nusrat khan (former Akansha) says: April 5, 2014 at 9:50 am
(Hindu) Akansha to (now Muslim) Nusrat.
Married for last 8 months and Muslim since last 5 months.
hi…
I am married to a Muslim guy for last eight months and reverted to Islam five months ago . I met my husband during collage days almost seven years ago and spent some good time as a very great friend together and when collage we separated. We were passively in contact until we met face to face two years ago, this time when we started to spend time together. We ended getting married through special marriage act,
He never asked to talked about Islam ever and converting was far of thing but there was good opposition from my family stating that It would very difficult for me to settle in a Muslim family, I didn’t paid heed to them and thought will manage some how but unfortunately my parents family was true. When I entered my in-laws house, I faced hostility and non-cooperation and very much unfriendly environment. My mother in law wanted me to revert to islam and my hubby’s sister suggested me to do so to be accepted in the family, My husband was silent.
I asked my husband to move in separate apartment but he refused to move since he cannot leave his family and I cannot leave my husband. So after 3 monnths finally I have to give up and unwillingly have to revert to islam and was given a new name “NUSRAT” and had a Nikah after that my life changed completely, I was compelled to leave my job, I did that.
Now My in-laws are becoming more friendlier and happier. My Mother in law taught taught me to offer salah which I have to go compulsory five times, there is no chance of any missing those salah, in free time she teaches me Quran and hadiths. There are many restrictions have applied in my life. I have to wear black gown called abaya and hijab and if I don’t they get angry also whenever going outside or at home, I have to wear hijab and abaya a new experience from jeans. they haven’t asked me yet to wear a veil yet but won’t long I will be able to escape from it.
Most of documents like passport and voter-Id card have new identity of me, my name of Nusrat has been added in Ration card, and have applied adhar card as same. My old identity has been almost erased except from my mind.
I am also going away from Hindu identity to a muslim one. There are occasion of unhappiness and often suffocation but I have to live with it. My parents are very sad about it but they haven’t abandoned me yet completely but now hardly in any contact with them.
Only saving grace is my husband, there is no altitude change from his side he still loves me same that was earlier although he sometime advises me to go to some Islamic seminary to learn more about Islam and understand, so that my life can be easier in a new shell but no force.
any body marrying muslim must keep in view that its not easy to go with this kind of marriages and have to often sacrifice. Most of the portion of sacrifice is shared by woman. -Nusrat Khan (new name).
Nusrat Khan says: June 20, 2014 at 12:57 pm
I don’t have any attachment for any faith ….I am just practicing islam casually, no problem just ok -Nusrat
Nusrat Khan added: August 19, 2014 at 12:13 am
hi admin
I was aware that it won’t be easy to get accepted by the mother in law of mine.
anyways if I had not reverted, our marriage would have not lasted long, may be a year or two, Now I hope it can go long as I wish.
well I don’t know whether it was destiny or my karma which led me to end me as muslim for whole ..Now I don’t have any complaints it was favorable to me as I am now compatible to islam and its tradition ..I am happy.
I don’t have facebook to add you anyways. I deactivated after I reverted to islam. -Nusrat
Nusrat khan says: February 18, 2015 at 11:43 pm
Hi laxmi, decide what is more important for you in life your hindu faith or love, though I was deceived to accept islam because of in laws may be that time love of my life was more important than anything, also I was little casual about religion, So I became muslim ..after some time I adjusted to islamic way of life ..but sometime I feel little suffocation now
you decide what’s good for you, if you can live with restriction ..than go ahead and accept islam and marry your love. this is all I can say. wish you all the best for your future- Nusrat
Nusrat khan says: March 5, 2015 at 12:31 am
Lately I have started studying hinduism and buddhism -Nusrat
Nusrat khan says: October 21, 2015 at 2:09 am
thanks ..admin
atleast I didn’t faced that kind of adversity , they just bycotted me untill I reverted to islam , Now I dont have any problem being muslim and following islam
also I would like to say that please think on all consequences before getting married to a muslim and about their family ..also learn Islam before getting in It will help in future
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Lol this thread is filled with people trying to convert. For god sake this forum is INTERFAITH, irony dies by every minute I read these comments by users like MAC and PAMPA MONDAL. Feels like religion has made these bigoted losers literate enough to come here and spew venom of conversion, it happened 10 centuries back , happening now and certainly doesn’t look like it would die down. And the amount of Anti Hindu comments god 😂😂 good luck INTERFAITH SOULS welcome to the reality of ISLAMIC REGRESSIVE rules for you 😂😂
Nusrat
As you have adjusted to your situation there is nothing much of an issue now…You should willingly follow Islam to save your marriage and that was probably what your husband wanted although silently…Even in Hindu religion it’s duty of wife to follow and look for happiness of wife…So go on with your life and enjoy it…Keep your in laws happy and have happy family with children if you had not already
Hi,
Would you give the same advise to your Muslim sister if she married to a Hindu guy?
You will follow up your husband ruthless and fake religion in your entire life. You like peoples are curse for my nation as well.
I want to ask Nusrat what sacrifices has your man made as compared to you? You broke ur own culture and parents heart what respect do you think truly he has for you? I bet nill. You are a very easy woman who will even accept gladly another wife of your hubsnad. He married you cause he knew u are weak woman. I feel pathetic for your parents I wish girls like you would die before being born.
She not only broke but also cant maintain her daily life as before marriage. In Islam there are count less false restriction in day to day life.
Hi Nusrat
Be happy always. being happy (and making others happy0 is also service to One God who is within us and omnipresent. do not complicate and do not think much . it is endless thinking. just be happy.
Nusrat,
As per my experience (similar situation happened with a girl in my hometown), It is extremely sad that you have lost your identity and freedom, you lost everything that HINDUISM religion gave you. You made mistake and it is your karma for sure. Anyway best of luck for your future and one thing my request is “DONOT MENTION REVERTED ISLAM”.Because islam is a youngest religion and spread by genocide (see history) and foce/hipotism/loveJihad.
Please mention CONVERTED instead of Reverted. Bore Islam all were HINDUS.. and I am proude to be HINDU…
Islam is the most evil doctrine mankind has ever invented. A dogma that is followed by inveterate psychopaths, who refuse to evolve and prefer to remain stuck in the myth created by an equally evil person, who was a paedophile, warlord, mass-murderer, caravan-looter and psych-schitzophrenic barbarian. It is entirely propaganda oriented.
I feel sorry for Akansha. She is a victim of love-jehad. If she has gumption, she should break the marriage and return to her parents or rot in the dark abyss, she is now.
You may feel sorry for her but last she said “Now I dont have any problem being muslim and following islam.” What would you say?
She has accepted it as her life or has forced herself into this phony ‘happiness’.
Islam is so bad that millions of lower caste choosed Islam as their rout to escape from most utter unhumane discrimination of Brahminism. When most oppressed people choose something to be their salvation, that ideology be definition cannot be evil mr bhattacharya
islam isnt the solution. only cowards decide to renounce hinduism instead of fighting for their rights! islam is a brainwash cancer where there is no way back!
there is huge racism and casteism in islam too
Nusrat must be wearing face veil these days. Her transformation is probably complete. Please acknowledge.
islam is such a supremacist faith where an independent mind ‘akanksha’ GAVE IN to being a week collective islamic ‘nusrat’ by the gradual ‘affectionate’ persuasion of her ‘mother’-in-law! the persuasion has been so fruitious that akanksha has started using “revert” instead of “convert” and she is using words like ‘a ticket to heaven’. Akanksha, people like you are encouraging islamists and jehad.
we knew that practice makes a person perfect. now we see that practice makes a person perfectly sympathetic to a cause! at first you were unwillingly a hindu converted into islam. and now you have become a not-so-unwilling hindu “reverted” into islam. in your earlier posts, you used “convert”, now you use “revert”, using this word “reversion” is a gradual sign of becoming believer in the supremacy of islam and becoming a fundamentalist! that is why islam is far more contagious and dangerous than other proselytizing faiths. it is a doctrine where a mother-in-law affectionately prepares her non-ex-muslim daughter-in-law gradualy becoming sympathetic to islam, then practising muslim and finaly a soft islamic fundamentalist! it is a faith where a free minded hindu bride cannot deny the “affectionate yet compelling” invitation to make herself gradualy feel of her roots (parents, ex-faith, ex-life style) as being “incomplete, inferior, unnecessary, sinful and not qualified for heaven!”. very soon, akaksha shall start thinking her parents of being “good people, but not that good or complete because of not having the ‘light’ of islam”! very soon akanksha shall start think like fundamentalist practicing muslims (or she already has!). very soon, akanksha shall start thanking allah for making her “reversion” into islam! very soon, akanksha shall start begining to be skeptic of (if not forget) her hindu past after the birth of her first baby! very soon her babies shall become more muslim than allah (the arabic moon god), more muslim than muhammad (the technical prophet the history has ever had! “technique of preaching ownself as the greatest human by doctrinising an entire population by a faith” koi in se sikhey!). akanksha must be enjoying beef in these days and she must be hating or aghast of hindu mantras, sounds of worshipping and venerating! islam is such a doctrine where “affectionate pious family bondings” are much more dangerous than ISIS propagandas. ISIS wants power and can be seen. but a muslim “affectionate” family is much more harmful as it “lovingly” persuade son-in-laws/daughter-in-laws like akanksha to give up their names and identities and adopt it’s (muslim) faith! more disturbing part is these families, these people like akanksha’s husband and mother-in-laws are spoiling trusts and peaceful existence between hindus and muslims. such inter-faith marraiges where own islamic conversion matters encourage islamism. such people of such a supremacist faith always think of victory of others. that is why they were so phobic of her ex-name “akanksha” that they renamed her as “nusrat” to epitomize her new birth, as if she were in darkness before being “reverted” into islam! such a hatred towards past faith has given birth to the animosity within minds of kala pahar, jalaluddin shah, aurangzeb etc. muslims who have hindu ancestry have often seen to be more hateful towards hindus.
we knew that practice makes a person perfect. now we see that practice makes a person perfectly sympathetic to a cause! at first you were unwillingly a hindu converted into islam. and now you have become a not-so-unwilling hindu “reverted” into islam. in your earlier posts, you used “convert”, now you use “revert”, using this word “reversion” is a gradual sign of becoming believer in the supremacy of islam and becoming a fundamentalist! that is why islam is far more contagious and dangerous than other proselytizing faiths. it is a doctrine where a mother-in-law affectionately prepares her non-ex-muslim daughter-in-law gradualy sympathetic, then practising and finaly a soft fundamentalist! it is a faith where a free minded hindu bride cannot deny the “affectionate yet compelling” invitation to make her gradualy feel of her roots (parents, ex-faith, ex-life style) as being “incomplete, inferior, unnecessary, sinful and not qualified for heaven!”. very soon, akanksha shall start thanking allah for making her “reversion” into islam! very soon, akanksha shall start begining to forget her hindu past after birth of her first baby! very soon her baby shall become more muslim than allah (the arabic moon god), more muslim than muhammad (the technical prophet the history has ever had! “technique of preaching ownself as the greatest human by doctrinising an entire population by a faith” koi in se sikhey!). akanksha must be enjoying beef in these days and she must be hating hindu mantras, sounds of worshipping and venerating! islam is such a doctrine where “affectionate pious family bondings” are much more dangerous than ISIS propagandas. ISIS wants power and can be seen. but a muslim “affectionate” family is much more harmful as it “lovingly” persuade son-in-laws/daughter-in-laws like akanksha to give up their names and identities and adopt it’s (muslim) faith! more disturbing part is these families are spoiling trusts between hindus and muslims. such inter-faith marraiges where own islamic conversion matters encourage islamism.
I am a Hindu I shame on those Hindu who marred a Muslim .there was a pain in my heart more thanhundered of bullet fired in my body but. we Hindu always thought when a Hindu convert to Islam that not a Hindu reduced but we thought that a enemies will increase.
So we will fight with them until we wins the battle..
Hi Nusrat,
I don’t know why there’s all these negayive hear about Muslims when your mother in lae ks clearly an illiterate Muslim who has never studied Idl properly. And since you’re a revert to Islam don’t judge Quraan by the translations that you read it by because none of them will make anu sense to you and it will all seem “evil”.
Second of all, to the person who said Islamic countries are the most un peaceful countriesplease do yourself a favour and learn some history of this world of what happened to all of them and why they necame unpeaceful.
Third of all, every religion is against another religion and teaches to disbelieve in any other ones ao please don’t raise your fingers solely on Islam when your own geeta is full of hate and violence and your “Krishna” faught and killed others also !
P.s Nusray abbaya isn’t required in Islam, modest dressing is non revealing clothing. Do please educate yourself more rather than searching for hateful info from other people of the Internet
Thank you & good bye !
Nusrat,
We are happy that you have a happy married life and happy with your new faith.
You said earlier, “I also strongly beleive that non muslim won’t go to hell, this may be in contradiction with islam but I dont believe that Allah will be so cruel of his creation and children.” Do you believe all statements in Koran are written by Allah (read bolded statements in Koran on Hindus?)? Why Allah is so cruel to non-believer in Muhammad’s ideologies? Why people cannot have freedom to choose their faith?
Nusrat,
Read Sandhya, another victim just like you at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10627
thanks ..admin
atleast I didn’t faced that kind of adversity , they just bycotted me untill I reverted to islam , Now I dont have any problem being muslim and following islam
also I would like to say that please think on all consequences before getting married to a muslim and about their family ..also learn Islam before getting in It will help in future
Nusrat,
We love to interact with you!
We understand if you converted to save your marriage. If you did not converted, they would have kicked you out long before. Out of some 600 Hindu-Muslim lovers/marriages that we have seen on this web site, probably only 3 or 4 (less than 1%) where the Muslim tolerated a Hindu in marriage.
We understand you converted to save your marriage. If he were a Christian, would you have converted to Christianity and today praying to Jesus?
Did you started eating goat/meat/chicken or are you still vegetarian?
Now do you believe in the Judgment Day where Allah will come and decide the fate of all in 2 hours?
We are glad you are not an exclusivist and believe “that non muslim won’t go to hell”. It is beyond out comprehension that Christians claim only Jesus saves and Muslims claim all non-believers will get Hell Fire. This is sad, very sad. We hope you (or your children) will not adapt to exclusivity thinking later in your life.
On your point “I dont believe that Allah will be so cruel”, we agree but then why Allah wrote all these harsh statements (read) for non-believers? Do you believe Koran to be 100% truth?
Well admin
I may have converted to christanity to save my marriage but following christanity was sole on my like and dislike
lately I started to like islam when once taught about so trying to follow Islam as prescribed in quran and hadith
So basically you’ve started to like a religion which says your parents will go to hell regardless of anything for no good reason simply for being a non Muslim ?
Well you’ve made a mistake and the only reason you’re liking islam is cause now you have no option left. I’m from england and my wife was muslim her family literally forced me to become muslim for over 2 years. Rather than deceiving my family and disrespecting my God I offered her a simple solution ” you follow your faith and let me follow mine” I’m sure only a Non Muslim can say something like that.
Now I’m divorced and much happier rather than following a faith in which God wants to suffer others. I believe in merciful God like Krishna who’s equal to all and who only sees your Karma.
I pray that one day you leave islam and realise your mistake.
P.s – if your husband really loved you then this won’t have happened. Beside I feel sad for your parents.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10711
admin
please just tell me ..from which document have you known that allah will decide the fate of all in 2 houres ???
why 2 houres ?????
when these bad sight about islam will end ??
you are right ..god is not cruel ..but merciful
about non muslims ..
this is a faith ..dogma that they will go to hell for not believing in islam
but you foget that this is between him and them at that day
so this is a personal convince ..beleive it or not
i have fed up of telling that it is personal convince to believe or not
to contiue marriage or not
to start love story and complete it or not
The 10 most peaceful countries
Iceland
Denmark
Austria
New Zealand
Switzerland
Finland
Canada
Japan
Australia
Czech Republic
The 10 least peaceful countries
Syria
Iraq
Afghanistan
South Sudan
Central African Republic
Somalia
Sudan
DR Congo
Pakistan
North Korea
The Picture is clear…..2015 GLOBAL PEACE INDEX….9/10 are Islamic Countries……and None above is an Islamic Country……The Religion of Peace -ISLAM……!!!!
In Syria,Iraq,Afghanistan,Sudan, all these four countries were very peaceful, atleast more peaceful than india, USA and other western allies and their puppet in middle east has helped ISIS and created this violence in Syria, same thing in Iraq, where USA invaded and destroyed the whole country and killed millions of people there, before US invasion, there were no recorded single suicide attack in the history of Iraqi soil, after US invasion there are about 1892 recorded suicide bombings, same case with Afghanistan and Sudan, Afghanistan was also very peaceful , but Russian took advantage and invaded Afghanistan, then Americans helped Taliban and removed Russians from Afghanistan, but when their puppet Taliban refused to listen to them, they then labelled Taliban as terrorist and started bombing Afghanistan, same case with Somalia. If you don`t believe me, then you do your own independent research on this topic.
Also, you are wrong, 9/10 are not islamic countries, central african republic,south-Sudan, DR Congo, North Korea are not islamic, which exposes your blind knowledge about world, same case with north-korea too, US divided one korea into two, south and north korea and arming one korea i.e south korea and has disestablished that reason like they did with Sudan. Here is the testimony of ex-US army general that how they planned to destroy countries like Somaliya,Sudan,Iraq,Syria,Lebanon and then finally Iran, watch his interview here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9RC1Mepk_Sw
Watch Noam Chomsky interview on America and west and propaganda of war, Chomsky is a Jew-atheist and professor of MIT http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5uET5QoOXY
what kind of person you are? your mom was a hindu why u hate hindus so much? this is what islam is all about u have to hate another faith to follow islam. u are a half hindu babe believe it or not.
Nusrat
Recently you said, “any non muslim woman marrying a muslim man, have to automatically convert one day”. Hindu dating girls are naive and not aware of this fact. Can you elaborate more on it, WHY?
Compared to dating time promises, how Hindu girl’s life will change after marriage to a Muslim? Considering now you fully experienced it, dating girls would value your views. Thanks.
Most of the non muslims are non religious or not extreme .. They are not much advanced in religion as compared to their muslim counterpart so they are easy to convert .Also the push from their muslim in laws , circumstances and environment also paves way to convert to islam
I dont feel there is anything wrong to convert to religion but pushing to convert is not good
sistr, first of all islam prohibits compulsion in the religion
muslim cant force any one to accept islam. .its completely prohibited
Nusrat,
On Muhammed’s point, “islam prohibits compulsion in the religion”, tell us what is fact in your situation? On the day you become Muslim and took Shahadah oath, was it done “willingly”? If your in-laws welcomed you with love as a good human being (instead of these “I faced hostility and non-cooperation and very much unfriendly environment”), would you have converted in 3 month of your marriage?
While dating, tell us what type of life your (then) lover guy promised to you? Tell us what did you expected in your your married life (at the time of your first court marriage) and what is reality of your new life?
Well admin if their behavior was good towards and not forcing , I would have not converted ..I converted to save my marriage and I have no qualms on converting but who knows about future , I might have converted after two years
Iam not following islam blindly , I have just stick to basics …5 pillars of Islam , following quran and sunnat ,praying 5 times of Namaj , wearing hijab ..I also strongly beleive that non muslim won’t go to hell , this may be in contradiction with islam but I dont believe that Allah will be so cruel of his creation and children .
Those non-muslims or muslims knowingly reject islam will goto hell, ignorant people have chance of mercy
mac, we are not ignorant and rejecting Islam as only true religion. We do not believe in idolizing Muhammad at every step of life. Are you saying we will go to hell?
If you reject Islam, you will go to hell, it is as simple as it is. Rejecting god and then hoping to get paradise
mac, you follow Islam, 75% others follow other faiths. So, who is right? You telling that others will go to hell fire is wrong (and vise versa). You believe what you want to and others have rights to believe what they wish. No one has patented God!
I am not talking about faith, islam is not a faith, it is Arabic word which means `submission to god`, most people believe in god, if ignorantly they believe in false deity as god, then there is no sin upon them, but if they knowingly reject true god, then hell fire for them
mac,
First you have to have faith in God. If you don’t have faith in Allah, why will you namaz five times a day?
It is wrong to say only Muhammad followers are praying to true God and Christians, jews, Hindus, etc are following false God and will get Hell Fire. This includes: 1) Nusrat’s parents 2) this admin who does not like certain harsh words in the Koran, 3) This wonderful humanbeing being named Mommen and 4) Mahatma Gandhi (Krishna bhakt and who spoke last words -Hey Ram!). If we are so bad, why Allah is allowing us to enjoy heaven in this world? Why Muslims in many sectors are sufferers compared to counterparts?
It is okay to be a proud of your faith/religion but it is wrong to say all others will get hell fire, irrespective how good others are on this earth. You are making totally irrational comments.
Hi Nusrat,
You recently said, “leaving my past behind slowly and slowly” and, in a few years, you will become a pure Muslim like your mother-in-law. Then we have one question for you: One day when your son marries and bring a Hindu girl to your home, are you going to give the same treatment to that innocent Hindu girl and convert her to Islam? How will you be the same or different than your mother-in-law?
why you try to equate everyone in same perception ..is there any guarantee that I will bear a son …so how reached to the calculation that I would be same like my mother in law or what if I bear a son and he choses to a muslim girl
just dont speculate , that I have left my hindu identity and adopted a muslim one will make me same like some one else
happy ramzan to all my brothers and sister in islam ,and every other
may allah bless us all …
Same to you and to your family.. Ramazan Mubarak!!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂
Hi Nusrat,
Ramazan Mubarak. Tomorrow we will be going to Iftar Dinner and looking forward to meeting all good friends/Godly people.
Glad to hear from you!
why are u in such a marriage which is not accepting you as yourself? girl whats wrong with you? are u scared that no one will marry you? are u ugly? promiscuous? some disease? or infertile? whats wrong girl? please tell.
Hi All,
I hope this blog is still active…:)
Was reading all your posts and comments and so, wanted to share my personal experience and seek for your advice and suggestions on the below matter.
So, here it goes…
I just joined this company (the company I am currently working in) one year ago, I met him there , It was love at first sight (did not know what his name was, his religion was out of question as all I wanted was “him”)
Few Days later my colleague introduced him to me … Then I came to know that my dream man, the person I always kept an eye on in the office hours was a muslim boy.
I was a racist (feeling bad for what I was ), so I knew that this is nothing but infatuation. I started maintaining distance. Since he was a part of my office group, so we used to have lunch together and gradually without my knowing it, we became best of friends (now the racist in me was dying and love was taking the space).
We unknowingly, were in a relationship . We decided that we will convince everyone at my place and his place and things will be normal then. The Hindu Muslim bawaal was small for us (maybe because we were in love ) I kept aside everything (my parents reaction, the compromises that we both will be making for each other etc) . The bond between us became strong with the passage of time. More than a couple we were best of friends.
My parents are super religious and so are his, My mother did not knew about our relationship although she was aware of our friendship, but she never met him in person.
I am 25 years old and as per my family I should get married before 26, so they started searching for a suitable groom for me. I took all this lightly , but to my shock they had found one and things were more than I had imagined, The boy’s family agreed to the roka (a ceremony before marriage) , when I came to know this , I panicked and started crying, My family asked me if I was hiding something, or If I were in a relationship with someone or If I liked someone (they had no issues with it )They wanted to meet the boy . I told my brother and my mother about my 6 months old relationship with this sweet Muslim guy in my office.
*Sigh- I knew they will not agree and making them understand would be difficult (I was prepared ) things happened so quickly that I had to take a step and told them everything , their reaction shocked me(althogh I was aware of it) , my mother started crying , cursing the values that she had given me , my brother started arguing with me ,they started telling me the reactions of our so called relatives and society when they will hear the news, the reaction of the pados wali aunty – deko kaisi ladki hai, maa baap ki parwah nahi, mulli ban gai ladke ke liye , ku jane dia ise office , hawan karwao ghar mai kuch gadbad hai, He will convert you not now but years later, what about the children which religion will they follow, the same continued for atleast 2 days and at the end I had to loose my argument to them .(because my mother said -(hum tujse saare rishte tod dengay , mar jayegi tu humare liye , muh kala karwayegi).The boy was unaware of all of this .
Our 6 months relationship came to an end in just 2 days. The boy started cursing me that I panicked and due to which it all ended. As it was all so early , we did not even decide what we will do, how we will break the news in front of our respective families, he was not professionally settled, jhe needs time , I should have kept my cool and should have told them about it , a year later when he will become something and could stand on his own feet (he is currently earning 30K pm) which is not sufficient for us – as per my parents. till then I should have denied for marriage and should have rejected the marriage proposals that were coming my way.
Now, we have officially broken up, but still we chat , we cry , I curse myself for not handling the situation well. for not standing by him as promised , for not giving time to us , and specially to him . I am GUILTY every second that i pass.
I need your suggestions as to what should we do ?? We love each other . He said he will never convert me , we will marry according to the special marriage act. Both religions will be equally respected, Children will be given both moral values and sanskar of both the religion, no burkha. May be all of the above are fake promises or may be true , I don’t know what god has written for both of us, All I know is we want everyone to be happy including both of us.
Please suggest…
Waiting for your valuable feedback and suggestions.
Q1. Should we continue talking to each other?
Q2. should we secretly again date each other, will face the consequences together?
Q3. Should we give up?
I don’t want to get married to anyone except him, I was a religious person, now i don’t believe in God. I hate my family for doing this to me, for not understanding me . for not giving me a chance to prove that love is above religion.
This pain within me is killing me day by day. I don’t want anyone.
It is all because of me , muje ghar pe itni jaldi nahi btana chahiye tha,…
Take care
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10002
Ask them one question, why marriage with muslim men is not allowed?
While I see lots of hindu families/in-laws are happy to accept muslim girl as their daughter in law. Why this hypocrisy?
Dear Anyonomus, can you make such ( https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9972&cpage=1#comment-353380 ) common points among Hinduism and islam, though there are if not 100+ differences between a Indian hindu and Indian muslim but religion whether Hinduism or islam speaks something different, and as a hindu, your parents have to agree with what Hinduism says else they won`t be hindu.
Dear Mac,
If you could describe what you meant by the above comment (I request you to be more specific)
Thanks
Dear anonymous, the link that i gave above talks about similarities between Islam and Sikhism, by knowing those similarities a Muslim-sikh couple may find a easy solution in their interfaith marriage. Here is the link >>> https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9972&cpage=1#comment-353380
Now if you go through above link, you will realize that finding similarities between two religion can brought two part religion together.
So same applies for Hinduism and Islam. Though Hindus and Muslims are quite different but core text of Hinduism and Islam has many similarities, if these similarities are known to both Hindus and muslim, then they will come closer to each other. Here is a video of such similarities between Islam and Hinduism. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3OwL1IrdEKw
Aapka husband apsr saccha pyaar krta to kbhi ye hone nhi deta.
Abhi to shurat huyi h aapke sasural m paabandiyo ki
aage dekhyega jeena muskil ho jayega aapka.
Islam m mahilao ki kya hasiyat h duniya jaanti h.
Lekin kuch dino k pyaar k liye apna dharm chhod dena ye kamjoro ki nishani h.
Lekin mei ab v sure hu ki aap islam apna to li h par mann ke andar wahi bharatiye sanskriti hai usko kaise badlogi aap.
Aapke baccho ko v sehna padega ab jo abhi aap seh rhi h,
abhi v time h aapko aapki phle wali muskurati zindagi wapas mil sakti h.
Pls mera baat ka bura mat maaniyega.
Sorry nusrat but u have destroyed ur valuable life.
I cant say that ur husband is envolved but in india muslims and their families traping hindu girls in their fake love and changes her religion to increase their population in india a to make india a islamic country
sorry but you are a weak women and a trator of Hindutwa.
We do not agree to “you are a weak women”, actually we felt that Akansha/Nusrat is a very strong woman with independent mind. Agree that she got into a wrong situation but we are confident that she will find her ways.
Hi everyone
I am a Hindu and I practice Buddhism as well. I read your post about your marriage nusrat, it’s good that you are trying to understand other religions as well. I think more than religion, it’s ones karma which play a significant role in leading a happy and content life.
Thanks and all the best.
Hi Nusrat,
We are glad you liked our first video. Can you review the second one, here? Comments please, thanks.
Sorry Pampa mandal
I have some other good things to do in life ,than this
Dear akansha
U r such a pagal type of girl who left ur mother who kept some dreams for u . For ur marriage for ur future . I dont understand if u n ur hubby loved each other .why u hv to sacrifice all these . I really vry sad by ur story .
A girl who were free now confined to four walls hijab nd other bakwas things .
If ur boy loved u why he allowd u to convert . U must be free like sharmilla tagore , gori khan mallaika aroda .
It is a sochi samjhi chal h . Ur boy is mmamas boy but u r not ur mamas . Socho apki maa kitni mahaaan lady h jo aapke bare m sabkuch sahan krti hongi .
I advised u . U should come back …
We will accpt u …
Ur family will accpt u …
On kids: “not yet …when , allah knows the best”.
On parents: “iam with my parents for last 60 days”
Admin: Nusat, we are glad to hear that you are in contact with your parents. We learned on this site that Allah strongly encourages to love and respect your parents. Always remember their sacrifices for you and their unconditional love.
We did not hear from you in last 4 months. We were wondering if your internet privileges were taken away by your mother-in-law, but glad that is not the case. Remember, this is your page “https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7828” and comeback where ever you have an opportunity. 🙂 🙂 🙂
HI Nusrat , me too in a love with a muslim guy, but he directly said to me that he will not marry to me if i will not accept the islam. I love him, dont know what to do, plz guide ?
Hi
laxmi , decide what is more important for you in life your hindu faith or love , though I was deceived to accept islam because of in laws may be that time love of my life was more important than anything ,also I was little casual about religion , So I became muslim ..after some time I adjusted to islamic way of life ..but sometime I feel little suffocation now
you decide what’s good for you , if you can live with restriction ..than go ahead and accept islam and marry your love .this is all I can say
wish you all the best for your future
Solution to “sometime I feel little suffocation now” is to stay with your parents more, we are glad now you are with them. How is your mother-in-law taking this?
Hindu girls don’t realize liberty and freedom that they have, and because of that sometimes, unfortunately, get trapped by religious fanatics.
Nusrat,
What happened next You lived with your parents last 60 days. After that what happened?
Dear admin
In sanatan dharma u have answer for all the questions.praying different
idols is just one part of Hinduism . hinduism talks about atma i.e soul .
Atma+wishes=human.atma-wishes=param atma.most of the books have taken their knowledge from vedas about management business happiness meditation .I have many more good things about hindu culture if u wanna know let me know mac. God bless ur quest for knowledge.
Quran urges to use everything as weapon for conversion murder(9.5),rape,and fake love.
Gopal, are you reading directly from the Koran? The 9.5 has slightly different message.
hi ..
Admin
saw your video , its good that you are educating … There are many girls who spent their life in liberty and when they enter a muslim home may be it could be difficult for them to settle down with restrictions
Thanks Nusrat. Lets together educate other Akanshas for what potentially may come after marriage to a Muslim. It is certainly Godly work to educate innocent young girls from getting trapped in the name of love.
hi admin
you can’t say all the girls are trapped , there may be many cases ..No doubt but educating is good , specially transitioning from one to another culture
just blaming muslims is not good , girls should also have some wisdom to know and analyse what is good and bad for them and should not take any decision in hurry as it’s complete life changing .
We agree 100%. We said, “what potentially may come” and that does not mean it WILL come.
We know wonderful Muslims on this site like Salman (Amrita’s husband), Seema Maheshvari and Shamim (and SRK), so it is not the religion but the person. However education is a good objective now. Thanks Nusrat.
hi admin
I was aware that it won’t be easy to get accepted by the mother in law of mine
anyways if I had not reverted, our marriage would have not lasted long, may be a year or two, Now I hope it can go long as I wish
well I don’t know whether it was destiny or my karma which led me to end me as muslim for whole ..Now I don’t have any complaints it was favorable to me as I am now compatible to islam and its tradition ..Iam happy
I don’t have facebook to add you anyways. I deactivated after I reverted to islam
You are a submissive type person. If you married to a Christian, today you would be running to a church every day and speaking glories of Jesus. If we were in 1914, you would be just happy with the British Raj and would not understand why Gandhi is talking about getting hit by British sticks for liberty, freedom and justice.
You were made to leave your job, forced to convert to Islam, made confined to four corners of the home, asked to put on burka to go out in the world, asked to cut off from the world by terminating Facebook, removed from all your Hindu friends and minimized visits to Hindu parents. All these imposed on you so you could be easily brain-washed to Islam. Soon, you will be taken away this internet privileged too because it will hinder them from brain-washing you. Now you would be taught that only Islam is a true religion while Christianity and Hinduism are false. All non-Muslims including your parents and Hindu relatives will get Hell fire on the Judgment Day. Will be asked to recite all these bolded statements out of the Koran every day. Will be taught that Hindu Gods and Christian cross are idols while Kaaba stoned cube is not! One day, your boys will go out looking for Akanshas to convert to Nusrats. With your help, one day India will become majority Muslim country like peaceful(!) Pakistan, Afganistan, Iraq, syria and any left over Hindus will be driven out (like happened in BanglaDesh and Pakistan) of India. Are all these acts/thinkings logical?
Remember, this world is moving towards liberty, freedom and justice for all, while you are being taken to exactly to opposite direction. We hope you don’t loose your critical thinking power. We hope you don’t go brain dead. Keep in touch!
dear admin, so you mean that christianity is mush mush BETTER than hinduism
Every one has rights to be proud of their faith. Faith is not a race to win. There is no religion is superior to other. Be a pluralist (but you will not understand what that mean).
Dear Admin, sorry if my comments hurted you, my intention was not to hurt anyone, anyway, teach me what is `pluralist`
View our video or google search. People in the West like such all inclusivist philosophy (not a closed minded religious thinking that there is only one way and that is mine!). It will take you time to sink in your mind, but we hope in next 20 years, it will.
As Salam Alaikum,
Your marriage was invalid initially according to the tenants of Islam( before you went for Nikah). Till the period you didn’t accept Islam and did the Nikah , its considered illegal intercourse (Zina) and if hudood( maximum) punishment is applied your husband is punishable by death in a shariah court .
Islam doesnt recognize man made laws which in your case is SMA (special marriage act),so your case can only be contested in local Indian courts. Also as you said that you were forced to convert as a muslim , which again is considered illegal in Islam given that you “are and were” a free woman and Islam strictly prohibits it .
This can be clearly seen from the verses below.
“ There is no compulsion in religion…” (Qur’an, 2:256)
“Had your Lord wanted, all the people on earth would have believed. So will you force people to believe?” (Qur’an, 10:99)
“So warn them: your only task is to warn, you’re not supposed to force them.” (Qur’an, 88:21-22)
“He does not forbid you to deal kindly and justly with anyone who has not fought you for your faith and driven you out of your homes, God loves the just.” (Qur’an, 60:8)
So if you want you can contest your case in indian court freely and your in laws can be considered as secondary offender in abetting the crime .
Choice is Yours.
Nusrat,
Quamar Nadim is right that you committed two major sins worth death penalty. What would you now?
You will find there is a big difference between Hinduism and Islam.
In Hinduism there are multiple choices and freedom. You could pray by meditation (no images necessary), do social work (karma yoga) and/or do murti pooja (bhakti yoga). Furhter, you could see God as form-less or in any number of forms as you please. May be you found it confusing. Now you have a chance to compare Hinduism to Islam. Islam is very regimented with lots of restrictions and severe punishments all over, especially for women. Every step of life, people will come and tell you what you should do and what not (like you are a 2 year old baby or a person with an IQ of 90). Still you will not be able to please others. Are you being taken away from year 2014 to year 0619? May be you are enjoying all restrictions. May be following orders from mother-in-law was your life dream.
Pluralism (as in Hinduism) and exclusivism (in Islam) are two different ways of following God. One is very open minded and all-inclusive thinking while the other is only one way and that is carved in stone. One may relate it to an American democracy verses China and Saudi Arabia’s communist/totalitarian regimen. You may find in news on American president’s impeachment efforts, some rape cases here and there, shootings in school, etc. It looks like a state of confusion and anarchy. On the other side, every thing is in order in China and Saudi Arabia. The other way to look is all those bad news are suppressed by the state government and people’s hand being cut for a small mistake. There are pluses and minuses in each of them. It is up to you to decide what type of life you wish to live, restrictions or freedom!
errrr , Admin you are twisting my words . Its not she but her husband who committed sin and is liable to get punished according to Shariah rules( if she contests it). And i pointed this out on the ground that she said that she has been “coerced” to accept Islam , which islam denounces categorically.
So dont mince the words . Be truthful in your approach and come up with a clear cut solution rather than using this platform to promote your religion i.e “Hinduism” or change this deceptive name of your site if what you did here is the norm .Pathetic ,man seriously . We can’t even expect an ounce of sincerity from people like you .
As for her, if she is so hurt by her husband and her in laws mentally , she can drag them to court and seek divorce . Honorable court would be more than happy to dissolve the marriage on aforesaid ground . And if she is happy with her present situation , then she shouldnt be washing her husband’s dirty linen publicly and sharing details with strangers.
Dear Brother Quamar Nadim, Don`t be judgmental on islam, islam is not a one way religion, if you study hadith then you will find many sayings of mohammad pbuh which at first glance will look contradictory to quran, but it is not, so don`t say her husband commited jina/fornication as they married as per rule of that country and ISLAM teaches us to abide by rules and regulation of the country that we live in .
Ya, it could have been zina if they weren`t marrried, but they were married, and allah swt knows best, so don`t be judgemental without understanding her situation. But you are right, the admin of this group is master in twisting words, the admin couldn`t post a single logical topic, all he/she has done is twisting,twisting and this is what antiislamist do, they twist, have you seen how admin twisted quranic verses in “quran on hindus”, admin my request, please don`t twist my words of this “Respond”
By “You” we meant the couple or the family, but thanks for clarifying. Actually we had already bolded “your husband is punishable by death” so you are right. Now you and mac have to come to a conclusion if this is a true statement.
dear admin, also admit it that in hinduism there is NO PUNISHMENT FOR A RAPIST WHERE AS IN ISLAM A RAPIST IS AWARDED DEATH
Remind us for how a woman can prove the rape. How many male and female witnesses she needs. We are waiting to get educated.
This is a very SAD situation for a wonderful nice young girl.
Here innocent Akansha got married in a court to her lover but immediately was “unwillingly” converted to Islam, given a new Muslim name, was forced to quit her job, Facebook privileges were taken away, probably asked to minimize visits to her parents who gave her birth and educated, has to go under burka cover, separated from all her relatives and friends, ….. and still Nusrat is trying her best to please the host family by being most submissive. Still this religious fanatic comes here and talks about punishments of death penalty to her loving husband and divorce. It must be very heart breaking for Nusrat to hear such accusations. Quamar Nadim, why don’t you go and teach all these laws to Saif Ali Khan and Shah Rukh Khan? Leave this poor girl along, ok?
What is Akansha’s fault? Why she deserves so much pain, suffering and accusations?
To all Hindu girls, BEFORE getting into love with a Muslim, first decide if ISLAM is acceptable to you or not. Further, are you willing to live life of Nusrat? If Islam is not acceptable to you, never date a Muslim. If you are not sure what we mean, ask Nusrat.
Admin
you need not to feel sorry , If Iam not feeling .
Nusrat, we are glad if things worked out OK for you for now, however we need to educate other girls to make fully “informed” decision for their life. After it, it is up to them to decide for their life. Have you watched the video we prepared? What are your views on the message there?
Nusrat, If you had self respect and self pride, you would not been converted. Why, for love, a Muslim can not be Hindu? Because their love for religion is above all but Hindus are just opposite. If your husband loves you so much, tell him to convert his ancestor Hindu religion and see the reaction. It is not love but love Jihad.
Admin
after Ramzan , I have come very closer to islam and started to follow it from my heart .Also my family removed all restriction and imposition they did whether it was praying five times , going to islamic seminary or wearing hijab and abaya ..
but I have started to doing it myself ,Now I pray five times , read quran and hadith daily ,wear veil or hijab when go outside also left islamic seminary ,I think I learnt a lot from there good things .Iam trying to do all things what is prescribed in islam to do for woman as duty
yes on 20th june I said that , but its all changed ,Iam a muslim by heart now and will remain till my last breath and mind I have no prejudice against any one or any faith
may allah bless us all.
Dear Sister Nusrat, keep active on this site and seems like allah has opened your heart, allah(swt) will open anybodies heart if he/she is willing to open
Also watch this [ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiFT66H8Emk ]
and tell us what lies you have learned about islam from this anti-islamic pro hindu site
Thanks bro mac for appreciation ….
I feel that this site should be a little impartial .. why point out a single faith , judge and treat equally that what I feel .
You have shown all the signs of a cult victim from non-acceptance to slowly being indoctrinated into the system to complete submission. You’ve jumped from an ocean into a pond- what else to say
Good to hear all these, best wishes.
Tell us more about your dating time. What did your then Muslim boy friend said about converting to Islam? What did he disclose you about expectations at his home for you to convert? Why did you got married in a court, instead of a nikaah then?
Admin
my Hubby never asked prior or after marriage , it was my mother in law who wanted me to revert
There was no plan of any reversion ,but I was well aware that it won’t be easy to live in a muslim family , thought that somehow will manage without conversion but it was failed miserably and in the end gave up
but now pretty well settled and practicing my new faith and hence to do in future..in sha allah
While dating, why do you wanted to remain Hindu? Did you (then) boy friend explain about her mother and potential need to convert in their home? Did you met your future mother-in-law before your court marriage?
The reason we are asking, as we said in the our VIDEO, all Muslim boys in colleges pose as secular and pluralist to their Hindu girl friends but after marriage the truth is exactly opposite (under what ever excuse like it is my mother and not me). If the Hindu girl don’t give in, beating and ultimately talaak are only options in most cases.
Hindu girls, while dating to a Muslim, should understand all these, …. do you agree? It is their own choice, but they have to make “informed” decision, that is what we are saying.
in the beginning there was nothing about religion between us .Yes I was quite aware about the problem but not of conversion .
None of us met our parents neither mine nor him .I just met sister of my hubby twice or thrice .
Well I feel most of hindus are particularly not aware about their religion well , so they are easily reverted and once you are in complete muslim environment it’s almost impossible to upkeep yourself and hence have to revert sooner or later .I say almost 99.9 % reverts to islam if they marry a muslim
As of Now I don’t have any issue with being a muslim and we are planning a hajj next year
why don’t you open a facebook page , you will reach to more person than having a website and both will do excellent job
What do you mean by “I was quite aware about the problem.. “. What problem that you knew? Now what is the truth you learned?
We wish you came to this site during your dating time for not being aware of “but not of conversion”. All (most) Muslims mean conversion, conversion and conversion. Absolute no tolerance for others in Islam. If the girl don’t be submissive to their demands, beating, … and if that does not work taalak a sure way. We could saw you so many cases right on this site. You are a submissive and no self pride type of person so good for them.
Lets say hypothetically you decided not to “unwillingly” convert to Islam after your marriage? What would have happened to you by now?
There is just so much we wish to talk to you. Injustice in the name of God is giving us so much pain. Nusrat, our heart is crying! We spend our own money for this non-profit forum, because we wish to stop innocent girls getting trapped to expand certain religions. Please come to educate other innocent girls (like you already did, thanks).
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Dear sister Nusrat, this few links for you, it will help you to learn more about islam
https://www.facebook.com/TheDeenShowTV
http://www.thedeenshow.com/
https://www.facebook.com/womeninislam786
https://www.facebook.com/WomenRightsInIslam
https://www.facebook.com/GlobalMuslimWomen
https://www.facebook.com/womeninislam
This one is for you specially https://www.facebook.com/MyRevertStory
LIKE these pages to get regular updates
Dear Sister, Have you visited those page, did you liked those pages
Dear Sister Nusrat, Have you visited those page, did you liked those pages
Mac ..
Long ago I have visited those pages but thanks again for your concern ..
May allah keep blessing you always
Nusrat, it is nothing new. If a tiger lives among jackals, it become a jackal. Really I feel pitty for you and your parents.
admin now you brought india pakistan to this topic “In Mumbai, on 29 November 2008, Muslim exclusivists killed 164 people and wounding at least 308. What did India do in return? Was not doing anything a good move on India’s part? If India sent their fighter planes to bomb Pakistan, India would be economically more prosperous today”” those muslims excluvist that you are mentioning here also killed muslims so it is clear that they were not muslims as
Volume 9, Book 88, Number 197:
Narrated ‘Abdullah:
The Prophet, said, “Abusing a Muslim is Fusuq (evil doing) and killing him is Kufr (disbelief).”
did they said they were doing it for islam,
and your this comments again proved that you are hypocites because you only claim that you are humanist,tollerant but your words says the opposite “If India sent their fighter planes to bomb Pakistan, India would be economically more prosperous today”” that means you are saying what israel is doing to the native people of palestine is godd, thats why the israelitis are prosperous as they are killing and bombing muslims childrens and youths in palestine, killing childrens in school, UN relief center, pregnent women in hospitals
Truth has been revealed again
Again, you don’t know how to read. The other way to read is… In long run, Israel would have been financially better off not fighting and likewise, India saved all those cost of war and is little more prosperous today.
admin ““If India sent their fighter planes to bomb Pakistan, India would be economically more prosperous today”” then you learn to use this signs ?,!,…etc to explain what you are trying to say, read your comment ““If India sent their fighter planes to bomb Pakistan, India would be economically more prosperous today” and what it means
mac, pay attention to details.
“?” are placed here .. https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7828&cpage=1#comment-323749
Above discussion starts with “The other way to read is…”. This does not mean this is the way we wished to see.
admin and others , you people FAILED to put forward a single goodness of HINDUISM over ISLAM
and admin you said i am a man of book, okay, then why you made a blog “koran on hindus” quoting some outof context line about war against pagans of mecca who first attacked muslims, no where in kuran the word hindu is mentioned and you attached hindus in koran, where you found the word hindu in kuran
The same thing one could say other way around that you have not put forward a single good point in Islam over Hinduism. You have written about 400 comments and we have not found a single such point, why we expect you will show us in the future?
This Koran on Hindu? have a “?’ in the end. It is for Hindu readers or interfaith readers have to sit down together and discuss what each of them means to their married life. It is up to them to decide, not you or us.
So you accepted the fact that you FAILED to give a single goodness of hinduism over islam
Tell us who FAILED or WON in Islarel-Hamas conflict? Tell us those stones of Palestinians or bombs of Israel won? This world is for every one. The exclusivist teachings like what you have learned is the problem of this world. Be a pluralist, learn something good from Hinduism. Live and let other live (probably you will not know what that mean!).
look another TERRORIST caught, he/she is admin of this group who is supporting israel, only declared terrorists natilon in the world who killed 1,800 innocent children and women recently
please tell me any GOOD things of hinduism over ISLAM, I am asking again and again, if this time you cannot give any single goodness then it will mean that hinduism has no goodness over islam
Mac, your exclusivist mind reads what it wants to. We believe both should learn (like Hinduism) pluralism and come to a negotiation table. Otherwise, both are losers.
In Mumbai, on 29 November 2008, Muslim exclusivists killed 164 people and wounding at least 308. What did India do in return? Was not doing anything a good move on India’s part? If India sent their fighter planes to bomb Pakistan, India would be economically more prosperous today?
For you, religion is a must win game (exclusivist). Learn from Hinduism, if nothing else, teaching of pluralism and tolerance (Ekam sad vipra bshuda vadanti -Rigveda 1.164.46).
Let us repeat, answer to your question, “give any single goodness”, is “pluralism and tolerance”. Live and let others live.
dear admin
///For you, kaaba is holy while for someone else wood-cross or Krishna’s murti is holy. It is not that stone cube, wood sticks or a marble statue that people worship but to God through a medium. /// I know kaba is holy for us where as cross or krsihna`s murti is holy for others, and there is truth, krishna`s `murti`, ha ha ha that means hindus are idolators,musrik and about cross, no where in bible it is mentioned that cross is holy, and the question was about both muslims and hindus are idolators that you said in your previous question, but i have proved that kaba is not idol it is a mosque,and thats it, why you are saying this to me that kaba is holy for muslims and krishna`s murti or wood-cross is holy for others, you always ask me foolish question and when i reply you again give irrelevant answers.
look admin, [We respect you as an intelligent and honest person. However, you have to realize that this forum is not a place to convince others to your faith or your close minded ideology. ]
I know this site is not faith spreading site, then why so many hindus commented against islam, even you can trace my first comment on this site where my comment was reply to a hindu who used abusive words against islam, so first tell them who write against islam.
okay, admin, please tell me any single good thing in hinduism OVER islam, please!!!!
Mac, you are a man of book. To your point, “no where in bible it is mentioned that cross is holy”, just go to any Catholic church and see what people do. As per book, Jesus is Son of God, however many Indians (including Christians) refer Jesus as God. People don’t run their life based on “book”, like you do.
To your second point, “please tell me any single good thing in hinduism OVER islam”, we are not here promoting Hinduism. Before we reply, first please tell us any single good thing in islam OVER hinduism? What … the book, restrictions to follow book, “only I have God and others are fake”, Kaaba, Muhammad and J-Dream-Day … are characteristics of Islam? First start 5-times namaz a day and be a real Muslim then we will talk.
admin, for non-catholics or early syrian christians catholics are not christians LOL
so you people could not give me a single good things of hinduism over islam, now are you ready to get good things of islam over hinduism with references, ya i will give reference , are you ready
What do you mean by “non-catholics or early syrian christians catholics are not christians”?
christinas who are not catholics don`t consider catholics as christians, they say catholics are different religion
syrian christinas are one of the early chritians, it is in syria first church was built
Dear admin
replying mac on behalf of u
good things of hindu belief
hindus believe in equality. They believed all paths lead to one god.
Sanatan dharma(hindu) is pure science. As u sow so u reap.when prayers are offered in any temple the first verse is peace for all living entity in this world. We believed cow as sacred because of its service to humsnity
milk is next to mothers milk for childrens . there ar
e 21 patents with medical companies which make their medicines from cows urine. Scientist accept when cowdung burnt with gheee release s
oxygen in the air.so hindus are eco friendly.and also many trees are considered sacred for their qualities and someway attached to some diety.example tulsi neem peeple trees.so hindu culture respects nature.women are considered next
Women are considers as gods in hindu like parvathy durga saradwati
lakshmi. Women are known as better half of man in hindu.she is givrn equal importance.we pray monkey god lord hanuman be cause hes son of god.the bridge built by monkeys for lord rama is still a mystery to the world.they are floating till today.u can go to rameshwaren and check it out.hindu vedas gsve immense knowledge to world.thr number zero infinity pie .astronomy and cosmic knowledge is available in vedas 1000s of years ago.india ahindu nation is the most peaceful place in the world run by hindu people.all faith are being preached here.show me anothet place where all culture is so diversified. Because hindu believe all path lead to one god every religion is welcomed hindud believe mata pita guru deviam which mother father teacher are god. Ayurveda is from hindu beliefs.yoga is from hindu belief.most of scientist use to read bhagwad gita everyday and got their solution from there.google it .most of the
stress buster classes have taken their knowledge from vedas.
Akanksha, You should come back to your parents and return back to your ancestor’s religion which is a great religion. Leave the religion of uncilised Arabian tribes which is giving birth of terror , all over the world. Most of the people hate it. Why you are embracing it ? Rather ask your husband to return to Hinduism which is the religion of his ancestors.
give me any single good things of hinduism over islam, can you?
Good point, both are idol-worshippers. Hindus have many idols in their temple. Muslims have Kaaba. Further, Muslims idolize Muhammad every step of their life.
BTW, Akansha is forced converted to Islam, that was not her first choice. She is trapped into doing something against her wishes. This is very sad!
ha ha ha admin you again showed your COW level IQ, and what more to expect from a person who belongs from a religion who thinks cow,monkeys are god, heeeee heeee haaa
okay coming to your point, have you heard any muslim saying that he is praying to mohammad, have you seen any muslim saying kabba is god, we follow the footsteps of mohammad don`t worship him, do you know the meaning of mushrik? we not only follow the teachings of mohammad bt also the teachings of mohammad ,jesus,moses and other prohpets
have you seen any muslim praying to an idol
do you have any knwoledge about image,idol
kaba is a mosque not a idol, admin you are literate bt from your comments it doesn`t looks like you are educated
and why you are saying this to me “”BTW, Akansha is forced converted to Islam, that was not her first choice. She is trapped into doing something against her wishes. This is very sad!””” did i support akansha`s force conversion,answer me, don`t flee away
and I asked every one to tell me any good things of hinduism over islam, your answer seems that you don`t have any,he he he !!!!!
woo thats why thousands of hindus convert to islam and christianity every year, now i got the reason
Mac,
For you, kaaba is holy while for someone else wood-cross or Krishna’s murti is holy. It is not that stone cube, wood sticks or a marble statue that people worship but to God through a medium.
We respect you as an intelligent and honest person. However, you have to realize that this forum is not a place to convince others to your faith or your close minded ideology.
You have not shown us anything that helped change our opinion about Islam; not even 1%. Likewise, it does not make any sense we try to promote some other faith or try to prove that XYZ faith is better than Islam.
For you, Islam is every thing. If it works for you, we are happy for you. However, we are concern that some bad guy could make you a radical some day in name of Islam. For this reason, we wanted to talk to your mom.
This world is the way Allah has planned (with 4 billion non-Muslim in it), enjoy it. We need to love and respect each other’s faith and belief. We fully trust that one day, you will also be like Mr. Hai. Keep in touch!
Islam ? Is it a religion of civilised people ? Islam is the religion of uncivilised , uneducated Arabian tribes. See their terrorist behaviour alover the world. Hinduism is the religion of civilised people of ancient India, who are your ancestors also. Islam is the religion which you have to follow but realising it is not required. Hinduism is the religion you have to realise but it may not be required to follow. If you don’t follow Hinduism, you may remain as Hindu. What a freedom , Hinduism offers. It is beyond your imagination. Hinduism is unique and nothing can be compared with it.
Admin your comment “What comes to your mind when they idolize and glorify Muhammad every second, like someone next to God!”” we don`t idoloze mohammad(pbuh), we only folloe the teachings of mohammad how to be closer to god, idolizing and following teachings is different, we don`t pray to mohammad, we pray to allah and we also pray to allah to keep mohamamd(pbuh) and all other messenger like jesus,moses,noah,abraham(pbupon all of them) in peace, thats it.
Gud Night
Why peace not be on Buddha and Guru Nanakji? Why Shahadah has Muhammad stuck into it, is Shahadah not only about the God? Why not add a list of apostles along with the first part of Shahadah?
Admin , good questioon “Why peace not be on Buddha and Guru Nanakji? Why Shahadah has Muhammad stuck into it, is Shahadah not only about the God? Why not add a list of apostles along with the first part of Shahadah?”” so tell me do buddhists call gautam buddha as prohpet of their religion, they call him as god , so what can we do, do sikhs call guru nanak as messenger of god, but still islam respect those people as allah said in qu`ran ” i hav sent many messenger to mankind, i hav sent messenger to each and every part of world, but their people either lost it or corrupted ir(actully satan influenced them to dos so) jesus was sent was the last messenger for a particular location(israel) and jesus said too that another prohpet will come and he will teach you and guide you, mohammad was sent for entire human kind, yes when an christian convert he/she used to say botj about mohamamd and jesus, when jew convert they say moses,jesus,mohammad was messenger of god, and when we say peace be upon all of them it includes all 1024000 prohpets or messenger of god,. study islam with open mind, you will find that it is the only rational religion and you will find that what you think abt islam from terrorists are not the same what islam emphasises on.
We don’t find any rationality following irrational harsh words on non-Muslims in the Koran.
Ha ha ha no rational words in qu`ran, have you ever read qu`ran, if you have read then you wouldn`t have asked me this question
Admin ur comment “What goes in your mind when you bow five times a day to Saudi Arabia? Is it any more that good exercise for your back?” we dont pray considereing saudi arabia, it is just a direction, kabba is kept as direction to avoid religios conflict coz islam is sensitive religion(see shia, sunni , are now enemy, they are now killing each others but conflict started from a very small issue), when we pray we only think of allah, that we are praying to allah, when we bow(shadah) , at that time we bow to allah not saudi arabia, saudi arania has no palce in namaz, if any one prays in the opposite direction his namz will also be accepted
Lets see what Nusrat have to say.
if mohammad(pbuh) was not ordered to fight against unbelievers then mohammad would have been killed in the same way, but the difference is jews killed jesus later where as pagans of meccan attacked mohammaed at initial stage
admin i hav explaied this line “We also read the Koran and found very disturbing statements into it, can you ask your imam for all those bolded statement and explain us why God HERSELF is saying so?” you may not have read it, again i m summarising those line, jesus was killed by jews adn thats why allah ordered to fight against meccan pagans(unbelievers) as those pagans attacked mohammad(pbuh) first, learn the history of islam first
Nusrat,
Now you are learning Koran from experts and you are being Islamized (even started unwillingly). We also read the Koran and found very disturbing statements into it, can you ask your imam for all those bolded statement and explain us why God HERSELF is saying so?
Admin, you decide whether they were mushrik or not, but as far my knowledge Mahatma Gandhi was against mushrik as he was educated abroad
This is how a person can be mushrik according to three great religion
Exodus 20:2-5
New International Version (NIV)
2 “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
3 “You shall have no other gods before[a] me.
4 “You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. 5 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me,
Al-Qu`ran 4:48
Indeed, Allah does not forgive association with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And he who associates others with Allah has certainly fabricated a tremendous sin.
[Yajurveda 40:9] “Andhatama pravishanti ye asambhuti mupaste” which means “They enter darkness, those who worship the natural elements” (Air, Water, Fire, etc.). “They sink deeper in darkness, those who worship sambhuti” **** Sambhuti means created things like table, chair, idol, etc.
Now you decide whom will the creator known by various names such as allah,bhagwan,god,etc reward
Mahatma Gandhi loved and prayed to Lord Krishna. He respected others, however he was certainly a proud Hindu (not a Muslim for sure; actually made his son to revert back to Hinduism from Islam). So, are you saying he was “against mushrik” and will (potentially) go to heaven?
Same way, Mother Teresa was Jesus (the Son of God) lover, and will (potentially) go to heaven (even she was not a Muslim and never took shahadah).
It is great to learn that one could be believer in Krishna and Jesus and still (potentially) make it to heaven. This is good that your karma counts, and one don’t have to be a Muslim or be a Muhammad believer. Is that what are you telling us?
Admin, you judge whether Mahatma Gandhi will enter darkness or not according to sacred VIDAS
[Yajurveda 40:9] “Andhatama pravishanti ye asambhuti mupaste” which means “They enter darkness, those who worship the natural elements” (Air, Water, Fire, etc.). “They sink deeper in darkness, those who worship sambhuti” **** Sambhuti means created things like table, chair, idol, etc.
mac,
You came like a LION to this site but now running away like a CHICKEN from telling us the truth.
Let us ask you again …. Mahatma Gandhi who loved Krishna and made his son, Harilal Mohandas Gandhi (former Abdullah Gandhi), revert back to Hinduism from Islam, will Mahatma Gandhi go to heaven or hell? Will Jesus believer (not Muhammad believer) Mother Teresa (a Christian nun) go heaven or hell? We are waiting for your clear answer.
As far we are concerned, there is no proven truth for the Judgment day or darkness. It’s all one’s faith and be happy with it (even there is no truth to it). However, before telling others will go to hell, think twice.
agian you are asking me, according to islam a mushrik cannot get fregnance of heaven and according to vedas a mushrik is entering darkness, so you decide
Mac,
Why are you so shy? Speak up! You have been so bold so far, why are you hiding from speaking truth from your heart and mind?
You said earlier, “as far my knowledge Mahatma Gandhi was against mushrik as he was educated abroad”. Do you still believe that today? Let us repeat again … was Gandhi a mushrik and will go to hell …OR… he did good karma and thus should go to heaven (even he made his son revert back to Hinduism)?
Nusrat,
We have not heard from you in a while, we hope you are doing well and hope you are still meeting your parents every week.
We wish to learn Islam along with you. We have read Koran and found it very easy to understand. There is a very simple concept about One God and it teaches us to do good work without expecting glories. However, we found it disturbing that it does not say good things for Christians and Jews. For Hindus (non-believers in Allah) there are stern punishments mentioned (read Madiha) in every paragraph, why? Why good people like Mahatma Gandhi and Mother Teresa will get Hell Fire? Please take select bolded verses from Koran on Hindus? and ask your mother-in-law for explanations. Keep in touch!
admin kur`an came to be completed in around 23 years and you qouted the lines from first portion of kur`an which means earlier messages of allah to mohammad(pbuh), your firt quotation(2:191) is from second chapter, verse 91, your second quotations is from chapter 4 , verse 91 and your third quotation is from chapter 9 verse 5 but glorious kur`an has 114 chapter. when mohammad(peace be upon him) started preaching about one god , his tribes who were idol worshippers denied him and tried to kill him, mohammad(pbuh) then escaped from mecca and went to medina and there he started getting some people who started accepting one god ideology and then meccan(pagans) started war with mohammad(pbuh) and then allah(sa) said to mohammad to kill enemy coz if mohammad until enemy ceases to be threat and also allah(sa) said that remember when enemy ceases to be threat stop fighting and pardon and co operate with them.
Admin look chapter 1,2,3,4,5,6 of qur`an and chapter 107,108,109,110,..114 has vast year difference, approx. 20 years, so 20 years before when mohammad(pbuh) started to preach about one god concept at that time idol worshipper of mecca denied him and kept a bounty on mohammad`s head and few people who accepted mohammad`s(pbuh) one god ideology were tortured and bitten up by idol worshippers of mecca, so mohammad went to medina and there he found some followers and thus started a war between mecca and medina and thus allah said to mohammad(pbuh) to fight against enemies(idol worshippers). Thats it.
Chapter(sura) 109 -Al Kafirun (Those Who Reject Faith):::: Bis mis lahi rah maaanir rahiim(In the name of Allah , Most
Gracious , Most Merciful), quliaaaa aeual ka-feruuuun(Say, “O disbelievers), la aa bodu maa ta budun(I worship not that you worship), ollaaa antum aaa beduna maaaaa aaaaa buud (Nor will you worshippers that I worship) ollaaaaa ana aa beduumma abattum(and i shall not worship that you are worshipping) ollaaa antum aaa beduna maaa aaabud(nor will you worship that which i worship) lakuum deee lukum ualiaa deeeen(to you be your religion and to me my religion)
admin these are the ending lines of kur`an which tells us not to interfair others religion or those who worship other gods like kali,durga,shiv,etc etc. now tell where it tells us to kill others, and these are the suras which we recite every day in prayer that means we have to promise to allah every day that we will not interfair others religion. admin can you give me such lines from bible,vedas,gita,torah which tells to respect others religion.
and that veda and gita even don`t respect hindus too, it is loaded with hatree towards lower caste especially dalit and women.
BIBLE :- You must kill and destroy those who worship another( god)[Exodus 22:20]
QUR`AN :- Be righteous and act justly towards those who worship another(god),Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly.[60:8]
Mohammad(pbuh) said if any muslim kills any innocent non-muslim then in yhe judgement day mohammad(peace be upon him) will take side of non-muslim, now is there any religion which tells such rartional and secular views towards others.
Admin why you always ask this question that “Why good people like Mahatma Gandhi and Mother Teresa will get Hell Fire?” is there any line in qur`an which tells us that good people will get hell fire.
Surely those who believe, and those who are Jews, and the Christians, and the Sabians, whoever believes in Allah and the Last day and does good, they shall have their reward from their Lord, and there is no fear for them, nor shall they grieve.[QUR`AN ]
the line ” whoever believes in Allah and the last day and does good, they shall have their reward from their lord” which means if mahamta gandhi and mother teresa did good things for huminity they will surely get their reward from god, then why you always say that will mother teresa , mahatma gandhi get hell fire and why don`t you mention abt bible which tells that jesus christ is the ONLY way to get salvation and bible also tells to kill others who worship another god and abt jews they don`t believe in j-day coz they think they are the only choosen people on planet earth and after death they will directly go to heaven with out judgement whereas christians say that in j-day jesus christ will cleanse their sins with his blood but we muslims say that every soul will go throw j-day and those irrespective of their religion who did good things on yhis earth will go to heaven and those who did more sins will go to hell and after getting their amount of punishments for their bad deeds they will also be trasnferred to heaven(except mushrik), so tell me which concept is more rational, jews who bellieves that they will not be judge or christians who beleives only they will enter paradise as jesus christ will wash their sins or muslims who beleieves that every soul will go through judgement for their deeds on earth.
Hi Mac,
Can you confirm Koranic teaching, “mahamta gandhi and mother teresa did good things for huminity they will surely get their reward from god”, is that true? Yes, they respected Muhammad but, as you know it well, Gandhi loved Krishna and Teresa prayed to Jesus as Son of Allah. So, are you saying their good deeds are good enough, they don’t have to be Muslims to enter in heaven?
We are only asking your belief and understanding (since only Allah knows the truth) based on what you learned so far. Please confirm.
mac, can you please clarify?
allah knows best, but according to bhagwan in vedas, god in bible, allah in qu’ran those who are mushrik will enter darkness(according to vedas) , hell (according to bible , qu’ran)
Mac, you have not answered the question.
Let us ask you other way. Knowing Gandhi and Teresa, are they mushrik?
Hi admin ..
Iam not learning islam to become scholar , just keeping it casually for a better flow of life .Iam absolutely doing great no problems at my end
meeting my parents regulary ..sorry for being not in touch
here it found there is more interfaith bashing than talking on several issue ,so I prefer to remain silent . ..
I neither have problem with my earlier faith or the recent
Nusrat,
We miss you and thanks for keeping in touch. We are very happy that you are also in touch with your parents and meeting them routinely (that has nothing to do with Islam). You should also meet all your Hindu former friends and mingle with them. Even mac and your imam may say all Hindus are sinners, you know that is not true.
Do not be bothered with religious bashing, let dogs bark, but you remain well composed and reply. Actaully, it is a good training for people in love because they will face it after getting married, so might as well get used to it.
Nusrat, life is long, so we will be waiting right here to hear from you.
You have also obligation to guide other youths, when ever you could do, thanks.
tell ur husband and his family that force conversion to islam is haram(not allowed) and it is a sinful act, my advice is that u read kur`an in your own way and if you understand and wish to be muslim then okay otherwise tell his family that what you are doing is wrong according to islam and as you told that you love him so you can`t leave him, then convince your husband to live in seperately from his idiot family if possibe, again telling you that force conversion to islam is forbidden and all muslim romeo must know this
Great advise, mac.
Mac
My spouse is Mamma’s boy won’t leave at her any cost ,unfortunately it’s over for me Iam muslim now , and will be for whole life
Iam just practising islam not in extreme but in my own way ,just to follow family attiquates , i have to wear hijab abaya , adopt muslim name and getting some education in islamic seminary
A small price paid to be with love …
feel sorru for u, but tell me do you love islam or is it forcefully impode on you
I don’t have any attachment for any faith ….Iam just practicing islam casually, no problem just ok
but practising islam forcefully is a sin, it is written qu`ran that there must not be any compulsion in religion, my question was do you love islam or not, if not, then tell your in laws that in islam you cannot force religion , even acodring to hadith, a muslim kids shoul learn islam after maturatity, tell them not play games with allah`s religion, even they will suffer for that after their death
Nusrat,
Islam has been stuffed in your throat by this Muslim family. You married by the Special Marriage Act to avoid religious conflict and to remain neutral, that we honor it. However, those Muslims cannot tolerate Non-Muslims and forced converted you to Islam. So you FAKE-converted, that all.
What goes in your mind when you bow five times a day to Saudi Arabia? Is it any more that good exercise for your back?
What comes to your mind when they idolize and glorify Muhammad every second, like someone next to God!
What do you think of the Judgment Day, that guy like mac are confident and proud about it (like they got a ticket to heaven, not other non-Muslims)?
Leaving fore fathers religion and culture is not a small thing. Ican not leave my ancestor’s culture at any cost. I had to leave my country , house, properties and all other things but did not leave the religion as it is the great religion of our civilised ancestors..
What more Akanksha ? Your descendents will be terrorist and kill Hindus . This is the lesson of history. Why don’t you return back to your great root followed by your ancestors ?
Iam quite fed-up of this kind of premonition here what you are saying regarding coming back to roots , I won’t be coming back now any how because some where I am settled in my muslim identity and finding peace as muslim now. Even I get seperated, I won’t leave islam its now my identity as well as faith.
Nusrat, we respect for what ever works for you, but we are curious. On June 20, you said “I don’t have any attachment for any faith ….I am just practicing Islam casually”, do you feel differently now OR are you still feeling the same thing?
Dear Sister Nusrat, nice to hear that you accepted islam by heart, hope almighty rewards you in abundance
It appears to me both Nusrat and Geet will face cultural shocks after marrying in a religion of intolerance,restriction in various aspects of life and face abusive behaviour from their husbands who were very polite and understandable before marriage.
Throughout their rest of life they will repent on their immature decision to marry in a cruel and inhuman religion.
Let them face consequences of their own deeds.
geet..
say , what kind of help you need ??
Read my blog dear,
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7688
Nusrat,
Glad to hear from you. We understand if you are upset at some abusive words but keep in touch when you can.
We hope you are meeting your parents more often, they deserve company of their loving daughter.
OK ..I’ll try to be in touch
ofcourse Iam meeting my parents regularly now . . They are happy and me too happy , Now they don’t bother about my muslim identity
In life, you have to learn one principle, if you accept shit from others, you get lots more. Sometime, you have to learn to raise your head and say “enough is enough”.
We are very happy that you are meeting your mother often. This will give you strength to do that is right in life, otherwise, your mother-in-law will reduce your brain capacity to nothing.
comm’on admin get over it , don’t bother too much for me
I have settled down
Akansha/Nusrat must be in deep trouble after getting trapped for sex only by BF and her bad days have started and one day she will be thrown in a prostitute to lead a shameful and miserable life.
M a muslim girl too, by listening ur story akansha…I blv I can feel your position. ..
Your husband seems to b a nice man, bit modern too n in love with you, dnt blv he wil marry any1 else. ..even divorcin orally is nt that common anymore…
But what you have done with your own self is a pity…imagine ur kids wil suffer d cryelties of islam, wil b raised in a fmly who celbrate festvs aftr killng innocent animls by hands instd of colors, crackers, gifts!
Poor u , u hv jus added into d business of spreading islam…ur inlaws wld b v proud, nt fr ur nature or bhaviour bt bcz they hv cnvrtd a kafir n increased muslim popluatn…hey btw whn u read quran n hadiths, why dnt u browse d English conversion, u wil b shockd to learn that ur reading the books whch mostly toks abt killng, wars,fear of hell allah n everything related,! Peace b upon him?! The person who himself is responsible fr n himslf brags abt innumerable deaths n marriages wd multiple women n slaves too…n himslf started stoning,!!!!!
It is too sad that Akansha is (probably) not allowed to visit her own mother. She has visited her mom only once in last 9 months!!!!
The solution of islamic lies purely in women education, their analytical skill to differentiate the socalled islamic principles/practices against islamic evils.
Secondly,the women should form their social organisations to unity and solidarity and always try to strive hard to become self dependent and fight against evils through legal processes.Child marriage with elderly persons, mutta/halala practices should be opposed and should not hesitate to marry non muslim if they are competent and like minded without conversion.
Hi every one,
Until recently, because of a pervasive sexist and oppressive presentation of women in Islam, Muslim women often felt the only way to be liberated intellectually, socially, politically and economically was by abandoning Islam. There appears to be a growing movement of Islamist women who are demanding that the rights guaranteed by Islam must be applied in their communities. In addition, women are joining the ranks of Islamic scholars, thus providing alternative points of view to what has heretofore been addressed by men. Reviewing Islamic history from an egalitarian perspective, recalling contributions of Muslim women over the centuries, exploring current practices and laws and criticizing them from an Islamic point of view, examining texts as they pertain to women specifically are a few examples of some areas addressed by women scholars today.
Muslims today are facing great challenges from within and out. Oftentimes, calls for change are seen as tools of an outside power that is seeking to undermine the efforts of Islam and Muslims. Certain geopolitical realities lend credence to this view. However, the current desire for change on the part of Muslim women is perhaps more borne out of the fervent belief in the image of the Muslim woman as communicated by God in the Qur’an of a liberated, vital human being who can work in cooperation with men on many levels to contribute to the betterment of society. They seek to expose this concept which has been buried by the persistence of attitudes that focus on competition and subsequent subjugation of one sex over the other in direct conflict with the spirit of the Qur’anic verse:
Well said. so what are solutions are you proposing today?
Pakhi Begum,
You are shielding MM Haque, a self boasting person, indulged in various mutta marriages as accepted by him. Even his close friends have described his reality. May be you are his ex wife, married under mutta and left now.
Pakhi Begum,
Your identity here in this blog is not correct. Your statement that islam is peaceful religion, is totally false and ill motivated. Terrorism, zihad, fatwa, blasts, kidnapping, killing, murder, rape, polygamy, hatred, violence, intolerance, are the essentials of Islam.
Your quran is not the holy book but a criminal book against females, non muslims.
Purely and solely-the real motivation behind the terrorism (Islamic Jihad) is the teachings of Qur’an and Sunnah. Western politicians erroneously and perhaps ignorantly call it “evil or distorted ideology.” This is absolutely wrong statement by the politically correct western politicians. That ideology is nothing but the ideology of pure Islam, which are the holy teachings of the Qur’an. Therefore, Qur’an and Sunnah (prophetic instructions) are the true foundations of Islamic terrorism. Palestinian problems, wars of Iraq and Afghanistan etc. are only a plea to wage Islamic Jihad. Poverty or frustrations are not the cause of terrorism, because poverty and frustrations also exists amongst millions of poor people from other religions. Will any poor Hindu or a Buddhist bother to commit suicide to kill innocent Westerners?
We know conversion to other religion is a common phenomenon throughout the world. Many people convert to Islam or Christianity. But only Muslim converts turn into terrorists or Taliban. The Western born terrorists like John Walker Lindh, Zachariah Moussawi, Jose Padilla or James Uzzama etc. were converts and happened to be very pure and devout Muslims. If these guys were converted to Hinduism or Buddhism, they would never be the terrorists.
Poisonous tonic will cause poisonous effect whoever drinks it. Should we not analyze the tonic to determine the harmful ingredients, which causes the poisonous effects? Or should we start blaming those drinkers (instead of the tonic) for the ill effect of the tonic?
Likewise, whoever reads Qur’an and try to follow with its literal (verbatim) meanings, immediately becomes a bad human being (terrorist) for the society and for the nations. Wherever and whenever Islamic Shariaat (Laws of Qur’an and Sunnah) is being imposed, human misery ensues immediately. Is it not the time to analyze to determine exactly what causes this misery? Or, should we keep on blaming those hapless people who only try to follow the Qur’an and Sunnah with its literal instruction? Time has arrived to identify the real enemy of the Western civilization.
Western intelligence must not overlook ‘Mosques-Islamic centers-Madrashas’ connections to all Islamic terrorists in 100% time of their terrorists operation and success. If those ‘Mosques-Islamic centers-Madras’ are the so-called radicalized Islam then what is the real Islam? It’s true that all Muslims are not terrorists, but all terrorists are pure Muslims as per the Qur’an.
NO DOUBT YOUR ASSOCIATION WITH TERRORIST ORGANIZATION TO MEET THEIR SEXUAL REQUIREMENT FROM YOU ENDORSES YOUR VIEWS.
Hello Pakhi Begum,
Perhaps you are associate of a terrorst group like Al-Shabab, a Jihadi Islamist militia from Somalia in an attack, reminiscent of the Mumbai and Boston Marathon Massacres, on a Nairobi shopping mall in Kenya killed 59 and wounding 175. According to eye witnesses, al-Shabab Jihadists targeted only the non-Muslims by declaring: “All Muslims leave, we only want to kill non-Muslims!” Well, that’s exactly what Allah teaches Muslims in the Quran [48:29]: “…Those who follow him are harsh to the unbelievers but merciful to one another”
The killing was indiscriminate. They didn’t care about whom they murdered, whether women and children.
These murderous al-Shabab Jihadis are good, moral, moderate, pious Muslims following exactly the teachings of the Quran, like verse 3:151, “Soon shall We cast terror into the hearts of the Unbelievers”, and the Sunna of Prophet Muhammad, who committed many massacres, in which women and children also became the victims.
Muhammad, a brutal murderer, said it would be permissible to kill a child, who has no prospect of accepting Islam (Sahih Muslim 4457):
The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) used not to kill the children, so thou shouldst not kill them unless you could know what Khadir had known about the child he killed, or you could distinguish between a child who would grow up to he a believer (and a child who would grow up to be a non-believer), so that you killed the (prospective) non-believer and left the (prospective) believer aside.
After capturing Mecca, the prophet of Islam also ordered the execution of two “singing girls”, who had mocked him in their singing verses:
“…two singing-girls Fartana and her friend who used to sing satirical songs about the apostle, so he ordered that they should be killed…” (Ibn Ishaq/Hisham 819)
Hell on you.
Pakhi Begum,
Your statements are misleading and far from reality. In inslam, females are treated very badly, like female genital mutiliation, sex object, their testimony just half, even raped, she has to produce 4 witnesses to seek relief, mutta marriages, bleeding on wedding night to prove virginity and displaying bed sheets as honor symbol, burqa, male allowed to keep wives, halala practice, ARE YOU BLIND TO SEE ALL EVEILS,
MALES/TERRORISTS PRESENTED WITH 72 VIRGINS IN THE HEAVEN?
ISLAM IS KNOWN AS A EVIL RELIGION TO PROMOTE TERRORIST ACTIVITIES, BOMB BLASTS, KILLING RAPE, MURDER, KIDNAPPING.
Dear readers,
After marrying with Hindu guy, I find that my decision was really a best one. I find my other friends who married against their wishes with muslim guys are not happy and leading a miserable life. I have started worshipping as per hindu practices and glad to write really it is s religion that finds presence of almighty in every creation. It is an old religion based on moral values and kindness.
Puja (worship) of the gods consists of a range of ritual offerings and prayers typically performed either daily or on special days before an image of the deity, which may be in the form of a person or a symbol of the sacred presence. In its more developed forms, puja consists of a series of ritual stages beginning with personal purification and invocation of the god, followed by offerings of flowers, food, or other objects such as clothing, accompanied by fervent prayers.
Some dedicated worshipers perform these ceremonies daily at their home shrines; others travel to one or more temples to perform puja, alone or with the aid of temple priests who receive offerings and present these offerings to the gods. The gifts given to the gods become sacred through contact with their images or with their shrines, and may be received and used by worshipers as the grace (prasada) of the divine.
Sacred ash or saffron powder, for example, is often distributed after puja and smeared on the foreheads of devotees. In the absence of any of these ritual objects, however, puja may take the form of a simple prayer sent toward the image of the divine, and it is common to see people stop for a moment before roadside shrines to fold their hands and offer short invocations to the gods.
I am grateful to the almighty that he gave me an opportunity and strength to break the evil circle of islamic religion, atleast for me.
“Gulnar” or liar?
You are a born Hindu and still you remain as a Hindu whereas I was born as a Hind brahmin but willingly reverted to Islam only to be amazed to see the high status of Muslim women. I challenge you to show me or point out the “evil(s)” of the Muslim society. Why don’t you pray to your “almighty” to bless your husband with 1600 wives as your LOrd Krishna had more than 16000 wives apart from having extra marital affairs with Radha.
YOU ARE A HINDU. YOU WANT TO DEFAME ISLAM THE RELIGION OF PEACE.
Pakhi Begum
Pakhi Begum, Don,t say any thing about which you don,t know. Do you know that Lord Ksishna is the supreme power and Gopis are His devotees ? First learn and then comment. It is not like Islam, the religion of uncivilised Arabian tribes.
Dear Nusrat,
It has been a long since we have not heard from you and are concerned. Write us back.
hi admin
Iam very much fine and doing good , just because of abuses and bashing ..I don’t find it good to post anything here , thats why I didn’t posted any thing
Nusrat what is use of your education. According o your behavior r u really educated. You are in 22th century and u r wearing hijab r u educated. Leave islam come again in free life.
Education give u power to take good decision but u cant.
Muslim is a fake religion. There is no science in religion in hot of arab
muslim girls wearing black hijab. Muslim dont know what is sun what is other planet.
Muslim only becoming only terrorist under name of their god.
Muslim religion teaches kill who is good. Muslim kills cow with pride because cow is good animal.
Muslim can not do wrong with sun because it is hot. Means Muslim kill who is good.
Muslim destroying environment.
Muslims only passing wrong knowledge’s.
Hi nusrat! I came to know about so many things, after reading ur blog.
I am not so wise to give u advice. But as a friend jst wanna say one thing. Live ur life, stop expecting and start hoping for the best. According to me, no religion is good or bad but if u find somethings dat are not true according to u, then stop doing those things. U r also hindu,and now muslim, all these customs and religions are made by man.
It is very hard to tackle wd the situation you are in.
But start atleast take a try to enjoy life apart frm religion. Go outside , atleast pay a visit to your mom dad home, meet with friends, u r educated, we r in 22nd century, be in touch wd ur friends through internet. And the most important thing , dont forget , u r a woman, we females are used to b very powerful by birth. Stop taking any tension, start enjoying ur life, atleast take five minutes daily to make urself happy. And start doing meditation, it will help u a lot.
More on Geet at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7688
hi
geet , thanks for your beautiful and encouraging words ,will remember them always ..
every one has different situation in life and needs to be dealt with different acts
remember that all locks cannot be opened with one key
U r ryttt sister!!!
But pls dnt get down, u r educated, pls be optimist. u can tackle with any situation.
geet..
don’t worry .its just a phase and it will go ,iam absoluely fine with life
Feeling good to listen that.
But if i say about my situation, i can never do conversion, and this s the major problem behind me, and really dnt know wat to do.
My guy has no prblm with my hinduism but i dont know about his family ‘ reaction
WOMEN EDUCATION
Normally all parents tell their daughters to get good education because that could bring prosperity and more fun in life. Further, it will bring freedom and install self pride and dignity in a woman. With education, one could have chance to do more intellectual work in life while uneducated women end up working like a slave, most time in four corners of home.
Nusrat, probably that is what your parents had it in their minds. And you followed. Akansha was studious in college and did not go out with friends for fun. In the end, you got a job, even it is most difficult for many other ladies in India.
If Akansha kept working, in 10-20 years, probably Akansha would be making great money and respectable job position. Instead of that, what you see life of Nusrat after 10 years in terms of self pride, freedom, fun and doing intellectual work?
Let us know …
What kind of educate Akansha got?
What kind of job Akansha was doing?
Did Akansha quit job because Nusrat’s in-laws are super wealthy?
Later in life, for what ever reason, if your family is in financial difficulty and your husband is not in position to work or had no job, would Nusrat start working to help out the family financially?
Will Nusrat give college education to her daughters? WHY, what for?
Dear MM King,
Thanks for the compliments.
Yes I have left the Islam, a criminal religion against mankind. I feel utmost pleasure and satisfaction in Hindu procedure of worshipping God. I find presence of lord in every creature, including non living things like mountain, lakes, plateau, forest and so on, playing their role in the existing system of universe.
What is in the Islam,
(i) treat females sex doll
(ii) females are inferior to male
(iii) testimony of females is just half of male
(iv) women has to producd 4 witnesses to seek justice against rape, where from witnesses will be produced
(iv) oral tripple talak
(v) women have to produce virginity on wedding night to bleed and displaying of bed sheets with blood stains
(vi) halala practices
(vii) muta marriage
(viii) male need not be virgin, allowed to keep 4 wives
(ix) female genital mutiliation
(x) kill non muslims
(xi) fatwa, zihad, bomb blasts, terrorist activities, kidnapping, allowed in islam
(xii) males died in terrorst activities permitted in the heaven with 72 virgins for sex?
IS IT RELIGION, WITH SO MANY EVILS AGAINST MANKIND?
Hello readers,
I am a muslim girl 29 years old born and brought up as per islamic traditions. Luckily I was allowed to pursue engineering course. During this programme I met with a Hindu guy, who was my class mate and deeply attracted considering his nature and intelligence and we both decided to become life partner. I also realized that islam was totally against females, discrimination, violence, attitude, keeping them in purdah and under strict control made me determined to avoid marriage in this community.
As soon as I disclosed my intention, my parents became furious and they foud a muslim boy, who was divorcee doing some business. I met him and found that his business was good enough and he was very cruel, violence, doubtful integrity. I refused to marry him. Secretly we married under special act and after some time I left my home. This created a lot of hue and cry in our community but due to legally married they could not separate us.
Now I am working with my husband and enjoying life blissfully, no restriction, full freedom, status, job and respect.
My humble submission to all muslim girls to oppose evil practices of islamic religion and not to hesitate non muslim boys, if they are compatible and not to believe evil practices of islam.
Gulnar ji congratulation happy marred life did you left islam .
Gulnar,
Am v happy to hear your story…
My story is almost same…
Excpt m nt married yet, its still in process as my in laws don’t want to accpt me wdout my parents permission! Lets c how it goes…but m already hppy to leave islam…
Hi readers,
I would like to add that so called, self proclaimed Prophet, was not a messenger of Lord. He was criminal, cruel, rapist, terrorist and not sparing even 8 years old girls for sex. He believed in murder, sex both vaginal and anal including sex with animals.
Can such a criminal be appointed as messenger by Lord?
Hi readers,
I dont understand why Hindu girls get attracted towards muslim guys to lead a insecure future, cruelty, restrictions and no respect for wife.
Fear of oral tripple talk and husband allowed to keep 4 wives. How can a hindu girl born in free environment, lead a life in burqa, watching husband having sexual pleasure with other wives?
Wife never allowed to move freely and come back to her own religion?
What a pitiful life for such mad girls.
I am a muslim girl divorced and thrown away. Now married with a Hindu boy and realize what a great difference of attitutude among hindu and muslim guy. Muslim guy treat female just a sex object.
My humble submission is that muslim guys trap girls for sex only and thereafter increase their population.
Thanks mr.ravi i have many questions about lord Krishna marries 1600 women but you gave me the good information about lord Krishna and it is very nice . I am also atheist .
Animal con’t change but humans will change . But these muslims also never change . Muslims are most dangerous in this world
Thanks mr.ravi i have many questions about lord Krishna marries 1600 women but you gave me the good information about lord Krishna and it is very nice . I am also atheist .
Animal con’t change but humans will change . But these muslims also never change . Muslims are most dangerous in thi world
It is my pleasure. Hindu philosophy is liberating. It is the oldest in the world. Even atheism is accepted because at the end of the day, one can never be sure about God’s existence. It gives you the freedom to choose your own path and accepts the existence of several paths.
This is not the case in Abrahamic religions unfortunately. These religions consider their path as the only path. They consider people of other religions to be “infidels”. The think only they have the monopoly over the truth.
Nustar khan please log in
http://www.faithfreedom.org
what’s the use ?
Nusrat khan by log in to
http://www.islam-watch.org
you can learn islam very well
Thank you very much ….but its not required
regards
nusrat
Admin,
Thanks for asking about my past life. I was born in a Brahmin family. My mother was Chatterji and father was Mukherji. I was given the name Mitali Mukherji. I come from a middle class family. My father was working in a private company and my mother was a typical house wife. My brother married to a Muslim girl and reverted to Islam and I have married to the brother of my sister in law and reverted to Islam.Initially I faced some problem but later on every thing got settled and now I am extremely happy with my husband and five year old daughter. It is an amazing fact that before death my parents were also reverted to Islam but never touched beef whereas I can’t have lunch or dinner without beef.At times I sacrifice (Cut) cow with my own hand and sprinkle its blood in every nook and corner of my house.
Admin, I once again request you to delete/omit abusive and filthy words or languages used against Mr.Md.Haque. If possible please meet him only to find what a cordial/cooperative person he is.
Oh you have asked about four wives. Now please tell me and ask your readers to guess the condition of the first wife and children of Lord Krishna who had more than 16000 wives. Please don’t skip or avoid this simple question. I find some Muslim girls are marrying hindu boys. I pray to Almighty Allah that their hindu husbands should marry at least 15 other girls to make Lord Krishna happy.
Pakhi Begum
Nusrat,
You said “Life is all about having turns, ups and down”. Is it possible that in a few years you will also start enjoying, like Pakhi … “I can’t have lunch or dinner without beef. At times I sacrifice (Cut) cow with my own hand and sprinkle its blood in every nook and corner of my house.”?
dear Admin
How can you can presume that I will become like Pakhi begum in future ,do you have any basis for that .
Iam still veg and not forced to eat non-veg or whatsoever , before comparing and predicting .Please have some knowledge about the prevailing conditions and environment the person is living .Though I may have reverted to Islam and practicing it doesn’t mean that I will give in all demand of theirs
regards
Nusrat Khan
Nusrat, we just raised a question. We are glad you have liberty and freedom for your food habit. It is nice of them to be respectful to your needs.
Disgusting. Utterly nauseating. Sprinkling cow’s blood in your house’s corners? No wonder the houses and inhabitants stink!
I already told you about Krishna’s 16000 wives (so called). I am sure searching the internet will give you more accurate answers. But I can vouch for the fact that Krishna did not have sex with them.
In contrast, Muhammad had many wives for sex. And in today’s society, he would be termed a paedophile.
How do you vouch? Were you there during the periof of Krishna? History says contradictory to what you say.
Pakhi Begum
Similarly I can ask you how do you know the Prophet even existed? How do you know he was a good man?
No I was not there during krishna’s era. And I am not even sure if he had 16000 “wives”. I doubt that. However, I can tell you with confidence what the 16000 “wives” symbolize. http://aumamen.com/topic/16000-wives-of-krishna-spiritual-significance Just read this….
You are funny. Muhammad was born in the late 500s and died in 632 AD. The Vedas were composed much earlier. The RigVeda is atleast 5000 years old. There is no chance of any mention of Islam or Muhammad.
You can live in your make-believe world. It won’t change the truth though.
Regarding myself, FYI I am an atheist. I do not believe in the existence of God. Even if God exists, it is irrelevant to my life or yours. And yes, I am a staunch Hindu as well.
What a barbaric religion of horror and terror , you have acceted. If you would have been a little educated, you could understand the religion of Islam which have been spread by sword.
Dear Nusrat,
We are wondering what is your normal day like? How is your current life different from college days, bubbly Akansha to obedient Nusrat? What do you do when your husband leaves for work? Do you go out alone for shopping or visiting friends? Do you talk on phone with your friends and mom? How much you have to think of others before taking any new step?
hi ..admin
Life has completely changed from those of college and work days ,since I have entered entirely in a new world from the older one ..
being a Muslim I am more concerned learning Islam so spending a good time learning Islam and books related to Islam ,Now I am being advised to attend an Islamic seminary to have better knowledge of Islam.
I don’t step out of house of frequently until its very urgent , If I do I will veiled completely , I am better of with abaya and hijab only for now
I am in contact with friends and sibling through internet ,but occasionally talks with my mother and planning to meet her once a month
I am little more serious and concerned about my family’s reputation …but don’t think I am living like a zombie . Life is all about having turns ,ups and down and my life has turned ,
Hi Nusrat,
We are wondering for … AKANSHA verses NUSRAT …
Why Akansha was taken by her Muslim boy friend to movies, dinners, friends and gardens while Nusrat got mother-in-law, veil, house confinement, cooking and cleaning, namaz, Islamic seminary and Koran? Why Akansha and Nusrat had/has different deals? Would Akansha have gone on that first date with her Muslim friend if she were told what would happen after marriage? Why Nusrat don’t deserve the fun and free life that Akansha enjoyed?
Nusrat, if some other Akansha comes to you today for advise, if she should go for a date with a Muslim boy, what would you say?
dear Admin
again I would say presumption is not good , during collage days our confided to collage only and during work We meet but hardly any partying,shopping or other act of enjoyments ,though we spent good time together and as a Muslim I have to follow Islam anyhow
Well I deserve fun and freedom in life , in later life I may get who know the future ..
and for advising others I would say everyone should use their own head because every one has different conditions in life and my advise may not work on them
Regards
Nusrat
Nusrat, your sharing your life experience is a tremendous help to other Akanshas. It is your Godly work and we thank you.
We fully agree “I deserve fun and freedom in life” and hope that day is near, and not in the AFTER life. Best wishes.
Sometimes we presume things based on others experiences, but that does not mean all these will happen but could happen. We are not fortune-tellers nor we know individual’s personal situation.
For example, we have listed potential 35 things to come for a Hindu marrying a Muslim. Those pointers were not true in cases of Shamim, Seema, Salman and SRK. Some others like Kaveri and Tamanna, after our consultation, decided to take more time before jumping into marriage. You let us know how many predictions are true in your case. It is a matter of making “informed” decisions in life. Knowledge does not hurt.
You are bright and smart and thus we are enjoying interacting with you. Keep it up!
Nusrat, on your point of “more serious and concerned about my family’s reputation”, you should know that your choice may have given pain and suffering to your parents. Considering it is a matter of your own life, as an adult, you have to do that is good for you, even to marry your loved one. However, after you achieved your goal, now it remain your duty to pay back to that mother with your lots of love and attention. She would love if you call her every other day and meet her every week. She deserves your love and time.
Nusrat khan please login
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http://www.islam-watch.org
http://www.wikiislam.net
http://www.alisina.org
After reading this Scummy story, I thank to Lord Krishna that, I have taken my life’s best decision 4 years ago to convert to HINDUISIM. After all I will rejoice rest of my life Peacefully with my Hindu Punjabi Hubby. Thanks to LORD KRISHNA.
Raesa Sing ( Formerly knows as RAESA KHAN ).
Nusrat,
People, including us, will say what is good for you based on their own life experiences. However, it is ONLY YOU know what will be good for you, NOT OTHERS.
Further, in any new inter- or intra-faith marriage, what one thinks good today may turn out bad after 5-10 years and vice a versa.
For all these reasons, always keep open mind, listen to all and evaluate your situation constantly for what will be good for you. You are intelligent and we are confident that you will manage your life well. Keep in touch!
hi admin
Thanks ..I will try to remain touch with you guys and thanks for your links of Md. Zia ul Haque , I guess there is no need to be care about him
My mother is better ,at least she don’t talk like extreme keeps things very simple .I am fine with her and yes I will be visiting my parents Once a month from now one there is no problem in that
We like Mr. Haque because he is honest and told us all truth about Islam, without sugar coating. Even he was honest disclosing about all his Muta marriages. We appreciate his contributions to this site to educate others. He is a good source to know more about Islam. We thank him.
Admin
Just now I have come to Mr.Haque.He is thankful to you as you had given him an opportunity to join your website.
Admin, may I request you to kindly remove or delete the filthy and abusive languages used against him by “some of your readers”. Tell me honestly whether it is healthy practice or unhealthy practice. If it is unhealthy one then remove the same and I will convince Mr.Haque (who like my own elder brother) to rejoin and contribute in your website.
He is so kind to allow me to use his computer.
Pakhi Bedum
Pakhi,
Can you give your life story? How was your childhood? What made you change religion? What did you gain out of Islam? Will you be okay if your husband (like Mr. Haque) has multiple muta marriages? One day, are you okay being one of four wives?
Why a person with such a high caliber, Mr. Haque, is concerned what others says? Let the dogs bark! It is difficult to let readers decide what stays and what goes, further it is too much work to negotiate what comments should stay on this site and what to remove. We decided moving forward to clean all dirty writings.
Hi Admin ,
thanks for Advise ..
I would be preferred to called as Nusrat only since its the identity I have to live always though I reverted unwillingly but settling down now. I visited once to my parents after reverting unfortunately my mom was little sad seeing me abaya and hijab. No problem from husband he himself dropped me to parents house and later picked but didn’t entered my parents house … Well I don’t take my foot outside my home very frequently because I would be compelled to wear veil which I am not willing to do as of now ..may later I have to accept it anyhow.
I still I don’t suspect my hubby and neither in future, as there is no alteration in his altitude. I won’t say I am oppressed, the family get angry if I deviate from lslam, else things are ok after reverting.
Dear Nusrat,
Youths are the future of any nation.
Are your a “role model” for other youths in India? Lets Analyze.
MOTHER: You said your mother was “little sad”. Know that she may have tried to put the best face, but inside she is burning. She carried you for 9 months, breast-fed you, raised with love and gave you everything that she had. After all these, what your mother got in return? ….shame and disgrace? At one point, she was proudly introducing others that Akansha is MY daughter. Instead of that, today she probably wishes no one utter your name. Probably your mom may be depressed and unwilling to go out to meet her friends or relatives. She may be living a real HELL in this life, all thanks to you. It is not because you married a Muslim, but because you do not have any self pride that Gauri Khan and Kareena Khan have.
Which mother will want daughter like you? You will not be able to feel the pain of your mother till you will be in that position. We wish Allah will give you many daughters and one day they will make you realize what pain you gave to your mother.
PARENTS: Your parents gave you all freedom, sent to college, let you talk to people from other faith, let you wear jeans and gave freedom to enjoy life. Do you feel parents should not make such grave mistakes again? Should jeans be banned? Should boy-girl talking in colleges be banned? Should all college bound students compelled to wear burka or sari with full head covered? Are you going to restrict your own daughters from all fun that you enjoyed?
GIRL EDUCATION: Are you a role model of today’s Indian women? Why Indian girls need education any more than school grade 5-8? Why waste precious money educating girls if they cannot work, instead use that money to educate only men!! What good is your education if you gave up your job, stay confined to home, life goal is to please the mother-in-law, live in constant fear (“family get angry”) and act as a factory to give birth and raise many children?
NO SELF PRIDE: Britishers left long before but where did you learned to be submissive, even for totally irrational demands. Why today’s Indian youths are not taught to think freedom, demand justice and learn to live with self pride?
CONVERSION: Should all boys and girls marrying to Muslim convert to Islam, even unwillingly? One day, are you going to force your Hindu daughter-in-law to wear hijab and read Koran? How far this conversion practice should go on? … till no more Hindus left to convert?
Should all other Indian girls follow your footsteps? Please explain to us, thanks.
Admin
you are reacting like that I have committed some kind of sin by reverting to Islam .
My mother of course she is sad but no way shameful ,I understand my mother pretty well like no one
and how can you presume that I will bear only son not daughter and if i bear a son , than is it necessary that he will marry only a Hindu ..even if it is the case I won’t do that ,she will live according to her will any ways that’s a very uncertain future to talk
I never gave consent to all their demands , The reason I reverted to get settle down in my husband’s family if I had not I would have not survived , and surely separated from my husband by now and I couldn’t have live without him
and my in laws are not bad people ,yes but they are quite strict in following Islam .Now I don’t face any problem .I know after becoming Muslim I have to live according Islamic code of conduct neither I am blind follower
just because I have because I have become Muslim , I don’t have any self pride remains in me .Another rubbish presumption .
And regarding other girl or guys , they have their own let them decide what they want .I don’t endorse any conversion and I am neither brainwashed nor will happen in future
regards
Nusrat(Akansha)
Nusrat,
Sorry Nusrat, we are not against you but against what is being imposed on Akansha. You are NOT a sinner, but the sinners are the ones who have forced a different religion on Akansha. Sinner are the ones who are trying to convert a rose to carnation. You are an innocent victim trying to save your marriage life. We hope God will give you strength to speak out, if not today but some day later in life.
Did you met your mother only once in last 5-8 months after marriage? Don’t you miss her? Don’t you miss your childhood? Why can’t you go see her more often? She would love to see you.
hi admin
thanks for your replies and sweet words ..though I have only visited my parents once after marriage but planning to visit them once a month from now on ,
you are right I miss some points of my life sometimes but life has made such a big turn that to re balance that , I don’t have time miss things .I always try to be happy always whatever the situation .I have just started my life there are many UP and downs to come in near future
and cannot deny what I have in my current life and trying to follow Islam as a Muslim do but not in a extremist way .I don’t know what future has for me but surely I am doing best for me , my husband family and parents .
I will try share my experiences here always ,I am fine there is no need for any worry my husband is my strength 🙂
Nusrat,
Yes, make frequent visits to your mom. That will be great for her and you. Once she sees you more often, she will be at ease. She loves you; after all she is your mother. Your loving husband will fully support you for that.
Yes do visit all non-Muslim relatives often because per Islamic Theology, after death non-Muslims are headed to Islamic Hells!
Dear Sister Nusrat,
I once again welcome you with Islamic Greetings Assalam-O-Alaikum
Right you are. My name was Mitali and I was born in a Hindu family. I find Islam the best Religion in this earth. However, I did not know Md.Zia-ul-Haque earlier. I got his address from this website only.Some non existence persons (created by hindu admin whom I challenge to give their email id or postal address) had been using filthy language against him but after meeting him I found Md.Zia-ul-Haque the most learned, liberal, secular and religious Muslim I have ever seen in my life.His wife is the direct descendant of the Holy Prophet of Islam. Recently, because of some legal problem I had approached Md.Zia-ul-Haque who had solved the same without taking any money from me. He now considers me as his own sister. Can you ask admin as to why Lord Krishna had kept more than 16000 thousands wives. I find some ‘Muslim’ girls are marrying hindu boys. I pray to almighty Allah that those hindu boys should keep at least 16 wives to realise the mental agony of the first wife and children of Lord Krishna. Sister,unfortunately this hindu website run by communal hindus have dejected my mentor Md.Zia-ul-Haque who is now regularly contributing in allexpert.com. Please visit the said website and ask him any question on Islam to get authentic answer/reply.
Pakhi Begum
Dear Sister Nusrat,
Please ignore and avoid this website which is in other way called hindu website. I am happy to let you know that my mentor Md.Zia-ul-Haque whom I have known for three months have reverted 86 hindu women in Islam in just three months.For further guidance please get in touch with him. Admin has posted his address in this hindu website.
Pakhi Begum
Assalamu ailukum ,sister Pakhi begum
I don’t have any problem in practicing Islam now neither I am against this forum anyway ,what they said , that was in presumption and for good of me , no issues for that .
As being a new revert I am bound to face problem in every aspect but I am learning well ,its not easy to adopt an alien culture at once but Iam ok with that
Pakhi are you too a revert if yes I would love to know your experience ?
My mother in law is right now mentor for me .I would like to know about your mentor for sure
regards
Nusrat Khan
Nusrat,
Pakhi has made a great suggestion. To learn what Islam is all about, real all that is written by Md.Zia-ul-Haque at …
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=6868
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7362
Do you know that Krishna was born in 3000 BC in Mathura, i.e. more than 3600 years before Muhammad was born? Do you know the story of 16000 wives of Lord Krishna? In those days when women lost their husbands or when they were captured, the society rejected them and hence, the women were treated as outcasts. Krishna married them (symbolic marriage) in order to restore their dignity and respect. ONLY A FOOL WILL BELIEVE THAT KRISHNA KEPT 16000 WIVES FOR SEX.
You converted to Islam only for a man, i.e. your husband. No person who is sane and rational, loves freedom, has a curious and inquisitive mind, will voluntarily embrace Islam. The ideology of Islam is restrictive, regressive and repulsive. A lot of crimes are committed and condoned in the name of Islam. The point is, people are inherently not bad. It is their culture (Islam, in this case) that turns them into barbarians.
Dear Akansha,
We hope it is okay if we address you as Akansha. Nusrat name should mean to you a sign of oppression and injustice.
We would like to keep in touch with you over years. We hope you will educate other Hindu girls on our site. A few points:
1) DO NOT GET PREGNANT. DO NOT get pregnant. Do not get pregnant, not till at least 3 more years. After child, your life will be 10 times hell. It will be the worst mistake of your life. After child, you will be at their mercy and will never get out of HELL till your child goes to college. It will be a life imprisonment for you (like you raped or killed someone!).
2) Your husband is a typical Muslim guy. He is playing an innocent game. He knew it all well from the first day he saw you, but keep acting like he never knew that all these things will come. A day will come when finally you will realize that actually he is the real culprit, not his sister or your mother-in-law.
3) Good that you had first the Special Marriage Act marriage. According to Indian laws, now you are protected, even after conversion. We mean, talaak, talaak, talaak is not valid in your case. This is the only smart thing you did.
4) Your husband likes it or not, keep visiting your parents every week. Have any number of fights, but no one should stop you from visiting your parents.
5) Keep in touch!
Thanku admin ! To bring me here. I came to know about so many things and learned alot.
Geet, your life will be like Akansha’s.
Are you ready to be Nusrat? Learn everything from Nusrat, now she is your guru.
Hahaha!!! Ok admin!!!i wud like to call nusrat my elder sister …admin.
And nusrat !!! If u hve left ur job, then start gving coachings at hme. U jst need to do little buttering. Dnt wry u r educated and u know how to tackle wid the situation.
geet ..
All the very best for your upcoming life … take all decision so wisely that you don’t have regret in future .
its better to shed tears for few days than whole life …
wish you happy and prosperous life
every one is unique so is geet , no need to copy anyone or me ..just go around where she wants
if I can help her in some ways ,I would be happy to do that
Thanks nusrat, pls help me now
Hi,
Nusrat Khan,
I am bengali Hindu Married woman married 15 years age 34yrs with two kids presently not satisfied with my husband. If you know any Islam guy who cares loves and satisfy me. The guy should take pain in converting me to islam. i will be thankful if u help in this matter then only i can give my contact number. The guy should be bengali muslim and have some good profile with career. then they can be given email for contact.
Dear, Pampa Mandal, i can help you