Do not underestimate the community

Lisa says: December 25, 2014 at 2:35 am

Dear admin, I was in a relationship with a Muslim for 12 year’s. I’m catholic and we have 4 beautiful son’s together. I personally didn’t convert as he himself was only Muslim by name and not practice. I found that (not his family) but the wider Muslim community didn’t accept or approve of our relationship. My son’s are raised Muslim and will continue to be.

The way I see it is that it’s not the religious beliefs of a person that makes a relationship work, it’s the heart of the person. So even after my own bad experience I say if you find someone honest, kind and respectful… Go for it, no matter of there or your religion. -Lisa


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  • December 29, 2014 7:53 am

    Dear readers,

    Community is a society, group of neighbours, residents, who influence individuals in their life styles and social interactions. So far muslim community is concerned, it is highly influenced by the evil teachings of Mohammad and Quran, which are highly discriminatory and barbarian in character for a civilized community. I have personally realized the miseries and pathetic condition of muslim females being tortured by such evil practices of Islam.

    Here my purpose is to give the readers a taste of the teachings of Mohammed, the prophet of Islam. Some of these teachings may shock you, and some may amuse you. Others may simply leave you mystified.

    WOMEN

    Women are deficient in mind and religion.

    Mohammed asked some women, “Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half that of a man?” The women said, “yes,” He said, “This is because of the deficiency of the woman’s mind. ” Vol. 3:826

    Mohammed to women: “I have not seen any one more deficient in intelligence and religion than you.” Vol. 2:541

    The majority of people in hell are women.

    Mohammed said, “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers are women. ” Vol. 1:28, 301; Vol. 2:161; Vol. 7:124

    Women are a bad omen.

    Mohammed said, ” Bad omen is in the woman, the house and the horse.” Vol. 7:30

    Women are harmful to men.

    Mohammed said, “After me I have not left any affliction more harmful to men than women.” Vol. 7:33

    Women may not wear wigs.

    Mohammed said, ” Don’t wear false hair for Allah sends His curse upon such ladies who lengthen their hair artificially.” Vol. 7:133

    SEX AND MARRIAGE

    Mohammed’s sexual strength is equal to 30 men.

    Anas said, “The prophet used to visit all his wives in an hour round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number.” I asked Anas, “Had the prophet the strength for it?” Anas replied, “We used to say that the prophet was given the strength of thirty (men). ” Vol. 1:268

    Mohammed married a 9 year old girl.

    “Narrated Aisha that the prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old.”Vol. 7:64

    Allah hurries to please Mohammed’s sexual desires.

    When the Quranic verse that allows Mohammed to postpone the turn of any wife was revealed, and when Mohammed said that Allah allowed him to marry his adopted son’s wife, Aisha (one of his wives) told him, “O Allah’s Apostle I do not see but that your Lord hurries in pleasing you. ” Vol. 7:48

    When a woman is divorced irrevocably, she can not return to her husband until she marries (including having sexual intercourse) with another man.

    “Narrated Aisha: The wife of Rifaa Al-Qurazi came to Allah’s Apostle and said, ‘O Allah’s Apostle, Rifaa divorced me irrevocably. After him I married Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi who proved to be impotent.’ Allah’s Apostle said to her, ‘Perhaps you want to return to Rifaa? Nay (You cannot return to Rifaa) until you and Abdur-Rahman (the impotent man) engage in sexual intercourse!” Vol. 7:186

    HUMAN RIGHTS

    Islam is to be imposed by force.

    Mohammed said, “I have been ordered to fight with the people till they say, “None has the right to be worshipped but Allah, and whoever says, ” None has the right to be worshipped but Allah , his life and property will be saved by me.” (otherwise it will not). Vol. 4:196

    Apostasy is punishable by death.

    Mohammed said, “Whoever changes his Islamic religion, kill him.” Vol. 9:57

    A Muslim must not be killed if he kills a non-Muslim.

    Mohammed said, ” No Muslim should be killed for killing a Kafir” (infidel). Vol. 9:50

    Ethnic cleansing is practiced.

    Mohammed said to the Jews, “You should know that the earth belongs to Allah and His Apostle (Mohammed) and I want to expel you from this land (The Arabian Peninsula), so, if anyone owns property, he is permitted to sell it.” Vol. 4:392

    Mohammed’s last words at his deathbed were: “Turn the pagans (non-Muslims) out of the Arabian Peninsula.” Vol. 5:716

    ETERNAL SECURITY

    No assurance of Salvation.

    Mohammed said. “By Allah, though I am the apostle of Allah, yet I do not know what Allah will do to me.” Vol. 5:266

    God punishes a deceased if his relatives weep.

    Mohammed said, “The deceased is punished because of the weeping of his relatives.” Vol. 2:375

    When you speak badly about a deceased, the deceased will go to hell.

    Mohammed said, “You praised this, so Paradise has been affirmed to him, and you spoke badly of this, so hell has been affirmed to him. You people are Allah’s witnesses on earth.” Vol. 2:448

    Urine on your clothes will bring punishment from God.

    Mohammed said, “The deceased person is being tortured in the grave not for a great thing to avoid, it is for being soiled with his urine. ” Vol. 2:460

    Holy war (Jihad) is a guarantee of heaven.

    Mohammed said, “The person who participates in (Holy battles) in Allah’s cause and nothing compels him to do so except belief in Allah and His Apostle, will be recompensed by Allah either with a reward, or booty (if he survives) or will be admitted to paradise (if he is killed). ” Vol. 1:35

    Thanks for reading and sparing your time.

  • Rakesh
    December 26, 2014 7:57 am

    Mac,

    Why are you talking every time about Hindus even if the text is posted by non hindu writers. Your father, and fore fathers were Hindus. Because your mother got trapped by some muslim guys and she had to enter with multiple mutta marriages and you were born. After that in the madarsa, you were sodomized by Imam and you and your family never reported the matter to the police. Despite so many evils, your sister was again trapped by muslim guy and now she is entering mutta marriages in different phases.
    How criminal is the islam, I am submitting following text of the islamic religion;

    KANO, Nigeria (AP) — A 13-year-old says her father gave her to Boko Haram extremists and that she was arrested after refusing to explode a suicide bomb in Kano, Nigeria’s second largest city in the north.

    Nigeria has suffered numerous suicide bombings in recent months carried out by girls and young women. That has raised fears that the insurgents are using kidnapped girls.

    The girl told a news conference Wednesday night that she saw many people being buried alive at the Boko Haram camp where her father took her in Bauchi state, east of Kano.

    She said her captors asked if she wanted to go to paradise and, when she said yes, explained she would have to be a suicide bomber.

    “When I was told I would have to die to enter paradise, that I would have to explode a bomb and die, I said I cannot do it,” she said.

    When they threatened to kill her, she allowed them to strap her into a vest primed with explosives, saying “I was afraid to be buried alive.”

    Two other girls detonated their bombs at Kano’s textile market on Dec. 10. Police said the attack killed four people and wounded seven, including the girl.

    The West African nation’s home-grown Boko Haram group attracted international condemnation when its fighters kidnapped 276 schoolgirls from a boarding school in northeast Chibok town in April. Dozens escaped but 219 remain missing.

    Thousands of people have been killed and 1.6 million driven from their homes in the 5-year-old uprising to create an Islamic state in Nigeria, Africa’s most populous nation of 160 million people divided between mainly Muslims in the north and Christians in the south.

    Mac your family is at liberty to enter mutta marriages and you still get sodomized from any maulvi, that is your preference and choice. DONT BLAME HINDU AND HINDU RELIGION.

    • December 26, 2014 8:02 am

      Please site the URL source, please. Give credit to the original writer. Do not past two place, thanks for not doing this time.

  • December 26, 2014 6:25 am

    Dear Lisa,

    There are thousands of non muslim girls who are trapped by muslim boys under false promises and lying. It is specifically mentioned in the islamic texts that lying is allowed to increase muslim populations,expansion of islam.

    Lying and deceiving is fair in islam to expand islam. It is a criminal and cruel religion believing in blood shed, bomb blasts, terrorism, killing, murder, jihad, fatwa, brainwashing, sodomy and all sorts of evils are associated with this religion.

    NON MUSLIM GIRLS SHOULD NEVER ASSOCIATE WITH ANY MUSLIM GUYS.

    • mac
      December 26, 2014 7:36 am

      You desperate Sanghi worker, trying to stop Hindu women from salvation, you are jealous that Hindu girl if comes in contact with true Muslim boy will learn the truth about Islam and will convert to Islam, you know very clearly that if any boy present her girlfriend with true picture of Islam and Hinduism then she will obviously choose Islam, why don`t you make a note on women in Hinduism and Islam?

      • December 26, 2014 7:56 am

        We hope to hear more from Lisa. After 12 years and 4 children, why she got talaak? After all these years of opportunity to learn of Islam, why she said yesterday, “I am Catholic” and not I am Muslim?

        • mac
          December 26, 2014 11:27 pm

          Why Suzanne khan a Muslim woman got divorced from Hindu man Hrithik Roshan, so please stop bringing stupid logic

          • admin
            December 27, 2014 8:39 am

            We do not know why Lisa got (gave) divorce, we hope she will get back to us.
            mac, can you tell us why Suzanna Khan got divorce or gave divorce?

          • mac
            December 27, 2014 11:47 pm

            You asked “After 12 years and 4 children, why she got talaak?”

            That`s why i asked Suzane Khan having 14 years of marriage and having 2 children got divorced.

          • December 28, 2014 6:31 am

            Probably divorce is a part of life, youths in love should spend lots of time understanding each other before deciding to marry.

          • mac
            December 28, 2014 7:02 am

            Ya, now you came to track, GOOD

  • December 25, 2014 7:25 pm

    Lisa,
    Sorry to hear of your story. After 12 years of relationship and four children, it must hurt you to be in the situation you are today. It is almost like your life is ruined.

    We are not clear of some things here. What was the problem with community, when your husband and his parents were okay? This is something critical for other dating couples should know because most lovers don’t think beyond their love, and ignore parents. Most even don’t think of communities. We believe the marriage is not only between two people, but to some extent, marriage of two families and two communities.

    Why did you not wanted to teach your children your catholic faith, at least partially? Was it your wish or you were not given that choice? do you feel the Catholic faith is inferior or lacking something that others don’t? Are you happy and proud today that your kids are 100% Muslims?

    If you had to start over today as unmarried person, what would you do different today?

    You are telling others to go for “honest, kind and respectful”. Was your lover the same at dating time? How about after marriage? How about parents and community? Is it sufficient to be “honest, kind and respectful” during dating time to marry a person?

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