Hindu Boy – Muslim Girl Relationships
If you are a Hindu, Sikh, Jain, or Buddhist guy dating a Muslim girl, you are not alone. Here we have collected all that you wish to know. [If you are not a Dharmic boy, visit Hindu girl, Muslim girl, Muslim boy, for more relevant message for you]
First, you have to realize that for a Muslim girl to marry a Hindu boy is a big deal; sometimes it could go ugly (read honor killing). While dating, it is possible that Islamic police may punish you. We understand that you are in love, but do not take any step that results in physical injuries.
We do not know how much your birth religion is important to you, but your religious conversion to Islam is absolutely a must (in most cases). Are you ready to convert to Islam?
What will happen if you convert? Here is the list:
• You will have a circumcision
• You will be given an Arabic name
• You will have Shahadah, that is conversion to Islam (see Video)
• After that, you will have the Islamic Nikaah
• The Muslim girl cannot be a part of Hindu wedding because it is idol-worship prohibited by Islam
• You cannot carry any Hindu god photos or Ganesh murti in your new married life home because, as per your Shahadah oath, there is no God but Allah
• You cannot (should not) enter a Hindu temple because Hindus pray to false gods
• Your children will have Arabic names and circumcision
• Food habits: You may be non – vegetarian, while the bride/her family members may wish to eat beef or only halaal and no to pork
• Ritual of animal killing: The bride may request for qurbani on Bakr-id. Eventually children may learn all these and wish you to join for it
• Children will be taught only from the Koran, not at all from Geeta
• Children will not be allowed to be a part of Holi, Janmasthami and Diwali
• You will have to reduce association with your Hindu parents and friends and ultimately forget them. But you will have a new set of Muslim relatives and friends
• Your wife may start wearing burqa
• You cannot convert back to any other religion, otherwise punishment could be stoned to death (as per Islamic law)
• If you divorce and convert back to Hindusim, you may not get child custody because children are Muslims by Indian laws
• If you die, you will be put in a grave and given Islamic final rites.
Let us point out some advantages of converting to Islam:
• Islam is only true religion; others are false (including Christianity, Hinduism, Sikhism and the rest)
• Immediately after your Shahadah, you are qualified by Saria laws to have additional three wives
• Further, if any one of your wives doesn’t behave well, you just tell talaak, talaak, talaak and can get easy divorce and replace her with a new young one
• On the Judgment Day, you will go to heaven; while your parents, Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Teresa and Barak Obama will get Hell of Fire.
It is possible that we may be wrong in some of above information and thus go and ask 100 other Muslims to confirm for facts and request them to speak out on this post.
We hope you and your girlfriend find above list silly, senseless and stupid. Instead of following religious dogmas, learn to live life. Ignore all these and go marry in a court and enjoy your love. Your Muslim girl friend may be open-minded. If she is truly like Seema, Salman and Shah Rukh Khan, there will not be any problem and you will have a wonderful happy married life lasting forever. However it is important to be a realist and find out about expectations of religious conversion now.
Why not fake convert? Conversion to Islam is not an ON-OFF switch. Why to make lies and deception a foundation of your long lasting married life? If you do not have any intention to be a Muslim, why to take a fake-shahadah oaths and fake-convert to Islam? Why a person with high self-esteem would go and lie to everyone just to get married, when there are other good options available?
Don’t convert and ultimately she will come to terms. Get married the right way, like Shah Rukh Khan, Rhithik Roshan, Fardeen Khan, Gadar, Namastey London, Jodhaa bai, Seema and Salman (not Khan). However, in most cases, the Muslim girl will not rest till she converts you (view Zakir Naik).
Probably, the best option now is – you both get good education and good paying jobs, then move out to a different city and get married in a court. This is a more difficult and a long road, but in long run you both will be happy. Best wishes.
Please read all these couple’s experiences and comments:
|DATING TIME||Ashok||I will get converted to Islam and be circumcised||Yes||?||Prateek||I am a Hindu and in relationship with a Muslim girl||Yes||?||Vicky||After conversion what I become, exactly?||Yes||?||Sameer||I (Hindu) am in a relationship with a Muslim girl||?||🙁||Saurabh||I am ready to convert myself into muslim||yes?||?||Karan Singh||She attempted sucide by cutting her nerve||Yes||🙁||Sanjay||What will happen in our Hindu-Muslim love??||?||?||Kane||She (Muslim) was beaten at home||?||🙁||Kumar||(Muslims) slap and asked me not to be with a muslim girl||No||?||K||Me converting (from Hinduism), of course, not her||Yes||🙁||Singh||I am a Sikh guy who loves Muslim girl from Pakistan||Yes||🙁||Dihot||we will take their girl by hook or by crook…||?||?||Rohan||Atheist: If I convert to Muslim she can marry me||Yes||🙁||Arun Kumar||I am a Hindu boy and I am dating a girl who is Muslim||No||🙂||Sree||Why they are against the pure love?||?||?||Sandeep||Is it possible that I convert to Islam just as a formality?||Yes||🙁||in-love||(Hindu) in relationship with a muslim girl for past 7 years||No||?||Krishna||My gf is a pure Muslim||Yes||🙁||Dr. S.||(Muslim) will marry me only if I convert||Yes||🙁||Dr. Alok||If she really loves, we can marry keeping our own system of beliefs||No||🙂||Arvind||I have decided to take up Islam||Yes||🙁||Prof. Diwakar||I am in love with a Muslim teacher||No||🙂||Sunil||My Muslim gf is so scared from her family||No||–||Anik||Hindu: I love a muslim girl||Yes?||?||Vicky||Hindu: I am ready to convert to Islam||Yes||?||Anurag||(Muslim) wanted me too convert but I refused||No||🙂||MARRIED||Dee||My wife calls me Kafir. I wish I die||Yes||🙁||Rahul||Fake-convert for Marriage?||Yes||🙂||Aryan||Hindu: My wife is a Muslim and she used to teach Qur’an||No||🙂||DIVORCED|
* These expectation of conversion and status of the blogger is arbitrary based on limited information provided. It is highly recommended to read individual full story to make your own assessment.