Brahmin in love with a Muslim

Hindu weddingSarah says: February 7, 2015 at 6:51 am

I am in same situation. A brahmin girl who is a single child and in love with a muslim. He is not religious and nor am i. We both are financially independent and have decided to move abroad if our parents disown us, though we’ll always try to be in touch with them and help them. what do you think about the decision? -Sarah

sarah says: February 7, 2015 at 10:02 pm

We have decided to do a court marriage and he has readily agreed to accept me as it is without changing my religion, name or anything. He is not against idol worshiping or me going to temples. Instead, he is willing to come to the temples with me himself. We respect each other’s religion, and more than that, we love each other more than we love our religions. -Sarah

Sarah says: February 19, 2015 at 8:30 am

Dear Amit, Don’t worry, I’m not blinded by love. The demerits that Sourav has mentioned have already been discussed between us. I have gone through them so well that i can tell you how my married life’s going to be. I’m not IGNORANT about the points you mentioned. I have thought upon them before and have took this decision only after confirming that I’m totally safe with him. And, he himself doesn’t want me to convert…..so there’s no problem. Moreover, I’m not going to convert at any cost. So, don’t worry about it. -Sarah

sarah says: April 30, 2015 at 10:38 am

We haven’t informed to our parents yet. it is a slow process. But during this, we have realized that we can’t live without each other. -Sarah


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87 Comments

  • Amit
    February 3, 2020 3:33 am

    Is kahani ka kya huya bhaiyon ……..????

    I am curious to know…..

  • pandey
    December 9, 2016 5:28 am

    To all such hindu girls who are young and educated and liberal. I failed to understand why muslims trap Brahmin hindu girls reason being they know that Brahmins are educated good looks ( I dont mean that others are not so as brahmins) and more liberal that makes them vunerable, The parents with good living life standard dont bother much for their kids they have trust and think my kids are wise enough to handle the situation and in liew there of the children take disadvantage of their parents openness and trapped by muslims. Muslims play very cartefully with the girls giving them all sorts of attractions to girls they seduce them by all means and ultimately the girls comes in the trap then the actual game of shadi starts the girl either absconds with the guy ( In case the parents of the girl are not ready forr the marriage )ans get marry in a court or a masjid the girl is converted to Islam ( As admin said love is like a nasha of cocaine and looses all iyts nerves of thinking good and bad )After few months the real story starts of conversion and so many things and after 1 yr or may be a lil late the real face of the guys family and himself descloses then the torture starts for so many things like Burka, eating Beef, loss of indepandency and only concentrate to home and family . ultimately if the girls is little bold then either she commits suicide or is divorced 3 talak , If the girl is enough to support her self then in that case the marriage prolonges for another few more yrs but the result is always is negative . And when the nasha of pyar and youth goes down then ultimately it stands to talak and the girls life is doomed . there are very rare stories of successfull marriage of muslim hindu . most are utter failure . But still the girls do. God save those

  • Kim
    November 11, 2016 10:51 am

    He will leave you. Dont get married. Muslim boys never love a single girl. They are not loyal most of the time.

  • September 16, 2015 3:06 am

    ok sarah i’ll give you some examples related to islam, reply me if you want to about islam. One thing i would like to tell you that if i speak about something which seems like it is against to islam then don’t think that i am not muslim, i am a muslim and i think logically not according to the so called stories.

    • Sarah
      November 15, 2015 5:22 am

      Like what?

      • November 15, 2015 3:25 pm

        Sarah, we are glad to hear from you again after a long pause. So, what is progress? Are you ready to convert to Islam (in most cases, that is the only option)?

  • May 1, 2015 7:34 am

    Sarah,
    You are a smart girl and gives very balance advise to others. How long you have been in love with that guy? What are your chances that you will be able to marry him without converting (we say less than 5%)?

    Love is like cocaine or cigarette addiction. Even you may be smart to know it, love takes away your ability to think rationally.

    Love it like a frog in a pot of very comfortable water. Now when the water temperature is slowly heating up, the frog will not realize it. Every time, the heat will be little more than earlier time, and the frog will try to adjust it to the new environment. In the end, even the water is boiling, still the frog will try to adjust.

    You know what we mean!

    • sarah
      July 22, 2015 10:44 pm

      Hey admin,
      Ofc I know what you mean. Frankly speaking.. Its not that I haven’t realized.. but he never wanted me to make any kind of adjustments…. Ofc you have to do a few which I did on my own will…. You say its less than 5% I say it is 100%. I believe in my relationship and that’s what makes your relationship going. It means that you never give up on each other. That is what makes your relationship strong. And I am a kind of a girl who will check whether the pot of water is on stove or not… before jumping in… 😉 🙂

  • March 22, 2015 11:05 pm

    I was born a Hindu Brahmin. I met my now husband while in college back in 1997. Against my father’s advice, I became friends with him. We fell in love and dated each other knowing the circumstances were not in our favor. Being together made me feel alive. I took the risk, we both did. Five years after admintting my feelings we were engaged. A year after that (2005) we had a shaadi and then a nikah. 2 years later (2007)we were blessed with our daughters.

    I refused to convert although the pressure was tangible. To my relief, it was not a deal breaker. After our marriage, there was no tension. For Maya’s birth we did both the hindu and muslim customs for a newborn. But in reality we both are scientists and know with evidence there is no god and religion is man made. To stay loyal to the tribe, we never uttered the words.

    But when it came time to explain to 4 year-old Maya and 3 year-old Layla why our 12-week old puppy died and where he went, we could no longer live the lie.

    It was easier for our parents to just regurgitate the answers they were given without questioning the validity of them…but in science we’ve learned that we have all evolved to share this Earth over the course of 3.5 billion years and there are no outliers to the natural laws thus leaving no room for the supernatural. How can I regurgitate that which I know to be false? Especially to the 2 people I am entrusted with. It would have been a 30-year step back in time and the progression of thought/knowledge would be halted as they would then have to re-learn what their father and I already had.

    We openly became atheist in 2010. We left the isolation of our individual communities and joined with humanity. We have never looked back and Maya and Layla are now both ahead of the game.

    We could not betray the trust the girls had in me and answer them

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9688

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      March 23, 2015 7:19 am

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      • March 23, 2015 9:24 pm

        Reply to Ami at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9688

        When educated and independent minded Muslim meet a Hindu, this is what happen.

        mac, never date or marry your Hindu girl friend. When you see any other girl in college, lower your gaze (Koran 24:30). If you have not started yet, start namaz 5 times/day/every day, even when in your college (Allah is counting!!).

        • mac
          March 24, 2015 3:30 am

          oh really, then according to you in our class there is no educated hindu girls coz all of them believe in ramayana,gita,etc

  • shahin khan
    February 25, 2015 1:28 am

    To Sarah………..
    If u love the guy then go by all means .Where there is love their opens a way.and dont get bogged down by political notions of love jehad.ur life is not political and certainly love is not.how your life in future will turn out to be depends on how much ability you have to love,understand and forgive.And then comes the religion.No worries here either.The essence of all religions is love.from it emerges the esoteric branch of all religions .Here the religions are ONE so much so that its difficult to seperate the one from the other.its only at the exoteric level that religions differ.hence, fights and disagrements.And yet its the sprituality which gives salvation not the other way round.so go ahead and fill your life with love.

  • Mohammed
    February 15, 2015 11:34 am

    Foolish admin. if you changed ur name and cut nd paste ur comment with always lies. .
    did u thought people get satisfied with ur comments.
    people is not so fool like u which they will satisfy with ur comment. . All knows the suitable way of life only is islam

    • February 15, 2015 12:26 pm

      Dear Smart Muhammed, can you please point us what comment you are making?
      We have deleted your above comment. Please reply again with proper formatting, thanks for understanding. Thanks for educating us, we love you!

  • sourav
    February 15, 2015 11:14 am

    sarah
    dont get trapped, before marriage every thing will be okk, but in future u will realise the mistake what u have done .at that time u have no way to escape.
    demerits of islam:
    1)multiple wives
    2)wear burkha
    3)4,5,6 childrens
    4)you daughter will be fucked by u your family member
    5)no freedom to do job.
    6)for women islam is hell
    7)for men it is heaven.
    8)divorce by three word ‘talak, talak ,talak’
    9)you sons will be teached to do jihad against hindu,india,america….
    10)no respect for women
    11)you have to stay with ur husband wives like sisters in one house
    12)you children will become a jihadi and will be killed in bomb balast.
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    now,
    as ur in love you will feel everything is going to be well , my b.f is very good , his family loves me too much, we respect both of ur religion,he will allow me to follow my faith(idol worship)….these lines are same lines speaked by victims of love jihad in india. my frnd situation will not remain same {check videos on youtube live confession of girls trapped in love jihad before and after their view, media ..,,,abt love jihad just search “love jihad in india”
    a hindu can live with a christian , sikh but with a muslim impossible

    so i suggest u quit this love story ……CRY NOW SO THAT U WILL NOT CRY IN FUTURE.
    follow ur parents …just think ur parents are not married, they are not happy.

    “TO MARRY A MUSLIM BOY FOR ANY GIRL OF ANY RELIGION IS JUST LIKE SELF SUCIDE”
    these days in madarsas young boys who looks handsome, speak good english are trained to do love jihad.so that the can marry 4 girls and the children from them will be muslim and muslim count will increase.to change the world in islam.

    SO NOW IT UP TO U WHAT TO DO “ITS BETTER TO CRY NOW ” FOR A BRIGHT FUTURE

    THANKS

    • Amit
      February 15, 2015 9:04 pm

      Very Gud Job…In one sentence…we can say ….
      Its Love Jihad…to make India a Muslim Coutry….
      Also…Muslims Never allow deir girls to marry A non muslim…Either de kill non muslim lover…or turn him into Islam…Also…Sarah being a brahmin shoud marry a Brahmin only…for d purity of Brahmins….Brahmins should not maary withnon brahmin…yaa Its Modern world…still we should follow…ateast keeping brahmins alive…
      we r not here to inrease numbers…bt d legacy must go on…

      • Amit Pathak
        February 19, 2015 8:26 am

        Admin…muslims r Religious fanatic …chahe koi kitna b secular naa dikhe..mene bohot sare muslims ko dekha h..jaanta hun..wo jis thali me khate hain..usi me ched krte hain..eg..Jb Pak me flood aayi toh sare khans uska help ke liye …stage show kiya..lkn jb uttrakhnad me aaya..tab kisi ne khuch nii kraa..isi ko gaddari kwhte hain…subcontinent ke muslims toh duniya me sabse bekkar hain..jbki inki koi vlue nij hain..Deshdroh or beimaani inke DNA me h…

        • February 19, 2015 8:04 pm

          We agree to “chahe koi kitna b secular naa dikhe”. Yes, for them, ultimately it is Muhammad and Koran. There are only a very few (less than 5%?) interfaith married Muslims who will allow their children to follow two faiths.

    • sarah
      February 16, 2015 6:22 am

      What if i don’t convert? What if i make my children brahmins? And how can you be so sure about my guy when you don’t even know him. You just know his religion. And I am not worried about the demerits of islam you’ve mentioned. Coz I’m sure I will experience none

      • Amit
        February 16, 2015 7:39 am

        Sarah,
        Pehli baat toh ap convert mt krna…Never…
        Q ki agr Convert kr loge…or Muslim bn jaoge…toh ferr apko
        Us religion yaani Islam ke saare rules custom maanne pdenge…apka bfrn agr thik h tab ki baat kr raha hun..or agr apka child muslim bn gaya toh…Jihadi Extremist or suicide bomber v bn sakta h..usd ya toh brahmin bnana…ya ferr km se kmm achha sabko pyaar or samman krne waala insaan bnana…q ki islam wo cheez h ..jisme ap jaa toh apne man se sakte ho…lkn nikal nii sakte….jo b koi apne dharm me waapas aana.chahta h use maar diya jatah..or wese v aapne kisi ko like kiya h..na ki apne cultures vlues ka sauda kiya h..apka Independent Existence h…ek or baat sab muslim hindus girls.khaaskr brahmins ko nishana bn raha h…ek toh bohot beutiful hain..yaani acchi ladki v milegii ..or use muslim bna lega….or unke bacche b muslim honge…is prakr Islam me or bheed bdh jaayegi..jbki jahan pyaar h…wo toh Islam se b bdhkr h…agr koi. Muslim ladka.saccha pyaar krtah..Love jihadi nii h..toh usko apne aap ko mita dena chahiye..na ki kisi ko muslim bnane ke liye preasure daale..ye nii ki hmesha girl ka hi dharm bdal de…khud v toh hindu bn sakta h..agr pyaar h toh…or haan muslim kav apni girls ko non muslim se shadi nii krne dete..or krtev hain toh..musalmaan bna dete hain..me toh sirf esliye bolta hun ki..brahmin ko brahmin se hi shadi krnii chahiye..q ki me nii chahta ki brahmins ka blood mix ho..iski purity chlti rahi h..bs yhi mera moh h…ki ye samaj pehle.ki trh apna pehchaan bnaye rakh.sakein..kisi muslima se shadi krna…panditt ke liye koi bdi baat nii h..lkn baat ye h kii muslim girl kitni v sunder ho..use hum apne ghar nii lana chahte…yahan no.bdhane ke liye…brahmins nii hain..ni toh sab ke sab hindu hi..Brahmin ya Thakur bn jaayein…fer unka help se puri.duniya ko convert krein…PLZ REPLY

        • Mohammed
          February 16, 2015 8:56 pm

          Mujhe toh bahut hasi arahi hey amit ki baato sey.. he he he 😀
          Amit ji aap islam ke bare me jaan kar baath kartey toh behtar hota..
          islam ki koi bi demerits nahi hey bachu..agar aagku merits he nahi hey toh demerits kaha se laogey
          Brahmins ki agar mai demerits batao toh aap yahape nahi rahoge.. aap log ka dil nahi dukhana chahta hun iss liye mai chup hun yahi islam sikhata hey…
          islam dusron ke liye sochta hey naake apke dharam jaise apne liye sochta.. agar mai kahun toh hindus,brahmins are selfish.
          aapne kaha
          “agr apka child muslim bn gaya toh…Jihadi Extremist or suicide bomber v bn sakta h”
          ye kaha pe likha hey aap batadi jiye janab. .agar nahi banege toh hee banege..
          apne kaha
          ” agr koi. Muslim ladka.saccha pyaar
          krtah..Love jihadi nii h..toh usko apne aap ko mita dena chahiye..na ki kisi ko muslim bnane ke liye preasure daale”
          aap hee aisa kehkar preasure dal rahe hain janab. .waise bi sarah behen ne kehdi hey aap toh unke bare mein nahi jante hain toh kaise kehsakte hain..

          previously apne kaha
          “we r not here to inrease numbers…bt d legacy must go on…”
          brahmin kite jhute hotey na muh pe kuch dil pe kuch.

          “no.bdhane ke liye…brahmins nii
          hain..ni toh sab ke sab hindu hi..Brahmin ya Thakur bn jaayein…fer unka help se puri.duniya ko convert krein”
          toh ye increase nahi hey toh kia hey. .
          islam kisi ku force nahi karta..sob ne islam ku dil se sivka kiya hey isiliye islam is leading religion nake aapke jaise fraud nahi jo force karte hain apni teydaat(increase) badane ke liye

          • Amit Pathak
            February 18, 2015 12:36 am

            Islam ne force conversion ni kiya???????/?/?What a Joke….Joke of d century….or haan bete pehle Islam ke kaarnamo ki jaankari le lo..
            Kahin muhn chupane ki jgah nii milegi….muslim toh pakkA fake,Criminal ,tetrorits,smuggler,lier,beimAn.,jis thali me khata h ..,usi me ched krta h…Jisne b Islam ke demerits ki list dee h…wo sahi……koi c galt ho toh mujhe btao..
            Or Tum brahmins ke bqare me kya jaano….pehle Islam ki kaali kartutein jaan lo….or wese v ek jhuthe aadmi..jo ki sach baat krega hi nii..usse kya behas krna h…..

          • February 20, 2015 1:14 am

            Agar tumhare paas proof nahi hey toh chup baithey. . .
            main ne pucha ke kaunsi islami kitab hey jo force conversion sikhaya gaya ho,
            aur toh aur jahan tum ISIS ki baath kar rahe ho ussey aur islam se koi taluq nahi. .agar mai hindu ki baath kar tahu toh RSS bi a terrirorist organisation but mai ye kaisa kehsakta hun ke hinduism yahi teach kar raha hey bina hinduism janney. .
            so pehle islam ku jano aur phir baath karo

            aur tumne pucha ke ” …Dunoya me Islam kese faila or kese filaya jaa raha
            h..bs itja btao”

            islam duniya me aman aur shanti se sob sivkaar kar rahe hain unki asliyat jaanke

            aur tumne kaha ” Turk ne kitne logo ko kaat daala jo islam kabool nii kiye. History pdh lo…”

            pehle toh mai ye kehna chahunga ke tum puri history padho. .maine pehle bi kaha hey ke yaha pe proof chahiye. . iska koi proof hai tumhare paas. .
            isse pata chalta hey ke tum kitne jhoote ho.

            aur tumne kaha ” dusre counties me religion ke naam pr kese terrorism fail raha h… Tum sach nii bolte..jbki
            Islam me kaha h sach bolne..apna dosh disron ke sir me madh dpge….Nispaksha raho..Apna no do btat hun me…..”

            maine kab jhoot kaha. .har religion pe koi na koi black sheep zarur hota hey. media har dusre black sheep ko hide kar detey hey unke faiyde ke liye. .isse religion ka koi taluq nahi hota

          • Sarah
            February 20, 2015 4:32 am

            By the way Mohammed, RSS is NOT a terrorist organization. They work for our country, they dedicate their life to our country and then the people from their country itself blame them. This isn’t fair. Go and explore doings of RSS. All the blames put on RSS are just rumors.

          • pandey
            December 9, 2016 5:39 am

            Muhammad
            I read all ur comments abt Islam I have some questions regarding Islam
            1. Is ther not polygamy,
            2 Is there not many children ( NO birth controll)
            3. Is there no to kill kafirs ( Non muslims are kafirs in Islam)
            4. Is ur muslim community is as on today poorest of all in the world and most uneducated
            5. Does Islam dont teach terror on kafirs.
            6. Why as today all muslims are not terrorist but all terrorists are muslims name one terrorist of any other religion who are terrorist)
            7. Why all muslim rulers invaded India right from Changej Khan to Bin Kassim and so many other muslim rulers Md Ghouri, Ghazni and many more why.?
            8 If Islam teaches peace then why this ISIS killing thousands of life
            9. Today Islam has been declared as a terrorist religion and thats why
            Donald Trump said that he will ban muslims to get entry in USA. france ,Canada, Japan,China and many countries has banned muslims why ?

        • Mohammed
          February 18, 2015 8:44 am

          Yaha pe proof chalta hey…
          hame proof chahiye.. kaunsi islami kitab hey jahape force conversion likha hua ho. . ye mujhe bata do main maanlunga ke tume islam ki knowledge hain warna tum pagal ho jo itna haas rahe ho bina baat ke.

          kaha pe demerits hey ye mujhe batao jo sach hey… mai koi bhi religion ko bura nahi kehna chahta hun.. i respect to all religion peoples..
          agar tum islam ku buri nazar se dekho ge toh tumku buri hee nazar ayegi. .
          agar tum mohabbat aur pyar ki nazar se dekho ge toh tumko samajh ajayega ke islam kia cheez hey. . .

          pehle mujhe jhoota sabit karo mai yaha pey kabhi bi nahi avunga aur toh aur brahmins hoya hindu isse mujhe koi bi faraq nahi padta. .
          mai apki mazhab ki kitab ko apke samne rakha jo tum log kar rahe ho wo tumhari kitab ki against kar rahe ho. .
          agar koi bi hindu veda ku belive nahi karega toh wo hindu kehne ke layaq hee nahi..
          mai yaha pe behes karne nahi ayahun. . mai tumhari asliyat tumhari samne kar raha hun

          • Amit Pathak
            February 19, 2015 8:03 am

            muhammad…Hahaha…. are bhaiya…meri asaliyat mt samjao..pehle apne religion ke asliyat ko samjjonm.abhi tum.sirf ek side dekh paa rahe ho..Abhi ISIS logon ko religion ke naam pr kese beheding kr raha h logon ki..Insaaniyat ka dushman h.mm10000proof mil jaayenge pdhogentoh…accha ye btao…Dunoya me Islam kese faila or kese filaya jaa raha h..bs itja btao…..Turk ne kitne logo ko kaat daala jo islam kabool nii kiye..History pdh lo…musalmaan ko likhi hui nii ..koi neutral source se..or usse b accja pak or dusre counties me religion ke naam pr kese terrorism fail raha h…Tum sach nii bolte..jbki Islam me kaha h sach bolne..apna dosh disron ke sir me madh dpge….Nispaksha raho..Apna no do btat hun me…..

      • Amit Pathak
        February 18, 2015 12:39 am

        Sarah,ap muihe reply q nii kr rahe ho…allergy ho gayi h kya??ya fer koi baat buri lag gayi…????

        • Sarah
          February 18, 2015 6:36 pm

          amit, Bura toh lagega hi na bhai…..who are you to say such filthy things bout my guy? I have already mentioned i dont like blaming a particular religion or race. Your suggestions are welcome but not like this.

          • February 18, 2015 8:54 pm

            Amit,

            We know what you are trying to say but not all Muslims are bad. Look at SRK, a noble guy, however Aamir Khan is a religious fanatic or male chauvinist. Further, we have to trust Sarah and her judgment.

            You will be lots more effective if you present your views more mildly and less with prejudice. You know the expression, slow and steady wins the race! By the way, don’t worry about the language. Keep coming, welcome!

          • Amit Pathak
            February 18, 2015 10:33 pm

            Are Madam ji…Sonyo..Mene wo demerits.of Islam ki list nii dee h…lkn jo usme baatein dee gayin wo sach hain…or mene tumhare bfrn ke upar koi comment ni kiya h..Religion set of rules hote hain…like constitution…jo society ko chalne ke liye hote hain..ese kapde pehno..ese baal rakho…or khuch nii hain..ye sirf rehan sehan ke niyam…or time time pr bdlate rehte hain…inme acche bure sab niyam hote hain…or koi baat nii h…agr apko khuch v bura laga ho toh m sorryy….n reply ke liye thank u

      • Mohammed
        February 20, 2015 6:25 am

        where are you sarah ji, are u in this world

        RSS declares terrorist organization by U.S court

        See here,

        Sikh rights group has filed a lawsuit asking a federal court in New York to designate RSS as a “foreign terrorist organisation”. The federal court in the Southern District of New York issued a summons for US Secretary of State John Kerry to respond to the suit within 60 days.
        Sikhs for Justice (SFJ) in the declaratory lawsuit asked the court
        to designate RSS as a foreign terrorist organisation, accusing it of “believing in and practicing a fascist ideology and running a passionate, vicious and violent campaign to turn India into a “Hindu” nation with a
        homogeneous religious and cultural identity”.
        SFJ said the RSS is making headlines for its campaign “‘The Home Coming’ to forcibly convert Christians and Muslims to Hindus.” The declaratory lawsuit requests the court that
        “RSS along with its affiliates and subsidiaries be designated as Foreign Terrorist Organisation and designate RSS as a Specially Designated Global Terrorist entity (SDGT)”.

        check the details here :
        http://m.ibnlive.com/news/petition-filed-in-us-court-to-designate-rss-as-terror-group/524254-2.html

        • Amit Pathak
          February 20, 2015 7:37 am

          Muhammad….oye Mr hoshiyaarchand…tere kitne muslims grpups hain jinko..America,India or Pakistan ne b Ban kr rakha h…list bohot lambi..tum unke baare me muhn me dahi jama lena…or RSS RSS krna…bd husiyaa r…apna no do…me Btata hun tumko proof..proof ke bacche..Abi Tehreek e Taliban pakostan ne132bacchon ko maara…Boko haraam…me b cut copy paste krke ek lambi list de sakta hun…or conversion kon krtah ..sabko pta h…Na toh tum Sarah ko na mujhe na kisi or jo thoda bphot jaanta h ko bebkoof bna sakte ho…Topix.com..me aao..wahan baat krte hain..is place ko spoil mt kro…Sikh kya bolenge…Khalistan terrorists kon hain…or b Babbar khalsa jese ..religious fanatic hain…tim galatfehmi or khush fehmi dono me ek saath ho…or haan muhammad saheb 1400saal pehle or aakhireee nabi q maane jaate hain..iska koi proof h??or kuran un pr utri iska koi proof h…u think ur religion supreme ..habing a false notion…

      • Mohammed
        February 20, 2015 6:45 am

        JALANDHAR: In a declaratory lawsuit filed by a US based rights group to designate Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh (RSS) as a “Foreign Terrorist Organization” (FTO), a US Court
        has summoned US Secretary of state John Kerry to submit a reply within 60 days.
        The summons were issued by the District Court of Southern District of New York to secretary Kerry on Wednesday on a complaint filed by
        Sikhs For Justice (SFJ), which had
        earlier filed a complaint of rights
        violation and Congress president
        Sonia Gandhi and Congress party
        for protecting perpetrators of November 1984 massacre of Sikhs.
        The complaint has sought from the
        court to designate RSS as a FTO
        “for believing in and practicing a fascist ideology and for running a
        passionate, vicious and violent campaign to turn India into a “Hindu” nation with a homogeneous religious and cultural identity”.

        The case has been assigned to Judge Swain. Since the defendant in this case is United States, under the Federal Rules of Civil Procedure USDOS has 60 days to respond to the complaint.
        The lawsuit seeking FTO status for
        RSS comes at a time when President Obama will be visiting India to attend the nation’s 65th Republic Day celebrations on January 26.
        It has mentioned “Ghar Wapsi”
        programme of Sangh affiliates to
        reconvert Muslims and Christians
        while comparing it to “convert or
        die” call of Boko Haram, the Nigerian terror outfit. The complaint also mentions demolition of Babri mosque,
        Gujarat riots of 2002, killing of
        Mahatma Gandhi by Nathuram Godse and his glorification apart from ban imposed on it by Indian government thrice. It has also quoted RSS leaders saying that all Indian were Hindus, a statement by former Indian home secretary and Rahul Gandhi saying it a
        bigger threat than LeT.
        The declaratory lawsuit requests
        the court that “RSS along with its
        affiliates and subsidiaries be designated as an FTO, in accordance with Section 219 of the Immigration and Nationality Act (INA) and designate RSS as a Specially Designated Global Terrorist entity (SDGT) under Executive Order 13224″.
        The 26 page complaint by human
        rights group SFJ alleges “crimes of
        RSS targeting the religious minorities of India include but not limited to, instigating June 1984 military attack against holiest Sikh shrine the Golden Temple resulting in desecration of the temple and massacre of thousands of pilgrims; 1992 demolition of historical Babri Mosque; burning of Churches and rape of Christian nuns in Orissa
        and elsewhere during 2008; 2002 massacre of Muslims in Gujarat;
        attack on several other places of
        worship belonging to different
        religious minorities; bombing of
        public places such as trains and
        buses”

        On the basis of July 2014 report
        “Hindu Nationalism In The United
        States”, the complaint alleges that
        a movement towards “Hinduizing
        India” is being funded by non-
        profit groups in the United States.
        Justifying the designation of RSS
        as FTO, SFJ’s legal advisor,
        Gurpatwant Singh Pannun, stated
        that “minorities were being
        targeted by RSS with new zeal ever
        since Modi became Prime Minister,
        to accomplish its agenda of
        turning India into a Hindu nation.

        • Sarah
          February 20, 2015 7:20 am

          Dear mohammed,
          I don’t agree. I believe that the sikhs in the US are taking a kind of a revenge for the much old differences. Moreover, RSS never forced anyone to convert into hinduism. And what is wrong if they are propagating their religion? They have full right to do that.

          All the members of RSS are very honest and full of patriotism. Why are you showing me what the US governments declares about RSS when I have personally met the members of the organization.

          If you don’t believe me, go through the views of PM MODI on RSS here- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRpXA2d6Xwg

          RSS is working for the country day and night and I feel very sorry for them. Because insted of supporting them, their brothers and sisters are criticizing and discouraging them. Fine, you will not support them coz they support hinduism. But atleast don’t criticize, if know nothing about it.

          Tell me some acts of RSS on the basis of which YOU can prove it a terrorist organization. Don’t refer any website. Do you know any if you are believing it supports terrorism?

          • Sarah
            February 20, 2015 7:26 am

            Mohemmed,
            Go through this too- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWyg0IiGeyc
            Don’t just blame RSS for stupid and meaningless rumors. If you relly want to know what RSS is and what it is working for, go and meet them, talk to them, explore their work, read some books on RSS. You’ll come to know how disgusting rumors are being spread.

          • Mohammed
            February 21, 2015 6:26 am

            All which i have given is from news channels websites.. i have given a link

            Amit bro is saying hindus doesnot work on force conversion but what RSS do they are forcing to the peoples
            Further RSS has banned on 1972 now with the help of modi.. RSS started his silly things to force convert, bomb blast, 1000’s of rapes etc

            check this video :
            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjmsylcJeug

            check this too :
            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpdmFb10xM8

          • Mohammed
            February 21, 2015 6:35 am

            check this video how RSS is killing to innocent christians,muslims
            https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DuBP0SbLArc

        • Amit Pathak
          February 20, 2015 7:50 am

          Muhammad,India ko Hindu nation agr bna v rahe hain toh kya prblm h??
          Pakistan islamic coutry h…Iran Irak,Palestine…or v hain..unko secular mt bnana???ek desh Indaia h..jahan Hindu samaj peace se rehna chahta h….unko mt rehne dena…Isko hi christian muslim sab milkr nochna…or ek suggstion h..pehle Apne religion ke jo terrorits orhnization hain..or Force conversion..non muslims girls ko slabe bna rahe hain..unka reserch kro..tumne kaha Islam me nii likha h ye sab…toh theek …sabko btao naa…ferr tum log q religion ke naam pr blind ho..q mar daalte ho non muslims ko…or haan RSS ko Indian govt ne ban nii kiya h…ese toh tumhare kotne sangthan hain..jinko religion ka prachar prasr ka rytt h…tph dikkat kya h…kya Hindus ka koi v group na ho..jisse jinka conversion business h…wo khuleaam chlta rahe….

    • Andrew
      February 19, 2015 12:47 am

      Naaa…… IDTS ….. Now, no one cares even the muslims dont care about burqa and wait a sec multiple wives…. And everything else is just shit……

      • Sarah
        February 19, 2015 1:20 am

        That’s what I’m trying to tell them 😉

        • Amit Pathak
          February 19, 2015 8:16 am

          Sarah,Ap demerits of Islam.ke baare me thora sa search krlo…or teen baar talak kehne se talaak ho jata h..pta krlo kisi v site me…multiple wibes waali baat v sahi h…ap blind ho chuke ho..is so caalled pyaar ke naam se…kese v bs chahte ho ki…in sabko koi support kr de..or me sahi ho jaayun..open mind se cheezon lo dekho…pyaar toh jo toh h..wo toh h hi..ek physical attraction hi tih h ..or kya..koi divine cheez ni h..

      • Amit Pathak
        February 19, 2015 8:10 am

        Hmm..one word u r IGNORANT…dese things m.dts y de r mentioned…u callin eberthing shit…U r a muslim…soo u can say dt ..m nt surprised…dere R suicide bombers…in d name of religion…ISIS ..people joing all over d world ..even from India….Dont judge things…soo carelessly..

        • Sarah
          February 19, 2015 8:30 am

          Dear Amit, Don’t worry, I’m not blinded by love. The demerits that sourav has mentioned have already been discussed between us. I have gone through them so well that i can tell you how my married life’s going to be. I’m not IGNORANT about the points you mentioned. I have thought upon them before and have took this decision only after confirming that I’m totally safe with him. And, he himself doesn’t want me to convert…..so there’s no problem. Moreover, I’m not going to convert at any cost. So, don’t worry about it.

          • Amit Pathak
            February 20, 2015 5:08 am

            Sarah,Okk Good…Convert mt krna…mere khyaal se aap apni baat pr jame rahoge…esa v nii h ki ..men hmesha women ko chlayega…sab Independent hain..or women v..apne Aap me boss hain…Apka future ke liye ..well wishesh…or haan..ap Swami Adgadanand ji maharaj ke baare me thora sa pta krlog…or yathartha gita pdh lena..Ap intelligent sab samjh jaoge….Maanav maatra ka dharmashashtra h..plz…ek vaari pdh lo…trust me..sahi disha mil jayegi…

          • Sarah
            February 20, 2015 5:53 am

            Amit, thanks for your wishes and I’ll surely read that 🙂

  • mac
    February 15, 2015 4:13 am

    Its history which tells us how Brahmins Invaded India, if you guys are so uneducated then is it my fault, I don`t hate Hindus, why should I hate them??? Infact I love them 🙂

    • Amit
      February 15, 2015 6:25 am

      I dont know what d hell u are?n u think of urs…tell me ur religion caste…i habe a lot of stuffs for you..u Antibrahmin…I will make u hate ur own caste or religion…come on…

  • Amit
    February 11, 2015 2:56 am

    Read Yathartha Gita..n try to search abt Swami Adgadanand ji maharaj…u will come to know truth..Dont forget history..we gave our lives for sanatan dharm
    .ask him to convert into hindu..dis is Acid test…make him hindu…If Love is above all…dn he will do…If he do not…then why should you…Donot give up our Sanatan dharm n Brahiminsm…bring him into our culture.
    .be brave…stand for our Dharm..dont be blind ….open eyes read history…Dont be an easy prey…..Think about it..n can contact me…

    • Mohammed
      February 11, 2015 3:15 am

      If love is above all then why she cant become muslim. .

      r u following ur bhagwat gita?
      r u worshiping in one or many gods. . if u worship to many gods then u r going against ur gita
      r u worshipping on idols ..if u worship on idols then u r going against ur gita. .

      • Amit
        February 12, 2015 8:33 am

        If Love is above all…why dont d muslim guy converts to hinduism..Brahmin.God is one…I believe in One God..Idolatry is ok initially.. I dont follow Idolatry…..U become friend …my no is8720062918…I will tell u d truth..well my English sucks….

        • February 12, 2015 8:03 pm

          Hi Amit, you are doing great. English is Britishers language, there is nothing to be proud about. Keep going the way you are doing (even Hindi-mix is okay). Other way to look at is, the site is be a good opportunity for you to improve your written English. Welcome!

        • Mohammed
          February 13, 2015 8:13 pm

          Your bhagwad Gita says if you worship on idol then u enters into the darkness.

          Yajurveda Chapter 40 verse 9
          “They enter darkness those who worship natural things (for e.g. air water, fire, etc.). They sink deeper in darkness those who worship sambhuti i.e. created things (for e.g. table, chair, car, idol etc.)

          It is mentioned in Bhagavad Gita
          Chapter 7 verse 20:
          “Those whose intelligence has been stolen by material desires they worship demigods i.e. idols.
          (Bhagavad Gita 7:20)

          Most of hindus tells for initial concentration they worship idol…after reaching to higher concentration they wont required…

          I tell them that if a person goes to school in standard one, the fundamental, the basics, of any subject should be strong. If the basics and fundamentals are strong… in future – even the structure will be strong. If the basics are not strong, the structure may not be strong. So if a teacher teaches in Standard One… in Mathematics, 2 + 2 = 4. Even after he goes to standard 3,4,5 and he passes school, when he becomes a graduate, even if he does Ph.d in mathematics, yet 2 +2 will always remain 4. He may learn Trigonometry, Algebra Logarithms…but the basics of Arithmatics addition 2 + 2, will remain the same. If the teacher teaches wrong things, 2 + 2 is 5, or 2 + 2 is equal to 6, in Standard 1 – what will happen to the
          student when he graduates?.
          Therefore the basics should always be strong – the fundamentals should always be strong.

          If your son says 2+2=5, will you keep quiet…In standard one? You will say – ‘NO’ ‘NO’, let him graduate, and then I
          will tell him that 2+2 = 4 -Will you say that? You will correct him initially – you won’t wait till he graduates. As much as you can explain, you explain. So if you know that the Vedas, are against
          idol worship, it is their job to tell the people, that this is the fundamental of faith. Even in the initial stages, you can worship Allah Subhana Wa Taala, without any idol

          • Amit
            February 14, 2015 7:59 pm

            Okk…so overall ..u wanna say is…Do not follow Idolatry….Look..Idolatry is Okay …Initially…U mentioned d same in ur reply….u cant touch god …Physically….Intangible…Idolatry is Just a Symbol…to make u feel dt dere.is god…..Primary Ed

            Eduaction…Plz read Yathartha gita…dn u come to know d truth…okk.
            ..

          • Amit
            February 14, 2015 8:06 pm

            U r wrong interprating…Chapter 7 verse 20…Its not against Idolatry…Its warns nt to worship any one other dn god….Its saying dont worship spirit ghosts…Devtas….czz dere is no oder power oder dn god….Its Not against Idolatry…Plz.read Yatharhth gita..By swami Adgadanand ji maharaj..dn have a chat

        • Mohammed
          February 15, 2015 12:56 am

          Amit says :

          U r wrong interprating…
          Chapter 7 verse 20…Its
          not against Idolatry…Its warns nt to worship any one other dn god….Its
          saying dont worship spirit ghosts…
          Devtas….czz dere is no oder power oder dn god….Its Not against Idolatry…

          Ans : bro tells chapter 7 verse 20 its not against idoltary..
          veda clearly says not worship on idols on
          chapter 32 verse 3
          “na tasya pratima asti”
          “There is no image or statue or idol of God”

          It further says, “as He is unborn,
          He deserves our worship”.

          Yajurved Chapter 40 Verse 9
          It is mentioned in Yajurved
          “Andhatma pravishanti ye assambhuti mupaste”
          They enter darkness, those who worship natural things.”
          E.g. worship of natural elements like air, water, fire, etc.

          (Yajurveda 40:9)

          It further continues and says
          They sink deeper in darkness those who worship sambhuti i.e. created things”
          E.g. created things such as table,chair, idols, etc.

          if veda tells not worship idols then how it becomes to worship idol on chapter 7 verse 20..its u hav misunderstand that verse which says those who worship other than god i.e., demi gods they enters on darkness
          There is no verse in veda which tells to worship on idol

          further u hav says for initial concentration worship on idols then i will ask you upto when after death ur concentration will goes to high
          Think logic brother…
          if intially teacher teach ur son to theft or murder or rape and tells u when u become 18 age then u left .. will u agree?

          • Amit
            February 15, 2015 6:23 am

            Hello
            …mr U misinterprating things…n too in a harsh way…Idop worship u cant compare with rape…U need to think logically…Its true ..dere is no image or idol of god..n It can not..God is formless…U gave d reference of gita chapter 7..verse 20…N now u saying dt its from yajurveda…Look…dere r so many contradictory theries in all dese upanashids…u Just go through yathartha gita…its our dahrmashastra…nt any manusmriti or anything else…gibe me ur no..u r in right path very much…ur no please…N do u know hindi..If u do..I will explain u things bettr..

    • sarah
      February 12, 2015 7:20 am

      Dear Amit,
      According to me, ‘bravery’ or ‘taking a stand’ consists of ‘not changing YOUR religion after marrying a person of different belief’. Its not bravery if i ask him to change his religion. And anyway, how do i have the right to do this? Haven’t you heard about freedom of belief? For me, it’s enough that he respects my religion. And if LOVE is above all, the question of religion itself should be eliminated. It’s the society and family that makes us think about it, that’s all.

      • Amit
        February 12, 2015 8:40 am

        Okk g..So u r nt going to convert into Isalm…accha ek baat btaoo..Tumhare bacche muslim honge ya hindu..kon se custom follow krenge??kya unko Brahmin ka surname de paogi??czz mostly almost 100%shadi ke baad muslim ladka girl kov muslim bnata h..or bacchon ko v..unka circumcise krayega…I hope u Understand hindi…If u dont plzz tell me..kya shadi ke baad v u remian Brahmin??agr tum uske liye coonvert krti ho toh kya wo tumhare liye ..Ghar waapsi kr sakta h…mera no 8720062918…aa jaoo…whatsapp mee..or baatein krni h..

      • pandey
        December 9, 2016 4:15 am

        सारा जी
        मैंने सबके विचार और कमेंट पढ़े। मई भी एक ब्राह्मण हु और निश्चित रूप से अपने धर्म को मानता हु हालाँकि मई रूढ़िवादी नहीं हु लेकिन ऐसे मैंने कितने उदाहरण देखे जिसमे हिन्दू मुस्लिम विवाह हुए और उनमे ७०-८०% में तलाक हो गए. अब थोड़ा इस्लाम की बात कर ले तो इतिहास गवाह है की मुस्लमान शुरू से ही बहुत गरीब और अनपढ़ किस्म की कम्युनिटी है और हमारा इतिहास आपको बताने की आवस्यकता नहीं है , की भारत का नाम सोने की चिड़िया था। मुसलमानो ने हरदम लूटने के ख्याल से हम पर आक्रमण किआ और हमारी बहु बेटियो के साथ बहुत हो घिनौना कर्म किआ। महम्मद ज़नाब इस्लाम की बात करते है तो मुहम्मद बिन कासिम से लेकर औरंगज़ेब तक सभी ने हिन्दुओ को सताया अगर शिवाजी नहीं होते तो आज हिन्दू एक भी नहीं बचता जबकि औरंगज़ेब इस्लाम का स्कॉलर था। वास्तविकता तो ये है की इस्लाम की स्थापना ही मार काट और युद्ध पर आधारित है। आपको त्यों पता होगा की आज भारत के उच्च न्यायालय ने ३ तलाक पर बहुत सिरिअस एक्सन लिए है। इस्लाम में बहु पत्नी बहु बच्चे मान्य है. क्या कारन है की आज पूरी दुनिया में मुस्लिम एक दूसरे को मर रहा है आई इस आई इस कौन है यही नहीं पूरे विश्व में टेररिस्ट कौन है ये तो किसी से छुपा नहीं है। इस्लाम में कहा है की काफिरो को जीने के कोई हक़ नहीं है और बहुत सारी बाते है। अब मई आपके बारे में कुछ कहना चाहता हु उदाहरण है सैफ अली खान और अमृता सिंह के विवाह का २ बच्चे होने के बाद तलाक हो गया जबकि सैफ एक पढ़ा लिखा ओर प्रबुद्ध हो उसकी माँ भी एक प्रबुद्ध महिला है , अब आमिर खान का सवाल उसका भी १५ साल के वैवाहिक जीवन के बाद तलाक हो गया इस तरह के हजारों उदाहरण है जिसमे हिन्दू मुस्लिम शादिया १५-२० सालो के बाद असफल रही , होता ऐसा की जवानी के जोश और नए नए प्यार का खुमार सोचने की शक्ति ख़त्म कर देता है। आदमी हो या औरत दूसरे धर्म और खासकर हिन्दू मुस्लिम जो एक दूसरे के १८० डिग्री अलग है में निर्बाह आजीवन नहीं होता एक हिन्दू साधारणतया साकाहारी होते है अब तो ५०-७०% लोग मांसाहारी बन गए है लेकिन मुस्लिम इस्लाम में धर्म की ज़रुरत है. बहुत लंबा ये लेख हो जायेगा इसलिए ज्यादा कुछ न लिखते हुए यही कहूंगा की १०० बार सोचिये जीवन आपका है कही ऐसा न हो बाद में पछताना पड़े (जो निश्चित रूप से १०-१५ सालो बाद पछ्ताना पड़ेगा ) अभी पोयर का खुमार है इसलिए आँखों पर प्यार और जवानी के जोश साथ में स्वतंत्र जीवन जीने के तमन्ना की पट्टी आँखों पर बंधी है अभी किसी का सुझाव आप लोग नहीं मानेंगे आप उनमे से है जो गिर कर सम्हलते है ईश्वर आपकी सहायता करे और जब तलाक हो तो याद कर लीजियेगा

  • Amit
    February 11, 2015 2:47 am

    Brahmin girls..Should nt get maary with muslim cheaters…de r just here to increase no. like pigs…Brahmis r less in number…muslim killed millions of brahmins in d past..de wanted to destroy..our sanatan dharm n bharth desh..just want to make India an Islamic country..de r trying for thousand years..de never allow deir girls to get maaried with hindus…n want to convert hindu girls..who r simple n may be u call simpleton…easy prey….

    • mac
      February 11, 2015 4:33 am

      Its Brahmins who invaded India and killed,raped millions of dalit/adiviasi women,children. Brahmins are the greatest terrorist of all time, in these last few centuries they have been silent because their number has been reduced.

      • February 11, 2015 7:12 am

        Sarah,
        mac‘s mother was Brahmin. Would you be proud if your son one day learn this about Brahmins? Is that true about your parents? your relatives? your ancestors?

        • sarah
          February 12, 2015 7:25 am

          The type of values and beliefs your children inculcate depends on how you teach them. It depends on YOU and not on your religion.

      • Amit
        February 12, 2015 8:47 am

        Bacche ho tum..full of hatred against brahmins…Dalit u r frustrated…or chutiyapanti ki baatein kr raha h…gretest terrorist??paagl h…Muslim or christain ki history pdh le..or sun tumko Panditt Nehru ki vajah se mila h…musalmaan ne toh 800saal desh ko ghulam bnaya..kitna tumko reservation doya??or tumko unse kitni nafrat h..or britishersh ke against khuch bolge..jisne deah ko itna luta…tumhari girls ko muslim fasa raha h..Up me Love jihad kr raha h..unko rokega…tum pr Jatt atyachar krta h..Yadav krta h Thakur krta h..unka khuch bolega..Brahmins ko seedha sada samjhkr lhuch v bologe..dimaag sahi kr loo…

      • sarah
        February 13, 2015 5:40 am

        mac, I would recommend your hindu girlfriend never to marry YOU after going through your opinions. Very sad

        • February 13, 2015 7:43 am

          mac never said he has a Hindu girl friend. However we predict one day he is going to convert a Hindu and marry her (like his dad did; in the name of Allah and Muhammad).

          • sarah
            February 13, 2015 9:07 am

            He has mentioned it in a response. ” i have gf, she is hindu” are is exact words. Anyway, this is not our topic

          • February 13, 2015 9:57 pm

            Thanks Sarah, really appreciate for your good homework.

            A new post is created for mac at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9352

    • sarah
      February 12, 2015 7:04 am

      First of all, I don’t like blaming any particular religion or race. I believe in understanding an individual, his thoughts, his love. And if you start blaming each other’s religions, it will never end. All the religions have some positive things and some negative.

    • sarah
      February 12, 2015 7:40 am

      And WHO says Hindu girls are easy prey! This isn’t that simple mister. They can be as smart as anything. Why- muslim girls too fall in love with hindu guys, don’t they?

      • Amit
        February 12, 2015 9:12 am

        Sarah…Hindu girls r nt at all smart…simple ..pure hearted ..who can he easily fooled…de talk a lot..talk abt love..equlity…bt do not know the real meaning…just questions a lot..do not care abt family…alwayzz lies..liers to family members..de dont care family culture or anything..just believe everthing said by cheaters fake..Muslim baate bnta h..hota fake h..brahmin girls r beautiful..esliye school college me fasa raha…entrapping brahmin girls..who think demselves to be smart..bt r big foool…dont know anything…okkk

        • February 12, 2015 8:10 pm

          Amit,
          Sarah is not gullible, don’t worry about her.

        • sarah
          February 13, 2015 5:04 am

          Amit,
          Fine. That’s what you think. But i don’t need to explain you how brahmin girls can be smart. You are talking as if there are no successful brahmin muslim marriages. And anyway, my guy is PERFECT. There’s no doubt about it. I have come here to ask for the opinions about our way of marriage. And sorry, I can’t share my phone no. with you. We can discuss it here itself.

          • sarah
            February 13, 2015 5:05 am

            P.S. I understand hindi well

          • February 13, 2015 7:22 am

            Sarah, follow SRK, Seema, Salman and Shamim. We have about 400 Hindu-Muslim marriage cases, only ~4 (~1%) are that we consider marriages of equality (we may have missed a few here there). In 95+% cases, the conversion talk will come later, even after marriage. Read marriage laws here.

          • Amit
            February 13, 2015 9:10 am

            Okk great…okk bnane do India ko Pakistan…..Islam India ko v Nigal Jaayega…Muslims dont get let their Girls marry non Brahmins…Conversion business is dere…Also every Caste n Religions communist hate Brahmins…Brahmins r Minority less dn 5%.Bt m nt worried …everyone will die someday…World.will end sooner or later..or rahi Love ki baat toh ye girls or boy ke hormones ki vajah se hota h…like ab koi college me Muslim h …ab wo baaton se fasata h …
            brahmin ya hind girls ..just to increse deir numbers to Conquer India..To convert India into Muslim country..q ki ye unko bchpn se sikhya jata h..Love esa koi divine cheez nii h…ye sirf physical attraction h…jo ki planned way me v ho sakta h..koi fasa v sakta h…pyaar toh hum family se v kr sakte hain…well saajish h..ek toh pigs ki trah bacche paida krna..kya muslim girls nii h shadi krne ko??or apnk girls ko toh burka pehna ke ghar me rakhte hain…or dusron pr nishana saadhte hain..ap apna religion bdloge yaa nii??or bacchon ko muslim bnayoge kya??Q na unko brahmin bnao??Czz jb quality h toh ..girls ka b toh religion bacchon ka hosakta h..apne ko bdlna kya…nii toh pyaar wyaar khuch nii..agr boy esa nii kr sakta toh…ask d muslim guy…is he ready..If its so caalled Love…..ho sakta h …ap future me realise kro..ya uske pehle hi cheezon ko samjh lo..pta chl sakta ..agr pta kroge toh….

          • Amit
            February 13, 2015 9:14 am

            Non brahmin ki jgah non muslim h..jahan muslim apnj girls ko non muslim se shadi nii kr dete…or.conversion kraate hain hindu boy ko..dono hi case me muslom hi bnate hain..or double standard q

  • Anju Bhardwaj
    February 8, 2015 8:43 am

    True blessing to both… ! Just believe in urself and go for it ! Don’t think what world will say just think that whether u were happy or not ! God bless ! 🙂

    • February 8, 2015 9:16 am

      Anju,
      We agree 99%, except one thing.

      It is wrong to say go based on “whether u were happy or not!”, ideally, it should be “judge for the future if you WILL be happy and go for it”. One should not jump in the well because you know how to dive and swim. Ideally you have to find out how deep is the well water and, if need be, how you will come out of of the well. Is this not true?

      We would recommend to keep going on her love relationship but, while on the path, keep eyes open to learn of facts about him? Is that not true?

      Further, she should also read experiences of all 31 Brahmin-Muslim relationships and find out which one of these will be her position.

      Also she had to find out is the guy is like SRK and Saif (second time) or Saif the first time? (view video here).

      Education is the key, but don’t stereotype any one.

      And we agree to Anju 100% on “Don’t think what world will say! God bless!”

    • Sarah
      February 10, 2015 11:03 pm

      Thank you so much 🙂

      • February 11, 2015 7:07 am

        Are you planning to met his parents to find truth (Lion or Goat)?

        Meantime, ask him of his address. Go with your other friend/brother on that street at 9pm and spend there one hours. Do you feel comfortable? Do you feel the atmosphere there is welcoming? This is critical because one day you (most probably) will have to go live in that house/street 24/7.

  • sarah
    February 7, 2015 10:46 pm

    Thank you very much. You were a good help.

  • February 7, 2015 9:37 am

    Dear Sarah,

    Every things that you said is wonderful, superb and go for it!!

    Can you explain that “he is not religious” means? How are you planning to get married? How?

    • sarah
      February 7, 2015 10:02 pm

      We have decided to do a court marriage and he has readily agreed to accept me as it is without changing my religion, name or anything.
      He is not against idol worshiping or me going to temples. Instead, he is willing to come to the temples with me himself.
      We respect each other’s religion, and more than that, we love each other more than we love our religions.

      • February 7, 2015 10:32 pm

        Superb, you are on a good course.

        Next go meet his parents in his home. This is critical that he should be able to defend you in presence of his parents. We have seen many cases where the guy will act like a lion in front of the girl but will become a goat in front of his parents. This is also an opportunity to learn of his childhood and what type of atmosphere he has grown up. Remember, what goes in, will come around. If the tree is good, it it will produce good fruits (and bad tree with bad fruits). Get back to us with details.

        Read the experience of another Brahmin girl. The guy totally changed after taking her to bed. We are not saying your guy is like that, but you need to be mindful of cheaters.

        Meantime, never get into physical relationships, if you are smart.

        Please do not feel bad if we said something that is wrong (like cheaters above). You know your guys well but we don’t. We just point to things that we learned from 500 other Hindu-Muslim youths and just making you aware, that all. Thanks for understanding.

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