died of stress from the persecution of fellow Muslims only six months after her father died. She even miscarried Muhammad’s grandchild after having her ribs broken by the man who became the second caliph.
Fatima’s husband Ali, who was the second convert to Islam and was raised like a son to Muhammad, fought a civil war against an army raised by Aisha, Muhammad’s favorite wife – and one whom he had said was a “perfect woman.” 10,000 Muslims were killed in a single battle waged less than 25 years after Muhammad’s death.
Three of the first four Muslim rulers (caliphs) were murdered. All of them were among Muhammad’s closest companions. The third caliph was killed by allies of the son of the first (who was murdered by the fifth caliph a few years later, then wrapped in the skin of a dead donkey and burned). The fourth caliph (Ali) was stabbed to death after a bitter dispute with the fifth. The fifth caliph went on to poison one of Muhammad’s two favorite grandsons. The other grandson was later beheaded by the sixth caliph.
The infighting and power struggles between Muhammad’s family members, closest companions and their children only intensified with time. Within 50 short years of Muhammad’s death, even the Kaaba, which had stood for centuries under pagan religion, lay in ruins from internal Muslim war…
And that’s just the fate of those within the house of Islam!
#5 Muhammad directed Muslims to wage war on other religions and bring them under submission to Islam. Within the first few decades following his death, his Arabian companions invaded and conquered Christian, Jewish, Hindu, Buddhist and Zoroastrian lands.
A mere 25 years after Muhammad’s death, Muslim armies had captured land and people within the borders of over 28 modern countries outside of Saudi Arabia.
#6 Muslims continued their Jihad against other religions for 1600 years, checked only by the ability of non-Muslims to defend themselves. To this day, not a week goes by that Islamic fundamentalists do not attempt to kill Christians, Jews, Hindus and Buddhists explicitly in the name of Allah.
None of these other religions are at war with each other.
#7 Islam is the only religion that has to retain its membership by threatening to kill anyone who leaves. This is according to the example set by Muhammad.
#8 Islam teaches that non-Muslims are less than fully human. Muhammad said that Muslims can be put to death for murder, but that a Muslim could never be put to death for killing a non-Muslim.
#9 The Qur’an never once speaks of Allah’s love for non-Muslims, but it speaks of Allah’s cruelty toward and hatred of non-Muslims more than 500 times.
#10 “Allahu Akbar! Allahu Akbar! Allahu Akbar!”
(The last words from the cockpit of Flight 93)
When Muslims are leaving the religion in thousands, none should embrace it afresh. Everybody knows how much anarchy they have brought in this world in the name od peace.No Hindu girl should marry Muslims.If marries, would face the harsh consequences later on .
ha ha i like your frustration 🙂
Why’s girls are not given much freedom as one does in every religion but not in Islam why they need covor all da body parts showing it world what wrong in having breast or something like feminism what’s wrong in DAT every females have but why Muslims.did religion tho.ught us how to eat,how to sleep,how to f***,did any 1 thought us no na then why come all dis
because we respect our mother,sister,daughter, our women gets true respect, we judge them by their brain not my how sexy they look, men and women are equal in islam, thatsway just like a man wears back suite covering all parts of his body, same way our women covers, bcoz in islam, both men and women had dignity.
But in non-islamic society, only man dresses with dignity and leaving women to dress like fools, they had to expose every things, otherwise they will not get attention
Go to xvideos and see what your community girls are doing and u talk about respect. Marrying your cousin is respecting your sisters …. Right?
lol, you wtch xvideos and thats clear how much you respect women, you kill female child in womb and talking about respect, shame on you
dear mac,
can I ask you one thing?
you said your mom was an ex hindu yet she was a hindu. Your dad ust be a converted Hindu as most south east asians were hindus
so how come you hate hindus so much?
is it your dad who taught you so much hate ?
I think you are fake as I have never seen so much hatred in Muslims as much as I see in you?
please reply if you are for real.
Things doesn’t go as u think dare is rigidity in islam religion girl will have no rights to go out of home without a bburka what da fuck religion is dis.Islam religion explains only about domination of males over females.females are just for pleasure and birth giving date it……..it is offensive and religion gives all offensive thoughts date it
Mohammed wat u r saying? can u tal proprely am in love with muslim guy..
Not all Muslims are same but we could help identify if he is a religious fanatic. Let us know more details of your lover.
Dear priyanka sister,
This admin is always against to islam. .so dont go with him. .try to search all the thing which islam wants to say for the people. .
Take ur own time to understand islam. . .
Priyanka,
Muhammad said, “Take ur own time to understand islam. . .” but in the end … convert or give up that guy. So now start reading Koran, go to a madrasa for education and go spend lots of time in a Muslim community now. This way, you will be clear if you are ready to accept Islam (and give up Hinduism completely). But never ever fake-convert to Islam. Ready for education?
Learn Qur’an from here http://corpus.quran.com/
Also youths should read Koran on Hindus?
Youths should take time to understand Islam, and not FAKE-convert out of blind love.
mac, agree 100%. Youths in love should make all efforts to learn as much as about the other party, their families, community and religion.
Hi dear,
There is nothing wrong in loving someone. However, be sure to be independadnt financially. You are marrying into a faith, a new family who have different set of rules. Even if you marry a Hindu its the same. A man generally is the family’s heir so on him his parents trust, to take care rules. YOU HAVE TO RESPECT HIS PARENTS WHICH MEANS RESPECTING HIS TRADITIONS WHICH ARE MUSLIM TRADITIONS.
You love him but will spend time with his family. So maybe not immediate but extended family members will be telling you how to respect his customs. You are a Hindu but you are alone there and anything in majority always rules.
I have friends who have Hindu wives who are both educated and yet
kids had a neutral faith name
and the boy had a circumcision.
Its how the cookie crumbles. Make sure you ARE FINANCIALLY OFF. ANY MARRIAGE CAN FAIL MAKE SURE IF YOURS DO AND MOST INTERFAITH MARRIAGES DO AS YOU CAN SEE IN BOLLYWOOD AS WELL YOU HAVE MONEY TO RAISE YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILD AS WELL.
GOODLUCK.
Superb Explanation. .
I Realy thank to u Friend. . .
All ths intermarraige love persons doesnt know about religion. .
they r spoiling love. .
they dont knw what is love. .they spoiling their own religion also. . .
nonsense. . .