Heena says: May 1, 2013 at 7:45 am
Hi I am Heena 25 yrs old, my father is a maulvi, just preaching all nonsense activites of the children. He married me to a muslim guy, who was a butcher and I could not have good relations. All sorts of indiscriminatory attitude and violence I had to face. Ultimately I decided to run away with a sikh guy, leaving my parental home and inlaws too and married him.
I found that non-muslim are far better than muslim husbands. They treat women just for sex only. I am happy with him. Later got marriage registered. -Heena
Heena says: May 3, 2013 at 2:18 am
Thanks Admn.
I am presently in an European country. No problem to my husband. Nikah is now a closed chapter for ever. With due regards. -Heena
Safina-Islamabad-Pakistan says: May 6, 2013 at 6:15 am
They (Muslim boys) walk freely clothless. If they have to be pushed to wear burqua then they will know how they feel. This is torture on women. Other religion give freedom to girls, give respect and no danger of talaq. Why should we follow Islam only to serve men in house. We are really hostile within own house in Islamic system.
Heena you are courageous and I support you fully. I have felt that our muslim boys see us with dirty mentality however boys of other community respect and with good feelings.
Thank you very much Heena. We should jointly fight against cruelty against women and Talaq in Islam. -Safina
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Hi Admn.
I am deeply influenced with Hindusim that I learnt in the college, which made me attracted towards Hindu guy, who is submissive and
knowledgeable too. The following points of Hinduism deeply touch my
heart:-
1) Pancha Mahabhutas (the five great elements) create a web of life that is shown forth in the structure and interconnectedness of the cosmos and the human body. Hinduism teaches that the five great elements (space, air, fire, water, and earth) that constitute the environment are all derived from prakriti, the primal energy. Each of these elements has its own life and form; together the elements are interconnected and interdependent. The Upanishads explains the interdependence of these elements in relation to Brahman, the supreme reality, from which they arise: “From Brahman arises space, from space arises air, from air arises fire, from fire arises water, and from water arises earth.”
Hinduism recognizes that the human body is composed of and related to these five elements, and connects each of the elements to one of the five senses. The human nose is related to earth, tongue to water, eyes to fire, skin to air, and ears to space. This bond between our senses and the elements is the foundation of our human relationship with the natural world. For Hinduism, nature and the environment are not outside us, not alien or hostile to us. They are an inseparable part of our existence, and they constitute our very bodies.
2) Ishavasyam (divinity) is omnipresent and takes infinite forms. Hindu texts such as the Bhagavad Gita (7.19, 13.13) and the Bhagavad Purana (2.2.41, 2.2.45), contain many references to the omnipresence of the Supreme divinity — including its presence throughout and within nature. Hindus worship and accept the presence of God in nature. For example, many Hindus think of India’s mighty rivers — such as the Ganges — as goddesses. In the Mahabharata, it is noted that the universe and every object in it has been created as an abode of the Supreme God meant for the benefit of all, implying that individual species should enjoy their role within a larger system, in relationship with other species.
3)Protecting the environment is part of Dharma. Dharma, one of the most important Hindu concepts, has been translated into English as duty, virtue, cosmic order, and religion. In Hinduism, protecting the environment is an important expression of dharma.
Hi every body,
I(32 yrs) am in love with a Hindu guy for 2 years.We both are working in a college. Myself divorcee because of cruel nature of my muslim husband.
The guy is 31 years old and he wants to marry me after knowing every thing. No problem from his side like conversion. My parents wants me to marry my cousin who is widower aged 45 years. I have denied to marry any muslim guy now.
I wish to follow hindu religion after marriage.
Positive comments are welcome.
If you follow Islam (which you don’t of course), you are not allowed to marry anyone who worship statues and and has more than one holy book. He or she must convert. In Islamic laws, this marriage is not valid.
The problem with our desi people is that if one relationship does not work, they tend to blame the race or religion instead of finding the root cause of the problem. In western culture, divorce is very common. More than 60% of the Americans end up getting divorce after marriage and the number one reason is cheating after marriage. So, what should white women or men do? Start dating and marrying other guys/girl from other culture? No (unless they want to, but most Americans don’t), but rather find someone with good personality or character and marry that person. I have many friends who hate and have had bad experience with Punjabi guys and they really do not want to marry Punjabi guys or end up marrying non-punjabi guys. So, it all comes down to individual person rather than a race or religion. There are good and bad anywhere you go.
Hi Heena ,
Satshri akal, jo bole so nihal,
wahe gurujika khalsa, waheguruji ki fateh,
My hearty congratulations.
God bless you always.
VM
Hearty congratulations Heena,
God bless you for a happy and prosperous married life.
Have good understanding with your husband, honour sentiments and emotions on reciprocal basis.
With best wishes,
Heena,
Everything that ends well is well and I hope you must have buried the past in your subconscious part of your mind. Thanks to your patience and acumen that ultimately you have found a good and caring husband and you both are leading a life full of joys.
May the God shower His blessings on you both and your progeny.
Nilofar,
To marry a Jain is not a bad idea as far as their religious practices are concerned. They are a vegetarian community practicing non-violence against any creature. They are usually well educated and primarily take business as occupation. However, apart from religion, you must make sure he is compatible to you. Think about your future marital life, upbringing of the children and the in-laws. One of the most important things is to consider your relations with your own family members after marriage. Take time and weigh pros and cons before coming to any conclusion.
My only suggestion would be to take decision based on your logic and reason instead of emotion and haste. Best thing would be to find some way to maintain at least a reasonable relation with your parents even after your marriage, though it may not be an easy task as they are a pious Muslims. For them you would become a kafir. On the other side, your and your progeny will be freed from this repressive and restrictive cult and will breathe in the fresh air.
May God show you the path and remove the obstacles from your happy life.
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Hi Admn.
Nice to see experiences shared by muslim girls particularly, while leading a humiliating and disgraceful life. I(27 years) am presently in Spain and belong to an asian country, born and brought up in hard core muslim family, particularly my father very strict in islamic practices and mother always leading a disgraceful life. Seeing all these inhuman treatment, I gradually felt that islam is not good for females.
Myself working in an office as data entry operator under a Jain Boss(31 years) from India. Looking his life stylish and other humanly treatment, I felt in love with him and wish to marry. I like vegetarian food that I tasted from him and his non violence theory against all creatures of God. Being independent and in spain no problem to marry him, as I have already discussed with his parents and shall lead my life as per Jainsim after marriage.
Wish to have comments if I marry Jain guy.
With regards, Nilofar
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Thanks Admn.
I am presently in a european country. No problem to my husband.Nikah is now a closed chapter for ever.
With due regards.
Heena
Heena, we wish you the best. You have suffered a lot and now it is time to enjoy life with dignity and pride. Do not believe in false promises of the AFTER life and put up with men, one got to learn to live full good THIS life.
You have experience a lot in life due to religious issues, now it is time to come on this site to educate other young adults. With your help, we wish to make this World little better place to live for ALL. Thanks.
Heena,
Sorry to hear of your sad story from your first marriage. Instead of staying in hell in THIS life, we are glad you that you found a solution to your problem.
Are you legally and technically married twice? Is your Nikaah marriage is still open? We do not know which country you are in, but in most Islamic countries, this is probably almost impossible and the Sikh guy could get into a deep trouble. Is that true? Best wishes.