Hindu girl: stop this conversion business asap

stuck up says: October 18, 2012 at 1:40 pm

Is Shahadah a hollow ritual devoid of meaning? Can one take this oath for the heck of it?
hey dear m in same situation as you. i dont wana convert. but my partner wants me too. have learned alot from this site about islam. muslim girls themselves admit that its bad religion for girls. i dont understand y is it the hindu partner always who gota convert. y cant simply lov win over dis religion? y r muslims people insane by mind? they never listen to their heart which is human. they behave as if dey wil get trophy by their caste n god. its realy sad. to all hindu guys please never convert. n hindu girls also please dont act foolish. let ur guy stand out if he really has the guts n if he realy is a man for u then. stop this conversion business asap. -stuck up.

Admin says:

Dear Stuck Up,

You have summarized it all, “stop this conversion business, asap.”

We have always recommended that convert to Islam only if you wish to be a true “obedient” Muslim wife but never “fake” convert to please the imam. The faith is not an ON/OFF switch. This “fake” conversion is bad for you, the Muslim guy, both extended families, and the worst, children by this marriage. Any one that has spent a few hours on this web site will never “fake” convert. Only a fool Muslim will ask for this “fake” conversion out of an educated and intelligent non-Muslim.

Everyone makes mistake, but fools are the one who don’t realize it in time. You are smart. You may have made a mistake by getting stuck with a wrong guy, but it is not too late. You may have wasted 3-5 years of your golden life after this Sikh-Meat Love Jihadi, but restart your new life now.

The problem is… these Muslim proselytizers get away like this because the non-Mulism victims are too shameful to speak out in public (just like a rape victim). Please be different. Now go and humiliate your Muslim lover by posting your story on your Facebook that this guy wants you to convert from rose to carnation! Go tell all your common friend and ask them to talk to this Muslim bf for explanation what is the logic for this conversion request.

Please come back on this web site again and again to educate others to stop this “fake” conversion business.

To our routine interfaith marriage consultants of this web site, what do you think of this “fake” conversion practice?
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20 Comments

  • suhail
    January 11, 2013 11:59 pm

    All stories fake under muslim names and Those who marry non muslims did not remain muslims and will go to hell forever life after death tell them you are not muslims. To learn about islam vist http://www.usislam.org for more ioformation about islam.do not belive these posts as they lie about islam.learn truth about islam from website.

  • confusedmind
    October 28, 2012 12:48 am

    What is all this stupidity about trying to prove one religion above the other. Whatever we say, we all know that we are simply assuring and reassuring ourselves about our own thought procedures which need not be correct at all. But since those are our own thoughts, we believe they have to be correct. Just to justify our own deeds in the terms of religion. I remember as a child when my school bus was caught amidst a riot. All of us schoolmates were scared and holding hands. The boy next to me whispered “dont be afraid, i’m there to save you”. All the school teachers irrespective of religion stood guard at the doors risking themselves for the children. Religion did not speak to them for demonstrating the act. Humanity did. We all know the conscience is pure nature. Religions are beliefs that we imbibe later on. But, we still choose to be driven by beliefs, not by our inner true self. I never witnessed my religion getting me a degree. My education did. My religion never got me increments and advancement in my career. But, my hard work did. My religion never feeds my. But my own hands do. And still all this talk about religion? More ever which one is the best!
    This thread was supposed to be a help to guys in inter religion marriage positions to know about the real life differences they may face not to indulge in inter religion spankings.

  • Amir
    October 26, 2012 1:13 am

    Somebody commented.. we need destroy Islam.
    And i feel this is the real face of people who comment here.

    So hinduism believes in violence .. by any mean.. by even speaking lie..even fabricating false stories
    and foolish people say this is due to muslims..

  • Ram
    October 24, 2012 9:02 pm

    Guys, we as hindus need to destroy Islam……let us try all our best in getting these muslim girls marry hindu boys but not vice versa….I am happy that you all are working towards it…we in VHP and RSS workers are trying hard and need your support…….keep up the work. We need a hindu rastra

    • Satyen
      October 25, 2012 5:16 pm

      Sorry sir, you need to clarify the word Islam. I have found many Muslims who are excellent human beings but are slaves of the ideology of Muhammad. So, just destroy the worship of Muhammad as it’s the shirk and this is giving rise to terrorism because Allah has become angry due to this shirk. This is destroying the Muslims as the terrorists are killing primarily the Muslims in Afghanistan, Iraq, Pakistan etc. To save the Muslims, we need to destroy the worship of Muhammad which has been very cleverly incorporated in the holy Quraan. Muslims will have to come forward to save themselves, who else will save them.

      Muslims in India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Afghanistan, Indonesia etc. are the descendants of Hindus and Hindu blood is flowing in them. They were brutally converted by the faith-blind and cruel warriors of Muhammad. Hadiths and Quraan were manipulated for the purpose to kill the reasoning and scientific attitude of people.

      I mean, Remove the worship of Muhammad and India will become a pristine Hindu country respecting and giving freedom to all faiths as it was before the arrival of Islam. That’s why, four world religions i.e. Hinduism, Jainism, Buddhism, Sikhism sprang in the Hindu land! That proves the liberty for all faiths.

      • November 6, 2012 5:51 pm

        ” I have found many Muslims who are excellent human beings but are slaves of the ideology of Muhammad.”

        Contradictions.

  • October 23, 2012 10:24 am

    Hi Aisha,

    I am a muslim girl. In fact Islam is not meant for females, it is meant for criminal and horny males, to satisfy their sexual desire. Males to keep 4 wives, females are field to be ploughed like any thing, in the hell all are woman, beating wife is permissible, 72 virgins are waiting for a male in heaven, if they resort cruelty in the name of Islam, atleast 2 witnesses are needed to seek justice, even if she is raped, women even if nicely dressed, treated whores, liable to be raped and molestated, vow what a cruelty against females. Reproducing following lines for your information.,

    Just used common sense to move away from religion. I was born in a Muslim family, hence I was a Muslim till I became an adult. Had I been born under any other religion, I would’ve been a follower of the same. And all my life I heard that Muslims would have the first right to heaven. That sounded very absurd to me and as my brain opened up i realized it was not my achievement of being born in a Muslim family that I had a birth right to heaven. Surely God cannot be so unfair. Furthermore, the history of Islam is full of bloodshed and war, and the Quran clearly allows jihad on one side and then says all humans are equal. Surely God could not reveal such hypocritical statements and I openly challenge the validity of the book. I am a God fearing human who believes every human is equal, be he/she from any religion, caste or creed. I freely choose not to follow Islam anymore as the concept is against my altruistic views on life, where a persons life and faith should be governed by his/her own free mind and logical reasoning. Not by the way of birth or what the ancestors have always believed in.

    Arsalan Chatha, 24, Pakistan, now an agnostic

    I left Islam. I always thought that Muhammad can not be God’s messenger or a holy man! By looking at his personal affairs, especially with women, I can not follow a man who marries each woman he meets! Also the contradictions in the Quran and the way it was written – in a way that is so difficult to understand, made me believe that this is a man made religion . Also, Islam has NO tolerance for other belief systems, and the argument that Muslims are very lucky that they were born in Muslim countries got me convinced that Muslims are so closed-minded and forgot that there are many wonderful people on this planet who are not Muslims. I think Islam is the worst thing that happened to humanity. It pushes Muslim’s backwards and that is why there is no single Muslim country is advanced or even civilized! Also on the question of prayer, they say if you do not pray 5 times a day you will be burned in hell for ever! I tried prayer of course when I was a Muslim, but I did not feel anything, I felt I am just exercising or in the Gym, I felt I am like a robot. No feeling at all. This is pure brainwashing. Now I am not sure if there is God or Not, the theory of evolution blew my mind and the fact that there are so many religions in the world and so many problems in the world made me believe that Man created God not the other way around.

    Hussein, Egypt, now an agnostic

    9/11 probably opened my eyes. I realized that Islam at its best couldn’t re-invent itself or adapt to the changing world. I realized also, its the reason for all failures of Arabs and Muslims. Yet Islam is apologetic to every medieval notion, the way it treats women, other non-believers and religions, solving simple problems of life other than Halal/Haraam and just branding others as blasphemous. This religion goes against my mind and values, that is why I left it.

    Ahmed BenKerishan, United Arab Emirates,,

    If you are brutually circumcized, bleeding throughout life, your husband keeping another 3 wives, and if you resist, beaten badly, and ultimately you are divorced, how did you feel?
    or your daughter is married to a 59 year old, cruel like so called prophet and messenger of Allah, then you will realize.

    • Amir
      October 24, 2012 12:27 am

      If u really want to know , what u misunderstood , then we can chat directly.
      send me request.

      shairuf@gmail.com

  • October 20, 2012 2:46 pm

    Chand
    you are absolutely right.

  • Suma usa
    October 19, 2012 1:00 pm

    Namaste,

    read below conversation between two westerners who have voluntarily embraced hinduism without any coersion. Hinduism is vast and a complete belief system and doesnt send anyone to hell. Whereas muslims curse others and send them to hell.Idolworship is a superficial practice and has very little to do with Self- Realization path one has to embark on. Today if ther is one faith that creates religion centric trouble it is islam all over the world. Read papers and you will know.
    Hindu god Brahman doesnt punish anyone after death, one has to take a rebirth to resolve the accrued karma.No short cuts lol.
    http://www.hindudharmaforums.com/showthread.php?t=10378

    “I would like to express my thanks to those who created this forum. In the late 70’s I attendedthe Vedanta society in Rhode Island. Then after some time I spent 20 years as an evangelical minister until I could not abide where that movement is headed. I have been back to reading the Gita and other works for the last couple of years. I hope in my membership here I can learn much to help me in my walk along a Hindu path.

    humbly,
    Mark “

  • stuck up
    October 19, 2012 11:24 am

    @aisha:y do u people have double standards???y cant u guys have tolerance for others?accept the fact that all ur forefathers whether in India or outside were Hindus.Hinduism is a culture.And what all Gods we worship came on earth in the Satyayug,tetrayug and Dwarpa yug as well.But after the start of Kaliyug not a single celestial being has taken birth.even as per Jains,their last thirthankar was born before start of Kaliyug.And all these Hindu and Jain Gods had enlightened knowledge and powers.Even lord Buddha as well.The pre islam Arabia was dominated by vedas.Because during the time of Mahabharat the Kurus ruled the world.Arabia also had connection with vedic literature and worship.Can u prove that our Gods never existed?Historians have many proofs for it.Even today when u visit Hindu shrines u can feel the presence of the divine energy.May it be Tirupati Balaji or Vaishnodevi or Amarnath.and ne1 who trys to play wid the temple rules or with the Deity there itself can have a lifetime of curse on him.If u dont wana believe dont believe.We hindus have the heavens reserved for us by doing good karmas.we dont believe in this foolish conversion business.n whatever bullshit u guys say the ultimate fact wont change.May lord Vishnu give u some sane thinking.

    • stuck up
      October 19, 2012 11:43 am

      n one more thing Miss Aisha.karma doesnt depend on conversion business.neither u so called ‘believers ‘ are blessed with a heaven ticket.this nuisance of believers will end soon because God can see what torture u guys commit on others for namesake religion.Lord Vishnu is ur guardian.so dont come in the way of his devotees.he can see evrythn.he is not unjust to boil people in fire for believing in him.forget being human.u have a feelingless heart.so did osama go to heaven?he was a strong believer wasnt he?surely he must be having 72 virgins for himself right?n u will also get that ‘believer’.God sees the purity of human soul and not the sickness that u guys have.so start behaving like good humans n have tolerance for every human being.this applies equally to Christians and muslims

  • Aisha
    October 19, 2012 4:13 am

    You have seen some ‘stupid’ muslim girls.Me a muslim girl too.there is no religion like islam.such wonderful,logical and good.Before Islam revealed women had no rights and priviledges.women were like consuming products.man used them like that.Islam has made them free,give them rights to property of their father,husband,son,brother.has allowed their says on family matters,protected them from the lusful eyes of men by saying them to cover themselves.U may find more in this blog ‘islamic learning materials’ about Islam.

    • October 19, 2012 10:35 am

      Aisha,
      Here this Hindu girl “i dont wana convert. but my partner wants me too” what should she do? Why the Muslim guy will not tolerate a “Hindu” wife?

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