Pooja says:May 27, 2013 4:13 PM
I am from a Hindu/Sikh background and my love and i have been together for about 3 years (he is muslim) . I am aware of the struggles that come along with an interracial marriage but the biggest problem we have come across is how to discipline our kids after marriage. What if we try to teach them both cultures or about both religions but they cross over each other? For ecample I am a vegetarian since birth and he obviously is not cooking seperatly is an obvious solution but what would we feed our children?
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Dear Pooja,
You have reached to the right site and you will get wealth of information for your interfaith marriage here.
Yours is a typical story here and you have raised the most critical question, … what will be the religion of your children or what will you teach them?
Before going that far, first you will have to find out who you are and who he is (probably he many not know!!). We do not mean the “face value” but truly who he is deep inside of him.
Apparently you are looking for an interfaith marriage with equality. You wish to give both faiths equal value (50:50%) and no one is superior over the other.
First, you read below article Hindu girl and ask him to read the Muslim boy. Make a list of what you will follow and what not. Then you match both’s answers. Now see what is negotiable and what is absolutely no, No, NO!
Another thing you do is to be honest and open to all, including both sets of parents. Do not go lie to any one set of parents, be bold, be grave. In long run, honest is the best policy. Go tell his parents that this is what we two have decided. We need your blessings.
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Hello why don’t you understand that there is no Allah. It was an name of Idol in Kabaah and Moham-mad picked that name because its Arabic meaning the great (remember not the greatest) to justify his evil acts in the name of Allah and formed a boys cult group called “Islam.” When you read the Koran then you will be shocked to learn its evil verses which are full of hatred for non-Muslims, terrorism and lust for sex.
Pooja…
If he is a muslim guy, he will want his kids to be purely muslim.
you will have no say in it.
i m a muslim too.. and thts y im telling u tht ig u want ur kids wid ur religion do not marry him.
or study islam, accept it, convert only if u believe that there is only one God.. ths shud b frm from heart
and then if u marry him, ur life myt b easy
wid current situation… m sorry.. i dont see u being happy in future..
If Islam has a problem then guy must convert out of it, its guys Muslim identity that wants child to be Muslim, so guy must convert to Hindu and marry the girl, not the other way around.
Pooja,
Bad days for you now. You have landed in a hostile environment by your fatal decision to marry in a cruel, discriminatry, anti human religion.
The beauty of Islam http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3cNolgkaNQ
Allahs message from Muslim him self, such a peaceful religion – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yb0f7JQiiZs
Pooja,
You have to face a tough time for the suicidal decision that you have taken by marrying a person of an evil and criminal religion, who treat women just sex doll, keep them under strict religion,remove their clitoris, perhaps you also lost.
Now repent for ever.
Hi Pooja,
You appear to have been trapped by muslim guy. There is a big difference of idelogies of both religion. Islam basically is not a religion but an ideology or mind set of evil practicies like hate, crime, murder, rape, kidnapping, lying, torture, sexual harrassament, discriminiation, mutta marriage, halala practice, 72 virgins concepts for terrorists, blasts, etc.
In Hindu and sikh religions, beef is not allowed but in muslim it is very essential and particularly to the nonmuslims , they will force to eat. In muslim community, burqa is necessary, female genital mutiliation, proving virginity on wedding night are essential practices.
You cannot go back to your religion. You have to burn your soul throughout life.