He is Hindu and I am Muslim

Anjum says: July 13, 2013 at 10:35 am

Hello readers,

I have been in a relationship with someone that is not only from another country as me; but also from a different religion.

We are very much in love and are very happy together. We met during our business trips in USA. The problems that we are facing is that he is from India and I am not. Two times I have visited India and met him on official trips. So for us to take our relationship to the next level; as in marriage just looks sort of impossible. Even though we want it.

Both our families will not support us and we dont know what to do.

He is Hindu and I am Muslim.

We have accepted each other and if it was just the 2 of us there would be no hurdles. But we have to consider both our families and show the necessary respect not to be hurtful and come across as selfish.

I am ready for the change. Whether it will be moving to India; changing my religion. But it will not be that simple.

Any advice??? -Anjum

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  • September 22, 2017 2:12 am

    i am christian and related SC caste im in love with jain girl since one year we both love each other and decided to marry can u guys plzz any advice

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  • July 21, 2013 1:36 am

    I am Hindu and i want to marry Muslim girl as we r in love from past 2 years. so how can i marry her?
    I am Hindu from Bangalore. I am in love with a Muslim girl from past 2 years. I can’t live without her and even she can’t live without me. We can’t marry as we are of different religions. I know that Islam never accepts Non-Muslim (Idol worshipers) to marry Muslim until he/she accept Islam by heart.
    Please read this completely and help me…

    I believe that there is only one god. Even Vedas says that there is only one god. He is neither having shape nor have comparison. So I have no problem with accepting Islam. But I have 2 main problems which r hurting me so much. I can’t even decide what to do and what not to do. They are……

    1. My parents (they are sentimental and emotional) have all hopes on us (on me n my brothers n i am the youngest). My mom is very sensitive. So if I accept Islam and converted to Muslim (by heart and for marriage) what will b the condition of my parents and elder brothers?? What kind of torture they may receive from society (neighbors, relatives and others)?? Will they live happily?? What will b my condition and status in society after converting to Islam??? Will I get a job opportunity?? will i live happily n am i able to follow all Islamic culture n rules as i born n grown up as Hindu??

    2. I can’t live without her and can’t even imagine myself with someone else. At the worst case I may remain unmarried but can’t marry someone else. So If I remain unmarried, who will take care of me in my old age?? With whom should I share all my feelings, worries and problems???

    Hinduism believes rebirth but Islam never accepts this.

    According to Islam, on judgment day god will decide whether to send us to heaven or hell. If so can we choose our companion there???

    According to Hinduism can we become together in our next birth???
    I can’t even die or I can’t even live. I am experiencing the hell now only and it’s like a battle life and death… Please help me… Thanking you in advance

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=6100

  • Sophiya Ahmed
    July 20, 2013 7:04 am

    Dear Anjum,

    Please proceed to marry your hindu love.

    Hindu’s are very good as a husband and by grace of Allah, he will take good care of you and will love for life as a wife and friend.

    Hindu’s are very open in mind, very tolerant and donot opt for another marriage.

    Best of luck

  • July 16, 2013 1:53 am

    Thanks Kaveri.

    You should be alert and dont get trapped.Muslim guys are criminal and can go to any extent for sex and conversion of nonmuslims to islam.I am 100%sure that you are landing in a deep trouble.

    • Kaveri
      July 24, 2013 6:13 am

      Dnt worry sis, i will be fine.. i trust him…. 🙂

  • Kaveri
    July 14, 2013 7:09 am

    Best of luck for your future,hope for the best…
    🙂

  • July 14, 2013 3:46 am

    Dear Anjum,

    You are a working girl and visiting India, that is a positive way for you both to marry in India.

    Before doing that you must ensure that both are well committed for long term relations and fully understood each other,s life style and religious sentiments. Better to meet his parents too, when you visit India again.

    Tactfully try to persuade your parents for this relations.

    • sara
      July 14, 2013 8:25 am

      How can persuade parents for these kind of marriages?can any body suggest any proper answer.thanks

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