I am a brahmin in relationship with a muslim boy
Priya says: October 18, 2012 at 10:43 am
Hi I am a brahmin girl who is in relationship with a muslim boy for past 8 years. I started loving him from my college days. I love him a lot and i have a great belief on my bf that he also loves me a lot. But now i am working in a bank and he is in UAE. First he said about our love to his parents first his father denied but his mother convinced him and now both of them agree to our marriage but my parents do not agree to me. My parents say that it’s not good to marry a muslim boy (sorry if it hurts anyone), they think its dangerous and they are listening to my relatives opinion. They are saying that the boy’s family will convert me into a muslim after marriage and they say that they will spoil my life by doing so. Both my father and my mother does’nt agree for my marriage. I am suffering like anything. So please tell me some good suggestions.
Priya, there is enough said on this web site. No two cases are same. However, what ever your parents are saying is not necessarily wrong, but may not be true in all cases. Your statement “boy’s family will convert me into a muslim after marriage” is true in most cases, why you do think it is not? Do you really want to remain a Brahmin-Hindu in a Muslim family and community?
Most critical will be the religion of your children. What will you teach your children about who is the God? Who are Allah, Rama and Krishna? Does your boyfriend agree to all these teachings?
Please read the Hindu Girl article and ask your bf to read Muslim Boy. Let us know what do you think. Be open and honest to both parents for your wishes and planned type marriage, never hide facts from them.
If you are both financially independent, it will make it easy….go to a court and get married and hope the rest will follow.
What do other consultants of this web site recommend to Priya?