Muslim boy – Hindu girl Relationships
If you are a Muslim guy in relationship with a Hindu, Sikh, Jain, or Buddhist, this is the site that has lots of information for you. [If you are not a Muslim boy, visit Hindu girl, Hindu boy, Muslim girl for more relevant message for you]
Right or wrong, but she and her family may be stereotyping you based on what they have learned from the media about Muslim boys. They have heard this enough times like advise given to Muslims by Amir, “Don’t believe in Kafir girls, Do whatever comes in your mind if she is with you, but always choose a Muslim girl for marriage.”
Not any two relationships are the same. It is possible that you may be dating her …..
2) you may have got attracted to her innocently and may continue the romantic relationship without thinking too seriously. But in the end, if she does not convert to Islam you will walk away from the relationship,
4) you have a clear intention of cheating her (read Dara), telling her what she wants to hear as far as she lets you milk her and later dump her. If you are a con-artist just out having fun with innocent girls, there is nothing much we could say. However, your actions do create a bad name for other good Muslim boys and Islam.
It is cool to act secular and non-religious in colleges. During your dating period, you may keep convincing the Hindu (or Christian, Jain, Sikh) that you don’t have to convert, you respect her religion, there is only one God so why to fight for it, I don’t give a damn what my Muslim society would say, I am tired of my own society, we are victim of the media but is not true, etc. You may be sincere saying all these at this stage, but did not realized reality of your life. So, after years of romantic relationship, under pressure from your parents and Islamic society, now you may change your tune …Sorry it is my dad…, I did not knew this is coming…, just do for heck of it, …shahadah does not mean anything,..everyone does that,…I will let you practice your religion even after conversion, I truly respect Hindus but you convert, why can’t you convert for our love?, you are creating problems by not converting,…if you convert I will marry you today, ……bottom line…..CONVERT, CONVERT, CONVERT or else I am walking away.
How about fake-conversion? Just to please imams and parents, why not Hindu fake-convert to Islam (but you will allow her to practice her faith behind doors)? Answer to that is…why to make lies and deception a foundation of your married life? If she doesn’t have intention of following Islam, why to fool Allah, Islamic institutions, imams, your Muslim relatives, and most important, to you? How could you trust someone who can give up her religion as easily as changing her hair colour (read Vikas)? You both will ultimately pay severe price for this fake-conversion. In the end, she will curse you for making her do that she had no intention of (read Nirmla, Madiha, Anita, Roma, Anita, Leona, Loving a Muslim, ).Let’s assume you want to be truly respectful to her and her beliefs and don’t believe in religious conversion of your spouse. In this scenario you have to know the consequence of it too. Let’s take Pearl Jain for an example. Her Muslim boy friend is willing to marry a Jain without conversion, will not eat meat when she is around, will have children with non-Arabic names, is bowing to her (Jain) Gods (see SRK performing pooja), is taking part in paryushan, will raise Jain (and Muslim) children and teach them from both scriptures. Are you ready for these?
Let us give you other similar examples. We know a (former) Hindu girl who performs Krishna pooja every day in her home, while her Paki in-laws think she is a Muslim and are very proud of her. Another Muslim guy, married to a Hindu, greets all Hindu relatives saying “Jay Shree Krishna”!! Salman (not Khan) said, “My own father, despite reading Quran everyday and praying 5 times, sits with my (Sikh) wife whom he loves as a daughter and even takes her to the Gurdwara.” Though these are very honorable thoughts, are you really a true pluralist and ready for it?
This World is for every one; be that Muslims, Hindus, Christians, Jews, Jains and atheists. However, every religious leaders tries to prove that only they have the true religion and others are wrong. Religious institutions have vested interest that division should continue among people, otherwise they will not have money to pay their utility bills. Don’t get trapped into religious leader’s problems, think what is right to do.
We are not here to tell you what you should and should not do. It is your life and your decision, make an “informed” decision. -Best wishes.
Read these guy’s posts and comments provided therein.
|Dating time||Haider||How to convince my Muslim parents?||No?||?||Imran Khan||I m a muslim in love with a Jain girl||No||?||G||A Sikh girl who has converted||Yes||🙁||Tajiddin||Muslim: mai ek hindu girl se love kart a hu||?||?||Mohan||Muslim: Do I need to convert to Hinduism?||No||?||Zain Khan||I denounced Islam||No||🙂||Alex||I am a Muslim and love Christian girl||No||🙂||Married||Salman||Sikh-Muslim marriage with equality||No||🙂||Divorced|
* These expectation of conversion and status of the blogger is arbitrary based on limited information provided. It is highly recommended to read individual full story to make your own assessment.