I am a Muslim girl loves a Hindu boy very much

Reh says: December 12, 2014 at 5:11 am

hello , my self reh, i am a muslim girl loves a hindu boy very much can not live without him. from my heart i belief that he is my husband though am not physically intimated . i do not have a space for another guy whom my parents will marry to me . i am in a big trouble.

i am notable to decide what should i do where i should go . i believe in islam cant leave it or also cant leave him. if i can survive without him but he can not. plz give me the expert advice. from the heart i want that he start to belief in islam not fully but he can try but i am very afraid to tell hm this thing. plz help me out -reh


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24 Comments

  • December 23, 2014 5:24 am

    Mohammad,

    Dont you know the chain of restrictions imposed on femine gender?
    Can your mother,daughter or sister move openly with Burqa?
    Can she/they claim to marry 4 males like males are allowed to keep 4 wives?
    Can females drive cars in islamic countries like Saudia arabia or Iran?
    Can your mother/sister/daughter claim to be virgin without bleeding on wedding night?

    Can females have right to vote in all muslim countries?still there are many muslim countries where they are denied?

    Can a female become maulvi or imam?

    You bastard know every thing but dont want to accept realities being mutta product.

    • mac
      December 23, 2014 7:10 am

      Can your mother,daughter or sister move openly with Burqa?

      —yes, she can

      Can she/they claim to marry 4 males like males are allowed to keep 4 wives?

      —no

      Can females drive cars in islamic countries like Saudia arabia or Iran?

      —yes, in Saudi they need permission but in Iran no such rules, so you again proved that you know nothing, you are empty vessel

      Can your mother/sister/daughter claim to be virgin without bleeding on wedding night?

      —not required in Islam

      Can females have right to vote in all muslim countries?still there are many muslim countries where they are denied?

      —yes, they can

      Can a female become maulvi or imam?

      —no, not needed.

      • sam
        February 7, 2015 9:30 pm

        mohmmad, It’s a love not your religion understand first u should understand about love and then comments about it. It’s doesn’t matters that she wears burka. Bhosdi k tum 50th marriage kro Wo galat nhi aur koi ladki interfaith marriage kr rahi to tere ko problem kya hai.

    • Mohammed
      January 21, 2015 8:56 am

      Hey. . go and take care of ur mother and sisters

      Idiot

    • Mohammed
      January 21, 2015 8:57 am

      Hey. . firstly go and take care of ur mother and sisters

      u didnt knw about hinduism rapes and sexuality. ..

      Idiot

  • Avira
    December 21, 2014 4:03 am

    Dear Reh,
    It requires a lot of courage for a Muslim girl to openly declare her love for a Hindu guy, given a lot of spumed speech that the Moulvis proclaim in the name of ‘slaying the infidels to enjoy 72 hoories in heaven’ from the Quran. I also grieve for the whimsical state of women in Islam that harbors so much restrictions on feminine gender. Dear Reh, as my own sister I shall advise you to be very sure that your beau is a gentleman by heart who loves you and respects your decisions. Promise me that both of you will mutually meet each other’s emotions. Provided your sweetheart is a real man, follow his advise and trust his decisions. I sincerely hope that your courage is blessed by Devi Shakti to succeed in your love march. Get married and let not the hate-mongers break your sacred bond of love by any means. Have a sweet married life.

    • Mohammed
      December 21, 2014 6:06 am

      Can u tell me what are the restriction does giving in islam for women??

      Islam is a complete way of life for both men and women

      • Avira
        December 22, 2014 1:28 pm

        If that’s the case then you should honor the decision of this muslimah to marry her Hindu sweetheart and choose the faith of her interest instead of resorting fanatic muslim atrocities on women as honor killing. Its for this reason that although many many muslim women although in love with their Hindu male friends can’t marry him and start family. But believe me times are changing….because the Hindus too have shed off the fake garb of ahimsa, their walls of patience have now given way and we know how to pay for blood with our hater’s blood. The Goliath called HINDU is rising and rising real fast. Its time that the islamic hate mongers come out of their cocoon and start accepting their sisters’ and daughters’ marriage to the husband of their choice..Let he be of any community. Lets not be dictator of their ‘Right to their future’

        • Mohammed
          December 22, 2014 6:36 pm

          This is not answer for my question bro..
          what are the restriction to given by women and why this are restricted and what are the reasons are behind it??

          Read the comments that have given in the below link :
          https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=1869

  • arsh
    December 15, 2014 10:06 pm

    dear sister,
    me 2 in interfath relationship
    u r on rit way, just go ahed we r wid u
    if u need any help contact me i ll help u.
    And never publisise ur identy on any public platform becouse may some unwanted people intrupt or scold u…ignor dem hamari dua apke saath hai

    • December 17, 2014 8:12 pm

      Arsh, a good point of not disclosing identity on any public forum. It could hurt you ever some 10 years down later in life.

      What is the religion of your lover? and yours? Most important point we suggest is decide if you are allowed to teach your children both faiths 50%-50%. If not, why not? Respect all but don’t settle for a religious fanatic.

  • December 12, 2014 7:43 am

    Admn.

    Mac is always hitting you and using abusive language against you.
    Please dont allow his texts to be reflected on this blog. Immediately delete it. He is bastard number one from a notorious family of prostitute.

    • Mohammed
      December 12, 2014 8:30 am

      He is in the right way…u stop ur mouth. . u oly abusing and going against religion..
      u didnt have guts to respond him when he is telling in the correct mannar. .
      firstly ur comment only wants to stop..

  • December 12, 2014 7:41 am

    Dear Reh,

    If you love your BF, you can marry him under special marriage act, if you both happened to be in India. There is no need to covert to Hinduism or your BF to islam. Both of you can your own faith but respecting sentments of each other.

    Please mention age of both of you,job profile etc.

    • amritesh
      February 9, 2015 1:53 am

      massey i totally agree with you man…why….this shit religion comes in between the humqn relationship (like getting married) only..?
      why bringing conversions and all which are just.fake.. convert just because u love some1….
      i.think.there should some “neutral religion” like love and humanity..

      • February 9, 2015 7:23 am

        The conversion is a business to expand religion to increase vote power.
        View Gurumaa.

  • mac
    December 12, 2014 7:40 am

    I don`t know why admin again brought up another old story. Admin gone totally mad!!

    • December 12, 2014 7:56 pm

      mac, why are you desperate and nervous?

      This is not an old story for us, we learned it today. If Reh published it at different places, so be it! It’s her choice, we don’t control what she should do.

      • mac
        December 12, 2014 11:53 pm

        hahhha i am 99% sure that u r nervous, i am 100% sure that i have read this comment is this site hahhaha

        • December 13, 2014 7:42 am

          There is a “Search” button on top-right! Further, you know Google.
          We are confused, … what are you trying to prove?

          • December 20, 2014 1:22 pm

            mac, you have accused up wrongly but have not provided proof of your claim of “old story” (meaning we are cooking up love stories). Now prove yourself.

          • mac
            December 20, 2014 10:35 pm
          • December 21, 2014 9:54 am

            What about it? What are you telling us, can be clear?

  • December 12, 2014 7:05 am

    Dear Reh,
    Thank you for reaching out here. Please don’t take it personally if someone makes a comment that you don’t like. Instead, just ignore and move on.

    To start with, you said you wish “he start to belief in islam not fully”, if he start respecting Islam but not convert to Islam, is that good enough for you? However, you know that he must have Shahadah conversion for an Islamic Nikaah. Further, you cannot be a part of Hindu wedding. Do you think he will refuse to convert to Islam? There are other options without conversion, but we will discuss it later.

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