Im Hindu Living in India Have Muslim Girl in Malaysia

Amit says: January 12, 2015 at 11:45 am

Intenet datingi hav same problem . im hindu live in india nd hav muslim gf in Malaysia. last 2 year we are in relationship. nd we want married without ne Malaysian law problem. we know dat much hard in Malaysia if we married there .. she wnt 1st m convert in muslim in india then i come there in Malaysia nd we married thn front of her family who’s know abt our relationship nd her family hav no any problem .. but law??

whn we married there thn we back india nd thn again here we married nd register dat .. she hav one kid .. i want to know if we register our married in india thn what happen or problem she got or her kid whn in future she want visit Malaysia for meet our family .. plz know me -Amit

Amit says: January 13, 2015 at 8:30 am

we want settel in india .. her family is not much rich .. so her family want we 1st married there in front of her family thn .. i take her here in india .. i know nd my gf know law problem in Malaysia .. so we tot we jst married in front of family nd in front of her friends there .. who know abt me .. we not married front of others who creat law problem there .. nd whn we done married there thn we come india nd settel here

Amit says: January 13, 2015 at 8:19 am

yep i meet her on FB . my family know she is muslim nd my family … my bro . my uncle aunty nd cousin sis grandmom all hav no problem .. and her sis .. brothers and other all know abt me and her family also hav no problem
2nd u ask my my faith .. m believe in one god only what ved or kuran said same line .. god has no born .. he hav no mother nd father .. m trust my faith in dat god only
so m not going convert in muslim Couz only love .. yep i want marry her dat true nd she also want

if m convert my religion dat only Couz m trust real god (super power) in only one .. others god for me like a messanger how is born in earth like .. ram krishna .. i tot dat only messanger so m respect -Amit

Amit says: January 13, 2015 at 8:55 am

i hav no mom m 39 nd she is 35 .. i lived with ma father .. but my whole life m lived alone . i cant look ma mom nd dad .. whn m born .. 1st time i saw ma family whn i was 12 year old .. 2005 my mom die she only one who love me in ma family .. father nd bro .. he only want . m work nd wht i earn i give all dat money him

my real parent is only my cousin sis grand mom nd aunty .. only but she lived far .. and all one know abt our relationship .. nd both side parents are agree for married

my girlfriend want 1st m convert in muslim .. in India not in Malaysia .. after dat we married in Malaysia in front of her family nd friends .. thn she come with me in india nd here we marriage in front of family or friends

and we settel here

problem only dat we dont know .. if she lived with me here thn in future whn she or her son visit Malaysia thn how? what going his one citizenship after married me nd lived here in india -Amit


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  • Arjuna
    January 30, 2015 12:46 pm

    Dear Amit,

    I am happy to hear that you are planning on getting married to a girl you love. Both you and her are not that young, so you both need to act fast and not delay for stupid reasons.

    You need to decide where you are going to live after marriage, Malaysia or India. The big question is which society you want your children to grow up and belong to.

    You have said that you plan to live in India. Therefore, the only reason for you converting to Islam is to get married in Malaysia, a country that you will not be living in. There is no point in you converting to Islam for that reason alone.
    Also, as you will be living in India, your children and your wife will be living among and interacting with your relatives and friends. So there is no point in you changing your religion just for the wedding day.
    Instead, I will recommend that you get married in India and have some unofficial ceremony or event in Malaysia to commemorate this.

    This must mean that any children that you have will grow up among your Hindu family and relatives in which case it is beter for them to be nominally Hindu.

    It is difficult to understand everything that you have written, but you may be wanting to keep the door open for your children to migrate to Malaysia. You should check if there is some provision for them to migrate there based on the fact that their mother is Malaysian.

    There is always the problem of nationality and usually you have to pick one or the other. This is a seperate issue from the issue of religion, though related.

    You and your wife need to look at the legal aspects and what the implications are and what sacrifices you need to make to get the best for you, your wife and your children.

    It is not clear but I think you have said that your wife already has a child. You need to look at the visa implications but it will probably be better for your wife and her child to keep their Malaysian nationality. I dont know the Indian laws but it should be possible for them to live in India if she is married to you. But you need to find out the legal facts and issues and this forum may not be the best place.

    I wish you happiness and a good future with your wife, her child and any other children that you may have.

    Arjuna

  • January 18, 2015 5:34 am

    Dear readers,

    According to Jan Morgan,Islam..VERSES FROM THE QURAN.. EVIDENCE THAT ISLAM IS Clearly and Concisely Evil, Violent, and Intolerant mind set.

    Every time I write and article that sheds Islam in a negative light, my life gets threatened by muslims, I get hate messages from liberals, and I’m labeled a ‘racist’ by idiots who do not realize that Islam is not a race.
    If Muslims are so proud of their quran, why would they threaten my life for simply sharing verses straight from their “holy book”?

    Islam is also not a religion,
    It is a theocracy and terrorist cult that hides behind the mask of religion in order to acheive its mission of world domination.

    Furthermore, people, including news anchors who call islaic terrorists “extremists and radicals”, are wrong… They are DEVOUT muslims simply following the dictates of their koran.

    I have read the koran and studied it thoroughly. I have read the muslim brotherhood’s documented plan for the destruction of America from within.

    I will not submit or convert and I will not allow the death threats, the name calling, and the pack threat mentality stop me from telling the truth about Islam.

    Here it is folks… straight from their own Quran.. You read the verses below and you decide..
    Peaceful religion…??? NO WAY…

    Fact: in the 1400 year history of islam, muslims have murdered over 270 million people.
    Fact: Since 911, muslims have committed over 23 thousand deadly terror attacks around the world.
    Fact: Islam can not and will not peacefully co exist with any other religion on earth. Never.
    Fact: Where are all those so called “peaceful” muslims when the terror attacks occur? Why do they not stand publicly against the attacks as a religious group? The reason….. is in the verses below… It goes against their koran.

    Muslim (20:4645) – “…He (the Messenger of Allah) did that and said: There is another act which elevates the position of a man in Paradise to a grade one hundred (higher), and the elevation between one grade and the other is equal to the height of the heaven from the earth. He (Abu Sa’id) said: What is that act? He replied: Jihad in the way of Allah! Jihad in the way of Allah!”

    Muslim (20:4696) – “the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said: ‘One who died but did not fight in the way of Allah nor did he express any desire (or determination) for Jihid died the death of a hypocrite.’”

    Muslim (19:4321-4323) – Three separate hadith in which Muhammad shrugs over the news that innocent children were killed in a raid by his men against unbelievers. His response: “They are of them (meaning the enemy).”

    Tabari 7:97 The morning after the murder of Ashraf, the Prophet declared, “Kill any Jew who falls under your power.” Ashraf was a poet, killed by Muhammad’s men because he insulted Islam. Here, Muhammad widens the scope of his orders to kill. An innocent Jewish businessman was then slain by his Muslim partner, merely for being non-Muslim.

    Tabari 9:69 “Killing Unbelievers is a small matter to us” The words of Muhammad, prophet of Islam.

    Ibn Ishaq: 327 – “Allah said, ‘A prophet must slaughter before collecting captives. A slaughtered enemy is driven from the land. Muhammad, you craved the desires of this world, its goods and the ransom captives would bring. But Allah desires killing them to manifest the religion.’”

    Ibn Ishaq: 990 – Lest anyone think that cutting off someone’s head while screaming ‘Allah Akbar!’ is a modern custom, here is an account of that very practice under Muhammad, who seems to approve.

    Ibn Ishaq: 992 – “Fight everyone in the way of Allah and kill those who disbelieve in Allah.” Muhammad’s instructions to his men prior to a military raid.

    The Quran:
    Quran (2:191-193) – “And slay them wherever ye find them, and drive them out of the places whence they drove you out, for persecution [of Muslims] is worse than slaughter [of non-believers]… but if desist, then lo! Allah is forgiving and merciful. And fight them until persecution is no more, and religion is for Allah.”
    There is a good case to be made that the textual context of this particular passage is defensive war, even if the historical context was not. However, there are also two worrisome pieces to this verse. The first is that the killing of others is authorized in the event of “persecution” (a qualification that is ambiguous at best). The second is that fighting may persist until “religion is for Allah.” The example set by Muhammad is not reassuring.

    Quran (2:244) – “Then fight in the cause of Allah, and know that Allah Heareth and knoweth all things.”

    Quran (2:216) – “Fighting is prescribed for you, and ye dislike it. But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you, and that ye love a thing which is bad for you. But Allah knoweth, and ye know not.” Not only does this verse establish that violence can be virtuous, but it also contradicts the myth that fighting is intended only in self-defense, since the audience was obviously not under attack at the time. From the Hadith, we know that Muhammad was actually trying to motivate his people into raiding caravans with this verse.

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    Quran (3:56) – “As to those who reject faith, I will punish them with terrible agony in this world and in the Hereafter, nor will they have anyone to help.”

    Quran (3:151) – “Soon shall We cast terror into the hearts of the Unbelievers, for that they joined companions with Allah, for which He had sent no authority”. This speaks directly of polytheists, yet it also includes Christians, since they believe in the Trinity (ie. what Muhammad incorrectly believed to be ‘joining companions to Allah’).

    Quran (4:74) – “Let those fight in the way of Allah who sell the life of this world for the other. Whoso fighteth in the way of Allah, be he slain or be he victorious, on him We shall bestow a vast reward.” The martyrs of Islam are unlike the early Christians, led meekly to the slaughter. These Muslims are killed in battle, as they attempt to inflict death and destruction for the cause of Allah. Here is the theological basis for today’s suicide bombers.

    Quran (4:76) – “Those who believe fight in the cause of Allah…”

    Quran (4:89) – “They but wish that ye should reject Faith, as they do, and thus be on the same footing (as they): But take not friends from their ranks until they flee in the way of Allah (From what is forbidden). But if they turn renegades, seize them and slay them wherever ye find them; and (in any case) take no friends or helpers from their ranks.”

    Quran (4:95) – “Not equal are those believers who sit (at home) and receive no hurt, and those who strive and fight in the cause of Allah with their goods and their persons. Allah hath granted a grade higher to those who strive and fight with their goods and persons than to those who sit (at home). Unto all (in Faith) Hath Allah promised good: But those who strive and fight Hath He distinguished above those who sit (at home) by a special reward,-” This passage criticizes “peaceful” Muslims who do not join in the violence, letting them know that they are less worthy in Allah’s eyes. It also demolishes the modern myth that “Jihad” doesn’t mean holy war in the Quran, but rather a spiritual struggle. Not only is the Arabic word used in this passage, but it is clearly not referring to anything spiritual, since the physically disabled are given exemption. (The Hadith reveals the context of the passage to be in response to a blind man’s protest that he is unable to engage in Jihad and this is reflected in other translations of the verse).

    Quran (4:104) – “And be not weak hearted in pursuit of the enemy; if you suffer pain, then surely they (too) suffer pain as you suffer pain…” Is pursuing an injured and retreating enemy really an act of self-defense?

    Quran (5:33) – “The punishment of those who wage war against Allah and His messenger and strive to make mischief in the land is only this, that they should be murdered or crucified or their hands and their feet should be cut off on opposite sides or they should be imprisoned; this shall be as a disgrace for them in this world, and in the hereafter they shall have a grievous chastisement”

    Quran (8:12) – “I will cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve. Therefore strike off their heads and strike off every fingertip of them” No reasonable person would interpret this to mean a spiritual struggle.

    Quran (8:15) – “O ye who believe! When ye meet those who disbelieve in battle, turn not your backs to them. (16)Whoso on that day turneth his back to them, unless maneuvering for battle or intent to join a company, he truly hath incurred wrath from Allah, and his habitation will be hell, a hapless journey’s end.”

    Quran (8:39) – “And fight with them until there is no more persecution and religion should be only for Allah” From the historical context we know that the “persecution” spoken of here was simply the refusal by the Meccans to allow Muhammad to enter their city and perform the Haj. Other Muslims were able to travel there, just not as an armed group, since Muhammad declared war on Mecca prior to his eviction. The Meccans were also acting in defense of their religion, since it was Muhammad’s intention to destroy their idols and establish Islam by force (which he later did). Hence the critical part of this verse is to fight until “religion is only for Allah.” According to Ibn Ishaq (324), Muhammad justified the violence further by explaining that “Allah must have no rivals.”

    Quran (8:57) – “If thou comest on them in the war, deal with them so as to strike fear in those who are behind them, that haply they may remember.”

    Quran (8:59-60) – “And let not those who disbelieve suppose that they can outstrip (Allah’s Purpose). Lo! they cannot escape. Make ready for them all thou canst of (armed) force and of horses tethered, that thereby ye may dismay the enemy of Allah and your enemy.”

    Quran (8:65) – “O Prophet, exhort the believers to fight…”

    Quran (9:5) – “So when the sacred months have passed away, then slay the idolaters wherever you find them, and take them captives and besiege them and lie in wait for them in every ambush, then if they repent and keep up prayer and pay the poor-rate, leave their way free to them.” According to this verse, the best way of staying safe from Muslim violence is to convert to Islam. Prayer (salat) and the poor tax (zakat) are among the religions Five Pillars.

    Quran (9:14) – “Fight them, Allah will punish them by your hands and bring them to disgrace…”

    Quran (9:20) – “Those who believe, and have left their homes and striven with their wealth and their lives in Allah’s way are of much greater worth in Allah’s sight. These are they who are triumphant.” The “striving” spoken of here is Jihad.

    Quran (9:29) – “Fight those who believe not in Allah nor the Last Day, nor hold that forbidden which hath been forbidden by Allah and His Messenger, nor acknowledge the religion of Truth, (even if they are) of the People of the Book, until they pay the Jizya with willing submission, and feel themselves subdued.” “People of the Book” refers to Christians and Jews. This was one of the final “revelations” from Allah and it set in motion the tenacious military expansion, in which Muhammad’s companions managed to conquer two-thirds of the Christian world in just the next 100 years. Islam is intended to dominate all other people and faiths.
    Quran (9:30) – “And the Jews say: Ezra is the son of Allah; and the Christians say: The Messiah is the son of Allah; these are the words of their mouths; they imitate the saying of those who disbelieved before; may Allah destroy them; how they are turned away!”

    Quran (9:38-39) – “O ye who believe! what is the matter with you, that, when ye are asked to go forth in the cause of Allah, ye cling heavily to the earth? Do ye prefer the life of this world to the Hereafter? But little is the comfort of this life, as compared with the Hereafter. Unless ye go forth, He will punish you with a grievous penalty, and put others in your place.” This is a warning to those who refuse to fight, that they will be punished with Hell.

    Quran (9:41) – “Go forth, light-armed and heavy-armed, and strive with your wealth and your lives in the way of Allah! That is best for you if ye but knew.” See also the verse that follows (9:42) – “If there had been immediate gain (in sight), and the journey easy, they would (all) without doubt have followed thee, but the distance was long, (and weighed) on them” This contradicts the myth that Muslims are to fight only in self-defense, since the wording implies that battle will be waged a long distance from home (in another country and on Christian soil, in this case, according to the historians).
    Quran (9:73) – “O Prophet! strive hard against the unbelievers and the hypocrites and be unyielding to them; and their abode is hell, and evil is the destination.” Dehumanizing those who reject Islam, by reminding Muslims that they are merely firewood for Hell, makes it easier to justify slaughter. It also explains why today’s devout Muslims have little regard for those outside the faith.

    Quran (9:88) – “But the Messenger, and those who believe with him, strive and fight with their wealth and their persons: for them are (all) good things: and it is they who will prosper.”
    Quran (9:111) – “Allah hath purchased of the believers their persons and their goods; for theirs (in return) is the garden (of Paradise): they fight in His cause, and slay and are slain: a promise binding on Him in truth, through the Law, the Gospel, and the Quran: and who is more faithful to his covenant than Allah? then rejoice in the bargain which ye have concluded: that is the achievement supreme.”

    Quran (9:123) – “O you who believe! fight those of the unbelievers who are near to you and let them find in you hardness.”

    Quran (18:65-81) – This parable lays the theological groundwork for honor killings, in which a family member is murdered because they brought shame to the family, either through apostasy or perceived moral indiscretion. The story, which is not found in any Jewish or Christian source, tells of Moses encountering a man with “special knowledge” who does things which don’t seem to make sense on the surface, but are then justified according to later explanation. One such action is to murder a youth for no apparent reason (74). However, the wise man later explains that it was feared that the boy would “grieve” his parents by “disobedience and ingratitude.” He was killed so that Allah could provide them a ‘better’ son.

    Quran (21:44) – “We gave the good things of this life to these men and their fathers until the period grew long for them; See they not that We gradually reduce the land (in their control) from its outlying borders? Is it then they who will win?”

    Quran (25:52) – “Therefore listen not to the Unbelievers, but strive against them with the utmost strenuousness…” “Strive against” is Jihad – obviously not in the personal context. It’s also significant to point out that this is a Meccan verse.

    Quran (33:60-62) – “If the hypocrites, and those in whose hearts is a disease, and the alarmists in the city do not cease, We verily shall urge thee on against them, then they will be your neighbors in it but a little while. Accursed, they will be seized wherever found and slain with a (fierce) slaughter.” This passage sanctions the slaughter (rendered “merciless” and “horrible murder” in other translations) against three groups: Hypocrites (Muslims who refuse to “fight in the way of Allah” (3:167) and hence don’t act as Muslims should), those with “diseased hearts” (which include Jews and Christians 5:51-52), and “alarmists” or “agitators who include those who merely speak out against Islam, according to Muhammad’s biographers. It is worth noting that the victims are to be sought out by Muslims, which is what today’s terrorists do. If this passage is meant merely to apply to the city of Medina, then it is unclear why it is included in Allah’s eternal word to Muslim generations.

    Quran (47:3-4) – “Those who reject Allah follow vanities, while those who believe follow the truth from their lord. Thus does Allah set forth form men their lessons by similtudes. Therefore when you meet in battle those who disbelieve, then smite the necks until when you have overcome them, then make (them) prisoners,” Those who reject Allah are to be subdued in battle. The verse goes on to say the only reason Allah doesn’t do the dirty work himself is in order to to test the faithfulness of Muslims. Those who kill pass the test. “But if it had been Allah’s Will, He could certainly have exacted retribution from them (Himself); but (He lets you fight) in order to test you, some with others. But those who are slain in the Way of Allah,- He will never let their deeds be lost.”

    Quran (47:35) – “Be not weary and faint-hearted, crying for peace, when ye should be uppermost (Shakir: “have the upper hand”) for Allah is with you,” This very important verse asserts that the Religion of Peace is not to grant peace to the broader society until Islamic rule has been established.

    Quran (48:17) – “There is no blame for the blind, nor is there blame for the lame, nor is there blame for the sick (that they go not forth to war). And whoso obeyeth Allah and His messenger, He will make him enter Gardens underneath which rivers flow; and whoso turneth back, him will He punish with a painful doom.” Contemporary apologists sometimes claim that Jihad means ‘spiritual struggle.’ Is so, then why are the blind, lame and sick exempted?

    Quran (48:29) – “Muhammad is the messenger of Allah. And those with him are hard (ruthless) against the disbelievers and merciful among themselves” Islam is not about treating everyone equally. There are two very distinct standards that are applied based on religious status.

    Quran (61:4) – “Surely Allah loves those who fight in His way” Religion of Peace, indeed! This is followed by (61:9): “He it is who has sent His Messenger (Mohammed) with guidance and the religion of truth (Islam) to make it victorious over all religions even though the infidels may resist.”

    Quran (61:10-12) – “O ye who believe! Shall I lead you to a bargain that will save you from a grievous Penalty?- That ye believe in Allah and His Messenger, and that ye strive (your utmost) in the Cause of Allah, with your property and your persons: That will be best for you, if ye but knew! He will forgive you your sins, and admit you to Gardens beneath which Rivers flow, and to beautiful mansions in Gardens of Eternity.” This verse was given in battle. It uses the Arabic word, Jihad.

    Quran (66:9) – “O Prophet! Strive against the disbelievers and the hypocrites, and be stern with them. Hell will be their home, a hapless journey’s end.” The root word of “Jihad” is used again here. The context is clearly holy war, and the scope of violence is broadened to include “hypocrites” – those who call themselves Muslims but do not act as such.

  • January 18, 2015 5:25 am

    Dear reader

    In a number of papers appeared a news item, about beheading a woman publically for false and illmotiavted allegations of sexual deeds.

    Imams and maulvies who are sodomizing boys and raping girls in the madarasa and arranging mutta and halala marriages for sexual pleasure and money earning are never beheaded.

    Bastard Mohamad, if your mother or sister is beheaded on multiple mutta marriages, how would you feel?

  • January 17, 2015 6:44 am

    Dear readers,

    In Muhammad, we find a criminal who created the AntiGod Allah to sanction his criminality: A child molester. Wife abuser. Rapist. Murderer. Torturer. Terrorist just a small sample of the criminality of Muhammad. If God picked such a prophet to represent him anywhere in the universe and gave divine sanction and support/encouragement to His prophet’s criminal acts then God would no longer be God but just an accomplice to his evil prophet. God would be equally guilty in all the criminal acts perpetrated by Muhammad. God would be just a wanton criminal.

    He not only ordered mass murder, torture, raping of sex slaves but he personally beheaded his enemies, raped their women, plundered their property, and sold the women He prophet owned 40 slaves.

    HOW CAN ANY INTELLECTUAL, MEDIA, POLITICAL, RELIGIOUS ELITE OR RATIONAL, NORMAL PERSON BELIEVE THAT GOD TRANSMITTED QURAN VERSE 9:111 – THE MOST EVIL, TEACHING IN HISTORY?

    “Allah hath purchased of the believers their persons and their goods; for theirs (in return) is the garden (of Paradise): they fight in His cause, and slay and are slain”

    Verse 9:111 means what it means. It is Jihad suicide. A Muslim who dies while trying to murder kafirs fulfilling teachings 9:5, 9:29 and all the other teachings of murder, rape, terror, torture of kafirs in the Quran ARE GUARANTEED MARTYRDOM AND ACCESSION TO AN EVIL, LEWD, DEPRAVED PARADISE FILLED WITH ETERNAL VIRGINS OF EXQUISITE BEAUTY WHO REGENERATE AS VIRGINS AFTER EACH SEX ACT AND WHOM THESE KILLERS AND MURDERERS OF ISLAM CAN SEXUALLY MOLEST IN ENDLESS COPULATION FOR PERPETUAL ENJOYMENT FOR ALL ETERNITY.

    Allah takes away from Muslims all rights and ownership of their life. Muslims will engage Allah’s stratagems of wars without any questions asked, and kill and get killed.

    This is the only mode of actions that will earn them Paradise. Allah is the peerless master of incitement of violence and bloodbath.

    You cannot ascend to Paradise by climbing on the corpses of the murdered.

    Verse 9:111 is the teaching that has been used by Muhammad and his lieutenants to mobilize the suicide bombers, the beheaders, the jihadists to kill and slaughter millions. This inhuman teaching has inspired the slaughter of an estimated 270,000,000 kafirs, over the last 1400 years, by Muslims in their aim to fulfill the teaching of Quran 9:111 for gaining a place in his whorehouse Paradise. Promising those who kill in the name of God, whose hands are coated with blood – the Islamic Paradise of sexual depravity – virgins who re-generate as virgins after each sex act – created by God for the sole purpose of servicing the righteous Muslim killers and murderers of God who are blessed with eternal erections and are permitted by God to engage in all forms of orgies, group sex, and sexual depravity is an affront to all rationality and reason.

    “As for the righteous (Muslims)… We (Allah) shall wed them to beautiful virgins with lustrous eyes” [Quran 44:51-54]

    The righteous (Muslims) they shall triumph… Theirs shall be voluptuous women.” [Quran 78:31-33].

    Other verses in the Quran—such as 37:40-48, 44:51-55, 52:17-20, 55:56-58, 70-77, 56:7-40, 78:31 and http://www.islamreform.net/new-page-192.htm describe the Paradise to be an alluring whorehouse. This Paradise coated in blood is the greatest evil ever and all those who preach these hideous teachings and those who act on them are going to join Muhammad in hell and damnation.

    HOW CAN ANY INTELLECTUAL, MEDIA, POLITICAL, RELIGIOUS ELITE OR RATIONAL, NORMAL PERSON BELIEVE IN ISLAM THAT CALLS FOR JIHAD – HOLY WAR AGAINST KAFIRS?

    Jihad is the central Islamic doctrine of holy war against non-Muslims, until all of them converted are to Islam or enslaved, or annihilated. Quranic texts, exhorting to Jihad, occupies 9% of all verses, while 24% of those revealed in Medina. Jihad-related content takes up 21% of the Bukhari material and the Sira devotes 67% of its text to jihad

    Exhorting Islamic holy war or Jihad for forced conversion, enslavement or annihilation of people, just because they follow Christian, Jewish, Polytheistic or other religions than Islam, is the worst kind of incitement of hatred and violence. All teachings of Jihad make God an accomplice to murder, war, death and destruction.

    • Mohammed
      January 17, 2015 7:12 am

      Some idots doesnot know what is islam
      and doesnt have any errors in islam so they will cut and paste like this idiot..

  • January 16, 2015 6:03 am

    Mac is a cut paste master and great manipulator. He should highlight evil character of islam against females and non believers. My wife
    is also a muslim and she has left islam after marrying me.

    Even being sodomized by Imam/maulvi he did not complaint to the police.

    HE SHOULD ALSO READ WIKKIISLAM AND SEE HOW MANY MUSLIMS HAVE LEFT ISLAM AFTER SEEING THE MONSTROUS FACE OF MOHAMMAD.

    • Mohammed
      January 16, 2015 7:18 am

      who is cutting and pasting? he or you..

      Its u which is doing like this rubbish things.. cutting and pasting without any valid reason by different names

      and brother . . by the way wiki islam is not a part of islamic website. .
      its u doing rubbish things that refers u do not have valid reason to answer

  • mac
    January 15, 2015 4:54 am

    SCOTTISH ATHEIST LADY FINDS ISLAM AT THE AGE OF 65

    My name is Maryam Noor, that is my Islamic name, and my original name is Margaret Templeton.

    I was born in Scotland to a house which was atheist. In our house, we were not allowed ever to speak about God, and even if we learned something in school, we were not allowed to say anything or we would be punished.

    For as long as I can remember, I have been seeking the Truth about why I am here in this world, what I’m here for, what am I supposed to do.

    As soon as I became old enough, I began to search for some information about this “person called God”, that people mention, and all through my life, I have been seeking the Truth, not a particular religion. The Truth, something which made sense to me, something which opened my heart and which made my life worthwhile. I have been practically in every church in the kingdom, both here and at home, it never occurred to me to think about Islam.

    I became interested in Islam, but the war took place in Iraq, and I read the terrible things which were being said in the papers about Muslims, but I was well educated about other religions to know that these things were not true, that lies were being told, and so I went seeking for a teacher who could teach me something about the Islamic way of life, so that I would be able to refute these things that were being said about Muslims which were wrong, which were lies, and which came from shaytan, or Satan as I called him then.
    One of the things that I do is that I talk to everyone. I used to smile to everyone and say “Hello”, “How are you”, and “What’s your day like” .. as Jesus spread happiness whenever he was. At that time I was a Roman Catholic but I was very unhappy and I left the Church, and I didn’t know where to go.

    At the same time, I was seeking for a teacher in Islam, I was praying constantly all day to God “Help … Help … Help me … Help me ..” over and over and over all day for almost two years, because I did not know what to do or where to go.

    A friend of a friend of a friend brought me the name of an alim – a scholar. His name was Nur El-Din, and he was an Arab born in this country. He invited me to come to his house, which I did, and he told me what books to buy, and that I could call him if I had questions. And that was our relationship. There were seven volumes of this book, it was a commentary on the Qur’an, and it was excellent.
    So I started to study. I opened the first book, I read the acknowledgement. I did not start from the back, I started from the front, and I was immediately in Al-Baqarah. And before Al-Baqarah, there was Al-Fatihah, and I read Al-Fatihah, and it was like I was struck by lightning, tears flowed from my eyes, tears like Niagara Falls. My heart beat very quickly, … I was sweating, I was shaking, … I was afraid this was shaytan, like he was trying to stop me because I might find the way, because this book might get me the way to Truth, which is what I was seeking.

    I phoned the alim, he said come I want to see you. So I went to him in the depth of winter, and I arrived there like a block of ice, but a little suffering is nothing for Allaah as I found. And I explained my experience to my alim. I said this is shaytan, what should I do? One of the things which took place during these tears was I saw my heart, I could see my heart out here, red, very large, rather bright, not shaped like it at all. I was rather frightened, and I said what do you think I should do?

    And he said to me “Margaret”, “you are going to become a Muslim”.

    And I said “But I am not reading these books in order to become a Muslim.I am reading them in order to be able to refute the lies that are being told about the Muslim people.I don’t want to become a Muslim”.

    And he said “Well Margaret, you are going to become a Muslim, because I must tell you, there has been divine intervention in your life.” I was 65 years old. I am now 66. I have been a Muslim for one year.

    I went on studying with the alim, from about November to February, and I could not wait any longer to do my shahada, and I asked him do you think it is too soon for me to come, because I really don’t want to become a Muslim, but I’m sure I will learn and God will forgive me that I had not appreciated this great gift that He gave me. I was not hateful of appreciating it, I was too small, too much a sinner, to appreciate this great gift that He gave me.

    He said “Noor, come on the 11th. of February 2003, and he sat a bit far from me …, he was dressed in white from head to toe, and he said “Repeat after me” and he said the shahada which I repeated after him.”

    Then I said “What did I say?” and he told me in English what I said, and I said “Then I’m a Muslim” and he said “Yes and your name is Maryam”.

    I can’t say that I’m a good Muslim as it is extremely difficult. I lost all my catholic friends, all the friends that I talked with. My daughter thinks that I’m crazy! My son is the only one who believes that I may have found the Truth and he is the only one at the moment who may become a Muslim.

    The second thing which makes my life very difficult is that I live in a secular world and not in a Muslim world and I want with all my heart to live in a Muslim world and to have a Muslim community. I’m the only Muslim in the area where I live. But Allaah has been very good to me because amid all these difficulties, I’m happy, I’m studying.
    I read everything in English because of my age, as I can’t remember the recitation so I use a book. And I ask Allaah “Please remember Allaah, the most Merciful and most Compassionate, that I’m really only a baby, but I’m a 65 years old baby and I have little difficulties and You must help me” and this is one of the ways He is helping me.

    • January 15, 2015 7:39 am

      mac, what you have to say for Charlie Hebdo? Do you wish we start cutting and pasting all those stories here?

      • mac
        January 16, 2015 12:59 am

        Other members are doing this, it also means others members who did this are none but you , who did all this copy paste against Islam.

  • Mohammed
    January 15, 2015 3:41 am

    Dear admin,

    If u didnot know any knowledge/concept of islam then keep ur mouth shut…

    Quran is for whole mankind not only for Muslims and u had said
    “Kaaba cube is holy but Shiv Lingis idol, go figure it out!”

    You foolish and brain washed admin never understand islam.. kaaba is not a idol one which have any face or other parts of human body and i further tel u that we didnt pray to any kind of things. . it is the direction to pray. .if one muslim doesnt identify thedirection of kaaba then he is allowed to pray on direction as his own choice assuming that Allah is there…kaaba is not a idol..okI want to ask u only one simple questionwhich place is the centre of the earth?Answer this simple questionI hope u didnt turn back from this questionif u turn back and didnt give any reply for thisthen i will u are not a human and u are not giving any suggestion for humanityi hope u will give answer

    • January 15, 2015 7:17 am

      Kaaba is as holy as Krishna’s murti and Jesus’ cross. Alternatively ALL are idols. One of three is holy for you; counter is true true for the others. Let us repeat, for non-Muslims, the Kaaba is nothing more than a black cube. If you are willing to respect Krishna murti and Jesus cross, yes, you could expect others to respect your kaaba. It cannot be one way street.

      To your question, what “is the centre of the earth?” Take a Cricket ball and ask 100 people what is the center of this ball. We will answer you exactly the same. I hope you are not going to show your stupidity by trying to prove that kaaba is the center of earth; unless you are joking!

      • Mohammed
        January 15, 2015 7:44 am

        If you do think so, what i can tell you for that….
        you are always pointing something wrong thing from islam which is not possible…
        while bhagwat gita itself said not to belive and worship idols.. .
        while you are not understanding ur holy gita itself how would you understand other religion..

        By the way, Science itself has prove that kaaba is center of the earth .. if you belive or not belive its ur problem. .

        • admin
          January 15, 2015 10:01 pm

          How come? We are clueless!
          Is it your faith or science that is taught in schools and colleges?

          • mac
            January 16, 2015 12:41 am

            take the map of earth and see where is the center, we are not talking about spherical center of earth, we are talking about direction that we locate from maps

          • Mohammed
            January 16, 2015 7:37 am

            Admin,

            you only beliving science know and u have said to proof from the science. . we are now prooving from the science you are turning from us. . .

            Here it is which iam giving reference :
            Proof Kaaba is center of the
            Earth – ALLAHU AKBAR
            KABEERA
            MAKKAH IS THE EARTH CITY
            CENTRE
            Recently Western scientists,
            NASA, Researchers have
            confirmed that Kaba is the
            center of the earth.
            Black Stone is the oldest rock
            in the world and also floating
            in the water. In a museum in
            the UK, there are three pieces
            of stone (from the Kaaba) and
            the museum also said that
            chunks of rocks are not from
            our solar system.
            The black stone was proven to
            be a Meteorite sent from
            space – NASA Confirmed
            Neil Armstrong has proven
            that Mecca is the center of the
            planet Earth. This fact has
            been examined through a
            scientific study.
            When Neil Armstrong for the
            first time to travel into space
            and take pictures of planet
            Earth, he said, “Planet Earth
            turns hanging in a very dark
            area, who hung it?.”
            The astronauts have
            discovered that the planet
            Earth is issuing a kind of
            radiation, they officially
            announce it on the Internet,
            but unfortunately her 21 days
            later the website there seems
            to be missing a hidden reason
            behind the removal of the
            website. After doing more
            research, it turns out the
            radiation was centered in the
            city of Mecca, precisely
            derived from the Kaaba.
            The surprise is that radiation
            is infinite (endless), it is
            proven when they take
            photos of Mars, the radiation
            is still continued. Muslim
            Researchers believe that this
            radiation characteristics and
            connection between Kaaba on
            the planet Earth with the
            Kaaba in the afterlife.
            In the middle between the
            north pole and a south pole,
            there is an area called ‘Zero
            Magnetism Area’, the meaning
            is if we put a compass in the
            area, the compass needle will
            not move at all because of the
            attractiveness of the same
            magnitude between the two
            poles .
            That’s why if someone is
            living in Mecca, then he will
            live longer, healthier, and not
            much influenced by many
            forces of gravity. Therefore,
            when we surround the Kaaba
            is, it would appear we are in
            re-charged by a mysterious
            energy, and this is a fact that
            has been scientifically proven.
            Other studies revealed that
            the stone Black Stone is the
            oldest rock in the world and
            also floating in the water. In a
            museum in the UK, there are
            three pieces of stone (from
            the Kaaba) and the museum
            also said that chunks of rocks
            are not from our solar system.
            Rasulullah SAW said:
            “Black Stone was sent down
            from heaven, the color is
            whiter than milk, and the sins
            of our children and
            grandchildren that makes
            black Adamlah”
            Radiation of the Kaaba can
            not be known without a
            spacecraft of the 20th
            century, proving that the
            Quran is from GOD, and
            evidence of the Quran
            miracles of all time. Because
            many new verses can be
            proved by the equipment last,
            last time.
            Are there Prophetic hadith
            that mbuktikan this startling
            fact?
            Jawapannya is YES ..
            The Prophet said:
            ‘Kaaba is sesistem land on the
            water, from where it
            expanded the earth.’ This can
            be proved with scientific
            fakta2:
            Makkah bukti2 Center of the
            Earth
            [Exhibit 1]
            Allah says in the Qur’an al-
            Karim as follows:
            “Thus We have revealed to the
            Holy Qur’an in Arabic so that
            you may warn the Ummul
            Qura (Makkah) and population
            (countries) around it .. ‘(ash-
            Shura: 7)
            The word ‘Ummul Qura’ means
            mother for other cities and
            towns around showing
            Makkah is the center for other
            cities, and the other is just
            being around him.
            As a mother is the source of
            descent, it is also a source of
            Mecca to all the other
            countries, as explained earlier
            in this study.
            [Exhibit 2]
            There are several verses and
            Prophetic traditions which
            strengthen this fact. God said
            what he meant:
            O jinn and men, if you can
            penetrate (crosses) over the
            heavens and the earth, then
            lintasilah, you can not
            menembusinya except by
            force (science). (Ar-Rahman:
            33).
            Based on this verse and some
            traditions can difahamkan
            diameter layers that free sky
            above the earth’s diameter
            (seven plates of the earth). If
            Mecca are in the midst of the
            earth, with that bererti that
            Mecca was also in the middle
            of the sky layer.
            [Exhibit 3]
            In addition there are
            traditions explained that free
            Grand Mosque in Mecca, where
            the temple is located was in
            the midst of the seven layers
            of the heavens and the seven
            layers that make up the earth.
            The Prophet SAW said means:
            “O people of Mecca, O people
            of Quraysh, actually you are
            under the middle of the sky”.
            [Exhibit 4]
            Prof. Hussain Kamel
            discovered a surprising fact
            that Makkah is the center of
            the earth. At first he was
            researching a way to
            determine the direction of
            Qibla in major cities in the
            world.
            For this purpose, he drew lines
            on a map, and after that he
            examined the position of 7
            continents to Makkah and
            distance respectively. After 2
            years of study that make it
            complex with program2
            computer to determine that
            appropriate jarak2 etc.. He was
            amazed by what he found,
            that Mecca is the center of the
            earth.
            He likens such as one circle and
            Makkah is the center point,
            and the lines outside the circle
            it was a continent-continent.
            At the same time, it moves
            along the outer circumference
            of the continents. (Al-
            Arabiyyah Magazine, issue
            237, Ogos 1978).
            [Exhibit 5]
            Satellite drawings, which
            appeared later in the 90’s,
            gives the same result as
            further study leading to the
            layers of earth’s topography
            and geography of the land
            when it was created.
            [Exhibit 6]
            There has been a valid
            scientific theory that the
            earth plates bhawa formed
            over a long geological ages,
            moving regularly around the
            Arabian plate. These plates
            constantly converge towards
            it as if pointing to Mecca.
            Do they not pay attention to
            the Koran? If you would
            Koran is not from Allah, they
            would have got a lot of
            contradictions in it. QS. 4 An-
            Nisaa ‘: 82
            The latest scientific discovery
            that remained in the minds of
            scientists and was announced
            in January 1977 proves that
            Mecca is the center of the
            world’s terrestrial land. This
            latest discovery took many
            years of scientific research to
            be discovered and needed a
            set of complex mathematical
            tables. And computer
            technology was used for this
            purpose.
            Hussain Kamel, discovered a
            surprising fact bahawa Mecca
            is the center of the earth. At
            first he was researching a
            way to determine the
            direction of the Qibla in major
            cities in the world.
            For that purpose, he drew
            lines on maps, and after that
            he studied carefully the
            position of seventh continent
            against Mecca and distance
            respectively.
            He began to draw parallel lines
            to facilitate the project only
            the longitude and latitude. He
            was amazed with what was
            found, bahawa Mecca is the
            center of the earth or the
            world. (Al-Arabiyyah
            Magazine, issue 237, Ogos,
            1978).
            Kaaba as the center of the
            Earth: Consider the direction
            of arrows from every
            direction over the earth, all
            Muslims do worship with the
            Central lead to one (Qibla) that
            is the Kaaba, both at the time
            of prayers as well as fulfilling
            one of the pillars of Hajj,
            which is Tawaf. This is the
            same as the movement of the
            Earth and other planets are
            centered on the Sun, or the
            same as the movement of the
            Sun and stars are centered at
            one point to form a group or
            collection of stars or called by
            the direction of rotation of
            the star Galaksi.Setiap -stars,
            planets and other objects in
            these galaxies form a circle /
            around a center in the
            opposite direction-clockwise,
            in accordance with the laws /
            regulations in performing
            Tawaf ritual of Hajj in one.
            Satellite images that appear
            later in the 90’s and natijah
            emphasize the same results, as
            further studies leading to the
            layers of Earth’s topography
            and geography of the land
            when it was created.
            Has become an established
            theory scientifically bahawa
            plates of the earth was
            formed during a long geologic
            time, moving regularly around
            the Arabian plate. The plates
            constantly converge towards
            it as if pointing towards
            Mecca.
            Based on the above studies,
            that Mecca is in the midst of
            the earth (center of the
            world), then it really believed
            that the Holy City of Mecca,
            not Greenwich, should be a
            reference time of the world.
            This will end the controversy
            that arose in the four decades
            ago by the West.
            There are plenty of scientific
            debate to prove that Mecca is
            an empty area of the square
            through the holy city. If
            applied Mecca time, then it is
            easy for everyone to know
            prayer time.

          • January 16, 2015 2:14 pm

            Muhammad, Sorry your cut and paste is too long. Are schools in Muslims country teaching this in their science classes?

          • Mohammed
            January 17, 2015 3:08 am

            Admin got really mad, wow !!
            he belives only in olden science for those which thoghts in schools . .

          • Mohammed
            January 18, 2015 3:19 am
  • January 14, 2015 8:32 pm

    Amit,

    Another thought… can you ask her to visit India and get married by the Special Marriage Act 1954. This way no one has to convert. After marriage, you could register for her permanent residency in India as your wife (check for procedure) and adapt her child too. Later, she could always visit Malaysia based on her passport. In case later you decide to settle in Malaysia, at that time you will have to convert and remarry her there.

    “You convert in India and later visit Malaysia” is a bad idea. As soon as you convert, you will have to get a new Muslim name, change your passport and driving license. In case, you own a property, you will have to change your ownership title with a new name. Further, you may loose your rights as a Hindu joint family inheritance rights (if any). After that, when you apply for Malaysia visit, you have to declare that your intention to visit there is to marry your lover. If for any reason, you don’t get a visa to visit there or the girl side change their mind (lets hope not), then you are stuck being a Muslim and without a girl. Later, even a Hindu girl will never marry you. This will be a total mess, keep off.

    • Amit
      January 14, 2015 10:04 pm

      she cant visit here 1st couz she is not belong rich family .. in her family she hav only sister whom married there in village. she lost her father. her mom nd her kid lives in village . and my gf doing job there in one city. what all she earn in dat money she cant save our money for future so she cant come here.

      2nd i tot whn i visit Malaysia thn i cant tell there for visa im visit for what? i show only m going like a tourist .. nd if ne case for visa there ask me y u want go in dat city .. thn i hav my net sister there in same city .. i know her sense 2011.. nd she treate my like im her one real bro ..so she told me whn u come here for take our gf .. thn she help me .. i no need to stay ne hotel .. i lived in her home ..

      im really surprised who is keep in touch with me .. i mean Malaysian Muslim .. he not talk me much abt religion. he talk what problem i got nd she got if both u want married in Malaysia then .. we are here only think to much abt religion .. but there my gf ..her friend. my net sis.. her family .. he cant talk abt religion .. he only know me how u easly married her nd take her here in india. without Malaysian law problem.

      m worry only one thing .. what my gf .. her family nd friends dont know .. whn she visit india like a tourist (not like my wife) nd then we married here again after few day nd also register our marriage thn after dat she or her kid loss our Malaysian citizenship ??
      or what happen when she visit Malaysia in future to meet our family?

      we worry only this point

      • January 15, 2015 7:37 am

        First, “she cant save our money for future so she cant come here”, solve this problem by sending her ticket from India, simple.

        Honesty is the best policy. Trying to cheat others will cost you a lot in your life. Get married in India without fake-conversion. In registration, don’t change her name. Later, you could always visit Malaysia as a tourist. She will still have the same name in her Malaysian passport and she could always go there to visit.

        Only thing, find out for how to change her visitor visa to a resident Indian as you wife (but still carrying Malaysian citizen ship and name).

        • mac
          January 16, 2015 12:42 am

          who told you that amit is looking for fake conversion

    • mac
      January 15, 2015 4:17 am

      admin, who told you that amit has to change his name???

      • January 15, 2015 7:28 am

        Amit, don’t be in a wrong impression. Islam is a one way street. Once in, it is impossible to get out. Go ask your local imam if while shahadah conversion do they give you a new Muslim name or not for Nikahnama? How girls family will trust you that you are a Muslim? One could doubt that you prepared a fake-nikahnama? After your marriage, you will have to register your marriage in Malaysia and you have to show all proof that you are a true 100% Muslim. If you are found fooling them, you will be in their prison.

        mac, Amit wishes to fake-convert to Islam for marriage in Malaysia, then have a Hindu wedding ceremony after returning to India. Would you support this activities (fake conversion and Hindu wedding for two Muslims)? Tell Amit how Muslim community will respond when they see in Newspaper that two Muslims are going to marry by a Hindu wedding ceremony? Please don’t fool him, be honest.

        • Amit
          January 15, 2015 8:10 am

          wht is important thing to faith in only one god? 2nd if she want marriage again in india couz she like indian wedding .. what she look in bollywood movie .. she want dat type marriage here thn whats wrong? that is not my choice .. my choice here we register marriage .. bt she like traditional indian marriage .. how u said that wrong or fake?

          2nd i cant send her tickets couz she not my wife .. nd i cant send her money more then 500 USD .. rbi rules not allow

          nd i think this your blog admin .. useless .. here u not provide any help for interfaith marriage .. here u make place where fight for religion issue .. y u make this dump blog ???

          u hav no problem if she convert .. if she thn u said true love .. nd if she cant m convert thn m fake .. my love is fake .. good

          • admin
            January 15, 2015 9:50 pm

            You both are mature and in love. You are made for each other. We wish the laws and religious communities don’t come in your way. We hope no one has to convert, not you nor her. We will be the first to congratulate you. We believe – – “let the rose be rose and carnation be carnation”. Humanity is more important and not man-made religions. Like you said, we wish you could teach your children from Vedas and Koran (and Bible, Guru Granth Sahib and Torah). Further, let children pray to Allah and Shiva, it is one and the same -ONE GOD. When your children are at age 21, they could decided to be what ever they wish to be, even an atheist. All over this web site, this is the message we are giving and we believe you also believe more or less the same. Correct?

            Read these and you may get more ideas/tips how to achieve your dream…
            https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7587
            https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?cat=112

            You are a good man and you deserve the best. Please keep in touch!

          • Amit
            January 16, 2015 10:09 am

            can u believe one thing .. my mom die 2005 whn she go out of station looking girl for married for me .. nd whn she back home town .. she die near home in road xsidnt ..so this thing make me sad nd give me guilty .. nd m not think after dat for my marriage . after dat m now saw my mom face in my dream long .. but this year 5 January m saw 1st time ma mom in dream
            i look my gf post some pic on fb where she with my mom .. ma mom teach her dance nd indian cooking etc. thn m look whn she back here in india .. at home ma mom told me .. u must be married her soon .. i really like her whn i meet ur gf .. must be marriage her.. this dream m saw morning at 4:30 am ..
            admin can u know me what is dat dream mean??

            one more thing .. whn m all this look in dream at night whn m going to sleep .. m not think abt my mom or my gf .. thn how???

            what is dat …???

          • Amit
            January 16, 2015 10:33 am

            in Singapore i know there no need to convert .. same in india also .. but in Malaysia .. ?? there is no way ..

          • January 16, 2015 2:10 pm

            Amit,
            We are really sorry to hear about your mom. This must be hard, I don’t know if someone else could understand your pain.
            Yes, the Malaysian government is unfair in making such partial laws favoring Muslims. Do not get in trap with that government.

        • mac
          January 16, 2015 5:43 am

          @ Admin, now i don`t support fake convert, but amit says he believes in one unseen god like the Islamic way, so i don`t see any fake conversion here.

          Well she is interested in Indian traditional way of marriage, still it is unislamic not because it is indian,hindu but becuase indian marriage ceremonies are costly and islam is against fancy marriage ceremonies, and if in that marriage, swears are made on the name of false god then there is problem, again, you are saying how muslim community will react two muslim getting married in hindu way, but admin, civil marriage is even worst to start with, if she marries in indian way, then its only for her wish and to please family members of amit

          And amit, you should learn about islam, not because you are marrying a muslim but becuase you have right concept of god, study islam and then you will realise this is the religion that you believe from heart, islam means `submit to god`

          • Amit
            January 16, 2015 10:29 am

            abt indian traditional marriage .. i jst know one thing wht we look in here Islamic wedding .. wht he following haldi mahendi nd sindoor also .. all this not arab wedding traditional .. this all indian traditional wedding singh wht here indian muslim follow couz he is Indian
            so i tot if she like here Indian marriage dat is not wrong

            2nd m not read kuran or ved b4 .. nd if i read .. thn my dat views not going change god is only one who is super natural power .. who make us all human .. he not divided any human whn god give us air rain summer winter all thingd

            3rd .. m respect all messenger who teach us good things .. but only we human are not understand thingd nd we fight take name of god or religion..

            i trust nd strongly believed if u respect others thn same thing u will get .. if u not and u blamed or fight others thn he also doing same thing

            for me all are human 1st .. no any religion teach us to fight with good human beings

          • January 16, 2015 2:18 pm

            Amit,
            We love that you believe in humanity first and religion second. Keep it up!
            Believe in ONE God but don’t buy in that certain apostles are more important and less others.

          • mac
            January 17, 2015 5:09 am

            Admin, you hit the right button that one apostate is above another and this is exactly the same msg of Islam/Qur’an.

            And it is only muslims who believe in all apostates and gives equal respect, jews respect stops to moses, chrsitians in jesus, it is muslim who respect all prohpets..

            And amit, i am not saying anyhting about indian marriage tradition or arab marriage tradition, islamic marriage tradition are neither arab nor indian, islamic marriage can be done without spending even 10 Indian Rupees, and this is best, islam tells us that blessing comes from allah swt not how you decorated and wasted money while poor people are spending hungry life..also when ones arrange a 5* marriage ceremony it puts pressure on others to arrange such marriage ceremony, this is why fancy marriage is islam is forbidden, more cheap is your marriage , more love you get from allah, its like a social work, also allah wants our marriage to be solemnize in easy way without any burden

  • January 14, 2015 5:52 am

    Amit,

    You are emotionally attached with her without practical sense of real life situation. Mac like person, whose mother converted from Hindu Brahmin to muslim being trapped as part of tricks of muslim guys to multiply their population, will always hide the evils of islamic culture, who are creating havoc in the entire world through their hate, crime, cruelty, inhuman behaviour. Mac is a cut paste master and great manupulator.

    She is having kid, what charm do you find in her, just emotions.
    They want to get you converted properly, through circumcision, eating beef, so that you will not even think of coming back to Hinduism.
    You will also face cultural shocks after marrying her, even if became reality. While you will be interested with your relatives great hindu religion of peace, harmony, vasudhevkutumbakam etc. and while discussion with your muslim relatives you will hear hatred, violence,cruelty,discrimination, jihad, fatwa against non islamic believers.

    My sincere advice to you dont get trapped. May be she an associate of ISIS, trapping you to join their idelogy. Through FB a lot of such incidents have happened.

    • Amit
      January 14, 2015 7:20 am

      Lolzz ISIS trapping hahaha .. Im not kid . IM useing Internet and doing Chating sence 1997 .. nd i know better more thn u abt wrong things on Imternet. couz all wrong things m saw on Internet whn all this start .
      2nd yep m emotional attached with her couz i love .
      nd u dont know anything abt her so dont put finger on her couz only she is muslim.
      Im not smart nd handsome. nd I hav no money in my hand. she know all things what happen with me. she know not easy to make true our dream. after dat she wating me whn i come there to take her here in India.
      how much she beautiful if u look her nd look me thn u said “langur ke hanth me Angoor” .. she no need to love me if she want rich handsome man in our life.
      only im not emotionaly attached with her. she also
      emotionaly attached with me.
      one more thing .. she not proposed me .. m proposed her 1st .. nd whn she accept my love b4 dat one day she know me all things about her one life ..
      we first 7 month talk like a friend only .. m proposed her later 7 months our friendship .. nd whn m going to proposed her b4 dat one day m shared my feelings my one net sister who is her real life friend nd lived same city. whn m share my feelings with my dat sis she tell me she dont think her friend (my gf) accept my love couz she not intrested all this thing.
      i said ok bt m share my feelings with her .. dat up to her wht she said .. thn m share my feelings with my gf .. on October 2012 ..nd finaly she add me in relationship status on our FB 20 November 2012 .
      she hav in our FB all family members . real life nd FB friends .. if she cheater wht u think .. thn she no need to add me in relationship status where she hav our family .. nd more all thing wht proved she is not cheater. we always connect each other on viber where m look her location whn she talk ..
      she not hide me all dat things what cheater not showing anyone
      so plz dont talk like fool. nd dont pur finger our true love

  • mac
    January 14, 2015 12:15 am

    Dear Amit, Islam means ~submit to god~ and muslims means ~one who submits to god~, so converting to islam is not changing your identity, it is testifying that i am muslims means i am the person who follows god, this is the beauty of our religion, the termonology …thatshwy people are so jealous about our religion

    • mac
      January 14, 2015 12:16 am

      *terminology

  • Amit
    January 13, 2015 8:42 pm

    love not have ne religion
    humanity not hav ne religion
    friendship not hav ne religion
    terrorist not hav ne religion

    thn whose fight for dat? if in all this case
    we talk or follow this things

  • Amit
    January 13, 2015 8:21 pm

    in Malaysia she cant change our religion nd me also cant change there my religion .. we know there law not give dat permission .. so she want only m change my religion 1st before come there
    nd 2nd thing whn m go there m not show im going there for what .. i jst show m going to traveling only ..
    i hav there one net sis in same city who know all things .. nd she there help me also ..

  • Amit
    January 13, 2015 9:12 am

    m against only wrong things .. i trust only this fact .. if allah (for me m call him shiva) ( Couz ved nd kuran both books said same things and same words) ..
    if allah nd shiva is both not one then how that fact is possible in india hav ganga nd in makka hav zam zam. both water quality is same ..
    this one fact show super power god (allah/shiva) is same nd both are one
    others are only messanger …but m trust nd my faith only dat one god how is really one nd one only ..
    who make us all .. are human ..

    • January 13, 2015 7:48 pm

      Amit,
      About you are talking like a Hindu but now you have to think like a Muslim. You cannot associate Allah name with Shiva, punishment could be death for apostasy. Kaaba cube is holy but Shiv Ling is idol, go figure it out! Now you have to think that there is only one God and that is Muslims only. The God can be prayed only in the direction of Saudi Arabia at specified 5 times a day. Further, all Christians, Jews and Sikhs will go to hell but only Muslim will enter to heaven. If you are not sure what we are talking about, read Koran and think how it makes sense for you.

      • Amit
        January 13, 2015 8:05 pm

        i know … many muslim not pray 5 time .. not follow all values of islaam .. Couz they believe god is only one .
        nd me also .. difrent pplz different value follow hav in our one religion .. m not mix shiva and allah .. m talk only dat fact what ved nd kuran said same words … m believe only one super power how creat all us this nature nd all .. if m hindu m not follow many hindu value .. many muslim not follow all value of islaam .. i believe only follow that value who make me human being 1st nd teach me love and peace others … anyway i want to know what is rite way to married
        my Malaysian girlfriend in future ..

        • January 13, 2015 9:59 pm

          Once you will become a Muslim you will not say “human being 1st”, but you will say “I am a Muslim first!” (read Haque). Also after being a Muslim, you have to be like mac (read).

          • Amit
            January 13, 2015 11:36 pm

            dat depend my views wht i said .. many hindu and muslim said he is muslim or hindu 1st .. my view very clear like some peoples m human 1st .. after dat my identity is my country after dat my religion

      • Mohammed
        January 14, 2015 4:18 am

        Dear admin,

        If u didnot know any knowledge of islam then keep ur mouth shut…

        Quran is for whole mankind not only for Muslims
        and u had said
        “Kaaba cube is holy but Shiv Ling is idol, go figure it out!”

        You foolish admin never understand islam.. kaaba is not a idol one which have any face or other parts of human body and i further tel u that we didnt pray to any kind of things. . it is the direction to pray. .
        if one muslim doesnt identify the direction of kaaba then he is allowed to pray on direction as his own choice assuming that Allah is there…kaaba is not a idol..ok

        I want to ask u only one simple question
        which place is the centre of the earth?
        Answer this simple question
        I hope u didnt turn back from this question
        if u turn back and didnt give any reply for this
        then i will u are not a human and u are not giving any suggestion for humanity
        i hope u will give answer

  • Amit
    January 13, 2015 8:26 am

    we want settel in india .. her family is not much rich .. so her family want we 1st married there in front of her family thn .. i take her here in india .. i know nd my gf know law problem in Malaysia .. so we tot we jst married in front of family nd in front of her friends there .. who know abt me ..
    we not married front of others who creat law problem there .. nd whn we done married there thn we come india nd settel here

    • January 13, 2015 7:51 pm

      How many Muslims live in your neighborhood? Being a Muslim, are you now going to move into a Muslim neighborhood? Why don’t you go live in all Muslim now for one week and experience real your new coming life.

      • Amit
        January 13, 2015 8:31 pm

        what im work there m keep in touch every day muslim .. nd every day m stay with him 5 6 hours .. he all know what value im follow .. nd he not said m wrong .. many time we talk abt religion value .. m not take side islaam or hindu religion .. m take side only dat values only who make me good humam .. m not take side hindu or islaam dat values.. whose not make me comfortable nd give satisfaction

  • January 13, 2015 7:07 am

    Amit, Is this internet love? Are your parents okay your converting to Islam? Do you have interest in Islam or this is just a namesake FAKE-conversion for marriage? Do you understand Malaysian laws for fake-conversion? Ultimately, where do you wish to settle?

    • Amit
      January 13, 2015 8:19 am

      yep i meet her on FB . my family know she is muslim nd my family … my bro . my uncle aunty nd cousin sis grandmom all hav no problem ..
      and her sis .. brothers and other all know abt me and her family also hav no problem
      2nd u ask my my faith .. m believe in one god only what ved or kuran said same line .. god has no born .. he hav no mother nd father .. m trust my faith in dat god only
      so m not going convert in muslim Couz only love .. yep i want marry her dat true nd she also want

      if m convert my religion dat only Couz m trust real god (super power) in only one .. others god for me like a messanger how is born in earth like .. ram krishna .. i tot dat only messanger so m respect

      • Mohammed
        January 13, 2015 8:38 am

        whats her opinion?
        what she tells about this matter?
        what ur parents and their parents are agreeing both the religion?
        how u further going to marry?

        Interact with us and tell her to communicate with us. .
        here some mad will also comment about against islam dont go with them they are lier. .

        • Amit
          January 13, 2015 8:55 am

          i hav no mom m 39 nd she is 35 .. i lived with ma father .. but my whole life m lived alone . i cant look ma mom nd dad .. whn m born .. 1st time i saw ma family whn i was 12 year old .. 2005 my mom die she only one who love me in ma family .. father nd bro .. he only want . m work nd wht i earn i give all dat money him

          my real parent is only my cousin sis grand mom nd aunty .. only but she lived far .. and all one know abt our relationship .. nd both side parents are agree for married

          my girlfriend want 1st m convert in muslim .. in India not in Malaysia .. after dat we married in Malaysia in front of her family nd friends .. thn she come with me in india nd here we marriage in front of family or friends

          and we settel here

          problem only dat we dont know .. if she lived with me here thn in future whn she or her son visit Malaysia thn how? what going his one citizenship after married me nd lived here in india

          • January 13, 2015 8:03 pm

            We see this as a MAJOR problem, “my girlfriend want 1st m convert in muslim”. What after conversion, if you don’t get visa, or Malaysian authority stop you or girl’s family change their mind that you are short/dark etc? Never do that. Tell her that you will convert just before the Nikaah, it takes only 5 min to convert, be smart. If you take a foolish step, people in India will laugh at you. You could never reverse back to Hinduism, punishment is death. Further, no Hindu girl will EVER marry you. Think!

          • Amit
            January 13, 2015 8:09 pm

            whn she here with me she want we married here again to follow hindu marriage rules .. in front of family ..

        • Amit
          January 13, 2015 8:59 am

          m not against islaam .. Couz m also trust only god is only one who is super power .. what kuran said .. nd what ved said for real one god .. i hav many muslim friend nd he know what i think abt god nd he all said u r rite

          • January 13, 2015 10:01 pm

            Wow, you said “…again to follow hindu marriage”. TWO Muslims will marry by Hindu wedding, what an oxymoron idea!! Is she ready for it?

          • Amit
            January 13, 2015 11:56 pm

            yep she is ready for dat .. m not force her for dat .. she want following rules of hindu married in india front of my family … she said she like doing dat … what all m here write nd talk .. her friends nd family members who keep in touch with me all one know dat .. wht we did whn she here with me .. m saw here only we think to much all abt this . i mean abt religion … but her family nd friends not talk me all abt this .. in 2 year relationship we talk abt religion only one time nd think nd try to find way how we Mary .. only dat time she one said me u no need to convert couz only for marriage me .. bt m clear her my views .. m not convert couz i want marry her or love .. m convert couz only .. m trust god is only one …
            nd 2nd thing she ask me dat time abt india .. abt hindu muslim marriage .. i know her here is dat not big prob .. if both side family accepted dat relationship thn no need to convert ..
            well our prob is only Malaysian law .. nd her nd her one kid citizen ship .. we hav no idea .. whn she come here with me after marry .. thn if she want to go meet our family members thn what law problem she got
            nd in india .. after married here ones again thn what here law said abt this .. i mean she allow lived here or not .. abt citizenship here ..

          • Amit
            January 14, 2015 12:07 am

            for what u said oxymoron idea ! i just want say .. she like indian traditional married .. wht she look in bollywood movies ..nd she want make happy m family also so what wrong in this Oxymoron Idea? many non indian comes india doing marriage following that Oxymoron Idea .. nd whn we look dat in news thn we not say dat is Oxymoron ????

          • January 14, 2015 8:49 pm

            Amit,
            “she want following rules of hindu married in india front of my family … she said she like doing dat” – this is beautiful, absolutely lovely. We understand you and she have good hearts. However the society, the pandits/imams and government will make mess out of beautiful love. Don’t ignore laws but carefully think to find solutions within given laws. Laws in India are more liberal than in Malaysia for Hindu-Muslim marriage. Best wishes.

      • January 13, 2015 9:14 am

        Dear Amit.

        If you believe in the concept of one God from heart and believe in Islamic values then do convert even if you do not want to marry. And if you are converting, there is no issue at all, you will be accepted by your girlfriend’s family as they will consider you one among them. For me , I am too naive to understand the concept of god (whether there is only one or many gods)so I do not personally believe in god from worldly point of view. But just remember that being a practicing Muslims you are not allowed to consider any other form of god baring Allah.
        I do not underhand why there is so much hypocrisy about interfaith marriage in Islam doesn’t make a difference whether the non-Muslim marrying to a muslim is man or women they are expected to convert before marrige to muslim. And I do consider those conversion sin as the reason in those conversions is not religion based but marriage bases and both the muslim partner and his/her non-muslim spouse (knowing that it is conversion for convenience) are doing wrong according to the core concept of Islam. As Quran says “let there be no compulsion on religion” and “a muslim shall always marry another muslim”, then why did Allah at first place made muslims to fall in love with non-muslims, does he want to test their loyalty faith (just to check if the muslim will marry a non-muslim knowing that the non-muslim partner does not actully believe in Islam but is still converting because of social pressure) or the fanatics have played a wrong no. card (to borrow it from pk movie) to not to let muslims to convert to other religions.
        Whatever it is, I truly believe in the power of love irrespective of religion, my funda is simple, if u love someone get married and have guts to marry n to continue the relation without asking for a change of religion from your partner. I mean how silly is it! you love a person from XYZ religion n then you ask him to convert to ur religion for marriage as u believe in your religion. If you r so true to your religion then u should not at first place have fallen in love with the person from another religion. asking a person to convert to a particular religion for getting married is certainly not a thing that your god would like as the conversion is not by heart (both the partners are wrong in that case ).

        • Amit
          January 13, 2015 8:49 pm

          she not indian nd there law not give permission so she want m change … she not ask me 1st to convert ..m said this m convert .. nd married her there in front of her family.
          nd she want whn she here with me in india thn we married again to following my family rules

      • Amit
        January 14, 2015 4:55 am

        if m respect all messanger thn wht islaam said? if m convert nd trust god is only one

        m not read kuran but wht i know .. kuran not said this u not respect messangers

    • Amit
      January 13, 2015 8:30 am

      we want settel in india .. her family is not much rich .. so her family want we 1st married there in front of her family thn .. i take her here in india .. i know nd my gf know law problem in Malaysia .. so we tot we jst married in front of family nd in front of her friends there .. who know abt me ..
      we not married front of others who creat law problem there .. nd whn we done married there thn we come india nd settel here

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