Vinodh says: July 19, 2016 at 3:15 am
Hi I am Vinodh,
I am a Hindu guy I married with Muslim girl with her willingness only and later we registered the marriage legally in register office.
After few days our both parents got this new.Later her parents taken her back to home now she has changed and she don’t want to come with me. Without her I will not be alive. So I told her brother that I will change into Islam please agree.
Then he says that it wont work. But now I want to convert to Muslim heart fully. After I converted is she come with me. How I can approach their family to convince. Do I have to go to Islam members and go to her home or what?
How I can convince their parents please help me. This is my life and Death Issue. -Vinodh
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Vinodh is a muslim in fact and intentionally posing to be Hindu to influence others to convert.
Vinod, you should not accept Islam, the religion of hatred. Once you accept, you would be ashamed of revealing your identity as whole world hates Muslims.So, just for getting the girl, you are inviting trouble in your life. The girl does not love you more than her religion. If she would have love you , she would come to you leaving all the worldly pleasures. Ask her to convert in Hinduism . If she agrees , take her as your wife , otherwise leave her for your better future.
hi proloy think globally who is owing oil rich countries all most Muslim countries to own the oil rich countries the political power full countries showing (through media)that Muslims are bad then no one will come to help for Muslims meanwhile they own Muslim own oil as their properties what in Afghanistan and Iraq facing.
hiii…my name is utsho.I am in love with a Muslim girl.We both love each other.Our relation is too deep.She is my first love.She asked me to convert myself into Islam and i also agree with her as it seem i cant live without her.But the problemk is my mom didnt appreciate our rlation.She is crying and telling me to leave her.what should i do?
One is my mother who give me birth another is she who loved me like my mother.
I cant thinking what should i do? If i choose her then my mon will get hurtes thinking that i deceived her and if i leave her then it seems i cheated on her.i love both of them.
I thought that after completing My graduation and convert into Islam i will go to my mom along with her.Bt the problem is already happened .
so plzz sugest me what should i do…..???
Itz a mattr of my life and dead.
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Brother vinodh, what to do you know about islam that you want to become muslim or is it just to get her back?
See frankly speaking I don’t know about Islam but yes you may be right that I want to convert to Islam because to get her back.Even though since my childhood I would prefer to pray Allah.So I don’t have any religious feelings at the end of the day we are human beings.
If I don’t change to Islam also I will pray Allah that is my nature.
I asked you to help me to get her back if the conversion is mandatory I am alright with that please help me.
You don’t know about Islam. It’s okay. So why not give a try to Islam. Fake conversion just to get her will only create more problems in future, instead of happy married life, you guys will have unrest between you,her family and your family. Fake is never a good idea. Be real, give a real try to islam, if islam convinces you, then become muslim, prove to them that you really became muslim, ask her hand, if they give their daughters hand to you, then great, if not, not so great. Move on. If you are registered under special marriage act, then you can have a civil fight with her parents in court and if he give statement against her parents in court, then court will hand over her in your hand i.e court will order police to safeguard you couple from them and warn them not to interfair in adults life, else the consequences, but they big question is will she stand against her parents in court? Is she ready to disown her parents for you?
So you basically have three option, one is passive and another is fighting.
Passive is you become muslim and job done.
Fighting is you take help of law and fight in court against her parents with her help.
Which one you prefer?
Thirdly, if you really loved her, then logically we can conclude that you won’t take any step which makes her stand against her religion and family. Isn’t it?
So it’s time you remain truthful to the very basic idea about love.
I know few hindu guys who really became muslim and married their muslim partner, some i know who fake converted, and some i know who didn’t convert at all, it depends on girl and her parents.
That’s all i can say briefly.
If you want to learn islam, then i have a brief introduction for you to islam,
Islam is an arabic word which submission,surrender,obedience to the will of almighty god, it is derived from the root word salam which means peace. A muslim greet another person not by good morning or good night but by telling him ‘Salam wailaikum’ means peace be upon you. Islam is a peaceful religion though media portrays the opposite, so to learn about islam, you have to read quran not newspapers where hateful articles of different individuals on islam are published.
What makes a person muslim?
A person who believes there is only one almighty,creator and no other and that almighty send messengers,prophets in different periods of time on earth and last prophet send was muhammad(peace be upon him) , he is technically a muslim.
The name for almighty,creator most commonly used in arabic is ‘ALLAH’ , in english it is god, in sanskrit bhagwan,ishwar , in urdu ‘khuda’ ,etc. So it’s not important by what name you call him, it’s important that you are not calling a fake god, fake god are those who are imagination of us human beings. Basically, a true muslim doesn’t believes in murti puja. He only worship that unseen almighty wisdom by obeying his commands,rules. So does these type of things appeal to you, then give a try to islam, who knows, you may end up liking it, here are some websites which gives easy guide to islam.
1. http://www.irf.net/islam.html
2. http://www.whyislam.org/
Thanks.
Thank you for your info.
I have already told you that I pray to allah since my child hood.And also I never tried to say her that you don’t have to do Namaz and all.I really love her now she against to me.What can I do now if I go legally is it possible to get her and if she is with me also I don’t object for her prayers even I will do the same with her.Please help me now she is taking foolish decisions.
See brother, it is not about namaz. Namaz doesn’t make a person muslim. Namaz is just one of the important aspect of islam. A person may be a namazi and still be a dweller of Jahannum. A muslim woman praying namaz five times a day but having non-muslim husband is destined to be in jahannum no matter how islamic she appears to be, no matter how much namaz she reads, how much roza she keeps,etc, coz by marrying a non-muslim man she already went against islam in the first place, she no longer remains a muslim, she then becomes munafiq aka hypocrite. As per Quran 2:221, those muslim who marry non-muslim will be in hell no matter what. Allah never said in quran that pray namaz and keep roja and do whatever you like, i will give you heaven, allah never said such things. So if you tell her parents or her that you will allow her to pray namaz, that might not help solving your issue. And about legal help, i already told you if you are married under special marriage act, then court can help you getting her back but for that your gf has to give testimony in court in favour of you and against her parents, is she ready to give testimony against her parents? Some girls do, some girls don’t, girls who don’t, their bf returns from court in empty hand.
So best possible solution to me considering per parents position on this matter, i suggest you really become muslim from heart, then if allah becomes happy on you no one can stop marriage of yours with the destined bride.
Yes I believe in Allah please let me know the procedure to convert in to Islam.
Even though I am converting for my wife also I will follow Islam after that there would be any change in that.Please help me.
Vinodh,
After you unite with your wife/girl friend, where will you reside? At your parents home? At your in-laws place? Or are you going to have a flat by you two?
Follow the link below
http://www.muslimconverts.com/howtoconvert/
or else google, you can see many website for converting, May Allah accept ur efforts..
Vinodh,
This Mohammed wishes you to move to a pro-Islamic site where you will get only one sided opinion, convert! Their objective is to increase their vote power, not necessarily what is good for you.
Now you are at a gun point and thus you are ready to convert to Islam. Before you convert, think of some points:
1) You need to know what Koran indirectly says for your Hindu parents, are you ready to give up your parents and some day ask them to convert to Islam? Read Koran on Hindus?
2) Islam is not all about God, but you will find you have to glorify Muhammad at every step of your life. If you decide not to utter Muslim, you cannot be a Muslim. Are you ready to give away (or minimize) teachings of all other God’s messengers and settle for (glorify) only one, Muhammad?
3) Conversion to almost any faith is a matter of choice and you could go in and out as you like. However, Islam is only one way street. Muhammad said “whoever changes his Islamic religion, then kill him.” (Bukari 9:84:57). Find out if this truth is in the link Muhammed provided to you. Think! It’s your choice.
Hi Vinod,
Sorry to hear of your marriage situation. There are legal issues and religious issues that you should be aware.
1) Currently you are “legally married” to her. Legally, she is your wife and you are a husband. If any of you want to marry someone else any time, you must have to go through a legal divorce and then only you can marry again. Remind this to her too.
2) Islam does not allow Muslim women to marry other than a Muslim. We wish you knew this before your court marriage. Her parents will not accept you if you offer to convert because they know that you will not follow through all promises a few years into your married life. Probably you have not even read Koran or attended Mosque services. You do not have any clue what Islam is all about. You are only ready to convert because of her (read Arvind). Probably your parents also will not accept her (a Muslim). Well, keep trying to convince parents, best wishes.
Thank you for your response. I have a question that If I don’t agree for Mutual Divorce.Court will not accept right so they can not marry her again right is this true or is there any way to them to get her marry forcefully.
In the Islam they have the option to get the divorce that Talak form that may not agreed in this case right because we are legally married is that true please help I am help less I want her back because I did not love her I have given my life to her so I can not leave her.
Please help me.