Laxmi says: February 11, 2015 at 7:40 am
Hi Nusrat, me too in a love with a muslim guy, but he directly said to me that he will not marry to me if i will not accept the islam. I love him, dont know what to do, plz guide? -Laxmi
Laxmi says: February 12, 2015 at 6:04 pm
My god, thing is getting more complicated for me, frankly speaking I don’t like to live a complicate life, in which I have to sacrifice all those things which matters a lot for me right from my childhood, like my name, my parents, my god, my freedom, etc , I was thinking to accept Islam and will worshipped my god also, but here I came to know that this is not possible,. now I have to decide whether I can live without my Shahid or not, I just love him. -Laxmi
Laxmi says: February 13, 2015 at 4:40 am
after my efforts this is his reply…
“Force ni Kar raha hun tujhe (I am not forcing you) I m just convincing u to come to my religion I m inviting u to my religion
I just want to b with u on earth as well as in heaven
Plz banja Muslim aur aja mere pas (Be a Muslim and come with me)
Hum dono bht khushi khushi rahenge (We both will be very happy)
Tujhe khush rakhunga main (I will keep you happy)” -Laxmi’s Boy friend
Laxmi says: February 14, 2015 at 9:50 am
Thanx to all for giving your valuable suggestions, I am not against any religion, but I just love my religion . I think it will be really difficult for me to be a part of a new religion and follows all those restriction like namaz and all those things. My mom frequently told me to read Geeta for her but I never do, so how can I do namaz four or five times in a day. I dont want to make my life complicated . I have decided to convince my boyfriend not to force me to convert, else Sky is the limit….. Feeling relaxed some how. -Laxmi
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Hi laxmi
pls dont do that
did you know d condition of muslim girls?
No freedom
you will loose your smile forever.
If he really loves u then he would never say u to accept islam
did u know about love jihad?
Get its knowledge. Pls
Hi
laxmi , decide what is more important for you in life your hindu faith or love , though I was deceived to accept islam because of in laws may be that time love of my life was more important than anything ,also I was little casual about religion , So I became muslim ..after some time I adjusted to islamic way of life ..but sometime I feel little suffocation now
you decide what’s good for you , if you can live with restriction ..than go ahead and accept islam and marry your love .this is all I can say
wish you all the best for your future
thanx nusrat, i am trying my best to take the right decision,. may u be happy, and Mac bro frankly speaking I don’t know much about my religion and also don’t want to know other also, I wanna freedom to live, a life where there shud not be any restrictions, that’s it. 🙂
Hi Lakshmi..
What did u decide? I went through similar dilemma.. I decided not to follow my bf’s religion as he wasn’t ready to share our religions with our children or at home.. We broke up sadly.. Whatever you decide, make sure u think about your future objectively.. Some women don’t see anything wrong in accepting Islam completely, but I couldn’t bcoz it would hurt my parents, my family and he wasn’t ready for Hindu children.. If u r ok with all this, go ahead, but if u feel like me then better get out now before u or your bf get hurt more..
Dear readers and Laxmi,
BE AWRE OF FLATTERING AND LYING TRICKS OF YOUR BF.
LYING IS ALLOWED IN ISLAM. Certainly you hate Hinduism, though you and your predecessors have been hindus for centuries. Being a new convertee, you are propagating islamic teachings.
WHY ARE YOU NOT HIGHLIGHTING CRIMINAL ACTIVITIES BEING DONE THROUGH OUT THE WORLD IN THE NAME OF ISLAM
Islamm permits lying! It is called “Al-taqiyya.” Muslim clerics say that Al-taqiyya means dissimulation then he expanded it to diplomacy but he should have gone further to deception. Now some Muslims who do not follow the Koran are as faithful Americans as any of us, but the problem is, we cannot know.
Muslims lie not because they are liars by nature but by choice. Systematic lying as a religious policy is deadly, and if our politicians do not understand this, thousands could die.
Muslims lie when it is in their interest to do so and “Allah” will not hold them accountable for lying when it is beneficial to the cause of Islam. They can lie without any guilt or fear of accountability or retribution. A lie in the defense of Islam is approved even applauded in their “holy” books.
Muslims are permitted to lie: (1) to save their lives, (2) to reconcile a husband and wife, (3) to persuade a woman into a bedroom and (4) to facilitate one on his journey. Muslims are even permitted to disavow Islam and Mohammed if it is not a genuine heart-felt rejection. Muslims will tell you that concealment of a truth is not an abandonment of that truth if it benefits Islam.
Mohammed gave permission for a follower to lie in order to kill a Jewish poet who had offended Mohammed. I could provide many examples of permissible lying from the Koran and Hadith and will do so when my critics accuse me of hatred and bigotry because of this column. My motives are not important but the truth is. However, many unprincipled people do not consider truth important. It is political correctness that sits on the throne to be worshiped.
Muslims may appear very sincere; in fact, they are sincere, when they lie for their own protection or in the cause of Islam. They have permission to lie. Yes, Christians have also lied but never are they given permission to lie. However, a Muslim has no guilt since the Koran and Hadith permit his deception.
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lakshmi:dont get trapped, before marriage every thing will be okk, but in future u will realise the mistake what u have done .at that time u have no way to escape.
demerits of islam:
1)multiple wives
2)wear burkha
3)4,5,6 childrens
4)you daughter will be fucked by u your family member
5)no freedom to do job.
6)for women islam is hell
7)for men it is heaven.
8)divorce by three word ‘talak, talak ,talak’
9)you sons will be teached to do jihad against hindu,india,america….
10)no respect for women
11)you have to stay with ur husband wives like sisters in one house
12)you children will become a jihadi and will be killed in bomb balast.
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now,
as ur in love you will feel everything is going to be well , my b.f is very good , his family loves me too much, we respect both of ur religion,he will allow me to follow my faith(idol worship)….these lines are same lines speaked by victims of love jihad in india. my frnd situation will not remain same {check videos on youtube live confession of girls trapped in love jihad before and after their view, media ..,,,abt love jihad just search “love jihad in india”
a hindu can live with a christian , sikh but with a muslim impossible
so i suggest u quit this love story ……CRY NOW SO THAT U WILL NOT CRY IN FUTURE.
follow ur parents …just think ur parents are not married, they are not happy.
“TO MARRY A MUSLIM BOY FOR ANY GIRL OF ANY RELIGION IS JUST LIKE SELF SUCIDE”
these days in madarsas young boys who looks handsome, speak good english are trained to do love jihad.so that the can marry 4 girls and the children from them will be muslim and muslim count will increase.to change the world in islam.
SO NOW IT UP TO U WHAT TO DO “ITS BETTER TO CRY NOW ” FOR A BRIGHT FUTURE
THANKS
Dear sourav, you are a RSS agent spreading lies without any valid proof, you only made accucation, truth is that equal number of muslim girls marry hindu boys in india and that time you jump up and down in joy but when a hindu girls wants to marry a muslim boy, you rss goons starts crying, and abt love jiahd, its you hindus who ae doing this, rss,vhp funds boys who have muslim girlfreinds, here is the latest news where rss said it will award a hindu guy who marries a muslim girl http://m.aajtak.in/story.jsp?sid=799640
Wow! We did not know this “truth is that equal number of muslim girls marry hindu boys in india”. How can you support you statement? Give us the link of publication, thanks.
u dont have mind at ol admin
you dont know to differentiating examples and real life… -lol
why u r nt asking such types of questions to sourab and amit, are u fearing for real truth may come when u ask..
R u not supporting to the RSS Terrorism?
Because sex ration of male is higher than female among Hindus, they practice female feticide,etc..where as you may find Muslim families having 3 daughters and 1 son, 2 daughter and 1 son, but not among Hindus, Hindus either have 1 son, 1 daughter or simply 1 son , if their first child is son then they don`t go for second child, if their first child is daughter, then they go for another one…so Muslim girls are more in numbers..also Muslim boys marry outside community which creates a hole in Muslim society..so there are many Muslim girls who end up marrying a mushrik(Hindu) and ruin their life hereafter…
My advise to Muslim girls, you don`t marry until your non-Muslim spouse accept Islam, if you do so, you are directly going against Quran and will burn in hell.
The chance of Muslim girl getting married with a Hindu boy is higher than Hindu girl getting married with a Muslim boy.
Why?
Also tell us where you found thus truth ““truth is that equal number of muslim girls marry hindu boys in india”.
Thanx to all for giving your valuable suggestions, I am not against any religion, but I just love my religion . I think it will be really difficult for me to be a part of a new religion and follows all those restriction like namaz and all those things. My mom frequently told me to read Geeta for her but I never do, so how can I do namaz four or five times in a day. I dont want to make my life complicated . I have decided to convince my boyfriend not to force me to convert, else Sky is the limit….. Feeling relaxed some how
Laxmi, you are on a right course. Let rose be rose and carnation be carnation. Let LOVE rule, not the love of religious conversion.
Do not give up on him, instead spend all time with him educating him. To start with ask him to explain you all these bolded statements into the Koran (on Hindus?). Let us know how it goes.
we have already explainted u that those statement you have taken is “out of context”.
Dear Laxmi,
It appears you are very innocent, does not know the tricks and lying nature of muslim guys to trap non muslim girls. Lying and trapping is allowed in islamic religion for its expansion and multiplication of population.
Right now he will be very submissive, polite and kind hearted. The moment you are trapped by so called marriage, restrictions and pressure techniques will start on you. First you will be forced for genital mutiliation(removal of clitoris)and eating beef.
If ever you wanted to revert to your orignal faith, you will be stonned to death.Only females are stoneed to death, no male has been stonned to despite thousands of cruelties and criminal activities.
I am a muslim girl too, faced many hard days to survive but thank god, I was saved by a Hindu boy and married to him. No restriction, no pressure, no sense of insecurity with him, leading happy life.
What you will get marrying him, threat of tripple oral talak, halala practices(if you wish to marry again with your husband who divorced you, you have please sexually mutliple males.
Even if good sense does not prevail on you, go and spoil your future,face lashes, domestic violence and see three wives of your muslim husband, who is allowed to keep 4 wives at a time.
Abida,
At least in Laxmi’s case your this statement turned out wrong, “It appears you are very innocent”. Look above.
after my efforts this is his reply…
Force ni Kar raha hun tujhe I m just convincing u to come to my religion I m inviting u to my religion
I just want to b with u on earth as well as in heaven
Plz banja Muslim aur aja mere pas
Hum dono bht khushi khushi rahenge
Tujhe khush rakhunga main
Dear Laxmi, how many years have you been in relationship? What type of talk he was making in your initial years of love? After how many years in love, he first time gave you a hint that you have to convert to Islam? Ask him (just for the sake of finding truth)… “I am Hindu and will die as a Hindu. I will never convert in this life. Sorry.” Lets see what he says. This is to find truth about how much TRUE LOVE he has for you.
On cautionary note, don’t be alone with him, always have a safety plan ready. In a desperate situation, any thing could happen. Always inform of all your plan/location to your best friend/sister/cousin so they could rush to help you, if the need be.
it seems that admin is divorting to you from your loved ones..
he is not giving u a solution but he is separating to you from ur love
my god, thing is getting more complicated for me, frankly speaking I don’t like to live a complicate life, in which I have to sacrifice all those things which matters a lot for me right from my childhood, like my name, my parents, my god, my freedom, etc , I was thinking to accept Islam and will worshipped my god also, but here I came to know that this is not possible,. now I have to decide whether I can live without my Shahid or not, I just love him,
Nusrat (former Akansha) probably does not like what happened to her too, but now she has to sacrifice her life for her husband. Luckily you came to this site before it is too late.
You love your Shahid and still don’t want to become something what you are not (a Muslim). One good solution is education (show him this video). Start educating your boy friend for an interfaith marriage with equality (50%-50%). Try!
Laxmi,
Are you made to associate with a muslim guy, who are interested to intentionally traps non muslim girls just for sexual pleasure and multiplication of their population.
Islam is not a religion but a criminal ideology. Dont you know how brutually they crush fundamental rights of women? Every where, muslim terrorists are creating havoc, raping and murdering women. How ISIS and Boko Haram, Hizbolla organisations are openly killing and raping women even in their own islamic countries, how they are selling women and girls to the rich people?
Do you want to remain in burqa? Do you want to eat beef?
Do you want to be killed by stonning to death,if ever you want to come back to your own religion?
Are you ready to face other 3 wives of your husband, as he is permitted to keep 4 wives at a time?
Do you want that your wedding night sexual blood stains are displayed openly as proof of virgin?
Dont get trapped?
Forget that bastard, who may be polite, but after marriage your bad days will begin.
may be u r right but I truely love him, and I am sure he is not bad guy, always protected me, I have to think a lot for this relationship
Dear sister laxmi, can you tell me your knowledge of islam or what islam means to you, how you see islam as a religion compared to Hinduism ?
mac bro, really i dont know much about any religion, even , am not know much about hinduism, as there is no restrictions and compulsion in hinduism,and after loving with a muslim guys, i expose to this world where i came to know that , religion means a lot for many people, before it i was thinking that god is one, I equally respect all the religion but i never think my life with out my lord shiva, as right now am thinking after accepting islam is there will be something which prevent myself to bow my heads infront of my god… How ? am in a extremly critical situation.
Let me introduce you to Islam,
Islam means `Submit to GOD`
Muslim means `A person who submits to God`
The Quran tells us to spread the message of Islam, so as a Muslim its my obligation to tell you the word of god(as we believe), its upto you whether you accept islam or not. And in no way your lover can force you to accept Islam. Islam is completely against force conversion, let me quote from The Noble Quran Chapter 18; Verse 29 “And report to the people the truth from your lord. Let him who wills believe in it and let him who wills reject it”
Mac bro I have heartly respect for Islam, me and my mom frequently visits to the dargaha as well, but as far as conversion is concerned am.totally blank, as I don’t want to convert, , can u tell me one thing after accepting Islam, can I worshipped my god also, ?
Laxmi,
We will let Muhammed and mac teach you about Islam but understand one bottom line …. convert to Islam or leave the guy.
You have raised a super question, “after accepting Islam, can I worshipped my god also?” Simple answer is NO, No, nO, no, NEVER. That is apostasy punishable by death.
This is Islamic exclusivity: Only Muslim will go to heaven. There is only one God and that is Muslims’! Lord Shiva, Rama, Goddess Laxmi, Mahavir, Guru Nanak, Buddha and Jesus canNOT be God (or Godly). God can be prayed only in the direction of Kaaba, not in your mandir. Only Koran is 100% truth, while Gita and Bible are man-made and not truth. You cannot celebrate Maha Shiv Ratri, Holi, Diwali, Christmas but only Bakra-id and other Muslim holidays. You will have to learn to glorify Muhammad as a super human. You will have to remove this “Laxmi” name and pick some Arabic name. Ready?
Laxmi, you go figure it out the logic above, we can’t!
We will let mac and Muhammed make you a Muslim, and we will watch silently right here.
Dear sister ,
Religion is most important factor in the human life. . We are here to solve the solutions for your problems. . dont go with admin..he did not know the concept of islam
one thing i want to tell you tht dont go on to the wrong path..
Quran says in
Surah Ali Imran Chapter 3 Verse 64:
Say “O People Of the Book! Come to common terms As between us and you:
That we worship none but one God; That we associate no partners with Him; That we erect not, From among ourselves, Lords and patrons other than Allah.”
If then they turn back, Say ye: “Bear witness That we (at least)
Are Muslims (bowing To Allah’s Will).’
Same thing ur bhagwat gita says :
“Ma cid anyad vi sansata sakhayo ma rishanyata” “O friends, do not worship
anybody but Him, the Divine One.Praise Him alone.”
[Rigveda 8:1:1]
“Devasya samituk parishtutih”
“Verily, great is the glory of the Divine Creator.”
[Rigveda 5:1:81]
Ekam Brahm, dvitiya naste neh na naste kinchan”
“There is only one God, not the second; not at all, not at all, not in the least bit.”
From Brahamasutra
“Na tasya Pratima asti”
“There is no image of Him.” No image means no photo or idol of God”
[Yajurveda 32:3]
Now admin tell to you that muslim are praying on kaaba which is a idol.
I will tell to him that muslims are not praying to idiol
Check for details
Admin says : “Only Koran is 100% truth, while Gita and Bible are man-made and not truth. .
Answer : I will challenge to anyone including admin..point out a single unscientific facts from the Holy Quran i will accept quran is not 100% truth
Admin : You cannot celebrate Maha Shiv Ratri, Holi, Diwali, Christmas but only Bakra-id and other Muslim holidays
Ans : I think admin doesnt know how many celebration does muslim celebrate. .
There are only two celebration which muslim celebrates ..
one is eid-ul-fitr which celebrates after fasting is done for the whole month
second is eid-ul-azha which celebrates by the remembrance of ibrahim[p.b.u.h] and his lovely son ismail [p.b.u.h]
You want to go back on history for which remembrance its celebrate
Admin : “You will have to learn to glorify Muhammad as a super human. You will have to remove this “Laxmi” name and pick some Arabic name. Ready?
Laxmi, you go figure itout the logic above, we can’t! ”
Ans : As Mohammed [p.b.u.h] concerned, He is the messanger of Allah..
we muslims worship none but one god, how we worship? through the teaching of our beloved prophet muhammed[p.b.u.h]
i will say to admin where here you find unlogic
you are worshiping to many gods. .i will ask you where is the logic here??
First of all why great spiritual teachers like ram,guru nanak, jesus, mohammad should be regarded as GOD, GOD is not human, secondly laxmi donot have to change her name, changing name is not required, allah looks at heart not in your name, if heart believes in oneness of god then what name got to do…
you ask the question
“can u tell me one thing after accepting Islam, can I worshipped my god also, ?”
Answer : No, because there is no concept of my god, ur god, favorite god etc..
why?
because, we humans are made from one god and its our rights to worship only one which is unseen
Both Quran and veda says
worship only one god and there is no image of god..
Dear Sister laxmi, first of all dargah is not part of Islam, those who worship dargah are biggest sinners according to Islam, Islam is against dargah worship…
In Islam, connection between god and you is direct, there is no need or dargah or murti between you and god…
You said “can I worshipped my god also, ?” , so what you mean by my god, in islam there is no my god or your god, god is same for every human being not just for hindus or muslims.
Sister I would like to know what GOD means to you, how you see GOD in your life??
Dear sister laxmi, i would have said said what mohammed told you but i will start from where mohammed stopped, as you love him and wants to marry him but you don`t want to convert to islam, right and you are right, he shouldn`t have approached so far and then convey you to accept islam, but as you know islam doesn`t allow marriage with idol-worshippers,mushriks so he can`t marry you with out you accepting islam by heart, now you have two roads, one is to leave him or you study islam and if i you like islam then accept islam and marry him.
Let me tell you
Someone who doesn`t care about your akirah doesn`t care about you.
Akirah is an arabic word which means hereafter, your lover cares about you and thatswhy he cares about your akirah.
admin he is saying that I have to accept . I know he is not cheating me, but he is doing all these for his religion, I don’t want to convert at all
Dear Laxmi,
Iam sorry to hear this, Islam not permits on force conversion or fake conversion
iam a muslim guy and iam telling to you that go and say islam is not permitting for force conversion. .
Here admin will say this is love jihad etc…etc.. . but there is no concept of love jihad in islam and he is forcing you which is prohibited in islam
Here most of person says lies and bad things on islam..dont see that one
please verify the message after the view of any message which you are see on any place. . whether it here or some where else
thanx bro , but he is saying that he will help me in every field and saying that if I will not accept his community will not accept our relationship , plz bro guide me am a central govt employee and he is happy for my job
Dear sister. .
Ask him why he is forcing you to convert as he is going against his religion. .
ask him why he wants to cutt of your relational ship because of religion
He is doing two sin according to islam
one is forcing you to convert
second, he is broking your heart
Tell this things to him
OK bro, I will ask this, let’s see
Dear Laxmi,
Thanks for reaching out here. Nusrat comes on this site on and off, as her time permits, but certainly she will guide you.
Every one is different and have different faith level, for this reason, we do not want to assume what do you wish to do. Would you convert to Islam for your love? What did he told you what conversion to Islam means?
We have handled about 400 cases just like you and would love to help you. Can you tell us what you wish to know or wish to do? Please get back, thanks.