Hindu Boy – Muslim Girl Relationships

If you are a Hindu, Sikh, Jain, or Buddhist guy dating a Muslim girl, you are not alone. Here we have collected all that you wish to know. [If you are not a Dharmic boy, visit Hindu girl, Muslim girl, Muslim boy, for more relevant message for you]

First, you have to realize that for a Muslim girl to marry a Hindu boy is a big deal; sometimes it could go ugly (read honor killing). While dating, it is possible that Islamic police may punish you. We understand that you are in love, but do not take any step that results in physical injuries.

We do not know how much your birth religion is important to you, but your religious conversion to Islam is absolutely a must (in most cases). Are you ready to convert to Islam?

What will happen if you convert? Here is the list:
• You will have a circumcision
• You will be given an Arabic name
• You will have Shahadah, that is conversion to Islam (see Video)
• After that, you will have the Islamic Nikaah
• The Muslim girl cannot be a part of Hindu wedding because it is idol-worship prohibited by Islam
• You cannot carry any Hindu god photos or Ganesh murti in your new married life home because, as per your Shahadah oath, there is no God but Allah
• You cannot (should not) enter a Hindu temple because Hindus pray to false gods
• Your children will have Arabic names and circumcision
• Food habits: You may be non – vegetarian, while the bride/her family members may wish to eat beef or only halaal and no to pork
• Ritual of animal killing: The bride may request for qurbani on Bakr-id. Eventually children may learn all these and wish you to join for it
• Children will be taught only from the Koran, not at all from Geeta
• Children will not be allowed to be a part of Holi, Janmasthami and Diwali
• You will have to reduce association with your Hindu parents and friends and ultimately forget them. But you will have a new set of Muslim relatives and friends
• Your wife may start wearing burqa
• You cannot convert back to any other religion, otherwise punishment could be stoned to death (as per Islamic law)
• If you divorce and convert back to Hindusim, you may not get child custody because children are Muslims by Indian laws
• If you die, you will be put in a grave and given Islamic final rites.

Let us point out some advantages of converting to Islam:
• Islam is only true religion; others are false (including Christianity, Hinduism, Sikhism and the rest)
• Immediately after your Shahadah, you are qualified by Saria laws to have additional three wives
• Further, if any one of your wives doesn’t behave well, you just tell talaak, talaak, talaak and can get easy divorce and replace her with a new young one
• On the Judgment Day, you will go to heaven; while your parents, Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Teresa and Barak Obama will get Hell of Fire.

It is possible that we may be wrong in some of above information and thus go and ask 100 other Muslims to confirm for facts and request them to speak out on this post.

We hope you and your girlfriend find above list silly, senseless and stupid. Instead of following religious dogmas, learn to live life. Ignore all these and go marry in a court and enjoy your love. Your Muslim girl friend may be open-minded. If she is truly like Seema, Salman and Shah Rukh Khan, there will not be any problem and you will have a wonderful happy married life lasting forever. However it is important to be a realist and find out about expectations of religious conversion now.

Why not fake convert? Conversion to Islam is not an ON-OFF switch. Why to make lies and deception a foundation of your long lasting married life? If you do not have any intention to be a Muslim, why to take a fake-shahadah oaths and fake-convert to Islam? Why a person with high self-esteem would go and lie to everyone just to get married, when there are other good options available?

Don’t convert and ultimately she will come to terms. Get married the right way, like Shah Rukh Khan, Rhithik Roshan, Fardeen Khan, Gadar, Namastey London, Jodhaa bai, Seema and Salman (not Khan). However, in most cases, the Muslim girl will not rest till she converts you (view Zakir Naik).

Probably, the best option now is – you both get good education and good paying jobs, then move out to a different city and get married in a court. This is a more difficult and a long road, but in long run you both will be happy. Best wishes.

Please read all these couple’s experiences and comments:

Guy Details Conversion?* Status?*
DATING TIME
Ashok I will get converted to Islam and be circumcised Yes ?
Prateek I am a Hindu and in relationship with a Muslim girl Yes ?
Vicky After conversion what I become, exactly? Yes ?
Sameer I (Hindu) am in a relationship with a Muslim girl ? 🙁
Saurabh I am ready to convert myself into muslim yes? ?
Karan Singh She attempted sucide by cutting her nerve Yes 🙁
Sanjay What will happen in our Hindu-Muslim love?? ? ?
Kane She (Muslim) was beaten at home ? 🙁
Kumar (Muslims) slap and asked me not to be with a muslim girl No ?
K Me converting (from Hinduism), of course, not her Yes 🙁
Singh I am a Sikh guy who loves Muslim girl from Pakistan Yes 🙁
Dihot we will take their girl by hook or by crook… ? ?
Rohan Atheist: If I convert to Muslim she can marry me Yes 🙁
Arun Kumar I am a Hindu boy and I am dating a girl who is Muslim No 🙂
Sree Why they are against the pure love? ? ?
Sandeep Is it possible that I convert to Islam just as a formality? Yes 🙁
in-love (Hindu) in relationship with a muslim girl for past 7 years No ?
Krishna My gf is a pure Muslim Yes 🙁
Dr. S. (Muslim) will marry me only if I convert Yes 🙁
Dr. Alok If she really loves, we can marry keeping our own system of beliefs No 🙂
Arvind I have decided to take up Islam Yes 🙁
Prof. Diwakar I am in love with a Muslim teacher No 🙂
Sunil My Muslim gf is so scared from her family No
Anik Hindu: I love a muslim girl Yes? ?
Vicky Hindu: I am ready to convert to Islam Yes ?
Anurag (Muslim) wanted me too convert but I refused No 🙂
MARRIED
Dee My wife calls me Kafir. I wish I die Yes 🙁
Rahul Fake-convert for Marriage? Yes 🙂
Aryan Hindu: My wife is a Muslim and she used to teach Qur’an No 🙂
DIVORCED

* These expectation of conversion and status of the blogger is arbitrary based on limited information provided. It is highly recommended to read individual full story to make your own assessment.

Also read: Hindu girl, Muslim girl, Muslim boy, Koran on Hindus?, One God,

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177 Responses to “Hindu Boy – Muslim Girl Relationships”

  1. Vidi says:

    What if my Muslim boyfriend mom is not accepting me as I’m hindu? What I should do now? As I can’t live without him..

  2. John Alfs says:

    I have had sex with so many Muslim women, they never objected to it. No one quotes all this Koran stuff. As long as sex is enjoyable everything is fine.

    • admin says:

      What one does out side society’s eyes is a different matter but the same person will make sure to ask for religious conversion for marriage. Many times it is not due to faith but to please parents and society.

  3. Hari says:

    It’s so sad people are recognized/identified with one’s religion and restricted by the rules, each religion follows. Man kind is much bigger than religion. There are lots to learn and understand from the Universe rather than defending ones religion one should be open and be ready to seek.

    Once i was a victim of RELIGION.I was in love with a Muslim girl, we were in deep love literally we were just ONE soul. There was a feeling that we knew each other for centuries.Just in the name of religion we were separated, i lost her forever the wound was very deep ……………………. Later i got to know that she got married and settled happily , Even i did not have option, i got married and settled with my wife and daughter………

    However, even now when I think of her its with lots of love and I always will pray for her. May God bless her with abundant happiness…………

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=11449

  4. Bajrang dal says:

    You you are a terrorist. You are saying Allah said there is one one god that is Allah.you lol bhagwan is translated as Allah in Arabic language. Allah is also bhagwan he is not an Islamic following god. You are speaking like you have copyright of Allah. You lol you are saying that Allah loves Islamic peolple but actually he hates you all you terrorists who kill others for the sake of your fun and you are taking about Muslims there was no Muslim before 1750 years on earth. There are two kinds of Muslim Sunni and siya Sunni worship other god and siya worship other and you are saying that we Hindus worship different god. You all are Hindus. According to me Hindu religion is the best religion and community which spread love and humanity. Every Muslim girl should adopt Hindu religion because it will give them a good future and life. I respect all religions and cast but I would like to fxxx people like you.
    I know you will remove this comment after reading this you………..

  5. Pinky says:

    Hi All,
    In response to the above messages I would like to add few details.I am a hindu girl was in relationship with a muslim guy.I never actually saw him in that way and for me he was a human first.I believed each and every words he said though I knew he lied now and then to show that he is lonely.My friends were always against this relationship. they thought it is not possible to marry by staying away from parents. i believed on him he said we will marry undrr special marriage act and will settle somewhere.I trusted his plans but was bit scared too as I was the only child. In between my parents fixed my wedding with someone else and I got more tensed as my father is a very nervous man he might not able to take the shock if I elope. I was confused too as there was a time he was not attentive towards me because he was talking to other girls.I even neglected that and moved on with him but it was in my mind always that if he finds another girl again he will neglect me so because of this I was not able to take decision.The boy with whom my parents fixed my marriage was not a good boy too but we found it very late and because of my parents pressure I had to get married.But before I got married I asked my boyfriend whether he would like to elope with me in this current scenario.He suddenly denied and said he cannot because it will ruin my parents reputation.I even asked him if you really love me why you are letting me get married to someone who is not a good person.He said now there is no option left and you have to get married.So I had to get married over here and I am not happy. He had promised me that he will help me get out this situation as my husband is not a good person.But now suddenly he is ignoring me. The guy who always had time for me is now saying he wants to work because he had already wasted alot of his efforts because of me. My other friends are trying to cheer me up in this situation and he knows I have not established any kind of relationship with my husband still he is nowhere to seen. He knows I am in a lot of trouble but now he is saying I have to listen to him then only he will marry me or if I call to know something he insults me over phone.Nowdays he even say that my attitude and behaviour is not good and I should change it.I dont understand if he had so many issues with my behaviour why didnt he leave me earlier? Or why didnot he say that you should change your behaviour? Also now he is not asking me to leave he is saying to listen to him then only he will help me in this situation. Recently I found that he is even oogling on other girls. He told me these days he sleep early but I have seen him online till late night.But when I ask him he denies and say that stop all your allegations and even say I reaped what I sowed. I always trusted him even I saw alot of stuffs that were against him, people spoke against him but I ignored each and everything.Now I regret trusting him. I regret that I wasted my few years for him. I did alot of mistakes I agree but love is not something which gets vanished within a short span of time.with his present behaviour I can assume he never loved me actually.

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=10933

  6. Naaz says:

    Thiz is naaz from india hyd i love a hindu boy and he ALSO LOVE ME VERY MUCH WE BOTH want to marry and spend our life with each other,but the prblm is in my home i cnt tell in my home also ki am loving a hindu boy.i dnt want any fights and issues.

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=10606

    • mac says:

      Dear Sister Naaz,
      kindly read this message for god`s sake and your betterment in life here after.
      I know you are in relation with a Hindu(mushrik) guy and I personally don`t have problem with your relationship, but my concern as a fellow Muslim is for your life hereafter, your relation with Allah

      You may be wondering what is mushrik(in English polytheist), a mushrik is a person who associates partners with God/Allah/Ishwar, Hindus generally fall in the category of Mushriks, means they worship multiple gods which is a grave and the biggest sin for a Muslim and this sin is unforgiven sin as declared by Allah in last relevation Quran Karim.

      If you consider yourself to be a Muslim and wants to go to Jannah/Paradise after death then you have to believe in Quran and what it says, Quran clearly says a Muslim girl is not allowed to marry a mushrik guy, read this verse from Quran where Allah clearly says this…
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      “And do not marry polytheistic women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.” -The Noble Quran , Chapter-2, Verse-221
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      So you can clearly see here Allah clearly denied your relation with a mushrik guy, and in this above verse Allah clearly tells us that a mushrik will drag us to Hell whereas Allah invites you to Paradise. So what you want, Allah`s invitation or the invitation of your this world lover, Allah is the lover of you even after your death but the lover you have now is only for this world or may be for another 10 months, who knows, but your relation with allah is permanent and eternel and that love is even stronger, Allah is the one who gave you life, Allah will again take away your life which we call death but it is infact return to your real home, i.e. to Allah, who made you.

      But in the above verse Allah do not tell you to leave your lover for just being Hindu(polytheist), Allah wants more and more humans to enter paradise, so here in the above verse Allah says that you can marry your lover only if your lover accepts Islam, so here we see Allah is well aware of the fact that some Muslim men and women will fall in love with non-Muslim and sadly you are part of this test, and if your fail this test then Hell is waiting for you as Allah confirmed it in above verse “Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness”, but also it is easy for you to pass this test, just you have to convince your lover about real islam, not the Islam that media portrays and Paradise is waiting for you and your lover to live there in forever.

      Jannah/Paradise is eternal, you will live eternally in Jannah with your partner, but that partner has to be a believing man, now ask yourself what is best choice (i) Marry your lover without converting him to Islam and live a happy,blissful life in this TEMPORARY world, OR (ii) Marry your lover after converting him to Islam and live a MORE happy,blissful life not just in this TEMPORARY world but also in ETERNAL life waiting for you.

      So my dear sister, its upto you what you choose, may be you have faith in god thatswhy god is helping you through me, may be….

      IS LOVE THE GREATEST RELIGION , read here >>>>http://www.islamhelpline.net/node/911

      It is not just about you marrying a hindu guy, its about you going against commandment of ALLAH and doing what SATAN wants you to do..here is the verse from Quran
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      “O ye who believe! Follow not Satan’s footsteps: If any will follow the footsteps Of Satan, he will (but) command What is shameful and WRONG: And were it not for the grace And mercy of Allah on you, Not one of you would ever Have been pure: but Allah Doth purify whom He pleases: And Allah is One Who Hears and knows (all things). (The Noble Quran, 24:21)”
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      Remember one thing – IF ALLAH CREATED YOU FOR THIS WORLD THEN YOU THERE WOULD NOT BE ANY CONCEPT OF DEATH

      And if you say you don`t want to convert your lover for the sake of marriage, then what kind of love is it that you don`t care about your lover`s life after death, if you really love him, then you also want to live with him eternally for ever and ever, and to do so you have to follow Quran, the word of God and Quran says you have to convert your lover to islam before you marry him.

      Click this link to really know what marriage with a Hindu guy is really all about in the eyes of Allah , PLEASE read it , it will help you, YOU WILL DIE ONE DAY, SO BE PREPARED WHAT`S COMING FOR YOU, GOD SENT HUMAN KINDS WARNING IN HIS BOOK AND THE LAST BOOK SENT WAS TO PROPHET MUHAMMED WHICH IS QURAN>>> http://islamnewsroom.com/news-we-need/1937-she-married-a-hindu-problems

      If you marry him without Islamic rule, it means you will be disobeying many verses of Quran regarding marriage, Allah tells us in Quran (4:151) that if you follow Quran selectively and leave other parts of it for your personal desire, then there is no difference between you and an unbeliever.
      Here is the verse, Quran Chapter-4;verse- 150-151
      “Those who disbelieve in God and His Messengers try to create differences between God and His Messengers (by rejecting their message). They say, “We believe in some but not in others.” Thus, they try to find a middle way. Those are the disbelievers, truly. And We have prepared for the disbelievers a humiliating punishment.”

      So here you go, above verses says selective approach of Quran is trely sign of dis-believer.

      Do you want to become Dis-believer? Because if you marry him without converting him Islam, it will violate Quran 2:221, and according to Quran 4:151, violating rules of Quran makes one true Dis-believer.

      Remember Allah is always watching you, you can cheat everyone but you can`t cheat Allah..

      Now question is how will you convince your lover about Islam when you are not well aware of it, in that case I am available here to help you, you can message me back, even if you don`t like what i said then its absolutely OK and if you like what I said and if you think it helped you then please message me back how it helped you so that I can learn how it helped you and help other Muslim girls/boys having Hindu lovers and thus help others Muslim girls/boys in better way.

      See I don`t gain anything in this world by sending you this message, now you may think why I did this, I did this because I follow Quran and Quran tells Muslim if you find anyone going in wrong direction then inform him/her about truth and invite him to truth, this is the verse I am talking about

      ——————————————————————————————–
      “Indeed, mankind is in loss,
      Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and ADVISED EACH OTHER TO TRUTH and advised each other to patience.” – The Noble Quran , Chapter-103, verse-2,3
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      “Marriage is not a playground where the ego thoughtlessly pursues its vanities. It is an institution that helps a man and a woman pursue the purpose of their creation: to glorify and worship Allah and to work, within the extent of our capabilities and resources, to make the world a better place for those we share it with and for those we will leave it to.”

      Thank you Naaz for your time, I wish you a happy married life ahead and I pray to Allah to keep you on right path and may you and your lover spend eternal life in Paradise. 🙂

      Here are some more link that may help you

      http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/religious-obligation-unlawful-marrige-punishment/

      Behna dekho, allah ki bat nehi monoge???

      • Human says:

        Let people live there live’s y do allah have so many restrictions jst to pass a single lyftym on this planet can’t they live lyf they want to . religions are only made to divide people and make them suffer as u revealed the restrictions on LOVE. I think allah jst need slaves to follow him not to liv and luv people they care for.Not every person is same nd monsters are found in every religion. If u are opposing Love then mind it my frnd u are opposing the creator of this world and u. i dont knw who it is but m sure he does not discriminate people on religion lyk u do. Nd for the couple if u luv each other thn run away from this filthy world of religions coz its weak without luv .

      • Aditya says:

        Respected sir Mac , I am truely glad to see that you have a pure soul helping the others , without caring about your own personal gain…..
        I read the whole content u wrote . And I respect and I am glad to read that …..
        I appreciate the fact that you have been calm and peaceful during your explanation on such a sensitive topic , while others would have been raged…
        Sir , with full respect I also want to share my problems with you. I request you to not to get mad at me… but try to understand my problem and give a perfect solution for that..
        I am a hindu boy, and I have been in a committed relationship with a muslim girl for 2 years. About 4 year ago we met. We didn’t knew each other that time..
        Then our friendship started .. Soon this turned out to be love…apparently from both sides…..
        I knowing the the fact that THIS would not have a future , never engaged or approached to her. It was her who approached me confessed the deep love which ahe had for me.. At the very moment seeing her in such a breaking situation , I couldn’t resist myself from telling her the same I felt for her.
        Despite knowing the fact that ultimately it would lead to nothing then also I said yes…
        now it’s been 2 years … It has been smooth for us but a fear of separation always creeps over my head. Because of this fact I always turned her down when she tried to get intimated with me …. (We have no type of physical contact yet) because of this fact only…..
        See I desperately love her and care for her. After reading the content I am so confused… first I thought up to go to her father’s house and talk over the marrige issue.
        But now it seems less important to me. See I love her the most and would happily sacrifice our everyrjing for her.
        Please guide me what to do????
        That girl is a simple straight orthodox girl who loves her family. I don’t wanna be the guy cause of whom she looses all her bonds with jer family…
        Plz guide me :
        -If we can both marry and be happy as a couple without any religious issues
        -I am concerned only about her well wishing so what should I do to ensure that no harm comes to her either in this life or afterlife. ..
        -whenever I try to hint her about the such issues she just says “See I don’t know anything. I just want to be with you every time. I just can’t live without you” If marring her would put a question on her eternal character or belief on god I would rather choose to leave her, because atleast it would ensure her being safe from all voodoos . and if I decide to do so , please twll me a way to do so … Because I know it ain’t gonna be easy to tell her all this….

        I request you to please guide us after understanding all the circumstances and the love we carry for each other and fear you putted in my heart from allah regarding her well wishes !!!!!
        Please do enlighten us !!!!

        Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=11051

    • Bajrang dal says:

      Don’t take tention, naaz first ask your father he allow you to marry him,told him about qualities of the guy and try to make him agree. Even you tell the boy to try to agree his father you both are requested to not to change any religion. Don’t listen to these lols,they only discriminate people on the basis of cast,culture and sex because without this they have no work. Only marry after your parents agree if your father is a wise and literate man and the you love has good qualities they he will definetly agree.

    • Shehla Khan says:

      i m Shehla Khan from pakistan
      u inidan muslim girls are very lucky

    • Deepu says:

      may i know where are you from

    • John Alfs says:

      In this day and age don’t believe in all these religion bunkum just marry a person you love and trust.

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    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=10157

  8. afrin says:

    Hi am an Muslim women who have a relationship with the hindu man since from 5-6years before that he got married ahindu woman who has 3 children from him .But now
    he has only relation along me . There is noany oral r sexual contact with his wife aand if that women wanther husband back.what would be my right . As we are happly living what would be further problems plz give your suggestions

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=10024

    • vishu says:

      First of all if ur boy frnd what evr name called,the big question arises that why he leave her wife and if ur boy frnd having three childrens ya definitely atleast he shall to meet his kids with out of your informed but its not abig deal,take it easily.but u have to conferm that he really loves you bcoz he already leave her wife n thats a main fact you should keep in mind n find your solution of above mentioned. Your question about further problems, listen its all depend on your bf that in that type of situation what he shall do but according to your words or sentences I feel that he really take care of you n all the situation is positive not against you so if his wife will take any step to get back his husband its simple say to ur bf divorced her but main problems occurs about three kids ,I dont know so hve to contact any experts to find a great solution n bla bla bla maintain a privacy i mean take a step which about ur relationship will not know by her thats it
      but I said change is the law of life .every things shall be positive and will be what u expect. Best of luck

  9. pranoy says:

    Hello admin..i m pranoy and m a hindu.I have a muslim girlfriend.I am willing to marry her soon.but there are many issues.i dnt want to change my religion neither I want her to convert into Hindu.we both are happy by our religions.my family does not have any problem with a muslim girl.but her parents have issues.her parents want a muslim guy for me. Please help me. Suggest me how to marry her safely without getting my religion changed.please reply!

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=9978

    • Rahul says:

      hello everyone please help me…I am a Hindu boy and I have a Muslim gf we are in relationship since last 4 years we are too young to marriage.my gf thinks we don’t have a future so we should leave each other we both love each other so much she thinks if we will stay toegther my life will destroy.I want to spend my whole life with her she wants too.it’s a family problem my family will accept her as muslim but her family will not yes I dont want her to convert her religion please help me how to convience her family she doesn’t want to hurt her family we both cry alot we both want to live with each other forever….what if we both convert to Christian so that we can marry
      help me please me nahi chata wo apni family ke against jaye main use jane bhi nhI dunga me chata hun uske gharwale man jaye please help me to convince her family

      Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=10302

    • bks says:

      if ur parents having no objection then you should go and marry with her
      if any problems come to u then u can take the help of RSS (but it’s in critical condition)
      and plzzzz don’t think to convert to ur-self

      If she loves u then she will have to convert

  10. Heena Yasmin Hussian says:

    Meri sath jo hua koi v kisi love ko blv mat karna..Meri sath jo hua next time koi v muslim ladki hindu k sath love mat karna..Agor love means ye hai to koi v kisi Basanta(the boy),ko love mat karna.Me Hena Yasmin Hussain mar jaungi lekin life kisi Sanawal Basanta ko love nahi karungi..Kasam..Avi marna chahti hu,lekin kuch nahi kar pa rahi hu..Bhot jald mar jaungi,iska karn sirf 2m ho..Kela 4 year rltnshp me 2mko sb kuch de diya.I hate love

    Me jisko pagol ki tarah love kiya,lekin woh ek fal2 ladka hai..Me khud sharminda hu aisa ladka ko pyar kar k.Me jis ladka ko pyar kiya woh ladki se paisa khate hai,gift lete hai,kapda lete hai bhot sharm ki baat hai..Kya aisa v ladka hote hai jo dusre ladki pyar karta hu keh kar rupiya-kapda lete hai? Bhot sharm ki baat. Meri bf v aisa hi tha..C c c.. Thukna man karti hai.

    • mac says:

      Sister Heena Yasmin, very sorry to hear what happened with you, don`t lose hope and never ever even in wildest dream think about suicide, your parents love you, just because one terrorist did wrong with you in the name of love, doesn`t mean you hurt your own parents, its good that you came to know truth about him now, many muslim girls come to your situation after getting pregnant or after 10-15 years of marriage, when non-muslim lover shows his real character. BTW you don`t worry, repent to Allah and ask for your forgiveness.

    • vishu says:

      Listen dear yasmin some times it depends on luck ,according to me when aboy love girl ,girl doesnt in lov and vice versa it is happened in rare case that both party love each other ,in todays generation mostly 90% of ???

    • shankar says:

      shabhi ek jaise nahi hote mery jan…love karke to dekho…hindu ladke dilse love krte hai

  11. yuvaraj says:

    I’m hindu boy my girlfriend is muslim and I get married my lover change from hindu

  12. farzeen says:

    M suffering the same question should i marry a Hindu guy or not m.Muslim gal 20 yrs old m Pakistani but leaving in India since 15 years on visa basis. I have so many other issues rather then this which are making it more complicated Mae akash mallik aur Mac Bhai ap dono Mae kisi se bhi Facebook pae prsnly discuss karna chahhungi plzz do rply 🙂

    • Mohamed says:

      Sister,

      Islam does not allows to marry out side of the Religion. .
      Allah says in the Quran
      surah baqrah chapter 2 v 221
      “And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al‑Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire, but Allaah invites (you) to Paradise and forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember”

      so, Allah knows when a muslim women who wants to marry non muslim (mushrik) men will be get fire…
      because Allah says in Quran
      Surah nisa..chapter 4 v 48
      “Indeed, Allah does not forgive association with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And he who associates others
      with Allah has certainly fabricated a tremendous sin.”

      If u want to marry a non muslim men. . he should become beliver and follower of islam. . other wise its forbidden/not allowed

      • Human says:

        are u prophet mohmammed coz u sound lyk him. Its not his decision to make and who are u to make thing ryt. Do u consider urself allah or wateva. Its kind of immoral to say lyk dis anyone i lyk a muslim grl and m a hindu nd m gonna rock it nd ur allah wont be able to do wrong if he knws wat luv is or his prophet understood. wat if the writer of quran was a stupid fellow. on qurans sayngs u challenge the things followed by people since thousand centuries dats kind of so lame u shld be ashmed of urself by making such type of discrimnations .But at last we all are human we all have feelings or u hv smthig different doo tell if u have one but i dont think so .Just because of false believers lyk this world has turned into hell . Lyf would have been a lot easier if there were no religions it sucks . U cn refer history wat religions have done to dis mother earth. she doesnt discriminate wats inside her lyk u fools do on name of religions. So f**k it all nd i m GONNA ROCK nd u can’t do anythng about it coz m free .Let people live there live’s y do allah have so many restrictions jst to pass a single lyftym on this planet can’t they live lyf they want to . religions are only made to divide people and make them suffer as u revealed the restrictions on LOVE. I think allah jst need slaves to follow him not to liv and luv people they care for.Not every person is same nd monsters are found in every religion. If u are opposing Love then mind it my frnd u are opposing the creator of this world and u. i dont knw who it is but m sure he does not discriminate people on religion lyk u do. Nd for the couple if u luv each other thn run away from this filthy world of religions coz its weak without luv . and i forgot to ask wats the scenario behind hiding faces of muslim females they are treated lyk an object restricted to everythng and u people dnt even allow them to enter the home of ur allah wat kind of rule it is ur prophet was a wrong man he denied ryts to women which is a shame to u all . u shld respect every human with equal ryts m nt offending islam .Take it view from hinduism side they had sati pratha but we stopped it coz we have sense to differentiate btw ryt and wrong nd we do ryt now also. Its just the mentality of frustrated people who jst want to ruin the lives of people. U SHLD BE ASHAMED.

      • Humanasd says:

        are u prophet mohmammed coz u sound lyk him. Its not his decision to make and who are u to make thing ryt. Do u consider urself allah or wateva. Its kind of immoral to say lyk dis anyone i lyk a muslim grl and m a hindu nd m gonna rock it nd ur allah wont be able to do wrong if he knws wat luv is or his prophet understood. wat if the writer of quran was a stupid fellow. on qurans sayngs u challenge the things followed by people since thousand centuries dats kind of so lame u shld be ashmed of urself by making such type of discrimnations .But at last we all are human we all have feelings or u hv smthig different doo tell if u have one but i dont think so .Just because of false believers lyk this world has turned into hell . Lyf would have been a lot easier if there were no religions it sucks . U cn refer history wat religions have done to dis mother earth. she doesnt discriminate wats inside her lyk u fools do on name of religions. So f**k it all nd i m GONNA ROCK nd u can’t do anythng about it coz m free .Let people live there live’s y do allah have so many restrictions jst to pass a single lyftym on this planet can’t they live lyf they want to . religions are only made to divide people and make them suffer as u revealed the restrictions on LOVE. I think allah jst need slaves to follow him not to liv and luv people they care for.Not every person is same nd monsters are found in every religion. If u are opposing Love then mind it my frnd u are opposing the creator of this world and u. i dont knw who it is but m sure he does not discriminate people on religion lyk u do. Nd for the couple if u luv each other thn run away from this filthy world of religions coz its weak without luv . and i forgot to ask wats the scenario behind hiding faces of muslim females they are treated lyk an object restricted to everythng and u people dnt even allow them to enter the home of ur allah wat kind of rule it is ur prophet was a wrong man he denied ryts to women which is a shame to u all . u shld respect every human with equal ryts m nt offending islam .Take it view from hinduism side they had sati pratha but we stopped it coz we have sense to differentiate btw ryt and wrong nd we do ryt now also. Its just the mentality of frustrated people who jst want to ruin the lives of people. U SHLD BE ASHAMED.

        NAD MAc tu itna bda ho gya fir bi esi baatein kr ra have sm sense. do not speak of B C ‘s coz hinduism ruled and everything changes wid tym and it has mended it self to be great not folish lyk u people. Its insane to think such wrong words. what if ur people tried to ruin it only because of jealousy thats lame grow up islam its tym to otherwise u’ll be left behind nd dat would be absurd for all. Be HUMAN .

    • admin says:

      Farzeen,
      Currently, are you in India?

    • mac says:

      Sister farzeen, to contact me, Click Here and then message me using your facebook id.

  13. Assllam alaikum.

    dear admin i’m a hindu guy and fall in love with a muslim girl and she also love me more than anyone..i have converted to islam to nikah her and she also very interested to the same..but her parents reject our marriage acceptance and they engaged her to another guy..now she was under house arrest and not willing in that marriage but her parents forcing her..i’m also converted to islam but now only god allah is with me and without marrying her there is no relatives or friends for me in islam..now my level is more serious because i have converted but her parents refusing our love..at this level what i may to do to marry her..pls advise..

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=9825

    • Aakash Mallik says:

      Gosh thats terrible…..wht reason did they give for ur rejection??
      I never thought bt i must be careful…this may happen with me too…..ooooo….
      I must be very careful……and pray to almighty that i m blessed with my dream mate as i have dreamt it to be…

      • admin says:

        Aakash, because you convert to Islam does not mean her parents will accept you. They may want a life mate for their daughter of their own choice. Don’t be in a wrong impression or in delusion. If not sure, talk to her parents now.

        • selva @ shajahan says:

          dear admin,

          already u aware that i have converted to islam as per willing of my lover only..whenever c show her objection her parents giving emotinal blackmails aginst her..as per islam it’s haram to go back to my own religion and i’m also feel ashame of it..but now i’m an orphan in this community and i seek to cover my entire life with islamic relatives..pls give some suggestions how to make my life in islam..whether there is any jamad or cômmunity available to take care of me..pls advise..and one more thing whether force marriage is invalid in islam..and with allah’s grace only i have converted to islam..i’m muslim and saw is my prophet..
          i’m from udumalpet, tamilnadu
          Shajahan

        • selva @ shajahan says:

          asslam alaikum,

          dear admin and one more thing i have informed about our issue with the engaged guy and he told i knew all the matter (we escape and she be stay with me one day) including this also and he have so many girls contact also…he also know that girl is not willing and he is not ready to discuss about this with my lover..he well know if he do this she will tell the entire matter including she is not interested..now this is not an issue..after marriage there is a possiblity that the guy will torcher her with our issue..may god allah rasoolallah save her..if there is any urgent dua to save her..ameen..
          shajahan

    • Hi Buddy! Go to the police and tell them the whole story and make sure that her parents gets arrested that is the only solution. jisne bhi yeh 10 religion banaaye hain n . dunia mein sabse ganda kaam inhone hi kiya hai. insaano ko hi baat diya apne fayde k liye.

      • Aakash Mallik says:

        How would the police help?? LOL
        and would a girl marry a person who just got her parents into lockup….LOL….i guess not…
        Bt yeah…..itte saare religions have caused trouble…..
        Religion is a way of living….i dont knw why people take it to such a level that it is more of a problem than a relief…….huh

    • admin says:

      Selva,
      Because you converted does not mean her parents will marry their daughter to you. They may have different expectations from their son-in-law. There is very little you could do legally against her parents.

      Did you converted just for the same of Nikaah? Now if Nikaah is not possible (we hope not), are you going to revert it back to your own faith? Make sure to revert back officially and document it with witness.

      If you are financially independent and both of you are adult age, then you could marry against wishes of parents. Legally, there is very little parents could do. However, it is best to work with parents and marry by their permission. Best wishes.

      • selva @ shajahan says:

        dear admin,
        thanks for your kind reply…already i have converted to islam and strongly believing god allah..daily i’m praying him and recite dua for our marriage..will it may help me to marry her…and i’m very clear i’m not converted to islam for marrying her i believe in god allah and no more idea to return to my faith..pls help…and also give any dua for resolving my problem..

      • Assllamu alaikum..
        now she got engaged to other guy and forcing for marriage..i knew forcing is haram in islam but they are not caring about her idea..now she is ready to marry me but she was under house arrest..now only i believe in god allah and i need a dua or wazifa for marrying her..pls i knew whether my query is correct or not but now i’m an orphan in islam and one and only god allah is saving me..so pls give dua or wazifa for saving and marrying both of me and the girl who loves me..her marriage is within next 20 days..pls help me..

        reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=9825

        • Aakash Mallik says:

          Talk to her parents bro…..thats ur last shot……
          I fear the tide is not on ur side….u r fighting a loosing battle…..
          Meri duaa apke saath…….i feel bad fr u bro….
          Talk to her parents immidiatly……try to make them understand….

          • admin says:

            We wish we could say something different but we agree to Aakash “I fear the tide is not on ur side….u r fighting a loosing battle…..”. Sorry.

        • mac says:

          Wailaikum assalam bro,

          Selva@ shajahan, in islam parents can`t force a girl for marriage, that forceful marriage is null in the eyes of islam i.e Allah swt. Also marriage without permission of parents is discouraged in islam, so it`s clear mutual consent is must in islam for marriage, as you are a muslim by heart, she is also a muslim, so you can do nikaah any time any where, just go to any mosque, contact with any moderate Imam, and marry her, islamic nikaah is very simple and easy, imam will read what is necessary and you both have to agree, by saying `qobul` three times in witness of two male witness(in sunni school), as you are revert to mainstream islam, then obviously you belong to sunni jurisdiction

          But first you have to officially convert to islam, i mean legally, coz if you are legally a hindu, then when they go against you in court, court will give judgement against you coz a hindu cannot marry a muslim through nikaah, so for that you have to produce legal document that you are a muslim, so if you have not legalized your conversion, then do it and then you can marry her without her parent`s approval and no force can stop you as it is allowed in islam that adult should choose their life partner. But remember, you are not allowed to do secret marriage, coz then there will be no difference between zina and marriage, so you must have witness as required , now they give nikah nama, i.e. marriage contract paper, if you cn produce it in court, you will be allowed to stay with your wife, but remember, if you are not legally muslim, then your marriage will not be void.

          Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said: “There is no (young) woman who got married without the consent of her guardian except that the marriage will be invalid.”

          The prophet also said this

          “A previously married woman must not be given in marriage until she is consulted, and a virgin must not be given in marriage until her permission is sought.” We said, “O Messenger of Allah, how her permission [to be given?” He replied, “By her silence.” [al-Bukh?r?: 5136, Muslim: 1419]

          Narrated AbuHurayrah: “The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: An orphan virgin girl should be consulted about herself; if she says nothing that indicates her permission, but if she refuses, the authority of the guardian cannot be exercised against her will. (Translation of Sunan Abu-Dawud, Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah), Book 11, Number 2088)”

          The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: Consult women about (the marriage of) their daughters. (Translation of Sunan Abu-Dawud, Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah), Book 11, Number 2090)”

          “A virgin came to the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) and mentioned that her father had married her against her will, so the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) allowed her to exercise her choice. (Translation of Sunan Abu-Dawud, Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah), Book 11, Number 2091)”

          “A young virgin woman came to the Prophet (may the peace and blessings of All?h be upon him) and mentioned that her father had given her in marriage against her will, so the Prophet (may the peace and blessings of All?h be upon him) allowed her to exercise her choice.” [Abu Dawood: 2096, Ibn Mjah: 1875]

          The Quran also says
          O you who believe, it is not lawful for you to inherit the women by forcibly/unwillingly… [4:19]

          So it is upto your girlfriend also, that she shouldn`t give her consent in the force marriage, remember one thing, Islamically they can`t force her to marry, they can`t in any condition.

          • Aakash Mallik says:

            Mac bro is also ri8….if she is engadged…..well…
            I dnt kmw wht to say…….u may try this…do what mac says…..and yeah…stay alive…….

          • selva @ shajahan says:

            asslam bro…
            u introduce me to them and tell about my status…so that i will be little bit free whenever in contact of all muslim bro’s…
            salam

    • mac says:

      I don’t know why admin is trying to hide the case of salava sajahan. He immediately make seperate post for hindu boys who wants to marry muslim girls without converting but for hindu guys who converted to islam, he don’t make seperate post. So that other muslim girl don’t find out that there are hindu boys who really convert to islam for marriage.

    • Kashif says:

      You should atleast gather muslim scholars I.e. Jamaatees etc. as forceful marriage is just equal sin to rape. They will surely help you out, other way is try any how getting a simple nikaah duly done and approach highcourt under a habeas corpus writ.

  14. mac says:

    Marriage is a blessed contract between a man and a woman, in which each becomes “permitted” to the other, and they begin the long journey of life in a spirit of love, co operation, harmony and tolerance, where each feels at ease with the other, and finds tranquility, contentment and comfort in the company of the other. The Qur’an has described this relationship between men and women, which brings love, harmony, trust and compassion, in the most moving and eloquent terms

    Among His signs is [the fact] that He has created spouses for you among yourselves so that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has planted love and mercy between you; In that are signs for people who reflect. [Qur’an 20:30]

    This is the strongest of bonds, in which Allah (SWT) unites the two Muslim partners, who come together on the basis of love, understanding, co-operation and mutual advice, and establish a Muslim family in which children will live and grow up, and they will develop the good character and behavior taught by Islam. The Muslim family is the strongest component of a Muslim society when its members are productive and constructive, helping and encouraging one another to be good and righteous, and competing with one another in good works. The righteous woman is the pillar, cornerstone and foundation of the Muslim family. She is seen as the greatest joy in a man’s life, as the Prophet (Peace be upon him) said:

    This world is just temporary conveniences, and the best comfort in this world is a righteous women.” Sahih Muslim 10/56, Kitab al-rida’, bab istihbab nikah al-bikr.

    Allah informs us about the just rights of each other on us:

    The wife’s rights (with regard to their husbands) are equal to the (husband’s) rights with regard to them, although men are a degree above them; and Allah is Almighty, Wise. [Qur’an 2:28]

    “Consort with them graciously. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good. (4:20)“

    In today’s life of hustle and bustle, the family unit is becoming fragile by the day. Divorces are on the rise, and Muslims can no longer claim, as justifiably as before, that divorce is rare among Muslims or even much less than incidents of divorce among non-Muslims.

    Let’s take on the men first, here’s how you can keep up your wife’s love:

    1. Make her feel secure, don’t threaten her with divorce.
    2. Give sincere Salaams.
    3. Treat her gently, like a fragile vessel.
    4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
    5. Be generous with her.
    6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart.
    7. Avoid anger, be in Wudhu at all times.
    8. Look good and smell great for your wife.
    9. Don’t be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken.
    10. Be a good listener.
    11. Yes for flattery. No for arguing.
    12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, and names she loves to hear.
    13. A pleasant surprise.
    14. Preserve and guard the tongue.
    15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings.
    16. Give sincere compliments.
    17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family.
    18. Speak of the topic of her interest.
    19. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is.
    20. Give each other gifts.
    21. Get rid of routine, surprise her.
    22. Have a good opinion of each other.
    23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don’t nitpick.
    24. Add a drop of patience, increase during pregnancy, menses.
    25. Expect and respect her jealously.
    26. Be humble.
    27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers.
    28. Help at home, with housework.
    29. Help her love your relatives, but don’t try to force her.
    30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you.
    31. Remember your wife in Du’aa.
    32. Leave the past for Allah, don’t dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
    33. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
    34. Take Shaitaan as your enemy, not your wife.
    35. Put food in your wife’s mouth.
    36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect.
    37. Show her your smile.
    38. Don’t ignore the small things, deal with them before they be come big.
    39. Avoid being harsh-hearted.
    40. Respect and show that you appreciate her thinking.
    41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills.
    42. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within Halal boundaries.
    43. Help her take care of the children.
    44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments.
    45. Sit down and eat meals together.
    46. Let her know that you will be traveling or returning from travel, give her sufficient notice.
    47. Don’t leave home in anger.
    48. Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home.
    49. Encourage each other in worship.
    50. Respect and fulfill her rights upon you.
    51. Live with her in kindness, goodness, fairness in good and bad times.
    52. Kiss your wife, foreplay, don’t jump on her like a bull.
    53. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside.
    54. Show care for her health and well-being.
    55. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.
    56. Share your happiness and sadness with her.
    57. Have mercy for her weaknesses.
    58. Be a firm support for her to lean on.
    59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal.
    60. Have a good intention for her.
    61. Cook a dish for her.
    62. Designate a nice, clean, spacious area in your home for the two of you to pray at night whenever you can.
    63. Women love flowers. Make a trail of them on the floor leading to the gift you made for her.
    64. Give her a nice massage when she least expects it.
    65. Send your wife a text message out of the blue with a message of love.
    66. Send your wife an email without a reason.
    67. Go out on a date or a get-away for the weekend in a nice location, preferably without kids.
    68. Do something for your wife’s family, whether it is a gift, or a chat with her teen brother who needs mentoring, or whatever. It will get you lots of brownie points.
    69. Do not keep reminding and demanding your rights all the time.
    70. Shop groceries for her and call her from the store and ask her what she needs for the home, for herself or for her to give to people as gifts.
    71. Ask her if she would like to invite her female friends over for ladies only get together and arrange for the dinner.
    72. Ask her to send gifts to her parents and siblings.
    73. Help her parents pay off debt. Send her poor relatives some money.
    74. Write love notes or poems and place them in the book she’s been reading.
    75. If she tells you something she had just learned from the Qur’an or Hadith, do not dismiss her or ridicule her effort, instead listen to her and take her word.
    76. Plant her a kitchen garden with all kind of herbs she needs for cooking.
    77. Update her PC or laptop with a new one or get her a new mobile phone.
    78. Learn to do a special massage technique and surprise her with your new expertise.
    79. Teach your children to respect and honor their mother.
    80. Be humorous with her when she makes a mistake in the kitchen (like when she put too much salt or burnt her baking).
    Source: Convert To Islam
    Contact Mac
    here

  15. zaria says:

    I am frm india ! Hw cn it be simple akash ?

    • Aakash Mallik says:

      It is relativly simple coz agr apka bf aur aap pak me hote to aapke saath bht bura ho jaata agr aaple ammi abbu ko pata chalta….khair yaha bhi kuch waisa hi ho skta hai agr aap bht jaldbaazi karogi….to sb ahista ahista soch samjh k krna….
      Aur hai….agr apaka relation ghr pe open ho gaya wo bhi is wqt to ladke se zyada aapke liye problem hogi….be careful while talking to ur Aashiq

      • Aakash Mallik says:

        Khair hum aur Mac bhaiya dono FB pe hai…aapko koi bhi zaroort lage to seedhe msg kr dena…feel free….
        Uprwala aapko salamt rakhe…

        • mac says:

          Honor Killing is both rampant in India as well as in Pakistan, in Bangladesh it is comparatively less. Dear sister zarya, many Muslim girl get killed in who had Hindu bf in India by their parents, few examples are here

          Muslim woman weds Hindu man, both killed Read full here>>> http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/meerut/Muslim-woman-weds-Hindu-man-both-killed/articleshow/45321279.cms

          So careful sister, you are playing with fire, anyone who can get you out of this situation safely is Allah, so call Allah for help , Allah will guide you, and we are here to help you…

          So be careful, if your home gets any news then it may not be well for you, better you inform them now, or when u feel it is time to reveal, if they find your truth from other sources they will surely get angry on you, also they will only agree your marriage only if you lover accepts islam, otherwise no hope, Also Allah will not accept such marriage if you marry him as Hindu, read here what Allah has to say about your relationship with a Hindu boy, and if you marry him without conversion you marriage will be regarded as Zina which is a big sin.
          Thanks
          Contact Mac here

        • zaria says:

          Add me on fb akash n mac bros plzz ! Zaria Malik ! Pro pic is a girl sitting in orange scarf on stairs !

    • shankar says:

      yes..i love muslim girls

  16. zaria says:

    i am an indian ! n m js 16 yrs old mac !

  17. zaria says:

    I am in love with a hindu boy nd I am a muslim so can I be in relation with him ? Is it against islam ? Plzzz guide me to the straight path .

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=9620

    • Mohammed says:

      Dear zara sister,

      Yah its against on islam,Relationship with non beliver is prohibited as

      Allah says in the Quran clearly on Surah baqarah chapter 2 verse 221
      “And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al‑Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire, but Allaah invites (you) to Paradise and forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember”

      • zaria says:

        Can I marry him if he converts into a muslim ? Plzz say me plzz can I ?

        Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=9620

        • Aakash Mallik says:

          Yes….u can….
          And the best thing about Islam is that it is a belief that everyone is born muslim but may turn out to be a non believer due to some reasons….if he gets bk to islam….in simle words…converts to islam….people accept him with full respect and dignity…thats the reason we call it reversion and not conversion….

          • mac says:

            Dear sister Zarya, salam wailaikum again, this brother Akash Mallik is also a convert to islam, he was Hindu , his lover(gf) is also a muslim..you can contact akash mallik for help, you can Contact me directly here

          • admin says:

            Hi mac,

            As of now, Aakash is a Hindu, please correct your facts.

          • Aakash Mallik says:

            Dear Admin…
            See I believed in Monotheism before and had nl intrest in Hinduism…I wanted deciplin; rules to guide my life…and slowly I realized that Islam would be the correct path….so from my humble heart I have acxepted it…though officially I would get it done within a few years….I would start readinng about Islam now…and one more thing… Islam has many rukes that might sound absurd to everyone but everyrule has iys own reason…and for matrimonial part that everyone targets out….yeah it is true that u can marry 4 times but dos that mean that u HAVE to marry four times?? Well its totally optional….

          • Aakash Mallik says:

            And and and….I dont wanna say this but even I sometimes get the feeling that this page is Anti Islamic in nature…come on admin…we are here to solve problems…we are not here to fight over religion…we are here to guide….ur words..my words…no ones words are gonna change what the Geeta or Quran says….so no body gives a shit what we say….they will believe what they wish…so lets not deviate from the motive of helping others…just coz a few people on the planet use Islam as a way to kill people does not mean that rest of the muslims do the same…..The problem is we want to look at the dark side of everything coz it is spicy to see people fight…bt think of those who are true from their heart bt are accused coz some other person of their religion does something shitty….so plz….spread love and not hatred through ur wonderful web page..

          • Mohammed says:

            Thanks for your concern akash but admin wont understand this…if admin plans and Allah too plans for him and Allah is the best planner

            Allah says in Quran
            Surah Anfal chapter 8 verse 30
            “And [remember, O Muhammad], when those who disbelieved plotted against you to restrain you or kill you or evict you [from Makkah]. But they plan, and
            Allah plans. And Allah is the best of planners.”

    • admin says:

      Zaria,
      Hindu Muslim marriage could be a big issue in an Islamic country. If you are going to settle in a secular country, you could live life peacefully. View this. Let us know what else we could tell you.

      • zaria says:

        Wt if he is ready to convert into a muslim den cn I marry him ?

        • zaria says:

          Plzz say me if he converts can I marry him if he is ready to convert cn I ?

          • mac says:

            Dear sister Zaria, salam wailaikum(peace be on you)

            Yes you can marry him if he converts to Islam by heart not for marriage sake, if you want to convert him to islam, then i am ready to provide you few questions which you have to ask him for which he will have no answer but islam has answer….

          • zaria says:

            Thankq soo mch well now I am jst 16 so ill jst try to convince him den m sure he will bt nt fr my sake bt fr islam so den ill surely take ur hlp thnkq soo mch bro/sis may Allah almighty alwys bless u . May u keep helping people who r nt goin on the right path

        • Aakash Mallik says:

          Zaria…
          Aapki baate aur aapki age ekdum same to same meri GF jaisi hai…and i told hr beforehand that I would revert nt fr hr sake bt at my will……Love and religion will nt clash in my case…..:-) hope aapke case me bhi aisa na ho…..
          uprwala aapki salaamt rakhe…

  18. Aman says:

    Hey all. I really loved this post and truly appreciated the open mindedness of the people right here. It feels great when you realize that there are still humans alive on this planet alongside with Hindu, Muslims, Sikhs, Christians, blah blah. I think its good for a person to be spiritual rather than being religious. I respect all religions and i have no right to criticize any particular religion or belief. But i just do not get it. Why is religion, communities, etc considered as the primary factor to proceed further to matchmaking. I mean We are all humans. Isn’t that enough?? Plz help me guys. I really want to change the mentality of the people coz my love has been sacrificed over these petty issues of the society

    • admin says:

      Can you tell us more about “coz my love has been sacrificed”?

      • Aman says:

        I mean, i love a girl. Very much. She too is interested in me, but due to the communal barriers, she is not willing to be with me. She’s concerned if i had to bear the consequences for what she does by being in a relationship with me.

        • admin says:

          Which religion is she in? If Muslim or Christian, are you willing to convert (we know it is nonsense, but that will come) to that religion for your love?

          • Aman says:

            She is a Muslim. I have no issues regarding conversion. But, i am not at all religious. Converting myself to a Muslim will not help, coz I know that I will be a complete disgrace to the Muslim society as i do what I love and i love what i do. I do not follow the rules of my own religion. How can you expect I’m gonna do the same for any other. All i want is her the way she is. I mean i don’t think conversion is the only option. We can be Indians, or better, humans. We all live on the same planet, made by the same god, share the same colored blood. Why should this barre anyone from being happy???

          • mac says:

            admin says:
            February 25, 2015 at 9:23 pm

            Which religion is she in? If Muslim or Christian, are you willing to convert (we know it is nonsense, but that will come) to that religion for your love?

            —WHY IT IS NON_SENSE?????

  19. Basavaraju says:

    ಹೆಲೋ ಸರ್
    ನನಗೆ 30 ವರ್ಷ ನಾನು ಹಿಂದು ದರ್ಮಕ್ಕೆ ಸೇರಿದ್ದು 26 ವರ್ಷದ ಮುಸ್ಲಿಂ ಹುಡುಗಿಯನ್ನು 3 ವರ್ಷದಿಂದ ಪ್ರೀತಿಸುತಿದ್ದು, ಈಗ ನಮ್ಮ ನಮ್ಮ 2 ಮನೆಯವರು ನಮ್ಮ ಪ್ರೀತಿಗೆ ಒಪ್ಪಿ ಮದುವೆ ಮಾಡಲು ನಿರ್ದರಿಸಿದ್ದಾರೆ ಆದರೆ ನಾವು ಯಾವ ದರ್ಮದ ಕಾನುನಿನ ಪ್ರಕಾರ ಮದುವೆ ಯಗಲು ಗೊತ್ತಿಲ್ಲದ ಕಾರಣ ನಮಗೆ ಸಲಹೆ ಸುಚಿಸಬೇಕು,
    ನಾವು ಮದುವೆ ಯಾದ ಮೇಲು ಹುಡುಗನ ಹೆಸರು ಹಿಂದು ದರ್ಮದಲ್ಲೆ ಹುಡುಗಿಯ ಹೆಸರು ಮುಸ್ಲಿಂ ಹೆಸರಲ್ಲೆ ಇರುತ್ತದೆ, ಮತ್ತೆ ಹಿಬ್ಬರ ಕುಟುಂಬ ಸಮ್ಮತಿಯ ಮೇರೆಗೆ 2 ದರ್ಮಕ್ಕೆ ಯಾವದೇ ದಕ್ಕೆ ಯಾಗದ ರೀತಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ನಾವು ಮುಂದೆ ಸಂಸಾರ ಮಾಡುತ್ತೇವೆ,

  20. mrfansari says:

    After freedom of India approx 27 lach Hindu girls converted to Islam and 62 k Muslim girls went into hell and it is called before 1450 year ago and ever incident is occuring according Quraan and hadees

  21. kaku says:

    I M Hindu I love Muslim girl she is my neighbour her name is. Ayesha she is beautiful she also loves me alot or uski mom ko bhi pta h for bhi unhone kuch ni bola BT uske Dad thode Tedhe h BT WO bhi man jayenge

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=8676

  22. ASLAM SHEIKH says:

    Don t believe in these muslims they just want to exploit and convert hindu girls. they are communal and want to stop muslim girl to marry their hindu lovers. no need to convert hindu boy instead your wives should encourage u to accept your mother religion.
    My wife and my sister’s husband is also are hindu and we never tried to convert them even my sister’s children are hindu. my children are muslims but they celebrate all hindu festivals and they don t eat beef because it is prohibited in our home . they arnt circumsined either . we all four live very happily and we also have pictures of hindu gods in our home.

    • mac says:

      Aslam Sheikh, you are not a MUSLIM, you are a MUSHRIK

    • P.N says:

      Dear Brother,
      Good to see your statement.I feel pathetic when I read this type of un-natural theory of our so called “samaj ke thekedar”.i think they are purely exploiting our innocent people in the name of religion.I have never taught GOd is in diffrent forms.Profet Mohammad.Isamessih or Lord krishna never told us that they are God and we should worship them.They just came made us realise that how to live our life in a right way and not to involve in any activity which is not not permitted against nature.So the taught came to us in the form of Gita,Bible and Koran.

      So Nature do not demand any dress code,riligion,language,caste,color or region etc.He only needs a pure heart which is full of love towards the ultimate.
      I just ask one question – Is there any God before Lord Krishna,Isamessih,Prophet Mohammed?
      There was God and is the creature of this Planet,created us, everything.He never created riligion,caste,nationality.He just created Human being.It is all man made.

      So let’s be a part of new world of love and affecrion,No hatred.

  23. vedic hindu says:

    Most muslim girls will give up most of islamic practices when marrying hindu boy. so no need to give up hinduism. Zakir naik is a fool. Lots of muslima today marry hindu boy and convert to hinduism. They even change first name themselves even tho not required under hinduism. Under hinduism she can even remain muslim. So ppl here are only trying to prevent muslim girl from marrying hindu boy by fear mongering and terror. But if your love is stronger than their fear, go ahead and marry, no need for any conversion for either. and children learn both about hindu and islam follow both. Don’t believe the mullas and others who stand against true love. One who is against love, is evil.

  24. mac says:

    it is very nice to read all fake stories by hindus calling them as muslim girls, some times as truly religious muslim and at the end they call muslims as animals , how a true religious muslim girl can say muslims are animals ha ha ha ha isn`t a hupocratic it self ha ha ha , my dear hindu RSS sponsored brothers go on , i m also giving u some muslims name like to use further like sita,gita,reshma,priya,anjali,mitali,anamika,priyanka,pareniti,deepika,hema……………………………ha ha ha

  25. what u said miss khan is absolutely true and i too believe that people should try to understand beauty of love not just dividing hindus and muslim…
    even in islam.it is mentioned that similarities and differences exist each other ,but we need to come to the common terms a per between us and u…i too can feel how much burden u feel now in living life and still praying about ur beloved wellness ….this is love..

  26. Ibrahim says:

    Assalam ale kum. I am Muslim. Still unmarried. I am badly looking for Muslim girl for Marriage. Please let me know anyone interest.

    Im well settled and having very nice job in big company.

    I want to marry as early as possible. Please help me. Allah swt will give you reward.

    • Basavaraju says:

      ಹೆಲೋ ಸರ್
      ನನಗೆ 30 ವರ್ಷ ನಾನು ಹಿಂದು ದರ್ಮಕ್ಕೆ ಸೇರಿದ್ದು 26 ವರ್ಷದ ಮುಸ್ಲಿಂ ಹುಡುಗಿಯನ್ನು 3 ವರ್ಷದಿಂದ ಪ್ರೀತಿಸುತಿದ್ದು, ಈಗ ನಮ್ಮ ನಮ್ಮ 2 ಮನೆಯವರು ನಮ್ಮ ಪ್ರೀತಿಗೆ ಒಪ್ಪಿ ಮದುವೆ ಮಾಡಲು ನಿರ್ದರಿಸಿದ್ದಾರೆ ಆದರೆ ನಾವು ಯಾವ ದರ್ಮದ ಕಾನುನಿನ ಪ್ರಕಾರ ಮದುವೆ ಯಗಲು ಗೊತ್ತಿಲ್ಲದ ಕಾರಣ ನಮಗೆ ಸಲಹೆ ಸುಚಿಸಬೇಕು,
      ನಾವು ಮದುವೆ ಯಾದ ಮೇಲು ಹುಡುಗನ ಹೆಸರು ಹಿಂದು ದರ್ಮದಲ್ಲೆ ಹುಡುಗಿಯ ಹೆಸರು ಮುಸ್ಲಿಂ ಹೆಸರಲ್ಲೆ ಇರುತ್ತದೆ, ಮತ್ತೆ ಹಿಬ್ಬರ ಕುಟುಂಬ ಸಮ್ಮತಿಯ ಮೇರೆಗೆ 2 ದರ್ಮಕ್ಕೆ ಯಾವದೇ ದಕ್ಕೆ ಯಾಗದ ರೀತಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ನಾವು ಮುಂದೆ ಸಂಸಾರ ಮಾಡುತ್ತೇವೆ,

  27. famiza says:

    iam a muslim gril and love hindu boy we were start talkin in facebook on Sunday he send me friend reqest and on Monday I accpet his request and we start chatin and we had each other contect so that we can talk in fone. I told all story abut me and tell the tureth that I was marry before to a muslim boy when I was 17 years old coz it was a fix married by abba and ammi and I counldnt do anythng that time and after 3 month I left him coz he had a gril friend and after I left him he marry her and have a baby gril. I was cryin for him everynight when go to sleep it has been 4yers after that than this hindu boy who was my facebook friend came to meet me at my city he spend 3days there he visit at my home and my sister in law talk abut our marry and he says yes coz he start lovin me when the day he meet me in my city. after that she talk to my brother and abba abut. this they were ready but he has to convert in islam he agree and we had some family time and than next mornin he went to his city to tell his mother to get ready for the weddin. I drp him to bus stand and went home my sister in law told me that my abba say no to got marry to him and she say go from the house they won’t let u marry him,I called him and tell al story and my sister in law talk to him and he say tommorww mornin get a bus and came to my city and than I talk to his family they were so happy that iiam comin. but I didn’t talk to my abba and brother abut this coz my abba wasn’t at home and a very nextday I leave my house I was really upset abut this that I have to run from my home if my mother was alive this won’t happen. and I left my home and get a bus which goes towards his city it was 5hours drive and ya I meet him and nw iam happy with him but I miss my abba and brother and my culture islam , I wish allah tala fullfill my dreams and he become muslim

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=7807

    • sanam says:

      Allah sey dua h k woh bhi Muslim hojayen Aameen… Islam is religion of peace and I will request you that please convince him to convert into Islam… Dekho jb husband wife Muslim hngy toh dono apne amaaal ko badolat kia pata jannati hojayen or kia he khoub baat h k is dunia mn or ua daimi zindagi mn apka sacha pyar bhara saath salamat rahey… Humara deen Islam bohat he khubsurat deen h… Allah hum subko hidayat dey aur hmn Ahkam E Sharia k mutabiq zindagi guzarne ki taufeeq dey Aameen….

    • Shehla Khan says:

      i m shehla khan from pakistan
      i feel inidan muslim girls/weman are very lucky

  28. miss khan says:

    I am a muslim girl.i come from very religious family..am in love with a hindu boy from last 4 years..i left my city to be in his city..his parents are ready to accept me.but of course my muslim family are creating problems..i have analysed both religion,i have read quran and perform hajj but here is my conclusion…muslim people are most barbaric and don’t have heart..for them converting to islam is more important..it seems as if so called allah have not created non muslims ..thr is so much of hatredness towards non muslims..are they not creation of god 2..i am forced to convert him to islam.. it disgust me. i am not on any mission to spread this horrible religion. i am in love with this sweet loving human .iwant to spend entire life with him and his family and loving culture .its funny that according to islam my marriage would be fake bt I spit on such stupidity..nbdy from 1400 yrs old era is going to dictate me what I want..earlier I used to believe that all religions are same and that all are humans at first but the fact is most of the Muslim are totally different breed..there should be different island for them and they should not spread their sick thoughts…evidence:no muslim wil support hindu muslim marriage without converting to islam, its not their fault, right from childhood, we are taught this in quran that’s all non muslims are kafir and they all will go to hell ..v people are so badly brainwash from the day we are born that we don’t believe in anything else and are not ready to accept anything else. how can they not be heartless when right from small age, they are made to cut goats neck with your own hands and later distribute sweets .they grow up in 2 dangerous muslim on mission..ihv decided to convert to the bfull peaceful religion of my guy in few months..i only pray that my husband stay safe from the dangerous animals call muslims…

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=7757

    • akshaya says:

      Hey I wish you all the very best for your successful life ahead since my brother (Hindu) who loves a Muslim girl is also in a same situation as you are in I pray that everything goes well. I wish for your dream to come true

      • Admin says:

        Yes we also wish his dream come true. Only thing we hope that he knows what additional will be in that dream ….
        that he has to convert, ….
        have a circumcision, ….
        change his name to some Arabic name and …
        if he ever pose to be a Hindu, punishment will be stoned to death?

        May be the girl is worth all these! Enjoy the dream and that to be follows afterwards.

        • akshaya says:

          Well i dont think so he will have to do all that.And according to me religions caste everything was made by human being. We should be free enough to follow the path we want to, and not to be forced by anyone. If its forcefully followed, you dont follow it whole heartedly than whats the use… The girls family are quite open minded and i suppose things will be good at her side. The big problem is my family, my parents hate muslims and my dad is a very stict one and over-protective as well. We dont know what destiny has in its hand so hoping for the best is all we can do.

    • Shivam tiwari says:

      well it is very tough time for u ..i know .what u said is true…when.all religion are said to be same then why divide each other ..even in islam it is mentioned that similarities and differences exist everywhere ,so come to the common terms as per betwen us and u.people need to understand that god has created both hindu and muslim same

    • athiest says:

      hi
      i really liked your post, i have just read it.
      i dont know whether you goona get these or not, i have never been replied back by any one in these open conversations type blogs, still i dont know why, i want to share my story with you and wanna ask you something as well.

      i was 13 when i first saw her and i fell in her love right ffrom that moment. it was 26th june 2001. yes i m also a hindu by born and i love a muslim girl, i love her most and she is like life to me. its been almost 13 years since we are the best friends of each other and not just friends but kind of soul mates. we are so happy when we are together, but the thought of getting married always makes our dream of marrying, a dream.

      i just want to ask you is there any way, any method or just any solution of marrying her without making any voilence. i m ready to talk to her parents but i dont know whether they will agree.
      just help me by giving any suggestions if there are any. i have liked your thought because after analysing this word MUSLIM i also found the same aspects what you have written down in this. please help me in this, i will be waiting for your reply.

      i dont want to loose her……….

      Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=7966

      • mr khan says:

        dear athiest
        i am also under same situation since 6 Years.i love a hindu brhamin girl and she is only child of her parents.that is why there is more pressure on her not to leave her parents because of me.she truly loves me and her parents.it is very painful for her to even think about that what will happen when her parents know all this.i too dont want to loose her.and also dont want her to loose her parents because of me.

        Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=9273

    • mac says:

      but the truth is opposite

      Sudha Pai, professor at the Centre for Political Studies, Jawaharlal Nehru University, who has studied UP for many years, said the resurgence of such incidents only showed the extent of polarisation the region was undergoing. “The level of distrust that has developed between the communities is evident in this. This is also happening because people who created polarisation before the elections got rewarded with ministerial posts,” she says.

      In Saharanpur, Superintendent of Police Dharamveer Singh feels all this is just an attempt to create fear and tension in the society along communal lines. “Youngsters fall in love and wish to be with each other. The Muslim community has been far more accepting of them, but many of the Hindus are not ready to accept changing patterns in youth behaviour and treat it as a conspiracy by the Muslims,” he says.

      http://articles.economictimes.indiatimes.com/2014-08-02/news/52356351_1_love-jihad-muslim-bjp-mp

      and i don`t think this site is any exception to this

      and if hindus are open minded,pluralist then why they are against hindu-muslim marriages

      when muslim girl loves a hindu then it is love, it is humanity and when the same happens to a hindu girls, then she is trapped, why?? why is this hypocracy???
      why hindus tells one thing and does the opposite
      when a muslim girl marries a hindu, the baj rang dal and other hindu saffron terrorists group safe guard that couple where they does the oppsote when a hindu girl marries a muslim, then they attack muslim boy or that girl or boy`s family, why is this hypocracy, why the followers of krishna and ram are so hypocrites, why why why???????

      • Rutvik vyas says:

        mr.mac or whatever it is our sanskriti which is broking by some unnamed elements & let you know “HINDU BANTE NAHI PAIDA HOTE HAI” sooo my kind request to you mind it orany hindu organization is not on the path of terrarism world knows very well who is enemy of humanbeing &

    • FI says:

      Dear,

      People will go to heaven according to their Karma, irrespective of their Religion….God is not Muslim, neither he is a Hindu or Christian or Jews or Sikh….Even why humans even animals can go to heaven based on their Karma…recently a Police Bomb Squad Dog saved hundreds of people near a Mall, and while doing so he died, he was given heroic acclaimation. with tricolor flag…so what do you think? where he should go? to Hell? You decide….

    • fi says:

      Dear Miss Khan,

      Muslim Religion is based on False Foundation. It is basically a copy paste religion. You can get the info in Bhavisya Puran…Search Google. It is most unsecured Religion that’s why they try to increase their population by conversion either by treachery or coercion rather than love. It is a Mleccha Religion followed by Barbaric People in the Arab Land. The black stone which people worship is an Idol and of Lord Shiva, it is also mention in our Texts that Lord Vishnu’s footprint are also there in Mecca, which was stolen by these people.

      MECCA

      In the Harihareshvar Mahatmya there is an interesting mantra that describes three holy places in this earth planet where the incarnation of Lord Vishnu, Vamana, left His footprints. The mantra goes as follows:

      “Ekam Padam Gayayantu
      MAKKAYAANTU Dwitiyakam
      Tritiyam Sthapitam
      Divyam Muktyai Shuklasya Sannidhau”

      In this Verse it is not so surprising that the Lord left His footprints in Gaya and Shukla Tirtha but it is very amazing that it is also there in Mecca – the most holy pilgrimage place of all the Muslims. This can suggest that although, the Muslims consider that the divine footprints are the footprints of Mohamed, according to the above Vedic reference they actually worship and bow down to the lotus footprints Lord Vamana. A further nice explanation is given by Sri Nandanandana. “Worshipping such carved, holy foot impressions is a holy Vedic custom which convert Muslims are inadvertently perpetuating. But in doing this they delude themselves and mislead others that these foot-impressions which are on reverential display in several mosques and tombs around the world are in fact Muhammad’s own. There are several snags in this argument. Firstly worshipping a foot -impression amounts to idolatry and should therefore be taboo for a true Muslim. Secondly Muhhamad disclaimed having performed any miracles. Therefore there can be no foot-impression of his on stone. Thirdly foot-impressions must always be in pairs like shoes. Yet in most of these shrines, it is usually a single footprint which suggests that Muhammad walked on only one foot. Another question that crops up is whether the foot-impression is of the same size and foot in all the shrines. The fact appears to be that when the Vedic Kaba shrine in Mecca was invaded by Muhammad, the pairs of foot impressions of Vedic deities there were plundered and later traded to the gullible and devout as Muhammad’s own footprints for some favour, reward or personal gain by unscrupulous muslims. That is why they are single and not in pairs”.

      Muslims from all over the world pay homage to this shrine. This shrine is actually the pedestal of Brahma. Notice that the word, Ibrahim is actually a corruption of the word, Brahma. The octogonal grill which is a Vedic design, protects the holy footprints which represent the start of the creation nearly 2000 million years ago. Before it was captured by the Muslims it was an international shrine of the Vedic trinity.
      It is a demonic cult in disguise of a religion. Even Its Prophet had predicted its end. They hate others because once people will get to know the True Facts, they will have no face to Hide their Faces. That’s why they want to make the whole world under their control so that everyone will practice this false religion. But since it is based upon false foundation it has to collapse in order to have a balance in the world. And it will soon experience that.

  29. pratham says:

    Hi all till the end i understand if you love with any muslim girl there r 2 option
    1-both of should keep same religion because both of love
    2-girl can convert to Hindu because as per hinstory most of Hindu girls converted to husbands religion
    3-hindu relion is the first religion of the earth all over world was Hindu firs after that Muslim ishaai sikhs or etc converted in onothers or this is the relion which is really in the earth even today there are some god proofs also.if any body want any clearification he reply me

    good from Anand mohan singh or prem,,

    • mac says:

      hindu is the latest religion founded by british in 19th century when they invaded india and hindu name is given my arab-persian muslims to indian pagans,cluts which means chor,chakka,nikamma,fraud…..

      origin of hindu(chor) word http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_Hinduism

      orifin of hindu(chor) woed by pandit arya pal https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VWR7eDyvzk

      • Pehle toh jo link post kia h phle use khud pad ke dekh. Jesa tu ne claim kia h wesa kuch bhi nahi dia h isme. Chor toh wese saare katwe hi hote h. Mahmud Ghazni ne Somnath mandir ka sona churaya. Tumlog ka prophet mohammad toh sabse bada chor, rapist aur loose character wala tha. Yeh me nhi, tere jesa hi ek aur katwa kehta h (Salman Rushde). “Satanic Verses” pad uska jaa ke. Dimag ki batti jalegi fir teri. Fir shayad tu bhi daudega Agra, RSS/Sangh ke “Ghar Wapsi Karyakram” me jane k liye.

  30. Prem says:

    i m in relationship with muslim girl and she loves me lot but in her home they were very strict she told to me come to our islam and u can marry to me this is the only path to get marry with me otherwise we cant able to marry like she said but i am strictly opposed to convert islam and i said to her i m great hindu y should i convert but now she is saying watever happend i dont want leave u and if necessary means i am converting to ur hindu religion and we have a sketch to run away but i dnt hv confidence and is this possible ?

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=6216

  31. ANAND MOHAN SINGH says:

    Main v muslim ldki se pyr krta hu aur ye koi jaruri ni ki main dharm pariwartan kr lu aur wo mujh par kv dabao v ni bnati kyuki dharm se bda pyr ni hta aur koi mjhe kh de ki tm apna dharm parivartan kr lu to ye koi bt ni h main janta hu ki mera hinduism duniya me sbse best h aur jha tk islm ki bt h to main ye manta hu ki ye faltu dharma h kyuki hmra dharm aaj se ni blki lakho barso se h aur iski tulna tucch dharmo se ni ki ja skti.jago hinduo jago apna dharm kv pariwartan mt krna
    hinduism is the best religion than any other religion in world

    • E C says:

      @Anand Mohan Singh : This is a Legal advice not a religious one.

      If you don’t want to convert & still marry ur Muslim Girl-friend,then go for a Civil(Court) Marriage as per Special Marriage Act,1954. In that neither of you need to convert.You both may practice your own religions respectively.

      Personally,I believe Love is the most unifying force on the earth.Hence,there should be no conditions imposed.
      Do you ask a person Caste/Religion/Creed/Nationality before falling in Love ?
      The Answer is NO. Then where does the need for conversion arise.

      If you face any threats or intimidation from any family-members,then kindly take court-ordered Police Protection.If situation gets worse then try to migrate to some other city/state or the best option is settle abroad.

      I know a Indian(Hindu)man married to a Pakistan(Muslim) girl of Balochi Descent, happily married & blessed with a Daughter leading a Peaceful life in Toronto(Canada).Neither families of each side where will to agree.
      But both of them walked the path of fire & are living happily in a secure environment far away from their countries.

  32. salma says:

    i wish that every1 gets their life partner without problems

  33. almas says:

    my nameis almas & my boyfrnd name is abhishek he is non musime we want marry but he dont wan change his religon.what is the solution of our marrige??? thanku

    • admin says:

      Almas,
      Is Abhishek a good human being? Is he educated and will earn good money to support you family? Do you think he will keep you with love and dignity in your life? So what is the problem in Abhishek?

      Do you want him to be a Muslim, why? You knew on the first day you met him that he is a Hindu, why did you ever got into this love? If he converts to Islam, he could tell you in the middle of cold night talaak, talaak, talaak and could kick you our in one minutes. A Muslim-Abhishek could legally beat you at home. A Muslim-Abhishek could get addition three Almas at home, then you will have only 25% of nights with Abhishek. Is that all new qualities you wish to see in Abhishek?

      Please let us know more details and we will help you. Ask Abhishek to come on this site and blog here. We are waiting!

      • ajju says:

        hello,
        i m ajju and even i m in love with muslim girl from the last six years and i m still doing MBA and after one month i will have my MBA degree we both want to marry each other and my family is ready to accept her as a muslim my parents don’t have any problem with my relationship with muslim girl.but the problem is that her family is very strict and have a good political relations and they will not allow her to marry me at any cost.we are ready to do court marriage but i don’t want her family and police to know about my family and don’t want them to come to my house.
        is there any amendment for that in the law ?

        Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=7747

        • ajju says:

          my girl friend is too relegious.

          • ajju says:

            when will you reply me admin ?

          • miss khan says:

            i guess we are in the same boat..difference is i am a muslim girl ready to convert and marry my hindu man.i tried my best to bring both family set together but it’s useless here is my suggestion if you really want to be together you will have to elope new city as mauslim community will never accept her or you without you getting converted .I am sure , your girl will ask you to convert to Islam but nver make that mistake.m Muslim myself. no need to waste time on convincing her parents as there are 80 % chances they will harm you and your family too unless you become one of them they are not humans

  34. sameer says:

    hey admin.
    why r u making fool to the visiter by showing these data….
    one fact you should consider everytime is NO any hindu boy convert their religion for marrige.becouse hindus never hate any people in the world on the basis of religion, they only worship for humanity, always give preority to humanity and respect all faith and religion, thats why non-hindu girls marry with hindu boy.becouse they never make condition of religion, name, god before his lover.

    • admin says:

      Sameer, can you clarify what do you mean by “by showing these data….”. Do you mean any thing written is not correct, can you point our specific point of concern to you or not truth?

  35. sana jafri says:

    Asw all muslim sisters,
    my name is sana jafri. i am a married women having 1 daughter. i live in pune. please be carefull while taking ur life’s decissions.
    i was in love with a hindu boy named shrikant. he lives in mubai. we met on internet and get colse to each other. and very soon got in relationship. then i realise that i am a married women and having 1 daughter.
    and i shared all info with him. still he was very crazy to have relationship with me. i agreed and loving him too much. i came to mumbai to meet him on his demand. he said k we will stay in mumbai only and get married. after that u can claim your daughter from your husband. and he was agree to take care of my daughter. when i met him and we stay in a room for 3days. and the 4th day we were going to do court marriage. that day shrikant went to bring something and never come back. i wait for more 2 days in that hotel. and call him many times. he did not pickup my call…and i came back to pune. i gave him my all soul and he just used me for his thrust. he broken my trust and even all those girl’s trust who love their boyfriends more then their life’s even not thinking of their parents and all bonding. i trusted him very much as he talked with me very nice “i will marry u only” “i will die without you” and lots off…sent me a roses and chocolates, dresses on my birthday and win my trust and break it in few days. i love him today too but just sharing this story for those who love blindly. don’t do it. and shrikant’s no today also working but he never pick my call and if i called from any other no he disconnect the call when here my voice. i can not do anything to find him bcause i am not aware of mumbai city. and i live in pune. i am sharing shrikant’s no here. if anybody can help me to find him please do replay on this post. i will be thankful for your favor.

    9920_ _ _303. this is shrikant’s no i can not publish d full no here. because i tried it many times but it does not appear. so shrikant if u read this post please come back. i want to spend all my life with u. i never ask you to convert in muslims. i will love you as you are now. i want only you.

    Reply to Sana at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=4734

    • Harsh says:

      I’ll hope jinhone galt kiya h unhein saza milein n aapko insaaf InshahAllah.. Dn’t loose ur hope..

    • ali says:

      tere jaisi beshram aurath na kabi dekhi na kabhi suni jo apne husband k sath hotey howey bhi to ek hindu ladke k sath soi 3day us neydhoka bhi diya us k bawajood you are waiting for him you are shameless.

  36. Akshay says:

    Dear All,

    IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE BE WITH THEM, COME WHAT MAY BE TOGETHER, GET MARRIED, SHOULD BE TILL THE END AND TILL BOTH DIE, OR ELSE DON’T GET INTO LOVE I MEAN DON’T EXPRESS IT.

    LOVE IS GREATER THAN ANY RELIGION,COMMUNITY, CASTE ETC. DON’T WORRY ABOUT THE SOCIETY, LOVE SHOULD BE ACHIEVED, LOVERS SHOULD BE TOGETHER.

    About My love…..

    I am a Hindu boy, was more committed to my work/career, always thought about family and parents, dreams about my life and never wanted to get into love, never wanted to love, never wanted to hurt my parents and their thoughts. But LOVE HAPPENS and that cannot be planned.

    End of 2011, A female(Muslim) joined in my team only female in my team, as she was in my team,my responsibility was to protect her, guide her, teach her, support her, learnings from each her, to value each other thoughts etc. More than colleagues We became friends.

    In month of Sep. 2012, she said her parents decided to marry her with Muslim boy and engagement is over and she will get married in month of Dec. 2012. So I just smiled and was not able to sit in the office and I just walked out and I was not able to understand exactly what kind of emotion bond it was, I convinced myself that this is obvious feeling as my close friend is going away from me, but i should wish all good to her life.

    She completed 11 months at work, we never thought about love, but LOVE was somewhere, but we never knew that it was a love. We never expressed before each other, Especially i never wanted to express my love to her as she was already engaged to someone.

    Later on she started telling about the guy who was engaged to her, she started telling that she doesn’t like him, he is very rude in approach, he is still having affair with other female, my engagement happened as it was some kind of a obligation, I cannot be happy with him, etc.

    But Play master is on the top, in mid of October, Office trip was arranged at a hill station. During the time of trekking we were just calm and some different kind of feeling was there between us and never expressed our love.

    After coming from the trip, while chatting on the phone, she started telling you are different guy, you don’t have girl friend, you don’t know how to get girl friend and all, We arrived at a CHALLENGE, I said I can convince anyone and i can convince you also, as indirectly she also wanted to play pranks with me and the next challenge was to behave like a Boy friend and Girl Friend.

    Without know to each other we forgot about the challenge and we were in LOVE, which was expressed during the time of challenge period. We never knew that we loved each other so much since 11 months but we did not expressed.

    We used to exchange each other feeling and OUR SOULS WERE TOUCHED…She used to take care of me like anything, it was an unconditional love. She loved me so much, i loved her like anything.

    I decided I should get married to her, as SHE WAS MY FIRST LOVE, WANTED TO MARRY HER, WANTED TO BE WITH HER FOREVER…..

    She also said the same-thing, she wanted to be with me forever, lifelong… but she was having some doubt that whether will be together or not…. So she said we will get married for our understanding, so that we will be husband and wife, we got married on end of November 2012, and witness was only the GOD and only GOD. On that day I was so much satisfied as she became my wife and i am her proud husband. But I was not able to tell to anyone on this world. But I decided to life together forever with her after all she is my wife and she is only mine.

    So God’s decision was different, some relative passed away in her family and everyone was there at her home and started telling that deceased person always wanted to her marriage before the death. Later on everyone started speaking about her marriage, pressure was much on her.

    I never new that there was such kind of twist in my life, I exactly do not know what happened to her, she started telling “we were in a dream, we have to live in reality, i dont want to hurt my parents, i don’t want to kill them, my sister cant get good groom if i come with you, i have to get married to that person whom i am engaged with.

    I was totally into black room, i requested her so many times, that she cant be happy with that guy whom she doesnt love, he cant keep you happy, moreover i cannot live in this world without you.

    I am married to you, you are my wife and i am your husband, i cant let to go with someone or you cant leave me and go with someone. As a husband i need to protect you, i ll protect you, i am here to fight for anything, ready to fight against this world, society, etc.

    Then she started telling (mid of January 2013)”ours is not at all a marriage, we married in Hindu tradition, according to me, according to ISLAM it is not a marriage and we are not husband and wife. Later on she started convincing me that all love at the end it is more of a sacrifice, we should not be selfish, we cannot be mean to our parents, we should not hurt them, we need to SACRIFICE OUR LOVE”. She used to cry, i want not able to control my tears or emotion as i loved her truly and accepted her as my WIFE, life partner and my soul mate. She started telling that she would kill herself if I speak about my love with her again or if anyone one in her family comes to know about it. I made it clear to her, i cannot force you on anything, I wanted her to tell only one YES, if she was ready, i would have got her. This never happened

    She distributed her invitation cards to all in front of me at office. She also said my presence is required in her marriage if not others will speak bad about her/me. if i don’t attend her marriage.

    Embarrassing situation was that, she wanted to see me first, before she enters the Marriage Convention Hall, I was waiting for her to enter and she saw me, later on my colleagues saw me, i gave her a presentation (attending my own wife’s marriage???????), and i walked away from that place.

    I think no one on this earth should get this kind of a situation, where a actual husband was not able to tell to anyone about the marriage his own marriage, and attending his own wife’s marriage with some one and giving presentation??????

    I prayed to GOD, to give her happiness in her life…….I always wanted her to be happy and keep smiling, i never wanted or want to hurt her.

    But what about me? i cannot get married to anyone, My Will is not able to accept any female in my life apart from my love…But one thing for sure memories cannot be erased, i cannot forget her. But i cannot think about her as she is somebody’s property. i cannot be in touch with her and do not want to be.

    But what about her can she be happy with someone whom she never like at all and got married to him in front of all? that too in front of me????

    What about her parents in-case, in-case if she is not happy with the marriage which they liked? they marriage where society accepted this marriage? Can parents be happy if something goes wrong with the new married couple?

    Here only for the satisfaction of society, religion, obligations people get married. NO one can be happy here

    So if you love someone truly, be with them till your last breath…..Do not hurt your love, don’t give pain to your love, do not betray your love.

    Reply at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=4550

  37. hina says:

    I m a muslim.girl…in relatnship wd a hindu boy…hes brahmin…nd vry relgs..nd i too vry relgs..i pray fr his conversion to islam.evrytym in namaz…hes a great guy…very good at heart…probably nicer than hundreds of muslim guys…v luv each odr a lot..cnt think of life wdout each odr..even.havin affair is prohibited in islam but i blv pure love has to be acceptble.in.the eyes of allah…but the prob is our parents approval and how.our life would b after marriage…i am thinkng of gvng childrn.both islamic and hindu teachngs and let them decide what to choose whn dy attain the age vn dy are old enough to think wisely over it..and olso am sure if dy get islamic teachngs dy ll surely gonnu follow dt…but if as a bahu iam asked to performsome rituals nd i do wdout heart…readng. Taubaastakhfa heart will that b wrong??? And i do hv argumnts on relgs
    topics….wht do i do to convince him dt islam a true rlgn…wdout straing our relatnship…cz if i dont get him i may never marry in my life..

    Reply to Hina at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=4573

    • hina says:

      Also he belongs to a famly who are vry narrow minded…consider muslims impure and ol dt shit…he too ws lyk dt befr i cm…but still has some.flinch for odr uslims…he can accept me nd my famly..but the fact he dznt respct my community drowns me…i get over emotnl over rlgs topics bcz i am follow nd blf islam.nt jst bcz i m born into.it but i hv actlly understod it soo well..nd i want him to undrstnd but preconceptns and ego ll noy allow him to see wht am tryin to say…is dr any way i can atlst make him undrstnd wdout ruing our reltnship

      Reply to Hina at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=4573

    • khan says:

      Apne sirf duniya k pyar k liye apne islaam aur quran ki btai hui baato ko bhula diya .iski saza apko insha allah jarur milegi .how u cn say he is ncr then 100 muslim guy?.ap 100 ki bat karte ho .ek true muslman hi puri duniya me jitne gair majhab k log he unse bettr he ..apki pyar yahi tak duniya me hi disapear ho jayega .apne samjhte hue jaan kar b esi galti ki .abhi b wakt he apne ko pahchano aur tauba karo allah se beshak allah apne bando ko muaf karne wala he ..warna bahot dair ho gai to .na duniya me sukun milega na aakhirat me ..jo ap kr rahe ye ek qayamat ki nishaniya he .

    • Rutvik vyas says:

      hina ji kya ap use sachcha pyar krte hoo to ap use bina muslim bnaye shadiaur hindu dharm mai jaruri nhi ko biwi vi hindu bn jaye aap shadi ke bad vi namaj padho aur vo mahadevji ki ko pujega

  38. Aleshia says:

    anyone know of anyother muslim women married to sikh men? :)I know several where I live and I have many sikh friends, but Id like to know if anyother women are still muslim… because NO ONE BUT GOD CAN EVER SAY/TELL YOU TO NOT BE MUSLIM, ITS NOT THEIR CHOICE. AND ANYONE THAT SAYS THIS, IS TRULY ONE OF THE HYPOCRITES. forgive and forget 🙂

  39. Fayyaz hussain mohd says:

    Salaam
    dear sister primary thing for which i wanna appreciate you is, you doing a wonderful thing by helping your father financially, but dont forget you are a muslim girl, according to islam we have n numbers of rules which we never follow, loving is not a crime, but we have to face god after death he is watching everything. he knws better whats wrong and right, marry the person to whom you love but firstly convert him to to islam, if not what ever you do is haraam, think of it, i m jst 20 yrs if my words hurtd u forgive me, think and do, last decision will be yours. may god show you the correct path,

    • Srinivas says:

      (This is what I beg and implore Hindus and Non-Muslims to understand.)

      Here comes a true Muslim but he is very honest in telling what Islam is about as he wrote: “but we have to face god after death he is watching everythng. he (Allah) knws better whats wrong and right…”

      This is essence of Islamic theology. This kind of thinking is the kernel to being Muslim.

      Islam means submission to the will of Allah as it exists in Koran, a book of guidance and message. How Muslims define everything is deducted from this.

      Rationality, logic and conscience are not the ones which guide their thinking and deeds. Infact, they and free thinking are the enemies of Islam.

      Lets see how the most important institution in Sunni Islamic world, Al-Azhar University of Cairo, defines what is good and what is bad:

      (The manual of Sharia law of Shafi’i school of Islam has been translated in to English in the year 1990 by an American Muslim, Keller, called The Reliance of Traveller. This translation has been approved by Al-Azhar University to be authentic and as a guide to Muslims living in West.)

      This is what it states in determining what is good or what is bad in the section A, Chapter 1 and subsection 4:

      @A1.4: Meaning of Good and Bad

      The basic premise of this school of thought is that the good of the acts of those morally responsible is what the Lawgiver (syn. Allah or His messenger (Allah bless him and give him peace) ) has indicated is good by permitting it or asking it be done. And the bad is what the Lawgiver has indicated is bad by asking it not be done.

      The good is not what reason considers good, nor the bad what reason considers bad. The measure of good and bad, according to this school of thought, is the sacred Law not reason.

      Non-Muslims think that Muslims also judge what is good and what is wrong in the same way they as they do i.e. Non-Muslims follow rational thinking i.e. The Golden Rule which can be found in all religions but not in Islam. The Golden rule forms the kernel of our moral and ethical code.

      The Golden rule states: “One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself. or One should not treat others in ways that one would not like to be treated.”

      We find one form of Golden rule in Hindu scriptures: “ This is the sum of duty; do naught onto others what you would not have them do unto you. (Mahabharata 5,1517)

      One should not behave towards others in a way which is disagreeable to oneself. This is the essence of morality. All other activities are due to selfish desire. (Mahabharata, Anusasana Parva 113.8)

      But you will not find any such rule (or teaching) in Koran. Instead, you will find Koran always talking in terms of Muslims and Non-Muslims, exhorting Muslims to subjugate Non-Muslims and to implement God’s rule – according to which Non-Muslims are worse than animals. Implicit in all this is, as Koran tells Muslims to subjugate Non-Muslims as they are inferior and inhuman, this outlook can not be bad because this must be right as Koran tells.

      Now, you be the judge.

      • FI says:

        There is an Old Maxim-” OLD IS ALAWAYS GOLD”….HInduism is the oldest religion on Earth, all others have taken insipiration from Hinduism (Sanatan Dharma) and copy-pasted some points and developed their own points based on it, and submitted their thesis paper at the Final Examination….to prove that their religion is the Original one. There are lot of proofs available on the internet. Even scholars of western countries have started to accept these facts. But yes Hinduism is contaminated, as it was foretold in some of the verses of our old textures, why? because when Kalki avtar will come what work he shall do? He will establish Dharma, so now around 70% Hindus are not practising Hindus, with time this will increase. Remember When Lord Rama was born he had 5 planets in Exaltation that too in Treta Yuga, when Lord Krishna was born he had 3 major planets in exaltation, and according to Vedic Astrologic calculation Lord Kalki will have more than 6 planets in exaltation, so just imagine how would be our Society then, full contaminated and polluted, and then he is the one who will establish dharma………

        • FI says:

          And in this Kali-Yuga…the most dreaded planet is Rahu and Ketu. Although they are the same yet Rahu is the upper portion and ketu is the lower portion (headless). Rahu represents -Sudden flash of lighting, material luxury, missiles, bombs, great discovery, wstern world, innovations,Destruction etc and Ketu represents-Sprirituality, Fanatism, blood, Spirits & Ghostly activities, Travel etc (Benefic & Malefic attributes). They are at the command of Saturn the Task-master. Why we put Sandalwood paste on our forehead and on navel (Nabhi)? it is because Sandalwood paste is for Jupiter-Guru Brahaspati, under whom all other planets become students and thus pays respect. Jupiter is regarded as Brahma the creator. Moon is regarded as Lord Shiva the Destroyer and the calming agentm mother’s lap etc, and Sun is regarded as Lord Vishnu -the giver of life. So while putting it on forehead we pay respect to Jupiter so that all other planets give us benefic affects in other words we should be saved from the malefic affects of all planets-specially Rahu-Ketu. And why we put it on our navel, because it the meeting point of these Malefic Planets called Rahu-Ketu. When vedic astrology is applicable to human beings it is called as Horary Astrology, and when it is a matter of the whole Universe then it is called as Mundane Astrology. So where do Rahu-Ketu meet in Mundane astrology? Search google- ” Navel of the earth” http://www.ancient-wisdom.co.uk/earthnavels.htm

          • FI says:

            And no other planets can match with Rahu’s might except Mars. When Mars is benefic it is considered as Lord Hanuman and when Mars becomes malefic it can spell thunder and destroy everything. even Rahu-Ketu…..no doubt…Malefic Mars can be ascribed as Lord Nataraja or Rudra Murti of Shiva..and interestingly Hanuman is also formed from Shiva……Rahu-ketu always fight with each other and in their fight RAhu always win….Ketu is headless creature which knows only fighting and blood, but lacks patience and intelligence….So that’s why we are told to chant HAnuman Chalisa because it can only save us from the malefic effects of Rahu-Ketu…..

        • Mohammed says:

          You cant proof hinduism is the oldest religion…
          hinduism is exist only before 4000 years ago as per hindu scholors. . .

          Many non muslims failed that islam exist before 1500 years ago and prophet mohammed(p.b.u.h) is the founder of islam.. but its not correct… Islam is since from memorial…from adam(p.b.u.h) to mohammed(p.b.u.h)… and Mohammed(p.b.u.h) is the last and final messanger of God…

          so dont fail to realize this bro.. . i want to talk with you more. ..In sha Allah when ever i get time i will talk and this is friendly discussion so dont get angry. . .advance apologize to you

  40. Satyen says:

    Admin,

    Something to add:

    Food habits – invariably non – veg,
    the bride/her family members may wish to eat beef
    only halaal and no no to pork

    Ritual of animal killing: The bride may request for qurbani on Bakr-id

    Eventually children may start racticing all the above at home when they grow up.

  41. suma usa says:

    your Pakistani raised brothers will certainly oppose your marital plans. We saw so many cases from England already, especially in the Pakistani origin families, wherein the girls were attacked and even killed by brothers and fathers. Nowadays the law is made stricter and many of these men are getting jail terms. Since you are living outside Pakistan you maybe fine.Pakistani school text books depict hindus in a very bad manner, thats the reason all Pakistanis have very low opinion about hinduism. Strange it may sound to them, their ancestors were all hindus.Good luck to you, you are in a tough spot.

  42. Husna says:

    I am muslim girl from Karachi Pakistan, working abroad in a Logistic company. I am in love with a Hindu boy, working as Logistic Manager.
    I am supporting my 2 brothers studying in Karachi and father has no regular source of income. Doing my BBA in Logistic Mgmt., got a job in a foreign logistic company.

    My mother is no more and father under tremendous financial pressure.
    He waits anxiously about remittance of money from me. I did my BBA by doing coachings in Mathematics and accountancy subjects immediately after passing matriculation.

    Hindu boy, Name Ashok, loves me a lot. He is settled in the abroad from Mumbai. He has rented me his two room set to me. His mother keeps and cares me like his daughter.

    I have decided to marry him Ashok only.I have not yet told my father.
    He wants me to continue job till brother(s) become self sufficient.
    I have told Ashok that financially I will have to help my parents.
    He has no objection. Rather he advised me to bring one of your brothers here.

    He is likely minded and told not to change religion.Very honest, and respected by all in the company.

    I seek comments from all like minded and god fearing persons through this site.

    Reply to Husna at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=2985

    • Sunil says:

      I apprecite ur decesion u know the pakistan’s law about hindu-muslim marriage are very strict it is difficult to get marry with a muslim girl i love a muslim girl and want to marry i don’t wanna change my religion what should i do now plz tell

      • admin says:

        Sunil,
        Can you provide more details? What are agreements between two of you? Did you talk to two sets of parents? Are you financially independent to make a decision that you wish to take? Let us know more to help you.

      • Akshay says:

        I am a Hindu Guy, I loved Muslim girl, More than me she loved me a lot, she loved me that much no one could measure it. We were in our own world, world of love, when we were in love or when love happened we never had a clue or thought about the religion. I was ready for everything, i was there her, i was prepared to everything where i can keep her happy, i was planning for marriage.

        We were beyond religion, society, parents, friends etc. But again same society, RELIGION, parents, friends etc. came int existence when she got engaged with same community i.e with Muslim guy.

        Same time one of the close relative passed away in her family, everybody started coming to her home and later days every one started speaking about her marriage, religion, reciting, etc.

        Now she started telling WE BOTH WERE IN A DREAM and never thought the real life….. As i said we loved so much, she loved me so much, she is telling we need to sacrifice our love. our love for our parents, her sister or else they will die. She is telling body is mortal soul is not immortal.

        Later on she started telling i did a mistake, in Islam it is wrong, Allah will punish me…But she is doing this deliberately so that i can go away from her. she is telling me to marry some one, to keep my parents happy, to lead a better life in society. But remember she tells in a pain and she will be getting married with someone in few days.. But she tells she love me

        I made all arrangements to kidnap her, but immediately realized that LOVE CANNOT BE FORCED. Now invitation card will be distributed in one or two days. But i checked from all the sources, that the engaged guy’s character is not good. Being a Muslim he has demanded and accepted cash from brides home. He is marrying her becoz of money…. He cant keep my love happy. She cant be happy.

        Now what should i do ?What is sacrifice? should i blame my own-self? should i blame her? should i blame religion? I JUST CANT LIVE WITHOUT HER, she is in my blood, in my breathe. Its a true love…. I just wanted one YES, only one YES she dint tell. She is going away from me….far away from me. But virtually she is with me, i can feel her presence, i can feel her touch, etc.

        What should i do now. i am in deep depression…..

        Write to Akshay at http://www.interfaithshaadi.org/blog/?p=4550

        • vikas says:

          hinduism is a most philosphical and intellectual religion which believesin spirituality islam is a basically tribal and religion with practical and parochial outlook u convince her about the need for understanding this truth and that one should follow any religion but without sacrificing own love

          • Naaz says:

            vikas am a muslim girl and i also love a hindu boy he also love me very much i want marry him only wat shoul i do

          • mac says:

            So Vikas, you think Hinduism is intellectual while islam is tribal backward religion, then well lets see what is the truth

            Rape of Women in Hinduism

            Matysa Purana 31.16 ”Sarmistha said:- ”King! there is no sin in speaking untruth at the time of indulging in sexual pleasures, on the occasion of marriage, when life is in danger, wealth is at stake, and in joke. Lying on these five occasions is venal.”

            In the Brhadarankyaka Upanishad scripture(advocating rape):Surely, a woman who has changed her clothes at the end of her menstrual period is the most auspicious of women. When she has changed her clothes at the end of her menstrual period, therefore, one should approach that splendid woman and invite her to have sex. Should she refuse to consent, he should bribe her. If she still refuses, he should beat her with a stick or with his fists and overpower her, saying: “I take away the splendor from you with my virility and splendor (6.4.9,21).

            In the Purunas(Hindu Gods Rape Gautama’s wife)Formerly the gods lusted for Gautama’s wife and raped her, for their wits were destroyed by lust. Then they were terrified and went to the sage Durvasas [an incarnation of Siva], who said, ‘I will remove all your defilements with the Satarudriya Mantra [an ancient Saiva prayer].’ Then he gave them ashes which they smeared upon their bodies, and their sins were shaken off. — Padma Purana 4:101:174-9.

            Mahabharata 1.82 “Sarmishtha then said, ‘It hath been said, O king, that it is not sinful to lie on the occasion of a joke, in respect of women sought to be enjoyed, on occasions of marriage, in peril of immediate death and of the loss of one’s whole fortune. Lying is excusable on these five occasions.”

            So this is intellectualism of your religion and it treats women in this way. Not finished yet, lets read some more of your so called intellectualism.

            Naturally, seeking shelter under such religious sanctions, unscrupulous women disgraced women to the maximum possible extent and made them means of satisfying their lust. No one wanted a daughter. As a result; female infant came to be considered unwanted. No one wanted a daughter. Everyone was interested in having a son. The birth of the son was celebrated, but the birth of the daughter plunged family into gloom. This attitude still persists, even though certain other customs have undergone changes.

            ‘Rig Veda’ itself says that a women should beget sons. The newly married wife is blessed so that she could have 10 sons. So much so, that for begetting a son, ‘Vedas’ prescribe a special ritual
            called ‘Punsawan sanskar’ (a ceremony performed during third month of pregnancy). During the ceremony it is prayed:

            “Almighty God, you have created this womb. Women may be born somewhere else but sons should be born from this womb” – Atharva Ved 6/11/3

            “O Husband protect the son to be born. Do not make him a women” – Atharva Ved 2/3/23

            In ‘Shatpath Puran (shatpath Brahman)’ a sonless women has been termed as unfortunate.

            SEX WITH FATHER AND BROTHER IN HINDU SCRIPTURES

            In the ‘Vedas’ there are instances where daughter was impregnated by her father and the sister by her brother. The following example of sexual intercourse is found between father and daughter in the ‘Rig Veda’:
            “When father had sexual intercourse with his daughter, then with the help of earth he released his semen and at that time the Righteous Devas (deities) formed this ‘Vartrashak (Rudra) Devta’ (Pledge keeper diety named Rudra)” – Atharva Veda (20/96/15)

          • mac says:

            Hindu scripture offcially sanctioned rape
            Approach that splendid woman (who reached menstrual cycle) and invite her to have sex. Should she refuse to consent, he should bribe her. If she still refuses, he should beat her with a stick or with his fists and overpower her, saying: “I take away the splendor from you with my virility and splendor” — Brhadarankyaka Upanishad 6.4.9,21.

            In the Vedas:”Lord Indra himself has said, ‘The mind of woman cannot be disciplined; she has very little intelligence.’ — Rig Veda 8:33:17.

            In Hindu Philosophy, Women=Dog
            but the woman, the Sudra, the dog, and the black bird (the crow), are untruth: he should not look at these, lest he should mingle excellence and sin, light and darkness, truth and untruth.” – Satapatha Brahmana 14:1:1:31.

            it means less a man mingle with an woman, the lesser his sin is, this shit,anti-women force is known as hinduism or sanatan dhram or eternal turth, this religion got through many bans even in its birth place to remain in this modern,civilised world where as the five pillars of islam and other islamic beilefs remain is it is during prohpets time and even today

            Hindu scriptures degraded women so much that it approved horse,an animal to have pleasure of women`s vagina, what a sick religion

            O horse, please throw semen on the upper part of the anus of my wife. Expand your penis and insert it in the vagina because after insertion, this penis makes women happy and lively” –Yajur Veda 23/21

            In Hindu scriptures, women is considered as lower grade, hindus wants onlt male children to be borned, thatswhy female foeticide is so high in india, the main reason is for this evil teachings inspired by vedas.
            “Almighty God, you have created this womb. Women may be born somewhere else but sons should be born from this womb” – Atharva Ved 6/11/3
            It says you(women0 should be born some where else, means not in womb, practically it meant you should be killed in womb because there is no other place other than womb to be born, so where is femlae child go, it means you should be aborted and sadly which is still practised by hindus.

            “O Husband protect the son to be born. Do not make him a women” –
            Atharva Ved 2/3/23

            In ‘Shatpath Puran (shatpath Brahman)’ a sonless women has been termed as unfortunate.

            Women are unvirtuous. (Manu II 1)
            One should not sit in a lonely place with one’s mother, sister or daughter, for the senses are powerful, and master even a learned man.” (Manu II. 215)

            All women are born of sinful wombs. (Bhagavad-Gita IX 32)

          • admin says:

            mac, you are out throwing dirt at Hinduism, now tell us about how many girls Muhammad slept with. Why are you not educating others about truth about your close to God man. We asked you earlier and you gave only a partial answer (11), please update your answer.

          • mac says:

            Dirt was thrown by vikas, why don you asked him same question, btw you have proved that you are afraid of Quran and thus deleting the comment was i posted from Quran

          • admin says:

            You have posted the same message at least 10 times. If you wish to point it to, use the URL from earlier comment.

          • mac says:

            I don`t remember where i posted them

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