Converted to Islam Still Her Parents Rejected My Marriage Offer

Selva @ Shajahan says: April 19, 2015 at 11:06 pm

Assllam alaikum.

dear admin i’m a hindu guy and fall in love with a muslim girl and she also love me more than anyone..i have converted to islam to nikah her and she also very interested to the same..but her parents reject our marriage acceptance and they engaged her to another guy..now she was under house arrest and not willing in that marriage but her parents forcing her..i’m also converted to islam but now only god allah is with me and without marrying her there is no relatives or friends for me in islam..now my level is more serious because i have converted but her parents refusing our love..at this level what i may to do to marry her..pls advise.. -Selva @ Shajahan

selva @ shajahan says: April 30, 2015 at 7:54 pm

Assllamu alaikum..
now she got engaged to other guy and forcing for marriage..i knew forcing is haram in islam but they are not caring about her idea..now she is ready to marry me but she was under house arrest..now only i believe in god allah and i need a dua or wazifa for marrying her..pls i knew whether my query is correct or not but now i’m an orphan in islam and one and only god allah is saving me..so pls give dua or wazifa for saving and marrying both of me and the girl who loves me..her marriage is within next 20 days..pls help me..

selva @ shajahan says: May 20, 2015 at 8:50 pm

dear admin,

already u aware that i have converted to islam as per willing of my lover only..whenever c show her objection her parents giving emotinal blackmails aginst her..as per islam it’s haram to go back to my own religion and i’m also feel ashame of it..but now i’m an orphan in this community and i seek to cover my entire life with islamic relatives..pls give some suggestions how to make my life in islam..whether there is any jamad or cômmunity available to take care of me..pls advise..and one more thing whether force marriage is invalid in islam..and with allah’s grace only i have converted to islam..i’m muslim and saw is my prophet..
i’m from udumalpet, tamilnadu

and one more thing i have informed about our issue with the engaged guy and he told i knew all the matter (we escape and she be stay with me one day) including this also and he have so many girls contact also…he also know that girl is not willing and he is not ready to discuss about this with my lover..he well know if he do this she will tell the entire matter including she is not interested..now this is not an issue..after marriage there is a possiblity that the guy will torcher her with our issue..may god allah rasoolallah save her..if there is any urgent dua to save her..ameen.. -shajahan

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17 Comments

  • ayush goel
    May 26, 2015 12:50 am

    get reconverted into hinduism or sikhism bcz these are the best religion and if u want 2 marry muslim girl marry but not at the cost of conversion and look for an educated girl

  • May 25, 2015 7:41 am

    Dear readers,

    Muslim is required to submit himself completely to Allah, as the Quran instructed the Prophet Muhammad to do:There is no message of brotherhood,kindness, sympathy, love, affection, piece, harmony and other human values. it is based on cruelty, discrimination, criminality for expansion of islam and male dominance for all sorts of pleasures, which will be clear from the following paragraphs.

    “Say (O Muhammad) my prayer, my sacrifice, my life and my death belong to Allah; He has no partner and I am ordered to be among those who submit, i.e.; Muslims.” (6:162, 163)
    Islam looks at the individual as a whole.

    The natural result of this submission is that all one’s activities should conform to the instructions of the one to whom the person is submitting. Islam, being a way of life, requires that its followers model their life according to its teachings in every aspect, religious or other wise.

    PILLAR 1: Jihad Terrorism – Murdering Kafirs Guaranteeing Accession To A Virgin Delight Paradise is the most important Pillar of Islam.

    VERSE 9:111 – MUSLIM’S PASSPORT TO PARADISE

    “Lo! Allah hath bought from the believers their lives and their wealth because the Garden will be theirs: they shall fight in the way of Allah and shall slay and be slain. It is a promise which is binding on Him in the Torah and the Gospel and the Qur’an. Who fulfilleth His covenant better than Allah? Rejoice then in your bargain that ye have made, for that is the supreme triumph.”

    Christians are sanctified by the blood of Christ received at Holy Communion. Muslims are sanctified by the blood of murdered kafirs guaranteeing accession to a virgin delight Paradise.

    Islam teaches that if Muslims slay or are slain (kill or are killed) in the service of God, they are guaranteed accession to a deviant sexual paradise. Islam’s Paradise is filled with whorish virgins possessing voluptuous breasts and lustrous eyes. Muslims, blessed with an access to Paradise, will have 72 such virgins to engage in incessant copulation. Furthermore, Muslim’s surest way of getting a passport to Paradise, says Allah, is to get slain while trying to kill the kafirs.

    Here is what the Paradise of Allah looks like:

    “As for the righteous (Muslims)… We (Allah) shall wed them to beautiful virgins with lustrous eyes” [Quran 44:51-54]

    “The righteous (Muslims) they shall triumph… Theirs shall be voluptuous women.” [Quran 78:31-33].

    Other verses in the Quran—such as 37:40-48, 44:51-55, 52:17-20, 55:56-58, 70-77, 56:7-40 and 78:31 describe the Paradise to be an alluring whorehouse. Additionally, never-molested (virgin) young boys like pearls will be available in abundance in the Muslim paradise (Surat 52:24, 56:17, and 76:19) for the blessed Muslim men to engage in sodomy. For Muhammad who was a master of indulging in carnal pleasures with a dozen wives and at least two concubines in his harem would obviously suit such a depraved whorehouse in the afterlife. Allah AKA Muhammad (the AntiGod), in pliant servitude, provided what Muhammad wanted.

    Can you imagine poor Angel Gabriel having to listen to this pure smut, memorize this fifth and regurgitate it to Muhammad.

    Quranic verse 9:111 is the most evil, depraved, diabolical, immoral teaching in all of Islam. Indeed in all human history.

    Verse 9:111 means what it means. A Muslim who dies while trying to murder kafirs fulfilling teachings 9:5, 9:29 and all the other teachings of murder, rape, terror, torture of kafirs in the Quran are guaranteed martyrdom and accession to an evil, lewd, depraved paradise filled with eternal virgins of exquisite beauty who regenerate as virgins after each sex act and whom these killers and murderers of Islam can sexually molest in endless copulation for all eternity.

    In the laws of Allah (the AntiGod) as discussed kafirs are not human beings to Muslims. They have absolutely no humanity. They have no right to life and must be killed by Muslims in Allah’s cause [Jihad] for gaining Paradise. In the holy wars of Allah, for Muslims, it is a holy religious duty to murder kafirs who have grown pubic hair. The kafirs women and children will be enslaved and sold as prophet Muhammad did with the Jews of Banu Quraiza.

    Allah takes away from Muslims all rights and ownership of their life. Muslims will engage Allah’s stratagems of wars without any questions asked, and kill and get killed. This is the only mode of actions that will earn them Paradise. Allah is the peerless master of incitement of violence and bloodbath.

    PILLAR 2: Sex Slavery/Slavery

    VERSE 33:50 OF SLAVERY AND RAPE SANCTIONED BY GOD FOR HIS EVIL PROPHET

    33.50: “O Prophet! surely We have made lawful to you your wives whom you have given their dowries, and those [slaves] whom your right hand possesses out of those whom Allah has given to you as prisoners of war….”.

    The term “possessions of the right hand” mean slaves. It is expressly stated that Muhammad’s slaves are given to him by Allah himself to be taken out of his share of the captives in war. It also records the special dispensation given to Muhammad, not available to other Muslims, in the number of wives

    This verse 33:50-52 is for Muhammad. God allows Muhammad to own and rape his slave girls.

    The above verse is only a few out of numerous such verses scattered throughout the Quran. (4.24, 4:3, 4:25, 23:1-6, 24:33, 70:22-30, 70: 29-35) What could be more unethical than owning slaves and raping slave girls? God graciously allowed Muslims to own and rape slave girls. Prophet Muhammad himself and his disciples routinely raped their slave girls. Muslim men were permitted unlimited raping of their slaves and even gang rape. Sex slaves were one of the main factors in the spread of Islam. Sex slavery is a Pillar of Islam. This is the evil that is Islam.

    The second greatest crime a man can commit against a woman is to rape her (murder being the greatest crime.) In Islam – rape is not only a sexual weapon – it is a weapon of war. Having murdered the kafir woman’s man, Muslims can now – sanctioned by the law of God complete their final humiliation and domination of her body. Rape instills fear and subjugation in the kafir
    A raped Muslim woman must be able to provide 4 male witnesses who witnessed her being raped otherwise she is accused of zina – unlawful sexual intercourse — and jailed as a result.

    “And those who accuse honourable women but bring not four witnesses, scourge them (with) eighty stripes and never (afterward) accept their testimony – They indeed are evil-doers” (Qur’an 24:4).

    • mac
      May 25, 2015 8:02 am

      Angela,Sandeep,Chand Osmani, Churchil, Kartar, Rukhsana, Reshma, Afridi, Shoib Aktar, Sania Mirza and and all fake ( 🙂 , do you have any work other than spreading propaganda against Islam?

      PILLAR 1 of islam is shahada means testimony of faith that there is one real god and muhammad(pbuh) is the messenger of god.

      PILLAR 2 of islam is Namaz.

      PILLAR 3 is Zakat, means to give away 2.5% of income to poor. 2.5 % is compulsory, more can be donated in the name of charity, but zakat is not charity, it is compulsory.

      Now we have special offer for you, offer is like buy 1 get 1 free, since we know you are a hindu not a christian though you tried a christian name `Angela`, so our gift for you will be from Hinduism.

      Here is my gift…keep reading and enjoy my gift.

      SUPREME HINDU GoD BRAHMA EXPOSED-
      Brahma is one of the three main gods-Trimurti-of the Hindu pantheon. He is the creator of the universe, Saraswati, who became the wife of her own father, was the daughter of Brahma. There are two stories about her genesis in the “Saraswati Purana”. One is that Brahma created his beautiful daughter Saraswati direct from his “vital strength” or seminal fluid. The other is that Brahma used to collect his semen in a pot whenever he masturbated fixing his carnal eyes on the celestial beauty Urvasi. Brahma’s semen in the pot gave birth to Saraswati. Thus,Saraswati had no mother.

      This daughter or grand-daughter of Brahma is the Hindu goddess of learning. When Brahma saw the beauty of Saraswati he became amorous. To escape from her father’s passionate approach Saraswati ran to the lands in all four directions, but she could not escape from her father. She succumbed to Brahma’s wish. Brahma and his daughter Saraswati lived as husband and wife indulging in incest for 100 years. They had a son Swayambhumaru. Swayambhumaru made love with his sister Satarpa. Through the incest of Brahma’s son and daughter Brahma got two grandsons and two grand-daughters.

      INDRA,another hindu god EXPOSED

      Indra is the head of all gods. Amarawati was his celestial residence. Arjun was born to Indra as a result of his clandestine adultery with Pandu’s wife, he had no hesitation in committing adultery with the wives of other men. One day when Indra saw Ruchi, the beautiful wife of Devasarma, he became extremely passionate and wanted to seduce her. But Ruchi chased Indra out ,and he had to go away disappointed.

      On another occasion Indra could not control his sexual passion when he saw Goutama’s wife Ahalya. He committed adultery with Ahalya when her husband was away. On his return home Goutama saw Indra in sexual interlock with his wife. Goutama cursed both of them.

      Once Aruna visited Devaloka in the disguise of a woman. When Indra saw this woman in disguise he could not control his passion. He had sexual intercourse with this imitation woman. Bali was born as the result of this un-natural homosexual cohabitation.

      LORD KRISHNA GOT EXPOSED

      LORD KRISHNA
      Lord krishna was very fond of looking at naked young girls. Once upon a time Krishna, in order to get a full view of some bathing virgin girls, went to the extent of hiding their clothes on the tree top just to get a panoramic view. Does he have divine immunity from looking at naked women?
      The Gita, a Holy book of the Hindus, quotes that when these bathing low caste girls begged for the return of their clothes, Lord Krishna demanded that they come out of the water with their hands raised instead of covering their bodies.

      Oh my innocent Hindu sister! Can this action be attributed to god? Is this God capable of indulging in such ungodly acts? Will Hindu mothers tolerate their son imitating god Krishna??

      HINDU GOD SHIVA GOT EXPOSED

      God Shiva had two wives-Ganga and Parwati. It was while Shiva was frolicking and making love with Parwati in the forest in the form of elephants that Ganapati, the god with the head of an elephant was born. On another occasion when Shiva was frolicking with Parwati in the form of a monkey, Hanuman the monkey god was born.

      Once when Parwati was away, Shiva had sexual inter course with a woman called Madhura, who came to Kailas to worship him. On her return, Parwati saw her husband Shiva making love with Madhura, and she became a frog. When the period of the curse was over after twelve years, the frog took the form of Mandodari who became the wife of Ravana, the ten-headed king of Lanka. The sperm of Shiva which remained dormant in the womb of Mandodari when the was frog began to develop, and finally gave birth to Indrajit. Thus, the so-called son of Ravana-Indrajit of Lanka-was an intelligence son of Shiva.

  • md saifulla
    May 24, 2015 11:17 pm

    hai iam in hindu i am canveting in islam i love islam i am singall so hanie intrested islam garl in myrid is call me 8152979466 this is my namber i am in karnathaka.i love islam.

    • Mohamed
      May 25, 2015 5:00 am

      bro if u love islam,

      then accept and practise. .

  • selva @ shajahan
    May 21, 2015 6:37 am

    assllam…
    i belongs to the city udumalpet, tirupur dist, tamil nadu, india..

  • Pakhi Begum
    May 16, 2015 8:48 am

    Kartar,golnar,massey,shenaz,winston chand are one and same person the notorious,anti Muslim habitual liar admin
    Pakhi

  • May 9, 2015 7:53 am

    Kartar needs to get a life. Wd such disgraceful views. U people wil not change. U shall be shown the truth when the last breaths of death reach you, feel sorry for u.

  • May 4, 2015 9:59 am

    According to a muslim scholar of Indonesia, a women cannot deny sex to her husband even if she is on the back of the camel, as preached by Prophet.

    Can it be a logical argument in favour sexual pleasure?

  • May 1, 2015 7:49 am

    Correction please.

    One plus this is that you are at liberty to keep 3 another wives and go ahead to enjoy pleasure of polygamy.Hopefully, your muslim wife will not object you to keep another 3 wives. If she objects, use oral triple talak, talak,talak and if she repents, ask her to practice halala to rejoin you.

    • Aakash Mallik
      May 1, 2015 11:47 am

      What the heck Kartar!!!
      Ur hate speeches will put Hitler to shame…
      Terrific responce man…
      Our friend here is in a terrible situation and u seem to be enjoying it……disgraceful..

    • May 3, 2015 6:58 pm

      Kartar,
      Soften your message. Such harsh words just discourage others reading your comments. Unfortunately it is not helping any one, we hope you will consider it.

  • May 1, 2015 7:45 am

    Dear Selva,

    It appears you are a very weak personality, with a rolling stone character?
    First thing you soccum to pressure of conversion, and after marriage still you are unstable mentally? What type of brain of male you have?

    You have killed your ancestoral qualities by conversion to a criminal and cruel religion, where humanity has no value. It is a hate, cruel, criminal and terrorist religion, as being witnessed globally.

    Now be bold, dont care those bastards terrorists parents. If you are earning hand, you need not to worry and unluckily if you are not earning, depending upon the muslim wife, it is your fault.

    By conversion, hopefully you must have undergone circumcision and eating beef, shame on you.As per islamic practice, did she bleeded on the wedding night fucking and did you displayed bed sheet of blood stains before every family members. One plus this is that you are not at liberty to keep 3 another wives and go ahead to enjoy pleasure of polygamy.

  • Aakash Mallik
    May 1, 2015 2:08 am

    Well said di….
    Btw didi….hw r u??

  • cookiee
    April 30, 2015 11:13 pm

    When** the police asks

  • cookiee
    April 30, 2015 11:13 pm

    Subhanallah, it’s so sad brother that he parents are doing something so unislamic by FORCING their daughter in marriage..i hope that they’re aware that this is strictly prohibited in Islam..but even your girl should be stronger in this aspect..ask her to try her best to convince her parents if not,then don’t hesitate to approach the police..parents have no right to force anyone no matter what religion..they are going against both country laws as well as islamic laws..but yes your gf should support you shebang the police asks..also mashaallah that you realised the truth of islam..brother,but 1 thing you said wrong that you’re an orphan in Islam..Allah is always near you..& Allah is sufficient for us..please keep reading Quran when you feel low,You will notice a big change in how you feel..also remember that sometimes when Allah takes something from you,He has something way better in store..but sometimes we humans don’t trust him to take us to the right path..please do dua that Allah does that thing for you which is the best for you..coz we humans have plans but Allah is the best planner..will do dua for both your families that whatever happens is the best for you both..:)..lastly don’t lose faith..when Allah is with us,we get everything sooner or later 🙂

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