Rooh says: March 26, 2015 at 10:41 pm
Hi, I am a Sikh and am seeing a Muslim guy for over three months now. I love him like anything but the feeling of getting converting and leaving my faith stands out of question for me. I respect his religious sentiments and views and would never want him to leave his faith. But, his family won’t just accept me and if I still move in with him, my family would abandon me. I just can’t leave him. I love him dearly. Please suggest. -Rooh
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Aarushi,
You are not accepting the truth about islamic terrorists? If you still feel, why dont you marry them and see the consquences. First of all your clitoris will be removed, you will be forced to eat beaf, and then you have satisfy sexual hunger of hundreds of terrorists.
Dont you know what is the condition of women, in Afghanistan, Libya, Syria, Yeman, Iraq, Lebanan, Nigeria where multiple terrorist organisation of islamic faith are raping on large scale and selling girls openly. Perhaps you want to offer yourself in the name of marriage, go and enjoy forcible sex with multiple partners regularly.
Aarushi,
You are mistaken to respond. Non muslim terrorists are only isolated examples. But islamist terrorists are well organized, determined to kill non muslims.
They have captured thousands of miles of land in various countries. They are raping and killing women just for sexual pleasure. Every muslim country is facing islamic terrorism but still they are supporting this idea. Only due to your feelings, muslim population has risen manifold in the world.
If you feel, why dont you marry a terrorist and satisfy sexual desire.
Kartar,
From where you took this type of knowledge and information. Change your mentality. And most of rapist in India are not Muslims. They are Hindus. So please respect every religion. Muslims don’t use women’s. I think you many more doubts about this culture. Just read some books about them. N yaar kartar lagta h tu typical Hindi movies but dekhta h. TV se hi seekha h na sb. Grow up kid. Go get a life
If You Want 2 marry him dear or u want to keep the relationship going..first thing u should not leave r religion..if he says u to convert in muslim religion..he is not d prfct guy…becoz love is all about loving the person as it is..whatever caste race religion he/she blng the partner should acpt it nd respect his/her rlgn
Hi Rooh,
I am a woman too and can completely imagine how stuck you must be feeling. But let me put forth a simple situation front of you. When u were five and entered the school for the first time, your parents just hoped that you grow up to be an independent woman. A happy independent woman. Your father had dreamt to watch you get married to a man he approves and is sure will keep you happy. Are you still willing to shatterheir age old dream? And if your partner cannot adjust with your religious belief which also happens to be a part of you, then how do you expect him to love you inconditionally forever? Trust me whn I say forever is big commitment. And family matters. Marriage isnt just about the partner but it encompasses your and your partner’s whole world. You cant get married and be happy without your family and freedom. Love is essential but it isnt everthing.
The decision is your’s to make. If you want personal guidance, exam me at realitycheck.harekrsna@gmail.com
Hare Krsna.
Rooh,
My sincere advice to you immediately disassociate from this guy. You must be under misleading and false perception about him. Muslim guys are mostly terrorists and their aim is to trap non muslim girls for increasing their populations. They do not respect females because of criminal and inhuman teachings in Koran.
Like you people only racism is being encouraged. Do you even know that there are some jatt Sikh who belongs from terrorist background n are terrorists n have terrorist contacts. Just becoz of few bloody terrorists u just cannot blame the entire religion.
rooh,
One of most smarted step you took is to come to this site within 3 months of your love. Most other youths come here after 3-10 years, when it is already too late.
Most important question you have to find out if he is a religious fanatic? If yes, why you wish ever to be with him even he may “look” today as the best guy? If he not religious fanatic, he will not ask for religious conversion.
Please saw him this video and then tell us what he has to say.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvZSqdmnxKM